The more I learn the more I find, I'd rather be alone🤷🏽♀️ or super socially selective on rare occasions. 🤷🏽♀️
@Padraigp8 ай бұрын
Most people are fine. Thats like hearing about serial killers and not going outside ever again. Healthy relationships with people is what makes healthy people.
@4Mikes4Mindset48 ай бұрын
@@Padraigpthat is an amazing answer. I appreciate that balance.
@jeffreyjohnson88 ай бұрын
I thought I was alone…. And all these made up terns.
@jeffreyjohnson88 ай бұрын
Omg. Are you a good witch or a bad one.
@LesleyGarvs-vo7eq7 ай бұрын
I know...i feel the same....my nerves😥😒
@michaelg.56509 ай бұрын
A Dark empath is a Covert Narcissist. They are people that used to be empathetic, but turned cold and dark, and became narcissistic. Most likely because they suffered from Narcissistic abuse from a Narcissist in some type of relationship, and experienced trauma in the form of betrayal, neglect, and/ or abuse and likely developed symptoms of CPTSD, which also carry many of the sane traits, symptoms, and characteristics of narcissism. And If the person never get the proper help or heals from the traumatic effects that led to the CPTSD, it will likely have a negative impact and affect in all aspects of their life, and they will become much more narcissistic and dark, which is why they are considered to be a dark empath or a.k.a. covert narcissist.
@michaelg.56509 ай бұрын
However, dark empaths have a chance to become good again, and a better person like they were before they were forced into trauma, and grew dark, but it is highly unlikely once they turn to the dark side, yet possible. Narcissists do not have that capability. Just to provide an example, Darth Vader was a dark empath. He became so dark, that he even battles against his son Luke, who stood for good. But when the emperor was electrocuting, Luke and he saw that his son was dying and suffering in great pain, he intervened, and grabbed the emperor, whom he had followed and obeyed and threw his ass down into a pit. When the mask came off of a Vader, he was actually good again. Then in the afterlife, he was there partying with Luke, Han Solo, Princess Leia, and all of the Ewok midgets at the end of “Return of the Jedi”. So dark empaths do have the ability to become good again, but they likely don’t. And that’s usually because when they go through traumatic effects that led to CPTSD, it also affects other relationships and other aspects of their life to the point they always feel defensive, neglected, rejected, or betrayed in some form, and so I person who used to be empathetic gradually develops darker traits, and characteristics that are the same or similar to a narcissist, and can actually even be worse and more dangerous
@muertito80779 ай бұрын
Thank you 🫶 I know that hurt people hurt people. Most people don’t know that victims or survivors are also the ones that can hurt other people (usually just to survive in reality or their mind). I don’t believe in good or evil, moreover I think that only people who have issues hurt intentionally or unconsciously others. And usually this issues weren’t their decision but laid upon them by their circumstances. So we should heal the people involved and target the circumstances instead of demonizing them. That’s like victim blaming… it just doesn’t serve the process of doing things more wholesome than we used to.
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
That’s a lie ., that’s what a narc will say .
@michaelg.56508 ай бұрын
@@coldhardtruth333 you don’t know shit
@maggiecalderon55588 ай бұрын
Wow…That was great ! I can now picture a narcissist better. Thank so much ❤
@tiegrsidesignsandstudio47948 ай бұрын
I call these real life vampires. They enjoy feeding off of your energy. Not like magic...but like they don't feel their own feelings so they want to watch you feel yours, even if they have to be the catalyst that makes you have them. When it's over, you feel drained and they feel energized.
@bonnieromick93979 күн бұрын
You made me realize they do want to see your emotions because they can't feel any. Woah you enlightened me. Thank you
@cmauro79128 ай бұрын
What about the empath who is fed up and tired. Burned out. They suffer empathic failure and feel guilty after they realize they did not respond with empathy. They can't feel anymore and are afraid of letting their guard down for fear of finding yet another turd. Burned out.
@AnimosityIncarnate11 күн бұрын
Covert Narcissism, EMDR can help I've heard!!
@AnimosityIncarnate11 күн бұрын
Empaths are covert Narcissists..
@AngelNote16 сағат бұрын
@@AnimosityIncarnateno empathy are NOT covert narcissists. Dark empath...might be in the ways the guy in the video speaks about.
@oliviachipperfield60298 ай бұрын
Hmmm....perhaps bpd?? More awareness, more empathy, but can be dangerous af, due to the secondary psychopath element of bpd.
@JodieWagenaar-ww5lj3 ай бұрын
Definitely BPD
@misstango10019 ай бұрын
I always wondered why my ex narcissist was a great dad able to co-parent. He is very dedicated to his family but never included me. In every other way he is a charming Phoney manipulative selfish man. I am ashamed to say I miss him. Thanks to all information. I did break away. I’m not over him. Still trying to be strong
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
That was a narcissist not an empath the least ..
@vickibazter34468 ай бұрын
I am sorry. The charm and faked warmth is compelling.
@jayrodriguez41198 ай бұрын
Totally understand thus. Sorry!
@openyourmind37637 ай бұрын
So sorry! It sounds like you miss the idealized dream of him or a partner, but not actually him? Sending healing thoughts.
@FaeRae-3339 ай бұрын
Wow. This is incredible, I hadn’t heard this but you’re describing someone I know. He was very good - most times- at appearing to have compassion but it was all learned behavior used to manipulate. He also was a BIG victim mentality person which seems inconsistent with what you usually think of about narcissists.
@JacksTestimony8 ай бұрын
They're simply mocking empaths.
@suzannedu4197 ай бұрын
I was raised by a narcissistic mother. I have relationship attachment issues and feel the need to want to be alone and not relate to ppl close to me. Have you covered this on other videos?
@rashadturner56609 ай бұрын
I consider myself a supernove dark empath...be cuz I am loving, empathic and giving with people who reciprocate, if you don't reciprocate or know you are a scumbag or narcissist I disregard your existence, I'm not empathic, and I don't care what happens to you and I will mirror people same narcissistic crap to them...this is why after goin through the abuse I can only give u what u give me! Good or bad...not just showing kindness an love to anybody because everybody don't deserve it..but if u really support me, and down for me, I will give you the world an never leave your side
@1truthseeking88 ай бұрын
Doubt you are real. Unicorns tend not to be...
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
This is narcs trying to attack empaths cuz they got exposed
@rashadturner56608 ай бұрын
@@1truthseeking8 🤡
@HeavyhitterforrighteousnessКүн бұрын
I wouldn’t wish a dark empath on anyone. They need to follow your example and be dark towards each others. I don’t have time matching energy that switch up. I told the Lord “I want to be with you”.
@DELACREMEDELA8 ай бұрын
Empaths and Narcissists are two sides of the same traumatized coin.
@djmandyland8 ай бұрын
This is to a T what my ex turned into after starting to go to therapy. He's been going for 2 years now and hes become extremely self aware, he wants to be a life coach to people now (very obviously because he feels so grandiose about his psychological "knowledge" now) but when I stupidly allowed him back in my life recently he was very different in what i thought was a good way but he was just MUCH better at manipulation. They are absolutely more dangerous. The second i called out his new manipulations i was told to "shut the f up! No one even likes you i don't want you i deserve so much better than you, get out of my life you're wasting my time!" Word for word 🤦♀️ and this man will be a "life coach"
@brooksz.31438 ай бұрын
Wow! Sounds so much like my ex-husband. He cheated on me with 5 different women, was constantly broke, lazy and self-centered. Haha! "Life coach", yeah right.
@djmandyland8 ай бұрын
@@brooksz.3143 How scary is it that these mentally ill individuals think they can HELP other people 🥴
@th2acian8 ай бұрын
Are you the narcissist that sent him into therapy?
@djmandyland8 ай бұрын
@th2acian You don't "send" people to therapy. He chose to go because he wanted to understand his childhood. Unlike a narcissist I respect people's free will and individual autonomy. So while I appreciate your adorable attempt rile me up, try it with someone else buddy.
@th2acian8 ай бұрын
@@djmandyland Wasn’t trying. Just know a similar story.
@user-cb4oq8sd8p8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your information.
@Night7Crawler7 ай бұрын
My ex was just like this. It was the most saddening thing ive ever gone through with someone... being treated like garbage, but feeling bad for the abuser. 😢
@Clevelandsteamer3248 ай бұрын
This is a sociopath. Stay clear
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
That’s what a narcissist would say since their world is now crashing ..
@honeybadger34089 ай бұрын
I know now that I was dealing with a dark empath. Very dangerous person. Very vile person
@dynahmaranatha29549 ай бұрын
You have described my ex-husband, which kept me in a horrible loop for many years even after the divorce and many bad things happen to even after the divorce but 😔....oh well...repent and move over bacon there's something leaner‼️
@skippy64622 күн бұрын
This describes my SIL. She's verbal with her thoughts. Says I'll get my own way... I always get my own way. She reads people and tells them stuff like a fortune teller. I'm realising it's part of her scaring people. Be careful I know what you're thinking. She's really hard to be around because she's loud, loves talking about herself, her life, her illnesses, just about anything to keep conversation about her. She makes narc comments and constantly interrupts.
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
That’s exactly what an outed Narc will say . Smh
@csfiskus6109 ай бұрын
Dark empaths resemble more like Machiavellians with cognitive empathy. They aren't as grandiose as narcissists
@SpaceCadete1013 ай бұрын
if you stay relaxed nothing can hold you, don't worry, be happy
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
That’s exactly what a narcissist would say .. smh
@Plethorality8 ай бұрын
Who?
@laraoneal7284Ай бұрын
There is such a thing as a toxic empath. Ppl who are empathetic to the wrong people. I had to drop my empathy bc it just was going in a wrong place on ppl who did not deserve my empathy. Empathy has to be measured. It’s exhausting and ridiculous giving and type of caring to certain ppl.
@lachousalle317 ай бұрын
Jim is totally looking like Walter White in that thumbnail for the video.
@prussian57708 ай бұрын
A preacher woman ruined me.she saw my past so she was psychic, she used it against me I was badly abused and she set me up.insisted I be with a rotten guy rather than go back to my beautiful husband. She got me to donate to her church, had me hire my narc brother who abused me. I bought in .she heard my head to her heart as I always wanted my mother to do but she never would.that set me up big-time.she was truly evil.
@Shivani-Spectrum6 ай бұрын
The more I explore narcissism after enduring constant abuse from my narcissist husband, the more it shocks me with new terms and versions related to this personality trait. God, save this world!
@seemsgood858 ай бұрын
So a psychopath or a sociopath.
@MasKenMaNNiiКүн бұрын
U describe my EX-GF. I showed her how to feel, so she learned it for herself. She tried to kill me. She is gone now and I'm happy!
@BlackButterFlyTongue8 ай бұрын
Damn, now I'm a dark empath.
@jeanlives60327 ай бұрын
Are these the type of people that their jokes are always at your expense and perhaps they push your wheelchair down a ramp to scare the s*** out of you only to stop the chair seconds before it crashes into a concrete wall such Enjoyment he gets from torturing someone
@joannlove34149 ай бұрын
hey Jim, I follow you because you are smart and insightful. so find a functional doctor and get your thyroid repaired, you have hypothyroidism. the reason I know is that was my focused when I was a practicing physician. go and look at signs and symptoms.
@frankly17448 ай бұрын
Wow! That explains alot🥴🧐🤔
@lindajoyrainbowneal56095 сағат бұрын
... & here l thought that a dark empath was an empath who was just plain pissed off & completely finished with others' b.s. ... ❤❤❤😮😢😅😂😊❤❤❤
@nordicrainbow8 ай бұрын
That explains how she can mimic my emotions and dominate my influence while blocking my connection with psychic Bullying.
@1108cg8 ай бұрын
People will create a word for everyone
@walkaminutewithme47878 ай бұрын
My step daughter told me she was diagnosed a Dark Empath. WOW this is spot on 💯 Evil = D'Evil
@kindasorta30406 ай бұрын
dark empath is a totally new term, cannot be diagnosed, it's not in DSM.
@donnajojean32178 ай бұрын
Never heard it until now. But I know one.
@theodorearmes81299 ай бұрын
Like a doctor....
@LesleyGarvs-vo7eq7 ай бұрын
But you find them out...with the people they join....or the kind of jokes they enjoy
@jeanieshank14339 ай бұрын
Wow you just described my ex bestie…
@meowmixeater44568 ай бұрын
I was trying to focus but i couldnt stop watching his fidgeting
@bitcoinbelle8 ай бұрын
What is a _? A sinner. "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Pray and praise and resist. And watch your enemies be subdued without you having to do anything to compromise your integrity.
@user-km6ud8br5s9 ай бұрын
Mr.white?
@hurricaneaquatics9 ай бұрын
Haha, he does look like Heisenberg!
@markh49268 ай бұрын
Well, she cared for a few minutes after I told her to go away.
@beyourself27887 ай бұрын
That’s my managers
@yehiaismail24518 ай бұрын
That is a prosocial narcissit very abundant from Morocco
@ancientmage26693 ай бұрын
New Labels for everything
@rosebud939 ай бұрын
This is great!
@jamesdenman80318 ай бұрын
Yeah you are describing a normal person who has learned their lesson from the world
@flawerflower17939 ай бұрын
isn't dark empath same as sadistic psycopath?
@debbysimon1208 ай бұрын
Wow! This could be me!!!! I’m agreeable to everybody but nobody is to me, so I get depressed and bitch about how miserable my life is (victim) I look at everyone doing what THEY WANT!
@mini_skinny02966 ай бұрын
Maybe you try to please others so they can like you back. But people don't care too much (as I've realized in the past few years). So why don't you try to change something in your life, why don't you try to fulfill some of your dreams.
@laraoneal7284Ай бұрын
I ghost ppl simply bc I find they are inauthentic period.
@CoachCreesh8 ай бұрын
It's a narcissist playing their usual demonic mind games 🤷🏾♀️
@maryw46099 ай бұрын
Well that’s a good thing to know😢
@5ofakind6237 ай бұрын
Damn that's me...
@bigwormbog52419 ай бұрын
There's no such thing you just didn't get bullied enough in school
@user-kz4ji3yo1x9 ай бұрын
Irony is that being bullied can lead to being a dark empath
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
@@user-kz4ji3yo1xstop lying narcissist
@LetsPatchItUp7 ай бұрын
So it's a sociopath
@Zmiana_Pogody9 ай бұрын
Hey Jim. Can you tell us how many children of narcissistic parents have narcissistic traits? I often see comments with rage "my mother was a narcissist!" and I think to myself "hmm, I wonder whether you diagnosed yourself?" I wonder whether those people diagnosed their own children? Are they aware, that it's a systemic / family / genetic problem, not just one "black sheep"?
@lindaanderson70779 ай бұрын
Well, the black sheep in my family is me, because I am NOT a narcissist, so there is something to the hereditary concept.
@KaarinaKimdaly8 ай бұрын
@@lindaanderson7077 anecdotal evidence, which may be spot on. It is very dangerous when people start blaming genetics. . .consider what Hitler wrought through his lies and arrogance, with the assistance of power hungry and brainwashed Volk. I read that Hitler was talking about eugenically breeding dogs and blamed the Volk for losing the insane war he personally instigated in the few days preceding his suicide. Such is the insanity of totalitarianism. Hitler would not take personal accountability for the wholesale destruction his Volk Folly caused, not at all. There is a lesson here to learn to assess your own spirit and hopefully become able, without projecting one's shadow onto 'others', be as wise as a serpent AND as innocuous as a DOVE. . .
@zacharydixon44409 ай бұрын
Uh.. I feel attacked.
@joycedonovan3310Күн бұрын
Can somebody explain two Narrcisist married couple? How do they do it together meanwhile making their children and the rest of their family sick? I always thought it was one against the other but they are in it together cheating everybody including their children like shit
@leasirk19608 ай бұрын
Sounds like a Covert Narcissist.
@ash-shakirwhitaker70084 ай бұрын
A Narcissist with a higher EQ than your average Narcissist?
@marjoriemartinez99738 ай бұрын
My sister 😢
@beyond_horizon_89 ай бұрын
Ooooo my ex 😂😂😂
@rescue4lifeAB6 күн бұрын
What causes this?
@Thejessie2547 ай бұрын
Coverts
@jayrino44514 ай бұрын
Isnt it basically narsicism?
@jilljones24149 ай бұрын
🤔 Huh
@IndigoAngel14482 ай бұрын
Hello 🙂👋
@themysticmuse7 ай бұрын
I hate this term. It implies, to me, that they have empathy. Which, they definitely, do not.
@ThtGirlElle8 ай бұрын
Is this the same as a covert narcissist?
@cleanslate22479 ай бұрын
I'm trying to figure out if this is me, or I'm just not getting a "fair deal" and my needs met in my crumbling marriage.......Hhmmmm...... how to tell.....
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
He’s lying.
@Jennifer-di4nl8 ай бұрын
It should not be called this. Empaths don't hurt people on purpose
@jenniferfitzpatrick62949 ай бұрын
Yea
@LucyClover8 ай бұрын
So... We just shouldn't call it empathy then.
@anonimous70998 ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend 💔
@heps59549 ай бұрын
like me 😁
@anneliesewright6627 ай бұрын
None of these characteristics describes an empath, so it's a shame to associate that word with such toxic behavior.
@Jessica1201jmm8 ай бұрын
Bpd?
@amymendoza45928 ай бұрын
Ugh...my ex
@androidsr788 ай бұрын
isnt that a sociopath?
@amyc.peters10647 ай бұрын
So ... A dark empath = typical female narcissist..😅
@freshair93158 ай бұрын
Please stop rhe camera shaking all over the place. This is not CSI or some bloody drama. It adds nothing.
@Librababy949 ай бұрын
Libras
@St634208 ай бұрын
I have 3 of them in my life. Mother. Step mother and step sister. The Steps are the worst. Beyond EVIL!
@AshleySpeaks4U4 күн бұрын
There is no such thing. 🤦♀️
@AB-zq4fw8 ай бұрын
These are not real terms. Just get therapy guys. Empath=Emotionally unstable.
@hellawitzgerald75308 ай бұрын
So, a diet narcissist
@coldhardtruth3338 ай бұрын
I rebuke you demon in Jesus name .. You Narc just don’t wanna get old and die ..
@jeffreyjohnson88 ай бұрын
We use to refer to an empath as good,gifted and understanding of peoples feelings. Now like women we have added trans women, we now have added your on a low vibration when it’s simply vibrating. Who is responsible for all this nonsense. I know what’s real and is explainable with few words or give a description on something with few words…. Now this challenge is thrown at you. And it has added so much crap in our everyday life. I will understand and respect when I am not insulted by this new dictionary that is replacing the dictionary I utilize. Simplicity is beautiful contradiction is not.
@angeliquenova74408 ай бұрын
Makes sense, I see this in a person I don't want to know anymore 🦄🪽💃