"A gentleman is one whom gives compliments not because he is a flirt but because he finds the good in everyone". ~Amari Mitchell

I am going to steal that quote, "being a boy is a matter of chance, being a man is a matter of age, being a gentleman is a matter of choice." perfect

“A gentleman is somebody whose one amazing skill is to put every person he’s interacting with at ease.” This is so powerful!

A gentleman is elegant in not only manners, but in consciousness and character as well.. This was very well done.

as versace once said , You wouldn't notice an elegant person by his clothes

I can listen to Hugo talk fashion and etiquette all day long! Well spoken gentleman indeed :)

What a nuanced, insightful and cultured description of a gentleman! Bravo!

I simply stumbled upon this channel and I don't remember how I got here but what a delight!

Magnificent Mr. Jacomet! Your sentiment and passion was captivating! At times, I believe because I try to be gentle and kind to others, and focus on others, that they take my kindness for weakness. Then my wife tells me, it is for the very reason that I am kind and gentle and that I always put her first is the reason she fell in love with me. When we are going out on a date on an elegant occasion, I always ask her what color dress is she wearing. When I wear my suit, I attempt to wear a necktie that matches the color of her dress. When I do this she smiles and I sense her pride in me, because she knows that my heart’s desire is to compliment her and have her be the focus of attention.

Spot-on about Black Tie. When I was younger, it was described to me as, "Formal wear is the canvas upon which your date can shine." Whatever color and style she wears looks well next to formal attire.

"A Gentleman guards his behavior. He understands that he must have integrity. This means that a gentleman does the right thing even when no one is watching”

In so many words a gentleman must also possess a powerful spiritual aura (selfless and centered). Attention seeking behavior turns into narcissism which has plagued America.

Hugo I was hanging on every word of this. Honestly, such an interesting and thought provoking video. These perspectives and facts are important because the concept of being a gentlemen was really at the core of Western European culture, and helped to shape style, art, science, politics and society throughout Europe. This is especially true in British culture as well, where chivalry was still a concept that was propagated up to the First World War and arguably up to the Second. Unfortunately it is much less so now and has been commercialised rather than discussed for its virtues. This is why I am such a fan of the British style, because to me it always has seemed virtuous even moral, to dress and act quietly, discreetly but still with authority. Thanks again. Josh.

A true gentleman is never self-proclaimed but is anointed by his peers. I am grateful to you, Monsieur Jacomet, for your eloquence and depth of knowledge on the matter. Thank you for this detailed explanation. This is quite an education!

A very thoughtful and well explained definition, thank you.

Wow, back in my high school days all teachers and staff addressed the students as gentlemen. It was an all boys school, wonderful to now know the history behind it and your opinion on the use of the term. Very well done, and thank you!

Dear M. Jacomet, French history, culture and etiquette have always had me interested. To the extent of cultivating a love for learning French too. Your contribution to making people appreciate the finer things in life is inspiring. Enchanté de faire votre connaissance!

fantastic, I love the history of the word "gentleman" and the black tie affair, love the Sartorial Talks!

Excellent - “you choose to be a gentleman”. A very touching commentary on women. Spot on. A Gene Kelly said - his goal is to make his partner look good.

"When we use a word too much it has tendency of emptying itself of its meaning" My god what a refined way of using language.

Hugo's knowledge is truly astonishing. We should all be grateful he is willing to share this with us in such a passionate way.

I love the way you speak with such passion on a topic. Thank you for your insight, especially your definition of being a gentleman. Much appreciated. I really need to get my hands on your book too!

You are a real Gentleman Hugo. I am just in awe by your insights and knowledge.

Wonderful as always. In fact this could be the best one yet!

Hugo, it has been such a pleasure to have found your videos, I’ve been watching them for the past few days and they are very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and insights. May God Continue to Bless You and Those You Love.

What a wonderful series of conversations. As a proto-typical poorly attired Englishman was initially drawn to your channel for the nuanced discussion of style and wardrobe but wonderfully, I've been given pause to consider the way I have lived my life and the way I wish to live its remainder. Merci.

I find this video inspirational in so many aspects. Thanks.

Very well said! You're insights are amazing. Thank you Hugo.

Love this video so much! "Being a boy is a matter of chance, being a man is a matter of age...being a gentleman is a matter of choice." This should be taught in schools. Thank you.

Me a boy from a remote mountain of India..... Never seen a proper suit.... Dreaming of sipping expensive cognac , wearing a proper fitting bespoke suit, with good manners and etiquette... Being a proper gentleman... that's my dream

Great as always..Have been looking forward to this for a while!

Wonderful understated insight Hugo. Lovely video to watch on a quiet evening in a vicious world

You and your wife do an incredible job! Very well put together, I am so glad to come across videos.

I agree with Mr. Jamescord, nice shirt! And the tie knot is just perfectly made. I have followed the Sartorial Talks since episode 1, and let me tell you, Mr. Jacomet, GREAT JOB! Your work with this videos, added to your recent book, The Italian Gentleman (which I have ;-), is INSPIRANT. Thank you very much! Looking forward you decide to write The English Gentleman :-D Happy New Year from Colombia

This is gold! God bless you, Mr. Jacomet!

Hugo, you are truly an officer and a gentleman! This video was shared with all the men I know....thank you for addressing such important food for thought as masculinity and the art of being a gentleman are under constant subtle pressure and subversive attack in a politically correct and radical society that seeks to dismantle all traditional "social constructs" that have dignified and delighted many.

Hugo, I give you ⭐⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ *Great video,* it's true a man can dress in a $10,000 outfit and bring the term _"Gentleman"_ to disrepute by his bad behaviour, on the other hand he may spend less then $100 and elevate the term _"Gentleman"_ by his good behaviour. If he is well mannered his reflection to other and what they see makes him either a gentleman or a rogue! Also the girls should be taught what to expect from a gentleman and what to expect from a gentleman!

So great - I agree with every word and am watching & hoping you're going to say exactly what I'm also thinking, and then I say "yes!" he's got it!

What a masterpiece of a video! It is incredibly hard to find a video where you not only agree with the message, but understand the reasoning behind it. Ett stort tack från Sverige.

Hugo, You are that "rare" breed of intelligence and sartorial splendor with a kind heart. Thank you for all your wonderful, inspiring videos. I view many videos but so far I have only subscribed to your channel. Quality content that is unmatched as far as I am concerned. May you have continued success.

Wew! You hit the nail on the head! Fantastic. Cheers.

A wonderful quote, Hugo, I hope I got it right here: ""When a gentleman acts the right way, he does his best to put the attention on others, and not himself." I also really appreciate you talking about kindness, which is something that is greatly missing from the world today.

Question, what is a gentleman answer: Hugo J.. Brother you have reached a level to wear every day that you are breathing you are constantly defining what a gentleman is. I have to admit that when I first discovered you that I was highly intimidated by you because you appeared to me to be a living statue and the world that I came from or stood in at that time feared your light well ,it is Often the sickness that is within us that fears the medicine that we are about to swallow. In any way Whether you know it or not, you have rescued me and have brought forth in and around me great and absolute changes .Thank you sir.

Fantastic video, love how you being with history, move forward and disclose this is your opinion. You sir are a gentleman! Bravo!

I came to this channel to learn more about bespoke clothing and the art of being a gentleman. I was pleasantly surprised to be encouraged by your life’s story. May you continue to bless others as He blesses you brother.

This is an amazing video! Thank you!

My word ! How refreshing. Your words are balm for the soul.

Such a true & good explanation about a gentleman. Today's youngsters should watch, learn & apply it's principles especially to create positivity in this chaotic society.

I cannot believe I just discovered this channel. My new favorite

A real gentleman talking about gentleman's attitude... Thank you sir for sharing important informations.

A very competent and realistic explanation. I respect you Hugo.

time to get back to wearing and acting like a gentleman I am. no more kids t-shirts and band logos and all that BS. Wanna make it in life then you MUST look like it. Thank you for encouraging me and for your great content. salute!

Hugo, thank you very much for keeping these traditions alive. All the best from Honduras.

I think this show is so interesting and i like it so very much that moments ago, i was taking my older son to the Saturday morning football game Here in Brazil! And I was listening hugo’s lecture and in a certain moment my son told me: wow,these are very, very nice comments and I appreciated it that specially from the historical perspective! Than I answered to him, “that’s great i will share the link with you to you subscribe and enjoy! Congratulations Hugo and regards from Brazil

Kindness is everything. 🎩 Another dazzling video.

Having watched every episode so far I have noticed that your humble and passionate nature shines. Many of the suits you wear I have fallen in love with, much to the annoyance of my wife, however I know that given my career goals suiting will become less of an option but more of my life. This is something I look forward to. I’m in my 30s and am now finally dressing better than I ever have, not to show off but to make myself a better version of me. One my wife will be happy to be seen with. Many thanks for all the videos so far and I look forward to more.

Hugo. Thank you for helping men raise the bar in fashion, and therefore in raising the bar of a gentle and kind society. Continuez votre bon travail.

Great words once again Hugo

A brilliant take on Gentlemanship..

thanks Hugo for your amazing take on the topic

I'm so fortunate to stumble upon this channel. As a woman, I always admire the silhouette of a suit, and I enjoy wearing crisp white shirts (billowy ones, like the Romantic poets over fitted pants (cigarette pants?). In my mind, I always see an image in the styles of equestrian and aviator ('20s) style, but much pared down--softer but structured. And there will always be a scarf. The ensemble, like perfume, is a (pleasurable) must... a uniform so to speak. Thank you, Hugo, for generously sharing your wonderful insights.

Sir, thank you for this video. It inspires me to be more kind to the world around me.

This video is the best I've seen on the subject. Nothing more needs to be said about it.

I'm very inspired from this channel! Lots of love From Indonesia!

Hard to be a gentleman ... but not impossible ... good video! I learned a lot..! thanks Mr. Jacomet!!

Tasty words ! Thank you Hugo !

This was handy insight. Thanks for sharing this.

Mind blown 😮 I've been living the wrong way. This man is a genius!

I love the camera angle you used. Instead of talking into the camera, you made it interview-esque. I didn't even notice this until I was 3 videos in -- I thought you were doing an actual interview! Love it, Hugo. I have subscribed.

Truly this is a wonderful description of what it means to be a gentleman.

Great definition; total and in full.

I want this man to be the next James Bond villain.What a well spoken Person.

I like your generosity in your videos. You provide a lot of info plus you’ve progressed a lot in the way you present yourself (you speak slowlier, it’s quite pleasant to listen to you).

Fantastic depiction, in particular about the value of being kind above all.

An insightful perspective!

Very, very well put.

Mr.Jacomet., Your videos are outstanding, in so many dimensions. You speak with passionate feelings about so many things that here in America have sadly become passe. Pride in ones personal appearance. Is so very important. As well as how an individual comports themselves. In dressing, in manners, in thought as well as in their actions . You sir are a joy to listen to, speaking about your philosophy of couture. And the elegance , and distinction within it's history. I Thank you , humbly, and most sincerely. Stephen Tessier.

Thanks for your wise words! Well said by a true Gentleman... Cheers from Germany!

Great insights to an often misunderstood term. Thank you.

Such a beautiful video. Please, don't ever take it down.

To me, as a lover of medieval history, a gentleman was a powerful statesman with peerless marital prowess. Elon Musk and Jocko Willink combined in one human, clad in tailored suit of steel. This was the ruling warrior class. However. What separated the lord from the gentleman was kindness towards the weak. Gentleness. While most lords wouldn't flinch as they ordered a city massacred, a gentleman would spare the innocent. To summarise: A gentleman was a monster who showed restraint - A term which doesn't easily translate into our moral language.

I like that shirt you have, I think I will try to get one made like yours with the white collar and cuffs!

It's nice to listen someone wise :) Merci Monsieur!

Hugo, it is so refreshing to see tutorials on how a true gentleman should present themselves. We are starved from essentials of substance in the modern time. Also I would love to see a presentation from you about tuxedos, different styles and what are the features we should look for to be more knowledgeable, for example the bow tie size and shape also the overall cut. Thank you so much

Hugo you are dead on with your quote. Xxden in France

When you spoke of Fred and the shine of the woman... I could feel you get a bit choked up... that's true passion for your craft... very rare.

A pleasure to listen to you

Awesome video as always ... Mr.hugo

I think you have hit the nail on the head!!!

I was pleasantly surprised to see the Mandarin subtitles :) I have been learning this past year. Sterling video sir.

Well I learned something today. Such a good video.

Hugo is a perfect gentleman! Regards from Brazil

The only video talking about what a gentleman is, and how to be one that I agree 100%.

merci beaucoup pour les informations..

M. Jacomet, Thank you for your elegant and concise explanation of what it means to be a gentleman today. Your comments are truly appreciated and well noted.

I have been waiting for this, thank you, Hugo. Enjoy Pitti

Your observations describe feelings I've had over the years but couldn't articulate as well.

Very profound...thank you.

Hugo Jacomet is so right, he puts together such high values for how men should be, I know a couple of men to be like this, but far too few ... the greatest of them died 2 years ago, Peter Sweeney, the greatest gentleman I ever knew and loved...

Thank you, monsieur Jacomet, for reminding me of what my late grandfather always said.