We Answer Viewer Questions about Food, Family, and Frugality

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3 жыл бұрын

It's time for a new Q & A video, where we answer viewer questions and give you insights into our daily lives. This edition centers around Hope's perspectives on how we met and dated. Then, we answer viewer questions about food, family, and frugality. We talk about how we went vegan, chose to homeschool our children, celebrate the holidays on a budget, and more!
You'll learn how to save more money and spend less, what extreme frugality looks like on a daily basis, and frugal tricks, tips, and hacks to make your life easier.
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@AndreeaJoAnn Жыл бұрын

My dear Hope and Larry! Your video made me cry....the love and respect that you have for each other, the friendship between you, your family is beautiful. I am a younger viewer and always when I think of you, I think of you as my parents that teach me how to live a meaningful life. I am grateful that you have decided to start KZfaq and therefore being able to reach people far away from you. I live in Germany but I am originally from Romania so...really far away from you. Anyway, you are part of my everyday life. I always put your videos on when I cook, clean or do other chores, when I do research about finance/budgeting or when I want to enjoy a lovely evening after work. You really are such a comforting thing for me! Anyway, sending all my love! /Andrea

@UndertheMedian Жыл бұрын

Andrea, we are so honored to be a part of your life. We're grateful to have you as part of the Under the Median family.

@lindawinters6285 Жыл бұрын

“Love letters in the mail” Is the MOST ROMANTIC Gesture a man can do! God bless! Lyn W

@lisaward3890 2 жыл бұрын

I do not know if you go back and read late coming comments but here goes: we are vegetarian/vegan. We have given up eating beef,pork,dairy cheese,dairy butter! 👍my husband is 63 and his doctor told him after pulmonary testing that he has the heart beat of a 30 year old. We have been on our eating habit for 4 years now!

@maryannehusar8222 3 жыл бұрын

Hope, I think that color lipstick is flattering on you!

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Mary Anne. I found it in my lipstick stash. I hadn't worn it in a long time.

@dawncierelli1510 Жыл бұрын

being a whole food plant-based person is probably the best thing that I ever did and I so agree with you hope

@katsfarm2062 3 жыл бұрын

I got laid off last year so I learned I can draw social security off my husband due to he passed away and I never remarried. So I am letting my social security grow while I draw his. I tried to find another job but haven't been able to get one. I'm so glad I can draw this for my income right now.

@karajelu 3 жыл бұрын

My goodness, you're beginning to feel like part of my friend circle here (and I'm 4000 miles away). I so admire your marriage (that last presentation of the Norman Rockwell-painting almost had me in tears) and the way you have balanced helping your sons out financially with letting them know that you trusted them to meet their own responsibilities (which undoubtedly has instilled self confidence in them). Much love and respect from Denmark.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Katrine, we're so happy that you are with us and a part of our family. Thank you for your kind words.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Katrine. You make these videos worthwhile.

@florence4845 Жыл бұрын

(in my opinion) The greatest gift a parent can give their children is to be home to guide them. Money is less important by far...

@createdbyzette7397 3 жыл бұрын

One of my fav couple!

@zazicool6275 3 жыл бұрын

You are so fortunate to have found one another.💕

@bunny_smith 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your veganism. I am coming up on my 17 year anniversary and I can tell you it changed my health as well. It's just incredible what a difference it makes to every aspect of your life. And of course, the animals are very grateful too!

@TheAberrantGardener 3 жыл бұрын

That's a great way to handle hobby items! I planned to do something similar with our children. Unless the hobby involves certain important skills that I can get behind financing 100% (such as raising livestock, growing food, building furniture/constructing small shelters, sewing/designing clothing, etc.) Things that are incredibly valuable!

@kerissavillegas3047 2 жыл бұрын

There was this boy that came over to play basketball with my son and my daughter was only 13 and as I was washing dishes she said to me mom when I grow up iam going to marry that boy and shure enough at 18 she married him 22 years later there still together and have 3 boys and 1 girl a beautiful family ♡ it's funny what we know when we meet the right one ♡♡

@tlovesjesus6788 3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry I parted with some of my material. We no longer rent our basement and now I have lots of room to sew. I hope someone else is putting it to good use. I went a little too crazy with the "minimalism" thing. I personally think it's the latest fad. Now I am sorry I let some things go. For me a more balanced approach works. As long as I am not a hoarder and I can clean my house without frustration, I am keeping what my husband and I enjoy. I tried to "downsize" my husbands tools, let's just say, I was politely told "hands off". Lol

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

LOL! We tell our boys the key to a happy marriage is a home office with a door. Larry has an office in the basement and it is very crowded. But, all I need to do is close the door and I'm a happy camper.

@TheAberrantGardener 3 жыл бұрын

I keep thinking about purging stuff but I can't bring myself to do it 😅😂 Especially after how things went in 2020! I have a lot of bulk things that I've bought at a super cheap price, that I will eventually need. An example would be two cases of vinyl gloves that I bought for $1 each just today (was $8 each). I use these for multiple purposes, including when medicating critters, assisting hatches, and when processing hot peppers. So, I bought a good little stock so I don't have to buy them for a few years! The thought of becoming a minimalist sounds great, but I think I'd rather just build an entire building for everything 😂 💜

@tlovesjesus6788 3 жыл бұрын

That is good advice for your boys Hope, I will use it for my daughters. And Frugal Gardening Momma it sounds like you are on some land so you need stuff, great deals! 🇨🇦

@cindyc4089 2 жыл бұрын

I am a newly retired single women and I just found you guys. I own my home which is small but lovely. I tend to be minimal. Like Larry I love the tiny home shows. I would not want to live in one but a small home and I get lots of great ideas. I am so excited to watch ALL your videos. Thank you

@chanrenee375 Жыл бұрын

It's such a beautiful love story. I love how your mother prayed for you and your siblings' spouses. Seeking God for these matters is truly the answer.

@SauerPatchGardening 2 жыл бұрын

I incorporated a gift system for my grandkids, that I read somewhere that I can't remember now, but, it goes like this - Something you want, Something you need, Something to wear, and Something to read. So each child gets 4 gifts. And that's all. And they know and enjoy it. Its special for each one.

@normanschranz4599 3 жыл бұрын

Hello my dear friends, not only did my father have a Chevy citation, and the Chevy Chevette. But mom had the Ford Maverick. Have an amazing day you guys love you

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

How about that, Norman! Those were all fun cars. The Citation had lots of cargo room in it and we loved our Chevettes. I had two Mavericks and Hope drove one to school.

@dorawedlock3969 3 жыл бұрын

30 some years ago my son in law met my daughter at a Christian concert. Next morning told his dad he met the girl he was going to marry. He asked her name. My son in law to be pulled out his wallet and looked because he didn't remember! She says she played hard to get and didn't say yes until the 3rd date. 30+ years and still crazy about each other.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

I love that story!!

@heather333 Жыл бұрын

You two, and your family, give me hope for the future.

@charleneknottsrubini2220 3 жыл бұрын

I love that you have so many videos from your past

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Charlene. I treasure those tapes now. They are a product of tapes we sent back and forth to out of state friends.

@lisaward3890 2 жыл бұрын

We thought having a good solid foundation that came from opening our school day with reading of Gods word and a daily bread study guide to put what we read into perspective!

@shabbyshopper Жыл бұрын

Lifelong homeschooler here too - I’m finding it heart breaking getting rid of our book collection/supplies. My youngest is just a different learner, but it’s all the sentimental attachment & memories. I hear you!! ❤ This April my son is traveling a month with his grandparents so I’m doing that job while he’s gone.

@cgt6497 3 жыл бұрын

I love you two! You have such great tips! I loved your family and dating stories. I've been exploring a vegan lifestyle for health reasons, so thank you for the cookbook tips. I'm pretty frugal, and you've helped me up my game, but I'm not sure I can agree that having a dog is frugal. Worth it, but not so frugal. I LOVE my dog, a chocolate lab named Henry (in Canada we have a chocolate bar called Oh Henry!, so when he does something wrong, you say, "Oh Henry!" lol). He is getting old now -12 1/2 years - and I can't help but do whatever I can to make him comfortable, because he deserves it. His pain meds cost $120 per month, and his food costs $150. (That's Canadian.) But, he has done so much to enrich my life, I think he deserves a budget that's about three times what mine is!! Obviously, I side with Larry that sometimes it's worth it to fit a pet into a tight budget. But it's not really frugal. - Christa

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

I love the Oh, Henry story! He sounds like a wonderful companion. You're right, they can get expensive especially as they age, but dogs are such a wonderful addition to the family.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

There is more vintage footage in this program. I found some in answer to viewer's questions and supplied some to augment Hope's side of the story.

@kaiziah2004 3 жыл бұрын

Love the vintage footage so much!

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

@@kaiziah2004 - so glad you do!

@AEvans36977 3 жыл бұрын

I think you gave great answers to the viewer questions, esp the ones regarding homeschooling. I believe your children are better off having done so because honestly, our curriculum education-wise in this country has been lacking for decades. The technology has far outpaced the curriculums in our schools. Every year this country graduates thousands of kids who leave school with an education deficit. Most kids are not going to go to college and will likely just end up in low-wage service jobs. I'm glad to see someone who really appreciates the value of education and cares enough about their children to instill that same value. Kudos to you both🙂 Homeschooling does require a lot of discipline and focus that not everyone has. I know of someone whose oldest son did not graduate on time because she was lacking in those things.

@Sheila-ru1iu 3 жыл бұрын

You folks just make my day!! 💜

@kathiemott3988 3 жыл бұрын

We don't observe Christmas, but we do observe Hannukah. About the only thing extra I usually get is Channukkah (there is no wrong way to spell it) candles, jelly filled donuts, and extra potatoes and eggs for the latkes. I use ground flaxseed in place of the eggs in my latkes. Until I can find a recipe for plant based donuts, those are only for my husband and son. We don't do gifts as that wasn't done at the time the events were happening. When the Macabees got the Temple in Jerusalem back for the Jewish people, that is when all of Jerusalem was lit up with candles. The original Festival of Lights, celebrating the freedom from being annihilated.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for telling me that the spelling is interchangeable. We have some Jewish friends and when I wish them Happy Hannukah I'm always afraid I will spell it wrong. One year I sent them physical cards. I figured whatever way the card company spelled it was probably right. LOL!

@kathiemott3988 3 жыл бұрын

@@UndertheMedian We had actually researched the spelling years ago and that is when we found out that there is a minimum of at least fifteen different ways to spell Khanukka.

@MK7x77 11 ай бұрын

I want what you have when I grow up, but alas a single mom here. Just love to support & get mentored by such beautiful people!

@UndertheMedian 11 ай бұрын

There are still good guys out there. We are honored to be a part of your life.

@MK7x77 11 ай бұрын

Yes, thank you. Means a lot. I have to believe God's still working on him!

@seekingjoynow1722 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I found you two on KZfaq. You share a wealth of information and wisdom. Thank you.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, seekingjoynow. We're glad you are with us!

@anywhoToYou Жыл бұрын

I am a vendor at a farmers market, and I am amazed at the number of people that come by and want me to sell my products for next to nothing. I am already cheaper than the grocery stores and our local produce store. There are so many costs involved in growing produce and caring for chickens, that if I sold my products in bulk for pennies on the dollar, I would be growing for free or at a loss. I ask people to return egg cartons, and they don't. Even at wholesale the carton alone is about 60 cents Add to that food, bedding, health products, and factor in it takes 2 hens laying to get just one dozen of eggs per week, yet some people want them for $2-3 a dozen or less. Produce is not different. Farmers markets are NOT huge commercial productions, they are your neighbors

@monicaambs 3 жыл бұрын

I follow Dr Benjamin Bikman and his book “Why we get sick”. He is a professor and scientist at Brigham Young University. Benjamin researches how to avoid Metabolic disease, obesity, cancer and heart disease. He has a famous KZfaq video called “Plagues of society”. I also listen to a podcast by cardiologist Dr Bret Sher. Because I learned I was pre-diabetic my diet changed drastically. I am no longer Pre-Diabetic and no longer obese or sick. But my diet is very, very low carb. Using a CGM (continues glucose monitor) showed that my body could not tolerate many carbs without having high blood sugar. I worked for many years before retiring as a RN in a Dialysis unit. I was quite aware of all the consequences of elevated blood sugar. Those included, blindness, kidney failure, heart disease, cancer, PCOS, and of course obesity. Learning I was pre-diabetic was my wake up call.

@bevsnee6571 3 жыл бұрын

Dear Hope and Larry, thank you for your lovely story about your Christmas traditions, we have two children, a son and a daughter both grown up now, but definitely agree it’s the time spent together not the cost that is the most important thing 😊Bev and Graham

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words, Bev and Graham. We really do love our traditions - and that the boys seem to like them as much as Larry and I do.

@judithbuchanan9566 3 жыл бұрын

You both are AMAZING!!!! I learn soooo much from watching your videos. I’m really interested in hearing about Larry’s retirement plans & getting some tips because I started planning very late for retirement & sometimes I’m so so scared😭.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

We will share that on a future program. We didn't start too soon either. It can be a daunting challenge.

@lisaward3890 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you Larry,we also are trying to figure out retirement and what it will look like for us. My husband of 30 years is knocking at retirements door and I am concerned that we may not have every aspect of retirement figured out yet!☹

@heather333 Жыл бұрын

I have just woken up to 12 years until retirement!

@cowgirljones35 3 жыл бұрын

Great to see Larry and Hope , glad you are sounding and feeling better. Quality time absolutely.

@bnbtemple5936 3 жыл бұрын

Great idea, Hope and Larry...love that you are offering these monthly!

@deepabahadur9164 3 жыл бұрын

How are you both?lovely to see you back full of life,God bless you always

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Doing great, Deepa. Thank you. Hope is better but not at full health yet.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Deepa, I'm doing a little better every day. It's nearly 80 degrees here, today and I'm going outdoors to sit in a chair, soak up some Vitamin D, and read a good book. That alone is sure to make me feel better.

@christinepeters7110 3 жыл бұрын

HI Hope and Larry I don't eat cheese at all, I am a vegetarian also I follow dr fuhrman's eat to live book I make a lot of his recipes in his book. I also eat a whole food plant based diet but I also make a lot of raw salad dressings, and I make a lot of raw cheese with cashews in my vitamix. I also make a lot of raw no bake desserts they are delicious.

@prayersquad3391 3 жыл бұрын

I have just recently gotten into Mark Hymans stuff. And Wahls Protocol by Dr Terry Wahls. Have you read it?

@fionathatcher1216 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for a your video. Lots of great tips. With love from the UK x

@nunyabiznizz5619 2 жыл бұрын

You two are goals! Such a wonderful couple. Love your channel.

@jackieburnett6881 3 жыл бұрын

Sooo glad you are doing better! Loved this video. Y’all are so special in my life! You are real life people with what you see and here is not fake! You are true and genuine! Love the videos and your funny Larry! Hope you are simply a beautiful amazing person! Love y’all and ty for all you do

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Well, thank you, Jackie. Your kind words made my day special!

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

You are so kind, Jackie. Thank you. We appreciate viewers like you.

@adamwest5625 2 жыл бұрын

The tips and content you provide on your channel is priceless. I’m in my early 40s and I started my debt free journey 10 years ago and have been living frugally for the last 5 years - I have got rid of all my debts with the exception of the mortgage which will be cleared in 12 months time! Can’t wait to be financially independent by September 2022. One of the items I still use today is a rice cooker given to me by my mum in 1997 when l first moved out for college. It is still going strong to this day despite being well over 40 years old! Unfortunately my mum passed in 2018 and the rice cooker remains a treasured item in my home as this was the first appliance my parents bought together when they got married. This item brings back fond memories of my mum using it to cook many family meals together as we were growing up.

@jg1551 3 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed watching this video. Thanks for sharing you first budget, that was very entertaining.

@lisaolson1345 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for answering my question guys,I really appreciate it! Keep on getting better Hope!

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! I'm feeling a little better every day.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

@Ira Alaric Someone else recommended them. I checked and it looks like a free trial and then something like $152 after that?! Unless I'm missing something.

@chrisl418 3 жыл бұрын

What lovely stories! So happy you are still so in love. I know life is never perfect, but you've weathered storms together and still come out shining on the other side together.

@faghahasan Жыл бұрын

hahaha oh that photo of Larry with the roses posing on the car.... pure Gold!

@shabbyshopper Жыл бұрын

We have an agreed upon dollar amount that we don’t spend without consulting each other and even planned big purchases, are always slept over… we never shop impulsively.

@sstephens2175 3 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed the show. Hope, I'm glad you are on the road of recovery. That pavilion place is so beautiful. I love old, historical places.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Shellie. It's a children's museum now. They have maintained it well over the years.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

We love that when the pavilion was falling into disrepair, it was bought by a local group and turned into an amazing children's museum - right next to the zoo and botanical gardens. And they are all right in the middle of a large, public park. It's a perfect place to take kids for the entire day.

@sstephens2175 3 жыл бұрын

@@UndertheMedian it sounds like you all have lived in a good place to raise children. It also seems like an affordable place to live.

@elie5047 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for answering my question!!!!! I was referring more to a period of time in summer when a person doesn't work. I guess I didn't make myself clear. I am currently living in Spain and as a teacher I have 2 months off in summertime. So instead of travelling somewhere, I thought I might need to find some frugal ways to spend this time of the year. But when it comes to vacations and going somewhere, your plan is awesome! Thanks for sharing it! 💛

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome, eliza! I don't get extended time off with my job. Most of that time is spent working on home projects.

@Tammym44 2 жыл бұрын

You two are the cutest couple! Thanks for sharing your story and your money saving tips as well🙂

@amazonorchid1321 Жыл бұрын

I agree on being able to keep pets! We have three dogs and they bring so much joy into our lives; vet visits and food and toys are a small price to pay for unconditional love!

@debbiedorsey2371 10 ай бұрын

Love this and all your videos! Thank you!

@ivonnemartinez5272 Ай бұрын

i love you guys ❤❤ thank you for everything. i love seeing you. i think you two were my parents in another life 💕

@TonyaApplegate 3 жыл бұрын

1100 square feet is a lot of room. My house is 1344 and I think my house is big. Good for them.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

We seriously could not believe that they found a place that large - and they got a great price on the rent, too. It's nice to see them so very happy there.

@CourtneyRobinson Жыл бұрын

I worked as a therapist in an Ornish lifestyle Heart Disease Reversal Clinic. I saw miraculous recovery in our clients by going plant based. I also ended up with virus related heart failure at 49 and my husband had the genetic issues that led to 5 bypasses and 3 stents despite being a world class athlete.His brother died at 40 from heart disease. We have been plant based vegans for over three years. He takes no meds at 65. My heart failure is gone, no blockages. Both healthy weights and fit. The doctors tell both of us to keep doing what you’re doing.

@UndertheMedian Жыл бұрын

What an encouraging testimony! Larry's EF is up to a 30 from "barely a 10". He is an avid long-distance bike rider and has zero blockages. So, we are very grateful.

@CourtneyRobinson Жыл бұрын

@@UndertheMedian that it is so awesome!!

@CharlesAvilaMeasInst 3 жыл бұрын

These Q&As are awesome. Thanks for all the work you put in...love the vintage footage.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, HawkStrong. Larry has enjoyed combing through our old tapes and finding all the clips.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

You are SO welcome, HawkStrong! So glad you enjoyed it.

@michelledee9304 2 жыл бұрын

I loved seeing the clips of your house. My decorating style is very much like yours. I would love to see a tour of the house.

@maryhumphrey1470 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I have been married nearly 50 years. What we thought about things when we first married are different now. My husban is cos about alot of things.. after so many years I have learned to pick my battles. We are two individuals and we have learned to compromise. I too have a wonderful man, and I would marry no other,

@lindawade9647 Жыл бұрын

What a great mom you are, Hope. One of my daughters homeschooled her son. I wish I had homeschooled my daughters.

@kathyb8540 3 жыл бұрын

Have a great day! Glad you're feeling better Hope.

@michellejones3506 Жыл бұрын

You guys are my favorite channel!

@lisaward3890 2 жыл бұрын

I am a newish subscriber to your channel! My husband and I have been married 30 years and my husband always finds a way to bring out a good belly laugh in me,which is very important to me!

@lisaward3890 2 жыл бұрын

You are so correct about married life having its highs,lows,and in betweens!

@dalenal6854 3 жыл бұрын

Love your channel! Wondering if you could talk about some things you may have done you thought were frugal but in the end did not turn out that way? So great to see Hope feeling better! Love watching you two together, you are so kind to each other. Great example of how marriage should be. Thank you for sharing!

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE that question! For sure that would make a fun program!

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Awe, thank you, Dalena. You are very kind. Hope and I will address your question on a future Q&A program.

@paulashottesbrooke4400 3 жыл бұрын

I would love to see a video on this

@nataliej7135 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for a wonderful video, and the effort you put in putting in the vintage footage

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! Larry loves putting in all the vintage clips.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Natalie. I'm so glad to have kept all the old footage. It's so fun to share it.

@trishd8373 3 жыл бұрын

Hi you guys!!! I just found you recently and am lovin' it! I am truly happy to see that Hope is feeling better now too. Thank you for being so honest and so helpful. I am watching your Q and A right now and you just mentioned how you son makes handmade rosary beads, if I heard correctly. I would love to check them out. Thank you and keep up the great work!! Take good care.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words. It feels wonderful to be back to normal. It took me about six weeks. You did hear correctly. Our son makes handmade rosaries. Here is a link to his Etsy shop. He also does custom orders if you don't see what you need. www.etsy.com/shop/BedesBeads

@helenstory9924 3 жыл бұрын

Frugal holidays (vacations) can be a lot of fun...and it’s so satisfying finding creative ways to get that budget break. We’ve recently started ‘Champing’ which is church plus camping. You camp overnight in historic churches , you get the whole place just for your family. The church provides the camping equipment and hot drinks, kettle etc and all the profit goes towards restoration of the church. Costs about £100 per night for family of six and the dog. I wonder if there’s anything similar in the states?

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

What a great idea!!

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Helen! I LOVE the champing idea. It would combine our love of camping and history. Our oldest is quite the church historian and plans to head to seminary one day. I've never heard of anything like that in the States.

@Jbridge621 2 ай бұрын

As for homeschool books, I cannot recommend enough, the used fireworks press, language arts books. They are outstanding.

@SherryEllesson 3 жыл бұрын

Hope, if you miss cheese, go to a channel called Plantiful Kiki and get her recipe for vegan "cheese" sauce. The flavor of course comes from nutritional yeast, aka "nooch" and the sauce is fantastic. Another channel, Well Your World is fabulous for flavorful non SOS (sugar, oil & ) salt) vegan foods.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tip! I'll check them out.

@S_H9260 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I'm dealing with high blood pressure and having trouble getting it balanced (with low dose meds it drops too low, but without it my bp spikes again) so I'm going to have to get even stricter with my diet.

@kathiemott3988 3 жыл бұрын

@@UndertheMedian Also check out "Cooking With Plants. She has several different cheese recipes along with many other recipes and each has a video to go with it.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

@@kathiemott3988 Oh, thank so much!

@amc8075 2 жыл бұрын

I would LOVE to hear more about how you budgeted and handled homeschooling expenses, sports expenses, music lessons, etc! Especially during the elementary years :)

@sundancer442 2 жыл бұрын

You two are such a great much. Kinda like a ying and yang thing. However the outpouring of genuine emotion and empathy is off the scale ! :)

@osoniye4209 3 жыл бұрын

I can't wait to hear more about your coffee. I LOVE Maxwell House and Folgers. I consider them a splurge compared to the awful generic stuff in cans I have tried. (It's handy to have simple tastes sometimes!)

@S_H9260 3 жыл бұрын

Same here. For me coffee is medical, not for pleasure, so I've come to enjoy Folger's quite a bit.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

We will try and address that on our next Q&A. We buy mostly from a small company that our local SAMS Club distributes. You see us drinking it in many of our videos.

@marielama8173 2 жыл бұрын

Maxwell House Columbian is the best.

@ashleym.9682 7 ай бұрын

I watch Walmart for the coffee. They will clearance out fancy bags of coffee for $3-$4. Still more expensive than MH or Folgers, but it's an expense I don't mind at all!

@prayersquad3391 3 жыл бұрын

When I left for college, I had a portable typewriter and a portable turntable. It was 1982 and I thought I was uptown Jackie Brown(80s phrase). Man, life was so simple and sweet back then. I went to college in the sticks at a community college. The town had one red light and one store. My friend and I would walk to the store at midnight (for some reason it was open that late but closed on Sundays) and get a Marie Callendars frozen chocolate creme pie. Those were the days!!!

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! I started college in 1982 and my graduation gift was an electric typewriter - quite expensive back then and I was thrilled with how "state of the art" it was. I remember my parents took me to a high end store to pick it out. I think it cost around $100 back then.

@jillgott6567 3 жыл бұрын

I too struggle with problem solving for others. I am trying at 61to sit back and ask myself 1) can I help this person ? 2) do I genuinely want to help or do I want to boost my ego? 3) will helping this person hurt me , my life, finances , reputation, other relationships? 4) is this person sitting back , waiting or are they trying to help themselves? 5) lastly, are there lessons this person needs to learn that I would be keeping them from if I were to help ?

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

All valuable considerations, Jill.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Those are all very insightful things to ask yourself. Great comment. Thanks!

@marilynthomson9564 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! Thank you so much.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome, Marilyn.

@lillianlamantia9605 3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE "how we met" stories! Your story is lovely.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Lillian.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Lillian.

@loniivanovskis1239 3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes I look in other people's carts to get inspiration or check out something unusual (especially in ethnic grocers)...same thing at restaurants...what are they having? it smells delicious! maybe I should try that?

@TheAberrantGardener 3 жыл бұрын

I do that too! And the cooking groups on Facebook (especially the cheap/frugal ones) are EXCELLENT for this as well. Many recipes have become common occurrences in my home! 💜

@jeanneclark99 2 жыл бұрын

About the low-cost funeral question: You should check out the KZfaq channel Ask a Mortician. Most of her episodes are history based, but in a number of them she talks about aspects of funerals (she owns a mortuary that deals with green funerals). Lots of viewer comments about how having watched her videos has helped them when a family member dies. About the garage sales: You guys nailed those! My aunt has a great location, too, and for years a bunch of people have contributed to the stock. She has usually hosted two multi-day events a year. Like you, she insists that everything be clean and in working order. People have knocked on her door to ask when the next one will be. She's never done the music and free coffee, though; great idea!

@irishgirl937 3 жыл бұрын

very honest, a pleasure to watch your videos.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, D C!

@IamMaggietoo 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Hope and Larry, I loved hearing your “story”. Thank you so much for sharing it w your audience.

@tictacshaker2577 3 жыл бұрын

I would love to see some videos about raising babies and young children on a budget. I've watched a few frugal living vlogs on KZfaq and you are definitely my go to channel. Much love from the UK.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the suggestion. That would be a really fun topic!

@Viriatha 7 ай бұрын

I do something different for fun money. I only get paid once a month and I am really strict about what I spend during that month. At the end of the month, I completely pay off my credit cards and then whatever is left over is split in half. Half goes to make an extra payment on a loan and the other half can be spent on anything I want.

@willwheeler6727 Жыл бұрын

I have watched so many of your videos since I found your videos this week. I have learned so much already. I literally fell asleep listening to you both yesterday evening. Something is so calming about you both and your voices. Thank you for being amazing. _Julie

@fourdayhomestead2839 Жыл бұрын

Great video. Lots of great tips.

@elizabethhenderson9934 3 жыл бұрын

Hey Larry, I try and fix things for my kids, I too have started working on this.

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome!

@user-xi7xb6yq8z Ай бұрын

Sooo sweet!!❤❤❤

@valdamarielegault1907 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this video! Grateful you are doing well Hope. Love eating plant based, one of my best decisions! Love works over Knives, China Study and so many plant based KZfaq channels! Honestly I've no doubt my husband and I, now retired, could totally connect with you both. Come visit Canada when this nasty unnamed virus is done! Blessings upon you both!

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Val. We'll keep that in mind if we ever do a major trip to Canada.

@valdamarielegault1907 3 жыл бұрын

@@larryware1 , we live close to the Capital of Canada,, absolutely beautiful!

@normanschranz4599 3 жыл бұрын

Could you please send me the information on the rosaries your son makes. You guys are amazing parents! Your grandkids will benefit in the future. Hope I’m so glad you’re feeling better.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Here you go, Norman. You can contact him through his Etsy shop. He has some pieces for sale, but also makes custom rosaries and prayer beads. Here's his shop: www.etsy.com/shop/bedesbeads/

@lindycarol3365 3 жыл бұрын

A marriage meant to be! How lovely.💕

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, Lindy. We appreciate you watching our videos.

@juliestafne5746 3 жыл бұрын

What a very sweet story!

@jeandistefano5486 3 жыл бұрын

I value your honesty! Gina in lights

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Jean!

@esthers9140 3 жыл бұрын

I like your dragon fly shirt Hope.😊 Enjoyed your video.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Esther. A dear friend gave it to me years ago and I love it, too.

@GoodThingsEtc Жыл бұрын

stay hydrated with electrolytes! Feel better Hope! You guys are very blessed to have met and worked as a true team!

@jaynesteffel3259 3 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed this video. Garage sales are great when your children are home as they have alot of things. When you retire garage sales aren't really worth having as if you have clothes the people need to be your size and hopefully grown kids take their stuff with them. So you don't have much to sell.as you tell yourself how much do I want manage clean etc.When you are older you want more experiences not stuff. It is cool you keep up with the friends in your life.

@jaynesteffel3259 3 жыл бұрын

Becoming minimalist helps you save lots of money as not spending money in certain areas means you save that money.

@kamicrum4408 3 жыл бұрын

Good friend of mine was a vurhin until the day after her wedding night!, her husband came down with stomach flu on their wedding night!

@seekingjoynow1722 3 жыл бұрын

Looks like you have added a lot of subscribers. Good job.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! We feel very blessed with the people who have subscribed.

@elizabethbednarcik3311 3 жыл бұрын

I love Forks Over Knives!!!!

@jennycarrier 3 жыл бұрын

you make sense! i like your video!

@whimsydaisical6396 3 жыл бұрын

Can you talk a bit about the plans for Larry to retire soon even though it wasn't a focus of your budget for a long time? Thanks!

@larryware1 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, we can address that in a future video.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

I think this would be a great video topic! It's been a journey, that's for sure.We have to wit until Larry is 65, so he can be on Medicare. Otherwise, he's uninsurable due to his heart condition. Our financial planner tells us that we will be fine, I'm pretty scared to make the leap.

@kathiemott3988 3 жыл бұрын

I was able to home school my children for about four years. We had a subject for each day. Every Friday was reading. Reading was from the weekly Torah portion and some from the New Testament that went along and confirmed the Torah readings. There was always questions to be answered each week and various activities that went along with the teachings for the week. When we put them back into the school system, They could not understand why the other kids were not interested in learning anything. The other kids didn't care about getting good grades.

@UndertheMedian 3 жыл бұрын

I think that thirst for learning was part of what kept my boys in homeschooling. By the time they got to high school they had a very certain direction for their lives. The fact that they were very accustomed to creating their own weekly goals for each subject, working internships and jobs, and having the ability to plot their course of study would have made fitting into a public school setting difficult for them.