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WE LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

The fact that someone would interpret it it like that reveals more of their character more than yours

❤️❤️hello Liz

Love you Liz!!!!

NO FR

She should do affirmations for divine feminine energy. I want to listen to her voice before i go to sleep.

She's the type get straight to the point with no bullshit lies.

🤣🤣🤣#Sassy Therapist

for realllll

I love it🥹😂

😂

oh honey thats not yelling thats talking positively

Yeah that’s so trueee 😂

😂👍

FR

real

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i wish you the best in your mental health journey❤❤

@@dontask7296 Tysm ❤

Thats brave of you to accept that! Ihope you have a better mental health

Same !

Same especially about the gossiping one ! I never meant it 😭😭 I'm sorry to everyone

SAMEE

That’s not how universal works

Same here!

REALL SHII

IKR

@Milana Kim she meant liz making videos without us having to pay for it

@@user-dg2is4sc8l yeah

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@Milana Kim what commenter meant is some would give a 20 minute video of bs to advertise for overpriced lessons or books or wutv meanwhile liz just posts her things on yt for free for us !

Liz is the best 💟

I’m with you, it’s so hard finding out the “friend” is unavailable in all aspects. But best to just cut ties and move on.

right now im in the same situation and i dont really know what to do since a lot of people are telling me that we should stay friends,should i listen to them? i dont really know lol

@@Carlotta_madia no

same. i didnt realize i can be a pretty draining person around my friends sometimes i feel so bad now

me too

This is real as hell… props

Totally in d same paste... I'd try judging myself more

@@melanymancinicorleone4725 it's okay everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect the fact you recognize ur toxic behaviors and are trying to improve that's good enough

Yes

Yess

Yesss

Thank you, Liz❤

This !!!!

Can relate, hope you're feeling better already

Exactly

*life

so true

Agree

REAL

THANK YOU

You 're a gem ❤️

6:50 favourite!!

Thank you ❤

You’re the best👏👏

Same

no same

Yeah Same to me I even realized my toxic behavior I try to be better

Same pinch

Same

Same here😂 I keep getting called out

I hear the 'oh no honey'

quite late but.. I do too! and it helps so much because now i actually reflect on my problems and seek ways to evolve from my mistakes, wayyy better than what i was before Love ya Liz

thats so funny

Truee 😂

Good for you. "No" is a complete sentence.

What the actual fuck. Can you elaborate on a date under a bridge with strange men

@@pedobearina she said she wanted me to go under a bridge at night with her and two guys we didn't know. She said they wanted to show us a "secret rockwall".

@@bluecollarlit very true. Thank you!

@@Jessica-kf1ck yeah she had other plans.. glad you’re safe

I had a similar situation except my friend was the one with autism. Unfortunately he doesn’t think he’s the problem and refused to change to become a better person so it’s rlly sweet that u know and want to improve.

@@jadesmoben9270 I’m sorry that you went through that. Are you guys no longer friends because of his actions?

Babe it's okay, honestly the fact that you're acknowledging your errors is a step in the right direction, and it's a step A LOT of people don't even think to take, proud of you and I wish you the best on your reflection journey :)))

@@venabeana thank you so much and I wish the same for you!

As someone with Asperger's I can really relate to you

You're an angel

Thank you

Ty and also do yk any other KZfaq channels like hers cuz she rlly helps a lot

Thanks buddy..

The 9th point a guy did this to me twice do you think he could be making stuff up to bring my confidence down? and keep me under his control?

I feel so much joy seeing people that want to improve themselves! You've got this

You got it girl ❤

💯💯💯💯 u r very right. knew someone for over 10 years and they changed just like that. i suffered so much bc of them

THISSS^^^

I needed to hear this!❤

thiss is so true i had a great friend since last 10 years and she changed made new friends literally we studied in school as well as college together but i suffered but now i am over it you are absolutely correct

And don't stay friends with them just for the sake of that you've been their friend for a long time/you don't want to loose a "long time" friend because in the end they will leave you and you'll be left with NOTHING and emotionally drained! It's not too late to leave them and end this abusive cycle, there are people that have been friends with someone for 30 years and have left that person because they know they aren't good for them!

8:40 oh my god girllll I’m getting triggered 😂😂

how did u get new freinds

@@jwgaia nice speech but i didn't inderstand the amount

@@jwgaia I hate how people play mind games loke why can't people be straight up I just wanna have a friendship where I have no guard

I'm not sure. Sometimes she's pretty narcicisst.

@@Patrycja-qe5fj You don’t have to take it that way actually. Being a narcissist VS being confident and knowing your worth are two different things. It’s also true that between this two it’s a very thin line, but I don’t see Liz as a narcissist. She is just giving advise for those who deserve more but don’t know how to put themselves into a healthy position and that’s why these people arrive in abusive relationships of all nature. Take care! ❤️

wake up girl, she's a narcissist psycho

@@teodoraruse6231 she's not confident, she is a toxic narcicisst. You don't have idea what are You talking about.

you go girl slayyy!!!

I’m might gonna do that

Me to

I blocked mine about 3 days ago. Feel bad but this girl is always in crisis, always complaining, blaming, being a victim, not taking care of her kids, deluded, living in fantasy, and draining me during a time of hardship in MY life. Even homeless I am positive, hard working, a good mom, exercise, and stay optimistic/persistent to succeed. Couldn’t take it anymore 🫤

I fr wish I had the ballz to do this . But il too attached ig ?

same here

SAME

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Same

i love how u said thanks to urself as well

Happened to me as well now I have got 0 friends...this whole time i thought myself as the culprit but now i am tired of trying to be a good friend..

So empowering!

@@savemyeyebrows6613 they don't deserve you

I feel like I can't "afford" to cut out this one friend I have who is kinda like this. Especially when we were younger I feel like she would always try to "sabotage" me behind my back and downplay my successes in a way that made me feel the need to also downplay anything good that I had going for me. The problem is, and the reason that I say I can't "afford" to cut her out, is that she's been my "closest" friend for 11 years, and we're also going to be living together with another friend next year... She's gotten a lot better and mature now, but I lowkey feel like I have sm trauma from when we were younger. She'd always say to me that I was her best friend, but still would have a separate group of friends that she didn't want me interacting with, and tell me that they didn't want me there. I think that's a big part of the reason why I'm so insecure today, bc she made me feel like people didn't really want me around. In a way I let her control me, which I feel sorry to my younger self for. But now she's me oldest friend and I don't really have a lot of friends, so I feel like it's dramatic and unrealistic to cut her off completely, but I also don't know how to heal this trauma while living with her. Sorry for dumping all of this on you, you don't have to reply !

@@liii3622 hii thats really relatable to the old me! trust me i was that kinda person who downplay my achievement or dim my light just to make them comfortable. if thats not the first red flag i dont know what. cus true friends should not be bitter about each other happiness for me i realize these people will eventually prevent me from reaching my higher self. the second thing, if she literally sabotage you behind your back thats another red flag too. im afraid she could be the type who spread fake rumors about us (it really happened to me one of these girls sabotage the guy who was interested to me back then). and then to the point she makes you feel insecure abt yourself. thats the biggest red flag imo. i know cutting toxic people is really hard. its actually part of my awakening process. i saw the truth their pattern, cut toxic people and then still heal myself from the trauma and my insecurities (people-pleaser person has the biggest insecurity all time). i know its hard especially if its friend for long period time, please try to set up your boundaries straight in the future, - dont downplay your success and dont dim your light around them (see their reaction) - confront them when you found out they sabotage you (see their reaction) but beware of gaslighting and playing-victim attitude. i believe the universe made us see the pattern of this toxic people for a reason. more than anything i believe that great connection isnt based on how long we know each other. its not about the quantity of time but the quality. i hope you see the light from here💗

taking notes of what she’s saying is such a good thing to do! Definet,y adding to my journal

Fr

I'm the oldest sibling and sound like that haha

Hey can i pls get some advice, i have this “friend” who i used to be friends with but i sensed she was fake, she would look at me weird when im not looking, befriend my friends, do the same things i would, her compliments never sounded genuine, & around guys she acted diff, she’d bodyshame ppl etc. so i told her “were not friends” and was straightforward, she acts fake nice and ppl think shes sweet so she started telling our mutual friends in public that i wasnt friends w her, and just try to get me humiliated. Multiple times. Like make it known to everyone. & she befriended all my friends & acts like a pick me around the guy she thinks i like and whenever i speak to him, she butts in the convo, says something flirty or friendly to him then looks to see my reaction, shes always near me, always listening to my every convo, whenever i say something slightly wrong she jumps in to correct me, on exams/tests she jumps to ask me what i got/what i did & says snarky comments from now and there. Shes been saying shady/backhanded comments for so long and ive just been ignoring her. Atp shes fr talking to herself 💀 when i talk w ppl she tries to get into the convo, i dont talk nor do i even look at her but i can constantly feel her looking, listening and doing everything in her power to know what im doing. Do i just keep doing me? When i do stuff better than her she went “i know, she always does 1 point better than me” in a condescending tone. Am i not right to think shes fake? She tries to maintain a good appearance & puts me down but then shell act nice sometimes then go back to backhanded comments. Ive just been ignoring her

She's totally fake please throw her away. Your comment made me so mad because it blows always my mind whenever I see how fake and bad humans can be, it's so disgusting! And as I can deduce from her actions you explained here, she is definitly jealous of you! People who think that the life of someone else is better, are trying to be like the person to achieve the life the person has because they themselves are unhappy with their own life. You should feel proud because she actually admires you and puts this with negativity and hate because of her jealousy! Talk with her and tell her that her actions r not okay and that she should stopp otherwise you talk with the teacher or do not remain silent and see how she puts you down instead stand up for yourself and defend yourself! You can do what she does to you what is probably not the best or you can just point her away. Next time she interrupts your conversations tell her to go away ( You can say: Sorry but I have to talk with him/her alone) if you want to be gentle what you actually don't have to be but I know it's somtimes hard to sound rude (even tho it's not really rude). If she says that you always have one more point in test than her then say yes I have. Feel proud of it, she should feel bad that she has one point less, what she actually does because otherwise she wouldn't point that out. Overall, she is jealous and that's a fact! I don't know if I could help you but yeah...I hope you are brave enough to show that you are valuable and that not anyone can do with you whatever they want to, wish you a good day, byeee

@@n.p2809 thank you so much, ever since i made that comment shes done so much more & i just reread my comment & realised that despite all i listed, i left out SO much more that she did. Problem is shes in my class & everyone around me has befriended her bc as i said; shes fake nice & people fall for it. Thats why i didnt like her from the beginning cus i saw through her act. Thank u so much though. At this point I’ve been overall just focusing less on her & trying not to let her get to me but its a bit hard. I have stood up for myself a couple times and she seemed intimidated when i called her out in front of people. But nothing’s changed except she doesn’t do stuff as bad as she used to. Shes still salty & has done so much more to the point it would take me too long to list. But yeah, I can’t just call her out cus the stuff she does/says are subtle. Like the kinda stuff that i can’t call her out on cus they’re sneaky. & I can’t tell my friends why I don’t like her bc she befriended them & i would not be surprised if they like her more than me. That’s why I’m waiting for her to do something obvious so i can call her out & people would believe me. The comment that u replied to, i wrote it while i was legit in tears & crying cus I didn’t know what to do. She has stuff going on at home which i feel sorry for her and i can see why it pushes her to act this way but it’s still nowhere near an excuse. So yeah, I can’t tell my teachers or friends but i could subtly try to get advice from them. Thank u so much for ur kind words 😊 i hope u have an amazing day! Ur very kind! I’ll keep trying to be the bigger person !

@@HoneydewHelen please do not waste your time with worthless people like that and do not care about what they do or try to do. focus on yourself and yourself only. that is all i can say

YESS ME TOO

I felt the same way because I am going through the same situation. I got out of it and it really opened my eyes to see how much they switch up and become evil and spread lies. Believe me you’re better off leaving. I feel so much better now and you deserve to feel that way too

@@xxrainbowdash1432xx thank you

This is exactly how I feel too

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It’s nice to see how ppl now watching content that helps them to grow, I am happy that we create content what helps ppl to improve their lives, I am happy to help people

I’m proud of you! I used to have friends like that as well but the truth is what matters is how we feel as individuals regardless of how long we spent trying to be with others. You’re doing the right thing keep going 💕

I am currently also friend with these two girls...we are friends for like 12 years..but now as we are growing up..i kinda feel like they are taking me as granted...i dont know....i feel like okay i might be wrong..maybe its time to feel what my soul is trying to tell me...

It's only when you end it that you start seeing how long they have been mistreating you, at least that was the case for me. The hardest part is that it hurts and that I still felt like I owed them? And that's what can get stuck in your head and make you go back to them. :/

@@Madeliefschram ikr...this is the feeling...i feel like maybe im wrong....then again i feel like there's a wall between us...like as we are growing up now i feel like the bond is not as strong as we thought it is..and you know we rarely talk with each other now..its like we are tired and dont wanna give anymore effort in our friendship..i do understand cz everyone's getting busy with there personal stuffs so...

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Girl i have a similar friend. “BEST FRIEND”It’s the WORST. I literally moved away to a whole different country and NOT ONCE did she ask how I’m doing or how it is there. The only things she talks about is how her laundry detergent gives her Rashes or how she keeps burning her toast in the morning. She knows I’m happy and doing great things, but she is so bitter about it. It’s been months and I’m still waiting for her to ask me how my new life is🤣

@@Happinessiskey1234 that's crazy! These people are everywhere lol. Hope you're happy with your move

@@Happinessiskey1234 don’t bother waiting sounds like she has one unhappy life girlie 😭

@@riri_bbk You are absolutely right love. I’m not holding my breath. Its just so irritating to me. She was crying her eyes out before I moved, and now she doesn’t even seem to care how I’m doing. I am an active poster on social media and she sees I’m doing great things. Of course im not posting for anyones approval, I’m doing it for myself. BUT it’s like she never asked one single question about my move. Ugh. Lol sorry had to relieve some steam

@@Happinessiskey1234 Sis thats a bitter fake and jealous friend! Believe me, she sees and even sneaky watch every post of yours but these kinda friends dont like that their friend doing better than themself. Please stay away from this friend. Or wait a bit for her message if she will send one, if not, give a distance to this friendship.

YES!! EXACTLY!! Thank God someone finally said this Im glad i kicked all the disgusting assholes out of my life and moved on. I'm so much happier now💖💖💖

So proud for you for doing this! I know exactly how you feel cuz Im a giver too but when Im going through a hard time no one’s there. And you end up drained and depleted. 😔

@@zara7276 thank you so much! I feel you 100% it’s kind of like a codependency thing. In the beginning you both are there for eachother and it’s genuine, but once you try to get your life together and realize that it’s not healthy for either of you, that person wants to make you feel bad for putting yourself first. I know I made the right decision and I shouldn’t be second guessing myself. It’s okay to feel scared of the unknown especially when you’ve really only had that one person you’d talk to constantly. I don’t know you personally but just know you will find your people! People are naturally drawn to people with positive energy and when you’re a genuine sweet person you will attract people who love and cherish you 💗 even if it takes time they WILL come. I hope your life is full of happiness and love :)

that's another point liz didn't mention these snakes will call your mom and try to ruin your most precious relationship my crazy toxic ex-wife did this three times already

@@denisblack9897 FR!? Like dude why bring my mom into this? This is between us? We are grown we should be able to handle situations like ADULTS. Which is also crazy because I’m younger than the girl. Then my mom will make me feel bad even though SHE was the one who told me the person was toxic and I didn’t need to be around them and to “love them from a distance”. Humans are so complex and confusing…

so proud of you for doing that!! right now I have the same situation with my best friend who is my cousin too I know she is really manipulative and I'm scared to cut her off, I know she will spread every single thing about me and make me look like the villain but I'm trying my best and hopefully, I will cut her off soon.

How did you do it? im afraid of dropping my toxic friends cause if i leave them i will be alone in class and whole school... Really idk how to do sorry for disturbing you😕

​@@hers0uls Hi ,same here I litteraly dropped all of my old friends and sat somewhere else because energy was too draining And i think you should stay with them for a temporary and also make new contacts with other people

@@hers0uls you should rather be alone, than to be with people who make you feel worse than you are. also , you can always always find better friends

@@anujingooa694 I think no one else in class to contact but tysm for the advice I will try!!💌 I will try to be as distant as possible because they really make me feel worthless and it feels awful, It's even worse that I don't have any other friends...

@@btluvz2920 yes, they really make me feel worthless and insignificant.. Even though I pretend not to be sad, everything they say is running in my head and I get depressed. Ik that the only way to get rid of them is to cut off communication with them, but it's really hard for me, we sit in the same row and we are in the same class. Actually I'm afraid of being alone. I will try that you said and tysm for the advice!!😭💕💕

Same

i can relate to that so much

Me too

Me too

same

not related, but I rlly like your vil pfp! ^^

Awww this comment is so sweet and wholesome! Ty !!!

Yeah I had a friend like this lol he told me that all these people were talking bad about me but were still friends with them

I hope you’ll be ok! You’ve got this :)

That isn't your friend, they are just someone you live with. NO friend would leave their friend on their own during such a serious time. I'm sorry you didn't have their support, I'll be your friend, you need to vent or anything hmu

I hope you find true friends

what the hell i hope you’re okay. pls don’t try that again. if u want someone to talk to i can give you my ig.

Relatable

All support for you Continue on the path to success Don't wait behind I wish we could be friends

Same

do u still talk to her? what happened im goin thru the same thing and im not sure if i can drop her

Same

yes as u should! i have this one friend who i’m close with but she drains my energy and just brings bad vibes so i’m just trying to distance myself