What Dad was like just 2 years ago? 🥹

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5 ай бұрын

See the physical and mental progression of the disease. This was Dad and I two years ago. The change is stark. This is when the car was always dad’s primary focus.

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@charlesbronson5235 5 ай бұрын

The man was strong as a bull you can tell. He’s still in better shape than most people half his age, myself included.

@CindyYr11 5 ай бұрын

Charles, Hello my friend! 😊

@charlesbronson5235 5 ай бұрын

@@CindyYr11 Hello 👋🏻 Cindy 💝

@hoptoit5910 5 ай бұрын

It’s quite incredible really, for a man in his 90’s! I bet he was very fit and healthy in his younger days too.

@kyleandrew7962 5 ай бұрын

Correction. IS

@LauraClark-pv7po 5 ай бұрын

Wow 😯!!! Grandpa really had some pep in his step a couple of years ago!!

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

Yeah, physically, he has always been a specimen

@marylynch951 5 ай бұрын

Yes agree absolutely amazing God bless him

@colinmunro3266 5 ай бұрын

He sure could hustle!!!

@CoffeeCrazy 5 ай бұрын

I’m in my 50s and walk like a turtle. He is moving!

@seriouslyreal2693 5 ай бұрын

He is much worse

@kevjo13 5 ай бұрын

Grandpa got around so much better just 2 years ago. But he is still looking for his keys and his phone the same! What a great person.

@MelB868 5 ай бұрын

Some days I can't get around most are fine depends on how my hip is doing I got 2 disc starting to degenerate going to get an mri on March 8

@raquelknabben393 5 ай бұрын

You forgot to mention about his wallet 😅

@grammyb5216 5 ай бұрын

It breaks my heart how badly he misses his car and the ability to drive. 😢 Dan you are amazing. It is absolutely a learning process. 💙💙

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

The car was originally the most difficult issue, even before he moved in with us

@grammyb5216 5 ай бұрын

@@dsalnorcal1434 I’m so sorry Dan. I cared for both parents and losing the ability to drive and all that goes with that, was so hard. I admire your courage and your patience with your dad. I hope lots of men, see your love for him and decide that it’s the right decision for them as well. Sending lots of love to all of you from a friend in Texas ♥️♥️♥️

@Westwood19 5 ай бұрын

@@dsalnorcal1434years ago my dad had dementia and lived with my mom (his wife.) Like your dad he really was frustrated that he could no longer drive. Mom hid his truck keys but one night he found them and actually took off. They were frantic, called the cops, were praying then rosary hoping he wouldn't be killed. Over an hour went by. Then mom got a call from a tanker truck driver who was delivering fuel at a 76 gas station 45 minutes away. The trucker had noticed my dad at the fuel island looking confused. He asked my dad what he was doing and if he needed help, dad replied "I'm just looking for some service!" 😆⛽ I later called to thank the trucker & he informed me that years prior his wife's dad had dementia, wandered off and they never actually found him. 😢 So that families tragedy formed a sharp situational awareness for this good Samaritan trucker who was keenly aware of the signs. It's amazing that my dad drove an hour without killing anyone in that condition . He could barely walk without losing his balance. Thanks for reading Dan I like your channel. BTW in progression of his disease, my dad was very similar to yours but then one day he literally forgot how to stand and get out of bed. Couldn't eat, dress,, toilet or any self functions. He had to go into a nursing home and lasted almost a year. 😢😓🙏🏻 God bless you & your family.

@norrisc7163 5 ай бұрын

He can move for 91 years old almost 92

@grammyb5216 5 ай бұрын

@@norrisc7163 yes he can 👍👍👍

@blueeyedlady8973 5 ай бұрын

Dan using Pop’s car as his own LAW LIBRARY! 😂

@tinalouise4327 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@CindyYr11 5 ай бұрын

Now that’s funny! 😆

@MelB868 5 ай бұрын

That's Dan's car

@blueeyedlady8973 5 ай бұрын

@@MelB868 Oh it’s ten times funnier that you think I don’t know this! 😆 😂

@MelB868 5 ай бұрын

@@blueeyedlady8973 oh well I have Aspergers so thought you were serious

@EN-kr3xt 5 ай бұрын

When he said "I will believe you if you really mean it" my heart broke.

@CM-sm6rs 5 ай бұрын

I know Dan, it pains me to watch your father decline as it brings back memories of my time with my mother. I think back to the 13 years of care and can't believe those days are past. She passed in 2011, and l would willingly do it again just to hear her voice and feel her touch. The Bible says death and sickness will be done away with, what a blessing that will be.

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss

@herewego1115 5 ай бұрын

Amen

@BeautyMeetsDIY 5 ай бұрын

Yes! Revelation 21: 3 & 4

@markcourtney1088 5 ай бұрын

Amen!

@juliad.6372 5 ай бұрын

No truer words were ever spoken .. than the Word of our living God Myself believe strongly in my heart and hope to be found worthy .. of live everlasting May we meet in heaven… Amen ❤

@konnen4518 5 ай бұрын

He had a lot of energy just 2 years ago. He had power behind every step

@Yumi-ph7lv 5 ай бұрын

I am dealing with my husband who is also hard of hearing and has Alzheimer’s. I am soooo frustrated with having to repeat 98% of what I say, but you don’t raise your voice of seem to be frustrated. How do you do it? If I raise my voice, my husband complains that I talk too loudly. If I use a normal volume, he can’t hear me. I watch your videos for inspiration to get the strength to keep going like you do. I aspire to be like you - calm and patient. ❤ You’re doing an amazing job!!!

@cindifischer6919 5 ай бұрын

Don't be afraid to ask for help. Incredibly hard to take care of your husband and there are resources out there and I hope you follow through.

@dar7230 5 ай бұрын

I agree

@wjb111 5 ай бұрын

Interesting. My wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s a few months ago and she also has a hard time hearing. 😢

@merleterry7775 5 ай бұрын

Alot of patients is required. When I lost my mom she couldn't hear as well yes I had to speak directly into her ears so she can understand what I was saying. Difficult at times but well she is in heaven now so. But God Bless you Dan.

@gericummings6122 2 ай бұрын

Try facing him when you speak. If they can see your lips when you talk to them, it aids in understanding what you say.

@LauraClark-pv7po 5 ай бұрын

Dan - you and your family have done an outstanding job caring for you Father! Keep up the great work and love 💕 your Dad each and every day that you are blessed to have him with you.

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

💜❤️

@bobbigirl03 5 ай бұрын

Dan, u were a great caregiver then & an even better one today! Luv u all!❤

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

Thank you so so much

@cindifischer6919 5 ай бұрын

Very true statement. Less arguing and just go along with.

@MNWILD43 5 ай бұрын

Awwwe Pops!!!!!! If pops wouldn't have the care that he has, where would he be?!!!

@marylynch951 5 ай бұрын

Omg yes

@maryshanley329 5 ай бұрын

That goes for all of this. Many people are just living from paycheck to paycheck. It is scary to even speculate about their situation. Euthanasia is being used in Canada and Europe. Whenever pragmatists take over, you life may be taken away. Be very, very careful of pragmatism. That is what Hitler was all about.

@Susanw777 5 ай бұрын

God bless you. I hope your kids take care of you when you get old .

@joanb8489 3 ай бұрын

I hope not because I don’t want to see Dan with dementia.

@sandrabenedict8135 5 ай бұрын

I feel dad isn't declining drastically becaiuse he has literally excercized all of his life.and taken very good care of himself. I adore Dad ,Danielle and Dan! ❤❤❤

@cindifischer6919 5 ай бұрын

Well I certainly see a decline just from 2 years ago from videos today. I've worked with Alzheimer's people for 27 years and I certainly can see the difference.

@gratefulknitters8899 5 ай бұрын

To me his mobility and speech are all that have changed and it’s not even that much. He’s doing good. Bless his sweet heart. ❤

@veevee111 5 ай бұрын

It's Dr Ed looking great. Dan, you've become an awesome caregiver and son. It's a learning curve. ❤

@JadeJadekins 5 ай бұрын

Wow what a difference! He’s still doing great though 🥰

@marylynch951 5 ай бұрын

Yes my exact thoughts ❤❤

@cindifischer6919 5 ай бұрын

I can certainly see the decline though. Very unfortunate and a worthless disease.

@idrathernotsay6016 5 ай бұрын

This goes to show you the power of being raised in a loving respectable family for generations.

@lorisheheen2198 5 ай бұрын

I was recently looking back on video's of my father. I noticed the last year before he passed away that he declined quickly. I do see the difference from 2 year's ago with Grandpa Ed..but God Bless him, he's still going strong for approaching 92 year's old! He is an Amazing man.🙏❤

@lillipeke 5 ай бұрын

Grandpa was walking much better two years ago. His gait has deteriorated. You can see he is slowing down. He still asks for his keys,phone, etc. He is so polite and always worries if everyone is OK. God bless you and Danielle.❤

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

Two years can make a big difference with this disease 🥹

@yvonnegrant3736 5 ай бұрын

Damn he’s a fast walker at that age 😊😊😊

@marissatorres7724 5 ай бұрын

You’ve done an outstanding job caring for your Dad , Dan . Keep it up and take care

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

Thank you

@learntechwithruth2147 5 ай бұрын

Wow he sure walked fast at 89! Amazing. You definitely have changed and have become a lot more gentle with him. A wonderful role model.

@kathleenmartin7498 3 ай бұрын

Dan does much better with his Dad now. He educates him, instead of challenging him.

@cherylluigs8984 5 ай бұрын

Dan, thanks for advocating for folks with Alzheimer’s/dementia as well as their children. Both of my paternal grandparents had this terrible disease and my dad was their POA. We were fortunate to keep them at their home as long as possible, having 24 hr sitters for them firing the week. On the weekends one of their 4 children spent the weekend with them. But, after gallbladder surgery (back in the 1980’s it was a much bigger surgery than it is today) my grandpa’s cognition was worse, something as a nurse I had seen before…that general anesthesia just did a number on him. He was placed in the nursing home and a few months later, my grandmother joined him there. Flash ahead 30 yrs and I am caring for my dad who also had Alzheimer’s/dementia. We had just finished eating supper and my dad says that he doesn’t want to be a burden on me, because he knows what I will be facing in the coming years. Of course, I tell him he will never be a burden on me, and he wasn’t of course. Then I see a tear falling from his eyes, and my heart just broke…because he did know what his future was going to be like. And I have to say, my heart broke seeing him cry. We are coming up to the anniversary of his death on March 6th. I miss my dad, the man he was before this disease ravaged his body and mind. And of course, I worry that I may suffer the same fate. Dan, keep spreading the word, and I hope that any family going thru the same battle find your channel and discover that they are not alone in this fight.

@jujuoliver6959 5 ай бұрын

You can see a huge difference in his walk and his stoop too.

@leesashriber5097 5 ай бұрын

He really has slown down a bit. He's speed walking back then. And he had a quick about him. Seemed to comprehend much better, as well. The important thing is, he's still with us and he's a beautiful soul. Thank you Dan, for sharing this. ❤️🙏❤️

@Shifytee123 5 ай бұрын

agree 100%

@vickyjackson9795 5 ай бұрын

Ed so precious! I love the fact that you keep him challenged.

@stayingathome 5 ай бұрын

WOW he could walk fast!

@emc129 5 ай бұрын

The days are long but the years are short. ❤to both of you.

@ruthgibson5858 5 ай бұрын

Two years sure make a big difference. 😢 ❤

@redballoonluke 5 ай бұрын

A big difference and of course old age is playing its part regardless of the disease but also not undermining the exponential effect it’s having. Almost 92 now and he’s going to leave a magnificent legacy carrying on through you and your wider family. Much love

@wefeelelated 5 ай бұрын

You're a good man Dan!

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

Thank you elated

@sugabay 5 ай бұрын

grandpa is not to be messed with he not playing with nobody about his car or his wallet ❤

@donnataylor980 5 ай бұрын

No matter what happens he is still as cool as they come and always will be❤😊❤

@marylynch951 5 ай бұрын

Yes absolutely agree 💯

@God_Family_Chicago_Cubs 5 ай бұрын

Dad is looking good today! Thanks for this video. Cheered me right up.

@remi7932 5 ай бұрын

It's a clip from 2 years ago.

@pseudokowski 5 ай бұрын

Soo crazy how many people don't know how to listen!

@amandalee2457 5 ай бұрын

Lol did you not watch the beginning of the video?

@luciakabui3151 5 ай бұрын

Noted too. However, the core lessons that crystalise in this channel are patience and love. Please let's practice them. We don't know what handicaps afflict the writer of the above comment.

@smariec2021ify 5 ай бұрын

Wow! Grandpa Ed was bout it, bout it! He really had some pep in his step and much more mental clarity and we see how the disease has progressed from then to now…But we still love us some Grandpa Ed!! 5:14

@SpiritAnimal1212 5 ай бұрын

I love it!! Dr. Ed was a feisty, energetic fella, verbally and physically. How incredibly frustrating it must be for him to lose his last bit of independence of driving. Bless his heart 💙.

@doglover44 5 ай бұрын

Ed was really moving on his walk! ❤

@freddie5956 5 ай бұрын

Wow that difference in how you talk and handle he’s disease is very clear, you’re really handle it amazing this days

@ajbeard2444 4 ай бұрын

This is the hardest stage of this disease. They know they should remember and argue to the death about things with people. Still, your dad is so gracious and sweet.

@hellenalexander4909 5 ай бұрын

Im from tobago. I normally dont comment. But grampa is really nothing short of a gem...such a sweet an plesant guy. He has really deteriorated ova d past two years but im stil n joying d spunk dat he stil has. Such a sweet guy ... wish he was my grampa 2.

@stevewalker8869 5 ай бұрын

I look at all your videos,,,, because I am just starting the journey with my mum ❤ and you have given me so much information ❤ about this condition ❤❤ thank you ❤

@pattyn1032 5 ай бұрын

He does seem more spritely on his feet. But his mentals seem about the same. Tx for showing us this, Dan. Love Dr. ED!!!

@janetwentz3259 5 ай бұрын

He really walked so much better. Bless him, I hate this is happening to him 😢.

@diodorusb 5 ай бұрын

I never get tired of watching Ed. Great video! Thanks Dan

@caz8092 5 ай бұрын

I think he is doing so well with the love Dan and Danielle give him. Such a wonderful family ❤

@Jasmi88 5 ай бұрын

Sending lots of ❤❤❤ gramps ,Dan,Danielle your the best!! London 🇬🇧

@jamespeful 5 ай бұрын

He was much stronger !!! We love yoy Ed❤😊

@toddperilloux6143 5 ай бұрын

Bless his heart. I love Grandpa

@NickCADA 5 ай бұрын

He lost his freedom, alzheimers is a wicked disease .

@mels.2706 5 ай бұрын

Amazing the change, so thankful he has good caretakers!!

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

💜❤️

@mels.2706 5 ай бұрын

@@dsalnorcal1434 love that you share your lives!!

@raulinzapata7957 5 ай бұрын

That’s my car. Pop is excited about driving 😊❤

@magnoliabadger6667 5 ай бұрын

He was moving on that walk😊

@user-hs8rh9tl5q 5 ай бұрын

Look at Ed go!!!! What a speed demon. I'm so impressed.

@Cookingforacrowd 5 ай бұрын

Look at how fast he can walk! That’s amazing!!! Santa Cruz white wooden roller coaster was my first roller coaster ride when I was 6 years old! 1969! My dad was right by my side for that ride! ❤

@MelB868 5 ай бұрын

Your just a little younger than my parents mom was 9 back then dad was 10 back then

@jessicavalentine7193 5 ай бұрын

Let’s give Danielle a high five and hug. She deals with these guys every day. and looks cute doing it. Thankyou for sharing your experiences, it helps

@ayronsmama05 5 ай бұрын

My father passed at 80 in 1991. He began to show signs of dementia. I was only 22 and was scared. Now at 55 I'm thankful that my sweet daddy didn't have to leave not remembering. My favorite country star was always Glen Campbell and I felt like every report was tearing me apart. How someone with the talents Glen had been blessed with in the end could function at all. I just finished his wife Kim Campbell book titled Gentle On My Mind. The laughter, tears, anger, disgust and pure heartbreak was what hard for me. I grieved for her, his children, family and those like myself. I pray that this journey y'all are on will help ya feel the Lord's love and Blessings.

@nedisahonkey Ай бұрын

Your dad was 58 when you were born? Dont even want to know how old your mother was.

@rsmith2217 5 ай бұрын

It just goes to show how that disease take over your mind drastically. My mother passed from it. God bless you dad doing good 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@user-fu3jh8lo2u 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! I appreciate all of you so much.

@surojdybidyal2409 5 ай бұрын

I jus love this guy such a pleasant old guy.

@user-ub3qe7jp8h 5 ай бұрын

He's such a a great father it makes me miss my dad so much your doing amazing job God Bless you and your family 🙏

@happypeasanthomestead344 5 ай бұрын

I'm from Vacaville, and hubby is from Santa Cruz. You make me feel a little homesick . Have a great weekend, Salinger family. 😊

@patriciareed3510 5 ай бұрын

VV My old home town! 😊

@paulabrown6840 5 ай бұрын

Man I’m 76 and I couldn’t walk that fast and not be out of breath! ❤

@cjp592 5 ай бұрын

I was told by my grandparents that getting old is not for the faint of heart. I’ve always had a respect for older generations. I grew up listening to their stories and just having lots of laughter. I hate to see people age because of the vulnerability. But aging comes for us all. You keep going strong, Ed and Dan. 💪🖖

@nonpungent8609 5 ай бұрын

Surprising how stark yet subtle the differences are

@leabrowning8256 5 ай бұрын

It seems he trusts what u say and knows u won't lie to him. You've learned a lot since then. You all do wonderful with Pops. You adjust and learn as he changes. God bless& love you all ❤

@AtMyBest420 5 ай бұрын

Yes. I can see the progression of the disease. Dr. Ed still has that “Perry Mason” interrogation style when cross examining you about his car. LOL Have a great weekend, Salingers!! 😘

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

😂 yup

@r1133rocco 4 ай бұрын

Wow he did have some more energy!! Ed is blessed to have Dan,Danielle and Mark! They are blessed as well. Love lives in that home!

@KaePx3 5 ай бұрын

Dan I love your authenticity!!! Continue being great! 🫶🏽

@dsalnorcal1434 5 ай бұрын

❤️

@florences3963 5 ай бұрын

Ed is so agile and able to argue his point. He not daft his excuses he gives you for taking his car eg exchange my car for this pure genius.

@DrewJmsn 5 ай бұрын

"the growth of the caregiver"... Following Ed and Dan here for close to a year, I've been watching and learning from a master caregiver, and if the time ever comes for me to play that role I'll have a good headstart!

@elainemaldonado2932 5 ай бұрын

Grandpa such a gentleman always wow so strong 2 yrs ago age doesn't forgive either 🙏🏼

@paulinepetros9775 5 ай бұрын

He was a lot better then and moved faster bless him ❤️

@karenk3458 5 ай бұрын

His memories were more fluid which made him more argumentative; however, I do appreciate his energy and posture in this vid! ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

@GSR902 5 ай бұрын

This video shows a lot of who Ed is as a person. Must be hard to look back on now, but makes us all smile at the same time. ❤

@vikkivibes5257 5 ай бұрын

Continue to enjoy every moment with your amazing father, Dan. He's a blessing and a gift that keeps on giving, in many, many ways 💛 To care for those who once cared for us is one of the highest honors. ✨️

@marylynch951 5 ай бұрын

Well said and I agree 💯

@chriscatton705 5 ай бұрын

he is so adorable. what a treat that you share him with us all.

@Jessica-ml6td 5 ай бұрын

I could definitely see the difference in his walking and posture.

@francene01 5 ай бұрын

Dan and his family do a great job taking care of Dad and Dad looks amazing then and now.

@jimbo1028 5 ай бұрын

Wow, you have gotten so much better with him Dan.

@HereBeRabbit 5 ай бұрын

Ed always thinks someone is getting one over on him..😂

@Kyfam_vlogs 5 ай бұрын

Best wishes for you all! You’re doing a great job Dan! Much love from our Family to yours!

@annieelzinga5180 5 ай бұрын

That was beneficial for me as I am a new subscriber. Not only did Dad move faster two years ago but you obviously learned a better way to talk through his confusing moments. You Dan, have grown where Dad has retreated. Proud of you but saddened to see the progression of Alzheimer's

@suefield5044 5 ай бұрын

What a difference years make ❤

@luciakabui3151 5 ай бұрын

Dan, Dad believed this was HIS car. You'd had a loooong time to put in those law books. 😂😂😂Dad had a real sure gait and no stoop then. Thanks for sharing.

@AndrewFerris-be1oz 5 ай бұрын

Wow you can hear the difference in your tone. Way to go Dan . Love the channel and content

@gayjacobsen5012 5 ай бұрын

You're so patient with dad. What I love most about him is he's such a gentleman, real old school gentleman. Won't be swayed to say who's his favourite kid, loves them all. Concerned for their well being always.... ❤🇿🇦

@jenniferquackenbush7458 2 ай бұрын

I’m glad you’ve gotten better with messing with him. Imagine if you were totally confused & someone was messing with you instead of just telling you the truth right out. It’s definitely a learning curve when you become a caregiver to someone with dementia. You & Danielle are doing an amazing job, Dan! 🫶

@lindalewis818 5 ай бұрын

Dan. You’ve taken such good care of him and thank you for bringing us along in this journey. We have all grown to love you both. ❤️

@AAApianoman 5 ай бұрын

Dan, you and family are a true demonstration of love! Thank you for these videos...

@justinparker8059 5 ай бұрын

I was just thinking about how my grandpa was so different just a couple years ago. He suffers from dementia and it's to the point where it's not possible to have conversations with him. He just doesn't even know where he is or who I am most days. I see him once a week and it's so difficult, I can't imagine the stress and difficulty of supporting a loved one every day in that position.

@lindagentile2380 5 ай бұрын

You are an AMAZING Caregiver Dan... After retiring from the hospital after a terrible motorcycle accident where my left foot was severed & reattached I took a class in Dementia & Alzheimers & took up Caregiving... You & Danielle are doing a WONDERFUL JOB caring for Your Dad... Hugs & Blessings Always 🙏❤️💙💙💙🐕🤗✝️

@Dee-Dee4959 Ай бұрын

I'm going through this with my 84 year old mother and watching these videos is not only educational, but also warms my heart. I love this family.

@darlapremeaux7006 5 ай бұрын

Hey Dan and Ed hope yall have a great day today love ❤️ yall

@sharonmitchell2350 Ай бұрын

Always love seeing Grandpa Ed; I LOVE how he handles life at 91!! Truely a wonderful man no matter the age!!!

@GEM531 5 ай бұрын

Yes ! And his dad is vs willing participant.. I think he is so adorable and a very warm family man..

@SC-oj7ok 5 ай бұрын

You’re more patient now and more direct about telling him what’s real. Way better now at deescalating him.

@worldtraveler134 5 ай бұрын

Did your trade my Forester in for one of these... That's 😂 He looks Healtthy!

@gardengirl7446 5 ай бұрын

Holy moly he walks FAST ❤

@leelafredericks6968 5 ай бұрын

Wow wow wow., look at his walk 👏👏👏. Grandpa looks so strong and sturdy. How fast things change, but his charm and charisma is the same and will be the same . I adore this gentleman. ❤

@dchat30 5 ай бұрын

I know what your going through. My grandpa, my mother in law, my father in law also. Just keep up the good work for recording the good and bad. Keeping you in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏