Im getting bullied in middle school. I cry everyday. People always look at me and talk about me. Even the teachers. They call me slow and dumb beause I dont get it like the other kids. Life is hard.

these bullies kept throwing an orange at me and my friends and they kept saying “could you give us back the orange please” and i was like: “if yOU’RE SO EMotIONALLY ATTACHED TO thAT ORangE THEN STOP THRowING IT” *i felt so proud. can i get a lil appreciation here. please.*

As I saw this I stared crying. RN, I was bullied for speaking good English in our groupchat ( with some classmates) and they all started calling me gay . So when I tried too stand up for myself, they said they don't care. Tells me that I'm too proud that I speak English. *Imagine being bullied for speaking good English*

My dad told me that there’s always gonna be bullies in life no matter where you go or where you are

Kid: *Getting bullied* Teacher: Ok Kid: *eating gum* Teacher: HEY!

Whoever is watching this is probably needing help for bullies so... Lemme just say. You are beautiful. You are awesome. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

I'm not bullied at school but I have no friends in my class, and I'm always stuck in this situation. I hate it everytime when teachers tells us to "choose a partner to work with" or "work in groups". And everytime when my teacher tells us students to do this, I often be the last one to be in a group. Then when I'm the last one to be in a group, other students laughed at me because I have no one to work with. Then the teacher put me in a group. However, the teacher often put me in a group with girls in it or tell me to work with the teacher, and I often get laughed at by other students because I have to work with someone that doesn't relate to me. And other students keeps looking at me because I'm either working with girls or I'm working with the teacher. The other boy students never choose me to work with them because they just doesn't like me to work with them or they think I'm not good enough. Life is so hard in this kind of problem 😥😥😥 Who else is also stuck in this situation?

In Singapore, bullies were forced to sent out of the school if teacher's see them bully other people. Then when the bullies got sent out of the school, the principal sends their parents an email saying that your child can't come to this school anymore because he/she bullies other people. This is why not even a single student in Singapore would bully other people because they're scared of getting sent out of the school and get grounded by their parents because of bullying other students at school.

Imagine a world where nobody bullied you. A world where you can live without constant fear.

I can't build an army bc most of the boys in my grade bullies me all day and if I build an army of girls they are going to call me ***kboy. That's what I don't like about school. Like this comment if you are bullied.

Just got cyberbullied a while ago, and I just told her to “stop normalizing bullying”. Eventually the one who bullied me was silent for a bit and tried to make excuses that she wasn’t bullying. I’m really grateful that two girls stood up for me 🤧

Bully: near kills a kid School: ok cool mayn Kid: fights back School: *AAAAYYYYYY NOT COOL MAYN*

Everyone who is getting bullied just know...... I would not be worried if I were you because 1st of all they are just jealous of you, and 2nd of all when ur older u will get an awesome job but the bully will cleaning ur car! Like if You have ever gotten bullied!!!

Okay here's my story: So about a year ago I had great friends. I was able to be myself with them and I had always so much fun. And then my mom told me that we are moving to a new city and I had to go to a new school. It all started okay. I didn't really have friends in my class but I went to drawing club and I got friends from there. (However they were all on different classes.) So back to my own class, I noticed that there was one person in our class who caught my attention. He was kind of the "class clown". He was popular and talked all the time. He made jokes about the other classmates and talked about subjects that were interesting and relatable for me. And he wasn't dumb either. But I was too shy to talk to him. Fast forward few months I wanted to join this one group of friends in my class. It had open and fun people and the class clown was in it too. Most of the people accepted me in the group really fast and I hanged with then often. But I still couldn't be myself and I often had to pretend to be someone else. And I think the class clown noticed this. I rarely talked with him until he one day just mentioned how I need to pretend to impress the other guys. And it really hit me. It's just something I'm really insecure about and the way he said sounded like he hated me. And it didn't take long until he started bullying me. He and some of his other friends started bashing and insulting me and made bad jokes about me. Well, he's friends are dumb and they are easy to roast or you can just see how insecure they actually are. But he, he is smart and vicious. And he really knows what to say, cause it's just hard to say anything against it and he points outs things that actually are wrong with me. So this continued for the whole spring season until school ended. He probably thinks his jokes are hilarious and he doesn't care a bit about other peoples feelings. I have never hated anyone else in my life so much as I hate him. He just ruins my life... Well, thank you for anyone who read all of that. (If anyone even did) It means a lot to me :) UPDATE: So apparently this comment that I left here almost 2 years ago has blown up without me even noticing. Thank you everyone so much for the support 💖. I tought would be a good time to update. So all that bullying happened in middle school. I was 14-15 around that time. Right now I'm 16 and I'm a freshman in high school. Luckily for me that bastard class clown and his bully friends went to a different high school than me. That was already lucky enough for me but something even better happened... I met my new two best friends! They are both one of the nicest people I have ever met. They are both very emotionally intelligent, smart and kind and we share a lot of similar interests. I love both of them from the bottom of my heart. I'm so glad I got to meet them. So basically what I'm trying to say is... don't give up! Things might be hard right now but I'm sure sometimes in the future everything will get better. I know some people have suffered far longer than I have. I still believe you can make it. I believe in you. Just one more day, one more week, one more month, one more year You can do it!

Not listening to the bully makes the problem WORSE. He/She will KEEP doing it and because you ignore it, it builds up more and more ANGER inside of you. I tried this and this what I’m describing happened to me. I just got frustrated and it ended up making me more sad then I already was by not fixing the problem.

Bully: punches me when teacher is literally looking at me Teacher: "meh" Me: Punches the bully back Teacher: "HeY yOuR'rE gOiNg dEtEnTiOn!"

I don't get bullied often,but still they sometimes come at me.I ignore them 3 times.And When they TOUCH me,they're litteraly DEAD.

I was recently bullied by 6 other students I felt so depressed and sad. I was bullied because of my weight and people found it easy to pick on me. Being bullied isn't fun at all.. but then I realised that other people we're getting bullied too so I decided to get to know them better so that I wouldn't be bullied alone at least I had a friend. I really really hated the bully and I felt like killing myself at one point but with the help of my family I grew stronger and fought back. I was bullied for a very long time but it's okay because km used to it now. Recently I found out why I was being bullied. I was bullied because the people that bullied me had ADHD (Attention Deficit Hiperactive Disorder ) and that meant that they can't sit still they just have to bother someone . So I just didn't care and fought back. I'm still a little depressed now but I'm happy that I have my family to help me with whatever problems I face. Some people can relate to me and if you're getting bullied just remember to stay strong and remember that you're beautiful. :)

I’ve been bullied as an adult for having my disability, I fought back and the other person was SO scared of me, he doesn’t mess with me anymore.

Bullies: *Takes my pen* All of my best friend: "Allow us to introduce ourselves"

even my friends are just staring at me when im getting bullied, what’s the point anyways I’m not even good at anything.. this is hopeless, the bully got an whole army while im just a piece of loaf there.. 😞

When I was in middle school, I had a really obvious physical disability. I had to have both of my legs broken and reset to fix it. My peers were relentless. It wasn't so much pushing, shoving, name calling, as much as ignorance. "Why do you walk so slow?" "You don't seem to need those crutches." "You just want attention." Sometimes they would steal my crutches. It was terrible, and it didn't help that I was super underweight. Flash forward to now. I'm in college, and I'm 5'10 with perfectly straight beautiful legs. I found out I'm extroverted, and I made it to college. I graduate in about a years time. My bullies? They are still stuck in that same town working at fast food places. Some outgrew it though. It really does get better, people make fun of things that they can't understand.

I had a friend that got bullied by the whole class then o decided to be her friend. We were like we known each other for so long and followed each other in almost every social media tik tok insta snap messages and more. And when we turned middle school I saw a new girl I decided to be her friend to and we followed each other in social media too but the day that I thought will never happen in a million years came. They both started being popular and leaving me alone and they blocked me everywhere and they always come to my table at recess and say mean bad words about me and they took my bff since kindergarten with them and she hated me. Everyday I come back from school crying and asking my mom to go to another school. They told high school and all middle school that I’m a brat and now everyone is against me accept my family😩

For everyone who was bullied or if someone ever said a rude comment to you, they are probably going through something themselves so they try to drag u down with them. You are beautiful person, you do you as long as you keep your virtues and stay true to urself. Surround yourself with those that care for you. You got this, this too shall pass and I believe in you!!!

I've been bullied cause I have ADHD but I have a army of best friends and I love all of them

I think you should just learn a deadly technique like kicking their wisdom teeth

Alright, I’m gonna tell a story that has sweet revenge just Imprinted into it. So my bully called me ugly and harassed me, so I decided to write all of it down in detail when I was telling it to the office. He got detention for a week. We’re also getting online classes, and when my presentation got the best, and when I had done my assignments first, on that conference call I saw his face in the cam. He had this look of shock on his face. Honestly, that made my day.

When a bully picks on you the best thing to do is FIGHT back. A bully doesn't want to fight. A bully wants you to be passive. Never depend on anyone to help you.

The problem is I don't really have a friend... one time a bully called me crap and my friend just laughed and went on the bully side. My teacher doesn't do anything either. My dad doesn't care and my mom is busy with work. I hate life. :/

I actually cried watching this. I've spent 8 years of my school days being bullied. But i thought it was my problem and blamed everything on my fat shitty body. Then after watching this video I realized the meaning of the bully. Thanks and I'll try to live like a lively student this year. Best wishes to people like me. You're awesome.

The worst advice you'll ever get!! I told him that it's his fault that he bullies me and he raged even more. I played dead but he's a medical student and knows the symptoms of death and life... and the only social club in my school is for cheerleaders (girls) now i'm being bullied even more!!!

You know, the more confidence you have the weaker the bullies get. I'm getting bullied right now and I just slap him back. Fair to me! 😀

I literally was sharpening my pencils and these group of wannabes were giggling. like wtf?

I was being bullied by kids younger then me last year, and this year I’m changing that, anyone who messes with me I’m kicking their ass, because I’ve tried all of these things

I watched this video because recently at my new school there is this kid who just started to hate me, they would target me in gym class, talk bad things about me behind my back, call me bad names and I think it’s about to get worse, so thank you for posting this

It’s so hard to ignore them when whatever you do they make fun of you😭

I feel like shit because our teachers put us in seating plans in classes. And in basically all of them I sit next to the 'popular' kid. So when the teachers ask us to talk to each other I can't because they're talking to their friends across the classroom. So I'm just awkwardly sat there doing nothing.

I am being bullied. I cry a lot. It have been going on for months. I am in 8th grade and it's really hard for me.

So the dislikes of this video are from the bullies?

*somebody kicking the crap out of you, for no reason* Teachers: Me: *wears hood* Teacher: *GO TO THE OFFICE, NOW!*

What I said to my bully: I may not be the smartest person in the entire class but that gives you no reason for you to pick on me. The fact that I got a higher grade than you isn't a miracle, it's because I actually tried. You may look at me as if in that random kid in the class who only does sports but never hands in his homework but you don't know what it's like to be me. So if I "miraculously" get a good grade compare yourself with yourself, not with me.

Bully: give me your money! Me: sorry. I ain't got no money Bully: don't be funny Me: i'm not trying to be funny, but i left it all at home today Bully: you idiot Me: you can call me what you wanna, i ain't giving you a dollar this time i ain't gonna run away Bully: *beats up* Me: you may knock me down. You may knock me down. But i will get back up again. Bully: you better bring your money tomorrow Me: you can call it how you wanna. I ain't giving you a dollar. This time i ain't gonna run away... This time

I'm not bullied at school anymore, I used to get bullied. And right now the thing I'm stuck on is: I keep worrying about how people bullied me in the past. I try my best to forget what my bullied did to me in the past but I still can't get it out my head. I tried not to get revenge on him, but I keep thinking about seeking revenge on him on what he did to me in the past

I'm getting bullied right now in my school and the teachers don't really care, only one does. The biggest problem though is that I wanna defend myself but when I do that apparently I'm the bad person that's being rude. I just don't understand how basically no-one understands me. I just got bullied today and it's the first day after the holidays.

The thing is, I can't move away from my bully, because the teacher moved him to the back of the classroom. Next to me☹️

Bullies : beating up a kid Teacher : ignores Me : fighting back Teacher : STOPMAUAHRHAHAHAHAHFIQHAHAHAHAHHAHA

I see being bullied as my character development. The thought helps me cope.

Best solution is that told the bully boldly that you don't like his behavior. Zayda daar lage toh dil par patthar rakh kar bolo

I had this friend who stabbed me in the back and told everyone at our new school fake rumors and lies and so now I'm getting bullied by a lot of people it started like a week ago....and now next year I'm most likely am going to the same school as all of them which is high school...

I'm strongest in my class, but l have never bullied anyone.

Fight back even if they beat you, don’t stop fighting

Bullying needs to stop, Stand up for yourself, Always be kind and respectful to other people. ☺️🙏🏼 Bullying is unacceptable 😡

kid:am getting bullied. School:*does nothing*. kid:*gets in fight*.School:YOUR EXPELLED

the most simple thing is to do is to just say "no u" at the bully every time he/she verbally bullies you

Something i hate is when someone doesnt stand up for themselves. Unless youre Out numbered by age, or people. Stand up for yourself dont be weak

Didn't work for me so I decided to make his life miserable then he feared me

Worst form of bullying is bullying someone who may be ashamed of something they struggle with

My son and I just watch this video because he was being bullied by three boys in the neighborhood. They were throwing dirt on him calling him names and making him touch inappropriate stuff. This really helped us. Thank you for sharing.

Has anyone been in this kind of bullying trap before. Where someone take your stuff when you are not looking or that you didn't notice and gave it back to you when you noticed your stuff was gone. Because I have been in this situation before

I used to get bullied. A LOT. Now those people are trying to be my friends. I was really fat and was picked on for it. I went to the gym lost weight and started boxing. I began to be extra nice to people and met a new friend group. This helped me a lot and it stopped. There are a few but they won’t do anything. What I can say is it WILL GET BETTER.

You know how I got rid of my bully I kicked his ass literally

i'm emotionally bullied. they keep ignoring my existence in the class and crowd

I’m here since today we had a lesson about bullying and the teacher asked if anyone was/is bullied. This one girl (lets call her Mary) raised up her hand and then said that she STILL is getting bullied, manipulated by a girl that wasn’t at school today (Let’s call the bully.. Mia) Mary also said that she had sleep problems and that she got a lot of anxiety when it started. When i heard that she got manipulated & bullied by someone that’s in our class I knew it was about Mia. Later, I noticed that Mary started crying. She went to the bathroom for like 3/4 minutes. A bit later it’s time to go home. I came up to Mary and asked her if she wanted to go with me to the principal. Mary replied that she already did that and that the principal didn’t do ANYTHING. So i just decided that I’ll go by myself once.

Back in middle ,I broke the bullies arms and legs which disabled him for a few months. The principle didn’t expel me and told me that “I did what I could” and also told me that he also hated that kid, so he just suspended me for a few days

Guess what I've been bullied in school And now I'm being bullied at work

Im being bullied and i told my mom and we talked to the counselor and the counselor talked to the girl and her friends that wanted to fight me and bully me and the girls didn't care 😞

From my eleven years experience bullies should not have the right to exist

Bullying has been going on for years. Just tell yourself they have problems, not you. Ignore them and try and remember you are a good person they aren’t. Schools have never cared about ppl getting bullied in my opinion. I was called many names in school but I didn’t let them get the best of me. I ignored them and focused on my life not their life and their problems.

I was personally bullied for my entire high school life and I can say that the only way to permanently beat bully is to fight them. Bullies are the kind of people who don't care about getting in trouble and they see ignoring and kindness as weakness. If they know they're going to get a knee to the face and a punch to the ribs every time they bother you, they're not going to do it very much. BTW when I was being bullied I was 4ft 10 to 5ft 6 and my bully was over 6ft but I still fought back. What's your excuse?

I started getting bullied yesterday at 6th grade. And my bully made fun of my hair (it was down and a little fluffy) he said that it looks like they are eggs on my hair. And the teacher said we needed to read a book with a partner or by yourself on the computers. And my bully made fun of me because I was alone and he said I was sad (he said it to his friends behind me ) (bully sits next to me) I wanted to work alone anyways. He said he wanted to hit me in the face and he told me more things but I can't remember. I wanted to cry SOOOO bad but I tried so hard to hold it and it's hard. I had butterflys on my stomach all day at school. It's morning and I'm suppose to go to school in an hour 😭😖😞😢😢😢😭

The bullying problem is made worse by not teaching kids to stand up. My son was bullied until he hit his bully in the nose, he never had any bullying problems after that. Sometimes you need to fight to be a man.

I’m just so sad bc I love swimming but people in my group make jokes and talk about me, so I don’t talk anymore and they r always like why don’t u talk it just makes we wanna quit but it’s something I love it so much.😭

Thank you very much. It so helpful for me who getting bullied at school. 😄

When somone gosips about me my friends and i always say "im famous " 👌 works 100%

I remember being bullied so bad to 5th-7th grade, it changed me as a person, I can never go out cause I’m scared my bullies will be out there (I live in a really small town) and now I’m very introverted and quiet cause of them, I hated going to school everyday, I would get made fun of for my height, clothes, and many more, and sexually harassed! I still get flashbacks to this day. Even nightmares sometimes.

Ignoring your bully is the worst thing to do, the bullying will still continue because you are not doing anything about it, I ignored my bullies back in 4th grade, I regret it because I get annoyed when I look back at it

Yeahhh I was bullied in every single grade.

Look, this is not stopping the widespread bullying, this is just telling us how to deal with bullying.....

Everytime I ignore the bully. I get stuff thrown at me, I get insulted, they don’t dare if I don’t give a reaction. They just like the fact they hurt someone. They feel proud of themselves by knowing the fact they make my life a living hell with a reaction or not.

I was bullied at school, but over the years me and the bully became friends but then I just became more like him, i bullied this kid who was fat, and made fun of him for being so big. I i didn't realize what i was doing, day after day me and my friends tormented him. But he just ignored us. Which really got us more angry, he would hang out with the girls(because no other boys liked him). months passed by and then we gave up on bullying him, and then something shocking happened. He asked us if we could be friends, and so we did. To this day he is my best friend and i regret everything. Stood up for him when others treated him unfairly. We stood by each others side and never left. Thanks for reading.❤️❤️

last resort:fight back

We're so sorry that's happened to you. Like the video says, none of what's happening is your fault. Look for people who will stand by you, and ignore what the others say, because your friends know how great you are. And stay as far away from bullies as possible! Hope this helps!

In the majority of situations bullies are simply people trying to take back power that was taken from them at somepoint through a perceived weaker target. You deal with this in almost every occurrence through the only language they understand - by assertively standing up for yourself or if needs be physical violence (especially the latter in a school setting).

I can never raise my hand because every time I get something wrong everyone laughs it just puts my confidence down 😢

I can do it 😊

I have a few tips for guys. I've been bullied my whole life I've tried to avoid run away and every other peacefully way possible. But over time I got fed up with it I was being bullied by a 6'2 football player I'm only 5'4. But I figured out a few things and ultimately I fought him and won. Tip number 1 buy a mouth guard this will come in handy if a bully tries to get tough just keep it in ur pocket and when u need it pull it out. Tip number 2 work on ur punching power you can do this by doing clap push ups. And last but not leat catch them off guard if they call you out in front of a lot of people sucker punch them and don't stop till they start to cry I mean if your gonna get in trouble for a fight might as well go all out

Words cannot make you feel anything unless you react to them.

I say don’t have any friends be by yourself and with your family or have a friend that you can trust but only have 1 friend

In the past, I was bullied, but a few years later when I moved to a new school-I became one myself. This is something I am not proud of, but luckly for me and the kid I bullied, I stopped.Now, I can tell you a few things about bullies: -Ignoring the bully will NOT HELP. The only reason that teachers and other adults are telling you this is for them to not be have to take care of the bully, it is an exuse for them doing NOTHING, so if you got bullied they will be able to say that it is YOUR FAULT for not ignoring hard enought. -The bully is, in fact, only when level stronger/popular than you, and he is bullying you cuz he dont want the others to find that out.When I was a bully I tried to repress that, but the bully is afraid that everyone else will find that out. -You might be "inviting" the bully to hurt you, this might sound like something that a bully tells himself to feel better, but I can tell for sure that when I got bullied I had a big part in that, teasing the bullies and later telling myself I did nothing. Sometimes bullying is a very not effective way to punish someone for annoying the bully. This is not your fault! Dont feel like you are the reason! But you might be able to end this by changing a part of your behavior. -As a last resort, fighting back might help, but only as a last resort. The adults say that violence doesnt solve anything, and that is true, unless this is litirally your last resort. If you tried everything and nothing worked: you have my blessing, learn how to fight, work out and beat the bully, but if you do this, make sure you are not starting to bully others, like I did. -If and when the bully stopped, he will probably realise that he hurt you and a ashamed like I am today, dont try to avange or anything. A few monthes after I had to fight some of the kids who bullied my, some of them seemed to forget that they ever bullied me. The avrage former bully would like to forget and repress the horrible things he did, aceept that. I honestly hope that this will help at least one bullied kid, or make a bully think and understand that he must stop. I dont like asking for likes of comments, but I will make an exeption this time: please like this comment, so other people could read and learn!

One thing you do Punch them in their face repeatedly

a sophomore rlly called me weird when i just felt awkward and didn’t wanna anger him , just wanna change classes to avoid him as a whole for myself. just so i can feel better and not overthink everything.

If u complain to the teacher about this...he or she would completely ignore and ask you to grow up .....

I'm being bullied 😭😪

First of all, NEVER listen to those people. Try ignoring them, because they're trying to get a reaction out of you. If you don't give them any attention, they'll be less interested in bothering you. And don't be afraid to tell an adult that you trust!

I’m a 7th grade girl. I’ve been bullied all my life. I left my old school in 4th grade for a catholic school that we thought would be better. This one girl in my class has been rude and mean for years. It’s known through the school. Since I joined in 5th grade, a lot of people were going to join next year. Luckily, one of my old best friends came. We are so much alike and he knows me. This year, this girl started going off. She’s started to get sexual with it now. I told my mom and were getting it worked out with my teacher and principal. Just remember, it’s not you fault. And if you see this girl, you should stop

I wish I wasn’t getting bullied this year at my high school, I’ve been bullied since I was in 1st grade and today I was crying because I couldn’t take it anymore and someone took a picture of me crying and pointed and laughed, it was because I was crying so much to the point where everyone snicker and laughed at me, and now I’m thinking of avoiding others so I won’t get bullied anymore but that is just gonna cause more attention, so I don’t know what else to do, but try to ignore bullies

If someone punches you: Lay down and act like you are unconscious, senseless. Then they might think that "oh no, what have i DONE??!!!" If they start kicking you after that: Stand up and run away if you are weak. If you are strong then fight him/her back. But don't act senseless if you can judo, aikido or karate etc. Just fight him back like a man!!! Like my dad

What if your bully is your friend

My dad sent me this because i get bullied everyday in 7th grade, middle school is one of the most hardest years of middle school, this video is helping me, thank you❤️

I want to know the "why." They only bully you if they feel threatened by you because: you are beautiful (they are not), you are smart (they are not), you are interesting (they are not), you are welcoming (they are not), their friends like you better (than them), you are nicer (they are not), and more. You are something they arent't and they are threatened by it. that's why. Know this and move forward.