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Molly Thompson

Molly Thompson

5 жыл бұрын

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@AT-ek7kt
@AT-ek7kt 5 жыл бұрын
I totally get you Molly, I literally just started my art course today. I was a nervous wreck, I didn’t sleep properly for weeks and I was in tears for hours everyday but today I finally had to face it, yeah the first time walking into the room was terrifying but as soon as I got in and spoke to the lecturer I felt such a huge sense of relief, I struggle with anxiety and have for years but I think the best way well for me anyway is to keep myself busy and spend time with people to take my mind off of it, you’re not in it alone and I’m sure myself and loads of other people totally understand what you’re going through but I was a nervous wreck but I came home today feeling relieved and happy. Plus I always look at it as in it’s not life or death, nothing huge will happen and if you don’t enjoy it and want to leave then it’s not the end of the world it just obviously wasn’t meant to be, it’s great to look at things in the way that everything happens for a reason when you’re feeling anxious, what happens will happen, just take everyday as it comes
@yaraa9351
@yaraa9351 5 жыл бұрын
Just keep in mind that you’re only there for a few months + you’ll be back home for christmas and other breaks since your course is only 1 year and in the bigger picture it isn’t a long time at all x
@georgiaxleigh
@georgiaxleigh 5 жыл бұрын
Yara A I’ve literally taken a gap year as my anxiety just takes over and I cannot imagine having to throw myself into something new as much as I’d love to. It literally stops me doing things I’d love to do I hate it. So glad you went through with it though xx
@AliceIsFab
@AliceIsFab 5 жыл бұрын
I started uni last year, and I was super nervous and anxious before hand, and I was nervous about not meeting people during freshers. Right from the start of freshers I told my flat about my anxiety issues, to let them know that there was no reason to worry if I didn't want to go out or drink alcohol etc. and they were all soo understanding, and some had experienced similar issues in the past as well- there was next to no stigma at all. You'll quickly find some of the best friends you'll ever have- and have some of the most incredible experiences together... Living on your own is haaaaard especially the whole cooking, cleaning, washing part of independence, however you'll find that when you go home you'll want to head back to uni- i always find my parents are on top of me when I'm home!! My art foundation year was my favourite year as well because it is a year where you get to find yourself and flourish as an individual! I cannot wait to watch your journey, of course there'll be down days when you'll miss home, but I guarantee that you'll love the late nights sat up chatting with your friends till the early hours, its like a never ending sleepover!! (We had riverdale nights on a thursday and they were incredibleeeeee, and so cosy with lots of blankets and hot chocolate etc. 100% recommend) You'll smash it Molly, I know you will!
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much!! This makes me excited and reassured! I really hope you’re right 💜
@jodieclarke6387
@jodieclarke6387 5 жыл бұрын
I think KZfaq glamorises the whole moving to uni thing and I'm glad you talked about the emotional change behind it. I experienced it going through my undergrad 3 years ago and experiencing it now as I move onto my masters. Thankfully my course allows me to live at home but I just hope I adapt to the course like you. I also hope myself and my partner will be ok as we will be long distance for the weeks we aren't together. Good luck and let us know how you get on. Thank you for keeping it real 💗
@JemimaRose
@JemimaRose 5 жыл бұрын
hi molly. i sat through everything you said & i just wanted to say: i moved out from home at 18 to go to paris alone, having little to no french & knowing no one. while i did come home (after 1.5 years) i did stick it out as much as i could but i think my downfall was not speaking about it. it was only once i opened up to my mum (over a year in) that she saw the depth of my anxiety & down-ness (lol that's not a word at all). i wish i had spoken about it earlier so i was just thinking how cool it is of you to open up this much like this. keep talking to your friends, bf & parents even after you go about how you feel & all the best. you will be in my prayers xxx
@emilypower2776
@emilypower2776 5 жыл бұрын
I never comment on You Tube videos, but I just wanted to say it is totally normal to be apprehensive about moving to uni. I'm from near you and I moved to Scotland for uni over 4 years ago now and I knew nobody, and I remember crying my eyes out the night before I went! I was so so nervous and I didn't want to leave because I was so worried about hating it and feeling alone. It's a massive challenge but you will grow so much as a person and overcome everything one step at a time. Dropping out, if that's what you choose to do at any point, has absolutely no shame and sometimes admitting it's not for you is braver than staying there! But honestly, I think you will love it. X
@katemardon8816
@katemardon8816 5 жыл бұрын
I'm starting Uni in two weeks as well. I'm such a big worrier as well and am a very introverted person I relate to you that I'm also most excited to decorate my room. I've also had not much energy the whole summer and am not independent at all. I can totally relate to you as in all the Uni chats people come across excited but could be putting on a front. I have had struggles with making friends so hoping Uni gives me the chance to make 'friends for life'.It would be lovely to talk to you one on one :)
@chloemorgan7387
@chloemorgan7387 5 жыл бұрын
Although I’m not moving out, I’m still really nervous about uni to the point I’ve had stress headache since results day. You’re not alone, thanks for Sharing
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re okay! Good luck 💗💗
@chloemorgan7387
@chloemorgan7387 5 жыл бұрын
Beauty Spectrum Thank you, I hope it all goes well for you!
@katherine3980
@katherine3980 5 жыл бұрын
I honestly have never related to anything more, I've always been such a worrier and overthinker its nice to know I'm not the only one in this situation. Thank you so much for talking about this! 💗
@phoebsreadss
@phoebsreadss 5 жыл бұрын
I'm exactly the same as you with over worrying about EVERYTHING (particularly health also as I'm very very emetophobic) and I've recently had therapy as I too was punishing myself for feeling down/anxious about things and the most helpful thing I learnt is that it's okay, it's hard enough to feel down to that extent without punishing yourself for feeling that way. Sometimes as hard as it is you have to embrace how you feel and just let it come along for the ride and soon enough it will hopefully start to lessen and fingers crossed you will be able to live life being able to manage these feelings rather than battling with them and putting all your energy into fighting them. I know its so much harder to do than to say as I'm exactly the same as you in that respect but I really hope you get to a place where you are able to worry less and enjoy more, but it's completely okay to feel how you are feeling❤️
@RJ-vb2ft
@RJ-vb2ft 5 жыл бұрын
This is EXACTLY how I’m feeling about moving to uni this week, sooo helpful to hear that someone else is feeling like this too!! xx
@chloemaddox5630
@chloemaddox5630 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so understandable how you feel and hearing how you do really connects your viewers, if people don’t like you sharing your feelings then fine, skip that part but I honestly think it’s the best bit, just stay strong and do what’s best for you xx
@skylermcaddy6459
@skylermcaddy6459 5 жыл бұрын
Molly I’m so proud of you 🖤 I completely understand how you feel. I start college in two weeks and I’m petrified. All throughout secondary school I had no friends, people were horrible to me and I was so lonely. I have diagnosed social anxiety and clinical depression because of how badly school affected me. The thought of starting a new place with new people is making me ill from worry 😩 I honestly admire you for speaking up about this. You’re so brave and you have all of us here for you whenever you need. Thank you so much for everything you do, I love you 🖤
@elliedowning8966
@elliedowning8966 5 жыл бұрын
i was in your position this time last year molly, yeah i was excited to move to uni but i was absolutely terrified!! It’s totally normal to be worried, this is probably the most life changing experience you have had so far. But i can assure you it’s all gonna be totally okay! Last year i was so close to not going to university because the thought terrified me so much, but looking back now i had no reason to be worried at all. First year was probably the best year of my life so far and i really hope the same happens for you! Just go into the experience with an open mind and get involved as much as you can, get to know all different types of people and make sure your experience is everything you want it to be, because you’ll remember these days for the rest of your life! Speaking about your own thoughts will really help other people who are in the same position as you right now, so thank you for doing this! And keep us updated with your uni experience, i’d love to hear it xxx
@jenna5973
@jenna5973 5 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable and i needed this right now. Thank you for being so open.
@emilyg2
@emilyg2 5 жыл бұрын
Finally someone’s put it into words! I start sixth form next week, and I’m feeling exactly the same- I’m really excited but I’m so terrified that it won’t be right for me. Year 11 was so tough, and I don’t want sixth form to be a repeat of that, but I can’t get my head around how it’s going to be different. Thanks for this Molly. It’s so nice to know it’s not just me x
@noshheen
@noshheen 5 жыл бұрын
I think starting something new in your life, a fresh chapter is always nerve wrecking but in a years time you’ll look back and feel amazed at what you’ve accomplished. sending my love 😭💕
@kirstenmiller2412
@kirstenmiller2412 5 жыл бұрын
It’s totally understandable feeling abit nervous for uni, I think everyone will be feeling abit nervous beforehand, but jut look at it like a new learning curve, it will help you in a lot of aspects of your life 🤞🏼❤️
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!💗
@aneesha2193
@aneesha2193 5 жыл бұрын
Self love, putting yourself first and knowing what’s best for you is sooo important to voice on KZfaq!! I’m soo happy you voiced your thoughts in such a relatable, down to earth and (in georgia’s, from love island, words) REAL way!! Carry on doing what you’re doing, you can only be a good role model if you’re true to yourself!!! We stan a relatable queen!!
@AmberWoodMusicx
@AmberWoodMusicx 5 жыл бұрын
I have had to deal with intense almost constant anxiety since year 9 (I'm off to uni in September), and the run-up to uni has been the worst and depression mixes in as well, it's such a giant change that it's like I'm unwilling to accept it's actually happening. Home is my safety net, it's everything, I'm never away from my parents and sister. I feel sick overthinking, can't eat, can't function. It's made derealisation absolutely atrocious. You'll definitely make friends. Anxiety can easily convince you that you'll be alone but you won't. You're a lovely girl, genuinely. Home is only an hour away like it is for me too, you'll have so much support, can still see your mates in your hometown, a lot of people are in the same boat. Maybe write down the good things about uni- achieving your dream degree, being more independent, reasons why you like that uni, everything you've gone through to get to this point, because it's easy to completely forget these things or be unable to even think of one thing why doing this massive jump and suffering all this anxiety is even worth it. But it will be. I worry I won't like my degree, too. It's a leap into the unknown. But think how you will feel after Fresher's Week, then a month in, then before you know it, it will be the Christmas holidays and you'll be going home and you'll have made these life-long friends and wonder what you were even worrying for. I totally understand you and I am so glad you have made this video because a lot of KZfaqrs come across as excited. I'm not excited, all I feel is dread right now because the negativity in my head just blocks out the positives. But I totally believe in you and that you will be happy and I hope that your anxiety subsides as you settle in :)
@georginalucy4088
@georginalucy4088 5 жыл бұрын
Ive tried not to think about uni up until now and suddenly it's very real - I'm so excited to go but a new city and new people is never good for anxiety. Im feeling comforted in the fact that every single person is probably feeling the same about such a massive change - even the most confident of person. This just means everyone will be in the same boat and support each other 💜 after freshers week we'll probably wonder what you even worried about in the first place x I'm proud of you Molly for pushing yourself off at the deep end. Whatever happens you can be proud that you gave it a try and did what was best for you.
@emem4104
@emem4104 5 жыл бұрын
I felt the exact same before moving to uni last year and I just want to say that the change doesn’t have to be so huge in your mind. Before I went, I was freaking out over the thought that I was ‘permanently moving out’, that things would never be the same at home anymore, that I was coming to the ‘end’ of life as I knew it, and that was terrifying for me. But I actually realised that coming home every 2 weeks and spending reading week at home helped massively and made me feel like the change wasn’t so permanent and that things weren’t so different. I remember you saying you’re planning on coming home quite often and it really does help. It also makes Christmas seem to come sooner, and then you get a whole month at home! I know you don’t want to spend your whole time at uni waiting for the weekend you go home, you want to enjoy it while you’re there - and you can and will! It’s a big change but it’s not the end of life as you know it. And if you feel it’s not right then don’t feel any shame about dropping out. It happens to lots of people, just not many of them talk about it. Follow your instincts!
@Molly-ek4bh
@Molly-ek4bh 5 жыл бұрын
This is so reassuring to watch, i am EXACTLY the same! Thank you for sharing how you're feeling x wishing you the best of luck!xx
@lillineale6896
@lillineale6896 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for having your honest chat Molly! I'm exactly the same way, I'm so glad you mentioned this because I feel the longer I keep things in I end up feeling worse! We are all with you on this journey, if it ever gets too much then please please please put yourself first. If you want a few days off when you start uni or whenever I would understand and so should everyone else because it's better having a break than feeling lonely a few months after you start! Love you Molly💗Xx
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this is so so kind 💗
@zodiacmermaids
@zodiacmermaids 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a year older than you and watching this just brought back all of my thoughts and emotions from this time last year! During the two weeks running up to moving in I experienced really intense anxiety to the point where I couldn't be left alone at home for long periods of time without talking my feelings out with my parents. I thought I was used to feeling anxious as I have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder that started when I was about 11 years old, but this was just the highest levels of anxiety I had ever known! So I think it's amazing that you've shared your feelings and posted this (I would have benefited from hearing this kind of honesty last year!), because so many people will try to come across as being so excited to move, which was the case with my friends a year ago and it made me feel 1000x worse! So thank you for being so genuine- there are two ways that your experience could go, and both of them I see as good things. You either get to uni and absolutely love it and your worries go away, or you find it difficult for a time and come home, as you mentioned (which no one is going to judge you for!). There is always a solution to make things better :-) Good luck lovely on this step to something great :-) X (also, apologies for the ridiculously long comment!)
@bethanb794
@bethanb794 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that you’re opening up about feeling like this Molly, having a conversation about these sort of issues is always an amazing starting point and helps to reduce stigma. Thank you so much for using your platform in this way ❤️
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening to me waffle about it haha!💗
@chloeelizabeth7908
@chloeelizabeth7908 5 жыл бұрын
Me too Molly, me too. Lots of love, you’re going to do amazingly in life!💕💕
@laurenslater1278
@laurenslater1278 5 жыл бұрын
I am a massive worrier and felt exactly like you before I started uni and I also moved to a city on my own from a small town. Totally understand what you’re feeling! Uni was some of the best 3 years I’ve ever had and I know everyone’s experience is different but I hope your year is as crazy and fun as mine were 😘
@nicolesherman8042
@nicolesherman8042 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you spoke about how you are feeling. I felt exactly the same last year. I felt so nervous/anxious throughout the whole uni application process, especially things that made it feel 'more real'. Speaking about your feelings really does help xx
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I hope you’re enjoying uni!💜
@sammieee_scott123
@sammieee_scott123 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so so glad to see you open up about this!! ❤️ I think it’s so important that we get better at sharing the downs too, because social media etc can make things look perfect all the time. And life just isn’t like that. I’m moving to uni soon too and I can identify with almost everything you have said here. It’s a mixed bag of emotions and you shouldn’t beat yourself up for not feeling ‘right’ or ‘super excited’ all the time - because the good things do take time. No routine at the moment either doesn’t help with the overthinking, but talk about it. Just say to yourself ‘yeah I feel a bit low today’ but just remind yourself who you are and how strong you are. What’s meant for you will not pass you by. Lots of love and stay strong gal ❤️
@matarascott
@matarascott 5 жыл бұрын
love these honest chats, I feel like it’s so refreshing to know everyone is in the same boat! it’s okay to be sad sometimes! X
@emmabrewer4603
@emmabrewer4603 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly im so happy you opened up because i always hear people talk about anxiety but never in the same why you did like the way you described it i could already relate and then when you said health related things i was like yep finally someone else who overthinks the same things as me! Ive always felt so insecure to talk about that myself so thankyou for being honest and sharing something that not alot of people can understand and uve always felt a but self conscious to talk about xx
@Iona_moss
@Iona_moss 5 жыл бұрын
I was so nervous to go to uni, but as soon as I got there I felt absolutely fine. Remember everyone there is in the same boat as you, and everyone understands, even the lecturers. There are so many things in place to help you at uni if anything was to go wrong (which is so unlikely) and everyone is super supportive. You will honestly have the best time- distract yourself with unpacking, talking to your flat mates and doing freshers events- freshers fair, nights out... there are so many things to do! And the first few weeks of uni are so chilled, it’s all to get you used to it! I hope this helps, i felt this way and did this all 2 years ago with severe anxiety/depression and a psycho ex following me around! X
@hannahmorgan8044
@hannahmorgan8044 5 жыл бұрын
Hope you start feeling less nervous 💜 love your videos sooo much 💕
@irea8363
@irea8363 5 жыл бұрын
Your flat looks really nice! Also thank you for opening up to us and talking about how you’re feeling because it’s also important! I always worry about everything so im not the best person to tell you this but everything will be okay! 💜
@Lushmisslexi200
@Lushmisslexi200 5 жыл бұрын
Im so proud of you for being so open and honest about how you are feeling. I completely relate to how you are feeling, ive spent my entire childhood and teenage years dealing with anxiety and other mental health problems and ive always feared change but although change is scary most of the time it is for a good reason, we need change to move on with our lives and build our futures. i'm moving to university too and like you i am moving away from home. My uni is 4 hours away from home which scares me but i know its a new begining for me. Never feel like your feelings are not vaild its important to talk about how you feel and i love you and your videos ,you are an amazing role model. Thank you for opening up about this xxxx
@emilywilliams2426
@emilywilliams2426 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so honest and down to earth. I totally get what your saying, and have experienced similar thoughts so seeing you say all this reassured me I'm not the only one who feels this way. Good luck at Uni you will be fine!x
@emilye8948
@emilye8948 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for speaking about it molly ❤️ it’s helped a lot and I know how you feel, you feel something but your not sure what, me too! X
@XX-bd9xc
@XX-bd9xc 5 жыл бұрын
It is tough! I was so ready to leave home and when I finally did I was so unbelievably homesick and suffered in silence for months before opening up about it. When I did I realised how many people felt similarly and it was such a comfort! Like you say, follow your heart, if somethings not right don't be afraid to act on it but try to relax and enjoy it! Sticking it out was the hardest thing I ever did but I am SO happy right now and I gutted I'm in my final year! Can't wait to follow your journey and please don't be afraid to share the lows! It will definitely help people x
@evemcintyre4266
@evemcintyre4266 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t usually comment on videos but I wanted you to know I watched this and feel 1000% the same. I’ve been feeling so nervous and emotional about moving out in a couple of weeks and then worry about why I’m not excited. It was so comforting to hear that I’m not alone and other people are just as terrified so thank you 💗
@eleanormartin5075
@eleanormartin5075 5 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you’ve made this video. I’m feeling the exact same about uni, I’m off to Leeds too! Underneath I’m so so excited but whenever I have to think about it or sort things it becomes very real and I panic. I’ve found the unknown parts the scariest but I’ve joined group chats and found some people in my flat and that’s made me so much more chill for meeting them. Sending hugs xxx
@alin628
@alin628 5 жыл бұрын
No word of a lie, I started uni last year and I was so so anxious about it for weeks before I started! I was waking up each day feeling sick and dreading my new chapter. But honestly, as soon as you start and throw yourself into it you will immediately feel better as you meet people in your exact same position and maybe even more nervous than yourself! If it’s meant to be you will feel it as you begin. You’re superstar Molly- GO AND DO YOUR THAAAANG!
@bethj3584
@bethj3584 5 жыл бұрын
I understand you in this video so much. Thank you for being real because it’s nice to know I’m not the only one that sometimes feels like this. I worry so much and I overthink EVERYTHING. Thank you so much🧡🧡
@anniegreen3740
@anniegreen3740 5 жыл бұрын
Molly you couldn’t have explained your feelings at a better time ! I’ve been feeling anxious all day thinking why am I thinking these thoughts and to hear you say that is the best thing to hear right now. I am the exact same I worry about anything to do with health tysm for being open 💓💓💓
@laurajb123458
@laurajb123458 5 жыл бұрын
i’m in the exact same situation as you and it feels so nice and reassuring that someone is feeling the same way and is in the same position. i live in spain and i’m moving to england for uni so none of my friends can really relate to what i’m feeling so it’s very comforting to see someone like you who is basically describing my emotions these days and is letting me know that i’m not alone. thank you for making this video, it really has helped and i can assure you that you are not the only one with these worries. good luck! 🍀 💜
@g44119
@g44119 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve never been to uni and don’t have any intentions of ever going, but I’m sure you will end up loving it and meet loads of great friends. I’m excited to see your journey and wish you all the luck!
@aniafarthing1187
@aniafarthing1187 5 жыл бұрын
it's so brave to be so open about something so personal, I relate so much I worry about EVERYTHING- normally for no reason at all! You're not alone, I'm sure this touched so many people and everyone who knows & loves you won't change their mind about you one bit ❤ Uni isn't for everyone and whether you love it or drop out, it'll be an adventure regardless! So much love x
@lizzywatts980
@lizzywatts980 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so grateful for you speaking plainly about how you're feeling Molly! I feel like this often, but with intervals of really high moods too. My situation is a little different as I'm nervous and overthinking going into year 13, but I absolutely hear you with the feeling down when you think you're supposed to be having fun. This past week I've been on holiday with my family and I'm upset to say that I didn't enjoy it as much as I'd hoped, and I kept apologising to everyone around me and feeling guilty for being down but my Dad told me to stop apologizing, and that he understood I was going through a lot, and said its okay to let yourself think over things, but don't overthink, and sometimes its best to jump in there and see where life takes you. I'm such a planner so that's hard for me but if somethings not right there is absolutely no shame in changing your path, and people do it every day to find whats right for them :) Youll end up in the right place, whether that's uni or a job or something completely different, and I know your audience would support any changes necessary to get you to the best place for you
@stephaniehobbs9695
@stephaniehobbs9695 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so so glad you had this chat! On one hand I'm so excited to move in and finally meet the people that I've been speaking to for months, and to start the course I've always wanted to do! But on the other hand I'm scared that it's not going to be what I'm expecting. I'm glad I'm not the only one feeling this way💖
@emilymaria1645
@emilymaria1645 5 жыл бұрын
So glad you uploaded this, I feel the same I start my new school for sixth form today xx
@littlemisswicked2465
@littlemisswicked2465 5 жыл бұрын
Another great vid! On a completely unrelated note, love your pyjama t shirt with "Love me do" written on. As a Beatles fan, it makes me smile ;)!
@alicekeyse6870
@alicekeyse6870 5 жыл бұрын
Molly thank you so much for this. I’m currently sat here after trying and failing to get to sleep after my overthinking. I totally get what you’re saying and I don’t think you need to hide this from us So many people feel the same and you talking about it is so helpful. Thank you. Love you xxx
@eleanorj-k8925
@eleanorj-k8925 5 жыл бұрын
Be so honest about your uni experience! It would be so nice to listen to! Also just bought those leaf dangling earrings you have and very happy!!
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! And Awh I loveee those earringsn
@eleanorj-k8925
@eleanorj-k8925 5 жыл бұрын
Beauty Spectrum I relate strangely to you so much. We are very similar people (kinda similar and dress the same) same personality. I’m going into year 13 so currently choosing my university and I’m already getting nervous as if I don’t feel old enough yet to go away. So honestly be honest share you experience! It would be a huge help and relief to me. This time next year I’ll come back and watch these videos!
@sophjhdesign
@sophjhdesign 5 жыл бұрын
I’m just listening to your vlog right now and it’s not finished yet.. I’m not going to uni for another two years but I completely understand your explanation of not enjoying it when you’re not 100% - I feel exactly the same with this but it just makes you appreciate the good times more 💟 hope your move into uni goes well I’m sure you’ll have lots of fun xx
@rosiebee5099
@rosiebee5099 5 жыл бұрын
This was so reassuring to watch, I'm going to uni in a few weeks too and whilst everyone around me seems to be so excited I can't help but feel absolutely terrified 😬 it's so hard to feel as though you aren't alone as well when everyone ignores those negative feelings and concentrates on the excitement so it's great that you've made this! But honestly, it would almost be strange to not feel worried as we are going to do something that is so much bigger than anything that we've done before with so much independence, but millions of people have gotten through it before and the vast majority have had amazing experiences! And if it doesn't go to plan (which I'm sure won't happen) there are options like you said! We can ALL be here for each other ❤️❤️
@wardcl05
@wardcl05 5 жыл бұрын
Hope your okay, always know you can open up to us about anything we all want you to have so much happiness. Keep smiling xx
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you lovely 💗💗
@imogen9167
@imogen9167 5 жыл бұрын
I've felt such bad anxiety this past week about uni and this video is just what I needed, thank you for helping me feel less alone xx
@beckybeatrice7541
@beckybeatrice7541 5 жыл бұрын
This talk meant so much to me. Thank you
@meghanbrady3469
@meghanbrady3469 5 жыл бұрын
I think regardless of whether you go to Uni & get the best qualifications ever or you drop out after a few weeks because it doesn't feel right, you're still being the BEST role model that you can! You're proving to everybody watching, that life has its highs and its lows & there's no better example to be made than being real and honest with yourself and how you feel ❤️ xx
@nicoleamandalong
@nicoleamandalong 5 жыл бұрын
completely understand how you’re feeling, I felt like I was the only one who worried about absolutely everything as everyone else seems fine. I’m starting uni in two weeks after deferring last year because of being so worried and I’m determined not to let that happen this year so glad you’re speaking about this because it helps to know it’s not just me
@MellyCharlotte
@MellyCharlotte 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly I’m feeling so so nervous as well, I didn’t think about uni most of the summer incase i didn’t get in, and now I’m just worried that I’m not going to fit in / enjoy it but I feel like that’s normal, but also everyone is in the same boat !! Good luck too xx
@KatieElizabethxxxx
@KatieElizabethxxxx 5 жыл бұрын
It’s okay to feel nervous about starting uni and moving out, when I started in lincoln last year I felt like everyone around me wasn’t struggling with the new start but I was. Then I realised I wasn’t alone and the friends I made struggled at the same time as me! Everyone goes through the same worries when starting uni, but you quickly find a good support system that you can rely on. Good luck!! Xxx
@laurencallaway2802
@laurencallaway2802 5 жыл бұрын
I have only recently started watching your videos but you’ve inspired me to film my first ever video that I’ve been putting off doing for such a long time. I am feeling exactly the same about moving to uni as well!
@eves5245
@eves5245 5 жыл бұрын
You’ll love uni!! Honestly it feels so scary at first, especially move out day but I promise everyone feels the same! And you will love the uni life ❤️❤️
@katemendez3566
@katemendez3566 5 жыл бұрын
I can completely relate. I moved to uni when I had a long term boyfriend too, only I moved 9 hours from home. I knew no one and moved into a flat full of strangers. And hand on heart I can say you will be fine. You don't have to have anxiety to feel anxious, and you don't need to be depressed to feel down! It's completely normal to feel scared about leaving home. But it will be so amazing for you, I was forced to grow and change as a person. Living on my own gave me more confidence in every aspect of my life. What is meant to be won't go past you. If you don't like it then theres no shame in going home. Its better to try than not a regret it! I can't wait to see your videos at uni of you having a blast at uni! Lots of love xo
@velvetreign3376
@velvetreign3376 5 жыл бұрын
Molly, I watched this video a few hours ago and I've just come back to leave a quick message to say thank you for talking openly about this and uploading it, hardly any people our age speak about these things. I have been immensely struggling with my mental health for years, and this video gave me the final push to tell my mum and make a doctors appointment, so genuinely, thank you. Anxiety can be detrimental and I really hope uni goes so well for you, and that anxiety doesn't affect anything you do there. Best of luck for uni and I'll be watching all the uni videos!! I've been here since you did your GCSE's and you're one of the very few youtubers I watch all the videos of, can't wait to see what you do next!
@Karolina-ew4zl
@Karolina-ew4zl 5 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way and really relate to everything you've said, although I'm excited because I've wanted to be independent for such a long time, I'm also super nervous because I'm moving from London to Sheffield and so I'll be 4 hours away from everything I know and my family, I'm also an over thinker and constantly thinking of the worst possible scenarios especially because I didn't enjoy sixth form and that's made me really anxious about finding friends at university who like me for me. I'm glad you've talked about how you're feeling and I hope that once you get to uni these negatives will disappear and you'll have the time of your life! ❤️
@ninas7141
@ninas7141 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for keeping this vlog real, Molly! 👌🏻☺️ Although I am 3 years away from going to uni, I completely relate to you with the overthinking! It’s something I’ve struggled with for years, but I’ve found that yoga and meditation help sooo much for me! Just remember, it’s a really common problem and with practice, you can get better at thinking clearly ❤️. Best of luck, we believe in you!
@nidahi8151
@nidahi8151 5 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you have the best time and an amazing experience 😫❤️
@katherinesale6539
@katherinesale6539 5 жыл бұрын
heyyy! I'm only in year 11 so my last year in school so you probably think I won't really know what you're going through but you have so many people who will support, never feel alone because you have your family, boyfriend, amazing friends and us we're constantly thinking of you and we always have your back❤️obviously moving out on your own with people you don't know is scary I can imagine i would be terrified if I were you but you're going to make so many friends and people will love you, you will fit in because you're absolutely lovely and so thoughtful that why wouldn't people. before you know it you'll be back home and when you are home you'll probably miss it so just try and think of the positive things, I know it's easier said than done but just try and think the positive in a very negative person too so I find it a struggle to think of the positive side of things but honesty there is a positive side to everything ❤️❤️I love you and stay strong we're always here ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@jadelauren2269
@jadelauren2269 5 жыл бұрын
Best of luck with this Molly, change is always scary but I'm sure you'll be in your element at Uni and you're never too far away from home if you need that time to come back and chill. I went to Uni as an anxious introvert and I commuted from home so had so many worries about making friends and my course, but it all turned out fine. I'm sure everything will be absolutely fine for you too, you've got this. WD for 91k also x
@Jess-bc2fh
@Jess-bc2fh 5 жыл бұрын
I’m exactly the same hun, I worry and overthink everything like literally every tiny little thing it’s ridiculous! Thanks for posting this video as it will help me and others realise we’re not alone♥️
@katarina_markovic
@katarina_markovic 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry about moving out, being nervous is normal. I think you’ll do great and this year will fly by, you’ll see! Hang on there! 💜xx
@MollyThompsonx_
@MollyThompsonx_ 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💗💗
@rachaelmccormack5513
@rachaelmccormack5513 5 жыл бұрын
Just saw your video on the homepage and watched as I thought it was the plaza in Leeds where I stayed last year! Unite buildings are so modern and nice. Not watched your videos before but you seem lovely and I’m sure you’ll be fine in Leeds it doesn’t take long to get used to it! Good luck and I’ve subscribed!❤️
@millieg1782
@millieg1782 5 жыл бұрын
Good luck Molly, I’m sure everything will be work out for you but i totally get the over thinking- take as much time as you need if you need a break, we (or at least I) will understand x
@Beauticole
@Beauticole 5 жыл бұрын
Molly honestly you’ll be fine, before you move out it does seem sooo scary but once you’re there, it’s really not that bad! You just have to be so open to chatting to literally everyone you meet and they’re all in the same situation so everyone is overly nice to each other 💜you’ll have the best time beaut xxx
@Buzzzxzz
@Buzzzxzz 5 жыл бұрын
hope you will have the best time in university Molly❤️❤️❤️❤️ we love you ❤️💓💓💓💓💓💓
@BornToLoveVintage
@BornToLoveVintage 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, I am so happy that you've spoken about this and raised awareness. I feel exactly the same way, with v similar thoughts but you tend to hear how great Uni will be, and how it will be one of the best experiences and I feel as though that leads to such an added pressure in itself for my personal uni experience to live up to that. During exams, one of the things that really got me through was the thought of that uni shopping trip which would really highlight it as a positive thing, and how I did it but currently my mind has associated it with a feeling of anxiousness which inevitably means I'm trying to put off the shop!! Combine that with the new city, moving away, and living with strangers has led me to feel so bad however I hope we can look back on this time in our lives and feel so happy we went through with it. Initially I can only imagine it being terrifying but here's to hoping that we'll be glad we took that step! Good luck X
@heathercohen9063
@heathercohen9063 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this Molly. I feel the same as you as I’m moving to London for uni soon and it feels soo far away.
@niamhxxx5526
@niamhxxx5526 5 жыл бұрын
I left to go to unit last year and I felt the exact same way. I didnt talk about it and I wish I really did and bald my eyes out when my parents left. But the second I got talking to people on my course about something else I instantly felt better. It took me a week or two to get into it but when you do you will love it!!!!! Good luck x
@charfleming6174
@charfleming6174 5 жыл бұрын
Been subbed for ages !!! Like legit your first video I have so much respect for you ,your so genuine and just amazing! I have anxiety and I couldent even deal with school I start college and im so fckkkkin scared ! So I kind of understand likr obviously it's all new and your get use to it and I hope it works out for you . Stay strong beautiful! Your amazing and a inspiration and were all so proud of you x
@courtneymcguckian6327
@courtneymcguckian6327 5 жыл бұрын
I’m not moving to uni but starting year 13 and I’m worrying about a lot of things some things are school related, others aren’t. I understand what you mean about the way you’re feeling when you feel low and down and I get that it’s hard to describe but thank you so much for sharing this ❤️
@travelswithlewis
@travelswithlewis 5 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh! You’re so open and honest about it and it’s good to be! It’s okay not to be okay! I suffer severe anxiety and it causes me to go dizzy and everything. I’m on medication for it as I can barely walk along my street without going dizzy so it’s very hard. Tomorrow I’m seeing. Hypnotist to try and work the anxiety but it is so hard. It will pass though! That’s what we all have to remember! ❤️
@dannirose9885
@dannirose9885 5 жыл бұрын
Listening to you talk it felt like I was talking to a friend, you’re such a genuine person and I feel the exact same about so many situations in life! I struggle with anxiety and I don’t know how to deal with it at all but listening to this made me feel better so thank you ❤️ I really hope you’re okay and you enjoy uni, people will love to be your friend 💕 xx
@nikitalouise904
@nikitalouise904 5 жыл бұрын
Thank You Molly for your honesty. Good luck for University xx
@SerenaAnna
@SerenaAnna 5 жыл бұрын
I'm moving to uni in a couple weeks as well and I'm bricking it. I think the main scare for me is that it's 5 hours away from home and I realised that all my friends are going to uni really locally and in the complete opposite direction to me. But I'm also excited for the change. Being in a group chat with my flatmates (who seem super lovely) has definitely been a saving grace xx
@georginaevans3607
@georginaevans3607 5 жыл бұрын
I so feel you!! I am a massive worrier and this was something that worried me (ironic)about starting uni last year! It is completely fine to be worried about moving to uni especially because it is such a unique and new experience, but its one of those things that once you get there and meet your flatmates the worrying will subside. Itll be fine, you arent alone in this!
@annisince8424
@annisince8424 5 жыл бұрын
Omg Molly thank you for being so open and honest! It's so ok to be worried about stuff and always think about the worst scenario, well I do anyway 🙈 I'm sure you'll have an amazing time at uni and just remember (like always do) that places always remain, you can always return! 🌍💜
@hollyamber965
@hollyamber965 5 жыл бұрын
Completely understand what you are saying! although I am not moving out to uni, I can relate so much to your struggles with health anxiety and everything that comes with it! You are not alone! x
@amyrassell2778
@amyrassell2778 5 жыл бұрын
love you Molly.Very excited to watch this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Katie-ds9ve
@Katie-ds9ve 5 жыл бұрын
can relate to this so much. good luck you will do great am sure!!xx
@ellenmoretonx2446
@ellenmoretonx2446 5 жыл бұрын
Tom and your family will look after you❤️ I worry about literally everything possible I see where your coming from❤️ good luck xxx
@gabrielazachwyc1182
@gabrielazachwyc1182 5 жыл бұрын
I feel you Molly. I'm moving from Poland to England to uni and I'm really anxious but excited at the same time. It was completely my decision and I look forward to moving out but living in a flat with 7 strangers, language barrier, cultural differences and not relying on anyone is scary. No matter how many times my family and friends reassure me that everything is going be fine, I always have second thoughts and start questioning everything and overthinking stuff. The best solution that I've found so far is trying not to overthink stuff cuz that's usually the main problem. Chin up. I don't want to sound cliche but I do believe that in the long run everything is going to work out well PS. You're my fav KZfaqr and I love your channel xx
@Danidoodles99
@Danidoodles99 5 жыл бұрын
You spoke all the words I try to Molly, you really are amazing go smash uni!!💗!!Xx
@MELTXXX
@MELTXXX 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Molly, I'm moving out for uni for the first time too and i thought i was the only one with anxiety about the whole situation xxx
@markham-zq8vt
@markham-zq8vt 5 жыл бұрын
Your such a genuine person 😊 Don't worry about the thought of not fitting in/not making friends. Just be yourself and everything will be fine and people will like you for you. Good luck at Uni! (Also unforgotton is sooo good 👌)
@laurenk785
@laurenk785 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say I really relate to what your feeling and you will get through it xxxx
@michaelac7853
@michaelac7853 5 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much I worry and overthink everything in the same way you explain it this has made me feel a lot better thank you ☺️
@hollylovesfriends
@hollylovesfriends 5 жыл бұрын
MOLLY! YOU’RE SO NEAR 100K AND ITS SO WELL DESERVED! GOOD ON YA GAL ❤️
@hollylovesfriends
@hollylovesfriends 5 жыл бұрын
Also completely relate to the chat at the end, I’m moving out in 3 weeks and I feel physically sick thinking about it
@holliesee3349
@holliesee3349 5 жыл бұрын
You’ll be fine Molly! Once you get there, get into a routine and get through your first week you’ll find that you’ll be a lot more settled which will put your mind at ease💜
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