Warning signs you're with a gold digger and how to deal with one
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Күн бұрынDon't get caught in their charm! They're out to get your money. Spot them from a mile away with this video that highlights the warning signs you're dating a gold digger.
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00:00 - Intro
01:11 - Sign 1
02:07 - Sign 2
02:40 - Sign 3
03:33 - Sign 4
04:07 - Sign 5
05:01 - Sign 6
06:29 - Sign 7
07:02 - Sign 8
08:25 - Sign 9
09:36 - How to deal
@Watch_nolly 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica is more like a big sister to us🥰❤️
@wisdomridenai 2 жыл бұрын
I know right
@ernestgyamfi5536 2 жыл бұрын
Always in financial crisis.....you nailed it👌😂😂
@stanleymchenry7593 2 жыл бұрын
You've really helped me a lot with my relationship and it's been helping me to know what to expect and what not. Thank you so much
@johnlopez5531 4 ай бұрын
I had someone ghost me & send me breadcrumbs this past week. Today they had the audacity to randomly text and only ask for money. Not even asking how I’m doing or anything. I said “No can do!” and walked away. I’m over it and won’t take it anymore. I deserve the best.
@teboho_26 2 жыл бұрын
These girls want us to pay them for services rendered in a relationship 😂😂 always charging, always taking and never giving..
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
😅
@gamwsas Жыл бұрын
exactly. my gf was charging me for sex and meeting with me.
@EbikeAdventures667 Жыл бұрын
Real sh1t 🤣
@juniormaononga99 2 жыл бұрын
This has come at the right time. Jessica, you've nailed it 💯
@wisdomridenai 2 жыл бұрын
Always articulate,straight to the point and daaaamn right! And wait a minute.... GORGEOUS!
@captainkeyboard1007 2 жыл бұрын
I love the way you reach the core of the problem. Thank you for one of the facts of life that no one has ever taught me.
@ridgerunner3364 2 жыл бұрын
Jess, I really appreciate your honesty and wisdom! Thank you.
@birdman271000 2 жыл бұрын
Love watching your videos Jessica you really helping a lot of guys out there including myself I appreciate you.
@toochukwuowoh606 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica has a very good command of English. Her accent is perfect
@gregorylatta8159 16 күн бұрын
What is a perfect English accent???
@felixjaoko4811 2 жыл бұрын
Just in time for brilliant ideas 💯💕 Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 is represented!!!.
@kennedyonyango1793 2 жыл бұрын
Well said kenya
@businessboom6143 2 жыл бұрын
Insightful outpouring of wisdom nuggets Jessica.💯🎯
@tmassillon27 2 жыл бұрын
This genuine lady is so real, Jessica since I started listening to you I have discovered so many things about some people it's just amazing. It seems like you lived inside those people's mind. Your info have changed my concepts for lifetime.
@obaadedamola4860 2 жыл бұрын
This is the reason i love to always watch your videos... Very Educative 👏👍
@emmanuelaluma5581 2 жыл бұрын
Your guidelines on how to go about relationships are so helpful. You offer so much valuable content.
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks again
@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 жыл бұрын
A gold digger girlfriend would be a gold digger wife Some women can be more wicked than armed robbers
@abdulmaliksuleman9111 2 жыл бұрын
No man should fooled into letting a woman make him feel like her husband when they are just courting.
@ekunperon509 2 жыл бұрын
I got this girl that fits perfectly in your descriptions.She didn't even missed out one of the descriptions.I took on my heels till date,am not looking back since I started running.
@KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB 2 жыл бұрын
Me too bro, I same girl that fits into all the descriptions...
@ekunperon509 2 жыл бұрын
@@KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB At times some relationships happens for reasons. Do you know that I appreciated my ex because of this girl? I called back my ex that has money more than me,her family is rich,she doesn't ask me for nothing and she's ready to go extra miles to see that I smile.Thank God me and my woman are back and waxing 💪💪💪. The bonding is so strong now more than ever before.
@josiahflame7477 2 жыл бұрын
@@ekunperon509 so after leaving that woman you went back and you're rejoicing how do you know she was not seeing someone before you came back and she's using you as an option for attention BE careful 😂
@kelvinhooru3918 2 жыл бұрын
Well spoken Jessi ❣️ always proud of your content 😍🧬
@goldenstate2192 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first video I've watched of yours. I plan on watching MORE👍.. VERY informative, and straight forward. Keep up the great work 😉
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@ImaniFX 2 жыл бұрын
i so much love this video and your wisdom !
@martinmusokem5765 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica. You are such an inspiration to me.
@junivybes7745 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent content👌🏻
@mosesawudzi3692 2 жыл бұрын
Wowww Jess I'm always learning anytime I watched your videos. Bless you 🙏.
@devilsadvocacy 9 ай бұрын
I’ve had to fend off a lot of them and have more experience than I ever wanted. I like where you’re coming from on this. Thank you for performing a valuable service
@nariskajwiga940 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice Jessica
@Zico804 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much dear Jessica.Always watching from Southwest,Florida.
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support Nelson
@maxinegirard3270 2 жыл бұрын
Like that you a solution or response to the signs and red flags. Good information and insights
@bobsean3466 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video it was really helpful, have learnt so much
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@Younghustler232 2 жыл бұрын
Fact vibes jessy😊😊 just imagine buying things for your apology to be accepted. Thanks for putting this straight forward 👍🏽👍🏽❤️❤️
@sharonomari573 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the message
@adriantudhope5469 Жыл бұрын
My best friend is dating a Gold Digger and he won’t listen to reason. Its like watching a car crash in slow motion
@bereanathlete723 5 ай бұрын
Very good wisdom, Jessica. I watched a lot of your videos, and you are like an angel sent from above to help open the eyes of the blind.
@JessicaOS 5 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@okonkwohushbaby6307 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much.. Part of my experience in the past. 💯 correct👍
@yawampofo8529 2 жыл бұрын
Once again.Jess is erasing my fears.
@visitorlisaposiadenda5833 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot Jessica, eye opener 🙏🙏
@ubongsunday6592 2 жыл бұрын
Great info.
@vonkeithdavis1792 2 жыл бұрын
Insightful and informative
@russelllevers9513 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice!!!!💖💖💖💖💖💖
@CraftyShawn 2 жыл бұрын
That’s some good advice most of the time you will see the signs if dating her feel like an expense you need to reevaluate your situation
@oneilcushnie4109 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for the encouragement 😊😊😊
@addaetenkamenin5853 2 жыл бұрын
Wish I got this information 10 years ago 😏, keep coming please, knowledge is power as they say.
@Burrburrcloud Ай бұрын
As a gold digger I can confirm she's right! 😂😂
@emmanuelsalako7370 Жыл бұрын
I have seen this signs one too many times not to recognize it when you brought it up, thanks Jessica you have spoken well and you really know your stuff and teach us well. Trying to know in figures how much is coming in yes this sign is a well known fact to me and I have come to know it.
@DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
I had a girlfriend like this who was asking me for expensive staff and asked me like $100s to give to her every month for her nails and I said OK I’ll give her $100 for her nails and after that, she asked me $200 for her birthday gift and I just said I’m sorry I don’t have that much of money I’m not working. And she say so you don’t care about me and I said I do care for you, babe. And she said that so then why would you not give me what I ask you to give me for my birthday and you declined and I say it’s because I don’t have a job that’s why I’m not giving you the money. And she said that OK so then we should break up and I ask her like why would you like to break up with me when there’s no problem? and she said why do you don’t wanna take care of me. And I say OK you can do whatever you want and now I have already broken up with her. And of course, we have been dating for almost 3 months and we never slept together I was always asking her to spend maybe one day sleeping together and she was just declining me. I don’t know what problem she had. She is very a Golddigger. and I felt some pain but in the future, I’m sure that I’ll get another one who can not ask me for money to get into a relationship. that was my personal experience that I have had been experiencing in the past month. My advice to those men who are not having a girlfriend right now. Don’t go into a relationship with someone who is asking you for money to get into a relationship with her. If she tried to say hey babe can we go to the restaurant? Or maybe if she asks you, hey babe can you help me with my hair done. That’s a red flag 🚩 don’t fall in it, my brothers. If you had this kind of problem with your relationship before, I want you to be happy and don't talk to her anymore. God has your desired wife.
@abdulmaliksuleman9111 2 жыл бұрын
So true. U were not yet married and she wanted to put all responsibility of her welfare on you. Was her dad late or she was an orphan. Or was she not working.
@DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
@@abdulmaliksuleman9111 yeah, she wasn’t working she was a student in high school and of course, she has a dad and mom who are working like why can’t she ask them for money instead of asking me for everything? And also that’s shameless of her, how can she ask someone for everything when they haven’t gotten married yet. That’s a truly gold-digger. Be aware of that
@josiahflame7477 2 жыл бұрын
Bro don't you ever ask a girl to sleep with you.never,if she loves you that's automatic but asking is really weird.and you should stop being weak if a woman loves you she will appreciate that you are trying hard to provide even without a job.stop being a nice guy otherwise you'll forever be used
@DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
@@josiahflame7477 thanks for your advice ✊🏾 🙏
@elizabethsnyder9678 2 жыл бұрын
Your correct on the dot. It sad about these kind of relationship. People using people and not for love . A relationship should be liking each other and get to know each other. Build love and trust and be thoughtful with gifs from the heart
@russelllevers9513 2 жыл бұрын
Respect... Your amazing Jessica
@wamalabryn193 2 жыл бұрын
Thnx so much for yuh content dia..
@nkululekozindela2460 2 жыл бұрын
Well said I like this one
@Shamgar5 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you mam for the advices u the best 💯💯🔥💚
@bolaremyjr 2 жыл бұрын
This is what we face currently in Naija… the laddies here are always having this mentality
@agyeimaxwell. 2 жыл бұрын
Love this soul🔥🔥💕💕
@philipapollo5185 2 жыл бұрын
More love from Kenya Jessica
@jtugg7341 2 жыл бұрын
The really good gold diggers will give an impression that they're doing well and will even pick up some the checks in the beginning of the dating process, and out of no where, she needs financial help and will lean on the fact that she paid for things in the past, so she can't be a gold digger, but it's a facade to only to get you to see her as a damsel in distress for rescue. Guy's, don't fall for it. From that point on, she will always need help.
@ParhamSolo 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for enlighting us
@JessicaOS 8 ай бұрын
My pleasure
@furydj2311 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on 🎯
@cosmasscmps 2 жыл бұрын
Good contents from you Jessica 🥰
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so!
@thefunfoodzone4377 2 жыл бұрын
Every point was spot on and none more than the out-of-league part. Take a look at the film, music industry, and sports industry. The modeling agency portfolio may as well be a dating agency portfolio as average looking rich men, take their pick.
@Gtown9676 2 жыл бұрын
Thx Jessica.i am your fan from Buja Burundi
@deez_nutz5816 2 жыл бұрын
Am watching you from Kenya
@SarkUpdates 2 жыл бұрын
I can't skip ur content 🤗❤️❤️❤️
@KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! this is so so so true
@francoisannasia5189 2 жыл бұрын
Good Advice...
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@OLUROPOJADU 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica.
@infinity_0 8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for opening my eyes ❤❤❤
@abumandelasesaymandela9168 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica wonderful Queen ! I like it
@mutumbajoel9097 Жыл бұрын
Thanks big sis 🤗🤗
@okikiakinnibosun4953 2 жыл бұрын
Most appreciated
@hajarayusuf764 2 жыл бұрын
Still giving great and awesome advice keep it up just wish you also gave women advice 👍
@danielsoto8601 4 ай бұрын
Words of wisdom here in this video!
@NathalieLazo 2 жыл бұрын
The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
@nardinequarcoo 2 жыл бұрын
That’s one of my principles too. You couldn’t have said it better
@metatronblack 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You can never enter the mind of anyone , so your whole process is ridiculous. Now working on yourself I do agree with though.
@Khenny_jacobs 2 жыл бұрын
A girl I have a crush on Ask me what's the craziest thing she can do, I didn't understand her and could not answer, I felt like an idiot.. Please help me out Jessica, I still wish to give a response regarding that question
@alisonb5921 Жыл бұрын
My ex neighbour is living with a Gold Digger woman. In a few weeks time, at the beginning of April, by Australian law, he'll have to sell all his house & assets & give her half of it. They started living together, last year. The 6 months are up, then. This applies to the de-facto relationships, as well as married couples.
@carilasomondi295 2 жыл бұрын
I really love the advice.Kenyans love you
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
I love kenyans
@blackmusicentertainment_gh 2 жыл бұрын
Road to 700k Subscribers Hurray to jessy❤️
@antoniomanicano3221 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for the video! you have been teaching a lot about the feminine side. Big hug from Angola - Cabinda 👍👍
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@geoffrey7915 2 жыл бұрын
Am a Ugandan American but gal the advise u offer to us as men beats me to the cake!!! U r like a big sister to us who follow u and u r just an asset to us. It has made me more determined to kick out bull crap gals in my life. Lately i kicked out One who was trying to come back to me cos he heard that i relocated to the US. Watching from nashiville Tennessee USA.
@olumidekayode9984 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, that’s amazing 😘
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Cheers!
@dwaynekelso1974 2 жыл бұрын
inspiration for real thank you 🙏
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!!
@richardhankombo3106 2 жыл бұрын
On point 👌
@brianbrino4310 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely Jessica everything you have to say is always help you! I love you because of your honesty, your love to help people and because you are a real Lady in every sense of the word! And you are always there for us! I have a feeling that we will meet one day and I’ll feel very honored! Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
Always look forward to reading from you Brian. Best regards
@brianbrino4310 2 жыл бұрын
@@JessicaOS Thank you wholeheartedly!❤️🌹
@kensallah 2 жыл бұрын
And who says the unmarried cannot advise the married? I'm looking for that person. Jessica you have never drifted from the truth. Kudos.
@azmusic9119 Жыл бұрын
Wow an eye opener
@tgoldmania 2 жыл бұрын
Life is too short than to live one second of it unhappy 🙁… Thank u jessy
@so3710 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah!
@elit. Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your support Jessica, all men went through this, however all what if fact we're looking for is love... i feel sorry for us
@orlycalibo5289 Жыл бұрын
Many thanks
@mikeemswiler4541 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lawrencemiller8198 Жыл бұрын
For me I don't and I never will deal with any gold diggers I would completely stay away from them cause at the end of the day they'll only drain you and leave you hanging low and dry and that's something that I personally don't want I can do without that!
@kojomensah9977 2 жыл бұрын
Good
@pontianekakoro1737 2 жыл бұрын
100% accurate content. Except for one misplaced assumption: there's no qhere in the current world where women doing the same work earn less than what me earn. In Kenya where I come from, jn many cases, women actually earn MORE than men for doing the same or less work. The reality in Kenya and I believe the rest of the world is that the social system favors women too much to the extent two people graduating with the same qualifications, same fit for a job, the woman will get a job in a third of the time it will take man to do so. In my country there are so so many assistance programs for women of different cadres it is like it almost a crime to be a man. So, let's drop that old tale of women being at a disadvantage socially today. It's been long overtaken by time and social change there's actually need to intervene for the men
@benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 жыл бұрын
Change you say, Jessica? I disagree marriage doesn't change anyone; it only amplifies what's already in existence
@samueleliliipeh5235 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure you got what she said.
@EngineerObed Жыл бұрын
God bless you Mum
@nardinequarcoo 2 жыл бұрын
The most populous humans we have now! Not sharing and spreading love but digging from their partners; both men and women. Jess; you got it right! Ha drop her like hot kelewele! Drop him like buff loaf! Red flags 🚩 🚩
@furgillome 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS WOMAN ❤️😇
@cruisefamilytv1472 2 жыл бұрын
imagine a girl billing you every now and then surely a red flag😂😂😅 thank you jessi...
@kaydotTvSgod 2 жыл бұрын
Facts !!
@CarlosRamirez-xx6jz 2 жыл бұрын
Hi my friend Jessica, you just nail it down with this very interesting video !! I am in this relationship with this beautiful woman who lately claims that she is in " financial crisis " she always needs money, I have been helping her out with some money yes I have !! But, this is the catch on this matter, today I send her the money to help her out, and tomorrow she will post new pictures with nice new clothes on in Facebook ... so, all of this is making me wonder; is she really a " gold digger " ?? Is she using me for this matter, and she is not in financial crisis for real ?? Your video just showed me FIVE of the signs that I have noticed on her !! And I have come to the conclusion that SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER !! Thanks God !! I finally found out about the truth !! Thanks Jessica for this amazing video, God bless you my friend !! 🙏
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
glad to help
@kagaidouglas6077 2 жыл бұрын
in love with your composure
@JessicaOS 2 жыл бұрын
thanks
@samuelwadada2488 2 жыл бұрын
Her intro self wey dry kill me💙💙💙
@russelllevers9513 2 жыл бұрын
I am from Jamaica...💟💟
@rohitsingha119 Жыл бұрын
U r right 😊life is too short why live even one second unhappy
@obrisseddy 2 жыл бұрын
🇰🇪 I really agree with you
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