*mystic messenger enters the chat*

I see no lie here. I’m from America my boyfriend is Chinese and I have slowly adopted his way of saying I love you. Granted we use both.

Im chinese. Saying i love you is like.. HA have you gone OUTTA YO MInd

Yooooo this is so true. Literally that is the first thing my mom asks me when I see her.

hahahahhah

I love your focus on positivity here! There's always something to learn from everyone -- thanks for making me smile today! (:

Kiara 😇

As a Cinese,I agree with your opinion.But one thing I think that makes the difference is that we have different cutures,living ways,environment and education about it.

Not only chinese. Asians in general have this mindset, focusing on "we". Westerners on the other hand value independence (I remember learning this in college).

yin yang bitch

吴可可 听上去蛮好的😂

你自己也是这么希望的吧。

吴可可 扎心了，你作业好多

你想笑死我，繼承我的人品嗎XDD

哈哈

Eason M 66666666同问

这位裁判回到你的裁判席

看脸

Ω Seal ik spreek Nederlands.ik woon in belgie 3 jaar( 荷語)

哈哈哈哈哈哈

The classic tsundere lol

Her smile was beautiful 😳

Max Verner rose tico person that was gonna be literally my comment 😂😔

ChengYuan Li 一點都不暖 感覺很奇怪 還不如那外國女性直接來一句「我愛你」

David Sun 文化不一樣。中國人比較含蓄一點

暖了暖了

Annie Gong 并不是，跟含蓄没什么关系，嘴硬而已，跟父母的教育方式有关系

InTo ReKa 我感觉是个人的问题 每个人有每个人的性格 每一对情侣也有每一对情侣的想法 每个人不一样 一些人并不代表一个国家 更不代表一个人的教育

Jie Zhou 是啊。这种女孩太好了。按现在国内的价值观来说

那我為啥還單身啊？

Jie Zhou 我和我男朋友结婚，我家没要求房子和车子，父母只希望我们好好的，这些物质的都不重要

遇到这种女孩赶紧娶了

@@i2harry the reason why...blind...

糸工辰口 这不叫个人主义，这叫有个体意识，懂得尊重每个个体。

每个人观念不一样，这个东西，看个人喜欢，确实有利有弊。

李超凡 不就用語不同，講得好像很厲害

李超凡 這用語不同好嗎。。。

现代文明诞生于个人主义

现在基本都是独生子女，双方家庭一般都会帮衬。。。

買房子那個是真的⋯⋯真的很現實⋯

我是马来西亚人，我觉得还好吧，哪来那么多爱情啊，连房子都供不起，要自己女人受苦还不如暂时别结婚，结婚很烧钱，谈恋爱也是要有现实的时候，要结婚就要面对现实，不然就别结婚。。。结婚本来就是现实的事情。

你这说的是有道理的，但这样什么都准备好再结婚的想法至少在中国是基本实现不了的...中国很多大城市房价就是让工薪族不吃不喝到50岁才能供得起的价格

Peijian Leow 所以说马来西亚人很多很晚才结婚阿

😂看笑了 真的假的？

典型的中国女人脾气大，但是比较死心眼，闹腾但是不会轻易分手。典型西方女不哭不闹，但是独立性强，容易变心，有了孩子也在所不惜。

Are you Asian?

Same. I'm white American and nothing like this white American

有个梗，世界上只有两个国家，中国和外国。

外国特指西方文明，其他国家单独说的

可以看英文题目（……western ……）

@@user-wp8kq1gg5k 西方也太宽泛了，虽然日常是这么使用的

@@PT-nh9ov美国人还不是一样有native 和foreigner, 每个国家都一样的好吧。

因为喝冰水，直接就血气不通，大姨妈终止，伤身体

姜茶最有用

其实止痛药才是神器！

那為什麼外國人好像喝完冰水就不會痛了的感覺？

請解釋何為「血氣」

2yk wrong, most western cultures are secular

2yk Very true. Though i find there is a difference between “western” (western is only “white” on tv) and European and Asian.... Then there are different frames of reference We need to view humans as valuable souls, rather than objects... in any culture, background, country, or background ;) As well as learn to have laughter and humour again

@@elenagelmez5064 My Social Psychology book says westerners are individualistic whereas easterners are collective.

@@Respin12333 how did he? The countries them selves tends to have an overall individualistic or collective stand point possibly from adapting different ideologies, but that doesn't mean every person within those countries thinks alike. There's no contradiction here

@@CC-il3hw Because this is a stereotype that I really hope gets debunked in the near future as more and more awareness is raised with real East Asian culture. Yes there is definitely a collectiveness like the saying in English "there's no I in team" but just like that saying in Asia this is more about education and discipline. Actually without it Asians are incredibly individualistic. This is where you get the well known characteristic of Asian mothers and how they constantly compare their kids to other kids. They want theirs to be the best. Similarly Asian individuals want to compete to be better than their peers. They want to show off. So a culture was developed around this to prevent the individualism from having a negative impact on society. Just imagine the kind of chaos you'd have if 1.4 billion people only cared about themselves? On the other hand the west developed in the same but opposite way. Individuals in western cultures love to be part of the group. Fitting in a big part of growing up and being a unique little snowflake isn't as nice when your peers think you're weird and make you an outcast. Excommunication was a powerful weapon used by the church. So a culture developed around them to stand out and be proud to be who they are as individuals rather than follow the crowd. It's allowed them to be less fearful of becoming a social pariah and embrace what makes them different. You can actually see this play out in the types of fictional stories between the cultures. For example Journey to the West is probably the most famous tale for Chinese youth. Sun Wukong is like China's main superhero. So the story is about a group traveling to the west but most people cling to Sun Wukong as the hero of the story because he's the bravest and most powerful of the group. Others hang onto Tang Shen for his wisdom and level headedness. Usually the major crises are taken care of by either Sun Wukong's power and cunning or defused by Tang Shen's nobility while Zhu Bajie and Sha Heshang usually carry the weight and don't really have many accomplishments. Now in the west you'd have individual superheroes right? Superman and Batman are their own heroes. But when the enemies become bigger threats you unite them and other superheroes into the Justice League so that together they can defeat the enemy.

Half or like 90% of Mandarin comments. 😂😂 But Being An Indian, I felt like That Chinese Couple is like Typical Indian Couple while our parents pay our First Home Investment, even though m embarrassed, I have to Accept it.

i can understand.........中国人报到.......

Neither can I. It’s even sadder bc I’m a Chinese American but I never bothered to learn Chinese ;-;;;;;;;

哈哈哈哈。 sad life.

Itz M I’m Chinese living in the Americas. I feel you. ;-;

Thats so sweet >.

Sweet! You have big feet 🦶 😄

That's funny I'm Mexican Irish too but I'm much more like the Asian girl in the video

Also when I was married to a Chinese I could share shoes with him 😆💪

@@yili2650 no they have small feet 💯😂

个人观点；自己的收入自己安排就好。

赵璨 但是理财能力差的人太多了

有些女人更不会理财 只会花光你的存款

@@user-uv7wr6nj5d 不要這麼專業

很多老公多年来将收入交给老婆，最后发现自己钱都不见了。--自己管自己钱比较好

现在像你这么优秀的中国妹子真是稀缺啊

weilai lyf 微博上的都每天闲着没事干的自以为小资中产的假知识分子女性 油管上很多出国留学的 大部分出国留学的女性都很nice的 很有教养 比较平等待人的 据我所知

所以，妹子你还单身吗 XDDD

我也是,除了水那個之外,我是總想著賺錢,老公陪我玩就好了

还有个人叫丈母娘

王梦笛 解釋一下，冰水外國觀念是冰水喝了消耗能量中和體溫，所以感冒之類的冰水，正常喝水也是冰水，餐廳慣例冰水，家裡慣例有裝冰的廚具，肚紙痛應該照喝冰水

Chi Yeung 这个我知道，所以我说“除了热水冷水那部分”

就买房那个来说就是现状啊，还有游戏机还是最好的状况

DINUO HE 我只能针对大部分年轻人（硬要具体说，那我就限定在25岁以下）情况并不是这样子的，当代中西方思维其实在很多观念上是慢慢相近的一个过程。又比如游戏机那一段，若视频并不是放在中西比较中，而不单拿出来做一段，怕也是会被人说那个女生脾气古怪，并不是一个很正常心态的事件，是不普遍的。当然这仅是我的看法，我站在我的生活中以及考量我身边人而得出的结论，不能说完全正确但也不能说没有参考价值。我之所以要评论不是要批评视频，因为这是娱乐性质的，但是想要希望视频制作者在内容制定之前会想到更多，毕竟网络力量之大，不希望会有太多刻板印象的东西再附加起来。

王梦笛 其实这本来也就是一类年轻人的现状（包括25岁以下的）的，如果偏要说大部分都不是这样，起码在我身边这个比例是可以五五开的，并且这种视屏本来就只能给我们塑造典型或相对典型的人物形象，这样才有娱乐性，其实这也让人可以自己想想自己是否也一样？我并不是想说明什么，可是中西方文化真的没有慢慢相近，它们只是由于国家之间的合作等，共同接受了一些观点，并且有了一定的相似之处，然而还是各自保留着自己的特点，起码在我看来是各有各的优点和缺点，并不能一概而论。在我认为慢慢融合和共通的趋势是有的，而相近的趋势大抵值得斟酌

加拿大辣条 同意。 认识个２３岁从法国来蒙特利乐的人，跟一个魁瓜结了婚。女方一结婚就辞了工作，做全职家庭主妇，其实男方希望她工作分担一下的。十多年后女的在网上又从法国找了个男友。让法庭把老公从家里踢了出去，男的还得给她家用，还要继续付房贷。怎一个惨字了得！

no name 魁瓜是?这法律是如何做到让付首付还贷的人净身出户的。。。

全职家庭主妇在很多国家都是受保护的，尤其是做全职家庭主妇做了好几年的，德国这边也算一种职业，离婚后男方需要继续支付抚养金，直到女方找到工作或者嫁人。至于房子问题，也许是baby跟女方？ 德国的法律：假如夫妻双方对婚后所购房屋没有过什么特别的约定的话，此房屋一定属于夫妻共同财产；假如有过约定，而女方又属于弱势群体（例如德语非母语，收入低于男方等等），找个好的离婚律师，认定此房屋属于夫妻共同财产的可能性大过九成。此外，若有孩子的话，离婚时只要孩子的抚养权判给母亲，此房产会完全归女方所有。

加拿大辣条 那是有但他們的拜金女只是一部分，但中國的可是全部都是拜金女啊！

西方人的孩子是天生放養的，又沒有東方那種教育，所以什麼都是自己為先，所以西方人有仁義思想的是少數，更重要的是西方的法律保護女方保護家庭主婦，即便東方人到了西方也會一樣

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Li yiran 非常中肯，這影片在定型中國女生和外國女生，而且我看着感覺這影片只是想告訴人中國女生有多差勁，這樣便引起了大家對中國女生的厭惡，留言都在罵中國女生拜金甚麼的，身為中國(香港)女生的我真的很不忿，真是躺着也中槍，這影片根本就是在使定型更強烈

Can’t agree more! Very well said!

Wolf Billy 你妈呢？被你吃啦？还是跟别人跑啦？

怎么说呢，视频一开始说只是针对部分。

Number 你怎么不说你爸呢？怎么丑男去把你爸阉了呗。

分人，觉得他们不太会呵护人这样的结论我是不敢乱下的

ukyee yea but remember the pink hair girl is a foreigner so it's harder for her to make new friends and get a new job which is why she'd hesitate, for the Chinese girl it's easier because she's from the country

+Alastriana Teregov not true. Usually, the girl follows her husband in asia

I'd prefer the pink-haired girl. Moving anywhere is a big decision to make and being quick to move to another city so easily doesn't indicate how much someone is willing to sacrifice but rather how rash they are in their decision-making. In my opinion, I do think that what the Chinese girl did was rash and I therefore prefer the pink-haired girl. I'd prefer a person who would think things through rather than jump all in, so you could say I make decisions with my mind (thinking) rather than my heart (feeling). Thinking with either isn't a problem but I guess my preference leads me to liking the other person.

He's basically asking her to sacrifice her career to follow him. Not wanting to move with your boyfriend doesn't mean you love him less. It's just that that girl has her own goals to achieve that can't be fulfilled in Beijing cause she should have started everything all over again. It's a very selfish thing to ask someone and you can't expect that your significant other will agree and move with you. Morover, not trying to be dramatic but 70% of relationships don't last. What are you gonna do after you break up in a city where you don't have a stable job, friends and family?

as a western girl i was taught that it's bad to base life decisions and career dreams on a relationship. it may not be romantic, but where i live it's considered stupid and rash behaviour. a friend of mine even broke up with her partner, because he was about to throw his dreams over for her and she felt like that wasn't love, it was unhealthy obsession. i don't mean it's necessarily bad to move for your partner and make sacrifices, but it has to go both ways and to expect a woman to follow the man around like a puppy is just not realistic nowadays. my mom did that for my father and afterwards she suffered from depression, because she couldn't find friends or a job in the new place, and they almost separated. i guess for men it's a nice idea, that she would do anything for you, but it's very selfish to expect that. things like that need to be well thought about and her priorities need to be considered. if those are family and a high income on your side, by all means, she should move with you, but if they are career and being an equal partner to you, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you enough.

等等，第一？

本来就是这样的，日本人说Gaijin时一般不也是指白人黑人吗？

Luhan Forever 容我说一句，中国女人都是自私自利的垃圾，感觉太美化中国妹子了

monica niu 中国女人的素质真是全球第一啊，也难怪你这种人生活在国内了。

Wolf Billy emmm并不 也只有你这种brain这么小的人才会assume 真的搞笑

monica niu 中国男人满足不了你可以去找黄鳝啊，电棍捅捅也行。

bb啥？

It listened like ur showing your experience off

ufff

wan guo 外国人也有学区房，但是很多地方租房也算学区的。只是从法律角度 西方法律非常保护女性

外国人当然有学区房的概念，但是只要租房就可以上学区房，不像国内必须要买房。希望国内也能推行这种政策，不要买房和户口绑定。。。

中国社会太现实吧？我从小在国外长大父母离异两个妹妹跟我妈在上海而我跟我父亲移民了阿根廷然后加拿大前几年父亲去世所以这两三年经常回国看家人 可以说我两个妹妹也是大美女加上朋友圈闺蜜什么都长得不错可是说到物质我还是觉得她们包括她们的朋友现实的不要命两个都结婚了两个妹夫条件都算很好了徐家汇买房8万一套车也好的，她们一下已婚的朋友也不里外长的好确跟丑和胖的跟猪的在一起要么就是很猥琐的那种可是这要是土豪这些都不是问题。

人各有志，你也不能说她们的想法就是错的，毕竟每个人对自己未来的规划不一样。再说将来好了坏了的，人家后果也自己承担，不会麻烦到别人就行了呗。各个国家都有这种人，美国日本也都有Sugar Daddy、援交这些，这是全球问题啊，有的时候你不得不承认，富人占有的资源就是要比普通人多得多，这就是现实。

wan guo 没怪她们都说了中国现实社会逼的。人人都爱面子和对比谁比谁过的好特别是像上海这种城市如果你找个没用的老公你就成为了你朋友圈的笑话。国外gold digger当然也有可我个人觉得还是亚洲多的去特别中国和韩国，妹子们必须要找有钱的男人。没钱也只少要有车有房。中国男人有点本事就当自己是马云了。国外不一样我带过的国家也不少淡物质的还真不多基本都是因为爱而结婚不过夫妻AA这倒是真的，去个超市购物都会谈今天该轮到谁买单了不过这也算是一半一半不是全老外的婚姻都这样。可是结婚谈房谈车几乎不存在。 我回国妹子问我在加拿大干嘛的我就说我很穷没钱，她们就对我失去兴趣了哇哈哈哈

老乐快递员 美的你！还想要多的，能找到就算不错了！😂😂😂

Ziwei Vivianne Huang 你想太多了。

这也体现了中国女性的思维狭隘，利己，非黑即白的思维

koldpine 结婚买房这件事，真不是女人的问题，而是社会问题，是大城市中太多人口竞争太少资源导致的。在中国，没有房子没法给孩子上户口，孩子直接面临无学可上，或者要交很多择校费读私立学校。而外国人没有户口这一说，租房住也不会耽误孩子的学业。不过现在中国政府似乎开始推行租售同权，将来租房也可以上户口，孩子享受就近上学，以后买不买房就无所谓了。并且女人的薪酬远远低于男人，将这么复杂的社会问题只怪罪在中国女人头上，很不公平。

你没看到中国女生嫁鸡随鸡迁就你搬迁，西方女友不愿搬迁或许你们还要面临分手，果然利己狭隘。

wan guo 嗯 国外没房不是大问题, 房子也不贵 也不存在户口问题 ,换句话国外比国内活着轻松,尤其是对于中产来说,富人来说无所谓。虽然我是自干五, 但我不得不承认,很多很多地方国内确实还不行。 哎 狠铁不成钢

I guess a lot of these depends on the person/couple, some girls’ periods give them intense cramps that increase when they consume something cold but get soothed when they consume warm things like water, tea, or soup. Also it’s extremely common in Chinese culture that everybody drinks warm/hot water, and it’s common knowledge that girls on their periods drink hot water that it’s almost insensitive that a boyfriend gives iced water to his girlfriend when she’s on her period, so that’s why the girl in the video is mad when her boyfriend gives her ice water when he knows that she’s on her period. Of course all these depends on the person, but that’s how it generally goes

i do that for many years and i'm chinese

初三么，我大学毕业还是个，，，

TRUE

欣欣 小绵羊最好了🙆🏻

亲爱哒 以后还是不要带上别家爱豆好吗 别家的粉丝也会不开心的 没恶意只是怕艺兴被黑

陈盈洁 sorry 我只是想开个玩笑没有想那么多😂😅

我喜欢王嘉尔！！

欣 欣 亲没事哒~ 只是提个醒 毕竟玻璃心的孩子还是很多的 就怕她们一个不小心引爆了

😂😂

Your pinyin's spell is right. Come on in learning Chinese！'

LOL I feel like that's more of a universal girl thing than an Asian girl thing. But looking perfectly gorgeous is more an Asian girl thing. I find more western girls are fine taking silly shots or quick snaps than Asians.

真实

西方女友以后日子过不下去也是说离就离，前期大度后期也一样

@Yunying Huo 說到離婚率，台灣人就笑了，亞洲第一，全球第三

Cause we are all in Eastern Culture.