LISTEN to Craig people! Both he and Margaret are actually QUALIFIED therapists with a combined experience between them longer than most of us have been alive. DO NOT pay attention to other channels such as Chris Seiter who recommends IGNORING your ex when they reach out (why ignore them when they are actively coming forward?!) and advocates a 30-60 day no contact rule as if something magically happens after 30 days. If you ex truly wants you they will contact YOU you certainly don’t need to “remind” them on day 30 you exist. Listen to Craig this is genuinely the best channel because it’s about self improvement and making relationships better and understanding why you muck them up not just snake oil and tricks to manipulate like other lesser quality channels.
@NadeenHope3 жыл бұрын
I actually begin to understand that these life coaches are not qualified to give relationship advises. I was used to watching tony gaskins and found myself having a very bad and angry mindset about men in general. I trust scientific topics like all the attachment styles and people like Craig Kenneth who really give amazing advice and help you to improve yourself instead of pointing fingers!
@gamegirl89453 жыл бұрын
Completely agree that the ignoring your ex rule is ridiculous! I mean you aren’t showing yourself in a good light if you are going to ignore them and will come across as petty. I know people are afraid of falling into the friend zone if an ex reaches out, myself included but I don’t think ignoring them if they contact you Is the right response
@psychicmatchmaker92043 жыл бұрын
Craig and Margaret are wonderful pioneers. They are filled with incredible wisdom and enlightenment. Chris Seiter, Luccia, Clay Andrew, Love Advice TV, Brad Browning are all obtuse and oblivious. Stay away
@gamegirl89453 жыл бұрын
@@psychicmatchmaker9204 they are terrible, I listened to clay Andrew’s to try and build a connection with my ex but me be reaching out even though he was responsive etc, it’s best to let your ex come to you and respond when they reach out, regardless as to how casual it is
@gamegirl89453 жыл бұрын
@@MrCjchamp to be honest I am properly moving on now as for the last three to four months in the breakup I felt like I was being strung along as he kept in contact and I thought he wanted to rekindle things but I was wrong so I cut it off as he only wanted to be friends and I’m trying to properly move on now, thank you though!
@jahleelx92703 жыл бұрын
When they realize the grass isn't greener on the other side. That's normally what makes them come back.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Well that’s part of it
@tommyduhaney52263 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth What happened to the video, ''Finding a secure Partner''? That video was wonderful but came to an untimely end. And this video like the many others are awesome.
@theempire3393 жыл бұрын
@@tommyduhaney5226 that's exactly what I've been wondering, I asked that same question just not too long ago 😒🤷🏻♂️ maybe we have to go no contact.
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
@@tommyduhaney5226 We had a technical issue with that video and will follow up with it. Margaret is incredible so stay tuned!
@tommyduhaney52263 жыл бұрын
@@coachvictoria6405 thank you for the update and I personally want to welcome you to the team and I also wanna thank all of you because now, psychology has become my passion which I'll pursue at the tertiary level. You guys have thought me a lot and I conclude so many things which you guys made videos backing, so that only gives me more confidence that I'm on the right track and that my inner compass is awesome. Thanks again and stay safe 💜
@connorb90973 жыл бұрын
8 months later, no contact etc. And I feel at peace, I’ve realised my failure in the relationship and I’m okay with me. I’ve done the work and I don’t want my ex back. It’s a journey but y’all keep at it! You’ll come to a realisation one way or another over one thing or another x
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Go check my IG and see my recent posts. People come back after years
@robb18653 жыл бұрын
If they don't come around after a few months and you have been working on yourself they obviously don't care. Move on, keep working on yourself and find someone else that can appreciate you. Many dumpers are too quick to give up on people or not even give them a second chance. Ask yourself...do I really want someone who gives up so easily? You are better than that!!
@bistravoda36873 жыл бұрын
Guys, almost nine months after breakup I can totally support Vicky's words: work on yourself slowly and step by step. For me it was about keeping moving forward with my work, my personal goal and life responsibilities. This moving was through pain and sadness. Step by step repeating Margaret's affirmation: I am proud of myself for getting through this day. I am fine now and actually very proud of what has been done during this time. For myself and for people who choose to be in my life.
@Raymen43072 жыл бұрын
1 month of no contact she came back, I gave it another shot until I found out she was talking to someone behind my back. I’m working on me snd don’t need her, I know my worth and how good I was to her. It’s her loss, not mine. I’m on my own path now. Thanks coaches for all the vids
@DL-vibes3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes exes just give up and that’s on them nothing to do with us. So stay strong and know that you have what you did when you did and don’t blame yourself.
@tahrirforever3 жыл бұрын
From my experience, exes come back if you both have a base together which is a real friendship. If u were his / her best friend , they would come back . besides if u both felt that the sex is different than other relations u had before, he/she will come back. Those two elements are most important in my opinion.
@XxJustinxx882 жыл бұрын
That's not true. My ex and I was together for almost 4 years. She was my best friend, lover, ole lady and the mother to our two year old son. I shared everything with her and when I'd come In from work she would gossip to me and tell me everything about her. Our sex was absolutely amazing and numerous times over 4 years she would tell me during sex that I was "made and fit" for her so perfectly. She and I both shared a connection that neither of us had ever felt. I'm 33 and she will be 40 this month. She also said after breaking my heart that she knew I loved her and loved her more than anyone else she had ever been with. I hit a rough spot In my life and became depressed and that's when she decided she had enough. She kicked me out the day after Christmas and hasn't looked back since. I really wish what you said was true but It's not unfortunately. At first I wanted her and our family back but I just can't be with someone who let me sleep In my car freezing my nuts off while she slept comfortably In her home and bed. I am confident when I say this though... Every guy In her life from birth until we met I can say that only two men ever really loved and cared about her. Myself and her grandfather. Everyone else just used her, beat her and abused her. I am her best option. I have absolutely no doubt at all about that. I just lost my way a little In the relationship. As the saying goes... I know what I bring to the table and I'm not afraid to eat alone. I worked and let her stay at home for 3 years while she was pregnant and to be a stay at home Mom and I was proud and happy to do that. I truly believe she and I where soulmates though. My heart still feels connected to hers even after a little over two months and something Inside of me keeps saying "It's not over and she'll be back". No matter what I tell myself that voice keeps popping up.
@yihaw1492 жыл бұрын
@@XxJustinxx88 I hope you're coping well. Just give this some time and work on improving yourself, especially on your depression. I do believe that if you both shared something amazing together, then it's very likely that they will not forget you that easily and will want to return, granted that you seem like a changed person. I think the "grass is greener" syndrome will most likely bring your ex back to you, because chances are it will be very hard to her to find someone to replace you. But the key is to be patient, don't think about her and just focus on working on yourself. Wish you all the best.
@XxJustinxx882 жыл бұрын
@@yihaw149 Thank you so much for your very kind words. I bought the workbooks and have been working on them when I get off of work every morning. My heart still aches and longs for her and my son. I have to go to her house to see my son twice a week. Coincidentally last month she picked Valentine's Day as a day for me to come and then Friday Is her birthday and that's also the day she picked for me to come and see my son. It's weird. I've asked to work things out and she brings up things I said out of anger like 3 years ago. She tries to act like she doesn't care but last week I stopped by the store and this really pretty woman started talking to me. Apparently my ex rode by and seen It. The next day I went to see my son and she cooked for me. That's the first time since we split. She made my plate and brought It to me and then said she had seen me talking to a woman at the store. She acted mad. When I call and talk to my son on the phone sometimes she gets the phone and talks about what's going on etc. Still has our pictures on her FB and I'm still blocked. I have decided to move on and whatever happens just happens. Thank you.
@alannajm2 жыл бұрын
@@XxJustinxx88 damn any updates?
@XxJustinxx882 жыл бұрын
@@alannajm Yeah she tried coming back about 3 weeks ago but I declined. I had purchased the workbooks worked my way through them and realized that over the entire relationship she had made everything my fault. I've decided to throw myself Into my career and knock off a few bucket list Items before my next relationship. Funny how they go from certainly over you to let's give this another shot.
@upperiscopeUK3 жыл бұрын
The three of you make an excellent team, complementing each other very well. Margaret is, of course, a star, albeit one momentarily out of view. Your faith in the persistence of connection is heartening, as is your encouragement to establish a healthy axis through work and self-improvement.
@lenaschaef67143 жыл бұрын
It took him 4 full years to notice the grass isn't greener and to slowly start coming back around... while I just found a new partner I'm serious with.. I'm now feeling very torn between these two, but knowing which of them is the better pick when the feelings for both are so strong
@jahleelx92703 жыл бұрын
If u got dumped and it took a person 4 years to come back, choose your new partner. If someone really cares it would not take them that long to even wonder about you. Choose the one that is going to stick with you when times get hard. And that's clearly not your former partner.
@lenaschaef67143 жыл бұрын
@@jahleelx9270 Well, I'm on and off with the new partner since October, so I start doubting he's the right one :) I've been fighting for the other ex back for years and it's sad that it's only working now!
@jahleelx92703 жыл бұрын
@@lenaschaef6714 it's only working now because he sees that the grass isn't greener and doesn't want u to move on to something better. If he came back a year later I would consider it but four years later, that's too long of a time and shows he doesn't actually care about you.
@The_Darrell3 жыл бұрын
My ex took a little over 3 years of no contact to reach out and try to get back with me... I was with another woman at that time, so I had to turn her down.
@lenaschaef67143 жыл бұрын
@@The_Darrell are you back together now? ❤️
@AlexanderBeenGreat3 жыл бұрын
Victoria is so great and complimentary to the vibe of the videos. She fits in so well & speaks to the soul. She speaks as if shes in my exact same position ♥️
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
🙏 Thank you for your encouragement ❤️
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
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@adriedrake86053 жыл бұрын
I swear you never age craig🙌🏻 mine is returned months ago.. our breakup was just 3 wks..were talking marriage now 2 yrs togther..Ill be seeing him in 2 weeks. I still love to watch your videos . Always great information 🙏🏻👑 best coaches on youtube .
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
I’m not interested in aging 😉 and I’m glad to hear that things are going great for you❤️
@adriedrake86053 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth thank you one day at a time.. either way your channel helps so much.. I know my worth🤸🏻♀️🙌🏻🤗
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
If you want my help personally just sign up for a coaching
@daenithriuszanathos93063 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth I would like your help, Coach, but the time difference makes it difficult to reach out during weekdays due to my work. Will there be plans to do Saturdays at least? I know you guys are busy and have your own lives.
@LiLgPnoy153 жыл бұрын
My ex is an avoidant, hopefully she sees I am her best option. I put in so much work to improve my toxic behavior, not for her, but for myself. I am proud of myself.
@1dontknowmyownname3 жыл бұрын
So, it's been roughly 9 months now, not a peep, nothing, still blocked checked for the first time in months. I'm so happy for everyone who've got a second chance with their ex's but for me there is zero chance and I'm reaching the point when I'm ready to let go of having one. I'm continuing to do the work but I can't keep feeling like this anymore. Only I would find the one girl I wanted to marry and lose her and never get a second chance. I've begun dating again reluctantly. Wishing you all the best, maybe I'll have a success story. But for now I'm just doing the work.
@theempire3393 жыл бұрын
I've been broken up with my ex for 3 years now, and I think about giving up every day..so I'm right there with you. Best thing I've done is pick a goal that's obtainable develop not just a habit of achieving that goals but deeper than that. 2 Keyword words tunnel vision.
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@NotYourTypicalMermaid943 ай бұрын
Exes do come back guys. You have to allow time with no contact for them to come back. Let the room clear. It literally just happened to me. I'm getting out of a recent relationship, and my ex from 2 years ago, pops up with a text apologizing to me from things that happened during the period of time we were together.
@SexAndCandyHair923 жыл бұрын
Officially hit 6 months of no contact. I definitely feel better than I did the first month or so. But some days are easier than others. Sometimes I don’t even think about him at all but then other times he’s constantly on my mind...
@andrasziegenham67663 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm around 1 year now and I'm still not sure if I have spent a single day without her crawling into my thoughts. In the past two months I had someone distract me of her, but I think I still thought about her at least 5 minutes per day. Especially when trying to sleep. That's the worst time of day. So if you've had times you didn't even think of your ex at the 6th month, you're doing great!
@sergioaraujo87423 жыл бұрын
It's happen to me as well.
@eduardocardona66083 жыл бұрын
@@andrasziegenham6766 one year is a lot of time. It's over
@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@cravingforculinary79453 жыл бұрын
Actually they’ll come back and it’s happen in mine. Keep focusing on ourselves peeps. 🙏🏻
@Ionlycomeoutatnight Жыл бұрын
2 months no contact. Apart from noticing an unblocking from my ex on Instagram though my profile was hidden originally. Now she can see whatever. I've taken more time to focus on myself to learn. To look back at my issues. My childhood. Buying books. Doing therapy. Even these videos have been a massive help! The point Vicky said about her ex boyfriend being musicians, and he seemed to have took off on his own was quite inspiring. My ex knew I wanted to learn to fly. This has been a thing for years for me. Since a child, but more recent years and last year I said I was gonna do it asap. Though not with my ex, I start in April this year. I'm absolutely excited and proud to say I'm taking a big step for myself and the stones to even do such thing. But I certainly hope that it inspires her that I am a guy true to my word!
@neotenylv093 жыл бұрын
Coach Victoria is getting better and better! 😄 Hearing all these things reminds me the first time I saw Coach Craig, heartbroken and looking for some guide.
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏 Keep up the good work!
@DrOscarCuellar2 жыл бұрын
@@coachvictoria6405 Great music story! What instrument's do you play btw?
@katjagrum40113 жыл бұрын
I swear Craig, you alway hit the video at just the right time 🤯
@None_of_your_business6663 жыл бұрын
It's the disturbance in the force
@kemardavis44593 жыл бұрын
Craig foresee our situation that we're going through I guess
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
I am at one with the force 🌟
@mvaladez1873 жыл бұрын
He’s watching you
@SpyOnDeck3 ай бұрын
I can't tell you how important working on the issues during the NC time, is. I did NC during the first split. Just kind of moped around and didn't take action on the issues (how to avoid us being in a long distance relationship). She eventually reached back out to me, we talked for about another 6 months, but nothing had changed. And here we are back in no contact. This time I'm coming up with a plan (to fix the long distance situation), that if she does reach out at some point, at least I've taken action and have considered the issues that caused the split the first place.
@jillmiller6823 жыл бұрын
You guys are like my Jeannie's without the bottle! It's amazing how you listen and study and relive the childhood memories and learn about yourself and then boom, it happens! The indirect direct approach. 5 years Coach, I FINALLY left him alone, focused on myself, started moving on, well did move on, and then here it came. "The" one, the one email I've waited 5 years to see. I didn't think it would happen but it did. So much satisfaction in knowing you could take him or leave him at this point and know you're going to be okay either way. I cannot if I spent the rest of my life trying, thank you guys enough. Happy Easter as well.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Happy Easter
@anniebutler57612 жыл бұрын
Wow thays Incredible!!
@marksimzhengjia69523 жыл бұрын
Hi Coach Craig! Just a request, maybe in future would you like to discuss about the psychology of short term relationships? I believe it would be insightful, as those of us with short term relationship has less to hang on to when trying to get an ex back. Hopefully you can discuss and guide us on short term relationship break ups🙏🏻
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion!
@tasnai3 жыл бұрын
Listening to Coach Victoria totally tames my anxiety!
@flowkoko3 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on this one
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
🙏
@georgepanagiotou86733 жыл бұрын
Been 6 months and iv reached out in December. Got nothing back but a big bag of silence. I’m struggling to let go and I have a voice in my head telling me just to reach out again. And how much I love her. But I have to stay strong it’s her move this time. 💪🏼
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you’re working pretty hard. Remember to do those workbooks 30 minutes a day
@EricFontenelle3 жыл бұрын
“Doing the same things over and over again...[expecting different results]”. I think this is what you were going for
@melissachinnici3 жыл бұрын
I needed this one. It will be 3 months of NC. I have made a LOT of changes since. Got a better job, went back to school, working out more often, doing the workbooks, etc. I stopped bargaining and accept it had to happen this way because I honestly wasn't happy with where my life was and quit doing the work while me and my ex were together. I see his issues and his attachment style also (avoidant) and quit blaming myself for everything falling apart. But I'm in the acceptance stage. I want to believe I will hear from him again. We only dated a few months, though, so I'm not so sure. Sadly, it was one of the healthier relationships I've had so I feel it makes getting over him much more difficult.
@melissachinnici3 жыл бұрын
What makes me laugh is I had 2 other exes reach out since the breakup, however, one after 7 years since we spoke. It's a start.
@jakedonell71503 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you’re doing awesome, keep up the good work 💪
@knockdadeathstroke37993 жыл бұрын
Its been 11 months since the breakup, Im starting to believe she wasnt even that attached to begin with. We lasted for like what, 9 months? Lol. I'm at peace but these videos sometimes do make me push forward more and more. Thanks Craig, for everything
@android10122 жыл бұрын
Craig & Crew are the absolute best.... No one else compares!
@CoachCraigKenneth2 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@icecube45313 жыл бұрын
Now i don't care if she come back or not. I just want her to want to come back-so at least she can feel the way i felt🤣😜
@Sixrabbbit3 жыл бұрын
That’s the wrong way Holmes. don’t be all vindictive n shii. Be understanding and mature
@testserver4532 жыл бұрын
Any updates?
@bbymuletitas3 жыл бұрын
Always Mr. Clutch. Craig is the 🐐. Perfect timing . Life is about choices so be careful what you choose dumpers lol 😂 grass ain't always greener on the other side . We will get through this guys. 1 day at a time .
@spiroguru3 жыл бұрын
thats the spirit bro!!!their loss not ours!
@elimars79412 жыл бұрын
This is the biggest mistake that people make they think the grass is greener on the other side....the truth is yours can also be greener if you water n take care of it
@mizzcrazygal3 жыл бұрын
im currently on 13 days no contact, this is our second break up so i highly doubt he'll come back. i dont know, time will tell but i hope in a few months i can look back and be like wow i didnt break no contact im doing well and im happy. im just honestly excited about meeting new friends, graduating and travelling. thats all i want in the future.
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@iBeJulio2 жыл бұрын
How'd things turn out?
@traceymel843 жыл бұрын
4 weeks of no contract and 2 months of not physically seeing each other... It hurts but I am day 22 of jogging and looking after myself. Its hard as he lives in the next road and right opposite my friend so 1 day ill see him and it will be then that will show me how strong I can be.. Thank you for your videos this has helped 🙏🙏
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
We love to see it! Keep up that self-care! ❤️
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@TonyRossiImpactGlobal3 жыл бұрын
My ex has NEVER taken responsibility for her actions, NEVER!
@animalcrossingbones3 жыл бұрын
I've recently started the workbooks, gotten into sewing and skateboarding again. Also been doing commissions for my illustration career :^)
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
How do u like the workbooks? Do them 30 minutes a day!
@animalcrossingbones3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth theyre great so far! I think I'm starting to understand that things ended because of my anxiety. Hopefully he will open up to the idea of contacting me so I can truly see if I've changed for the better. Its only been about 4 months so who knows haha
@skyfall14813 жыл бұрын
Why does it take a break up for us to get back to our hobbies or things of interest??? I’m getting into running events and reading. Things I’ve always wanted to do but never cared for! Its a positive step regardless. All the best to you and your career.
@worwantube3 жыл бұрын
Great to see you two and this great video! At the same time, I miss Margaret in the video.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Margaret isn’t going anywhere. But we are able to put out additional videos now that we have Victoria
@worwantube3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth Lovely! Cannot wait to see your upcoming videos! Thanks so much for your invaluable content!
@F1fletch2 жыл бұрын
My wife and I have been married over 8yrs but she left last July and I have not seen her since. She dealt with a death in the family and we have had very little contact. BUT I have been the one to reach out and send occasional emails etc. now after 8 months I know I just have to leave it be and go full no contact. I regret I didn’t do more of it earlier. I agree with comments below that you can’t put a timeframe on it. I am quite sure she is done with me as her conduct before we split spoke volumes. I can attest to the fact that it has ruined my emotional state reaching out to her, she says she wants to meet but doesn’t follow through. While I won’t ignore her if she reaches out. I am done doing the reaching and hurting myself while being ignored by her. Onwards and upwards!!
@BruceJC755 ай бұрын
I could only be my authentic self and she loved me for who I was, but she recognized her need to deal with her own struggles with her ex husband. All I can do is pray for her and strengthen myself for if she does come back. I don’t know if she’ll come back, but I do know that she’ll know what we had and the good thing she walked away from.
@ewoski3 жыл бұрын
An important factor that makes an ex come back... is accepting the break up graciously.
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@christiea7723 жыл бұрын
He never had any complaints he said I was alright the way I am. He still ended it out of the blue with no explanation. It was not on me and I do not take this personally. He’s work to do and we will probably never see each other again. He never let me into his life, no social media, no personal objects left in his house, no friends in common.
@alwayslove66073 жыл бұрын
He's a great restorer who works for free. I urge you tọ seek help from him
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@angelanaomi61553 жыл бұрын
@@alwayslove6607 the man also helped me we've got that in common. Lol
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@agapevillanueva3202 жыл бұрын
Oh I love this topic. ❤😊 Thanks coach Craig and coach Victoria. GOD bless!
@curranman752 жыл бұрын
My ex pretty much just told me that we need to split up because I was never around for her despite numerous times I've asked and asked if she'd want to do something together and she'd just rather go to work
@GoldLeafPress2 жыл бұрын
I seriously seriously SERIOUSLY doubt my ex is feeling bad or sad about it! Just putting that out there. If I’m feeling blah about it after 2 months I swear he is too! 😒.
@TheNlinger3 жыл бұрын
Never go back to an ex. It's time better spent cultivating a new relationship than going back to something that didn't work. Also, it's OK to be alone. You don't need that other person to validate you or bring happiness.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with trying to repair a relationship with somebody you love.
@livenow133 жыл бұрын
That’s where I am stuck at! Being in a relationship with her made me feel validated, but at the same time I love her like crazy
@frankdique87993 жыл бұрын
Appreciate and respect your comments.
@mizzcrazygal3 жыл бұрын
the only thing that makes an ex come back is if they havent found anyone else who cares for them like u do.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
What do you mean?
@spiroguru3 жыл бұрын
so true...
@juanperez-ni2iw3 жыл бұрын
No one else will feel for them like we do
@tbsdrummer873 жыл бұрын
That’s not true at all
@Mom2boys913 жыл бұрын
I needed this video. We got back together for 5 months and he left after 1 fight. I'm focusing on me now. I love him but I'm not waiting for him.
@Brandonganss13 жыл бұрын
My ex went back to her ex after being with me for 5 years. Blocked me even though i didnt push. Basically threw me in the trash. He recently seperated from his wife, they are still married. He makes half what i do and has 2 kids. Cherry on top is she left him 5 years ago because he cheated on her. And that damaged her badly, trust me i saw the deep wound and insecurity it gave her durring our 5 years together. On paper i was better for her in almost every way. Ive really just given up at this point. No matter whatyou do for someone or how much effort you put in they would rather go back to garbage. Makes me feel like i was the worst boyfriend ever somehow. That really makes me not want to ever put that energy into someone again.
@The.Royal.T203 жыл бұрын
Hey Brandon, don’t beat yourself up. Sometimes people have this unhealthy perception of love and they are constantly attracted to that. Somehow being with that type of love is how they feel most comfortable. Unfortunately for you this might be the case.
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@nicolasrodriguez56743 жыл бұрын
The difference is, I am the one who is crying, did nothing wrong, then get blamed how I am to react to their mistakes, and I am not to feel anything?! When I'm always the one left behind. So I only speak out to get those emotions out at them or to the recent breakup to get out what I am feeling what she had caused the pain on me.
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@bulletinvid8 ай бұрын
Victoria is emerging as a excellent therapist
@crking363 жыл бұрын
Always appreciative of a new video!!!
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Thank u for letting us know
@kathia.46403 жыл бұрын
My Ex (Avoidant), who broke up with me in the end of March 21 by phone, just called on day 138 of no contact. Not exactly direct, but asking if we could get back in contact...I''m just not sure what he wants now...still waiting until he makes it more clear. I told him when he broke it off back in march, i didn't want to be friends...so I hope that is not all he can do.
@trenchantsometimes514911 ай бұрын
Years ago a boyfriend tossed me aside because his "mommy" interfered but after she passed away he wanted to get together again and I told him it was more likely to snow in hell.....and I've never regretted it.
@mercilein3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow I haven't checked your channel in a while and I am definately back to watching your videos 😍🙏 thanks for helping us all so much!!
@ruthestella13823 жыл бұрын
He is indeed problem solver
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@louiseabsalom18323 жыл бұрын
Even if you work on the issues, it's still very easy to fall back to old habits and patterns with an ex so I personally don't see the point to go back. I rather break the habits and patterns and be with someone else.
@skyfall14813 жыл бұрын
Agree. It’s exciting at the prospect of who you can meet next and leave the negativity of the ex behind. I met up with an ex a few times after a mini break and it didn’t take much to slip back into feeling stressed and anxious. Not worth it. Move on!!! Good luck to you.
@dodie54663 жыл бұрын
I unfriended him. He got mad. But I find it easier to not see his feed at all.
@Nova-tc6jv3 жыл бұрын
How long does it take for them to feel separation anxiety? It’s been 9 months since the breakup and 5 months NC😞 some days are harder than others.. hate feeling this way!
@danieljob12293 жыл бұрын
Don't let anyone come between you and your love, you can actually earn their love and make it too deep for the ocean to be jealous.
@danieljob12293 жыл бұрын
He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship
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@jajahMantes2 жыл бұрын
@Nova Update???
@nataliavelo33 жыл бұрын
Like always great video!
@oxymoron4583 жыл бұрын
An ex disliked this video 😂
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
The question is, who’s ex
@oxymoron4583 жыл бұрын
Probably the apple bee's girl
@K6MM183 жыл бұрын
@@oxymoron458 😊😁😄😂
@myfriendjenn22373 жыл бұрын
How and why are you so on point and know exactly how we are feeling!!!! 😩
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
I read your mind Jen
@_rabia_demir_3 жыл бұрын
Such great advice, thank you!
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome
@theempire3393 жыл бұрын
You know what's more stronger than love and attachment, parental/family control... 😒 Not trying to be a mood killer. Buuuuuuuuuuttttttt like you said "secret loyalties"
@obnoxiouscommenter61943 жыл бұрын
I was an awful partner, so I'm sure she won't miss me. But this is still very good advice for relationships in general
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@jn456722 жыл бұрын
How will she see my changes through no contact if i dont use social media...
@lesleymiller84463 жыл бұрын
He really had his claws into me and refused to divorce me until i told him that i cancelled my life insurance, then i got dropped like a hot brick, we're now divorced and iv blocked him on social media, theres no contact at all
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow. I would consider doing a Skype call with Margaret for that situation
@tamimaislam943 жыл бұрын
I really wish I had listened to these videos earlier!!! Ughh! I listened to another coach about ‘building a connection with your ex’.. and when my ex clearly said he needs some time, I started being there as ‘a friend’. It seemed good at first, but then he started pulling away as he started feeling like me being around was a reminder he needs to make a decision, and he told me that he thought it through and he doesn’t feel it, and doesn’t wanna hurt me anymore. So I stepped back by sending a letter. A month later I find out during the time I sent the letter he started talking to another girl.... I now realise I pressurised and pushed him into the stage he is in now. And seeing him with this other girl has gotten me back to square 1 😞
@goodlove47523 жыл бұрын
Hello friend, getting back your ex shouldn't be a problems anymore.
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@kirkhullinger19343 жыл бұрын
What if you dont want her back. You finally realize how toxic she is You just want to move on?
@jahleelx92703 жыл бұрын
Then don't take her back. U don't have to be enemies, u can talk to her once or twice but then just tell her u don't want to be with her anymore.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Then take all the information that we teach and use it to have healthy relationships with new people
@sunshinesmile47573 жыл бұрын
Coach Craig, would you consider doing one on breaking up after an argument that came unexpectedly when both people had a bad day with work family issues & took it out on each other when otherwise a goof relationship Thanks
@sunshinesmile47573 жыл бұрын
*good relationship
@sunshinesmile47573 жыл бұрын
Andy, we had a very good relationship & friendship, not every break up is because of issues in a relationship, there can & were outside things that gave us both a very stressful day & unfortunately we ended up with a silly argument
@user-or6qd4ll2p11 ай бұрын
Thank you. You've helped alot.
@tonyrossi38143 жыл бұрын
My ex wife and I have been apart for 20 years, but we’ve started to reconnect. We’ve spent a lot of time together, even spent the night together several times (no sex), just sleeping together. I still love her, but not sure how she feels, although she said she’s not where I am yet. She remarried and had two kids, but has been separated for a few years. I’m really confused.
@danieljob12293 жыл бұрын
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@ponokunishima12 жыл бұрын
8 weeks after my breakup and I just had a relapse. Woke up from a nap and had a small dream about me and my ex girlfriend making out. I still get scared that she won’t reach out in the future
@spiroguru3 жыл бұрын
its been 3 monts after the break up..she wants to stay friends...i want friends with benefitts...we been 1 year together...i miss her..but i know its toxic...i think i hit dead end....
@mattykay78523 жыл бұрын
I’ve written about when some of us that have been in LDR’s And the Covid Non travel situation How do we cope with this ? I really think this would be a great video!
@coachvictoria64053 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion as it is affecting many!
@lesleymiller84463 жыл бұрын
My ex walked away from me and he didnt even tell me he wasnt coming back. He didnt even tell me that he didnt love me or want to be with me anymore... no explaination, nothing. So i ended up going for divorce
@nathanbooth53443 жыл бұрын
What if an ex's mentality is "an ex is an ex for a reason and never go back"?...I would like to change her mentality as I still love her.I am broken without her or her sons in my life.But I am blocked everywhere and she has not reached out...6 months since she dumped me and over 6 year relationship gone to waste :( she has dated two people since...the first one failed as the grass was not greener...the second one she has been seeing about a month...it hurts :(
@dotfive5six4772 жыл бұрын
Update ?
@stephenn772 жыл бұрын
Going on 90 days NC and starting to doubt at this point…
@jacqui83922 жыл бұрын
Hows it going for you now?
@nikiali7051 Жыл бұрын
What am amazing video!
@The_Darrell3 жыл бұрын
Question... At what point do we have nothing to lose by reaching out? I'm 30 days into no contact (relationship ended 2 months ago). I recently learned about attachment styles, and through doing so, I feel I now understand why she did (and didn't do) certain things during our relationship. Do you see any harm in sending a pre-recorded video message at about day 50 or 60 of no contact, that demonstrates 1) I'm happy and accept the breakup and 2) I have a new understanding/perspective of things now and I wish her well... The relationship she had before me was abusive, and when we got close, I didn't understand why she was pushing me away. Learning that she is a fearful avoidant, I now get it.
@MsJomolover3 жыл бұрын
I would recommend watching his other videos. No contact means no contact unless she reaches out to you. However, it's great that you have educated yourself ! i really wouldn't recommend a video from a woman's perspective it could be interpreted badly.
@ShaniquaVogel Жыл бұрын
No!!!
@countrygrl2783 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video to explain why an ex can be flirting intensely with you in person. Then blocks you out of no where when you hang here messaged them or bothered them at all? My ex and I had a wonderful week the week before last. And we’ve been progressing over three months. Then he went on vacation this past week. Half way in he blocked me. It does not make sense because I didn’t bother him. I was just minding my own business living my own life. He does have a girlfriend but I feel like he must not be happy if he’s carrying on with me in the ways that he does. Even our coworkers have started intervening because we’re having a hard time making something happen. He comes back tonight and I’m so upset and don’t know if I should act like I don’t care? I have done massive work on myself the two and a half years since we broke up and I know that’s what has caused him to start coming back toward me .
@eduardocardona66083 жыл бұрын
Its seems like they are more happy without you in social Media. Posting trips, having fun, positive quotes like they are having the perfect time without you( it could be true)
@hurt17043 жыл бұрын
Things aren’t always as they appear. Don’t let that fool you. It’s easy to paint a picture perfect life on Facebook or insta
@lizp6372 жыл бұрын
Please can you do more LDR splits? It's very hard for me right now. After 5 weeks n.c. we spoke last week, 30 min nice light hearted phone call and he said before we rung off "ring or text me whenever you like".....I havent, but in 5 days he's not text me soooo, no idea where or what to do from here?.......
@gundampoon3 жыл бұрын
what about when they are active on your social media? liking, commenting, their friends are still talking to you? i just passed the 30 days nc
@betiboo72943 жыл бұрын
Do not react to it. When they are ready to really contact you, they'll do it directly by texting or better: by calling you.
@masterdebater1473 жыл бұрын
Will they go through the grief process if they are on antidepressants?
@Scott-ej7bc5 ай бұрын
Valid question lol
@winniejake1443 жыл бұрын
Hey Craig, loved this video! Can you do a video about my ex ending things because he got a job in another state and isn't willing to do long distance. I will appreciate it 🙏
@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@HonestTraveller3 жыл бұрын
Craig, years ago when I was travelling Australia I didn’t give her attention as I was investing heavily in cryptocurrency. I said I’m doing this for us both, she said your not putting any effort into this relationship it’s all going into this crypto. She would finish work and I was always investing and on my laptop. I feel bad but I now have hundreds of thousands of profit and crypto has changed my life. I lost her but financially I’m free. I wish she realised I did this for us both, it hurts as she’s still with the guy she left me for. but now I’m enjoying it solo and going to travel the world, still miss her though and its been 5 years.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Your story sounds very familiar to me
@HonestTraveller3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth should I feel bad though? I did what was best for us both and she left me because I didn’t focus on her. Madness
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
Just sign up for a coaching 🤷🏻♂️
@alishbamaryam63333 жыл бұрын
Some women want money + your attention, some want more your attention than money, have you ever considered this fact that maybe she want your attention more than finances, and try to mend things, just thinking 😐
@HonestTraveller3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth I dont need coaching mate lol, but if it means signing up to answering that question I already know the answer lol.
@Leon-gq7zs3 жыл бұрын
I have done everything wrong, broke no contact and everything multiple times. Wish I saw this sooner. Now I'm focused self growth.
@lordcathankavanahspiritual87063 жыл бұрын
Hi Leon, don’t worry but be happy as I can help you make everything alright again and return back the love of your ex lover in less than 3days
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@brandonkoch16933 жыл бұрын
Hey Craig can you still work on yourself and make your ex comeback after your second breakup with them?
@sebastiandiaz60273 жыл бұрын
It would be interesting if you could talk about when the dumper tells themselves "its better like this so i dont hurt them like ive been hurt, they deserve someone beter, im not meant to be with anyone, i dont eant to bring them down with me" this is how my ex ended things and i wish i could understand more about why they feel this way and if theres a chance they ever change their mind and reach out even though they believe that the breakup was better for the dumpee.
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@ChunkyPotium3 жыл бұрын
Hi Craig & other youtubers. My ex keeps posting in her fb story that she was "begging for the bare minimum and if a man likes you, he will text you and make time for you". But I gave her everything and I always have time for her. I am confident that I did my best and she knows it. Is this a breadcrumb or a trick to make me break no contact?? I am so triggered right now like she is inverting the story of our relationship.
@ChunkyPotium3 жыл бұрын
@Rolling On Tens. So thats a bummer from her right? I mean. She left me, the one who gave her everything for another one thats not giving her attention?
@ChunkyPotium3 жыл бұрын
@Rolling On Tens. Yeah I really dont know if this is for me. I also avoid posting anything on social media regarding relationships.
@kanika99953 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on why an Ex wont return personal items ?
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@ozzydee66423 жыл бұрын
Hey Craig, you talk a lot about attachment. Could you please do a video on how to tell if they are/were actually attached?
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@axurrity23 жыл бұрын
4 weeks of no contact, going strong and working on myself everyday, the urge is always there to text her but as each day goes along the easier it does get ill tell you that, I hope she reaches out in easter break
@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@emmanuela.mendoza29883 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Craig 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@nickvario64883 жыл бұрын
hey coach, could you make a video on why would a ex keep pictures and other close friends on social media but deleted me, and my 2 best friends. she doesn't have "single" on there and has every single picture we've posted up still and it has been about a month since we split. we dated for just over a year.
@rosemarybay63483 жыл бұрын
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@Nova-tc6jv3 жыл бұрын
I’m in a similar situation except that I unfriended him on FB and IG. Then he blocked me on IG two months into NC although I could not see any of his posts.. very weird and confusing!
@kathia.46402 жыл бұрын
It's been 10 months nearly, he reached out 4/5 months ago, but nothing came of it / just by phone / is there any chance that he still is grieving and I just have to keep calm?
@MultiSinister6663 жыл бұрын
My ex(for 2 years) broke up with me one week ago. She`ve broken up with me 3 times before, but we got back together since i begged and pleaded. I didn`t do much work on myself and went back into the old patterns of critizicing her for every bad choices she made, got overcontrolling and protective against her to prevent all the cognitive dissonance. She has quit her job that stole almost all our time together, thrown out her brother(finally) who was living there with narcotic problems which I have warned her about for 2 years about having him living there, cause she has a daughter underage and so on because of the most likely coming consequences which she ignored. It finally happened that the childservices got to know this. I got so angry at her when she told me this(which I had predicted all the way) that I had to come support her for this that I had trying to avoid happen for so long, and I refused to show up because of those principles(I warned you, you didn`t listen). I`ve been waiting and looking forward for this for 2 years to happen, that her brother finally moved out so that I could move in and we could start our life together. But NOT the way it happened now. So I told her that I was NOT coming to support her that weekend cause I was so angry at her and this shitty situation that occured. She immediately got pissed and wished me a "Good weekend", where I answered that it most likely wouldn`t be a nice weekend. Hours later she sent me a message; "I don`t think you should terminate your tenancy where you live!" As I was still angry and upset I just agreed to it and went no contact for 4 days. I then reached out and tried to explain why I acted like I did and couldn`t come and support her, but she didn`t want to discuss it and only said I was justifying things and my own actions and said she didn`t like the person that she had become and thought it was for the best that we broke up, cause she meant we tore each other down and dissapointed each other all the way. I then "gave her" the breakup and told her that it was very sad and heavy to accept, but I accepted. Then she told me; "Not to make things worse, but I love you and hope you are doing fine
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@AdrianMartinez-ho6db3 жыл бұрын
Got left for another man back in October. I was her first boyfriend of four years. Distance tore us apart once she moved to Arkansas for college. Thoughts?
@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@jsoephinejay52043 жыл бұрын
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@lesleymiller84463 жыл бұрын
Any advice on nacissism? Thanks
@xMikeyHardyx3 жыл бұрын
My ex got into a relationship exactly 3 months after the break up. Is this considered a rebound? Edit: I feel she may have been talking to this dude on the side? I’m unsure.
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to say. Oh if you want help on your situation you can just sign up for coaching
@xMikeyHardyx3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCraigKenneth call me dumb for thinking this. But, to enter into a relationship 90 days later then they must have been dating (dunno how with strict covid rules in England) waaaayyy earlier. From what you say in all your videos that’s not enough time to build attraction, right?
@hydeperv3 жыл бұрын
We were connecting and chatting and having a good time over text last month, then, suddenly, in the middle of the conversation, he just... ghosted. I reached out again a week later to ask if everything was ok? He read it and never responded. Sooo confused. The convo was fun, light, we were having a good time and reminiscing, then suddenly I think he deleted me. Not sure why?
@CoachCraigKenneth3 жыл бұрын
We recently put out a great video on ghosting. But if you want to talk to us about it we’re here to help
@nadinesoussi73524 ай бұрын
No sorry if someone loves you ,they wouldnt leave you so dont look back .