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So many people in karmic relationships are in a narcissistic relationship dynamic - a relationship between a high-conflict, antagonistic person with a caring fixer, which is a typical form, if not one of the most common form of a karmic relationship.

I am an empath so people with a specific set of circumstances seem to gravitate to me. I learnt the hard way (through a toxic but 'wonderful' karmic relationship) not to try and fix them, but to set boundaries and keep my energy to myself.

It’s karmic when one of the two people refuses or is hesitant to work on growth. The person willing to work and grow generally gets pulled down by the dead weight of the other person. Sometimes both are unwilling to work on growth. Toxic either way.

Man these relationships are a big lesson and make you decide if you want to live or die every day a little bit

13:13 "you found your way here by your intuition, wasn't by accident"

My fav self love quote "the more you love yourself- the less nonsense you'll put up with". I've found the most troubled & stuck people make little to no sense.

"You are each other's mirrors for blindspots." Thank you for this!!

My last relationship lasted 22 years. He was all about physical power and mistakening beliefs about women and what they need and want. I also had mistaken beliefs about my having to give and give and give some more almost martyr like. When he had a stroke I had to be his sole support and caregiver. He died suddenly of a heart attack and when he died I heard the words "DEBT IS PAID". So that chpater is closed in more ways than one. Now I'm learning how to receie and how to be my own best friend.

No matter how many times we broke up. I kept going back over a 100 times… This time… I won’t go back… GOD I LEARNED MY LESSON please give me the strength to keep moving forward… 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I learned my lesson

Love 💙 this. So spot on, I’m definitely someone who always tries to help fixed others lives. It happened with my ex husband and all other relationships I have tried to have after him. I recently came to the realization that it is not my job to fix others, but to love ❤️ my own self. I always have this sense of responsibility for other souls because I know what is like to feel all alone and unsupported. I definitely need to love 💗 myself more as well.

I had to learn to let go and just because I love someone and want them to succeed doesn’t mean I can help them get there, it’s not my responsibility to sacrifice my peace to help someone else. I believe he is my soulmate but for another life time. I don’t think I’m supposed to come in to union in this lifetime, just lessons and it’s ok😊

I'm 28 years into a karmic marriage. She's a Scorpio. I'm an Aries. I spotted the title of your video while scrolling through. "Why does it have to be so hard"?? I often have this thought running through my head as I try to figure out "Why". From very beginning we struggled through the hardest times imaginable, and somehow made it this far. Neither one of us could bear to keep apart and just move on during the dozens of breakups we had over 3 decades of emotional hell and heartbreak that was just absolutely soul shattering. I pray to God nobody ever comes to know such pain in their life as what her and I have endured. Like you said...I woke up one day, and decided that I just simply can't do it any more. I'm at the end of it, and inside myself it feels as if it's already happened and it's finally over. But it's not over. We still live together. We got back together after being apart for 10 months of what was pure hell as well...being without her. I am struggling so hard with committing to let go of her. All the signs are there... synchronicities, number sequences at precisely the moment a thought crosses my mind confirming I'm correct. So many times this has occurred that it's beyond insane. Every warning sign there 8s, and likely a few that haven't been discovered yet...point to the immense need and desire for it to end once and for all before it triggers a planet wide cataclysm of sorts. I don't mean to sound so negative about our relationship... I'm literally trying to put into words what I feel in my gut all day/every day. I'm a deep empath. When the negativity she puts off makes me feel physically ill...and it triggers me to wish to be as far away from her as possible, and never ever come back. Not even for my belongings. I have to figure out how to summon the courage and the willpower to do this. Honestly I'm not sure it's even possible if she begs me to stay again like always...and that firey tear streams down her right cheek. Ever had it that bad?

I've let go of several relationships in 2022 . Friendships and a relationship as well. It has been pivotal in my growth. This is very spot on. I have learned to always be authentic in letting go when I felt invalidated especially in terms of emotions and thinking I need to please people. Letting go has been really mind blowing. I've felt sad but grateful at the same time. There were complex emotions all happening at the same time but healing from it really was freeing 💗

My first husband was my worst relationship and the greatest teacher of my life.When I finally got around to learning my lessons I got out of the marriage. I went into a program and began working on my own life and realized I got myself into a lot of my problems, I could also get myself out. Even though people in this program were both good and bad, I ran into the same poor situations again but got out quicker each time.

When a student is ready the teacher appears. Indeed. Thank you for being my vessel Sonia. I’ve never met you yet I know you.

You have to recognize Deep within what it is you need to learn from it otherwise you will not be able to leave a karmic relationship. I have seen this playing out in others and have experienced it myself. The key is within

I found you by intuition .. probably God wanted me to listen to you .. Karmic relationship with my boss is always bitter ...

After having a Reading today I found out the Man who I thought was My Twin is actually My Karmic. We have Soul Ties and have had many different life times together. It's a hard relationship when he keeps running away when things get to hard. So I've chosen to walk away instead of chasing him like I have. It's very hard to be in a Karmic relationship.

We’re karmic soulmates and we’re both actually in love with each other. It’s really intense and we both separated ways right now. It’s not over tho, I know they will be back. I don’t think we both want to hurt each other and we want to end on good terms

Once I started to give the love to me opposed to him the dynamics changed drastically. He would say things now that you're being selfish and oh ya taking care of you BS comments like that and many others. I knew it was time for this to end. I physically was turned off 3 yrs before this took place. But I Thank him for that lesson I learned to love me first and boundaries were a very hard for me in past, but not now 🙏

Agreed "my soul wanted it" but now my arse is in pain.

Im grateful for every relationship that opens my eyes n heart and I grow from 🌞🌱

An immediate and so very familiar bond developed and for 9 years I knew as deep as deep goes that the relationship was a must for me, despite the deceit and mania. I couldn't articulate it at the time, but I knew I couldn't leave. One time we had a brief "stay apart" and I felt like my soul was being ripped from inside me--and it wasn't HIM, but it was because of him. When I finally made the decision to leave, it was crystal clear and I was at such peace. There were a couple of years of living in the same town and working through that lingering attachment, and then one day, he died suddenly. Everything he owned was sold and it's as if he never existed here. This is how I know it was a karmic relationship and when he died, I knew that our soul contract had been fulfilled. No more repeating, I feel so sure, and aware, of that. This is a wonderful video and I'll share it with my newsletter subscribers. Thank you. 🙏🏾

I’ve had to do this with my sister.… It has been difficult since the beginning. Downright impossible and sadly damaging. I finally just had to say no more and not many people understand that when it’s your sibling. But I had to do what seemed right for me. Thank you for this video, it was a good reminder that not all Relationships can be worked out.

5:12 it's a relief to hear you say this! I don't feel like there's anything else to learn. I'm still around for financial reason and it really does feel like self betrayal 😪

Gratitude for finding this at the precise moment when I’ve come out of a karmic cycle and learned about not needing to fix everything or everyone. It’s was truly a gift to walk through the darkness of the soul and find that we all have the ability to ascend and chose to be our own awakened being. It was not a coincidence that I found this message. Thank you and I hope that everyone might find some solace listening to this and know that the pain offers an opportunity for transformation and healing.

I've had *so many* syncronicities pointing me towards working on this relationship and how good it was for me. It was bizarre. When I found out that the guy was in love with a different girl, it broke me. I couldn't trust my judgements anymore. I began to lose my own beliefs. I could not understand why would my spirit guides keep pointing me towards something that would inevitably fail. This video made it clear why they were showing me that through all these syncronicities. Thank you!

I just want to assure myself that I will be okay if I come out of the karmic relationship I have now.

Karma is most misunderstood concept because we can never validate it. In indian old school, karma is defined as your share which you have to endure, and you can't get out of it. If you try to break your karmic pattern, you will need to take another birth to pay it off or pay off in any other life time. so it's best to burn it out in this lifetime itself.

My moms relationship with her sister puzzled me. Why would someone be with someone that treats her like shit. Now after my mother has passed away I came upon this video. In my moms case the end of the relationship was her death. Thanks so much for this video.

Thank you so much for this video. I literally just found out a few minutes ago that I'm in a karmic relationship, and your video gave me so much light. I'm in this relationship for 7 years, and we met trough a friend and in less than a month we were already in a full committed relationship, and in 1 month in the relationship we were already living together. It always has been a chaotic relationship, everything is extremely difficult but we both are doing our Best to work on it and be better for each other. I have this very strong feeling that i need to break up, but just not yet. At first i thought that's because i need to finish my healing process, and guide him through his healing process. But now i understood that i need to heal myself, find a support system and learn to trust more on myself. His healing process it's exclusively his problem. I really needed your message right now.

What you seem to be talking about is what an actual soul mate is people seem to think a soul mate is the love of your life when it isn't it is the teacher

Thank you, Sonia ji. I was nodding my head several times while I was watching this video. It totally explaned what I have been going through with my Karmic partner. I wanted to know if I have a Soul mate or Karmic relatiinship. I have totally accepted how my partner is. I even accepted the condition that doesn't allow us to be together. We‘ve been attracted to each other, as we are almost like 2 persons born from the same Soul but always struggling so badly. Our bond is too hard and unable to break up. But now, it is not only unhealthy but deceiving to myself, if I stay in this relationship. I can love him no matter how much he makes me feel miserable, but I need to love myself more and learn to priotise my well being. I reached a point where I can‘t stand to stay in this miserable condition. I feel like choking and I believe I deserve better. Blue Sky is there and I know I have wings. I just need to trust that I can fly wuthout him. I must try to start moving my wings. I‘m interested in your books. I’ll see if I can get copies..

I just found out I was in a karmic relationship two years ago. I'm healing from it still but I feel much better about it. Her and I were in the same band that I loved! It was really hard to let go but I had to. But I leaned to put myself first and I never have to suffer for anything good or bad.

I must have had my head in the sand to have allowed myself to get involved with some of those people.

Sonia your daughters are sooooo lucky and blessed to have u as their mother!! I wish my mom was like U!!💜💜

THANK YOU! So many lists online of "What is a Karmic Relationship" just say it's terrible and you should get out. It sure does feel terrible and look "toxic" sometimes, but conventional advice just doesn't help because there's a reason it's there. This video helped immensely to frame and make sense of it!

Thank you so much for this video - it explains a lot very clearly. I’m in the process of letting go of my 45 year karmic relationship with my husband. Thank you again. 💕🙏💫

Never heard of this but knowing now realizing I’ve been going through it the last 4 months. I needed to hear this. Thank you so much.

I'm glad I was guided to your channel, my new friend 😊 (if I may say so) This is excactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for your lovely message, it helps me heal and understand why & what we went through.

Thank you so much for this! I have learned so much these past years. Certain friends hurt me very bad and I took them out my life!! I feel God brought me new friends. New friends have walked in my life. 🙏☺️🌹

I've read Ask Your Guides and I have those Oracle cards. I have learned SO much from Sonia. Please read Ask Your Guides...That book made me fall in love with my spirit guides.

The video and the comments are so healing to me. Thank you to the beautiful people who are vulnerable enough to share their experiences.

This was incredibly revealing, Sonia. I've just reached your channel and automatically subscribed after watching this. I have a karmic relationship with my mother and I recently broke my relationship with her and let go, it is still painful but I needed to love myself better and this was a necessary step on that long journey. I am 36, it took quite long to notice that I needed to change my actions in order to evolve and find myself out of her perception of me. Thank you so much for your videos, you're really amazing helping people every day!

Just discovered you - Intuition never fails! ✨ This message was just what I needed clarity on. 💫 Thank you!

Thank you for this. Coming out of karmic relationships is painful, but so much is learned. Growth. Your words resonated on a soul level. Currently readying Ask Your guides. Merci! LL

So happy to have found you! And thank you for sharing the guides for free! 🤗

Thank you Sonia ! For giving clarity on karmic relationship, sometimes in life you find yourself getting stuck in unwanted emotions which you are not ..! It was an eye opening to see that spiritual healing and growth happening is most important for self growth. Lots of love

Wonderful all 3 books!! Love your message. Yes Karmic relationship teach us more about ourselves than about anything or anybody. Love You 💖🌻🌷

Wow! Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you 🙏🏻

Thank you Sonia! Karmic relationships are a part of all our lives with lessons intertwined.. We do need patience, time, and to love ourselves more. I will look up a few of the books you mentioned. I do have “Ask Your Guides” and love it! 💜🥰🙋🏻‍♀️

SO helpful! Thank you! It's incredible how big is the gift and gratitude when I finally see clearly the benefit of what I'v become thanks to that creazy struggle and pain! Life is so contradicting!

Best explanation yet! I feel so much better about my decision to end my most recent relationship. Thank you!

Thank you Sonia, so much for everything!

Thank you Sonia ❤...yes I believe my divine team guided me here ! 🙏🏾

Thank you. Phew!!!!!! Been thinking, how do I know its over. Just feels like it's over. You know. Wow wow wow.

I am clear that there was synchronicity at play in coming upon your channel. Feeling very grateful and relieved with the timing. You speak a language that I can breathe with and breathe in. Thank you

Such a fresh take on these principles. Thank you!!

This video popped up right on time. Thanks Sonia for making a video on this topic and being so vulnerable.

A-ma-zing message and divine timing for a very special soul in my life (I shared your message with him). I especially love that we have to love ourselves more and we could be preventing them from learning their own karmic lessons or growing by catering to their ill behaviors or resistance to learn and heal. Thank you so much Sonia!

You're priceless Sonia. I'm so grateful you started your own channel. Sending you lots of love...many blessings to you and your loved onestoo. Namaste

That’s very nice! You are encouraging and it makes so much sense what you are saying! Thanks 🙏 thanks a lot 😊

Thank you for sharing these insights. Found some answers I was looking for! Thank you Sonia!!

Found you quite by accident, All this is amazing.thank you so much. I have often thought this to be true, & it has certainly happened in my case. It has been difficult letting go, I must have found you by my own intuition, which was meant to be. I will certainly look for you again for more understanding, Thank you Sonia. Maybe this will heal my life too, or help me to. xx

I bought Soul Lesson and Soul Purpose at your meeting in Durban, South Africa. FABULOUS book... Faut vraiment que je lise les autres. Je viens de découvrir vos vidéos sur KZfaq.....Quelle veine! I am clairaudient and what you say in your videos is just what l need to hear to heal, grow and develop my gifts. Merci de tout coeur. ❤

Everything you said I am going through right now, it really helped me thank you.

Such valuable information Sonia. Feel like I’ve always been in a tunnel trying to get out. This time I believe I have found the light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks so much. Love and light

That was the most insightful 15 min of 2021. Thank you from the bottom of my heart my friend ♥

This message was delivered so beautifully. It was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you so much.

Thank you Sonia. You're lovely and such a great guide. I do believe I found you for a reason. Can't get enough!

I say look for the lesson in each situation and relationship. My husband is a high strung, verbally and emotionally abusive and after 17 years I left because I knew it was not healthy. I found out he finally got help to get off prescription fentanyl and work on himself. He is a better dad, growing and his mom is even getting counseling now. I doubt if I had stayed he would have because I was enabling him. I also see how he taught me about family values, helped me raise my two kids and much more.

Both my parents are bullys (endless psychological games) and the more in tune I am with myself the more difficult it is for me to interact with them. The most difficult part now, is them telling me how much they miss me and how they want me and I have to just ignore them, because after the last time I visited them I actually felt like I wanted to die. I cannot put myself through that again. I believe they are both pretty much narcissists so it’s only expected that they turn themselves into the ‘victim’ in the end. Interesting that I am a blues singer and have dedicated my life to my music 🥰

Very comforting video. Thank you! 🤍🙏🏾✨

True Balance and Tune In thank you so much for your love and support!

Thank you so very much Sonia! Resonates with me perfectly right now 💖🌟💖

In time I will heal ♥ that is very true ♥ Many of us tend to forget that in the middle of the storm. The learning and who we become from it is also big plusses ♥

Ohh. Mine has lasted 57 years. I am done. Thank for explaining what the relationship is. 💕

Sonia, thank you so much for this! I struggled for 18 yrs in a karmic with a friend (and narcissist) until I finally chose myself. I was done. When you said don't try to make sense of it. There is no logical sense. Thats true! My lesson was to love myself more and put up boundaries and stick to them. I feel so much better and definitely am grateful for the lessons. So glad I found you and your channel! 🌸🌸💗💗💗🌟🌟

Kismet, indeed!! I found my way back to you after having known of you a decade ago. Now, in the midst of a spiritual awakening, I find myself the live-in, sole caregiver of my 88 y.o. Mom, and the loving but difficult karmic relationship we've had my entire life has taken new twists and turns. I know eventually that I will figure out what this journey has been about, and what it has taught me...I see glimpses at times, but it's always one step forward, two back. Energy work and meditation have both been helpful, as has this video. Thank you for that!

Reading your book 'Ask your Guides" right now. Working hard to connect with divine help and my intuition. Things have mostly been challenging for me throughout my life and honestly, not meaning to sound whiny or a victim, but I have been mostly unsupported by my human kind. I have very much felt alone. Finally, I don't know why it took me so long to realize it, but I need to just learn to reach for divine support and support from my own higher self. I never gave intuition much thought before and I now realize how important it is. I believe since reading your book the new connections I have made with my angels have stepped in and helped me already. I will continue to work on my connections. Following the bread crumb trails of intuition, I am trying to understand the role of the pineal gland and how decalcifying it might assist....I am not sure. I believe I am coming to the end of a karmic relationship and it is this relationship that was the catalyst to my realizing that I NEED HELP from above now. I am making a mess on my own. Time to take out the big guns. lol. But, seriously, your videos and your book have really helped. Every time I am feeling discouraged and need connection again, I pop on one of your inspirational videos and it helps me to get motivated and inspired again. Thank you!

Thank you. You have broken this down better then anyone to where we both have gotten a better understanding.

Gracias Sonia, ahora si tiene los subtitulos al spañol Yes, Yes, Yes.

Beautiful! Thank you for the reminder. 😇💖🤟

I have been in quite a few. I really like to have relationship that last, but I really haven’t been able to get things to last. I want to share things with someone special . Thank you for validating these things for me.

Thank you Sonia. You are full of healing inspiration that warmly and gently assists us all. A true gift☺️🤸‍♀️☀️💗

Thank you sooo much, for this. Helping me think and put important life matters in perspective!!

I have been in karmic relationships for 48 years with my ex husband. We meet when I was only 14 and he was 18 I think I am done finally

Thank you for this explanation. It’s given me so much clarity. Blessings to you xxx

Wow, Sonia! Yesterday I had so many signs and synchronicities that I am doing the right things now. I can COMPLETELY relate to you and your karmic relationship! I just ended mine after 26 years and I am TRULY living my truth, my best life. Meditation has changed my life and my spirituality has blossomed! I ALSO have the same karmic relationship with my son that you described!!! But we had a major breakthrough her yesterday when I gave it all up to God and let go! I am truly blessed to be on this journey! I recently came upon your page- no coincidences for sure. You are a blessing!💜🙌🏼💫🙏🏼

So awesome It's true tht we know it intuitively tht we are in karmic relationship

Thank you, you have been helpful to what I am going through. Thank you so much, God bless you 💕 🌹 🙏

I just want to say thank you for giving me hope and helping me understand 💕

Thank you so much for this!!!! This is definitely what I am experiencing. I will start looking for my helpers :-)

Thank you Sonia. When I first heard about karmic relationship, I immediately thought about my friend whom I just ended my chase with. I fell in love with her eventually. After watching this video, I felt reassured that my decision to let go of her was right. That relationship was on and off. We've been in a chaser-runner situation. Sometimes I was the chaser. At some point, I was the runner then became the chaser again, but most of the time I think I was the chaser. I gave up on the chase recently but I made that clear to her before I left. I told her everything, about how i felt with the relationship and all the situations we've been through and I thanked her because I learned a lot from her. 😊

This is great! 7 years big karmic relationship was a great teacher🔥 keep up guys 🎉

Sonia , Beautifully explained ❤️ Hope this kind of relationship stays strong for ever and understand the universal signals ❣️❣️

Of All the videos that I have watched on This subject this had been the most educational. You make it so much more sense

wow I learned the same things Sonia with my mother and ex hudband. It took many years like 25 with mother and 8 with hisband. Now are other tyoe of lessons to learn but my perspecrive have change so much that I dont let energy escape from me. The instant I feel a tiny discomfort I am.aware and try to change my spirit and mind chsnnel . Now my rrlatuonship with this two peoole are of respect and love.That is soooo imcredible because I became much more happy just learning to listen to myself first.

Divine timing. I needed that. Thank you Sonja! 💕💃🏽