Was Charles Ingalls The Perfect Man?

Was Charles Ingalls The Perfect Man? | Wranglerstar

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@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

You're such a beautiful human being. I love when you share your musings, unscripted, unfinished. It's this kind of reflection that makes us stop and examine our lives, allowing space for us to make corrections or continue the investigation. Our stories are still being written, so your hesitation to me is hope, it's living with an open heart, without conclusions and definitives, as a servant, an instrument. You're right, being a man isn't about macho, or knowing or control, it's about reverence. I read a definition of love by M Scott Peck "the will to extend ones self for the purpose of nurturing ones own or another's spiritual growth." Because in the end we're all just walking each other home.

@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

AYeo, we're so happy to have you here. Thank you.

@Femmpaws 10 жыл бұрын

Very well said dear heart, we are all on different paths in life, it is by helping others that we learn where our path will take us. Many times when we offer counsel to others the message we offer is one we need to hear ourselves.

@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

You are a wise soul Kriss. We see through our own stories, that's all we know. Having a sibling has been one of my life's greatest joys. When you understand where someone came from, you can better see them for who they are. Cody was one of my first lessons in loving another and my first friend.

@Femmpaws 10 жыл бұрын

FRESH PRINCESS You become wise only if you learn from the mistakes you have made and the heartache you have lived through. I learned first hand how little "family" mattered when I came out and started to walk my path and mine alone. The God and Goddess blessed me when Twinkle came into my life almost 16 years ago. If you ask her she will tell you the same thing. I hope I'm not pushing on peoples christian sensibilities. Over the years we have won over more people by just being ourselves, warm and friendly to others that people just see us as a nice couple and forget we are the same gender. At the last open house there was enough drama going on at times. We saw no need to add to it so we played it as a straight couple. There is more I could say but this is not the forum for it. I'm not here to kick other peoples sensibilities and values and try to instill my own. We teach by example, how we treat others speaks loudly of what's in the soul. Blessings to all.

@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

When you walk your own path, you are honoring God. It's that simple. Christian, Buddhist, Hindu, Whathaveyou, truth is truth. It doesn't matter what dogma you believe in, the path is the path. Our bodies allow us to experience God, nothing more, nothing less. We are all here to learn love. Don't sweat the details, you have a heart of gold. As does Twinkle. Settle into what is and celebrate love. We need more of it.

@9ThePatch 9 жыл бұрын

Maybe i can explain the last 20 seconds of this video. Real men care about being a good father, husband, and citizen so much that the effort to put into words such a personal aspiration brings them to tears. The fear of not being these things scares the toughest of men, but the honor of being one humbles a man to his knees with gratefulness to the God that made him so. Thank you so much for posting this.

@J_ismyname48 Жыл бұрын

Very well put. 👏👏

@colin8532 10 жыл бұрын

I am so glad you didn't delete this and decided to share it with us. It really opens my eyes when you mention the husband being the house band and how immature my beliefs have been on my roll in a relationship. Its no wonder I have never had a successful long term one, how could I have with such a complete lack of understanding of who I am supposed to be as a man? I'll never be able to express just how bright that light bulb is that just came on above my head. Thank you :)

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Colin,

@fatjuniesfarmette6030 10 жыл бұрын

Colin, I don't know which brought more tears to my eyes -- Wranglerstar's heartfelt video or your comment from a convicted honest heart. God created men to be the spiritual leader, the protector, the provider for his wife and his children. I Cor 16:13 is a favorite of mine: "Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, *act like men*, be strong." There are so many inspiration role models in the Bible: Abraham, Joshua, Caleb, Daniel, Nehemiah, Nathaniel, Barnabas, John, etc. Open your Bible, pray to God for understanding and wisdom, and start meeting these men. And sure, watch a few episodes of Little House, too. :)

@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

You both inspire me. It saddens me that we live in a culture where women can openly contemplate, share and express but men are all to often bound by the unspoken. To see both of you pondering meaning and ideals that may no longer be serving you makes my heart sing. I love you both.

@Thefreshp 10 жыл бұрын

You are good men.

@Donnybrook10 10 жыл бұрын

You're a breath of fresh air Colin. Not only are you able to acknowledge that you may have fallen short in some areas of your life, but you are man enough to do it publicly. That's character and I applaud you for it. It's no surprise that young men these days don't really know how to be a man. The family unit and roles of men have been under attack from the left for 50 years now and most boys have no frame of reference to draw upon when it's their turn to be fathers, husbands, men. Family Courts have all but pushed men out of the lives of their kids. Many deserve to be but there is a terrible cost to this. Kids are lost and left to try to figure out life on their own. Many of us grew up with no man in the house. Our only male role models were on TV or if we were lucky, other people's fathers. It's very sad really. Irresponsibility, divorce and bad parenting has become acceptable if not encouraged. And this is by design from a very insidious malignant plaigue on our society, the left. We now recognize this as social engineering and we need to excise it from our lives if we hope to have a society in the future. This cannot stand and we need to be the remedy. Character is at the heart of it. There's hope for the future with young guys like you who have figured it out at a young age. When my son was born I realized that I was beginning the most important job of my life. Everything he is or ever will be is directly related to how I conduct myself as his father. And that will translate to his kids one day and so on down the line. It's an incredibly important and daunting responsibility.

@CainnechK 10 жыл бұрын

I would just like to say that I come from a broken home, my Father wasn't around. To any single mothers out there who think there child doesn't need positive male role model in there life and that you can do it all, YOU ARE WRONG and you don't have to do it alone. If your child's father isnt around or is just a total loser, I would suggest joining your son up with your local scouting organization. My mother realized that I needed a positive male role model in my life and joined me up at the age of 10. I'm telling you it made all the difference! There is nothing wrong with asking for help. Most scout leaders are great guys and if you make them aware of your situation they will go out of there way to help you in any way possible. My scout leaders were a huge part of making me into the man I am today.

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

It's true. The Lord tells us that He will be a father to the fatherless also,

@LumnahAcres 10 жыл бұрын

Great Video glad you didn't delete it. These are the kind of things I have been pondering for awhile now and trying to figure out the next step is hard. Well said Thanks

@SpecificLove7 10 жыл бұрын

So glad you put up this video. You said so much in such a short time.

@CaliKim29 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Wranglerstar for promoting and living the strength and gentleness that a man should have and be for his family. And thx for posting this video even tho it wasn't "perfect" at the end. That made it even more perfect!

@mykedave8527 10 жыл бұрын

Cody! You and your family are a blessing, sir. Your parents must be proud of their children. Would adopting a 35 year old man be awkward for you? LOL

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

With God all things are possible,

@olswole5057 8 жыл бұрын

To prove your point I grew up with no father and an alcoholic mother. I'm 40 now and still learning things I should have known 20 yrs ago. I managed to stay out of trouble for the most part, but life has been rough at times. In my later yrs God has brought me many blessings and I am very grateful

@JeremyConnor 10 жыл бұрын

Interesting video, thanks for sharing! As a child raised by a single mum I can attest to the fact you don't require an atomic family to have the values of honesty, integrity and excellence; those are my primary characteristics; you just need a parent who is diligent and a good role model to instill these values in you. My mum is amazing woman, and she set an amazing example as a parent. I can tell you, if I were a politician I would not be someone who was greedy, corrupt or mediocre. All of this said, the lack of a positive male role model makes life a little harder, because you have to identify the characteristics you wish to have and that ultimately you will instill in your children and community. Fortunately even one good parent is enough to instill a pride of self, and thirst for perfection, they just have to do the heavy lifting of two people, it's not easy. At 32 I can honestly say I have become the strong, gentle, fair and confident father that I never had, but my daughter will. A husband that doesn't direct like an army general, but rather consults and shares the responsibility of family decision making with his wife, who loves and respects her and is in turn loved and respected. A man who spends every effort in life devoted to his family over himself, a man who cares about others and who is not afraid to do the right thing, even if it is unpopular.

@1Jeweledrose 10 жыл бұрын

My dad passed away when I was 12yrs old, but what I remember of him is that he was kind, gentle and very caring person. I wish he would have been here for me to learn more from.

@mattboerio 10 жыл бұрын

I like this one, I mean to say i like all of them, but this one is different. Not everything has to be 100% fleshed out, with a succinct, clear, sound-bite message. I appreciate and respect the fact that you are willing to share the grasping, the searching for that expression of one's self, one's ideas, that we all from time to time struggle to achieve. Thank you.

@cassianyhvh7220 10 жыл бұрын

I actually love the ending of this video. Instead of telling us what we should do it's up to us to resolve the cliffhanger you left us with. You perfectly framed the problem and switching off the camera was a great effect and exclamation point!

@jdraney 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this video. You are a good man and inspire goodness in others. You hit the nail on the head. I feel more respect and admiration for you with every video. Thank you for speaking what so many of us feel and also need to hear. Keep up the good work!

@ktk605 10 жыл бұрын

This is probably your BEST video yet! Thank you for sharing it. Little House on the Prairie is my all time favorite tv show. This video has really helped me put some things in to perspective in my life. I really NEEDED to hear this Cody. Thank you very much.

@sauceLegs 8 жыл бұрын

Happy(late) Father's Day, Cody. I lost my dad 3 years ago and he wasn't always the best. He was a lot like the dad you described in the video - besides the alcohol that killed him, he thought he only had to provide monetarily for the family and then his job was done. This feels slightly strange to say but people like you and nutnfancy have sort of become my youtube fathers. You guys teach and inspire me everyday. I remember watching King of the Hill growing up and hoping that one day I'd be half of the man that Hank Hill was. Thank you for keeping me on the path. Bless, Jimbo

@stevendaily3078 8 жыл бұрын

Wranglerstar- I have seen most of your videos, I went back and am trying to catch back up and I tell my wife all the time when you are interacting with your family that you are the way Men, Fathers, and Husbands are supposed to be and if we had more men like you I truly feel this Country and the World would be a different place. I admire not only your work ethics, but more importantly your Life ethics. I know you inspire me to be a better Man and I thank you for reminding me of the values and morals that we once used to embrace.

@kevinc5613 10 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you uploaded it also. I don't want to get sappy..but...speaking with my mother and describing who you are she had some profound insight I had not realized. She said i seem to have found you to be a proper father and example for me to look up to and learn from. Before you back and say no one can replace my father...you're right. My father wasn't there except to abuse..so you're not replacing...you're teaching and restoring what was never there. You're not perfect, but you're a good and Godly role model. Thank you..God bless and happy father's day.

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Kevin, I am very touched by this comment.

@fatjuniesfarmette6030 10 жыл бұрын

You are a wise young man with a smart mother. God bless you for casting your eyes toward the godly.

@andytennison7645 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Cody for deciding to post this video. It's interesting you mentioned Charles Ingalls, when my son and I started watching WranglerStar you reminded me of him. Passion in your heart to strengthen fatherhood and family. Good stuff Cody!

@fastheads2332 10 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I think the Andy Griffith show was also a very positive example of a great father. Andy was tuff, kind, and smart a great example of what a man and father should be.

@dejavu666wampas9 4 жыл бұрын

Jason Barnett - Ward Cleaver, as well.

@RedC53 9 жыл бұрын

Came across this vid by accident and it struck a chord with me. I am of an older generation that grew up just ahead of Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver. Both American programmes but similar to my upbringing in Canada. Your ruminations on fatherhood are encouraged because thoughtful decisions come from reflection. In my years of existence on this earth I have found those decisions to be the best in a majority of situations. Learning from our mistakes is smart, learning from others' mistakes before we make them is wise. Be observant, be thoughtful, strive to be more than what you are today, try to make life better for those around you. May God bless and light your path.

@leekollar3298 8 жыл бұрын

Very True. Too many fathers are not involved enough in raising their children. Its sad.

@capricorncustomblades4373 10 жыл бұрын

I am glad you did not delete it and chose to share this video Cody. Very well put even without the conclusion. It made me reflect upon what kind of father I want to be one day. I can see that as the first son I got the best out of my dad, but as the eldest sibling, maybe it's time for me to provide to my brothers the things my father cannot (due to lack of personal time and old age). Thank you!

@chrisstianatumax7374 Ай бұрын

This is wonderful!!!! you are wonderful. More videos!!! please

@fredtorres9473 10 жыл бұрын

Wranglerstar, I've learned much from you: hands-on problem solving application at our homes, and now deeper reflections for the heart and spirit's yearnings to walk with day by day. Your sudden, unspoken ending mirrored the grief the man Charles Ingalls would have felt by opening the question, "what do we/I do?" There's grief because we always sense how we fall short of the measure and goal no matter what we others might say. Tender are tears that a man shows in his resolve to face a difficult task...you did. As you know we are not shamed but humbled that Our Lord uses our weakness that He is glorified.

@matt4270 10 жыл бұрын

I think you know EXACTLY what this video is about. I remember seeing an interview with Michael Landon when I was a kid, saying that he didn't let his kids watch TV at all, and this was back in the 70's, while he was making his living from it. A very wise man on AND off screen!

@vonguido1 10 жыл бұрын

I have to agree with Colin on this one. It was definitely like a lightbulb went off in my head when you started talking about Husband's/fathers. I have a 4yr old son and after listening to what you said, I feel I need to make a change for sure.

@mbirdsong1950 10 жыл бұрын

Cody! Your Video is about Honest, Deeply Felt, Convictions! Those are not always given to a scripted scene like many well produced videos...but rather are often delivered with a strong sense of emotion and commitment. I am glad that you posted this video! You are correct that many of these values and ideals are waning today. I think you hesitated because it wasn't your usual high quality (in terms of editing and production), but had to post it because it was important... Anyway, I'm glad you did!

@ZenRebel33 10 жыл бұрын

Currently I am reading the Little House on the Prairie books to my youngest daughter. We both enjoy them. Their lives were much harder than ours today, but they enjoyed their lives more than I think people do today. We should all strive like yourself to return ourselves to that way of life. Thanks for all of your videos and your words of wisdom.

@dbetzner3268 10 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you decided to share this video with us instead of delete it. What you want to say almost always seems to hit home with me on some level. I found your channel just trying to find the right way to sharpen an axe but now I'm hooked on the rest of it. I'd just like to say thank you for doing what you do and sharing it with the rest of us.

@wyattoneable 10 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you posted the video. We would have missed more than you can imagine. your Sister said it best however, "your hesitation is hope".

@joebainter 10 жыл бұрын

I have those "lose focus" days all the time. I think the fact that you just stop long enough to sort out what you think, how you feel and what you want in life makes you a rare man in today's world. It is something we see all too rarely, and I believe it is the thing that makes you a better man. I spend a lot of my time doing the same thing, which is why I think I like your show so much. We do make the world a better place by just starting with the man in the mirror

@bruisterlenoir6474 10 жыл бұрын

"When you are weak, He is strong" You may have lost track for a moment, searching for a close, but I think that what needs to be said today, repeatedly, came through in your thoughts and for that I thank you. My children are 41, 32, 30, 28 and 22. It is never too late to nurture your growth as a hedge of protection. Thanks for the video

@107retired 8 жыл бұрын

WOW!!! POWERFUL Cody!! I don't know why I have not seen this until now BUT, I believe this is one of your best! It's in my top 10 of yours.

@Hazmattdown 9 жыл бұрын

Im so glad you shared this Video Cody! Wow, what great message. I thought it ended perfectly, it is almost as if you are asking us, then Fathers who are watching to answer that question. "What am I going to do about it?" Love it. Well said brother. I just found your channel and absolutely love it. Bravo. BTW Nutnfancy sent me here.

@dylanb187 9 жыл бұрын

I am 19 years old and I am currently dating a beautiful young woman who had a child at a young age and was also married at a young age and her and her ex husband just fell apart he was as you were talking about he thought his job was to just make money and leave the rest to his wife and that lead to them divorcing so now I am helping raise the most beautiful little girl and doing more than just making money I am currently taking welding courses at my local trade school and after I get done with them I am going to go back for fire science so I can have a back up plan if my welding career doesn't work out this was an awesome message Cody it really hit home with me thank you for sharing it

@sonnyboycustom2666 4 жыл бұрын

This video was a turning point of sorts for me in 2014 when it was new. I had been watching Wranglerstar for many months, but this is the video that convinced me to subscribe. Wranglerstar was the very first KZfaq channel I subscribed to on that day. Every Fathers Day weekend since, I've re-watched this video just as a small reminder to myself of what kind of a man I want to be for my wife and children.

@sadlerchannel 10 жыл бұрын

Right on. Sometimes the best discussions don't get tied up in a nice bow, but still say the important things. Life is full of noise. You happen to be in a place to hear the quiet voice that urban life crowds out of mine more than I like. I for one am especially glad for this video... Thank you for digging deep and especially for posting this instead of deleting it.

@NatureLapse22 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I have read the Little House series of books many times over, and I consider Charles Ingalls to be one of my role models. I encourage everyone to read these books, for yourself and to your children. It will give everyone a proper sense of appreciation as to what the first pioneers and homesteaders had to go through to survive. Cody, i believe you and your family embody the spirit and determination of the Ingalls family.

@pauldonais6427 9 жыл бұрын

You know what Cody?.....I've watched hundreds of hours of your videos , and have learned so much from what you've been kind enough to share with everyone , with that said , I just wanna say that if I HAD to single out a favorite , one that really speaks to me , THIS would be the video I that I bestowed that honor upon.....I think perhaps in some small way , you a represent something of a resurgence of a more traditional path to manhood that's been a gone for awhile , but thankfully not lost . It's certainly a good , solid ideal to aspire to for all men.....Keep it up please , it's seems to be catching on...(we need more young men making good choices) ...Thank you.

@ltbaldwin 10 жыл бұрын

Cody you are a great father and have great influence on the world!! This video was great and people should listen!! Thank You for all you do!!

@ogrehulkroids 9 жыл бұрын

So this is the first video I've ever commented on. I'm a very private person and for the most part prefer to keep my thoughts within my small circle of friends. I couldn't possibly agree with you more and I've been saying these same things for several years now. I'm 31 now and I didn't have a relationship with my dad until I was in my mid 20's. You are a breath of fresh air, God guide your hand sir, You've touched me deeply.

@wranglerstar 9 жыл бұрын

jfrazier We are not alone,

@scottpyron3236 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Cody! It is so very nice to hear someone talk about how important fatherhood is. Being a single dad to my 9yr old son, I thank you sincerely. I feel blessed to have seen this video. Thank you for not deleting it. God Bless you and your family!

@HearthandSickle 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks again Cody for another inspiring video! (even if you did loose your train of thought.) When people ask me what I want for my future and I mention that I want to be the "Caroline" of my future they look at me like I am absolutely nuts. Its seems that the role of the husband\father has been flipped with that of the wife\mother. I am always amazed at the range of responses I get from different generations. The older generations, those that are in their 60+, look at me and comment "Good luck on finding a man." They say it with sincerity because they understand that the men they married, who allowed them to be housewives and live that life, don't really exist in the younger generations of today's society. The middle group, 35-59 look at me and the first words out of their mouths are "but you will need to have a job." Its like this 'how dare you not have a career' mentality. often they are the ones who think no person can exist on a single income. then there are those who are more like minded to the cause. The ones that understand that if we don't do something about it, the family unit is going to be lost.They understand that it is up to our generation to be the change we want to see. To get back to our roots and be just a little "old-Fashioned." So pray for us that we may be come the Charles and Caroline ingalls of our day.

@cenelind 10 жыл бұрын

Its about being who you are while still hammering out the details of what that means. 48/m I was worried I had not "got it" yet when my 80yr old mother commented that she was quite sure who she wanted to be when she grew up either. "But boy ain't the journey grand."

@bluecollarscholar2732 10 жыл бұрын

Would you call Caroline a "wife of noble character"? I do hope the best for you in finding your Charles and for your generation.

@davidelizabeth4933 10 жыл бұрын

So glad you shared this. Thank you for your openness, candidness, and heart for God's goodness in all things. We absolutely agree with you. Godly fathers are critical! For us, It is very frustrating to see the continuing decline of our nation's culture, morals, and families. We feel so discouraged and defeated sometimes. We have to constantly remind ourselves to continue to pray and that God is ultimately in control of everything. Continued blessings and love to the Wranglerstar family.

@RtCarolina 9 жыл бұрын

My wife's favorite TV dad was Pa Ingalls. She had a crush on him. She watched this video with me and now encourages me to watch ALL your videos. She thinks I should be more like Pa, I tend to agree. Great Video, thanks for your candid thoughts.

@jasonbassett8026 9 жыл бұрын

Hi Cody, been following you for a few months now. It's been a refreshing change to find someone that has their own opinion and veiws that are balanced, honest and thoughtfull. I do watch with slight envy all the space you have around you, not many of us over here in England can afford to be so lucky but we make the best of it that we can. The topic off your video is an echo of what my mum has been saying for a number of years, I have sent her a link to your video. Your doing a great job! Keep it up. Jason - On the othe side of the pond.

@aries171717 9 жыл бұрын

+ jason bassett Very well said jason and agree with you 100%. I have been following Cody and his sisters Fresh P channels for the last few months also. I too am from England, Yorkshire. I have been inspired and made some changes because of what they have educated me with. Take care, tony

@GabeMacDonnell 9 жыл бұрын

We read the " Little House" series with my mom, and from a very young age, Charles Ingalls represented an ideal role model. I'm too young to know the TV series, but the books are a wonderful portrait of 19th century American life, and a strong, loving family.

@myfriend2715 8 жыл бұрын

You stated, very well, your 'thought/s' on the video; and you're not the first person to finish a thought and then not to know how/why to go from there. Glad you posted it!

@gscottbB 8 жыл бұрын

yes, I love the way Cody (didn't) put an end to the video. Instead of hearing a final statement and going on to the next whatever, his thought process branches & expands and then cuts off; leaving us to ponder his ideals and delve greater into our collective perception of humanity, hopefully in a way that shines a brighter light on its future.

@Anonymous-ro5fv 8 жыл бұрын

Damn man...Damnmm.

@HawkLMT 9 жыл бұрын

Cody, this is a beautiful message. Being a husband and father can be tough sometimes. Another point that stands out about Charles Ingalls as portrayed by Michael Landon was his Faith. I find that anytime I struggle with my ability to be a good husband or a good father I rely on my Faith. Another great show was The Waltons, with good father figures in both Grandpa Walton, and John Walton.

@clamum 10 жыл бұрын

I really like what you said in your video Cody; glad you decided to upload it. If even one father, or future father, sees it and it makes him think (like Colin said) it'll be worth it.

@jamesmessimer9312 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you for not dumping that video. As a father of 6 I found it inspirational. Thank you for sharing. I'm going to go get the Little House DVD's out of the closet and watch them again. :)

@pr4runner 10 жыл бұрын

The best blooper reel on youtube so far. Thank you for not deleting this video. It speaks volumes.

@tacdad2704 10 жыл бұрын

Also glad you did upload some of my favorite vidio's you do are the ones were you just speek ramble whatever you want to call it. You have some awesome moral charecter.

@Rodneydncn 10 жыл бұрын

I'm very grateful that you decided to share this video ;) Thanks and I believe you are right on all counts here.

@Wakinguphuman 10 жыл бұрын

It's obvious from all the comments that your decision to listen to the small, still voice and post this was the right move, but just in case you needed one more, this video is directly responsible for me watching Little House. It never even crossed my mind to watch it before, but your description of Charles Ingalls makes me realize that I actually NEED to watch it. Thanks for that!

@TheBookDoctor 10 жыл бұрын

I read the Little House books to my kids a couple of years ago, and it prompted me to think a lot about old Pa Ingalls as a father. He certainly had a lot of excellent, inspirational qualities: a relentless work ethic, an independent streak a mile wide, a strong moral compass, and an abiding devotion to his family. But he had one deep failing. He had a wanderlust that seems to have been triggered by adversity. Every time things got hard where he was, his response was to throw in the towel, uproot his whole family, drag them hundreds of miles into the wilderness, and start over. He was a good man, and his family obviously loved him. But sometimes I wonder what kind of lives they'd have had if he had been more tenacious, or less prone to see if the grass was greener over some other hill. Better? Worse? We'll never know, but I do wonder.

@TheMountainfarmer 10 жыл бұрын

You bring up many good points. Your example of Charles Ingalls is perfect, and I see you in a similar role. The examples that you set should be adopted by many of the young men in your audience. It is a healthy and sound character you present. Thanks for reconsidering the uploading of this vid. God Bless!

@Wrangler98JPTJ 10 жыл бұрын

Cody: you said it all very well! And leaving us all with the question as to what its all about is for us to explore in our own lives... No need for you to have all the answers but you certainly pointed all of us that follow you in the right direction as it relates to looking into ourselves and our families and our roles as husbands and fathers. Another great video Cody. Charles Ingalls would be proud to have you as his neighbor!

@BushcraftOnTracks 10 жыл бұрын

Glad you decided to upload this!

@nuetrong2 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you for posting this anyway. You have made a lot of great points. I can see this topic growing in our society and it sickens me the way people truly do treat the husband/father these days. I have had my fair share of it myself. Some people treat me as if I'm just the bread winner and I have no say in my home and go to my wife behind my back and create drama. If I assert my self by confronting the individual, then I'm looked at as a jerk.

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

Yes I see this all the time. Very well put,

@williamstruthers1899 10 жыл бұрын

sounds like the definition of a man, great point.

@terrythurman5869 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks for posting this video. You are a blessing to me and my family!

@curtisingalls1423 9 жыл бұрын

From a distant relative of the real Ingalls family I appreciate your words and the positive reflection of what a father should be.

@kaygrim2189 7 жыл бұрын

I am not from the US. I am what you would classify as a "Christian" even though I do not put myself in that box. This is just a quick note to say thank you for speaking up. For not deleting the video but rather having the courage to go through with posting it even though there are a lot of people who don't want to hear it.

@davegoodridge8352 10 жыл бұрын

My role as a father I thought was over. My children have grown and moved out to start lives of their own. Now, I'm two months from a new role, that as a grandfather. I'm excited about this new role. It is my desire to have a little of Charles Ingalls and Casper ten Boom (Corrie ten Boom's father of The Hiding Place, wonderful story) . I'm a bit smarter this time around then when I was a father, I'm better able to help. And I pray for the wisdom to do a good job at it. Thanks for sharing.

@HearthandSickle 10 жыл бұрын

you will never stop being a father to your children. I am 24 years old, living on my own and my dad is one of the most important people in my life today. Congratulations on being a grandfather, a role which is just as important.

@TheJbkebert 10 жыл бұрын

I have watched better than half of the videos that you have posted. I really enjoy your channel but this has to be one of my favorites.

@42618justinfox 9 жыл бұрын

honestly man i can not believe that you made this video never in my life did i think that there was another human being out there that actually sees what the family and what role the father plays in it and the fact that you said that bad word...role... that word is almost unheard of now and good luck to all people my age looking for a wife....not gonna find one nowadays keep up the good work and finish this video :) ill be adding ya

@fredfreedom2446 10 жыл бұрын

Favorite video yet, Mr. Wranglerstar. When we cease to question our actions and the actions of those around us, we cease to grow morally and spiritually.

@abcarp1302 10 жыл бұрын

I know what this video is about, frustration. My wife and I see the same thing. We want to live our lives and raise our kids to be good people, but society has other plans. My uncle told me once, that if you can be a better father than your dad, consider yourself successful. I think that was the best advice anyone could give a father. Thanks for video.

@DEWW 10 жыл бұрын

To answer your question yes quite possibly. I too am glad that you did not delete this video. Throughout the entire video I could see hear and feel your frustration that I see here and feel everyday with today's societal view of a father. I'm sorry that you lost heart during filming, it's hard not to lose heart when one looks at the way society views treats and the belittles a father. I truly believe that there are those in society who do it correctly, but it seems nobody is listening to them. Thank You Cody for who you are and as I've said before jack is a lucky boy.

@bobberw7322 10 жыл бұрын

As always Cody, your videos provoke thought in the rest of us... sometimes, the answer to a question needs to come from each individual reflecting on their own lives. Nothin' wrong with this video; nothin' wrong with the way it ended... Personally, I consider it to be in the top 10 of all of your videos. Thanks for posting it up.

@maineiachomestead7550 10 жыл бұрын

Several years ago my spiritual father and mentor gave a teaching to our men's group (it went viral within the church) that is best summed up with a simple statement. "All the world's ills can be directly attributed to the lack of a father's love." Without that love we are a ship without a rudder.

@marrano10 10 жыл бұрын

I like when you start rambling in videos, it gives us a very good insight to your thoughts, I am from the newer generations and do see my dad as a mr Cosby unfortunately, I will try to watch little house int the prairie to fully understand what you mean.

@linedog19delta 10 жыл бұрын

Good job , i'm so thankful you didn't delete is video . i'm sharing this on my facebook .

@1Climber7 10 жыл бұрын

I think this is one of your best videos. Makes me think about my life as a father, as a man and most importantly a human being.

@BobMarcum 10 жыл бұрын

Cody, As many have already said, this is prolly the best if not the most powerful video yet. Your grappling with what to say next toward the end said so much. Having, through the grace of God and a good helpmate, raised two children to adulthood. I now find grandchildren being raised properly by those same children. It's less trouble to do the right thing than to make excuses for doing the wrong thing. Satan has somehow blinded us to this fact. I wish you peace my friend and that God may pour out his blessings upon you and all your house. Amen and Amen Bob

@BlowinbubblesB 10 жыл бұрын

Cody, I have been a pastor for some 25 years. The best preacher knows when his message is delivered, and God has finished working through him.... You picked the right time to stop... Message delivered, message received... Blessings, Kyle

@thisoldcottage 9 жыл бұрын

I couldn't be happier that you did post this video - you are so right and I too take pride in raising my daughter, albeit as a single parent, and teacher her about life and it's values and moral code through nature, creativity and faith as you do with your family. Keep up the good work and god bless you and yours. Simon, (United Kingdom)

@chrisliobis8195 10 жыл бұрын

You say you didn't want to post, but I have gained a lot of knowledge and new found respect from watching this. Thank you for posting Cody.

@Sheepdog419 10 жыл бұрын

Many trains of thought running in this video. Isn't it perplexing how something so simple can go so wildly complicated in just a few short minutes. You make excellent points on all your thought "diversions", if they may be called that. It appears that maybe several semi-related philosophy videos are in order. Keep on it. I can't speak for everyone here, but I really enjoy all that you post on your channel :-)

@eddymoney412 10 жыл бұрын

I always sit in the back ground and enjoy your videos/channel (always THUMBS UP) i'm very happy that you posted! Thank you

@crabberdabberdoo4680 9 жыл бұрын

I have never commented on KZfaq before, but I come back to this video once in a while just to remind me I am not alone. I am a Christian father of 8 (5 boys 3 girls) and I believe I am as fortunate as any man on earth for having my wife, these kids and many other blessings from God. I could add all kinds of commentary on how and why I agree with your take on this Wranglerstar, but your raw take and emotion say it so well that I will just let it be other than to say thank you! Pax et Bonum

@mayobushcraft 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your honesty and reenforcing how I feel about the life I was given. Integrity should be the way all should learn to live.

@isco037 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Cody for being willing to put it all out on the table and leaving yourself vulnerable.

@robertcesena6329 9 жыл бұрын

Mr. Wranglerstar I have to commend you for being brave enough to post this video which has truly touched me. The things conveyed in this video were so VERY on point in my opinion. I truly believe and agree with you 100%!!!! You said it all, and I can't say enough about the admiration I have for you and this post. I pray that God blesses you in all your endeavors, and that your family thrives. Sincerely Robert

@rustyshackelfurd1444 10 жыл бұрын

That loss of thought Is your subconscious getting ready to have epiphany or mind blowing thought. Glad you didn't delete it. Your definitely a worthy role model to us all.

@allenwilliams1806 10 жыл бұрын

Cody infinity thumbs up, I am a new subscriber but have been watching your videos for about 2 months now and follow no other video poster like I do yours. I wish I had done what you did a long time ago. I applaud you for your life style. I wish I had neighbors like your family. I think Charles Ingalls would be proud to be your brother. Keep Preaching Brother

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you Allen, welcome to the channel,

@hallos1624622 8 жыл бұрын

Excellent.. From the heart.. Touching!! My children are all grown up 30 and 33 yrs old, Today still I ask did I do enough? No! Basically also because one can never do enough. TV is a huge influence on our lives today, that's why I also don't have one...

@895austin 9 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you decided to post instead of delete. You are absolutely correct. I was born in 76 and even then like you said the husband was basically portrayed as an overgrown child, and idiot. Even today its the same thing. I ask younger kids who there hero is and they always say someone that is famous. I've always held my hero as my father. He always took me and my brother everywhere he went. He thought like you do about his role in raising future men. He is the most honest person I know. He puts everyone above himself. He taught me and my brother all the knowledge he could while we were still living at home. Then continues to teach when he can even thought I have my own family. He also brings his teaching to the grandchildren. I wish we had more fathers and grandfathers like you and my father. The world would be a better place.

@TinManKustoms 10 жыл бұрын

Cody you may have got sidetracked on this one and didn't finish but you drove a good out there. My father and grandfather both where givers, providers, teachers and would stand up for what the believed in and would only fight to protect their family or protect somebody from themselves. They played roles that you would rarely see today. If it wasn't for them I to would get lost in the shuffle of the modern father/husband role (go to work make money come home and let the wife do rest) and that's why there's such a high rate of single parents and divorce in our world. In short I'm glad to see another father that shows those qualities and plays an important role in their families lives. Keep these great videos comming. You put quality videos out there that are family oriented content not x-rated garbage.

@wranglerstar 10 жыл бұрын

Thank you TinMan,

@iMatt65 10 жыл бұрын

A lot of great points made. Happy that you posted this for my family to see. Unexpected ending yes, but the content is valuable. Glad that it was not deleted.

@davidhopper5115 10 жыл бұрын

Very well spoken. You hit on one of society's greatest faults in our modern era. It's not just the undermining of the father role but it's the undermining of the family as a whole. I almost believe that the forces that may be want us broken. Broken morale, broken families and broken ideas. This will make our society very easy to control and manipulate.

@kc5wxt 10 жыл бұрын

One of your best videos! Thanks for the words of encouragement and the reminder that we as fathers and husbands need to man up and be the godly men we were called to be.

@SkogKniv 10 жыл бұрын

This whole video is truth...

@jacobs.4075 10 жыл бұрын

I have made similar comments on television turning men into fools. People laugh at Peter Griffin or Homer Simpson, but it isn't funny. This isn't about topical humor, it is about the dumbing down of society's perception of what it is to be a man and father. I am working hard to be a good man that will make a great father some day. Thank you for not deleting this video, the sentiment needs to be heard by everyone.

@stevenarthur2550 8 жыл бұрын

Great video and very enlightened views. I often try to live and raise my family with that same values. I thought it was interesting that you looked at Charles Schwab in the light as almost a model to follow. I am a big fan of old westerns and older shows in general. I grew up watching the Rifleman and have similarly looked at the Lucas McCain character played by Chuck Conners in the same manner. I admire the dynamic that Lucas had with his son and have tried to be that kind of father to my son as well in a way. Just thought I would share. God bless.

@BatmanProject777 10 жыл бұрын

You come across, in most of your videos, as a guy who always has all the details under control during your tasks and labors. I think one of the ways for a father to display honesty and integrity to their children is to admit that even though they have many things figured and under control, some efforts still wind up hitting a wall, like you felt this video did. You showed us this side of you anyway. It was still worth sharing, and had something for many to learn from. Sometimes people seem to think quitting is a bad thing....sometimes, there's wisdom in knowing when something is at an end. A child who sees their father show this humility will have all the trust in the world in that kind of father !