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As a Christian who is pretty young like 18-20 age group, I like to watch these because it makes me realize how romantically lonely I truly am. I heavily desire to be married.

I got married as a 30 year old virgin. I have no regrets. My husband was not a virgin, but he had repented before our wedding. It wasn’t awkward at all for me. Not sure if that’s because of my more advanced age or if it was just my attitude and confidence towards it. But just wanted to give young ladies encouragement that it doesn’t HAVE to be weird, uncomfortable, awkward, or even painful. My wedding night was none of those things. It was the easiest thing I’ve ever done.

My husband and I were virgins when we both got married. I know I was encouraging him because he was anxious. I knew we have a lifetime with each other, so I wasn't too worried on how our first night would go. Which was definitely a learning process.

Two virgins marrying = no sexual baggage - no such thing as a bad experience!

this is honestly so comforting. i am only 19, but with my fiance, we just got engaged and he is 20. we are in pre marital christian counseling, and we just started talking about sex. i have a lot of trauma due to rape from my father during my middle school years, so i am terrified of what it will be like. i love how you guys said it is ok to pause and laugh and that it wont be picture perfect because i def was scared that it wont be like movies. our pastor supports us and says our relationship with God and each other are strong, but that my trauma is something that needs to be worked out prior to marriage. i just started therapy for it! i am excited for marriage, and we are planning to get married nov 2024, so a year and a half which is a lot of time to work on my past. i know morgan has briefly mentioned having a bad past relationship, and i dont know if it had to deal with sexual assault or pressure or anything, but i would love tips on how to heal from it if thats what you went through. i love you guys dearly and yall are some of the only people who are transparent about sex in a positive and healthy way!!

I am getting married in two months and greatly appreciated watching this video! There truly is such a stigma with silence in Christianity surrounding sexual intimacy between a husband and a wife, so I'm very thankful for videos like yours to help answer my questions while keeping the focus on holiness.

Even though I had been renewed by Jesus and rewaited (wasn’t a virgin), I was too nervous from the pressure of having to do it that night after waiting so long so we had to stop and try again the next day😅I cried lol

My wife and I were both virgins and it was a fun way to conclude the night. Our sex has definitely gotten better, but for the first time there was nothing awkward. I think if you have a healthy view of sex and are good at communicating with your partner, then it’ll be a fun experience

Friendly reminder to Christian’s waiting until marriage: Sexuality is not a switch. You can’t go your whole life repressing your sexuality and then expect yourself to have great sex on your wedding night. It takes self exploration and practice to know what you like and how to make your partner feel good

I’m engaged and getting married in two weeks! I’m so glad that you guys are so open and vulnerable, your videos have been very timely and helpful for me 😊

I had no expectations of doing it the wedding night and we didn't. I was a 26 year old virgin. But things still unfolded more naturally that night than I thought it would. So it wasn't very awkward.

I'm a Catholic and I'm amazed how beautifully you both described the process of progressively get into marital intimacy. That is what it should be.

Ya'll are amazing to be so upfront about this. Praise God for you guys and your ministry.

Purity culture made it difficult for me to feel okay about having sex. My husband and I were both virgins and our first time was not as we hoped lol. It was hard to figure out how to position comfortably but we laughed about it. I definitely think it would have been better to wait until the day after the wedding because I was so exhausted from the days events. It isn't a requirement on the wedding night and people need to know that lol. But you should definitely not wait 2 weeks like you said. I love how you guys have these conversations. It would have been helpful for me to see this before my wedding. You are a blessing

This video was so encouraging and pretty adorable actually. If you both don't mind, I ask for your prayers. I'm an older guy who always dreamed of getting married but have started losing hope lately in thinking marriage may not be in God's plan for me. It feels like there are no single godly women left at my age. On the topic of the video, I've resigned to the reality that statistically speaking my future wife will likely not be a virgin if God ever blesses me with a wife. Lots of scary thoughts of her comparing me negatively to previous guys flood my mine. So please pray for me. God bless you both!

Im asexual , been abused by my brother age age 5. Was addicted to corn at age 12. Lost my virginity at 13 and the relationships i was in were very toxic and ungodly who used me for sex and made fun of my body ALOT my family also body shames me and my mom even made fun of my female parts often .. i love myself this is how God made ME so special and amazing . I truly just want love honesty and purity. No more pressure or worldliness. Just honoring and glorfying God in my marriage in the bedroom and the way i love and wife i am. Theres sooo much comparison and lust in world. All i want is purity peace joy REAL LOVE and honesty.

thank you guys for being so honest, this helps my anxiety go down a lot

Cat Statue Morgan making the guest appearance for the first time in a while! Thanks for sharing your story, Paul! My night is coming up shortly 😊

This was actually really sweet. Purity culture and the way I was raised has really kind of trashed sex. It still kind of terrifies me thinking that I am closer than I may think to it. I'm about to be 33 in August and still a virgin. Never even dated. But I am still definitely nervous about it.

I love how his wife is looking at him like a piece of steak while he talks about foreplay haha 😂 😂

This was very helpful.. Thank you Paul and Morgan 🤍

My hubby was more nervous as the non virgin lol....definitely not awkward, just fun.....Just take it slow and it gets better and better with time. God bless everyone. X

The spirit of God is still active. Thanks for the sharing it will be helpful for many. May God bless your wedding.

"The Gift of Sex" by Jim and Joyce Penner is an excellent Christian resource to check out on this topic. Y'all's point on sex being a focus on the enjoyment of each other (and not just "penetration") is one of their main points in the book.

Not really but I'm talking to a guy I really like we have been best friends since we were children for me it's hard because I still see him as that child so I do not know how I'm going to get out of that mindspace but I really do like him and he really likes me but it's hard to see us together on my part because I still see him is that child I used to play with when we were kids but it's mostly on my part it's not really on his

J was just laughing so much with what Paul was saying 😅

Wow that's powerful information for singles...... it's really gives anxiety to think about the first time because many people have spoken many things that scare us

Love how open y’all are about these things!! Thanks for sharing!!❤️

Thanks for the video guys!

I knew a woman who's partner insisted that they wait until they were married to have sex. After they married she discovered he was impotent.

Not married & no prospects at the moment but I have mad respect, love & appreciation for both of you! The honesty, honoring God’s way & just being clean is so refreshing!

It seems that he was the only one excited. She’s teasing him about the photo and so on. A little nerdy and over the top. My wife and I are Christian’s and waited which is why we married at 20yrs old. We knew we were right for each other so why wait

The coolest thing is you have a covenant relationship to explore and enjoy the gift of sex together for the rest of your lives! Blessings.

3:05- Yes Morgan, the details are good! lol

Wife and I are followers of Chris and were both virgins, which for the record I believe is the right in God's eyes and per His design. There's an amazing amount of freedom in that, and I honestly would be a mess if it was any other way. But it wasn't an easy road even after marriage. I will say that if only the guy is a virgin or neither it probably makes it much easier physically to just jump right in, but if the girl is a virgin it can change the experience significantly. Our wedding night was a bit rough. The initial fourplay was great and I completely resonate with what Paul is saying seeing his wife for the first time, but as things progressed it went downhill fast. Things on the women's end were intact if you know what I mean had to be broken which for some isn't a big deal but not in our case. Blood everywhere! I was surprised since she was an avid horse rider and thought I probably didn't need to worry about that. Needless to say that ended our intimacy right then and there. We were both very tired so it wasn't super disappointing, but our honeymoon the next week was equally rough especially for her. First couple days of trying penetration and there was pain and a lot of blood, sheets were soaked red, she had to stop and get in the shower more than once. Likely the hymen hadn't been broken completely the first night and/or wounding hadn't healed. I remember trying to wash the stains out of the sheets and towels in our hotel room and cabin so people didn't think there was a massacre. Besides the blood and discomfort, it was also difficult to be comfortable, or know how to move and work together, took a ton of control and thinking about what you were doing rather than enjoying what you were doing if that makes sense. All this happening also resulted in some emotional scars with not being able to please the other person, associating with pain, etc. Some of which we are still dealing with 9 years later. It felt so unnatural for us for many weeks, I don't know how people can just so easily "accidently" have sex for the first time.

My wedding night was super awkward! My husband and I weren't virgins but I had been celibate for 10 years and he had hardcore repented- like complete 180 womanizer to saint in about 6 months. And that was 2-3 years before we met. It was fun but awkward. We've adjusted obviously and it's been smooth sailing ever since!

I'm turning 19 in a couple of days (april 14) and my fiance is turning 19 a couple months after me, and we are getting married June 2024. We are re waiting because we fell short but repented and haven't done it again. We are so excited to be married but I'm definitely nervous about doing everything again, so i really appreciate this video it really helped me feel more reassured.😊🙏🏾✝️❤️

Take it easy on yourself and your partner. Be patient. Be kind. Be loving. Communicate! Talk to each other BEFORE you start to have sex, talk to each other DURING sex about what you want and need, talk to each other AFTER sex about what you wanted/needed what was good and what wasn’t so good for you. Work as a team! Neither partner should be “just doing it” to get it done for their partner. Ever. You should both be willing, happy participants. And it’s okay for sex to be mediocre sometimes. Again. Be patient, and gentle with yourself and each other. This is uncharted, scary, exciting territory on your wedding night and it’s natural to be awkward and even scared.

How long were you dating for before marriage?

The way you two are so open in communication is so so so foreign to me as a new Christian (28 y/o).

Old eldest son called home on his wedding night to ask his dad (me) about Nuptial consummation. I asked if he has knowledge of the human female anatomy; his answer was: ..well .. No. So I explained the geographic locations and functions of the various "naughty-bits". I explained how to start the experience, and don't be afraid to experiment a little. About a half-hour later we received another call, which my wife answered, and two-minutes into the conversation she began to laugh uncontrollably. The wife rang-off the line, came to where I was sitting and collapsed into my lap, laughing her fool head off. Five minutes later, she composed herself sufficiently to repeat our sons epic words: "You mean .... that's it?" "That's all there is to it?" We went to bed that night, giggling our fool heads-off and reciting his epic words: "You mean .... that's it?"

You guys have my favorite style of all Christian KZfaqrs...I love how real you are. Down to Earth and I feel the Spirit...

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I just love y'all. I remember when I first stumbled upon your channel. I thought y'all where so cute and you still are. As a virgin myself I don't find this conversation uncomfortable or awkward. It's actually helpful? 😂 I mean. Really. It actually is. Anyway, love you guys ❤

I enjoy a good life when I come to your channel 😂

Paul: Change location Next minute: Outside for neighbours to hear 😆 "here's the intimate detail".

Thanks guys :)

Paul, congrats for having such a beautiful wife! I had a question maybe you could answer. I'm a young guy but have a heart issue (fairly recently discovered) that will be my undoing faster than expected. Now I am at the point of wanting to enjoy life while I can, but knowing I will be a virgin and never experience the joy of marriage. I'm excited about heaven, but am having jealous thoughts seeing beautiful women out there specially when they are with men. Any thoughts on how I can focus on heaven and not what men love to focus on in life?

I will get marring next month iam so nervous but thanks for the info guys ❤.

2:09 Major LOL! Too funny! 🤣🤣🤣

Rebuking our sin and donning a cross Sharing the Gospel with the broken and poor Come on. Come on. Come on. Let's get spiritual! Putting on the full armor of God Fighting the darkness that has poisoned the world Come on. Come on. Come on. Let there be revival!

What a Blessing! God Bless You both! Beautiful family ❤

Honestly, this is a topic that terrifies me about marriage. I honestly have no desire to "get intimate" with my wife on day 1, 2, 3, or 90. I just want to live with the love of my life.

Three minutes in and i already love these two 😂❤❤❤

You are precious people! 💖

Which are your thoughts on wearing a veil on the wedding day when the person is no longer a virgin?

I'm sorry, but I have to bring up the elephant in the room here. Wedding night aside, a male being a virgin is an entirely different situation then the woman being a virgin, just from a physical sensation and biological perspective. And a woman virgin with a male virgin who has little to no clue how to properly take care of certain aspects . . . that is a worrisome proposition. And then if you fold in wedding night and all the jitters and excitement and build up? I think if you were to poll 100 couples who fit this criteria, the number of unsatisfying experiences would far out weight the positive ones.

So he was virgin ,she wasn't

did you finish very early?.....lol from all the excitement

Great video! Y’all never disappoint…God bless!

Okay so I don’t really agree with anything y’all say but I laughed at: Paul: My anxiety did affect my performance. Morgan: … I don’t remember that 👀😏 😂😂😂

This BOY is a bigger red flag than his wife! I can acknowledge that they are built for each other though.

Morgan not a virgin on her wedding night?

This is very beautiful You 2 are virgin until the marriage.Very very beautiful no past no drama no baggage, wish you a happy life

congratulations in getting your desires of heart

Cînd m-am logodit cu soțul meu,am fost prima mea noapte de dragoste nu am regretat nimic.

Bro all y’all talk about is sex. I’m so over it

I know this will be me because I can’t take birth control so I want to be married to have kids

Awww so cute 😃❤😃

God Bless Your Marriage And Your KZfaq I Pray You Guys Blow Up In Jesus Name 🙏🙏🙏

I am anticipating ❤😊

Hahahahah, the cat! 😅🥳

Jesus loves you. Love him too guys. Thanks.

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It's like playing pool and getting the last ball in the hole😂😂😂😂😂

❤ nobody needs to know what happens in the bedroom, its too sacred and intimate to share...😨😰🥵

she is very beautiful

hallelujah

Steamy LOL🤣🤣🤣

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I love you!

Big whoop self righteous bunch

IF THE GIRL IS A VIRGIN, U HAVE A BLOOD COVENANT WITH YOUR SPOUSE. If not, you are forgiven because of the blood covenant with Jesus our eternal groom.

So she's not a virgin? Simp vibes

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I think you have found a reason purity culture is bad. It can make you feel so guilty toward sex, it can spill over into even after you are married. It is hard to get that garbage out of your head even if you are married. I also feel you have found a good reason why it is good to explore sex and sexuality before you are married because maybe you can't find it in your heart to have sex months after you are married is because you have discovered now that sex is allowed and on the table that you truly love your spouse but aren't sexually attracted to them. Gay men don't hate women and lesbians don't hate men. They just find sex with them repulsive. Something that would be much better to discover BEFORE the wedding.

The girls behavior is so annoying, omg.

MARRIAGE is about love NOT lust. God forgives men and women of sex sin. But she was NOT a virgin.. YOU DO NOT HAVE A BLOOD COVENANT. That was Gods idea. BOTH should keep themselves pure. I hope you continue to trust her. We have forgiveness of sin thru the Blood Covenant of Jesus and his blood.

Your are not Virgins!!

It was your decision you made to be with a woman who wasn’t a virgin on your wedding night but I would never do that myself, never settle for someone less.

Damn, what a shame she's cheating on you with multiple guys now

Nothings kept sacred anymore 🤢

Y'all are still pretending that Morgan was a virgin when these two got married? You poor Christians.

This is so pathetic.

That is so gross to fetishise sex

I am sure that no one is going to reciprocate my views, although I can understand why you are making this video, I don’t think this is very godly to share this because you never know what ages are watching, etc. this is inappropriate and should only be shared between you two. The Bible speaks on not defiling the marriage bed for a reason. Your viewers can get these details from friends/loved ones.

Aww Pauls dialogue on this is so sweet and almost literally bibical ❤💯🫶🏼 meanwhile he was a virgin this is very hopeful! The way he describes his wifey and how the experience honors God so beautiful ❤️

Wow you two guys looks so much in love ❤good positive vibes