Thank you. There is a difference between a boss and a leader.

Our scholars nowadays are too vague. I think most times when women have a problem with obedience is because they have either seen a wrong example or have a wrong imagination about it. The title of Amir on the husband is not a privilege, but a responsibility because he is responsible for feeding, clothing, education, tarbiya, both physical and mental wellbeing etc. Imagine being called to account on the day of judgement about something your wife, or children did. So for those who truly understand, they will see that it is more of a burden than a privilege. But as the scholar said, there is a difference between being a boss and a leader. I hope we can differentiate the 2, and also pray that our sisters understand that they are not being relegated to slaves, but rather as followers and confidants to the man. If the man is the king then you are the queen and royal adviser

lol , I’m just tired of seeing the same comments so imma go ahead and address this , the prophet’s first wife was a business women , y’all use Islam in what benefits you and ur ego , no wonder why so many think that Islam belittle women hearing u saying if he demand or command lol her she can’t in such manner as if she is a slave , please keep the prophet outta ur mouth if ur one of these” men “ , the prophet was such kind soul and so understanding that I believe he would have never address his wife like that , even if he preferred her to say at home he will suggest it in such lovely kind manner that she would accept and ofc he is a PROPHET. May peace be upon him , and one more point most of men that I have seen in comments about women videos , use the prophet as an example only when it comes to marrying multiple wife’s , forgetting that he only got married after khadijah radiya laho anha died and it was a COMMANDMENT from allah . Thank you and relax a bit ,oh and it’s not a Sunah lol and the aya is very clear yet these “men “ only look at the first few words of the aya and neglect the most important part about equality and the severe punishment of whom does not do at it says if he wants multiple and that there are men that can take only ONE , the aya is not a commandment as sooooo many men act like in that part lol , they don’t even do that to the 5 Islamic commandments , it’s so ironic , if u want multiple wife’s just go to a women that want that and tell her form the beginning , not force it in comments on everyone lol .

Very beautifully put and very balanced. BarakaAllahu feek

Thank you

this the best ever

Masha'Allah, Allahu Akbar. Thank you. May Allah reward you.

I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (ﷺ), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me , if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.

Can the husband prevent the wife from working or visiting friends?

Asalam alikoum brother, could you please explain what you mean by emotional reasons, for it's rather large. Anger is an emotion right? So is my wife right to refuse anything I ask of her, simply because she's angry?

This comment section is a war 😵

Barak Allahu feek Shaykh, but you should have balanced this with the weight of and importance of obedience. The obedience of a women to the husband is like the obedience of a man to his mother, like the obedience of a citizen to the muslim ruler, a *very serious matter.*

Talk before marriage. Let him know you won't obey him if he can't handle marry someone else. You don't need a boss or leader. A spouse is a partner.

Can a man isolate his wife?

Submiss to God and nature and universe. Are women thinking they can fight against. Submiss and follow their role and women be happy. Thk. God bless you

And here again obedience is limited close to his rights and islamical good think. This is nothing like live with my in laws or take care of my in laws or cook for my parents of vistors. None of them are things where wife should obey. She can voluntary but its not that she get sins for this. But take care of my children or my home yes these are reasons. Or dress modesty and so on these are reasons where she must.

I'm Muslim and started losing faith because of these stuff

Bro. What are you talking about? You are double talking. Leaders are bosses who gives orders. You may not like the orders but that is what a leader do. Obeying your husband is obeying Allah and his messenger, if your husband, mother, or father, is telling you to do something that doesnt break the rules of Islam, do what they say, its that simple. Dont make silly examples and mislead the muslim women causing them to go to hell. With sill examples. If your wife has no arms we are not expecting her to pick up things. But, If your wife goes out not properly dress yes order her back in and ask, order, explain whatever it takes just make sure she put proper clothes on. Everyone knows what proper is. If your husband is telling you to go outside when its 120 degress or 10 below zero that is abuse, then seek a divorce. But you walking out the house looking like something you would see in an Erotic movies, she should change her clothes. Example, if you have on an outfit that shows your private parts in a colorful and tight way you shouldnt be wearing it outside. This isnt oppression, its saving you and your family from the hell fire.