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What a Shocking Dad, Innocent Girl|Growing up in a shack|I've Been Through the most|Jabulile Skosana

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centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile centTWINZ Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile are the producers of their second online show 'I have been through the most'. It's a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopeful inspire for the better.
This week on the show, we profile Jabulile Skosana
Follow: @ivebeenthroughthemost on instagram and facebook I've Been through the most who has had endless life challenges.
Email: centtwinz@gmail.com

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@choleniaevidence8321 3 жыл бұрын

You were not messy love , you were just anxious because of fear !

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

True. I got used to justifying his abuse. Thank you 🙏

@km_6181 3 жыл бұрын

Teachers play an important role for many children like Jabu❤️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@KhanyaMaweni That is very true

@millymashile 3 жыл бұрын

Imagine having to touch and look at rain, confirming that it is not your mothers blood. Joh Jabulile you've been through the most, but you live to tell your story and help others. May God bless you

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I'm grateful to God for His Grace. And thanks to you for the platform to share my testimony ❤🙏

@missnontokozo 3 жыл бұрын

The older I get, there more I understand... YOU CANNOT POUR FROM AN EMPTY CUP. People cannot give what they do not have. I understand that now as a young woman, I didn't understand it when I was going through it as a little girl. I'm so proud of you sis❤️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sis❣

@palesapalesa938 3 жыл бұрын

The most horrific thing about these stories is that they say so many horrible things and then say I was 8 😓how does a 8 year old go through so much, we need to protect our kids at all cost!!!!! Most of all protect them with prayer

@alicegauteng2358 3 жыл бұрын

I hope this story inspires many people, especially South Africans girls and women. Your birth condition or your past doesn't define you. Look how far she came. She is beautiful, well spoken , and obviously intelligent. Yes she has baggage ( like most people) but she is not carrying it around in her shoulders. She put it down and get on with it. She seized the opportunity of education and made something of herself. I love this woman!!! I am proud to fly the Mzansi flag high all the way from Canada because of people like her. ❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦❤

@nothandodlamini3192 3 жыл бұрын

As women we need to learn to have a relationship with our kids outside of our partners. So many kids never experienced the love of a mother because she was angry at the father

@evezazzle5974 3 жыл бұрын

Amen Dali ❤️🥺🤗

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree with you more. These are some of the conversations we should be having whenever we meet up as friends for drinks❤🙏

@Solwazi918 3 жыл бұрын

And even in marriage, children need to experience both the love of the mother and the father.

@noxndu3380 3 жыл бұрын

i also think mothers must go to therapy if they can feel something is not right.cos keeping so much anger inside u,u take it out of other ppl.

@johannakbnyembe5057 3 жыл бұрын

You're too strong girl... Emotionally, yhoo all these with just a smile accompanying your story. SALUTE

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

There's peace and power in healing ❤. Thank you so much 🙏

@dailyupdates2960 3 жыл бұрын

You did not deserve to go through all of that as a child. I cried throughout this......

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Glad God came through for me. Now I know🙏❣

@joskyshams4758 3 жыл бұрын

Skosana sorry for what you had to go through. Receive digital hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪 You look like Mercy Chinwo from Nigeria

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

😂💃💃 I just checked her out now! She's sooo beautiful. Thank you very much @JoskyShams 🤗

@sopangisa 3 жыл бұрын

Woow we thank God that through it all you are an inspiration to the world. Broken and hurt can be healed through your story .You are a blessing to many. So sorry that you had to go through all that.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sis 💟 I'll continue to share my journey

@chiponashakhembo1295 3 жыл бұрын

I've broken down so much after watching this episode. It's like you were telling my mother's story and only today after 17+ years I've remembered those memories... Thank you for sharing love.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I hope your mom healed❤. May you all find peace and forgive all. Love anf light to mom and all of you 💟

@chiponashakhembo1295 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848the forgiving part is what I struggle with. She seems to have healed. But for some reason I fail to forgive him.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@@chiponashakhembo1295 its not easy, 1 step at a time no matter how long it takes. It's all for you, trust me.❤❤❤

@letlotlomaloma4150 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Jabu Thank you so much for sharing your powerful testimony! It happened to you but not for you, it was all for the glory of God. Look at you ❤️I hope to God you are also healing in telling us your story! May everything you touch flourish.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Letlotlo your heart though 😪. "It happened to me but not for me" I've taken that from you. Thank you very much 🙏 May God continue to bless you too

@funifetumani1741 3 жыл бұрын

the saddest thing for me, is ending up at an orphanage, while having 2 parents. Im so happy you made it!!

@tshepokubjane4637 3 жыл бұрын

I thank God for protecting you my sister, you’re a strong and beautiful woman, May Jehovah bless you more in what you’re doing for other children🙏🏾❣️❣️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@Tshepo kubjane Thank you very much ❣❣❣

@missnontokozo 3 жыл бұрын

The things we went through Nkosi 🥺🥺🥺 Thank God we do not look like the things we've been through 😔😞 NaSkosana, I thank God for your life 💐

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@Missntokozo oh we would be a mess if we looked like our experiences! God is amazing!!🙏❣

@musarapasicathrinenduna4472 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry

@hazelshozi9072 3 жыл бұрын

The people that were supposed to love and protect you, I am so sorry babe. You are beautiful and I hope you find healing. Sending you love and tight hugs.❤️❤️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much @Hazelshozi

@JimiBegbaaji 3 жыл бұрын

Your mother, should have dealt with her own issues before bringing children into this world. But your depth of character and beauty burst through, regardless. 💓

@mollygambiza9186 3 жыл бұрын

There's a God 🙏 You survived all that. You know, talking about it is part of healing. Sending you hugs ❤️❤️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

😂 My mom's name is Molly 🤦‍♀️. You just reminded me of the song that says "because He lives I can face tomorrow..."God is there sis. Thank you ❤🙏

@mollygambiza9186 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 Oh yes there's a God 🙏

@sellorankapole1613 3 жыл бұрын

Wow Jabu, what an inspiring story.... you rose about all that hurt and abuse. Become a well grounded woman and contributing positively in the society. May God continue to bless you.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

It's all God's work. Thank you very much 🙏

@mulaloratsiku6533 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed you have been through the most. I am inspired by your story that despite of all you went through you never gave up on your life and you are still going strong. This can only be God. May you be blessed for your beautiful and tender heart. Mo grace to you my sister 💞💕💓💓

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

True, this can only be God. Thank you very sesi. Stay blessed🙏❣

@shazy524 3 жыл бұрын

Iyoo cc look at me I'm crying while watching n here u a not dropping even one tear ,ur very strong cc

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I can only thank God for healing me sis🙏

@Missforexcharts 3 жыл бұрын

Wow our parents have really abused us😭😭😭😭😭u are so positive regardless of what you went through.. I love u even wen I haven't met u

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@Lovelove822 they really have...lets just heal and continue to share the love❤❤❤

@Missforexcharts 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 it's hard to heal when they keep denying😭😭😭

@ItuNadiaMphogo 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to go through all that. Love and light to you💕

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Much appreciated ❤

@cebisilemabaso8445 3 жыл бұрын

The ending is amazing ♥️♥️♥️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

😅❤

@marymoetsela5799 3 жыл бұрын

You are an inspiration cc...going through so much and still made it...big up to u sthandwa

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

It's all God's work and I'm beyond grateful 🙏

@machingachembe2789 3 жыл бұрын

What a life journey Jabu, your story will inspire many young people out there, especially girls...you are a very strong person keep it up and wishing you all the best for the foundation you have started. Stay Blessed

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much much Machinga🙏

@MissIngrilicious100 3 жыл бұрын

Oooh Jabulile my sweetheart💔my heart broke for you. What you went through no child should experience. You are such a beautiful young woman who is today so empowered and helping others. God bless you my sis❤❤❤

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@OleMoropa God is amazing sis. Thank you very much. May He bless you too❣

@xoliswangobese5743 Жыл бұрын

Your story brought tears to my eyes, it just made me realize that people are seek out there and really need Jesus. So he was taking out his anger on this poor child because she was not his on the other there is thi woman who just up and left a girl child with an angry and violent man who was not his biological father. Too much and could have been worse but I thank God for protection you sisi. I wish you the best. You just made me realize that I still have a lot of pantup pain from the abuse I suffered as a child. Don't allow anyone abuse you again now going forward.

@On_PointwithN 3 жыл бұрын

Such a strong and beautiful young lady. May your organization do well

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much @Nelly 🙏

@ezinnedailypay 3 жыл бұрын

Wow sis.... you are so strong and beautiful. I'm so inspired by you and can't help feeling angry at those who failed to protect you. Still you have risen far above it all. Love and light from the UK x

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🙏

@mmakgetlaneng325 3 жыл бұрын

MBOKODO....To all loving and caring teachers we salute you.Thank you for sharing Jabulile may the good Lord carry you further continue to make the difference

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@Malebo Makgetlaneng thank you very much and may God bless you too🙏❣

@nomasabisasizani1564 3 жыл бұрын

Awsemhle❤️❤️ Your mom+my mom=same whatsapp group

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😂❣ Choose You and choose God Mtase. Uzobuya and just love her all the way. God does not sleep on us ❤

@lolaatchabao5893 3 жыл бұрын

Umhle nyhani mntase. Its true when they say our scars are not visible to the naked eye but hiden deep within in the safety of our souls.

@tessyjeff6267 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@moonrock72 3 жыл бұрын

You are an amazing young beautiful woman. What a journey! Your resilience is remarkable!

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@KgaugeloLetwaba thank you very much 🙏❣

@mosarametse9011 3 жыл бұрын

Your story reminds me of the book "My father, my monster"

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I've always want to read that book. I'll definitely check it out🙏

@noxndu3380 3 жыл бұрын

yah i read that too.i had to stop reading first few paragraphs, then i started again a few weeks later.

@nombinintlahla8325 3 жыл бұрын

You're so pretty 🥰 wishing you success & strength my love... am crying thinking about my own abuse from my father... blessings to you, proud of your achievements 🌱... world let us be kind to one another, people are going through a lot🕯

@ZikhonaNopink 3 жыл бұрын

Powerful ending.. Thanks sis for sharing.. By the way you beautifull...indeed we can make impact using our past

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@leemay8633 3 жыл бұрын

It's called anxiety. You had anxiety that's why you kept dropping things, shakes and nervous.

@sifisojele4000 3 жыл бұрын

I know that today.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@LeeMay guess I got used to taking the blame and justifying my punishment. Thank you🙏

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@@sifisojele4000 me too hey

@mutshidzimulelu2991 3 жыл бұрын

Why would a mother leave her child with someone she knew wasn't her father and knew how abusive he was😭😢

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I've accepted that I'll never get an answer to that

@mutshidzimulelu2991 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 we have to accept and heal for our sakes

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@@mutshidzimulelu2991 glad I grew to believe and understand that 🙏❣

@noxndu3380 3 жыл бұрын

a mother who could not walk her to school while she heard there are ppl raping kids.

@thatsreality1177 3 жыл бұрын

@@mutshidzimulelu2991 just subscribed to ur channel

@AmalAuma 3 жыл бұрын

You are one brave lady and definitely an inspiration to many! God bless you💕

@nduh2232 3 жыл бұрын

Half way through and I cant hold my tears

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

I never thought I'd ever be able to share my story but God made it happen🤗 there's power in healing

@simplyika7823 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you had to go through that. Wishing you all the best

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Ika ❤

@apriljoy425 3 жыл бұрын

Thank GOD for caring teachers.What a beautiful girl.

@pattaika3507 3 жыл бұрын

After all these struggles and you made it in real world you graduated you are a superStar

@NalediGoldinah 7 ай бұрын

Woow Jabu, lool at you. You look nothing like your painful past. May children going through similar situations look at you and have hope, May use you to chnage may little lives😊 thank you for Sharing your story.

@jameschivayo7099 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you and keep praying, much love

@stevo1842 3 жыл бұрын

You are a strong woman. I wish others could learn from your experience. 🙏

@tshepomogobe1529 3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't help but cry to her story am just thinking of different stories of orphanage children...we do not even think to volunteer there

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Let's wipe those tears and do something. Please follow my KZfaq channel if you wish to volunteer in 2021🙏

@thembisaodendaal 3 жыл бұрын

Omg Jabu what a beautiful story ..God is amazing look at you now so strong and eloquent...you will go on to do great things...your trauma story was each shattering but Gid gave you enough grace to carry through You are so beautiful and you've answered a question I had as I was thinking what could be the emotional state of a girl who has gone through what you had gone through...I thought that that little girl will be damaged forever but I see and I know that you have been healed and your soul is strong Wishing you a blessed life and prosperity for Kwanele foundation

@telesterzindoga2682 3 жыл бұрын

This is so so sad it made me cry

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@TelesterMurumbi I've cried so many times. I'm glad I have more to smile about now

@nompumelelomaseko9719 3 жыл бұрын

Your story is one of hope Sis Jabu, your strength, your heart is amazing. I'm inspired by part of your journey that you've shared with us. As you told your story I thought to myself, the neighbours, relatives everyone in your community needed to act sooner. We really need to do better to protect the most vulnerable. Somebody needs to say another child, woman, man etc. Will not go through what I went through when I can help. Thanks for sharing your story with us.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

True sisi. We all need to do act fast, there's a loy of lives we can save.On my channel I'll also be sharing about 1 person who played a huge role in getting me to where I am today, unintentionally and at just 20 yrs old but she did so much more.

@nompumelelomaseko9719 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 Indeed ma'am That is wonderful, I will subscribe to your channel, hit the notification bell so I can hear all about it 😊

@nonoechibs2775 3 жыл бұрын

Yu are a strong woman, this is a touching story n thank yu for sharing great lesson for ladies to be there for our kids unconditionally

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks you @Nonoe🙏❤

@SoulDeepZim 3 жыл бұрын

May God bless you sis. 🙏🏾❤️

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

May God bless you too 🙏❣

@marilynchikwira1530 3 ай бұрын

God bless you dearest ❤️

@thobieuiko8906 3 жыл бұрын

I love the glow, outside your struggles, thanks for your story sisi.

@sinenhlahlantshangase9130 Жыл бұрын

You’re very strong 😢❤

@katlehomotsetse4317 2 жыл бұрын

Such story woman I am inspired ❤🙏

@doreenmali1134 3 жыл бұрын

Thx jabu for sharing its encouragng thx God u r so strong n brave. Wisecwoman i salute u 💕💪👌

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Doreen ❤

@tanniamahamati2943 3 жыл бұрын

Am so sorry.. You didn't deserve all this... 😭

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🤗❣

@kagisozacharia3706 3 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry you had to go through all of this 😭you are beautiful inside out 😘

@abongwemasiza534 3 жыл бұрын

Yhoo Jabu, i am crying😭. What you went through is really painful sisi, you are such a strong woman. People really cannot pour from an empty cup, your mom was soo empty. I am really sorry you had to go through that. I'm sooo proud of you for not giving up, for making something out of your life. Also, umhleeee yhoo. I love you Sisi and may God bless you ♥♥♥♥♥♥

@kimnzimande135 3 жыл бұрын

GOD is good

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

ALL THE TIME!🙏

@Peace-wm7vc 3 жыл бұрын

You are an inspiration sistaz 🙌🏽

@siphiwemthembu1542 3 жыл бұрын

Tjoooooo sisi you've been thru so much God bless you

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sisi, ma He bless you too🙏❣

@moselamazibuko3038 3 жыл бұрын

May God bless you more

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

May He bless you too. Thank you 🙏

@rosmida1395 3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you went through this 💔

@dudleydavids3416 3 жыл бұрын

Impilo umuntu omnyama ayiphilayo ubuhlungu. Uthini unkulunkulu makunje

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Masingamngabazi ngoba ekugcineni wenza izamanga ❤

@sisandamfecane1052 3 жыл бұрын

Despite all these individuals still pull through because God was, is and will ever be present...

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@@sisandamfecane1052 Amen❣

@zwidolugamukondeleli1088 3 жыл бұрын

Notification gang

@mosenngwammeshi2675 3 жыл бұрын

I wonder where was the lil brother when the mom left her.

@sifisojele4000 3 жыл бұрын

She is the younger one. Brother was older.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

The brother was older and he blessed to be taken by his father at younger age. He's doing very well❣

@atimedia6645 3 жыл бұрын

sad sad sad story

@xonganichauke3011 3 жыл бұрын

This is crazy, a grown man beating up a little kid and a bad mother who abandon her daughter with an abuser

@stizo3066 3 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful!

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much sis❣

@shataditswai2673 3 жыл бұрын

This is what I can give you 💐🤗❣️

@pendomunishi8379 3 жыл бұрын

See how she is beautiful

@karabothaba7459 3 жыл бұрын

💔💔💔💔Yea you broke my heart

@sibulelenqwelo8324 3 жыл бұрын

you are so strong

@vevo3130 3 жыл бұрын

strong sis! but your mother was crazy and cruel for leaving you with a man who is not even your mother i thank God you were not even sexually abused but there she was leaving you...seriously!! sorry but i don't like her at all....have heart love....you will be ok and you are soooo beautiful.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

A part of me is glad she left me, she let my journey bring me to where I am today. God is great❣🙏unfortunately I did become an easy target for sexual abuse but God waked that journey with me too❣🙌🙏

@motheowalerato701 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 💔💔 Just subscribed to your channel. Such an inspiration you are❤

@tellyourstorywithlorraine8629 3 жыл бұрын

Yah eishh! 💔

@ruthndlovu8283 3 жыл бұрын

You so beautiful Jabu ...

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much 🤗❣

@alicegauteng2358 3 жыл бұрын

You are a strong, beautiful, and an amazing woman.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Alice 🙏❣

@alicegauteng2358 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 You are welcome sis! Wishing you good health and success. Enjoy the holidays❤ 🎄❤

@guguncube2308 2 жыл бұрын

I feel your mum had her own trauma and was trying to deal with it she seems very damaged one day she will tell you!

@asandambebe5201 9 ай бұрын

Oh my God thank you for sharing your story ❤️ 🙏 and we thank God that he didn't raped you while your mom was not coming back home ❤❤❤ you look amazing sisi❤

@Ngunikaz 3 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful Jabu and just mind how much you share with fools , that’s what they do, use such info against you

@zibusisoviki3647 3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry💔

@LadyT06 3 жыл бұрын

Your dad seems like was abusing you because of your mom.This is so sad that had to go through such an ordeal. May God's hand be upon you and thanks for sharing your story... *BearHug!*

@milaniinalim3357 3 жыл бұрын

💔🙏🏾

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

🙏❤

@fungaimabuda3377 3 жыл бұрын

Eish this life sometimes

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

Let's just be glad it gets better at some point🙏

@fungaimabuda3377 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 sure love,am wishing you all of the good things going forward.

@jabulileskosana848 3 жыл бұрын

@Fungai thank you very much 🙏

@sifisojele4000 3 жыл бұрын

@@jabulileskosana848 Thanks for sharing your life with us. God was on your side- you are special know that Sisi.

@noxndu3380 3 жыл бұрын

u not serious 😳a guy told u he must mistreat u cos u were mistreated by r parents👏 andazi sihlala emhlabeni onjani🤦‍♀️.But ke someone once said u so proud u would swear u come from rich family🤷‍♀️ and ke sana we deserve more noba sisukaphi.NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS