the right person will find you if they're meant to

Exactly. People need to learn to enjoy their own company.

Be engaged but not attached

This is really true

Thanks bro!

My guy stop nitpicking, he said JUST being the funny guy is not enough.

😭😭😭

I got that feel wanhee is too calculated and structured… he seems to be the serious type like most koreans are and has limited sense of humor.. 😳

It’s not about not being funny. It’s about not being the class clown everybody makes fun about. 😉

The class clown he rfers to, is not just a guy that is funny, it's the guy that doesn't take stuff seriously, even when he should. Everything is a joke to him. And that guy doesn't make a woman feel protected and safe. That's why he said a sense of humour is important, but you don't want to be the funny guy.

Don't thank god, thank your self and your effort, conviction, and determination.

@@arkychak I tried everything within my reach to scape porn/bad habits. I couldn't, until I came back to Jesus my Lord and Saviour!

Someone uses Facebook in 2024? Bruh. There is Telegram, you gotta move here. A lot of great information can be find here, especially in private channels with paywalls.

@@arkychak, it’s his choice who to thank. If he decides to go this way to become better, it’s cool. We all need faith in something bigger than us to keep the good grind. I believe in Novomakaroniya, for example.

Keep the good grind man. You are on the right track.

Glad you found it so ;)

Thank you!

I don’t know the lbs cuz I’m talking kgs, so I cannot imagine your body complexion, but it seems like you were fat and now you are more fit. Man. Our bodies were given to us to survive in the nature, it’s absolutely nature desire to be fit and therefore more flexy. Good body shape is a sign of health. The only man who can give you this kind of health is you. Why does it matter if people come closer to you because of your personality or your looks? Better looks, better shape is your goal. Sticking to nature is your goal. You are doing good for yourself. By working out you are gaining self-respect, confidence. It seems peeps feeling it so they now know you are not just a fat guy who doesn’t strive to become better. It also seems you are still have some mental issues so you are asking questions that don’t matter. Bruh. Strong people stick to strong people. We are living in the jungle. So if you made it and became stronger, congrats. Keep grinding and maybe you realise later that your question was silly. Develop both your body and mind.

By the way, your looks is the reflection of your inner self. If we are talking about working out, of course. It demonstrates that you was doing good things for yourself. That you respect yourself. So people can respect you for your efforts. When you will become super fit, you can even flex with your older pictures of your former fat self.

@@rodarollada thank your your kind words, i think what opened my mind a lot is like you said: looks are a reflection of your inner self. I hope i can look back and laugh at it, but it still gets a bit weird when im talking to someone who used to call me a discord mod or a hentai enjoyer or always throw indirect insults to just randomly start being nice and friendly in a few months. I know myself, and i know i have not changed my personality, its more that now im doubting anyone other than my friends who have been with me from the start because when shit gets tough I know these new “friends” would just leave me. Maybe i’m just in an immature environment or i’m immature myself but i’ve always been cautious since, i’m only in high school btw.

People who are subscribing are just giving constructive feedback by doing that! He will obviously lose views if he recycles videos & it’s a good thing that ppl criticize. It helps creator sustains themselves and get feedback.

Yeah of course but i dont think its bad to want to get attention from the opposite sex

True that is the ideal scenario. But to be honest any way to get someone to improve themselves even if it’s just for dating is still better than them just not doing anything at all. And who knows maybe they will fall in love with these good habits and start doing them but just for relationships but also just because they enjoy them and they see general life improvement

@@mlajdksbfksmdnx5165 that’s called attention seeking…..

@@Jordanthecool7 nah. I said what I said. Focus on yourself….improve for yourself. That’s it. That’s all.

Lol I said this before I saw 6:41

Great book, great video

It feels like the height matters more to them than anything else

@@prod.kashkari3075 means you go after dumb women

Did you guys watch the video? If your sense of self sucks, nothing will happen. Improve yourselves first than you won't even have these insecure thoughts. You can't change your height, you can however change the way you look and act which will make you more attractive.

Sounds like you are coping lol

@@prod.kashkari3075 that's a meme, as long as you're not shorter than her you're good

Interesting... ok.

@@wanheekimdo it bro

It isn’t really common knowledge though sadly . Both genders at least in this generation have trouble with common sense things both in terms of improving themselves, and in terms of attracting the opposite sex and knowing what they like. Mainly cause a lot of people nowadays are lazy, and alot of people are selfish and mostly only care about what they can gain from others and not what they can also give back . It takes alot of learning for people to become better both for themselves and for the people they love .

I think it was a metaphor. A bad metaphor but still.

Be loyal. That’s all.

and not caring about their existence at all afterwards.

I didn’t like this part that much too. Saying this as a R*ssian who is against all these political games.

ofc its a metaphor, war doesnt work like this nowaday, you could just "run" and still be save with your family, back then it wouldnt work, which means the man protects his family by going to war

It's an extreme example maybe. Cause there are ppl that are really really strong prior to this war event. And then, when situations come that would cause trauma to most ppl, he will get stronger with it. It's a principle U could think of in several situations. Potential trauma + Really strong mind (maybe also thanks to prior potential trauma situations that got handled well) = even stronger mind. But potential trauma also means, many ppl would get a trauma from that, that affects them for maybe the rest of their lifes negatively..there are studies on this typa resilience. It's important to have strong social networks and ppl U can trust, talk to, are there for U etc. Look up the study with the hawaiian children for that. But yea generally, I don't like talking bout war in a good war as if it's smth manly to fight random man, maybe killing them ans leave their little babygirls without a father at home, just for some random company or state that doesnt give a f bout u

I’m sure it is. He doesn’t mean literally going to war, but being able to improve yourself and making it it ( or at least trying to make it)through challenges you face , helps you become a better man

Sorry my guy, but it seems like you didn't watched the video. The point is not just get girls, but being attractive by improving yourself, it What's the point of focusing on height if is not something you can acc change? Also what is "looks"? Is it being fit, have you hair cut twice a month maybe, being well dressed? All that it's already covered in other videos in the channel, the porpouse of this one if to talk about things that are more subtle. And finally, you are right. If she refuse you just move along, the first point is respect right? Can't win everytime and there is a lot of women out there, not just this one that rejected you.

One day you just get tired of being tired. Some people are comfortable with a mediocre life, it is what it is.

@@james-uj7ou, based.

If you are not comfortable with your current life, then start from digging knowledge about this world and working out. Get some base. Accept your inner animal. But if you like your current lifestyle, then just live your common life and forget everything you heard in this video and don’t try to learn something new about this world that can make you a better animal.

Those things somewhat intertwined, so they support each other. Not that it’s easy to become better. But this is fine.. :) life is a journey

Redpill bro here clearly missed the point of the video. Empathy and putting effort to see the perspective of the opposite gender is just too much for this smooth brained boy.

I swear...

Are u f*cking kidding me? Havent u heard what women need to do?? « Be sexy but not a slut, show your assets but leave to the imagination, think like a boss but dont be bossy, show interest but dont chase, be more feminine and nurturing but dont be intense and dependent » and on and on

As a woman…yeah this is actually a fair point. We are only newly empowered and men have been getting treated pretty rough lately. Give society time and maybe we will find balance genders again in a new more equal way.

@@bunniewood Women just turned totally cringe ^^ xd

Bruh.

Is this true though? I know heaps of gay guys and they said getting laid is easy but a committed relationship is impossible.

@@bunniewood true that monogamous committed relationships are less common, but I think those people are out there if you look in the right places for people who want the same things.

Who hurt you

Doesn't matter, he's attractive anyways