Love it! But i woudnt count out the older black men getting it together in their 30s. They didnt have the access as young men, but I'm glad they didn't lose heart. You can get to high value by 45 and still marry a 27 year old 5-star female. White boys do it all the time, Brother Samuels. Many blessings to you.

I concur wholeheartedly 💪🏾

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So you dont think a hvm should take care of his aging sick mother by having her live with him?

The is true even the truth hurts for some. I've been in the circle of a HVM for some years now and it's a whole different level. People don't get it unless they *get it*. It's not arrogance (well not most) but when you've worked your way up through the ranks and been there for decades; you're just use to certain things and a certain level of treatment. If someone can't deal with it, they may feel kind of disposable. It's not intentional but they dont have time for extra ish' in their lives. They are use to living a certain way and being catered to. For instance, calling the owners directly for reservations at high end restaurants even if they're already booked for the night. Only having the Best seats in the house - ex: owners box. And, not having to pay for any of it except tip well. Also, women need to understand that it's not a cake walk being with a HVM. Work supersedes just about anything. They don't work 8-5 jobs more like 8-8 or later Mon-Sat ans sometimes Sun. And, they're health conscious so will usually be up and going at 5:30am to work out and prepare for the day. Dates may be interrupted with business calls often. Also, just because they do not care about your income or education for that matter - you need to be smart, have common sense, possibly be able to help him in some way when he's in a pinch (not financially but more like clerical skills on off hours or if he's an entrepreneur and needs something done quickly). Be prepared to talk about a lot of business related topics because that's will be his favorite topic besides sports...lol. They get high off of closing big deals or getting new clients etc.. Advice: Learn something from it! Be prepared to dress up and smile and go places even when you don't feel like it. Be more seen than heard. But, always nice! Definitely need to encompass the 3 FFF's (Fitness can vary depending on their type but not out of shape and looks are important), your reputation becomes a part of his reputation so be on your best behavior. They hate social media especially the older ones- they think its pointless and a waste of time and puts people in their business. And, most of all - NO DRAMA. I could go on and on but I just wanted to point out that you're not saying what you're saying to be mean - it is the truth. HVM is a different world that no one can speak on unless they know what it's like firsthand. Ladies - you will have your work cut out for you. We do not Need a HVM to be happy and be loved. Nor, do I think women should seek them out. Mine was by chance. He came for me. So, if you're with him make sure it's for LOVE. ❤

I keep telling my friend this but he’s simping way too hard right now I’ve been there before so I understand.but he has way more experience with woman than me all it took was twice for me to experience female nature and decide to just focus on leveling up and becoming a high value male

@@TikyeWilliamsIt took me a while to “get it” & I had a lot of success with women, up to a point. I was still “blue pilled” & I had 3 threesomes (2W), had met 2 women who were very interested in marriage (my drop the ball), and had a multitude of other escapades. It’s been over 20 years since the 2nd of those two women, I haven’t met one who I seriously considered marriage for since. I found out being an “alpha Chad” is nothing when you’re a “broke alpha Chad.” Money is more than just income, it’s retirement/portfolio, assets, savings, credit, image & freedom to do things you choose to. Status is sustained success and credibility, which is earned. It’s respect from peers, and value to the group is sign of competence & respect. The ability to give back is essential, the desire to have others seek your advice is value. Money is starting point for high value, but it’s not the only point

An I m gonna miss his candor

My father once told me "a bird in the hand is better than 20 in the bush" .. it took me forever to figure out what that meant .. but I learned the hard way .. "What you already have in your hands is better than the promise of what you might get down the road!" 😎👍🏼

I don't think that word means what you think it means! I believe TRADEMARK would be the word you're looking for...

Something to consider. You can increase you value no just buy increasing your salary. Learn to invest your $50,000.00. while working toward the next level. Increase your networth simultaneously. Trust me there are people out there making 100k and are still broke.

Checking in, hope it’s going well.

Keep going g

he at jcpenney now@@TWrecks09

@@KREEMTHEDREAM Facts! There are also people making $250,000 and living paycheck to paycheck!

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@Great Lakes You aint gotta do anything but live your life to the fullest. A high value man is on HIS purpose and has ambition. PLENTY of rich losers and scum who are miserable. Money is just a tool. Health is more important.

@@SirBrucie best advice I had heard most men 100% agree with him

@@SirBrucie Great message brother.

same here, i make 150k year, saved 600k. i dont flash anything, i drive 2011 civic with 240k miles and i look like bum to other people lol, just the way i like it

Go watch some Dr. Amos Wilson vids. This aint shit.

@@Taylordessalines 🤡

Exactly! Only low self confidence man needs a man to define him🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

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@@elegancworld4452 😄😆😆😆

The part you're missing is that a lot his audience hasn't been introduced to this information before. Becoming a high value man is something that can be obtained once you know what it takes to become one. To Eleganc. It isn't necessarily low confidence as it is a lack of awareness.

100 % Kevin , I am blue collar , I’m a exploration drill supervisor / consultant , I work and travel around the world , I make more money than most , I don’t prance around in suites , I can’t wait to get them off , there’s too many people thinking they are high value but they are pretenders and only fooling themselves . Women shouldn’t be chasing high value men on ( earnings ) they should be chasing good men on morals ,values who are successful , a high earning man can still treat a woman like shit or another object he’s paid for .

Raymond Spicer Whats wrong with not having kids

Raymond Spicer So it’s not normal to not have a kid 15 years after turning 25

How tf did you do it...did you get it out the mud

So what do you want a cookie? Children aren't a plague they are a blessing when that time come. You don't get bragging rights for not having a child. Are you a good man that a good woman would want to have children by? Are you even ready for marriage and committing yourself to a woman and the family you all create? 🤔

@@sbolingtay06 Children are not a plague but children with the wrong woman is. And you do get bragging rights, bragging rights on not being a statistic. Like how can you question is a man good enough when you wanna offer him a cookie for him being proud of his accomplishment. It clearly shows you have no respect for a man who earns and nothing would probably satisfy you as a woman.

Ha!

In this context yes because typically when you deal with very attractive women Money Matters

@kamilx what is your definition of a high value man?

If that’s the case there’s only ten percent of black men five lol

I'll simply say morality makes a high value man. There are more men/women that are high earners than those of morality. The more rare you are the higher the value you have. You can make all the money in the world, but when you die you can't take it with you. Morality > Money

@@smartkookie What will she offer in return.?

Smart Kookie: great answer!!!

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Smart Kookie I was thinking more or femininity and modesty. Along with peace.

Um, you can purchase a bottle of champagne for like, 7 bucks. 😅

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Sounds like you are Henry on the way to HVM in a few years. I see your with a non-black woman. Maybe tell the ladies here why.

I’m just

Are you a HVM yet @athleticandre26?

San Pedro

Agreed!

You are always high value in God's eyes

Right on brotha me too! I'm a good value blue collar man working to become a High value blue collar man!💪🏾.. most men become high value well over 40 years old..

Great Lakes facts

@Kamil X I said "Men"; not "Black American Men". High performance white men go to Asia, Philippines or European; like President Trump. Japanese men go to many countries for their women. Arab men like European and East African women. High performance Latino men marry white American women. Prince Harry married a Black American woman, and she is not the first Black Princess. I am a business owner and my wife is not American, she is a Black Latina and all my cars are Jaguars and Range Rovers. My point is high performance Black American men need to look at their options, because Black American women doesn't make 1% of all the Black women on the Earth. If they want a Black woman there are many countries to pick from.

Islam Muhammad very true.

Very true

Well the funny thing is he had a 32 year old brotha on the show pursuing a STEM degree and he actually told that dude he wouldn't become a High Value Man...🙄

That’s what I’m doing right now

He is talking about 300,000 and above. Working for someone else unless you going into the C suite level will not get you there. Takes years to get there snd it’s even harder if you a black man or women. Doing STEM, or a trade trade are great choices. work, find a passion and build a business that caters to the market. You. Don’t want to be financially dependent on one thing. I know brothers that can quit their jobs because they have multiple streams of income: Along the way have some integrity. The rest will fall in place. I don’t care how much money you have if you don’t know how treat people you won’t make it.

@@cynthiamitchell5748 you are wrong, im an ele grical engineer, my degree put ne on high incime at 22, by time most engineers will be 35-40, they investments they savee fot last 10-15 years will generate 50k-100k and wil lonly go up fron there. thats in top of they job income. so 40 year old engineer will make 150k year and will have 1 mil + savee by then. at that point it dont even matter if he is not making 300k+.

Damnnn.

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Word.. I had thought the same thing. My sister's fiance is a police chief and he don't have the time at all to be online doing any of this shit. High value men don't have the time nor would they care to invest themselves into shit like this. Plus that nigga's room look like a broke ass apartment room. Them closet doors behind him look hella fuckin broke.

@@JamesSmith-ur7iy 😂😩

Bingo!!!!👌🏿

Damn, young pam greer was smoking.

Having a good time

All while going to school which takes around 40 hours in total every week so he expects the guy to work 100hrs/week which is basically unfeasible for most humans

@@Streta2k11 I agree. I think the expectation of a 60 he work week can be unhealthy. You have to have a work/life balance

@@UlisesHeureauxI work 70 hours and I’m fine if you’re not where you want to be you have to go harder. It’s not as if you’re going to be stuck doing that forever. It’s a stepping stone.

I’m a woman and I worked 60 hours and went to school full time. Was it exhausting? Yes. Can it be done? hell yes. It’s a matter of priorities at that point and a person has to know it won’t last forever🤷🏽‍♀️ Stay focused, stay safe out there fellas❣️

this was before I had my son

LinkedIn???

He has a facebook group for it👌👌😉

Lol acting like they don't already communicate & hangout with one another. They do all the time

Amen!

EightFrancs damn. 🤣

Very good one

Mad Dog 2020

Women probably could say the same about most men. Not very attractive or average at best, don’t dress well, bad hygiene, not physically fit, eat a lot of junk food, but yet you want a exceptional looking women who is smart and upwardly mobile? See that is all you are focusing on. If you spent your time and energy working on you with your average self, you would not be worried about a women wanting Dom Perignon. HVM don’t worry about the nonsense you talking. They don’t have to. They are confident in themselves and too busy building themselves and their finances to worry about childish things. Only a man who is immature and who is not wise in his choices with relationships speaks this nonsense. If you have a bitter spirit and a bad attitude towards others that is what you going to draw to you.

Mark Zuckerberg and Bill Gates wives are not super models but they are drinking Dom Perrignon. Take a look in the mirror snd do some self reflection . Grow up.

We need more mentors.

Session was fire! I am definitely on a war path to high value. Insight was invaluable

@@milesrashaad7402 Glad to hear that brother, how much did it cost? (So I know how much to save up to)?

You're right....young women prefer young men...I had a good friend who at 25 (tall blond smokin hot MBA) she married 47 year old HVM that was a partner at the accounting firm they both worked for. Long story short...HVM was too old for her...sexually, energy wise, and culturally. She had two kids with him and was stuck alone most of the time because he was just too tired. She had all the trappings of successful marriage but was miserable. She longed for a younger man who didn't have to wait 30 minutes to have sex...who could go clubbing or just go on dates of the beach. She was miserable and still is. She is 31 now and he looks and acts like her father. She always looks hungry and loved starved.

And another observation is that most high value men will not take a younger woman out while they are networking because they know they are not mature enough for that type of environment very interesting

Cause they're jealous