Tsev neeg es zoo li koj niam tais lawv xwb ces yog cov ruam tsab ntse thiab pluag tsab muaj. Zoo li no xwb ces pov tseg zoo dua.

Not everyone can have everything. Some have money but lwj siab mob siab. Some have love but no money. Only a small number of people are lucky to have both.

Sister, nhrib siab Kiaj os. Vim lawm siab peb. Even blood family can be the most spiteful people. Please continue to love your kids and husband and be happy and healthy together. When they push you out the first time they will never ever accept you back. It’s their choice not yours so in the future you will never have anything to regret but they will. They will regret never creating memories with you, your husband and children. It’s their lost. Don’t search for their love no more. Let them go because they already let you go. People who don’t love those who are not well off are poor in a lot of ways they just have money but they don’t have love, happiness, joy and honesty. You have so much blessing so be happy.

❤ don't be sad, there are many opportunities out there sis. Don't sell your self short. Good luck sis!

So sad how parents and family always expect too much from someone who married someone poor! They always want you to be like them but sometimes all of us isn’t the same becuz of our life!! It’s best to not be around people who dislike you and put you down!! They always hate one kid out of the family!!

Txhob tus siab cov neeg siab phem li no hnub twg nws yuav tuag mas nws tuag nyuab os vim nws muaj kev regret for being so evil.

poj hmoob ntshaws nyiaj cas ua tau ntxim ntxub.

Don’t feel sad. If your parents and brothers gave you nothing during your wedding, glade that you owed them nothing in return…👍🤠!

Oh sis, I know exactly what you're going through. Hmoob ces, dabtsis los nyiaj li nyiaj xwb os. Money is important but not THAT important. Tsuav yus muaj txaus them nuj them nqi, yuav noj yuav haus, and buy yourselves clothes is all that matters. Cov niag hmoob uas hais tias nplua nuj muaj muaj nyiaj ntawv txhob xav hais tias lawv tau tau zoo os. They have SOOOOOO much debt!!! Their big, luxurious house/mansion, their nice, expensive cars, credit cards, etc. Haub yo! Just thinking about it gives me a HUGE headache!!! I'd rather choose being with someone I love and live comfortably. Tsis muaj ntau los tsuav wb sib sib hlub xwb ces kuv zoo siab txaus lawm. ❤

Don’t wait for someone to love you. ❤Love yourself and your family first before others.

Sister, don't subject yourself and your husband to this abuse. You're right in that your family should love you more. They make themselves look bad, so you just keep working hard. When you succeed, don't ever go back to them. Cut the core and never look back for their approval. Be blessed and happy os sister. Hlub koj tshaj li os.

Txij nkawm sib hlub yeej tshaj txhua yam.

Txhob tu siab....kuv lo yeej zoo li koj thiab os...kuv niam thiab kuv txiv yeej hlub kuv me ntsis tab sis cov nyab nus ces luag yeej xaiv tu muaj hlub xwb nawb luag hlub yus li cas yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb

Dane, what a mean mom. Smh...

Your mother in law and your husband is more educated them your rich family. God bless you and your husband sister. Be grateful for everything you have. ❤

Rau siab khwv kom tsis txhob vam txog lawv ces yog qhov yuav ua rau lawv khib tshaj.

It is okay, sister. As long as you and your husband love, respect, and understand each other, then you are the lucky one. Money comes and goes. Lots of people who you think are rich might just be fake rich that are in a lot of debts just to show off. Remember that real rich people keep to themselves and dress in normal clothes that are comfortable but not brand names. Don't stress about money too much, and just be happy with what you have. Best wishes to you!

The serpent or aka as the devil is king over those who are proud. Repent people Jesus christ is the end of the law. Love yourself.

Peb ua leej tib neeg nyob txhob ntshaw noj luag li peev xwm, peb ua niam ua txiv, tus tub/ntxhais twg txom nyem me ntsis, yus yuav tsum txhawb tus ntawd ntau tshaj mas yus thiaj li yog leej niam leej txiv txawj hlub me nyuam.

Txhob tu2 siab thiab os, luag noj luag tsis hu los kavtsij Ua tsaug xwb mas. Luag hlub yus, nyiam yus, ces yus mam hlub tus ntawd xwb, yus muaj li cas yus pab li ntawd xwb. Txhob qi2 dub xwb mas, yus tus niam hluas mus yuav txiv we pab 50 dollar xwb, hub tshaw dlhau lawm lauj

Friend, there's no shame for being less fortunate. Don't worry about what ur brothers n parents think of u n your husband. Just focus on your life. As long as u both work hard n love each other that's all that matters. When other people ask u about why ur family doesn't t invite u to their gatherings, don't make excuses n tell lies, just b honest n tell them the truth.

Hakunamatata, it mean no worries. If the world turn their back on you, you turn you back on them and keep moving forward.

Love is more powerful than money. What you lack in money is more than made up in health, love and happiness which are worth far more than money.

Hlwb xyoo 75. 1975 mentality

Koj Cov nus thiab niam txiv lawv yog neeg muaj nyiaj thiab muaj meej mom tab sis coj li neeg tsis paub tab. Yog lawv paub tab lawv tsis coj tus cwj pwm phem li ntawd rau lawv tej nkauj muam txom nyem nawb. Tej laus twb hais tias Tus muaj yog luag tus tus pluag yog yus tus. Rau rau siab ua koj lub neej thiab hlub koj tus txiv thiab koj tej me nyuam xwb. Luag hlub yus li cas hlub luag li ntawd xwb. Yus pluag los nyob raws yus txoj kev pluag tsuas yus 2 niam txiv sib hlub xwb nawb.

Ub niam aw koj niam thiab koj niag nus dev os vuag queen and king Tim New London es king kiag queen kiag nas luag tseem nav thwm laj mej pej xeem nas ntuj aw.

Wow! Cas tsev neej tsa no es siab yuav evil ua luaj. Our brothers and sisters are very close. We always helped the less fortunate ones. Shame on your family for treating you like this Sis.

Cas koj civ neej tsa no yuav quav dev ua luaj li nas. Ntshaw nyiaj tas tas li yom.

Koj niam yog nerg siab phem.av tsij txhob nav lawv os.mus ua koj lub neej es txhob mob mob hlwb rau cov neeg ruam tsab ntse os.

Cas qee tus hmoob me kas tseem txom nyem tshaj cov hmoob nplog lawm thiab sub nas

Twb nyob teb chaw mekas diam e Cas nib yuav pluag ua luaj ($50). To koj niam cem2 koj lo vim koj g txhawj saiv txiv. 1 lub tshoob diam e muab tau poob tsej muag kg.

Niam tais ntsejmuag tawm nyiaj ntawm Hauv pliaj os,..Niam tais, Txog Hnub Qi muag Seb Koj Puas nqa Tau nyiaj ntsuab Nrog koj mus Ov?,.. Kuv Nyob tsis muaj nyiaj txiag los ..Thaum Kuv yug los poob nthav ntawm Niam ob ceg Liab ntshav tsuas twb tsis nqa Dabtsi? Nrog Kuv los ne.. Thaum Qi muag Tsis Ua pa Lawm Ces yus kuj tsis yuav rov qhuav qhuav zoo Li Thaum yug poob nthav os,.. Mi Niam tais ntsejmuag muag 💵..🤮 muaj thiab pluag txom nyem los yeej tuag ib yam, Tsuav Yog muaj txaus noj txaus Siv Xwb,…tsuav Kuv tsis Tau nqa tais tuaj Thov Koj mov noj os .. Kom koj Ua Niam tais nkag Siab Ov mog, niaj Hnub no Ntshe Koj Nyob Saum laub tshee Nkuj kaws Lawm ho…❤️❤️❤️🙏

This is way the og always say, what are you two going to eat if you get marry to each other? You knew what the consequences are when you married your husband but you made the choice - you can’t be upset and sad now. You made your choice. Instead you should be happy that life grant you the choice to choose. Instead of drowning in your sadness of the life that you chose, instead focus your time to think about how to improve you and your husband’s life. If you’re not ready to join gatherings, just focus on fixing and getting your life together first and don’t worry about the others.

Vuag koj tsev neeg yog ib tsev neeg siab phem tiag 2 lis ov tsi tau nov duas lis os twb yog koj niam yug koj kiag es tseem ua siab phem tau rau koj npaum lis kom thiab ces tu siab nrog es ua ib siab hais tias tsi muaj niam muaj txiv tsi k lis lawm os mog

I feel sad for you, to have such a selfish and cruel family. My own family have our own issues like most families but we never judge and separate each other based on finances. For example, one year we had a family vacation at a resort and although one sibling couldn't afford the cost, the rest of the siblings agreed to just split the total cost among those of us who could afford to pay because it was more important for our family to enjoy a vacation together than leaving out our sibling who had less money. NEVER go looking for love and affirmation from people who don't respect you because it will only break your heart.

Zoo li kuv twb hnov dua zaj dab neeg no ib qho Kawm sav? Es hais tas los hais dua los yog first time xwb ne?

G tas ntshaw tej ko cas koj tseem yuav poo😢b lub kua muag rau koj niam lawv dab tsi no os.? Yus lub neej yuav zoo yog tus txiv nyob ntawm yus ib sab xwb es koj tseem yuav kom koj tsev neeg hu koj mus noj mus haus yog lawv g hu kuv ces ua lawv tsaug ntau2 qhov g hu yus mus noj haus teb chaws no peb g nqhis lawv tej zaub mov ruam los ntse na koj tus poj hmoob ko yuav nqhis2 lawv tej mov noj ua luaj thiab na. Ib qho twb nyob teb chaws no yog ua cas neb ho txom nyem li cas ua hauj lwm yeej g txom nyem sav los? 😢😢😢

I wouldn’t care what they think .. ya don’t want invite me I don’t care as long my marriage is love

Koj tus txiv los yeej tsis paub cai tiag thiab, neb ob leeg twb ua hauj lwm es tiag mas thaum nws paub tias koj muab $50 ua khoom plig rau koj tus niam hluas, nws tseem yuav hais tias tsawg los wb yuav tsum muab li $100 thiaj zoo nkauj no pob.

Thats not real family. A real family doesn’t mind if you married a poor husband/wife. Family suppose to support each other’s.

Cas koj cov neej tsa es phem ua luaj li. Saib tsis taus cov txom nyem. Money is money whether it be 25 cents or $100.

Neb los xuab li neb thiab Cas tsis muab kiag $300, $400 naws. Muaj Nyiaj $50 tsawg dhau. Muab twm kiag paub $500 kiag paub. Cas koj niam ruam phem tiag tiag phem tshaj phem.

If people asked me, I'll be honest and tell them straight up. I am not going to lie to save my parent's faces. Sorry, I am not nice like that.

Swses

Your family was mean to treat you like that but they were not wrong to want better for you. It’s true, when you marry someone with no ambitions, you tend to settle for mediocrity. Most Hmong people don’t like to dream big and challenge themselves. Instead of having a pity party for yourself, you should work on bettering your life to prove them wrong. Only dumb people take it to heart and get discouraged. Smart people pick themselves up and do something about their situation.

Idky u still wanna keep these toxic people in your life. I would have cut ties.

It's because you didn't marry the President of the United States of Hmongland.

Horrible parents

Sis, txhob tos luag hlub yus os. Yus hlub yus xwb.