I think people these days get married for the wrong reasons , like pressure from friends and society. I got married at 21 and my husband was 24 at the time, we’re now 7 years in with 2 kids(a boy and a girl). Honestly I would definitely do it again and it’s funny because we only dated for 6 months and boom 🤯 the ring, lobola, wedding, I didn’t even know if I wanted marriage or anything serious, but I knew I wanted to be with this guy everyday of my life. The most important thing is that God is everything in our marriage, and I know we wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for him.🌸

“If you see marriage as the end of your freedom, you’re doing it wrong “ 🔥🔥🔥

Si Buyile Guys!!!

I got married at 19 and honestly i wouldn't do it again. I would wait to know myself a little bit more and know what exactly i want

Got married at 23 heading to 23 yrs in marriage and will do it again. In marriage we learn each other every day

“Marrying young is not the end of my freedom, it means I want to travel and see the world with her by my side” this quote 😭

Me watching this under my blankets so these wise words enter me without escaping 😂😂😂 Wisdom 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

I got married at 23yrs. Heading onto 12yrs of marriage with 2 children (girl and boy just like you) and we are still happy. Building together, supporting each other. Yesss! I would do it all over again. Sometimes, you guys remind me of the younger us. Loooove 🥰🥰🥰

Love how she said "I'm a brilliant leader" so unapologetically!

Got engaged at 19 and married at 20 I would still be married to him if he didn’t pass away when we where 25 but got married again at 30 and all I can say is I would do it all over again at the same age. The bible says marry young for a reason I’m glad I never experienced different sexual partners etc and what can I say I’m marriage material no “vat en set” for me. Love you guys always 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Brenden is gifted with a lot of Wisdom...

I’m getting married next year 🥰 #fromMyMouthToGodsEars😄🙌🏽

"Marriage magnifies everything you saw in dating"💯🙌

Married at 21, been married going on two years with a little one on the way ❤️

Insightful. I was 22 & he was 25 when we got married. We're now 13 years in by the grace of God.

I got married at 22 and it's not easy. It requires service, understanding, sacrifice and alot of good communication. But I would do it again if it's the same partner❤️...

“YOU CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR PARTNER” I agree right there

Kenny and I got married at 21 and we are now 30 and it’s been a journey indeed! But as Mpoomy Ledwaba would say,”Shadani guys!” I highly recommend marriage. Love love love this video🤭♥️♥️

Mpoomy Ledwaba is such an inspiration.❤

My take home: -You will never be your partners everything -You can never change your partner but you have to change yourself ..."your partner is only reacting to what you're doing... you cannot enforce change on someone...you have to change yourself..." I love this Quote: “Marrying young is not the end of my freedom, it means I want to travel and see the world with her by my side” Wow................ I love you guys_ you are such a blessing

Mpoopy is breathtakingly beautiful 🙇‍♀️

i love the way Mpumi looks at Brendan and smiles

"You will never be my everything"🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 God is our everything, not human beings.

the red flags in dating get magnified to bigger ones in marriage... you need to learn to love yourself so you are not pouring from an empty cup.. do not rely on your significant other to give you the happiness you want, give yourself that happiness and allow them to complement it, then you will be even happier.. being married is challenging but also quite fulfilling, you need to constantly work on yourselves to make it work for each other.

At 19, for someone who does not have role models when it comes to relationship, this podcast has shifted my perspective. Thank you so much guys!

i got married at 18 and I've been loving it ever since.I would do it all over again. It's just simply amazing and I love my spouse so much

Hi guy's, great topic. Great to have you again.....My X Fiance paid Lobola for me at the same age "22 years" we delayed getting married and i thank God for that. It was the best decision ever as we both were working in silo and not as a team and not as 1, not like a couple who is ready for marriage. We have a 7 year old Son and his Dad is not present at all, him not being present in our Son's life was the same way he was not present in our relationship as years progressed and it became worse when i fell preg. Marrying him would have been the biggest mistake of my life, glad things ended....not everyone has good intentions by quickly paying Lobola. It warms my heart hearing you guys say you would do it over and over again, God bless...love you guys!

One thing I've had from many Mmamoruti is that men are chilled and they don't really care. If you do the wife duties while you are a girlfriend, they don't see a need to make you a wife officially. That's something from your relationship. Steve Harvey says, 'One thing about us men, if we want something we gonna do everything to get it. Give us tjose principles. Ladies have those boundaries otherwise you will be a wife whilst you are a girlfriend in the eyes of everyone including God.'

I am 19 years old and I'm very passionate about marriage. You people activate the passion in me to get married at a young age.🥺❤

“ Marriage is freedom when you’re doing it right” I Love this!!

I also got married at a young age. Met the guy at 18 then married at 20. I would do it again. I think no matter how long u marriege has its up and downs it doesn't matter how prepared or how old you r. What you need to do from day one is involve God.

I love how Mpoomy was so super honest and transparent in this video. This video made me to love Mpoomy more. She came prepared to share and gave so much wisdom and this will help us single people alot. Thank you Mpoomy. ❤

That “had I married at the peak of my career, I wouldn’t have done well in a relationship” makes so much sense

I got married at 29 and I was ready. It's been a wonderful 4 years and looking forward to many more years. I had an opportunity to study different personalities and I think that made it easier for me to understand my hubby who's very different from me.

“Marriage is freedom when you do it right” love that

"If I don't have my own happiness no matter what you bring on it doesn't matter" Mpoomy ❤️❤️

Yhoooo, that marriage magnifies everything u saw in a relationship, my God, shuuuuu

I wish I was married young but I realise now that it would not be good for me as before 25, I did not know what I want in a partner and had a false expectation about marriage. I am 28 now, not married but happy and know what I want.

Me and my husband got married at 23 years old and I remembered many people thought we are crazy, marriage hasn't been easy but all the fun and both of us waking every morning to make this marriage work and honestly I would choose my husband again and again, we will be 9 years now in Sept

Brandon is turning into those guys he was running 🏃‍♀️away from, look how deep he sounds...but you guys wow 👏you are such an encouragement and and inspiration. You are so refreshing to watch.

Wow…. “…You were such a good resource to my business, and I was a good resource your business…”. Hooooo, “… Marriage magnifies everything you saw in dating…”. Looking back into my 21 years ago with my then brand new girl-friend, currently my wife, jerrrrrrrr …you guys are so deep. "...your partner is only reacting to what you're doing... you cannot enforce change on someone...you have to change yourself..." I have been learning a lot about the art of committing to the (machine in your words) of MARRIAGE from Rabbi Daniel Lapin. Brenden and Mpoomy, you guys neh…Thank you so much. May you keep blossoming.

A topic for another day: "When we are dating we are pretending most of the time" "Men find it hard to date an already established woman and women find it hard to date an unestablished man" Please don't forget these two topics. I can't wait! 😊

Finally!! 💃🏾 No but can we take a moment for this new cover 😍😍😍😍

I definitely resonate with Mpoomy where she says had she gotten married at the peak of her career she would not have done well in a relationship.It is much easier to accept and be open minded when you are also at your starting point, less pride.And what is more beautiful than to be there from the beginning and watching your partner grow with you professionally .

Someone once said to me “true love is a puzzle of two pieces. When the couple comes together in marriage, they actually complete each other in every area of life” and that is what you( mr and mrs Ledwaba) portray. All the best guys love you so much🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Honestly y'all are so lucky and blessed. I would've loved to get married young. At 28, I've had my fair share of struggles and pain when pertaining to relationships. I think marrying young, if it be the right person , saves you from so much pain and heartache and sometimes brokeness that you can never fully recover from. There are people out there who have horrible intentions, people who are wolves in sheeps clothing! The older you get, the worse it is and the more deceptive people you come across. I would encourage people to marry young and grow together with your spouse .. .

Beautiful conversation. If it works when you're young it is absolutely great! If it doesn't, it becomes a mess... because when you're young, you have not fully discovered yourself. When you're older you can easily identify what you want from a partner & union. Ultimately, at whatever age marriage works when God is the core of that union.

I'm 21 years of age an already in a 2 year relationship an wow you guys really inspire me this is where I wnna see my relationship one day

Proverbs 18:22 - "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD" I can attest that the favor of God is indeed upon your marriage and lives. Thanks for sharing ♥️

Mrs mom is so free to be herself and be strong in a way that would make so many uncomfortable but the way Brenden is so comfortable with her, I see God at the center of it all.

Im glad that yall have it as a video on youtube because some podcasts apps don't work in my region.

Most definitely appreciate the come back 💗💗

Vids be popping from this couple 💑. Love, Love to see it

The leadership statement hit home, I loved the fact that you realised that it was a problem but not necessarily to deem your light/shine. I got married at 23 and it’s been an awesome and Happppppppyyyyyyyy 10 years of being married. Its important to grow together, dream together and work towards goals together.

I just love y’all it’s 5 am in the states and I’m about to enjoy this ! I couldn’t wait for a new season of you two talking because the chemistry is just so great !

Got married at 25, 10years into it....not easy but we still in it. Love exists, why not.

Absolutely loved this. Wow! I look forward to seeing more of these and learning so much

l love the openness and authenticity in this conversation!

"Building together" Thanks for the lesson

The part where she said that ,our careers weren't all that And "all we had was each other"...🥺🥺😍😍😍🙌🙌wow!

I can’t wait to see what you have in store for us this season. There’s always something to take away from your podcasts always. And then anything it’s the perspectives always and relatable content and the honesty that comes through in your conversations.

Thank you for this. For someone who's been thinking a lot about marriage lately, this sure does give a better perspective of what to expect.

I love the synergy between you guys, you guys are real and your authenticity is translates in your communication making you relatable.

I love being here guys 😍🌻🧡 wholesome content 🙌🏾🙌🏾

From Kenya, single. I'm so glad I found you guys. So much wisdom and resourceful content. Thank you!

The day I discovered you and your channel, I discovered gold. Great episode!

so serendipitous that you posted this today. today my husband and I celebrate 12 years and we also got married young. it's a beautiful journey when 2 people realise that they want to grow together.

Wow! Brenden was on fire today. Thanks

It's selflessness and kindness that's important from both parties. 🤞🏽I loved this

Had such fun listening to this. I am 2 years into a new marriage and I am only 28, so I also married young'ish' at 26. I definitely echo what you say, rather build the career when you have the support system so you first learn how to sacrifice before pursuing your own interests. Sacrifice is important for someone who wants to get married as the two individuals are like two diaries that sometimes have clashing schedules and sacrifices have to be made on both ends. You learn an important lesson that transcends through your work and business. You go further when you go with a rigid support system than doing it alone and I learnt that.

That what my partner was for.... Let's build together yound and we still ride together even now. Thank you for your inspirational revival.

Oh my word! The synergy!🥰❤❤ You guys are truly one

Zoning out in marriage is so dangerous, thanks for mentioning it Brenden

Yay!!!!!!!! Season 3 is up!!!!!!!! I'm so excited!!!!!!

You indeed can't change your partner. Great points here! Am just months into this marriage but am learning on a daily basis! Thank you for such a great podcast.❤️❤️❤️🇺🇬😄

Woow! Is RSA in lockdown again? Welcome back guys. I really believe 'young' is subjective.

Hello season 3 !! ❤️

I love the podcast but the YT version is so much more enriching. I love seeing your faces, how you look at each other, the body language as you speak. The excitement and joy is visible

Thank guys for coming back ♥️🙏

I haven’t listened but already excited 😆.

So much truth and reality in this podcast. You guys have really grown in wisdom. Thank you for your content. Super inspiring helps us build on our wisdom.

Enjoyed this so much! It's so good to have you back💕♥️

Wow! I loved that perspective on your careers, I see myself in Mpoomy and I can relate to how you needed to find Brenden young because you would’ve had laser focus on your career and in turn missed the love train😂 I’m 20 and I can totally see myself doing that.

I am so inlove with your videos, songs on Free To Worship, your podcasts on both Wisdon and Wellness and Our Love Journey The Podcast. Keep it up! 👏👏👏

“Our selflessness aligns”! Yhu! Felt❤️ That’s really all I want Lord🥺❤️

Wow such great content! I'm learning so much. Extremely excited for season 3.💃💃 You guys make marriage look easy yoh!😅

Firstly, your videos are top quality 👌🏻 I got a lot from this podcast. Keep it up FAM👏🏻❤

Wise young couple and very honest 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽i love the knowledge 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Can't wait for 200k subscribers 😍 I am such a huge fan! 💃🏽

I can spend the whole day listening to you guys. Thank you for this

This one!! Oh this one! I loved it, I learned so much. Thank you 🥺🙏🏾

Our Love Journey is back !!! 🙈 I’m super excited for this new season and I can’t wait to listen and learn more from you 🥰♥️♥️♥️.

marriage is freedom!!! love from Namibia to the Ledwaba Family.

Also keep in mind that not everyone is called for marriage. Marriage is a calling from God 🤍

Wooow, beautiful episode guys! Gems were dropped here. :)

This is my first time watching and I love how honest you both are. I'm here for such content especially from young african couples. ❤️

I really love the conversation more especially as a young lady who's about to be married and I'm still pretty young. It's a very fundamental and helpful conversation for a lot of us

Great podcast guys, what hit home was when Brenden said that his need for affirmation would make him over compensate and do things on his own that clicked for me. Some real gems here enjoyed listening to you guys

Not married yet, but I'm definitely learning and taking down some notes. Thank you guys for allowing God to use you in our generation ❤️ here's to more strength and wisdom 🙌

😭 watching this right after ending things with someone I thought we would get to were you guys are. At that time I totally relate with what you're saying.