The main lesson is never marry a fame hungry girl no matter how good looking she is. I promise you if Jamie was married to a normal good supporting women during the time he signed for Wolves and going to earn £8m, he would not have been depressed the way he says he was. Lads listen to me carefully, the most important decision you’ll ever make in your life isn’t what career you have, what job, what friends you have, it is the woman you choose to marry, choose to go 50/50 on everything you own with. So please choose carefully, don’t marry for looks, marry for heart.

Played with Jamie for Dartford District when we were 11 and my family live in South Darenth too. He was the only one who made it Pro out of all of us. Proud of him. 👏

Respect Jamie. Very honest interview. I lost my mum aswell and have struggled with it since. Keep your head up mate.🙏

I too lost my mum after she fought it for a long time, I really felt a connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum. He's been through so much, I'm glad he's come through it, and is doing well.

I think we sometimes forget that even footballers are just humans like the rest of us

Every young footballer should watch this

Ah man! That part where he speaks about his mum was touching man 💔🥲

Cundy & O’Hara are 📻 gold

I was 17 when my mum died too but she died suddenly. The grieving process is difficult but it's what makes you a man. Definitely felt a bit of connection with Jamie when he spoke about his mum.He comes across like a nice lad who made some poor decisions but had seen the light.

Im not crying, you are... Ive called him a c*nt and got kicked off talksport in anger, now i see he's a real human, and he was only playing devils advocate and seeing him talk about his mum and then his dad and brothers tears as he made his debut for spurs, wow. you cant take that away from anyone. Jamie your mum is so proud of you. Life isn't a stroll in the park, its tough, like really tough, but out of MILLIONS you did it, you lived your dreams and every fans dreams no matter who they support. Peace and love sir.

Very motivational, brutally honest and heartwarming interview. Wishing him all the best.

Tough watch. Well done Jamie Lad. Nice to see you’re doing well pal. Keep going.

I used to love watching Jamie play for spurs. He was a fantastic player. I hope he's in a happier place mentally now. He seems like a great guy

Glad I clicked on this vid. Thanks for your story Jamie.❤

Thanks for sharing Jamie.

Respect Jamie 🎉 be proud of what you have achieved because millions don't! As men we all struggle and we all feel we can't show feelings it's something I struggle with now but by people like you speaking out it really helps us all 💙⚽️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

Really enjoyed this. 👏🏻

Lost my only parent ,my mum, she was a warrior ,A proper Irish mentality,clawed through muck for her boys. At 50 see passed from cervical cancer. The decline of her health and being completely powerless over the situation. Really affected me and my younger brothers. Lost her when I was 27. There is noting comparable for a man losing the only woman that ever loved them. Respect for talking about it Jaime. If you want to become that man ,you have to kill the boy.

Nothing but respect for you Jamie. Love your show on talksport, top man and glad you’re doing well fella

love to see this kind of interview. Doesn't matter you like Tottenham or not, listening to this really enlightening.

I can totally relate on losing a mother.I have lost my mum and I’m still struggling with the death of my mum through breast cancer and it’s still bottled and when I think about it I tear up so much and pains me a lot.

Top man. I enjoyed this mini documentary. If you're reading this Jamie, I wish you all the best mate. Hope to see you in the Match of the Day sometime.

What a heartwarming talk. Thank you Jamie COYS

Very honest interview Jamie , hats 🎩 off Sir , your Mum is looking down on her boy with proud eyes x , RIP Jamie’s Mummy x x x

Excellent interview.....love these stories

Really good watch this, Jamie’s honesty is so refreshing going to show how resilient he is as a sports person!

Great interview. Kudos for keeping it real.

Behind every face there is a story, what an open and honest interview!

Thank you for this video.

Love this I always rooted for you

Great interview, straight from the heart. Well done 👍 Jaime 👍

Sportsbar is such a great listen with Jamie and Jason.

I will always respect a man who bares his soul and owns his failings. We're all human. We're all flawed. We're all learning as we stumble through life. Great interview. Respect.

Thank you for sharing in such a vulnerable way! I know footballers make a lot of $, but they are also human. I hope your story helps many going forward!

Cannot wait for you to reupload Andy Ansah’s one

Absolutely brilliant! I love your documentaries

so sorry to hear about your mum she will have been so proud they way you have turned out

Great presenter and a genuine guy.

The bit about his mum nearly made me cry 😢

Superb mate ❤❤

Love your talk sport slot a guy mentioned your documentary so here I am ! Thought ful stuff … hard to grieve for loved ones but you must grieve and get through. Jamie you had good people around you to get you back to where you are today and you got through - not everyone does.

Brilliant interview

Hey man, enjoy the times you had with your mum, you were both lucky to share your time together, better to have love and lost than never to have loved at all. My mum left us when I was 6 without a goodbye………. You’re a lucky man to have had a loving mother.

you found peace of mind and nothing can beat that

Respect Jamie, we all miss our mums

I like jamie, he's always very honest

Good for you mate .. decent fella .. likable guy on the radio

He was an ok footballer he didn't play much for Tottenham and he slowly dropped down the levels he was writing cheques his bank balance couldn't cash a familiar tale we hear. footballers need education on how to manage money

Respect Jamie, loved watching you mate. Paxton Rd Old Boy ❤

O’Hara you’re a legend mate. Everyone loves the Sportsbar!

Wow.. Watching this had me loved u Ohara,as an arsenal fan I am not loving O'Hara the Tottenham fan.. I am i loving O'Hara as a person... Because how he worked had to reached to the top and at the time of ur success ur mum was not around.. God bless u

What a top fella, love listening to him on the sports bar with cundy honestly makes my day right laugh

Good lad respect mate hard to talk about our feelings takes a big man to offload his emotions 👍🍀

Much Respect Jamie

I remember when jamie scored against wba i was behind the goal what a shot great goal good luck in your future jamie and rip to your mom god bless

Work through it Jamie, you will come out stronger mate

After this interview I have soo much more respect for ohara rip mummy O'Hara

Giving millions to someone who is financially is basically a death sentence

As soon as he mentioned his mum ....brings it all home 😢

well done lad - well done

I always loved him as a footballer. He scored some screamers

I remember seen Jamie for the first time thinking this fellas à baller but never understood how he never take it to the next level.

Excellent Video. Fair pay Jamie.

Loved that

The wags bro. Nuthin but trouble

Lloyds took more lengths than michael phelps ...

People too quick to make opinions on people they don’t know! Good luck for your future Jamie

Nice guy 🎉🎉🎉 takes balls to admit what he went through publicly !

Being with models is never a wise idea as they're generally superficial. Be with a real woman who's average or slightly above average and you've got yourself a keeper. 👌

Respect Jamie 🩵🤍

Respect Jamie you’ve made the to radio spot ya own !!!!!

Jamie O Hara My opinion of you has chabged Very emotional and very raw and incredible insighht of someone's life. There's a story behind every single person And we should stop hating and judging and understand instead

I’ve never understood why he got so much hate. Always thought he was a better than decent player. I’m glad he’s doing well and wish him continued success

I don't remember him at all, weirdly. But he seems like a decent, honest lad. Best of luck to him

i was out in town, met up with danielle lloyd and her mates, ended up back in there apartment, with her ordering us 4 scouse lads bottles an bottles of champagne, On jamie oharas platinum card Nice 1 jamie 👍 true story

I listen to Jamie and Cundy most nights on talkSport, top show

Good luck in life Jamie you deserve it!!!

Love Jamie. Him and Cundy are hilarious together.

Max respect to your Jamie. Honest and real.

Respect !!!

Absolutely respect this as a human. Listen to Jamie daily on radio and love him and his personality. Absolutely top bloke and fair play to it all. The money and fame must be so hard at a young age just shows how much support you need around you.

Danielle L finished he’s football career. She was my next door neighbour in SW when start dating Jamie (plenty more celebs prior him btw).

great watch that👍

Very insightful.. and a real honest account. All these young lads (and ladies) today, obsessed with money and fame and all this bullshit, thinking it'll make them happy. Just shows. You've got to be at peace with yourself first.

Respect J🫡 lost my mum too it’s not easy bouncing back fair play brother 🤜🏻🤛🏻

Whats the name of background music ? 5:25

Jamie's a good man

Alot of men go though the same but us men don't get help.

Seems like a really good young man best of luck in rest of your life

Didn’t pay your dad’s mortgage for him ! Wow

Jamie we love u from Liverpool

Top man 👍

Why is the sound editing suggesting Jamie is some sort of secret serial killer?

Thanks for sharing your journey the Putney pirlo

What a man

Fair play ma8 glad ur feeling better 👏. Colly bt8

Big up yourself Jamie, top lad you are!

Money will build you up so badly that if you become what you don’t like. It’s too difficult having money and staying true to yourself. I Respect responsible millionaire for this reasons. It’s tough with money

👏👏👏👏

Jamie was a pretty good player, he is damn funny on Talksport and I wish him well!