She’s one of them lady’s that calls u baby in the store and it makes your day

Her strength reminds me I got some bullshit to let go of for real.

Deep respect for this woman. She laughed in the devil's face. Not once but her entire life. And now she has company. Love a story of redemption. This is one of them

Ms.Pat probably one of my top 5 favorite guests on Joe Rogan.

Loved this woman within a minute and a half of hearing her talk

I swear she has been through things that would kill some people. She has an awesome outlook on life.

She’s better than most people I’ll tell you that.

I needed this. She is so right on. Asking an abusive person for an apology or closure is like watering a dead plant. You are never going to get what you want or expect. That thing is never going to flower. Forgiveness is throwing that dead plant away and moving on with your nourishing water.

Mr Rogan, I have watched probably 90% of all of your episodes. This woman is by far in my top 3 guest of all time. She had me crying and laughing in the same breath. Thank you for your diversity of guest and thank you for sharing this womans life and her story. The size of your heart and the amount of compassion and empathy you possess, is inspirational and admirable!

Never even heard of you but you are an incredible person, respect.

She's entirely too real for the mainstream

The strength it takes to laugh about stuff like that, is damn inspiring

31 Daryl's disliked this video.

She's not just one of the funniest people, but also one of the most admirable, humble, and authentic. This episode is HILARIOUS and I was in tears at the end. Love this lady.

Could you imagine going to a cemetery and seeing a grave on fire LOL Someone should make a movie of Pat's life

“Hey, how do you get rid of an Ant Bed?” “Pour gasoline on it and set it on fire.” 🤣🤣🤣

You know she meant that. Just by the way she was stumbling over her words. 😥 mad respect

No idea who this lady is...I instantly love her.

I just need Darryls last name. Trust me he'll apologize. Won't be doing much else after but he'll apologize. Put that on everything.

"I can't change the past, but let's laugh today" - Ms .Pat's I haven't heard any better words then those of Ms.pats , in a loooooong time! A true modern hero ladies and gentlemen.

Who ever disliked this video is probably a child molester. Love Ms. Pat!!!

That’s crazy, I hope she has infinite peace from this day forward. Man Joe has a gift to genuinely communicate with and bond with the most diverse groups of people and personalities that I’ve ever seen. And it’s never forced.

The way she said “you know he shot me in the back of the head” Lmaoo. Man this woman is awesome, god bless her.

I’m sorry Ms. Pat. You needed love and protection and that wasn’t given to you. You’re strength is beyond admirable. I love you.

WHEN YOU CAN LAUGH ABOUT IT....YOU GOT CONTROL OF IT - PAT

So many people just go through too much in life. Many black women go through so much from the time they’re little girls and once they start puberty (which usually happens early) they are rarely seen as a little girls anymore. Abusers come out of woodworks. First-hand experience. Happy Ms. Pat was able to overcome and love in spite of what happened to her.

She has been through SO much and she’s still upright and functioning, that is some serious mental strength. And she can laugh about it all, that’s amazing.

Now she is a survivor not a victim a woman who chose to thrive in the darkness. She is amazing!

We need to find Darrell & John and “talk” to them.

She set the grave on fire to kill the ants. The visual of that will stay with me for Forever.

I don’t know what many of her views are, but no matter what, she is very brave and the type of person I’m inspired by.

That's it, my kids will be enrolled in martial arts/self-defense classes to defend themselves from the daryl's of the world. They might be tiny but they can break a nose or a jaw, bust an ear drum etc etc. Mandatory martial arts/ self-defense up until college. I'm not takin' chances.

This is the most positive comment section I have read, that gives me hope that we can have people tell there stories and nobody is tearing her down like they do for other people. It really speaks to her character. She really gives me hope.

Ms. Pat is such a change from Joe's regular guests. She is so raw and real and I love it. I feel like she is someone who is just so healthy to hear speak and she's hilarious. You can tell Joe was not faking any laughs. His stomach must hurt this morning from laughing too much. God Bless Ms. Pat

That's a hell of a story, she's an amazing woman to come this far. That's what a survivor looks like, y'all.

That was incredibly dark, and somehow inspiring at the same time. I feel like a big softy for even thinking I have problems lol

This is who Marvel needs to cast as Captain Marvel , a real hero

I never heard of this lady before, but she’s a genius. She can make you laugh till your sides split and tell you stories that will captivate everyone’s attention. She needs her own show.

She’s amazing. Truly something rare and special. Good show Joe🤙

I just wanted to hug her bro that’s the most inspirational shit I’ve ever heard she’s a fuckin insanely great person

God bless her, a very strong women.

I respect her, it’s crazy how you can feel someone’s energy sometimes and I can feel that she’s a good person

I was looking into your podcast for DMT talk and my god, this woman made my depression go away 😂😂😂😂😂 her strength is admiring

May Daryll get into a serious accident, Ms Pat has forgiven him but we don't need to

“When you can laugh about it, you’ve got control of it”.

I love listening to everything this gorgeous woman says! What a real down to earth voice of reason and looking at life in the cold hard light of day. What a powerful presence you have Ms Pat. You’re amazing.

She’s so strong for taking her situation and making it into something positive, seriously an inspiration. 💖

Ms Pat I went through some of the same thing, my life was very 50/50, you know it's going to happen but when and how bad this time, you know that 'loved ones' know but they don't protect you. How can a child defend themselves against an adult..I will never forgive my Mother and the others, I've missed funerals of the guilty and I'll miss hers too, she's still with him and sold me out for less than 30 pieces of silver. Ive heard people speak ill of children that dont have a relationship with their parents but would they feel the same. Very judgemental. You are a very brave philosophical lady. Best of luck😊

her words on overcoming the memories and trauma of a hard life is a lottttt like my grandmother's. she grew up in war torn greece..... her father was hung when she was 5 and her mom sent to a prison camp. her mom came back alcoholic and abusive. she dropped out of school in 6th grade to start working and went lots of time without eating. ms pat reminds me of her with the steel will and emotional strength to look back at total peace with their past. she says "you can be victimized but you decide if you stay a victim" at i feel ms pat shares a similar sentiment. shes an incredible woman to look up to

ms pat is such a well rounded person who has had the burden of seeing all insights of life but so still can spread such positivity and teach others. one of the top guests in my opinion.

I'm teary eyed...sounds like she's been through sooo much. What a powerful woman! Ms Pat, you just melted my heart when you said you were put on this earth because you could handle it and to tell others it was okay . You are a beautiful person!!

Wise Soul - pay attention it’s free:) ❤️🙏🏼

Her story is so similar to mine...I'm just now getting to the point in my life where I can simply say, "F them!" We know what was done to us and those who took advantage will pay in the end. Her mother's husband may think he got the last word by burying himself next to her mother...but I know he isn't "resting in peace". Keep letting your light shine Ms. Pat ❤❤❤

I love how Joe sits back and lets her talk, and gives her a platform and a broader audience. She definitely deserves it.

Ms. Pat is a real strong woman. I don't know where she got that strength from. Compared to her, I handled my situations pretty terrible, as a kid, teen, and as an adult currently. I'm going Muay Thai and BJJ classes, and I still feel like a weak bitch. Ms. Pat is definitely a rare, special person. She looks like she got her formulas down to the fundamental core. I hope she stays that strong in the future.

Joe rogan had so much empathy for her. Very protective, that’s a real man y’all.

I saw her on this not happening. best damned female comedian and according to this pod cast, person. just love the shit out of her.

It's true. My grandmother told me this how for years she frustrated over what a controlling horrible person my great grandmother was to her. But then one day she decided to just forgive her and moved on, she said it made things better to just let all that baggage go, even tough her mother didn't perhaps deserve forgiveness my grandmother needed the peace of mind. So what was said in the video really is true.

Goddamn she almost made me cry.

This got to me on so many levels! I been through the same thing but with cousins. It was hard especially with people blaming me but I got through this. And now I protect my kids like crazy as much as I can.

She is a testament of the strength of a real woman. For a child to feel so trapped and traumatized with an abuser is one of the strongest things I’ve ever heard. A LOT of people overuse the word brave but Ms. Pat it. What’s even better is she’d probably slap the shit outta you if you called her brave.

„I can’t change the past, but let’s laugh together today“ what a wonderful quote

I honestly wasn’t sure whether to laugh or cry when I watched this...even when she smiles about it, you can see it’s a pained smile. But her story is truly one of inspiration❤️

Joe and Pat are great together. The way they laugh, talk and exchange is fantastic. The chemistry they have Is superb. This is real stuff, she laughs though it. God bless you Ms Pat.

When she said that the cleaned the ants off her mother's grave marker with gasoline that she lit on fire, I damn near cried! This woman is a national treasure.

She’s the only person so far that I’ve seen that has joe cracking TF up with great story telling

This clip was so up lifting for me. Has given me clarity, made me smile and cry. Such a strong woman. This woman is my new role model.

I’ve never heard of this amazing woman before but now I can’t stop watching any videos with her in it! What an AMAZING and INSPIRATIONAL human being she is ❤️

I'm 21 and i thought i got bigger problems to deal with.

Very powerful. Can't even begin to relate and know what she has been through. I love this woman for what and who she is now. One of my favorite podcasts.

This randomly showed up on my feed and now I’m a fan! Appreciate Joe Rogan for having real conversations with ppl from different walks of life!

She's the epitome of the saying "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade"

This made me cry damnn, this is actually a good philosophy to live life.

Mrs. Pat! Your story is helping many people who have experienced being abused. You remind people that there is such thing as coming out on top when others let you down. It is important we are reminded that we are survivors we are strong and we are not to carry around shame. An abuser wants victims down in themselves because it helps them continue destroying others. I love your message of thriving despite being through life experiences that most couldn’t handle. May we all remember that we do not ever have to repeat the situation we experienced. May we help each other and encourage us all to be better people. Do not allow our souls to be overtaken by the evils of others! We thrive💕

“I don’t dwell on shit I have no control over, I can’t change the past but let’s laugh today”

I hope Daryll is in a much worse place now

Wow that's crazy much respect

What a truly incredible woman. Wow I can’t believe people are this damn resilient and she’s still wonderful to be around

She learned that forgiveness isn't for the person who wronged you, it's so you can get past the shit they laid on you.

Wow I just started crying. Ms. Pat is sooo inspiring and comforting! She’s truly amazing 🖤

I went from being so extraordinary to being depressed and fearful/shy thanks to an experience with an ex, her family and her friends, I was talking to everyone about it and nothing helped me as much as Mrs. Pat posture on that 💗 I am so grateful I found this, they never apologize for doing to me such things, so I forgive them 💗 thank you Mrs. Pat 💗

Ms. Pat is the epitome of strength. God bless you girl and thank you for putting a smile on so many of our faces!

Ms Pat has been all that!!!! Always so impress with the diversity you have on this show.🙏🏿

This women is a SOLDIER ✊✊❤❤

Powerful. Thank you.

Her power is unstoppable and I’m so grateful to have listened to her strength. Incredible person!

Love her attitude with life ❤️ so much respect and she is funny as hell 😂

Imagine disliking this LOOOOL

I wish I had her strength I also had a very terrible childhood i understand her so much

I LOVE her outlook on life. What an inspiration.

Can't help but love her and her story. These are the type of people who need extra blessings because they have been through so much.

This woman has strength that can not be measured ! I wish her peace and love .😚

Headed over to subscribe to Ms. Pat.

Mad respect for this lady, never heard of her in my life till yesterday, can’t stop listening to her, funny as hell, and most important a beautiful soul, and very funny, lover her!

Ms Pat is one of my favorite!! She is the kind of person you want in your family or as a good friend, especially when you feel down. So glad she became such a strong and hilarious person thru her tragic journey. She is exceptional and beautiful!!!

Ms. Pat has such a dope soul 💜 she took the things that should have broken her and used them as stepping stones to a better life and a higher purpose

Her Honesty Permiates Thru The Mic....

Man!! she gave me some strength Nice words Thank you.. Yes it's okay..

She's so strong. She reminds me of my aunt down in Georgia. Love her

Yeah that’s an iron soul right there. Really inspiring how strong this woman is, the ability to joke about things is truly special!