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hiiii :)

Translate your videos to arabic plz❤️

@FrankJames Next video - you’ve done attractive, now do cool

I'm sorry

😂

Now I just have to learn to be cool lol

No, he tells us how we are ALREADY attractive. Small difference

@@larsthemartian9554 exactly 😂

@@edi0157 yea and you need to STAY that way.

I LOVE the INFP type and agree with everything Frank said. (Not an INFP)

I’m an ISTJ and I freaking love INFPs, they really are the best.

As an infp i felt this comment

I love INFPs. I'm related to a bunch of them, and they're some of my favourite people. -INTP

@@yeahweburnstuff Awww thanks! 🥰

Such and INFP thing to say I feel like I’m overthinking literally my whole INFP personality in a nutshell 😂 we r ❤ and appreciated!! No worries babes

@@lundynh3383 Thank you~~ 🥺 love u ❤

It's nice to hear some compliments every now and then

I have an INFP friend and she is exceptionally cute. We were talking about her in our friend group the other day and I said: "u know, the rest of us can do cute things every now and again, but she just is cute - it's like her essence, adorable behaviorjust like seeps out of her". So yea, as an INFJ I find my P personality opposite very endearing

Same…it’s like we really matter in the world even though we’re really quiet and feel useless sometimes 🥺

Lol have you not seen the polls?

You can't prevent an INFJ from knowing from the moment where you start talking, and even if you don't talk actually. But you're not forced to take it as a threat. You can choose to see it as a gift and something attractive because someone will always be here to understand you 😊.

Exactly :)

@@kyurei4478 yep

yes .

Lol same here and then I try to figure out why they aren't weird and don't think the way I do because to me I'm not weird at all it's just where my brain takes me

It’s self isolating really bad because it feels like I won’t be able to find people like me and I’m forced to accept that

@@sandcrack0873 there's no need to find people like you. I am autistic and i'm really not used to interact to people "like me". And what i found out is even people with exactly my personality type and autism are totally different from me. You need to find someone which can appreciate your mind's framework, maybe some of your passion, even if they do not approach them the same way you do. So yeah, keep working on accepting you'll probably never find somebody like you, but you can find people that can work with you in interesting way.

i’m so deep in the ni-ti loop that this is incredibly relatable lol

As an INFP, I absolutely Like talking to INTPs, whom they use their feelings a little bit. We have similar Intuitive and Sensitive World, so it makes a great opportunity to interact, specialy with our Extroverted Intuition. But It's important for INFPs to don't sink in feeling and use their thinking function more with INTPs And exactly the opposite for INTPs.

I'm an INFP too and I often think that I'm boring. It got to the point where I literally never talk about myself and just ask people questions about themselves, talk about their experiences and so on. But what I've realised lately is that we are not boring, some people are just not ready/capable of exploring the depths of their souls like we can. You're good don't worry ❤️

INFP as well, I am currently at that stage of only-talk-about-others. I just want to thank you for being such a kind soul!! ❤️❤️

😭😭😭🤧 That is just so sweet!!!

@@alterkarma thank you, you just made my day ❤️

@@siyihe1722 ❤️

That's it! 😀

I like enfps. I really do. they immediately caught my attention. I'm Estj btw

One of my bosses is an ENFP and he can derail any task for HOURS if he’s left alone with his thoughts for more than 10 seconds. (He sits next to an ENTJ and I have no clue how any work gets done in that office).

My ENFP mother and ISFJ father made each other laugh for over 50 years. Their home was always full of laughter and I loved that.

ENFPs are so much fun to be around. As a very introverted INTP, I don't want to spend my "peopling time" with just anyone, and ENFPs are never a waste of time. Even when they're literally just wasting time.

Yesss! It can be a great match, if they both use their last function a little more!

I'm an INFP and I love hearing the ideas of INTPs. They are amazing people.

That might be such an interesting couple. That would be a pure joy to analyse this kind of relations. Sorry I don't want to sound creepy. I'm just very interested in personality interactions. -INFJ

I've had a number of (non-romantic) relationships with INTPs and it's been very much like that. When the Ne clicks, it really can be a lot of fun, and if you're on similar levels intellectually, there can be a lot of interesting exchanges of knowledge, ideas, and insights.

Same :) INTPs are delicious.

I was looking for that comment, thank you very much bro

Yes perfectly that's what I do as infj like it's described in this video:Attractive thank you now it's more clear ☺️

I do do that. INFP.

someone pin this

I married an ISTP as well, he doesn't always understand my feelings and is horrible at advice, but he is great at just listening and being there. It's also nice, because he understands when I need to be alone. He can be a little too isolated sometimes, so I just have to be vocal about needing time with him.

That is why I have always loved ISTPs,just minding their own business,no complicated puzzles to solve. As much as I love solving puzzles,I do not like spending a great deal of time trying to,so I think they could be my comfort people. I don't know if it's gonna sound weird or not. ~INFJ

@@reneecoons5057 I have had the same problems with my ISTP too, but it’s also nice because it’s all resolved from communication. I have to be vocal sometimes with my needs, but it’s a good feeling the trust has been built with actual work.

that's great! glad to hear that about an istp. (coming from an istp)

i appreciate it -from a chaotis istp (a little estp ig)

It's really fascinating how your types are insecure to a fault but have no clue how charming you can be. I must admit though, it's fun to mess with your heads and making you nervous sometimes...just to exploit this observation for amusement or just a unique method of calming you and my groupmates on a collaborative work. Welp, they call me 'devilman' for a reason. -xNTP

@@jankyyard5610 ahahahahah

I know, I needed this so badly 🥹

Same, but then I ask questions and I want to understand how their psychology works lol The problem is that they don’t like it People don’t really find this attractive 😭

As an INTP/ENTP, INFJs are just flat out awesome to talk to. You guys are so skilled at taking stuff that we offload from our minds and fitting them together and converting them into constructive advice, and it’s unprecedented. One of my best friends is an INFJ, and I wouldn’t trade them for the world

@@drivenbylogic9551 as an INFJ I would say thanks because not many people would appreciate the way we treat friends

@@drivenbylogic9551 wow thank you so much! I always doubt myself on my ability to talk to others but that's really nice to hear :) life is just like one big puzzle to me ahaha, and you INTP/ENTP are so awesome too, in fact my best is an entp so there you go ahahahaa

same here!

Well, Julie Newnar wasn't really Catwoman either (who are we kidding? She was the only Catwoman ever!!!)

@@recoveringsoul755 LOL. There have been other good Catwomen, but Julie's top of my list. And Frank Gorshen is by far the best Riddler. Mark Hamil is my favorite Joker (and that's a really tough category), and I haven't made up my mind on Penguin between Burgess Meredith and Robin Lord Taylor because they're both very different takes but very very good. Kevin Conroy is obviously best Batman.

People can't handle honesty and truth

@@infdox9051 Yes. Clearly it's a trap. A clever, clever trap that they can walk away from at any time. But they are too fascinated by it to do so, I guess?

Wow as an ENTP I relate to this so much. I tell people exactly what's going on with me and they 1) don't believe me and 2) find me "mysterious" and/or "puzzling" I am as WYSIWYG as it gets, albeit the information is usually delivered unemotionally. And one feeler once explained to me this is why she refused to believe my words, because I didn't accompany them with a display of emotion.

You can do it!!! Hope everything turns out well!!🤧

Can confirm about the dense part - INFP

While I can confirm that we can be dense and potentially oblivious, in all honesty from my perspective as an INFP, what stops us most is self doubt and lack of unshakable certainty. He probably has already thought about it a lot and is too unsure of the situation to fully make a decision on whether or not you truly do like him. We are very hesitant and will not move forward without weighing all the options, and even then we are aware of our own fantastical thought processes to be dismissive of our own judgements to begin with. The best thing you can do is just be completely honest and try to show him in a very direct way.

I concur that I’m dense when it comes to knowing if people like me.

Ohh whatever decision you make, I support you! Depending on the situation, INFPs would really appreciate your nice words (though some may feel reluctant at accepting compliments (-ω-))

This is sooo true, finding other INFJ's makes me so happy I feel so understood 😭

"we care for others in a deep level" is such a sadly INFJ statement others don't understand

💯💯💯

The part that got me laughing was that I do not have certificate. Bro i'm INFJ with psychologist major!!! Hahahah

Really? I've had people freak out and tell me "how do you know everything?" point-blank, non-sarcastically. And I would ask, "what is it that I know that bothers you?" "Everything!" "What everything?" "Everything." My intuition both 'gets people' and 'gets to people'.

Kdbqjbzsjbs just- just... so cute💕💕💕💕

Aawww thanks infj! Awww that's so sweet uwu -infp

I died of jealousy like 10 times from this XD. I hope, it goes well with him - infp :3

That’s incredibly sweet to hear, it’s clear how much you cherish your friend and his perspectives. Thank you for confirmation about this aspect of us INFP’s, we find ourselves an enigma and I think he would really appreciate hearing how you see him 💙

Our words of comfort aren't typical because we really don't wanna say something insincere. So if we are going to comfort someone, we need to think deep and find something we actually believe and. -INFP

YES, I completely agree! :)

Usually that just turns people off, but that might be because I'm surrounded be sensors. I had a girl telling me straight to my face that I shouldn't say or do certain things because it intimidates people. We had a whole argument about if faking is good or bad. I find it sad that some people prefer to hide parts of themselves to fit into the crowd but that's the sad reality.

@@YehudiNimol If that's what she told you, and was willing to argue with you about it, then you know what you need to know about her. She's not someone you should have these kinds of conversations with, nor should she be allowed close enough to you to think it's ok to tell you how you're supposed to be. She is the one who's intimidated, and she's projecting that issue onto you and expecting you to alter yourself to make her feel more comfortable. Big no-no.

@@YehudiNimol I also live surrounded by sensors and I completely understand you...

Some INFJs be writing the most online but barely say two words in real life when they don’t have to.

That is what i call perfection . As an intj I want someone who can get my thoughts without me trying to explain them or put into words . There is too much happening in my mind and it sometimes gets too complicated for me to express my thoughts , thats why we do not like talking too much as we think no one will get our point and it ends up with people thinking we hide everything from them. Of course we lie too , but who does not? But trust me, it doesnt mean we hide everything.

Dude I’m just an ENTP listening in but that was such an incredible compliment I had to congratulate you on it👍🏼

This is probably why we always have INTP/INTJ symbiote whether it's friendship, romance, or co-workers.

As an INTJs, we don't reveal all of things in our heads, we know that others can't catch up, it's like we come from the future

Aw man, this is so pretty I’m also an intj, I relate with the way you described how you think her thought process is

As an INFP myself, I've always really liked INFJs, I just feel like more than any other type, they are the best at understanding other people and how they feel, and I think that's what I like about them. Also they're usually always super nice

Im an INFP and my bestie is an INFJ I felt every word of wt u said We understand and compliment each other so well!! She's like the other side of me We talk a lot obvio

Another INFP with an INFJ bestfriend here. INFJs will always listen no matter what and that's what she does. She likes to understand me on a deeper level so it's always so easy going to her when I have issues that no one else will understand. But what makes me sad is as much as I share and as much as she takes in its not easy being the opposite. INFJs don't share what hurts them as to not burden others and they like to lock up their emotions to provide more support for other people and as an INFP I hate that because I want her to open up more so bad. I want her to cry in front of me letting all the stuff hurting her out so that I can be the listener and help her out

Infj, best friend: infp. Yeah, talking is a 3 hour minimum, but it's because we're just that engaged

@@yanoizikawa770 INFJ's really don't tend to share their pain specially to someone they're comfortable with. It's because we're afraid (there's a better term for this) to show our vulnerable side. It can also be because we don't want to burden other people with their struggles in life because we believe that we're all going through something, and if we share our burden with others, we think that it'll add up with their burden, and we don't want them to suffer too.

you're type is rlly cool!!!

As I always say, ‘normal’ is a laundry cycle dearies. 😊

Weirdos are my fav, so cute, innocent, and loveable ❤️

jus be a good weirdo is fine

As an Estp, a lot people think I’m weird, insensitive, overly confident and over all an attention seeking ball of to much energy that nobody wants to put up with. Basically they just think I’m really annoying. Except that’s also why I have tons of friends as well who said they envy my confidence, they love how I can just do what I want when I want and stand out from everyone else because it’s fun! People admire me because I can brighten up a dull situation! Life’s fucking boring so god sent me to make it more entertaining. My weirdness is unique, sure call it insensitivity... I call it honesty, you can NEVER have to much confidence, attention seeking? What’s wrong with that? If I don’t seek attention then how can I get more opportunities in life than others, to much energy? Be glad your not seeing my other side... when I’m tired my “insensitivity” doubles. If you piss me off when I’m tired you will either cry, hate me for life or develop at least 10 new insecurities about yourself... maybe all three! Believe it or not there was a time in my life where I lost that motivation and enjoyment I got from being alive. I started worrying about what others thought of me. I started lying and putting on a fake smile so others wouldn’t see how much stress I was under. I doubted myself all the time because I went through the days putting in no effort I listened to all the horrible things people said about me and I started to believe them. I forgot who I was. I was so depressed for a long time because something in me broke and it happened so suddenly that I didn’t know how to fix it. I let it build up without opening up to others or asking for help because I was scared that my friends and family would realize and maybe not like how I changed. It took me so long and I gave up so many times but I kept going. Eventually I found myself again and now I’m doing a lot better. Of course I still sometimes have those negative thoughts and emotions come back to me but I just remember the people in my life who help me to remember that confident girl I once was. It just takes time. Not everything in your life has to be “the best thing ever” otherwise you won’t be able to enjoy the small things as you let your expectations get to high. Only to come crashing down later. ANYWAYS that was kinda long even though nobody will read this but what I’m trying to say is if someone doesn’t like you then who cares? That or... bite their dick off. :D Stay strong my dudes!

I'm in a similar situation myself.

From an outside perspective, about the last thing, maybe it's not only that they just never ask, but also you just haven't shown them a clue about it, so naturally that does not give them a chance to even think it, so ask is very far

lol I am INTJ, but want to connect to family members b/c I value it. So I am trying facebook (seriously lol I do test out as an INTJ) and I struggle b/c I put up articles of what I am interested in and those things that I think will be helpful or having an effect on the world -things I care about.... crickets... no interactions... no one cares... and I Know that I could put up different posts that would likely garner more engagement, but that would be fake and I want to show them the real me... but the real me is and facebook sucks! I always knew it did... but I want to connect to family... sigh... maybe I can fix their computers or offer other services??? something... it just sucks.

That is Quite the fascinating family dynamic.

~(° o゜~)

Haven't meet one in person, but quite think they are cool for the reasons you have mentioned 🤧

as an ISTP woman, thank you for saying that not many people talk about us in these videos (especially the women ISTP) so it makes me happy for us to be noticed!

ISTP here. Its so rare to see a comment on or made by ISTPs in these videos, haha. Not so sure about the asking questions part, since i have a hard time focusing on what others say (my SO hates this side of me, since sometimes he thought im ignoring him when im actually not) Everything else is pretty accurate though.

All checks, not number5 tho. We like asking questions, so we can get a chance to know/learn you. When we are interested in something, we like to observe. After a while, we might get bored because we already know what we want to know. We are indeed good listeners because all we can do is asking questions. We don't like to share what we really are untill we feel comfortable with that person. In fact, people hardly get to know us because they do ask stupid questions that they don't even care what the answers are. Also, i usually ask the questions to keep the conversation going and sometimes i don't care (we don't know how to end the conversation + that awkward silence will make me uncomfortable XD)

as fellow istp's said here, yes its hard to find istp comments, thanks.

Hi ENFP, you're cool! - ENFJ

ENFJ, I love you - ENFP

I agree with you and this comment deserves more attention!

So true! #ENFPgang

@Jana Ella don't that connections are mostly right tho?😂

I agree, I got 9 years relation with an ENTJ, the best speaker. Adapt to every people like INTJ INFJ, but with a better ability to communicate.

Right? Feel mad loved Lol

Is it worth it? I can only hope. I'm a year into dating and still barely know him.

@@ihay472 well, it usually takes about a year for me to feel comfortable enough and start opening up a little. Just another year and a half to become close to someone

yea man

@@garnarum sounds about right. As an ESFP this is almost physically painful for me.

@@ihay472 I would say it is worth it. My brother is an ISTP, and he is always there for me. Not in a caring way but "mess with my sibling, you mess with me". Even that may be a bit too "feely", he does it even more bluntly. We are like partners in crime, and it is so fun because my ability to understand and get people to trust me. Then he just goes/does and says whatever he wants to them. It is always so funny to see how he never gets in trouble (Pygmalion effect), and I don't either because I look so innocent. I can build a perfect 4 Square empire or give someone their karma without ever being involved. It is perfect.

Evet , ben de bir ınfj yim. Ve arkadaşlarım içinde tuttuklarını bana anlatırsa çok mutlu olurum. Onları anlamaya çalışırım. Asla yargılamam. Destek olurum.

I absolutely relate to your point! I immediately pick up on people who are uncomfortable or don't care about what I'm talking about, and then I basically back away slowly. When that conversation ends I'll find someone else to talk to or something else to do as an excuse to get away. If I think we both seem connected, even if I've just met you, I could talk with you for hours!

@@Purple_Hearted_Izzy17 yes exactly. I'm the same 😁 when we're comfortable we're very extrovert but when we're uncomfortable we're very introvert haha 😄

Yes I relate to not always being the life of the party unless im comfortable

Seems like we all need our matchmaker INFJ or at least us introverts, would save us the trouble of actually meeting so many people...

I’m definitely a matchmaker for my friends. My friends simply tell me who they like and by simply just watching their crush I can tell if they like them or not😂 idk why. If they don’t I try setting them up with other people

@@edi0157 I mean I don't disagree with you there!! 😉😊

@@sethvandycke904 That is awesome!! We definitely try to find solutions to EVERYTHING!! Especially peoples' loneliness. 🥺❤️

@@hannahwatson265 but never cure our own 😎

I feel like most of us(ISTP) have an INFP friend

hahaha yeah

@@vrie2053 You guys got friends?? i don't even have a bestfriend (as ISTP) i feel like i never met other istp (my people) XDDD

​@@MegaMaster215 I also feel like I've never met any other ISTP. I am not really close with my friends either. I want to find people who resonate with me. Its frustrating how I have to tone down my opinions to seem less critical / blunt towards others since honesty is so important for me. I'm currently fighting the ISTP urge to delete my comment cuz it feels like too much of me is being exposed.

I feel comfortable around ISTPs though. It's like... why would I waste my time on beating around the bush? They are direct people who call out BS without judging people (at least in my experience). I don't feel the fear of being judged because if they don't like me, they simply won't engage with me but won't badmouth me or generalize my entire personality because of one mistake. ESTPs intimidate me though. -An INFJ

I agree! I love ISTPs

thanks ;)

i don't think i am a badass...

I relate soo much especially the last paragraph 🤗

Thank you so much for that! Very relatable, and you expressed it all beautifully🥲

As an INFJ I appreciate your type so much, I can always talk about deep topics with you guys without feeling uncomfortable or coming across creepy.

@@raccoonbiceps9613 thank you kindly TrashPandaArms

I absolutely blushed

As an ENTJ I confirm this 😂

Another thing is you ENTJs are non-annoying tsunderes. It's like a perfect mix of being blunt and can't admit your true core feelings to others. I think you can confidently say "be my boyfriend/girlfriend" but having a hard time to utter the words "i love you" alone. You always need to have an end goal in your words and actions that it can be comical sometimes (still amazing though). -INTP devilman

You guys rule

@@bananaflavouredtea8044 we do 😎 haha thanks though :D

And then most of my non-entp friends are like “what? do you need help?”!🥲

How come you guys don’t dress like suave barristers on a daily?

@@Anonymous_Anon882 good question tbh

Well, the issue is some of us dont like you all s unpredictability but thanks for the praise, you are right-ISTJ here

😉

This is so true✨

They have a soft side.

@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes yeap, it's just like when you see Gordon Ramsay being cute with kids on the show. You know he can make anyone cry, but when he is nice with the kids it brings some strange kind of joy to me, like ''o bem venceu''

Agree, 100%. My ESTJ husband is exactly that way

One of my closest coworkers is an ESTJ, the other is an INFJ (I'm an INFJ myself). I agree; i can tell my ESTJ friend may rub some people the wrong way because she is very orderly, and isn't afraid to gather people if tasks need to be done, or if there is a more efficient way to do things. But personally I never get offended or put off by her, but my other coworkers do. Especially since their inferior function is Extraverted Feeling. They typically put their emotions aside when making decisions more than all the other types (along w the ENTJ type, as well tho).

Thank you for the timestamp!!

Hi fellow ENFJ!!! so glad to see another ENFJ in the comments :D

I literally love ENFJ! Just wanted to say that, hope you have a wonderful day ❤️ - an INFP

HELLOO!!! a fellow enfj here!!!!

Suuup guys! ENFJ reporting, hope y’all are doing great :D

@@psnada7524 I've been great so far. I hope you also have a great day.

Just to help you out. If you get tired easily at a gatherimg then you're an Introvert. Extroverts get more hyped as gathering goes. Introverts gets tired. :) I'm an infp and I'm always loud and fun at parties. But give me 30 mins, I'll be somewhere alone, or sitting down being quiet. I call it my charging moment :p Infp's can develop confidence over time but still an introvert cuz of reason above.

ESFJ aunties are super-cool.

FJ is awesome. And INFJs generally like to say meaningful things and to leave an impact on people so what you say makes perfect sense. Oh god, INFJs know they shouldn't reveal the personality and psychology observations and secrets because it's like opening the Pandora's box for other types. They won't care about morality. FJ what have you done 😥 ?!

Same!!

S M A R T fam

Same, just tell people what’s up! I’ll admit that I’m a super neurotic ISTJ, and guessing gets me ruminating and it turns into a whole thing.

I know an istj and she's so much like that too. Tbh I get annoyed by you istj-guys easily (because I feel like you don't get my infp-values) but I really appreciate your honesty and authenticity

Finally a comment about us, scrolled long enough to find it. Yeah, I cant stand that, it is the most difficult thing about dealing with other people really. Stuff like playing games makes me straight up leave. My parents intentionally telling me the wrong time to prove that I should hurry up with doing something is annoying. Even reading an INTJ-INFJ conversation above on how to strategise dealing with other humans is a bit scary, I will strategise what I say to some stranger in a certain conversation before approaching too but that is about it, relationships arent a game of chess after all. And of course we cant stand it, why the hell would anyone want to be around somebody they cant trust? But for some reason "white lies" get a pass in society....

yes yes exactly that lol. i get panic attacks when there is just a small chance that i have to talk to someone (ex.School). Its just so scary.

@@wasserphoenix65 personally I’m not that scared to talk to people, but usually whenever I tried to talk to one of the “popular” kids, I’d always freak out and pray they wouldn’t make fun of me

​@@galacticsalt7336eso mismo me pasa a mi también jajaja

Maybe we could do with an INTP too, those guys are robots anyway, I am sure they dont mind bluntness lol

Good match for ISTJ are sensors and feelers like ISFJ, ESFJ, and ESFP

@@farhantanvir8838 depends on who you ask really, I have seen people pairing us with like half the types. From those you mentioned to ESTJs, ESTPs, ISFPs and ISTPs I have seen many suggestions. The thing is, the same differences that make couples "more complete" and apparently "attract people" (never understood/felt in action the opposites attract idea myself) can easily turn into sources of conflict as well. As somebody that has never had a crush (so take this with a pinch of salt I guess), what I imagined as my ideal girlfriend is far more of a reclusive nerd type like INTJ or INTP. I think extrovert-introvert couples, while clamoured by many as the Holy Grail, could easily get too draining for the introvert and lead to huge arguments over how to spend free time."There is a party this weekend, do you want to come?" "No." "Damn, I cant understand how you can stay at home so much, you are such a recluse, what is wrong with you?". Then again, we do need them to approach us as we dont do much of that and mature people would be more understanding of each other. As for feelers, I d be scared of unintentionally hurting them and not being able to tell that due to that exact bluntness we were talking about, though I suppose Fe users especially would be useful in helping me decipher social situations. ISFJs seem fine enough if they dont bottle up any disagreements they might have (because I cant tell you are mad and what made you mad if you dont tell me. Tbf I sometimes retreat as well when I think that there is no point in saying anything but I like to believe I d be better about that in a relationship). Their description in this video immediately reminded me of James Milner lmao, can they play RB for my football team as well? See, we can make jokes as well, take that people who think we cant. The ESFJ energy in this video is a bit scary in a "how can you just do that" way but I suppose they are taking the spotlight off of me so that works lol. Their Thinking function is 4th too, sounds like an even bigger clash with my thinking preference. ESFPs would just wreck my plans probably, dominant Se is a scary thing.

Any combination can have a healthy, successful relationship, they'll just have different areas to work on, different strengths/weaknesses as a couple. MB is hard for me, because as an ambivert, I'm half ISTJ and half ESTJ. As an enneagram 1, I joke with my husband that I'm just glad I'm already married, because on paper, I can find a reason to not marry each and every type, ha! I was married before I got into personality types, I'm with an INTJ, enneagram 4, and it is what it is. ♥️

@@HalfBlindPlans Fair enough, we all have flaws, we are obviously talking theory here, still looks to me like the more differences there are the harder they will be to overcome. Not impossible, but hard. Interesting that you are half-half introvert vs extrovert, full-blown introvert here. Have you watched FJ s subtypes video? I am curious how you score on that. INTJs do seem really cool as I said, then again I read a conversation between an INTJ and INFJ once on strategising how to deal with people and it was a bit creepy, I will plan out what I say to a stranger or at a job in the future or when I am writing a comment here on the Internet etc but not to such a degree lol.

But more times from the comfort of your own room (or riding solo in a not-too-busy pub. with something or two to drink), right?

@@Anonymous_Anon882 Exactly. A crowd is considered 3 people in my eyes 😅

@@watertigress9328 same here, to be fair. ;) I actually don’t mind being in big groups but I’m always very much the observer. Whatever jokes I have to tell come out online or in small groups (if it happens to be face-to-face) only.

@@Anonymous_Anon882 Yeah. I just despise attention

@@watertigress9328 same here (again). I like positive acknowledgment just as much as the next person but generally when I’m going about my day-to-day business I’d rather just blend in and go about my way, not necessarily because I’m honing in on Ni that much at all times but just because I only like (positive) attention when it’s needed/relevant to me as an actual person and not just because of what I might happen to be wearing for convenience (or what-have-you). I’d also rather initiate conversations with people I need/want to interact with on my own terms and not have random acquaintances I don’t really want to do small talk with popping up (unless I actually want to do small talk with them, which actually does happen every so often but not as a general day-to-day rule). I really like how friendly a lot of people are (and when it counts I’m usually up for a good conversation) but really when you’re just trying to mind your business on your way to the park/grocery store being stopped by every Tom, Dick and Harry you had one conversation with 16 months ago for the sake of them getting your attention or roping you into unnecessary small talk is just annoying. I’m not as allergic to it as the typical INFJ (I dip in and out of that and a sort of reserved/non-quirky ENFP shadow if that makes any sense) but I’d still rather not do it most of the time (I use headphones to stop the chances of that happening more than I actually want to blaze iTunes/Spotify). From what I’ve seen ENFPs aren’t too interested in random small talk, either.

This comment deserves more attention! I agree to all of this! -ENFP

I still refuse to believe to this day that I actually look intimidating even though I've been told that straight to my face. Like really...me? pfft

Muy cierto lo que dices, como ISTP si hay algo que más aprecio es la armonía, siempre evito los conflictos y más con las personas que más aprecio.

True , as an istp I hate conflicts , i am afraid of hurting people , it's the inferior function where your fear exists .

@@janaella4591 Like an ENFP I would say I prefer avoid conflicts too, Is better seeing from afar where the flames can't get you :v But, then again is a personal opinion, don't know if other ENFP will think the same :v

As an INTP I have a natural understanding of psychology and I absolutely love talking about emotions and shadow selves and such else

Ah same. An INTJ here and I like psychology, philosophy, culture, history, art, music and geography. But nothing gives me more joy than figuring out and noticing the patterns while breaking down someone's thought processes and behaviour.

@@alyssacumpiano9024 Same I'm an INTP and I have a sister who is an INFP, and I love talking to her about stuff like that

Me too. I have INFP sister and I always ask her why she feels that way. But sometimes she get offended if I ask too bluntly.

@@kunogi09midori Yeah, I know how that is lol

I'm an isfp and i feel a lot of pressure,but I'll do what I want to do