Are you wondering what should be the wife's role in marriage? Watch Paul gives you helpful information for you to understand what marriage is all about.
This may seem almost like a religious question like the kind of question that would be dealt with from a religious point of view. But it's not just religious it is spiritual though because I'm not
going to talk about so much, the mundane, a wife should be driving the children and the husband should be doing this and I'm not going to go there. Rather we're going to come to the basis of marriage and we're going to understand it from that point of view. Because frankly, that's what's important so, why do you get married?
Why do people want to get married in the first place?
And I'm not talking about, "Oh, well. I found the ideal man. I have found the ideal woman," in case whatever. I'm going to talk about why people want to get married. It's really simple if you think about it and yet it's never discussed in society. The number one reason why people want to
get married. Are you ready? Is so they could be happier but not just happier but happier every single day of your life. You're not signing up for this general blase, "Oh yeah. Well, I'm happier now that I got married." No, you want to be happier that's what you want in life. That's what you want from life, isn't it?
No one ever thinks about these things. We go through life like automatons. One day at a time, get up in the morning have a routine, have a little entertainment sometimes, have a great meal
other times, get some loving in, get some whatever every day -- it's not enough. A living person
is an evolutionary person. Evolutionary to what? More education, more knowledge, more intelligence? Maybe but who needs that. What you really want is you want to be happier and we get married for the exact same reason. We want to be happier.
Your role in a marriage is to make yourself happier by ever increasing love. That's the second
reason for getting married. We want to feel love. Why? Because love is the one thing that is intangibly tangible. You can't touch it, smell it, feel it whatever with your five senses but it's tangible. It's real. You experience love and you know it's real because you're a soul. Souls experience love. They don't just experience sort of the things that come from love but they experience love itself. We're the only creatures that can say, we do and that love we also know intuitively that love has no end, has no boundary. Now our mind tells us that can't be real but it is real.
Love has infinite attached to it nothing else does even outer space is not infinite. There's an end somewhere but there is no end to love. There's no end to love and that's what we want because we know that that love makes us happy. So there's your two things, you want to be happier every single day of your life and you want ever increasing love, very simple.
What's the role of a wife?
The role of a wife is to contribute to that happiness so there's two parts to that. Do you like how I dissect things, how I break it down? There's two parts to that. One part is don't do anything that's going to cause stress, worry, drama, negativity. Don't do any of those things. We have free will.
We always have a choice because of that free will that we can behave, act in a way that is beneficial or detrimental. Some people say, what about neutral? There is no such thing because
we're alive. We're always moving. So those are your two options, it doesn't matter what it is. You could always act either beneficially, contributing to the love and happiness of your marriage which is unique. Or you could behave detrimentally and bring down your marriage, poison it, destroy it. Take away all the fun from it. Those are your two options.
Watch the video for more.
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