I really apritiate you for not making things prettier then they are, you are very honest about how thing are going in your country. Keep going, I really hope that your channel will grow even more

I have dated a Kazakh guy and he is basically everything you mentioned hahaha he was more open minded for living many years abroad but still, its Kazakh and the tradition still hits somehow

Kazakh culture is like many other conservative Asian culture. You don’t just marry. You join an extended family. And have some code of ethics to follow.

Salem Salta, Thanks for sharing this video. I am Kazakh and everything you said about Kazakh is soo true. I am so used Kazakh culture but somehow it is weird a bit to see you explain about Kazakh men to others.But you do a very good representation of our Kazakh men are. Lol about the men never cooking part... lol my dad never cooks whenever his his families are present but he cooks when he is alone with us!!! Lol I am sending this to my dad !!!!

It's very detail Salta. Good job

I'm from Turkey and have kazakh boyfriend. When we first started talking he asked me "do you know how to cook" hahaha Same turkish man Most of the things you said are the same with us Just one thing is different. When guests come to the house the guests help the bride. Anyway I hope we have a good future

This is how it goes in Arab culture as well LITERALLY. I relate to every single word you've said. specially the " Queen" treatment thing but they would still practice violence and expect you to take care of his family and do all the house chores all by yourself.

I dated a kazack man for a couples of years. The connection and chemistry we had was magical, to me he was the love of my life. Looking after me, I felt like a queen. But he cheated on me multiples times, me always loyal to him, I never did…. Months after months I felt in prison I could not wear dress, makeup, go out with my friends, post pictures on Instagram, if I have one tiny interaction with a man on the street I am a slut. He was violent. I don’t understand I never cheated, I never flirted with anyone, I stayed loyal. But him he cheated multiples times and I can’t say any words about that. I am sure not every kazack man are like that, I don’t think I will ever date a kazack man anymore… what you say in your video is all true

This really doesn't sound like something I want, that's why I didn't marry a Russian like I am, I married someone foreign. I don't want to deal with the misogyny, I won't settle for someone who doesn't treat me as his equal. Especially the virginity thing is very outdated, virginity is just a concept. It doesn't matter. I wouldn't settle for someone who didn't also cook and clean and someone who doesn't expect kids too. It's very similar to kazakhstan in Russia as far as this culture. Also side note! Please don't ever let him hit you, if he does then you need to leave him right then. It's never okay to raise your hand to your girlfriend/wife

I’m Korean & they are very similar wow

For those who say that kazakh girls are stupid for marrying kazakh men, I want to explain that if you are from traditional Southern family no one will ask for your opinion, girls are taught from the childhood that they should serve boys. Those girls sincerely believe that it’s the way it’s supposed to be. Your family and relatives won’t accept foreigner or even a man of different nationality. Moreover, we have no chance to go abroad and find ‘Western gentlemen’ or even ‘princes in shining armors who will never assault us’ with our pity salaries and broke families. Not everyone has opportunities to learn English or go abroad.

Much love

Given what you're saying about Kazak guy, are kazak females open to dating a foreigner?

Wonderful video, great insight on the male side of things. Thank you! So, when a woman marries man, there is little to no expectation to spend time with her parents / family? The expectation is for her to put her family aside and now take care of his parents / family???

Did you make, the app?

Information video as usual) I went to the link in your description, one of the questions was "Message or Request"? Not sure if that's meant to be there 😅

That's quite depressing. Why would I give up on my family to serve his? Or be socially secluded? Or do all the housework by myself? I like guys who are gentlemen, and yes, there are differences between men and women, and some roles fit one or the other better. But from what you're saying, him proving he can take care of you is more about himself and his pride and image, not about you. However, I really like that family is valued. It is the cell of the society.

This s such a difference with modern general Chinese, Korean and Japanese cultures where it is a total matriarchate and total respect for women. I married a Cantonese girl in Canada, and it’s amazing how relationships in my Ukrainian parents are almost the same as Cantonese (Guanzhou / Hong Kong). Here men are for being strong (rather than aggressive-assertive), create a positive climate, organize free time, take care of more physically demanding jobs, cook rice, etc. Leaves me with all the time for career, gym, mountain travel, fishing etc. I have never been as physically stronger, healthier or happier as after partnership with a Chinese girl. Unfortunately, as in Egypt or Syria, this cultural arrangement will never allow a woman to be assertive in the near future. “Hitting” is criminal and it can’t happen.

Sounds like a Mexican man 100%. Very macho and close minded.

Many things are as a cliche, a lot of different families with different customs...

I think you forgot to mention about Kazakh men having lyubovnitsa🤭 this is the topic that came up the most in conversations whenever I talked to Kazakh women, after asking them what do they think about their men.

kazakh culture very similar to my culture. girl marries guy had to live with the guy‘ s family and cook clean and take care kids and in laws.

i dated Kazakh women its a bit difficult to not make them upset. Issue is i don't know i did something bad and i figure it out super late

In cities, there are crisis centers and hotlines for victims of domestic violence to get help

I am from Azerbaijan, i thought azerbaijan and kazakhstan are different I made a mistake, we are soo similar😄😄in this video also about Azerbaijan man

what is the tradition of having the first born be raised by his parents, does the mom not work, what is she works?

In China, although some mother in laws are considered tiger moms and baby their sons, majority of the time women are the head of the household. Chinese men are manly on the outside but very submissive towards their wives, they will cook and clean and often get scolded by their wives 😂 women have the upper hand. at the same time, they financially take care of their wives. Women have it pretty good in China unless your husband is abusive.

Would it possible to Kazakh men do long distance relationship during dating phase?

Black Passport Bros for Kazah women!

You are basically describing what its like to date Turkish man :D

Can you do dating a Kazakh women 🙂

I would say what you explain is basically expected from every men, his mother and his family literally anywhere in the world. Just the degree to which is expected is very different. I lived 4 years in south East Asia and many women think it’s the opposite in the western world while in reality it’s the same, just less extrem. In the end these women are happy that it is actually kind of similar in the west, because if not they would often feel worthless and without purpose. And like this they just feel happy that their live is easier. Often they are unhappy, because they enter a different culture with a very strange image of what that culture is like.

On my few trips to Kz, shared a lot with a big kz fam, I noticed that kazakh men are far too old-fashioned. Wait, I like old-fashioned but french/english style (who cares anyway). There, they are like cavemen and rude.. Ofc not all are like that, but most of men (from 25 years old to 60) I saw were like that. Youngers are more modern I think. It's okay, it's their culture and foreigners should not be judgmental. In the end, the only positive I see for the woman is that he takes care of everything financially and gives her stability (not emotional ^^).

The whole Asia is similar

You are beautiful woman

So If Kazakh Men must married virgin girl.. that mean they are will not married with Divorce women?!

These traditions are sad, antiquated, and totally outdated. Making a woman into a slave to the husband’s family is just wrong. I hope Kazakhstan can adapt to life in the 21st Century and shed these horrendous traditions.

I don’t think it’s brainwash to get married a young age! I’m Italian and American let me tell you the west it’s a mess! Be proud it is very lovely create a family!

Kazakh men behave similar to Hausa / Fulani from Nigeria

Asia... all asian men are the same... cultures may change, but the root never change.

Can you please tell me your name? and why have you named your channel like that?

I have a question 😄 at what age Kazakhstan men get married and women too?

do ladies there wear burkha?

This video is a pretty turn-off for Kazakh men XD I'd rather stay single if I am a Kazakh woman.

Her perspective on dating Kazakh men and marriage is more or what, accurate. However, everyone forgets that the culture of Central Asia is different from that of the West. I am a Kazakh who grew up in Los Angeles all my life, so my perspective is much different. I speak Kazakh/Russian/English/Spanish/Mongolian and studied in the KZ countryside for my finals years of High School - so there goes your rebuttal about me being AMERICAN. Some of the things she said are so out of pocket: not cooking, not cleaning, basically emasculating men. Guess her generation of Kazakhs are like that .. Millenials. Another statement she brought up was how "Kazakh men will into fights because someone was hitting on their girl", I feel like this is something many men would do after assessing the situation. If someone was to disrespect my girlfriend and say some nasty things, then yes! I would get into a bloody fight! I guess millennials are so PC that you have to say thank you after someone disrespects you! In regards to spousal abuse, yes it occurs not just in Kazakhstan but around the world. Hence reports of domestic abuse in the US. Sad to see an "influencer" make a video about Kazakh men and basically "shit talk" about them. Would have been more interesting if you mentioned that many cultures are like this and so are most men around the world, rather than generalizing that this is specifically KAZAKH MEN!

Any African in the house

well this sounds like hell! most of the things are completely unacceptable in terms of being a decent human being. I seriously hope this conservative and sexist attitude will change soon. and I'm not saying this to disrespect the kazakh people, but EVERY country that treats women like this need to take a long hard look at themselves and learn to treat their fellow human beings as they would like to be treated themselves.

that's all true, unfortunately

I'm of Russian and Mongolian background, the moment you get men to do women's duties the men become feminine like, look all the countries now who hyper feminise their societies, once they do this it everthing goes to shit, just throw the traditions that made a strong society right out the window and the whole nation suffers, keep it strong Kazahkstan!!!!

The conclusion is that Kazakh men are REAL MEN... This is how Real men behave around their women folk and this is how real men take care of their women.

Come to see Russian beautiful girls

My god how primitive!! Borat made Kazakhstan looked far more sophisticated compared to your description. Try and escape Saltis ASAP.