We Never Expected To Share This (Spicy Q&A)

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We Never Expected To Share This (Spicy Q&A)

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4 ай бұрын

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@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Give this video a thumbs up if we made you laugh or cry!! We certainly did both 🥲 Happy this video is finally live, we posted on our community page about the delay (subscribe + turn on notifications to be notified) we had major technical difficulties this morning with this upload. It’s been a YEAR since we last sat down to answer your questions- we love sharing more with you and getting vulnerable! See you Sunday Pack & think about singing up for therapy with BH 💛

@Drainoed 4 ай бұрын

Laughed and cried a bit. Especially the part of having to be afraid to tell people who you really are. My wife and I love you both. Thank you for making the world a better place.

@libbybertrand9320 4 ай бұрын

You gals always make me laugh and also touch my heart. Thank you for sharing. Much love from Western New York state USA. I am 50% Canadian (England) 😄❤️🇺🇸🇨🇦

@moavdi756 4 ай бұрын

YEEEESSSSS!!! Phil is already baking dog 🐕 bone 🦴 cookies 🍪 on the odd chance you have a Meet & Greet in California! 🌞🫶🏻 The CA Pack 🐾 is a Strong 💪🏼 one! (Plus we have frozen yogurt 🍦 shops every 15 feet 😆) XOXO Mo & Phil 😽😻❤

@LithaMoonSong 4 ай бұрын

You are both so sweet.

@redgarcia1427 4 ай бұрын

It's awesome to see you two being able to be yourselves in public knowing all my generation and older fought so hard to make happen!! 😊✌

@allisonboston5738 4 ай бұрын

As someone who was adopted, I love that you’re open to it. There are so many kids who need, and deserve, a safe home and loving family.

@bobbiejojackson9448 4 ай бұрын

I agree 100%. Unfortunately, the stories that you hear the most about adoption, are the horror stories and the tragic experiences. I understand that not everyone feels like the luckiest kid on Earth because of adoption. In fact, some people have had unbelievably heartbreaking experiences and I genuinely feel deeply sorry for what they've been through. But you rarely hear about the people who've had a truly amazing life BECAUSE they were adopted... by incredibly loving and wonderful people who've loved and provided the best life possible for their children, whether those children are biologically theirs or not. I thank God every day for my parents - and they ARE my parents. They've been my mom and dad from day one and they'll be my mom and dad until my last day. I could never even think of anyone else as my parents. As cliche as it might seem to say it, parents aren't always just the people who "create" you or give birth to you. They're the people who've loved you and sacrificed for you and did their best to raise you to be kind and compassionate human beings. I am lucky enough to be one of those "children" who were given the chance to have an amazing life and I'll be forever grateful for it. Anyway... I'll get off my soapbox now. I guess that I just needed to let people know that there's a very positive side of adoption because I live it every day. 💛😌

@MultiSerge1980 4 ай бұрын

I am 73 and was adopted, at Birth, and was raised by an extremely loving mother and father. After watching you for the last couple of years, I know that if you decide to adopt or have children naturally, you two will make great parents. You love for each other show every time you put out a new video. I am looking forward to your next project, hope it's the lake home, and seeing you two working together as a team. You two are awesome!

@someyoungguy6990 4 ай бұрын

Me too and I feel exactly the same way

@bryancohn9406 4 ай бұрын

How about a foster child this summer that might turn into an adoption? With fostering a child you not only get to give them the routine of life they need but think of the skills you can teach them! Some young man or woman could be 10 years old and know how to rehab a home, grow veggies in the greenhouse, care for pets, drive the UTV and garden tractor and so much more. Think of it as mentoring while fostering a child! PS: If your going to have a child of your own I nominate Porter to be "dad" in whatever capacity fits! :)

@ronparis6393 4 ай бұрын

Just so you two know… there is NOT one dad in this world who would not be so proud of the way you are turning out and doing what you do!! What a refreshing way to handle things.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Aww haha that’s such a sweet comment Ron! Thank you so much for being here

@jimmyjenkins9240 4 ай бұрын

@@VanwivesI’m a father and a grandfather and I completely agree with Ron.

@jamessawyer4971 4 ай бұрын

@@jimmyjenkins9240 you are soo very right ..I am a father, grandfather and a great grandfather !!! I can't agree with you more !!!

@ronarant2897 4 ай бұрын

Absolutely, I agree! Ron

@gregoriodecker2692 4 ай бұрын

I think you're wrong..I would tell them to just buy the 2 extra properties quietly.. and finish a project before announcing more and more and more.. it is starting to seem like they went from living a modest and minimalist life to never having enough.. every toy , every tool etc. A van they don't use, 2 trucks, a tractor, a side by side, motorcycle, hot tub, sauna, greenhouse they won't use, on 3 properties.. excessive and often wasteful..I get the need for content.. but just like Tyler and todd.. they seem to have gotten so much money they cannot focus on what their dream really is.. it's become just consuming as much as possible.

@SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 ай бұрын

Crystal, thank you for your vulnerability - We all have some childhood situations that we don't want to share. You are not alone.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Sherry 💛 sending love to everyone who can relate, everyone’s been through something. Together it feels less alone.

@loril.mangold8160 4 ай бұрын

Yes, Thank You, Jazz is Right your past made you the Strong Determined Perfectionist Woman that you are, to get things done As an adult, I realized my own perfectionism came from growing up, if I just made this thing PERFECT, I thought somehow I could Control The frickin Chaos that was going on, SO AS an adult, I have tried to Counterbalance that perfectionism, by buying a set of used plates Naming them, an issue, and breakin the hell out of em. It helps to change the behavior😅 and don't allow myself to clean it up for a week or so, then I used all those pretty broken pieces in a outdoor shower, cement floor

@Naaweiyaa 4 ай бұрын

I have to share I’m a straight man always have been I have no problems with gay or lesbian relationships I hear you talking about your relationship and it makes me think of mine I’ve been married now for going on twelve years now and me being married this long is the longest relationship I’ve been in Pitiful when you hear I’m 63 yrs old I’m an Alaskan Native and I have been an alcoholic for most of my life by choice if ya can believe that Then in 2012 I met her and just stopped drinking no pressure no ultimatums just quit When I couldn’t quit for court no quitting for family no one My own mother and father died before I finally realized it does nothing for me And she came into my life Now I tease her once in awhile that I was an alcoholic and planned on dying alone and she ruined it She knows I’m kidding but if not for her I’d still be drunk and alone I can’t imagine life without her I’ve told her she’s not allowed to die first cause I wouldn’t be able to handle it Today we have 24 grandchildren and one great grandchild Life is good and your videos add to my life thank you for your sharing I hope the Great Spirit continues to bless you both Your friend

@wallykramer7566 4 ай бұрын

Wow! It is great that you found your niche and are happy with being in it! Power to you!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us 💛

@inquisitive1911 4 ай бұрын

She was just the medicine that you needed. Good on you. Keep up your happiness and health! You and your partner deserve it. Much Love, from Scotland, ❤️❤️ XX ...

@stephaniedeegan853 4 ай бұрын

What a beautiful testimony. So happy you found your person. Its such a blessing❤❤❤❤😊

@tayto34 4 ай бұрын

You girls are just great❤️

@MelissaMalzahn 4 ай бұрын

You ladies are a real joy to see. This world isn't always nice. When you look at each other you see the love for each other. Some people are to narrow minded, we just ignore those people. I think you both are beautiful and happy that's all that matters. ❤❤❤

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Melissa, you filled up our hearts with your kind words! Thanks so much for being here 💛💛

@rickdoner5181 4 ай бұрын

I'm with Melissa. You two are just adorable together, and I would have words with anyone who gave you a hard time about.

@simonsherlock 4 ай бұрын

Exactly this. I wanted to write something but I couldn't have said it better than what Melissa wrote, so I'll just go with "What she said!". Stay happy and please keep sharing, as we love going on your adventures with you.

@jimscott1011 4 ай бұрын

I have been following your adventures since you started the videos. You are a very important part of my life. I am 81 years old and would be proud to have you as my granddaughters. Thank you so much. Much love.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching Jim. Sending love back to you. 💛🐶

@thakart3 4 ай бұрын

I currently work for Big Brothers Big Sisters In Pittsburgh! I love to know that the work we put in really does make an impact! Thank you for sharing ❤

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for doing all that you do 💛 it changed my world

@rogierbanis 4 ай бұрын

As a 50 year old man from the Netherlands who has everything going for myself and my family I love watching homestead videos. I am following your channel for a long time now but you 2 girls always amaze me. One time with the building and perseverance, the other time with the way you grow and are able to aquire new properties. Now with the way you two are able to pass on true love, emotions, struggles and joy just in a video. I wish I could express my respect for the two of you more than just virtually take off my hat and bow. You 2 are very special human beings. I hope you let us be able to join you life journey through KZfaq for a long long time and if you even do a meet-up, wherever I will try anything to join and shake hands.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Hey Rogierbanis and family! Thank you for sharing this with us. One of the most respectful comments I’ve ever received. We hope to share for a long long time. Thank you for watching us & coming through all the different chapters with us 💛

@lifeisfull242 4 ай бұрын

You guys should totally come to Australia you'll be very welcome

@LilyWasHereMB 4 ай бұрын

Inspirational, aren't they?

@neila484 4 ай бұрын

Ja heel handig om via you tube je zakken te vullen

@phyllisbrostrom7348 4 ай бұрын

A very good visit this week and I have no doubts that you will fulfill both your 5 year your 10 years goals. You both have the stick to it gene that is so necessary to accomplish whatever you set your minds too Have a good week know I am recovering from back surgery and while this week has gone well, hoping that the coming week will be even better 😊

@vickyjones3668 4 ай бұрын

I just love you guys! You’re both beautiful and amazing people! I’m 62. Raised 4 kids as a single mom. 3 girls, 1 boy. Your answer about your single moms made me cry too! All my kids grew up to be strong independent adults just like you both. Watching your vlogs and your life together just makes my heart happy! Just want you to know that. Thank you! ❤

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Awww so happy to hear your heart is happy- thank you for watching our videos. You’re strong Vicky!! Thanks for sharing that with us… Sending love from us four to you 💛

@michaelbryant2071 4 ай бұрын

What the hell? I am blown away. Your honesty, your absolute dropping of barriers, your complete ability to communicate your past and future hopes and dreams. I have followed you two for four years. I am so happy l did.

@SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 ай бұрын

Last comment - this is a great Q & A vlog. I usually can't stand these - but this one really tied up some split ends. Raw and real. So much respect and love for both of you!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Ahh so glad you feel this way- thanks for letting us know 💛 appreciate you tuning in on Sundays after all these years xx

@kathyl3918 4 ай бұрын

Totally, agree!!

@ladikmk 4 ай бұрын

I am a firm believer in that you only have one life, and you need to live it - fully, unapologetically, and you have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Your joy and smiles help to make the world a much brighter place. Just be happy!

@melodeeplath8002 4 ай бұрын

Best comment Ever !!!!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

LOVE it thank you so much for leaving these words here! 💛🥹

@moonaglow 4 ай бұрын

I’ve no doubt you two will be awesome mothers with so much love to give, but also so much skills and experience to share and teach. Whatever child that comes into your life would be very lucky to have you both as parents. Love you & your pack💖🐾

@Vanwives 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your kind words. Happy to have you in our pack.💛🐶

@sherrywisler3718 4 ай бұрын

I loved this Q & A. You two are so beautiful together. As I said before, watching you helped me through my breast cancer in 2023. I was so depressed at various times and watching you gave me hope. I can’t wait to see your next project at the new cabin.

@kathyakadragonflysmiles301 4 ай бұрын

Finding joy each day is my mantra. Thank you for sharing your joy in each video. What you choose to share will always be enough. Continue to make each day count.

@jo_clarke1960 4 ай бұрын

You girls are the example of how much love & care is more important in a childs upbringing than processions. Think everybody here proud if you and your achievements. Seems like you got the future sketched out, you gonna need Mexico for a break, what with sorting a spare cabin and upkeeping the homestead. Thanks for sharing and here's to the next year. Good to see the subs numbers slowly creeping up too, you deserve it. Take care and see you next week 💛

@MrYisc 4 ай бұрын

Very special (and brave!) to hear you two talk so openly about all the subjects. A lot of respect for the both of you.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you! Thanks for watching 💛

@lesstoddard6779 4 ай бұрын

Your love for each other comes through loud and clear in each video. It’s the reason I watch you; for a dose of love! Love from me on the Maine Coast!!

@jamesphilbrook5567 4 ай бұрын

You make a great couple, just be yourselves and enjoy your life!

@cheryldingley4546 4 ай бұрын

You are both amazing souls. Thank you for sharing your lives and some of your history - I was in tears with you. You are both so positive and strong. Admire you both immensely.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Awww 🥹💛 thank you for leaving this comment! Lots of love from us 4

@cspvideo 4 ай бұрын

I wish you much happiness, and may all your dreams and goals come true. As a parent of two and now grandfather of four, I would offer that parenting pushes everything else to the side. Not regrettably, but watching someone else parent is not the same as being a parent. Our sons are now adulting and will sometimes ask how we found time for everything. We prioritized being parents, and some things got postponed, for a decade or two. Like travel that did not focus on our children or at least engage them. We are doing that now, in our 70s. Also one piece of advice we received that puzzeled us until we were doing it. One child keeps you busy. Two children will keep you 4 times busier. And approaching our 50th year of marriage I can say it has all been worth it. And even more. We like to buy Christmas ornaments each year that represent important chapters in our story. In that way our tree is our biography. Lots of ornaments are about our sons and now our grandchildren. Lately we are adding ornaments about our travels. That works for us and you will find what works for you. Thanks for sharing your story.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Loved reading this comment, so so special. Thank you for the inspiration and story of love 💛

@jimblack8027 4 ай бұрын

27:23 One of my favourite quotes is by Edwin Bliss: The pursuit of excellence is gratifying and healthy; the pursuit of perfection is frustrating, neurotic, and a terrible waste of time.

@alisonhammond4662 4 ай бұрын

I so love your randomness in your vlogs..and stoked that ceiling is finished😂😂..don't stress about posting full projects etc..the best things to watch are random.. love you girls ❤❤❤

@DiannaGrable-fm8jd 4 ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this Q&A. It did make me tear up, because the things the two of you talked about (especially your Mothers) really hit home with me. Thank you so much for sharing. 👍

@kentmillard3869 4 ай бұрын

Really love your Q&As! ❤ Seeing the shots of the cabin interior reminded me that you all should be featured in the Architectural Digest channel. I followed you all since you bought the cabin and I think the cabin transformation illustrates the grit, creativity and dedication that you bring to all your projects! Would love to see it showcased on AD.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Awww haha thank you so much!!! I don’t have words 💛 thank you for watching each sunday

@tailgatecarpenter26 2 ай бұрын

Amazing video! Your content is entertaining on so many levels but when you post the Q&A chats you both bring it up to a new level. I admire you both for different reasons and am blessed to have stumbled upon YT and your channel during the early years of the pandemic. Be sure no matter what before you close your eyes to sleep that realize you have helped countless people, improved peoples' emotional health and continually put smiles on us professional builders who in fact have been swinging hammers for close to 50 years. Thank you Crystal and Jazz for all that you share.

@ariadnalucila 4 ай бұрын

What a wonderful video. Thanks girls for sharing, and thanks Crystal for trusting us with information about your family and stuff. Lots of love for you two from Argentina ❤

@ruthiewrangler9864 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for being so transparent with us. And thank you for keeping some things, just for you. I loved all of this.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your understanding and support Ruthie! We’re so grateful to have you part of our community 💛

@pauljohnson3590 4 ай бұрын

Yes love your sharing your life experiences joys and sorrows your love story is refreshing ,I am a straight male my first wife is lesbian who pushed Irvin my face but I like the way you ladies have just let it evolves . I wish you the best of everything. I look forward to seeing your videos every Sunday along with your friends Tal and Mads, if I don’t see you my week starts out bad but I just look to see when you update and put out another video so I get my weekly dose of joy and inspiration I’ve enjoyed watching you ladies grow and learn new things and would live a meet and greet someday when your ready, I have so much to learn from your experiences and I am 67 years old. Keep up the great job your doing and love being a member of your pack, just wished I could buy you merchandise year round somewhere

@hollieb2547 4 ай бұрын

I love when you do Q&As I feel like we get to know you more and your Journey through life, I also know how you feel about telling people who you love as I only came out 3 years ago and I’m still scared for people to know as I don’t know how people will react but I’m sure I will become braver as I get older. ❤

@Light_of_the_Divine 4 ай бұрын

That was sooo good. It is such joy watching you share portions of you life with all of us that love you 🥰 🥰🥰

@TheKindredTrucker 4 ай бұрын

I kept getting chills listening to Crystal talk about her childhood and seeing/ hearing the way you support each other. I can relate to having a very challenged childhood, having complicated but still loving relationships with your parents and also, having become incredibly resilient as a consequence of, well, having to. I love this channel, thank you for sharing your stories with us!! Every video is so uplifting and inspiring💗💓

@FatherMarty 4 ай бұрын

I don't need to hear or see family or personal issues on the channel - you have the perfect right to keep parts of your life private! I just want to know that you are OK, and if you have a positive or difficult relationship. Don't need to know why. Glad to hear all the relationships are positive! Through all the difficulty, you both seem really blessed.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for the support… Appreciate you watching 💛

@donnamccaffrey4364 4 ай бұрын

You two bring out the best in each other. ❤❤

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Aww how sweet of you to share. We agree. 💛🐶

@nanerlea 4 ай бұрын

I love this so much! So excited for all of the projects this year! Spring is right around the corner!

@mrjorgepasquel 4 ай бұрын

I'VE SEEN YOU BOTH for years now, and there is real , IS LOVE, and authenticity, thank you both, only can say RESPECT to you 2 and a lot of LOVE too, thanks for sharing your life, is not easy and is brave, as you are, TY TY TY and thank you

@kateoke4148 4 ай бұрын

I am so totally proud of you two and in awe of all of your accomplishments! You girls rock!! ❤

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹 appreciate you tuning in on Sundays 💛

@space-pop3527 4 ай бұрын

Two beautiful people. I love to watch the changes you have been making. Love it!

@DaCheat100 4 ай бұрын

I really liked your take on conflict and learning how to ‘fight better’ rather than avoiding it all together. As a man who is happily married for over 15 years, I couldn’t agree more and wanted to let you know that this resonated with me.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations on your happy marriage! Thanks for sharing with us.💛🐶

@griselapuerta8644 4 ай бұрын

Love you both for being real and how much you love each other. You both are amazing and not afraid to work hard. Love your dogs . You both would be great moms.😊

@davidcurran6164 4 ай бұрын

Girls, never be afraid to be yourselves, you are wonderful together and it so shows through. I find your honesty so refreshing and just amazing, the world is & has changed and that is due to people like you girls, I see you are proud and you should be, I get you need to be safe but know most people now agree being happy and fulfilled is just what matters whatever shape that takes. Keep up the great work. Dave. Xx

@saramullens1786 4 ай бұрын

I wanna see y'all go to Australia and see max! ❤

@donnawarmouth9329 4 ай бұрын

You girls are so real!! How could anyone question the love that you guys share so much! Look forward to many more videos!!

@FosterPresley 4 ай бұрын

Hi Ladies! My wife and I have been watching you for years, love your videos, authenticity, and vulnerability! So relatable and easy to connect with, and your projects have inspired us to do some handywork on our own too. We also relate to not “outing” ourselves in public unless we feel safe.. thank you for sharing that real reality our community deals with. You both make a great team together, and we know you’ll make great mothers no doubt about it!! Thank you for being super real and bringing up things about your family life, relationship, and about “fighting better”. I study relationships (school) and have 2 great book recommendations that just came out a few months ago if you’d like to learn more about Attachment styles (childhood impacts emotional development and communication and conflict skills as an adult) and how to fight more productively/healthily. These are life changing books for better communication and strengthening relationships: 1) Secure Love by Julie Menanno (Marriage and Family therapist) and 2) Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection by Julie Schwartz Gottman, PhD, and John Gottman, PhD (renowned Couples therapist and researchers). Look forward to continuing watching your exciting journey ahead!!!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Wow Blair, thank you for sharing with us all your knowledge. We will definitely look into the books. We are so happy to have you in our pack. 😊🐶

@jackrolfson312 4 ай бұрын

Thank you, You Two are An inspiration to us all. From diversity and hard times, You rose above it, To where you are. The most beautiful people you are today!

@gordonwallin2368 4 ай бұрын

You two are incredable. First come back to Squamish for the meet and greet-you've been here before because I saw your van and that's how my wife and I started watching your channel. Second don't let perfection stop construction of a project. Or words to that effect. Also, First Nations don't consider imperfections as flaws, they're "Spirit Marks". If either one of you looks at the other and thinks, " What a strong, muscular person, she is." It's nothing to what females can do with their bodies when they're pregnant. My first wife turned into a superhuman from being a very non-athletic person. Expect that, it's fantastical. I do worry about people going anywhere in the States nowadays, unless you were a cis-straight couple. I remember when I was in my teen and 20's and no passport was required and it felt welcoming and safe down there. I'm glad you were safe and felt so in Florida. Cheers from the Pacific West Coast of Canada.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

I can’t believe you saw our van there 🥹 we will be back one day… thank you for sharing all of that with us!! Love it all 💛 Yes unfortunately you need to be weary about where you go these days. Enjoy spring on the west coast xx

@GaryJones2012 4 ай бұрын

Having followed you since your van days it's great to learn so much more about you both now. I was also one of those fans who were so confused about what you were doing so thanks for some answers. Love ya! 🥰

@Aggaliano 4 ай бұрын

Wow, I normally never watch the Q&A’s, but for some reason I did today, your lifes and struggles hit a note with my owns so deeply that you make me cry. We all go through struggles in our life, my ones could fill a few books, but it is how you come at the end of it what it counts, and boy that you came amazing, all my respect to you and your lovely, wonderful and incredibly resilient mums. xxx

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Well we’re so grateful you took the time today to watch ours 💛 AND leave a comment!! it’s true we all go through things, I’m glad we could share and I know so many people can relate and feel a little less alone. We appreciate you watching xx

@Njanderson 4 ай бұрын

I love the insight to your lives and what makes you, you! This is the first time I heard that Jaz went to school to be a teacher… as a young teacher who isn’t finding the most joy, I have always found content like yours to be an escape or maybe even a window into a way I could live one day. Thank you for doing what you guys do. You are so much more to me than content creators. You are truly role models, medicine, and joy!❤️

@kathyl3918 4 ай бұрын

Teaching can be a challenge these days. Please know that there are many different forms of teaching. There is a whole world out there! Also remember, you have but one life...make sure you put your happiness at the top of the list. Good luck, you can do whatever you want!

@darinjohnson3671 4 ай бұрын

It is. sad that any of us have to be afraid of what others might think. You guys are such a neatest gals 🙂

@treehuggingmusician595 4 ай бұрын

You two are inspirational. You have made yourselves vulnerable in what you share. I am a 70 year old female with a traditional marriage of 45 years. I feel like the future is hopeful with young people like you who reflect what is good in humanity.I started with your channel when you lived in a van and traveled in Mexico. The things that you have been able to do and build is amazing. Thank you.

@camillabird 4 ай бұрын

Watching your growth since the last q &a is palatable. Thank you for taking us on that journey and being you as you. It's a wonderful example of a choice we may not have thought of ❤❤ I celebrate you both

@courtneylowenthal5228 4 ай бұрын

Going to rewatch for your view count, cant wait to see your future path and plans!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the support Courtney 💛💛

@courtneylowenthal5228 4 ай бұрын

@@Vanwives Anytime, thank you for being your amazing selves!

@mikecapps1603 4 ай бұрын

You ladies are so, well to put it simply, special people. you make me laugh, cry and sometimes both. Love this pack of yours!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Awww thank you for being here 💛

@ladytj4u Ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your life’s experience. I’m so glad to have ran into your videos 😊💕

@birdwatcherjean6293 4 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing with us. Very interesting to hear about the many topics. Really appreciate how hard you both have worked to get to this point in your lives. Hope all your dreams and plans come true for you.

@michaelwilliams7481 4 ай бұрын

I am so pleased to hear your future plans for the cabin, after all the hard work you both have put into. It saddens me knowing that it is obvious you love each other, and you can't show your feelings in public everywhere you go. Love should be freely given to nice people. That is why I always say, love from Mike ❤❤

@pamelabailey4911 4 ай бұрын

Just an idea. When building the second cabin, you should have other youtube friends come in and do a room. All of it! They make the furniture, decorate, etc. Then you call it their room. Would be great content for both channels.

@Qrtuop 4 ай бұрын

Everyone always says this sort of thing and it's a terrible idea. Why would you leave the decor of each room to different people. The house would look so weird and disjointed.

@pamelabailey4911 4 ай бұрын

@@Qrtuop They wouldn't be picking out random people. They'd have friends they knew and they could trust.

@lynmartin5383 4 ай бұрын

Living your best life is all you can do - love that you both are being real. My partner and I are an older version of you two down in Australia, living remotely off grid but not as much snow! Love your vids & thanks for sharing 😊

@kevinstewart3235 4 ай бұрын

The pack is my favorite to watch each week. Now, I'm amazed at your strength and perseverance to create an even better relationship. People are ambivalent and about-face to say they understand relationships, so for all of us uneducated about the loving relationship you share, I can only give us a chance to learn from you guys. momemnt, Kids deserve you! Thanks

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Aww Kevin thank you so much for all your kindness. We are happy to have you in our pack. 💛🐶

@kathywilson9587 4 ай бұрын

LOVED this video! Thank you for sharing such personal things with us. You are strong and amazing!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for being here to listen 💛💛💛

@SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 ай бұрын

Not being able to be yourself - and being uncomfortable in your relationship at times is really maddening and it made me stop the vlog - and write this. I'm teared up right now. Sometimes I hate the world we live in. I don't know... it just makes me sad.

@Justbeoktoday 4 ай бұрын

I totally concur with your beautiful comment...but please...don't give any hateful energy to those little tiny specs of germs that unfortunately live amongst us and somehow pass as human beings. Keep being the awesome and wonderful person that you are, and know that people like you and the vanwives keep a large part of our world turning and functioning in the best way possible.❤❤❤

@SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 ай бұрын

@@Justbeoktoday Awww - thank you. 💚💚💚

@mpp-wh6ms 4 ай бұрын

You two make my heart happy as I remember how fun it is to love someone. Keep having lots of fun.❤️

@captain_melchior 4 ай бұрын

I can’t believe it’s been a year since the last one! Also, it’s CRAZY how proud I am of yall - I literally remember venmoing yall one time years ago when the van was broke down and you were struggling! Look at you now!!! Looking forward to what’s to come, and hopefully I can make it to a meet and greet someday!

@annewinning9723 4 ай бұрын

Max would be an excellent collaboration partner for kids 😉

@ChrisJankowski 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Hugs to you both. You are both such strong people and it's great that people get to see such great examples.

@deltonabf 4 ай бұрын

Laughing and crying! Thanks for allowing us to come along on your adventurous life. This winter seems to have been different for many couples your age. Best wishes from Florida❤️❤️

@deedeeryen 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your life and your vulnerability. You two make me smile and I look forward to your vlog posts on Sundays.

@Shelty6 4 ай бұрын

You girls have inspired me so much. My situation is not good but watching you two tackle all the projects made me believe that I could do it too. I don't have anyone to help me but I have fixed and repaired some plumbing and redid my kitchen and even did tile which I never did before. You just made me realize that I could figure it out if I put my mind to it.

@lindar4648 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for such a sincere look at your lives. I’m so happy for you both and it’s so obvious that you are so happy together. Enjoy your life and it’s nice that you share it with us.😊

@dalebetts5658 4 ай бұрын

Laughed and cried! 🥰This was such a touching video, so happy for the two of you! And so excited to see what the future brings!

@marlaf1545 4 ай бұрын

Hi ladies , those were some very heartfelt questions. Some really tugged at the heart ❤️ strings . Yall are wonderful women . I wish you both the very best in life. Yall will be amazing moms . The earlier the better , Patience start to wear the older you get. Good luck to you both.

@101doreen 4 ай бұрын

I love all the behind the scenes knowledge, bloopers, and history. You have an exciting life. You are doing it right. My parents retired into a rugged mountain life. Honestly, that's a stage 1 or 2 in your life not stage 3. It's very hard work, and you too make it look easy. Big love to all 4 of ya! 💛❤️💛

@RoyClare 4 ай бұрын

Yup, that’s a fine, strong relationship right there … “learning to fight better” … the truth, indeed. I totally love and admire your work, go you guys!! 🎉😊

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thanks Roy 💛

@a.o.9839 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🥰 If you have any tips about how to argue healthier in a relationship I would love to see a video about that, I am learning so much this year about attachment styles etc that helps to improve the dynamics in a relationship

@lizowens3180 4 ай бұрын

You two are just so happy! Thanks for sharing your fun journey!!!

@oscoto 4 ай бұрын

I am 80 guy and I follow the two of you because you live life. What you do and how you do it is exceptional . The two of you are a good example of how to get things done. You definitely are a living example of how to follow your dreams. Thank you for sharing and honest answers. Bless the two of you and keep, keeping on.

@anitatroyer2066 4 ай бұрын

Wow!! This video was filled with vulnerability and honesty. Your perspective on life was so well explained as you share with all. You challenge each of us as viewers.

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for tuning in 💛🥹

@terristenacious2279 Ай бұрын

I just wanted to watch your q&a it makes me happy to see you two happy.

@scottjones5221 4 ай бұрын

Pause this moment at the lake cabin, the names you both have received EPIC think about it. How Dramatic and Beautiful the Jasmine flower is and the Strength and majestic beauty of the Crystal ❤ Rockin Roll

@havenonwheels5158 4 ай бұрын

You two are wonderful, and any child will be blessed to have you as parents! ❤ Baja is the first place that’s felt like “home” since we’ve been on the road. We’ll always go back to Maine in the summers. Looking forward to your upcoming videos! Thank you for sharing! - Edie and Cindy

@kathyabraham4226 4 ай бұрын

This was the BEST VIDEO on KZfaq!!! You had me laughing, crying, giggling, but most all I felt like I was better part of your life not just a viewer of a video. I love you ladies. You are amazing!!!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

We feel the same way with you and our pack. The engagement gets us all feeling a bond. Happy we could make you giggle, Kathy. 💛🐶

@karenrn5607 4 ай бұрын

Love you two so much. The honesty and authenticity made this video EPIC! Thank you! 😊

@judyderieux8484 4 ай бұрын

Thank-you for all your honesty. You both are such fun people to spend time with. And of course your bad times together are private. My wishes for you are for all that you both want for the future come true. 💓

@carolyngrotaers4454 4 ай бұрын

Great answers to the questions, ladies. Thank you for sharing. 🥰

@azul4love138 4 ай бұрын

I love you epic souls!!!! I’ve been following your journey since you have been in the van. It feels like the years has just flown by. I’m a fellow traveler and your stories have inspired and encourage me to take even more leaps of faith and adventures into this world. I would love to meet in California for a meet and greet. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING SO MUCH thank you for documenting your lives and experience with such humor and inspiration. I love your content and aspire to being doing something similar in the near future. I’ve dreamed for years of a tiny home eco village some where in nature, and document the experience. Keep up the magic 🧚‍♂🧚‍♀

@ronmedalie3078 4 ай бұрын

Such a coool vid. Love watching you Moe. Being open vulnerable is a beautiful trait. Keep on keep on. Keep on keeping on.

@anderspetersson6451 4 ай бұрын

You two are amazing, when you talk about your moms I got emotional. Keep up the good work. Saying hello from Sweden🇸🇪

@rladner96 4 ай бұрын

I would like to say as I have always had to travel for work for my company. Three years ago my daughter found your channel and asked me to watch it when I was home with her and it has definitely changed my life I’m a better father and husband an I have my baby girl back an I have a new perspective on family an life an I just want to thank you ladies an look forward to all of your videos with my daughter wile we eat popcorn an have a soda love ya ladies

@lynnemac1402 4 ай бұрын

That was a lovely video, thanks for sharing. Just to say I think you both did a fantastic job on the beams your ceiling looks amazing x

@l.w.petersen7359 4 ай бұрын

This was - in my opinion - the best video you have ever made. It put so many things in the right perspective - at least on how i have experienced the two of you for a number of years - and not meant in a negative way at all. Really great ladies!! Also a couple of surprises - one of those being that I always had a thought of - if you were going to have children (the "natural" way) it would be Crystal that would be the one, but seeing this video it all came together. I think you have done so well - keep it up ladies. Love you!!

@sonyakelsey4677 4 ай бұрын

You two are amazing. Watching you guys brings me joy every week.cant wait for next week's video.

@here5D 4 ай бұрын

We love the Big Brother Big Sister program! 👽💞✨ thanks for sharing and answering all them questions 🥰 really love watching you two ladies living off grid!

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

We love the Big Brother/Big Sister program we support them. 💛🐶

@brianAUS65 4 ай бұрын

Didn't think I could like you guys more! You make me smile...and perhaps a tear or two in this one...every week. It's a privilege to be part of your community and thanks for sharing so much with us all. Do look forward to you making the trip to Australia one day, Max needs all the help he can get 😀

@gsep1056 4 ай бұрын

Wow! Inspirational! I cried a couple times. Love you guys!

@Hereandnow3 4 ай бұрын

Love your q and a! You two are amazing humans and so love your outward sharing and that you keep your life together private. Your channel is always lovely to watch! 💕💜🐾🩷🐾🌈💜💜💜

@Vanwives 4 ай бұрын

We love you! Thank you xx

@df2mobile 3 ай бұрын

You guys are great! You are a super mature couple, both so thoughtful and fun. Keep smiling - even when you're pissed ;)

@johannakuster1564 4 ай бұрын

This was so awesome how you shared so much of your being and your way. Esbecially when Crystal talked about her big sister! I was a bbbs coordinator in Germany until the program was ended (not a nice story). I always felt that this program really can do so much, for both the kid and the adult. So happy that you got such a nice big sister! And what you told about growing together in the relationship, also touched me a lot. Everyone who can say, we both grow together and our relationship grows as well, can be so thankful and happy. All the best to you both!

@ethank7293 4 ай бұрын

Glad you guys where able to share more of your life to us all, and I can’t wait to see what the future holds for you girls, have a great week.

@paulsmith-wx9qz 4 ай бұрын

You girls make me laugh so much, questions and answers where great and thoughtful making use feel happiness and sadness, ❤ love the pack can’t wait to follow the next few years and family grow ❤❤❤😊