What Can You Do When Another Won't Forgive?

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2 жыл бұрын

You said an unkind word or reacted rashly. You feel terrible because it was directed at someone you love. When you ask for their forgiveness the wound they feel is too raw and they don't accept your apology. What can you do?
Today, Fr. Mike shares a word of challenge and encouragement on how to exercise the virtue of patience and show mercy as you wait to be forgiven.
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@ashlings390 2 жыл бұрын

Isn't Fr Mike such a gift to the world 😊 My 5 year old daughter loves him and calls him the happy priest.

@sandyjeannette4617 2 жыл бұрын

Your daughter is spot on. He is joyous!

@abellarizk9224 2 жыл бұрын

God bless her, she is absolutely right

@IONov990 2 жыл бұрын

My sister likes him

@TheMvGeel 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, he’s a gift!! And your five year old daughter knows that!!

@Aggie-zs1qi 2 жыл бұрын

Little children know the truth! He is a true gift. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@marypinakat8594 2 жыл бұрын

*"God wants to love you even if someone doesn't .."* The brightest ray of light ever! *"Be patient, the story is not over ... ..."* You opened a great new vista, Fr. Mike☆

@azr6288 5 ай бұрын

Just accept who they are

@Dlpfan1985 4 ай бұрын

When they can't forgive you when you're truly sorry then it's time to move on I lost friends because of my stupidity

@JohnR.T.B. 2 жыл бұрын

Also perhaps we can pray and surrender it to God, "Lord I've done my best to repair the damages I've done but for the things I'm no longer in control I leave it to you Lord. May the person whom I've hurt turn also to your everlasting love and experience the power of forgiveness. Amen."

@josephzammit8483 2 жыл бұрын

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@cherylhee9762 2 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@ntmn8444 Жыл бұрын

Yes that’s a good prayer. I like it!

@Fatima-ul6nt Ай бұрын

THANK YOU FOR THE 3rd thing which resonated! Praying for your vocation. 🙏

@santanalawrence4448 Ай бұрын

Amen, amen 🙏🙌

@joaniemiller4362 2 жыл бұрын

Relationships are not always what we think they are. Boundaries are disrespected. We are messy creatures. Thank God for His forgiveness and restoration.

@rosemarykirby7489 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sad because a friend has turned away from me. I’m not even sure why. Fr Mike has helped me accept this sadness, love her and patiently wait for healing.

@cjm537 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear 😓 As a mom & sensitive person, may I share my perspective? I believe & have learned that some relationships are meant to be short term maybe when we or they needed someone. While other relationships endure trials & changes over the years. It's part of life. Remember: a true friend loves you & helps because they truly care about you regardless of our lives circumstances 💗 May God abundantly Bless you and all who need healing & good true relationships 🙏🕊✝️💗

@TheFinalFifty 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I've been dealing with. Thank you so much for this.

@HeavnzMiHome 2 жыл бұрын

Broken trust is difficult to repair, especially when alcoholism and drug addiction are factored in.

@Gravitywalker20 2 жыл бұрын

Very true, I believe it's pretty close to impossible to repair trust until our childhood trauma is dealt with. Most of us don't even know we carry it deep inside our psyche. The alcoholism and drug use is a way to cope with it I think.

@ximec7775 11 ай бұрын

1) Patient, long suffering 2) Love them. I love him that I need him to forgive me 😞 😭 3) Pray 🙏 for them. Just what I’m doing right @this moment 💔 4) Let God love me. Love myself, be patient with myself. The story is not over. There’s more to come. Let myself be loved 🥰 by the people that still love me.

@americanzero 5 ай бұрын

How do you show love to someone who won't talk to you? In my case, the fellow believer I have sinned against didn't deal with the situation according to Matthew 18. It seems like she told others in the group not to talk to me. I only know her on an online basis, so face-to-face interaction isn't a possibility.

@goodone5590 3 ай бұрын

@@americanzeromake amends dont hope for an easy forgivism, prove that you are worthy of forgiveness,

@mariadorantescastillo5231 2 жыл бұрын

Did anyone see that Father Mike was ranked 1 viewed podcast in the U.S. ❤️

@siger03 2 жыл бұрын

Trust is so important and everything stems from that. It takes a long time to build trust and a split second to break and lose it.

@nil981 13 күн бұрын

Then why is it the basis of so many relationships if it is so fragile? Sounds like a liability to me.

@jimferris6460 2 жыл бұрын

It is particularly difficult, painful, challenging, unrelenting when this occurs between spouses.

@codenamexelda Ай бұрын

In the modern age of perfectionism and canceling others for their sins, this is the perfect video to help.

@SHMAC24680 2 жыл бұрын

My word this year is Patience …. “Long suffering” might make for quite a long year but what a gift from God. Thanks for your insight Father Mike! I’m praying for you, please pray for me.

@judithhermann4550 2 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this! My husband and I are estranged from our son and grandsons. I have admitted that we said and did things we shouldn’t have, asked for forgiveness but he refuses. I have been angry, resentful, broken. Ready to be done with the situation. Built my “wall”. Your words inspired me and gave me strength to move forward, appreciate the many people who love me and to pray for my son and grandsons. Thank you for your wisdom!

@IONov990 2 жыл бұрын

I feel bad when I sincerely apologize to someone and they think my apology is insincere. I wish I were perfect often. Loving others genuinely is hard. Letting people go, accepting our wounded nature, weaknesses, and limitations is difficult. I feel so bad remembering the inexcusable ways I hurt others in the past. I've lost some people's trust because of repeated bad behavior. I hate admitting it is completely my fault

@Susiecat24 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I hurt someone I love very much and I messed up I truly made a horrible mistake that I have asked God for forgiveness but I can't forgive myself..... I can't forgive myself because I hurt not only someone so close to me but it effected my children's lives and made the person I hurt not be in my kids life even though they are family to my children. My children had nothing to do with it but they have been punished which has punished me deeply. I am truly sorry for what I did and take full responsibility for it. I hope God does forgive me and my children know and understand what I did also and forgive me. I hope one day the person I hurt forgives me fully. But the damage is done unfortunately.

@ghostwriter327 8 ай бұрын

Hi Susiecat24, I know this is an old post now but I am going through something very similar so I completely sympathise and hope you are doing well and that you have found peace and a resolution this past year. My warmest hugs to you.

@danielfortier2629 2 жыл бұрын

There's an old French Canadian prayer that I try to pray every day. I've loosely translated it in English, and the beginning of the prayer goes like this: "Lord, I recommend to you, in a special way, all those who hate me or who have offended me. I pray that you give them in good the hurt that they have given me, or that they have wished upon me. ..." It's difficult to wish good upon others who have hurt us. But praying "give them in good the hurt that they have given me", says what we must do as Catholics.

@judithhermann4550 2 жыл бұрын

I love this prayer!

@kazfor3769 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! I do pray for those who have hurt me, I have been particularly hurt recently, and a year later I am still struggling with it,the pain is still so raw, I always pray for this person and wish no ill towards them at all, but this prayer, wow!!!! An amazing prayer of mercy and charity!!!! To pray for them to receive as much good as you did pain is immense, keep this up I hope to have the strength to use this prayer going forward!!!!

@danielfortier2629 2 жыл бұрын

@@kazfor3769 Glad you like the prayer. I found it in my grandmother's old missel published in the early 1900s. Just because a prayer is old doesn't mean it can't be good. I pray that you heal from the hurt you've suffered!!! May God be with you.

@kazfor3769 2 жыл бұрын

@@danielfortier2629 Thankyou for your prayers, much appreciated, and yes I agree, I have my grandfathers old missel, it's an absolute gift, a joy to read and contains such treasures and riches, will keep you in my prayers too, god bless.

@InsomnivityEntertainment 2 жыл бұрын

This channel is always so timely in posting EXACTLY what I need to hear for a situation I’m currently going through. Praise God, He is working through this platform

@moriahmorgan5983 2 жыл бұрын

Not wanting to forgive only hurts oneself. It’s like drinking poison and waiting for it to kill the other person. You only hurt yourself. I hope everyone here struggling with forgiving will find it in their hearts to do so. Pray and pray for God’s peace.

@Dan-ys8nk Жыл бұрын

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@goodone5590 Жыл бұрын

Look i didnt forgive everyone, the pressure to forgive was the poison that didnt give me peace, once i accepted that i couldnt forgive certain individuals, i got peace, thier stull pain but it is not as bad as before.

@bhgtree 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Fr Mike. I think that often we have to pray for the person, wish them every good and then let go and leave the rest to God, both for them and ourselves. If our apology and prayers seem to not work then move on (keep praying etc.) and not become depressed, 'with the weight of failure' on our heads, God will console both partys in time.

@tulangkerangka1599 2 жыл бұрын

The timing of this video is unreal. I have just done a terrible mistake toward my so and i am currently in the phase of having to be patient for his forgiveness. I feel rejected in a sense but on the other hand, this video really reminds me to always keep my love for him no matter what entails.

@ebonyeyed08ti 7 ай бұрын

This is the positive advice we need to hear , for those of us who want to be forgiven and even apologized knowing it made us vonuarable. I watch it of these videos about repairing a relationship, and most are toxic saying accept it's over , give up , but that's not the answer . We must continue to love and rebel against resentment ,show them were genuinely sorry with action more than words .it takes time ,but they are worth it, we are not perfect , we can't say I wish I was perfect , there is no such thing, we all say things when angry , and we truly don't meant it, we can't take it back but we can change that behavior 🙏. We must be patient

@chaoooooos Жыл бұрын

Wow. I needed this. More than anything, I've never felt so lost in my own anger. I've always believed in forgiveness and have experienced how freeing it is, and I've forgiven people for worse things. Right now I'm going through a small fued that my co-worker and I went through, and I have never felt more anger than in this instance where he won't listen to a word I have to say. I've never felt more angry. But I needed this, I've had feelings of resentment, empathy, and self-righteousness. And now I know what I need to do. Forgive my co-worker, give him the space and time he needs, as well as himself. Cause our small spat isn't worth giving up a friendship. And I gotta be honest...it is gonna be INCREDIBLY DIFFICULT to be patient, forgive, and love again. But I'm willing to go through the waiting, no matter the cost.

@mariaellasm 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent! Thank you so much, Fr. Mike. There is one Person who will always forgive and love no matter what we do!

@sonflowrgirl 2 жыл бұрын

I've experienced this in a friendship. I broke it through my lack of courage, deception, and fear, not trusting in the friendship enough to be honest and vulnerable. It was devastating to see how my error and sin hurt a person I deeply cares about. All I could do was apologize and accept the consequences. She forgave but the friendship was over. Jesus really helped me through it. I ran to him in my shame and brokenness and He filled me with His mercy. It took a while for the sting to subside but I've prayed for my friend and asked the Lord to bless her life and I believe He has. I learned to confront and face parts of me that are not very likable or lovable and discovered that God's light though illuminating and revealing, is also warm and loving.

@goodone5590 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your respect to the friend! I hate it personally if someone tried to be pushy about forgiving or to acknowledge them, the victims boundary must be respect even thoe you prefer a difderent outcome.

@santanalawrence4448 Ай бұрын

Hello, God bless you, abundantly 🙏❤

@marklizama5560 Жыл бұрын

I'm realizing that a lot of my anger issues may stem from not being forgive in the past and being treated poorly by strict, harsh people. Please pray for me, being angry and cynical is becoming a huge problem for me.

@goodone5590 8 ай бұрын

Me too buddy, but for me the bitterness is very deep seeded so im unable to forgive, I pray that God saves you and that you will see his justice and blessing!

@felixhaileykeenofffical4252 2 жыл бұрын

I pray that you remain in God's light and you are pure

@ifeomaoluhara9421 2 жыл бұрын

Amennn!! Such a thoughtful prayer! Pray same for us too.🙏🙏

@ifeomaoluhara9421 2 жыл бұрын

Amennn!! Such a thoughtful prayer! Pray same for us too.🙏🙏

@ivonnemedrano8937 2 жыл бұрын

“Have a great week!” Thanks for the video Father Mike..

@paulycoleman98 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, this video is exactly what I needed. You described the exact problem I’m in right now.

@vgraham580 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to hear today.

@janne5058 Жыл бұрын

This is just what I needed. That's real wisdom. Thank you!

@jeffstpete Жыл бұрын

I so desperately needed to hear this!! It really opened my eyes and I can begin to move forward. THANK YOU SO MUCH💖

@jovitafernandes6668 2 жыл бұрын

As always, an apt message for me, and a gentle reminder to be patient 🙂

@tashadawn2010 2 жыл бұрын

I totally needed this video. Thank you!

@otbmikesrides1476 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I have been dealing with consequences of a long repented sin and relationships broken by it for over twenty years. The ones I hurt will not be reconciled and what you described in this clip shed good light on my own experience. I am a Christian, not Catholic and the guilt took me through all the phases you described. Your words are reassuring and instructive. Much respect and brotherly love to you.

@DJPTEXAS 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Father... been struggling with this ........

@minervagalvez4748 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Father Mike! 🙏😊

@kellygentry163 Жыл бұрын

Thank you….hit nail on the head with this message. Will keep it on speed dial.

@veeherreraJanecka Жыл бұрын

This blessed me so much today. I needed this. 🙏🏽✝️

@beverleykrotowski9241 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Father. I needed this. I will continue to be patient in my suffering AND love them and myself.

@victoryazbek7375 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you Fr Mike. Thank you.

@ambermadden240 Жыл бұрын

Fr. Mike, I listen to your Bible in a year podcast regularly and I listen to accession presents often too. I have messed up bad in my relationship with my spouse and I really needed to hear this. Thank you. You are such a blessing.

@BrazillianFOsho 2 жыл бұрын

Fr. Mike, I want to thank you for something you said in the end of the video. When you said that God doesn’t reward us for beating ourselves up, that he wants us to love ourselves, and that we need to let him love us, it really struck a chord with me. I’ve always lived with the mentality that self-punishment, and denying myself of my own love is somehow virtuous and constructive-despite knowing on a deeper level that this a totally toxic mentality to have. So hearing your reassurance that, not only is it okay to love yourself, but that we are encouraged to so, really really helps. Thank you for sharing with us those wise words!

@antonioborriello5287 2 жыл бұрын

I am so broke and in such need of healing, that i cant even remember what it means to be 'joyous' or even 'happy'. I have surrendered my entire self to God....'My God, My all,' and in this the Lord consoles me, but it is I who must forgive and have patience. But, i dont know how anymore, it seems to be such a struggle. This video gift is a help. ... 😔 ...

@antonioborriello5287 2 жыл бұрын

I can only pray that the person who had initially hurt me crosses my path really soon, so that i can, maybe, begin this process

@tutsomtz 6 ай бұрын

Thank you for your words father Mike

@tanushgupta2194 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Fr. Mike. I am in the very same situation. You've given me guidance that I will forever be grateful for. Namaste.🙏🏽

@edwinml9860 2 жыл бұрын

Thank God for Fr Mike and Ascention Presents

@abellarizk9224 2 жыл бұрын

Perfect advice Father Mike. God bless you

@alexandercruz3796 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your relatability and understanding Fr Mike. This was a wonderful message.

@nancybenson1951 20 күн бұрын

I am not Catholic, but I receive this word of encouragement. Especially because currently the state of being unforgiven is where I reside. Oh how I long for reconciliation. Thank you for the encouragement. Currently praying for the best for two of the most important people in my life that I wronged. Leaving the rest to the Lord.

@HBJaneALT 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video, Fr Mike. It’s just what I need to hear. God bless you and your ministry.

@miashay2524 Жыл бұрын

I’m tearing up…. Bless you Father Mike. You are God send and such a wonderful spiritual Dad to us.

@ckeast5588 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your wise words. It is okay to love people who reject you. God loves me.

@Hebrews_3 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. My son is still upset and unforgiving of me for things I did and failed to do when he was a kid and now isn't talking to me

@barblacy619 2 жыл бұрын

This happens a lot more than we realize. I have two step grandchildren who have canceled me and I have 2 different friends whose child refuses to tell them what they are mad about, they just won’t speak, one a son, the other a daughter. Just pray and walk in love. Allow God to do the work.

@haimanotteklu9548 4 ай бұрын

Thank you!! I needed to hear this

@llr1961 2 жыл бұрын

This is such great advice! I have also been praying part of the Lord's Prayer whenever I feel negative about myself or the person who does not seem to have forgiven me, 'Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors'. It has helped me have peace. I just pray it again and again whenever those thoughts come up. And also just pray a simple prayer for them, even if I don't know specifically what they need, as Father Mike has said so well.

@deneendammons2797 7 ай бұрын

Thank you! I feel so much better.

@efrencastilla Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your words.

@kwt7667g 2 ай бұрын

Hard sayings, but true none the less. God be praised.

@bainaelizabethsunil9609 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Father, cannot thank Jesus enough for your Priesthood!

@tonymaestas3830 2 жыл бұрын

This priest is amazing. May God continue to Bless you and your work.

@josephzammit8483 2 жыл бұрын

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@atulsingh8141 Жыл бұрын

True words father!

@irineunascimentodejesus3774 2 ай бұрын

This helped me so much. Thank you.

@Disavowedagent47 9 ай бұрын

Padre, you gave me the exsact words I needed to hear, a few months back a person close to me. Hit a nerve, a very deep and painful one. I lashed out verbally. I was Cold cruel and direct with the retaliation statement. (It had been over a drink) and when I was called out on it I immediately and shamefully asked for forgiveness. Now here it is nearly 5 months later and they had cut me out of their life. Which hurts cause there is soooo many times I want to call them and check on them. I love this person dearly. They are ⅓of my heart

@barbarawalsh2875 10 ай бұрын

Kinda needed this today. Wish I didn’t but I do you’re the best.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@hollystanislawski5680 7 ай бұрын

"The story's not done"...Lord give me strength, Amen. You always have just the right words to say that hit hard. Thank you, Fr. Mike❤

@paulkelly4828 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Fr. Mike, I watch your videos and travel with you on the Bible in a year podcasts. You really have amazing content especially this video for me in relation to my marriage. I'm living over 3 years now without her and pray for her everyday even though I know it has passed. You help me see God's inspiration over my situation and I have much gratitude for you and your ministry. Thank you with a loving heart one of your fans, Paul Kelly ❤

@josephzammit8483 2 жыл бұрын

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@alexgaro1675 Жыл бұрын

I was really lost after my best friend cut up our relationship over something I did, and I spent months thinking literally what you just said, never thought about fully embracing that this is it, this is the consequence and there is no way of fixing it.

@goodone5590 3 ай бұрын

You have to accept accountability, refusing it is selfish and arrogant, respect the victims boundary.

@Poultrychick 2 жыл бұрын

As a cradle holiday Catholic, I’m finding talks on Lashon Hara to be helpful in this area as to the impact of words on relationships and the human nature behind why we back off from relationships that are toxic. The damage it does- like you said - when it’s done it’s done and may not be a relationship one or both parties want to re-enter.

@Erica-en2qz Жыл бұрын

Thank you God. I know I was led to this video. I needed to hear that God is not glorified when we beat ourselves up. I just wish I could take back what I said and make it right.

@mariacristinabussani1930 6 ай бұрын

Thanks Father Mike. I had a friend Who wouldn't forgive me, so I' m praying for him ❤

@bintadiakite2283 Жыл бұрын

I don't agree with everything he says BUT THIS really touched my heart. He's a very good teacher 👏 👌 ❤️!

@kerrieholian5366 2 жыл бұрын

Deo Gratias! Fr. Mike Schmitz: In God's most perfect wisdom, He created you, sent the Holy Spirit to speak through you, and continues to heal me through your words. Thank you! We are all tools to be used everyday by God, and I am truly thankful that Fr. Mike Schmitz allows himself to be a phenomenal tool in God's victory kit. I pray you never cease in saying "Yes" to God.

@sharonpeterson3857 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😔💔

@gloriamacias2180 Жыл бұрын

Beautiful!!

@kar3n35 2 жыл бұрын

You are so right.

@lmjones.9060 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this

@itahayes6165 2 жыл бұрын

I know Our Lady sent Fr Mikes message to me , because I literally asked her today. I’ll have to listen often though, I’m finding it so hard to let go of my hurt,sadness and confusion of my sisters rejection over many years. Pray for me please.

@PearlynJ Жыл бұрын

Beautiful!❤

@signlanguage7624 2 жыл бұрын

God loves us!!

@ArtHistoryNstuff332 Жыл бұрын

I am in this exact position right now. I am beside myself with sorrow and regret.

@LonelyRider87 Жыл бұрын

God bless you sir. 🙏

@shreyasuman1883 Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤May be I was lucky enough that i got to see this video today.... Happiness is a choice and so is suffering... that's right god wants to love us even if someone doesn't ❤

@mary-dl8wz 11 ай бұрын

Thank you, I am struggling, as my daughter will not forgive me, so I had to stop . As result I am not seeing my grandson who I have watched for 5 years. May I ask, please pray for us.

@naturegirl9680 8 ай бұрын

I pray that things are better for you now, you don’t deserve this

@sheilavedanayagam Жыл бұрын

This is amazing.

@levaq8261 2 жыл бұрын

What a Shepherd!

@paolah9839 Жыл бұрын

needed this Fr😓😓😓

@diegoallcore 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this so much. In my case I was the one who ended the friendship. I love this person but I don't want to get fooled anymore. Still praying for him.

@josephzammit8483 2 жыл бұрын

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@monicateleckisobolewski5844 2 жыл бұрын

keep pray for them... always... if they are ok, we are ok too in different way , but its ok.

@glopez4919 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Fr Mike. You are God sent. 😇 You answered my question. I was wondering if I should cont to pray for my ex husband since he doesn't want anything to do with God and our kids are in the middle. It's painful that we're not on the same page, and the hasn't forgiven me but God knows best and I trust in him and know that he will be by our side. Love you father. 📿🙏

@user-yg7jg5go6v 6 ай бұрын

Amen thank you Jesus ❤

@rowyourboat5361 Жыл бұрын

thank you. this is helpful

@nickinone2726 Жыл бұрын

What I have come to realise is when you hurt someone and they indicate by word or action that don't want to reconcile, its best to move on. The damage has already been done.

@highlanderhorses 9 ай бұрын

I need to hear this .

@kiahampton2225 Жыл бұрын

This truly touched my heart today. Thank you❤️I had been depressed because I did not receive forgiveness from my husband. I was near tormented that he rejected reconciliation when I forgave him many times until it broke my soul.but me feeling myself up does not give God glory. Today I declare to Jesus that it is in his hands. I pray that my husband heart is touched with everything he needs❤️

@motorcyclemark2889 2 күн бұрын

Its a good thing God know and shows full forgiveness with reconciliation . I believe he sets the example especially when its a marriage and one repented we are to fully forgive and forget for loves sake

@carlobella1850 10 ай бұрын

Basically what you’re saying is not to hold, resentment or a grudge.. but sometimes it’s better to move on from toxic people for your own mental health.

@itinerantpatriot1196 2 жыл бұрын

I know there are people I have hurt who may never get past it. I have asked forgiveness and now the ball is in their court. What happens next is beyond my control and I have to be okay with that. I say okay instead of using the word acceptance because for me anyway, being okay with something let's me know I've reached true acceptance of a thing. It's a strange exercise in semantics that most people won't understand and you know what, I'm okay with that.

@MLeoM 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, accept the truth, but don't keep beating yourself down.