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@leesteal44584 жыл бұрын
One thing I can tell you is that when a man likes you, he won't care if you text him ridiculous things.
@Katzenmutter4 жыл бұрын
Lee Steal exactly!! i am a never ending text girl and very proud of that, thats who I am:) however i manage to make guys text just as much after awhile so whos winning🤣🤷♀️
@Jooney914 жыл бұрын
That is not true. Try to text him that you are not sure about him or that you were following him yesterday without him noticing you. Poor boy 🙈
@29duygu244 жыл бұрын
Lee Steal true :)
@lizzieh4314 жыл бұрын
yes. But still, we shouldn't do it too many times. He or she will tolerant for several times occasionally, but absolutely can't bear if we do it time after time. At least we should leave an impression that we are able to control emotions.
@Bodangers4 жыл бұрын
He will care but he wont let his girl kmow its annoying lol. He will put up with it because she is worth it.
@kellyr94564 жыл бұрын
Ladies, please just BE YOUR SELF! The right guy will appreciate you for YOU!❤
@jamiebullock78784 жыл бұрын
Kelly Richardson 💯 🙌
@hs8shsubjsishejw7474 жыл бұрын
Yes the right one they come to you
@courtneyherring65924 жыл бұрын
No I am myself and no well ever love me so rethink what you said
@francinesmith81094 жыл бұрын
@@courtneyherring6592 its obvious why no one will ever love you. You need to do the rethinking here.
@aleciawiltshire90214 жыл бұрын
Agree
@Maya-yf6ml4 жыл бұрын
Lol if having a conversation turns your man off, find a NEW MAN
@MYVloliDiruJP4 жыл бұрын
You said it correctly. “Your man”. This these videos are mainly meant for women out in the dating pool.
@favouritechildofgod56364 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@sarah.hodophile505.4 жыл бұрын
👍👍
@thayoungswami32783 жыл бұрын
@@franciscopartida2737 yup I agree w you brother
@beachstreet1013 жыл бұрын
It’s unlikely that the guy wants to hear the details about you getting your nails done.
@susanwagner25954 жыл бұрын
This honestly makes me think that guys don't want to be texted at at all
@sabinaali68114 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@user-iu2um8fd8n4 жыл бұрын
Can confirm. Texting is a useless waste of time. Call, flirt, meet. That's it.
@Laasya00664 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@maddart44454 жыл бұрын
Hahaha unless it’s boobs
@justmeonthebeach4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@lauramiller17724 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that feels like this is all exhausting? I think I’ll stick to single for a bit...
@naughtyangel68854 жыл бұрын
Its only exhausting if the guy really means sth to you ,otherwise u can write whatever the hell u feel like writing 😂
@perkieperf10284 жыл бұрын
Sun & Sea same here🤦🏾♀️ got no time for games my life is way more important sorry
@deborahburrows32824 жыл бұрын
Sun & Sea oh I’m exhaustd
@katiehunt30834 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. I'm just over the crap games.
@poleen0004 жыл бұрын
It's exhausting. It's a game. Either you win or lose. 90% of the time, you lose 😭
@nargesrzd75714 жыл бұрын
those texts are annoying not only for men but also for women
@angelicakagaya30184 жыл бұрын
So its a human thing, this video should be like, texts that people dont like
@angenequenash51804 жыл бұрын
Exactly I actually seen guys text this tbh lol
@annmariesaid7774 жыл бұрын
@@angenequenash5180 exactly what i was thinking..and sometimes they keep calling while you're ignoring them.. and won't stop until you answer..🙄
@TheBeaniestBean86754 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@tatianaramirez10644 жыл бұрын
Jajaja those tips apply to anyone that values their time and life. If there is no purpose nor valuable information to me, just don’t bother I won’t answer.
@simply_christina874 жыл бұрын
Men give me a headache. Why can't two adults like each other and state how they feel without all these damn rules and without all the head games.
@lifeofalady4 жыл бұрын
You are so right..all these rules are unnecessary to me...men do not make All this effort..all one sided with men.
@mmc42144 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I feel like I'm in high school all over again.
@23magneta4 жыл бұрын
Most adults (both men and women) are overgrown children. It's no wonder why so many people have dysfunctional relationships.
@mmc42144 жыл бұрын
@@23magneta And, 60 % of marriages fail. It's messed up. Not fair and to be frank, it sucks.
@marisamarino75964 жыл бұрын
For real.
@LBC221234 жыл бұрын
Lol this is too much to remember, ima just text what I want and if he doesn’t like it then bye bye
@rotemcrazycatlady49044 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Z5Z5Z54 жыл бұрын
Yup
@elisevanessamay47864 жыл бұрын
lol.. same ..
@teregb65634 жыл бұрын
Lily Clapham agreed!
@InnerPeaceFindings4 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha
@23magneta4 жыл бұрын
I find text messages in general to be a turn-off. I'm more impressed by a man who can speak to me on the phone for 5 minutes.
@nofybn77944 жыл бұрын
I don't like calls or cell texts, I prefer e-mail.
@fishcanon81414 жыл бұрын
nofy bn I almost cannot tell if that is a joke lol
@hs8shsubjsishejw7474 жыл бұрын
I fill the same way
@Z5Z5Z54 жыл бұрын
They dont like calls 🙄
@Ana-ty8sl4 жыл бұрын
...ok boomer
@ezrathegirl90924 жыл бұрын
Tips: what to text a man Don't text em
@aminah7613 жыл бұрын
Period
@ari43423 жыл бұрын
👍
@charelmurrell3 жыл бұрын
Bahahaaaaa
@yourmajestythequeenbee4 жыл бұрын
You forgot the “I think I’m pregnant” text 😬
@Heather_T4 жыл бұрын
Yourma Jesty 😂😂😂
@lifeofdyme40574 жыл бұрын
Yourma Jesty 🤣🤣🤣
@visam284 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@shinequeen82434 жыл бұрын
🤣
@aleciawiltshire90214 жыл бұрын
Dwl
@sapphirethealpha50054 жыл бұрын
Brain: why you watch this? Me: just in case
@Milagros814 жыл бұрын
I hate the one word texts from anybody friends or boyfriend, make me feel like I'm bothering them
@Gina-Montana4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but apparently it’s acceptable for a guy to shoot a one word response back (ie cool....; aiiight....) 🥴🙄
@Milagros814 жыл бұрын
@@Gina-Montana when i was on a dating site I didnt reply to anyone who txt me with sentence up to 3 words lol. I like to read 😂😉
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I think what I was getting at is one-word initiating texts like "Hey." Totally fine to respond however, just don't lead with them 😉
@Milagros814 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick now the guy I'm dating likes to communicate a lot! Considering that we live a bit far and both have children/work commitments i always feel his support and he is there if i need him, without crossing the line of clingy
@morana-exe24774 жыл бұрын
Same
@KristaGrym4 жыл бұрын
Girls...It's simple, be yourself....If that person doesn't meet your truly self the relationship never will work,because they will be meeting the typical girl conditioned by dating YT videos😉😉😉😉
@loralieisa4 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on being yourself, and hopefully the guy that's interested in you also keeps it real.
@ltdodgen4 жыл бұрын
If yourself is desperate and clingy it’s going to be hard to find someone who’s going to find that attractive...but good luck!
@thatwinninggirl9424 жыл бұрын
* heart *
@BoraKimBUZZ4 жыл бұрын
So men wants someone fun and who would leave them alone?! 😒
@danaglover68014 жыл бұрын
Bora K Ha!! Basically that’s what it seems like. The shit is draining if you ask me. Tryna figure out his moods and emotions for you🤨. One day he’s hot and the next he barely has anything to say. But they talk abt us?! Yeah right🙄
@RathZa4 жыл бұрын
After seeing several Videos from this KZfaqr I get the same feeling. A good like to dislike ratio, some work in the videos but the content... Sometimes I was yelling in my head: "What?! I don't know any guy, that would/wouldn't like that except for the one from work who is boasting about how many women he is with and then asks his female colleague how to tell one of them off without looking bad." So yeah, I get the feeling that those are tips for women who want to find a guy just for fun. But I'm a little calmed down after reading the comments. Many make fun of these points or say they want to stay true to themselves, that's reassuring that most don't buy that it's about men in general, which it is not.
@ciggytwiggy4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@aintgonnaletuknow57584 жыл бұрын
they're cat! the more unexpected you are the more they're interested in you lol
@tshedzacolleen83404 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@happyinots85984 жыл бұрын
Hey.. it s simple, if the man wants you, u dont need to do those things..if he ignoring you, it means he has another important things to do, so just leave him and find someone else who deserve to get your attention more!
@danaglover68014 жыл бұрын
Salt N Pepper Bingo!
@countrygirl28994 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@juliapurdy39504 жыл бұрын
Another way to look at it is: do you want a man or a marshmallow? A dude or a dud? A man who has "other important things to do" probably really does, and that is what makes him interesting and vibrant and fun to be with. A man on a collar and leash? Get up close and there's probably nothing much there except binge-watching sports, firing up the gas grill and sucking on a beer while watching the grass grow and thinking he should get out there and mow the lawn.
@phoebsc59933 жыл бұрын
Oh yes. I got sh...it to shoot like. Its so fricking exhausting.
@sophies85644 жыл бұрын
I didn’t do any of these and still got ghosted 🤣
@jennevaa4 жыл бұрын
I have an answer for you that is just for you and many will not understand but I think you will.It's not for them, only you. You are at the top of the scale in attractiveness. Quite a few men without some maturity, will see this as a chance to disrespect a woman like you -a kinda like getcha' for what other women have done to 'me' ...and it's ego soothing to them. Displaced revenge. If you want to see this played out in an extreme manner, post a picture on a dating site and watch some swarm to insult you without knowing a thing about you. (as in, first contact is "wanna xxxx? ") In real life they could never get close enough to you to say those words even in a public setting. Sorry. Been there. Unprovoked. I tell myself the truth about it ,whether others might think it's presumptuous or not. NO HATERS PLEASE. WE GET ENOUGH OF THAT. move along.
@Dark_Harmony3 жыл бұрын
@@jennevaa That's true. I'm not as physically attractive as I used to be, & I'm not acting like I was all that ever, but, I've had some experiences like that in the not so distant past. It's annoying, & unnerving. Mental cases needing therapy. Don't drag that baggage around on others.
@Cantetinza173 жыл бұрын
@@jennevaa Also sometimes guys aren't that into you like what you might have originally thought (happened to me once, oops) or they already have a girlfriend and the girlfriend is starting to get suspicious (this literally just happened to my friend). My Grandmothers would say that Rejection is God's Protection.
@ruthiemonroig16143 жыл бұрын
When he makes it clear that he wants a boodie call and your like its not happening..yup..got ghosted 😏✌
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@rebeccajones86284 жыл бұрын
Simple solution: Rarely text them. ALSO: If they take a while to read your texts and do not respond you have your answer right there PLAIN AS DAY. Ignore them.....works like a charm.
@navimarlow4 жыл бұрын
Always!!
@rebeccajones86284 жыл бұрын
@@navimarlow OMG. This is happening to me as we speak. Do I ignore him? He is with his buddy.
@navimarlow4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Jones ignore him!!
@alexflorentino97453 жыл бұрын
yes!! i do this but i don't really mind how that is going to affect them, i just hate talking over the phone/text bc it is unproductive and i would think the same of a guy who's always on his phone too
@Iamjennilee4 жыл бұрын
Damn texting really is like walking on egg shells lol
@lorireed80463 жыл бұрын
Your whole LIFE is about walking on egg shells with a male in it.
@Yummiiful4 жыл бұрын
So basically just don’t be yourself really. 😣 I seriously hate dating
@aintgonnaletuknow57584 жыл бұрын
screw this~just send him whatever comes into your mind as long as it's appropriate, most importantly you got nothing to lose anyway : )
@jhsemoxitha38215 ай бұрын
Be yourself
@Semitry4u4 жыл бұрын
So this is where relationships have gone.....wow. So happy to be older. Never had to deal with the immature games.
@ellesamuse4 жыл бұрын
That's exactly it. Instead of them appreciating you thinking of them and the fact you stopped and made time to show interest, or being flattered, or anything positive and well-adjusted, these days people pick everything you text apart very childishly instead of seeing the big picture.
@user-db6el7eb9p4 жыл бұрын
It s hell 😔
@jiovelbeauty34314 жыл бұрын
Melinda Lara exactly immature , no for me and next please😁
@personanongratano14 жыл бұрын
Guys basically want you to ALWAYS keep it light, keep it ONLY upbeat and fun, never go into your female or emotional side, never express what you truly are feeling, etc., etc.
@jhsemoxitha38215 ай бұрын
Avoid those guys
@ashleeearl12064 жыл бұрын
I love his expressions when he reacts to the texts. It's so funny 😂
@ammabeltapdasan22133 жыл бұрын
Mee too💋
@80sgirl969 ай бұрын
I want him to do stand-up.
@jhsemoxitha38215 ай бұрын
Cringe
@sanazsu4 жыл бұрын
Embarrassing.... yesterday I sent a guy a message like, “Can I at least know you’re ok?” After he hasn’t responded to my last message in a few days. 🤦🏾♀️ I was watching this video smacking myself like, “El Desperado!” 😫😅
@jessicarose34944 жыл бұрын
Lailah A dont worry, we’ve all sent them!! 😂
@sanazsu4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Rose 😅
@Ana-ty8sl4 жыл бұрын
...so was he okay?
@lucyespila34014 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sanazsu4 жыл бұрын
Ana Lerdo It’s been three weeks still no response so I don’t know... 🤷🏾♀️🤣
@jlo55154 жыл бұрын
The most cringing text I ever sent was “hey I’m outside” 😭😂🤣😭😂🤣😭😂😂🤣😂😭
@kelebogilemotshoane51862 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@elvinacheah3 жыл бұрын
This almost made my cry. I was a little choked up because of how many of these I have done. But I’m done blaming and shaming myself. Thank you Ryan, for sharing these. I felt there was a little judgment from the way you talked over these texts, but let’s be real- we all judge. So sometimes a little empathy on how the other party received are texts goes a long way 🤍 For girls who are reading, if you did any of these just know that you are not alone :’)
@zippyblessed8392 жыл бұрын
Thanks. We all make mistakes
@beautylife3104 жыл бұрын
The modern day dating sucks. Everywhere you hear is what you should or should not do, what to say or not to say, for what? to make sure not to scare off the guy, not turn them off, to keep them interested, to let them miss you, to make them chase you......It is easy to get lost and feel exhausting about all these.... But think it again, why should I care that much? I have more important things to do in life, no time to play around text, if a guy lacks of interests or response, I have no time for him. Ladies, have your own life and make yourself happy first, then you won't care that much about how he feels about you anymore.
@Ljounieh2 жыл бұрын
Perfect!!
@ciruwiru4 жыл бұрын
The long texts i think are annoying to women too. Especially me. Lol
@mariafury10474 жыл бұрын
I hate the whole texting thing at that start of a relationship, or if you're trying to build one. Words on a screen can be so hard to decipher because you have nothing else to go on. i.e. facial expression, tone of voice, body language.
@hs8shsubjsishejw7474 жыл бұрын
Me too
@pmg11804 жыл бұрын
I can’t say but I agree with you. It’s better to have face to face full time. Text is a good for basic stuff like what time to meet up and let’s go!
@dawnpecho17104 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. It is so hard to decipher emotions from a text. I prefer a phone call or face to face conversations. Luckily the guy I’m seeing now calls me on the phone, and vice versa. So far great relationship, hoping it lasts😊
@robynalvin63194 жыл бұрын
Excellent point. People use text as a way it was never intended to be used. To me, it’s lazy.
@JOYELLE933 жыл бұрын
Yes, so true! I told my bf that in the beginning I like talking because you can totally misunderstand text messages and that causes confusion.
@rip60914 жыл бұрын
This guy looks like Bud Bundy in Married with children...🤣
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Bud was charming and likable, so I'll take that as a good thing 😉
@rip60914 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick ...I loved that show and yes he was charming, likable and also cute and funny! 😘
@blueblaze98624 жыл бұрын
omg kinda lol
@leesteal44584 жыл бұрын
Nope.
@Jackie11114 жыл бұрын
Yess..Bud was cute lol
@elizabethvalente68124 жыл бұрын
This channel helps me. I do not send cringeworthy texts to someone I like but I do send them to people I’m not interested in and it is the perfect tool to scare them away 🤪🤣
@margiepersh7124 жыл бұрын
Remember ladies...before you text, before make sure you’ve appropriately couched your texts to pad his fragile ego 🤣🤣🤣
@lifeofalady4 жыл бұрын
Exactly..men have too much ego..we have to baby them all the time..I am not your cheerleader dude 24-7. Where is my support and attention...
@rebeccalavoy66554 жыл бұрын
Haha, now I know why it takes me 5 minutes to send a 30 second text 😂
@phoebesanchez89154 жыл бұрын
YOU GO GIRL
@leahmwingi22663 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣gorrit
@lorireed80463 жыл бұрын
Anyone notice how he was okay with the guy sending you a "cool" and "alright" text but... bashed the female for 1 word text???
@manalalhumaid8124 жыл бұрын
OMG 😳😢 this is so embarrassing I have done all of them🤫🤫🤫
@Drching-hx9tn3 жыл бұрын
It's all about interest ....the guy who is interested in you will like u no matter what text u drop him 😄
@zippyblessed8392 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@patriciasoni-odoh62054 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀 I'm never texting any guy ever..
@aroura96334 жыл бұрын
Ikrrrr this is harder then I thought I feel like I already fucked up with my crush in so many ways. Lol I think I need to start over with someone else 😣
@alexme10144 жыл бұрын
Lol I know!!
@Dark_Harmony3 жыл бұрын
These must be rules for if you're texting guys under age 42 or something.
@vickyferreira32593 жыл бұрын
I think I messed up...I wished him good morning. I guess I'll never hear from him again..🥺
@jenniferanne83384 жыл бұрын
Wait wait wait.....I have gotten these from MEN all the time lol
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Yup! We're guilty of it too!
@jenniferanne83384 жыл бұрын
Hahaha....:)
@thors1fan1404 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Primo Me too!! @Jennifer Primo, it just sounds clingy and desperate.A total turn off.So needy! I don’t do needy.
@aysvasquez62414 жыл бұрын
Iam guilty too!
@PATAMA123454 жыл бұрын
the why you ignoring me part
@misskia25824 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣this is to funny but I swear we have all done one of them texts before 🤣
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you for being honest about that!
@jasminelove1014 жыл бұрын
I swear lol
@deannalachelle93194 жыл бұрын
Guilty .... but I now cringe about it 🙈
@riley55724 жыл бұрын
I did all of them! Lol
@vickiweber47184 жыл бұрын
Oh Lord knows I have
@imbebe31294 жыл бұрын
The eyebrow raise after “I think I’m falling for you!” 😂😂😂 I died!!!
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@lanamiccoli70564 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of sending and of receiving texts like these, I know the desperation of needing someone’s attention. What I’ve taught myself to do (instead of texting impulsively) is write a memo, or send myself an email, expressing what I want to say. Reading it again later really makes the words sink in!!
@ms.bubs4fun5064 жыл бұрын
I don't text any of that but I still scare them off. lol
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Haha I know the feeling! Just remember when it comes to texting with guys, less is more 😉
@ms.bubs4fun5064 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Noted! Thanks!
@jasminelove1014 жыл бұрын
Less and fun tho 😂
@teschchr1224 жыл бұрын
You scare off the wimps. Be yourself and good things will follow!
@cherish.o.m44534 жыл бұрын
I do worst but the refused to leave me alone.
@kristenmoonrise4 жыл бұрын
Thankfully I stopped sending texts like these when I was in my early twenties. Absolutely nothing will be ruined if you take a step back before sending the message, if you decide to send one at all. Don't be glued to your phone, or turn off your notifications! Just relax. 😌🍹
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@marcusclark22254 жыл бұрын
Dude your mannerisms are hilarious. Such good true advice.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that, Marcus! 🙂
@annabee1483 жыл бұрын
So funny haha
@odapunkt4 жыл бұрын
Once, this guy wouldn’t respond to me, so I sent him a very long story about the under water bridge in India with floating stones
@PH7018c4 жыл бұрын
😃😃😃😃....
@Bodangers4 жыл бұрын
Waste of your time
@sassiboem21944 жыл бұрын
Oda Punkt - did it work?
@SkyePhoenix4 жыл бұрын
👍
@omoukponihenyen6764 жыл бұрын
Just tell me he replied. I can imagine it being interesting and captivating.
@javiciijessy38514 жыл бұрын
am i the only one who thinks he’s funny 💀😂😂 LMAO update: damn . thnks for the likes !
@shinequeen82434 жыл бұрын
Am just laughing
@Jeanninecomeau4 жыл бұрын
He cracks me up. I think there was one on body language he did and I was rolling
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
Why would a guy want to know all of that info about nails? Heck I wouldn't want a stupid text like that. Lol!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Haha an absent-minded moment. True story! We all have them tho 😉
@denillearenga72744 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@sassiboem21944 жыл бұрын
Me either. If one of my ladies texted me about nails, unless we had an appointment coming up, I’d lose interest 🤣
@sarahwoodward44534 жыл бұрын
That made me so uncomfortable 🤣
@Dark_Harmony3 жыл бұрын
And on a rare occasion, some lady tells me all this as if I even know wtf she's talking about. I've never been in a nail salon. Never went to anyone in an actual place that does mani/pedis. I do my own. Much money saved.
@isabelhoch37134 жыл бұрын
No wonder my guy friends are pissed whenever I text them 😂
@azado2373 жыл бұрын
I've spilled my whole heart out over text too many times to count 🙃
@lydiahampton73933 жыл бұрын
Same I look back and cringe 😬
@cuteandfluffypikachu34054 жыл бұрын
I was about to send the I’m falling for you text thank you for stopping me 😂🤣😂☺️🤣☺️
@fallenpsyche47164 жыл бұрын
Cute and Fluffy Pikachu omggggg same🤣🤣😂😂😂hahahah i cannot hahahha
@maureenchewu87264 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂😂😂
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Haha oh thank heavens you didn't! 😂😂
@cuteandfluffypikachu34054 жыл бұрын
I know 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@ladennayoung29394 жыл бұрын
😆
@thesparkleside10734 жыл бұрын
I love this: “The chances that he’s in the mindset to receive a text like this, are slim to none.”
@Dark_Harmony3 жыл бұрын
Poor guys. They just can't handle any level of reality. But, at least that's an honest statement. I thought only 15 yr old girls were shallow & self absorbed. Oh silly me. Acting like Idk men....
@hannahscott66044 жыл бұрын
So I can’t text guys at all Got it
@cherylstreet27303 жыл бұрын
text me back when you want a relationship.
@AtepaHathorMakalani4 жыл бұрын
Definitely guilty of the soulmate and break up text I love pretty intensely I think I need to just chill and remember to put myself first
@lorettaagnes76204 жыл бұрын
sarah.j collver i can relate to that.I have also sent break up texts a couple of times. I am now learning how to love myself and put myself first.
@justpeachy43804 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I did the soulmate one too. Idk why people get so weird about it. Like I'd be so stoked if someone texted me some of this stuff. I'd love to get attention.
@AtepaHathorMakalani4 жыл бұрын
@@justpeachy4380 I think it depends on how attracted you are to the person what the chemistry is like and if you mutually feel there is something divine uniting the two of you. You probably shouldn't tell them on the first date I would wait atleast 9 months.
@justpeachy43804 жыл бұрын
@@AtepaHathorMakalani Right. I waited about 5 months. But I guess the feeling wasn't reciprocated. I felt absolutely ridiculous afterwards. I did feel a divine something. I think he was just emotionally unavailable. I'd never felt like that before about someone I didn't know well.
@AtepaHathorMakalani4 жыл бұрын
@@justpeachy4380 I'm sorry
@pam1644 жыл бұрын
Hate txying men lol omg wish we could go back to days before mobile txts! 😁
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
I agree, Karen. I remember those days of having to remember like 20 phone numbers. It would be interesting to see what would happen haha 😂
@lotusshakti12224 жыл бұрын
Good idea. I will pretend that i dont have a phone. I am planning to leave my phone at home often
@pam1644 жыл бұрын
@Jasmine Sweeney I never did that
@oceansoul36944 жыл бұрын
If a man won't talk face to face, or call...I don't even bother with them
@violetcat91164 жыл бұрын
In the 70's when I was dating and in high school, I got a lot of letters. The man I dated wrote me at night at night and gave it to me in the morning. He wrote me during the day and gave it to me on the bus home. He wrote me during the day sometimes and threw it at me as we passed during class changes. I still have a box full of these notes. We ended up married. No longer, but was not for normal reasons. I still read his notes, there were so sweet. When I cleaned out my mother's house I found a box of her love letters from my father during WW2. It let me see a totally unknown side of my very stern mother. It is a shame that generations coming now will never see these love notes. I miss the written notes.....text will never be the same.
@Z5Z5Z54 жыл бұрын
"TELL ME SOMETHING FUN" LMFAOO
@casy62034 жыл бұрын
No I use to do that...🤣
@SkyePhoenix4 жыл бұрын
A guy that I've been talking to for a few months sends me texts sometimes saying: Tell me something good" I think it's cute and I respond with something positive. However; I've already made too many mistakes with this one. I think it's time to say goodbye. I'll do it over the phone, though... No text.
@Dark_Harmony3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Who sends THAT kind of text? A 15 yr old? I'm not aware of anyone sending texts like this that are actual adults.
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@leefray9734 жыл бұрын
These texts are why I broke up with this guy. He would literally text me every other hour “what you doin” what you eat for dinner blah blah bunch of boring crap.
@mikochild24 жыл бұрын
I find that most dating advice is not gender specific. This video is a great example. Women get annoyed when receiving these texts as well. Good advice, "would you be annoyed if you received the text you're about to send?"
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thanks! Spot on! 👍
@kiralee30744 жыл бұрын
Guys are guilty for texts like these too . If 2 people love each other they except these silly flaws or if it really is an issue I'm sure sitting down and talking about it would resolve it .if you really end up losing someone over a stupid text message then that person isn't for you anyway go get someone better .
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Yes, guys are guilty of these too. Let's be clear though; the texting I'm referring to is everything *before* you guys are both in a committed relationship and are in love; this is during that initial courtship when you're dating. They are simply texts that turn people off in the beginning. Once you both say "I love you," then feel free to fire off whatever you want 😉
@vlo48294 жыл бұрын
People do those things after the first dates though! Acting like you're "2 people in love" at that point is too much for almost anyone...
@kiamolee23474 жыл бұрын
The guy im dating and i are both guilty of these. Were not in love but were both grown ass ppl who have fun with each other. I get that this is a general thing but if i really like a guy he could txt me that he has diarrhea at 2 am and im all 😍😍
@MR-fl6ul4 жыл бұрын
@@kiamolee2347 lmaoooooooOooo
@aidahyiga2564 жыл бұрын
Guys you make us unsettled where by a guy can see your text and then not replying you but still you still see him online 😓😓😓😓
@kr48884 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA!! I love your facial expressions!!! I am literally laughing out loud!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thanks KR! Glad you enjoyed this one 🙂
@pam1644 жыл бұрын
Men send break up txts too
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
100%
@Faceandfashionaz3 жыл бұрын
If I only had one date and met him online I will break it off in a text. Why would I make all the effort to see him in person just to tell him I’m not gonna see him again!! Lol
@queenshamie76493 жыл бұрын
How are you doing 🙏
@samanthathompson98124 жыл бұрын
Anyone else not really like texting except for quick checkins like when you're trying to meet up somewhere? I guess I'm old.
@venusunrise63524 жыл бұрын
Omg this video made me lmao 😂 his facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣
@user-ft2zz3um6l4 жыл бұрын
:D I was watching this, giggling all the way through, and thinking does anyone actually do the most of these.
@priyankasingh-pm3ji4 жыл бұрын
I txt every single msg which is told by him.. Dats why he is not with me😂😂😂
@sarahc5614 жыл бұрын
This is hilarious, its like someone's reading my old phone history!
@lizzyfunnybunny90204 жыл бұрын
Omg I laughed so much that I have tears. I used to send some of these in my 20s. These texts make women sound so boring and desperate! Oh man
@chloebell3334 жыл бұрын
you know - those texts are awful and I have never sent them - however...at what point are we as people not trying to pretend that we have these high octane awesome busy lives? I don't. I am a full time student...full time single mother...I stay in most nights and my nights out are rare AND most weekends I have my daughter. People ask me what I am doing and it is usually studying. So does that make me boring or lame AF - I hope not but being new to dating I also try to be real and not pretend to be something I am not.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Hey Chloe! It's not about having a "high octane" awesome busy life. Hopefully you have a life you feel is awesome by being a mother and a student. The point is to never make him the center of the universe; it sounds like that spot's already reserved for your child, which is great. Never clear your schedule to be totally available for a man in the beginning; we hate that. Does *not* make you boring or lame at all! Your life is already naturally set up for success in this "busy" sense with men, I'd say 😉
@tanyahouston56354 жыл бұрын
Perfectly okay to be busy doing whatever it is you want to do. I am busy. My choice and I am under no obligation to say what I am busy doing, could be reading, could be sorting pennies, doesn't matter. No explanation, no judgment. And if someone calls and asks what I am doing, I say talking to you.
@henula4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick what if u are from different countries? :D doesn't it change little bit the situation with clearing schedule? :D
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@henula I'm sure there must be cultural differences Henrietta. I think all of this really applies with western cultures. Beyond that, there might be notable differences indeed. 👍
@henula4 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for answering. I think we didn't understand to each other. I meant if I'm going to start dating man living in different country than me... if this isn't changing rule about clearing my program. Like if he says i want to see you. than what? its different than you living in the same city, if you know what i mean...i would like to know how is your opinion in this case about "being available"... Thanks for your response.
@tholangplaatjies47053 жыл бұрын
Here's one that I sent: "I don't know whether we still talk anymore or not"
@liaclarisse94004 жыл бұрын
omg i was gunna to send "gush all over you texts" my friends told me to send it i said no thank goodness! Thank you for this video!
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Sure thing Lia! 🙂
@kukana11084 жыл бұрын
I texted “we need to talk “ and his reply was “about”. I didn’t want tell him he couldn’t move in in a text. I got no further communication, so the next day I did text him to tell him He couldn’t move in. That was 5 days ago. Nothing.
@mayl27734 жыл бұрын
It’s funny because the “never ending text” the man responds with one word answers and the next thing you mentioned the thing to not do is sending a one word text... why the double standard?
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
He's sending the one-word text to you because, in response, he was turned off by what you sent versus you (or him) *initiating* with a one-word text. Hope I cleared that up, May. No double standard. He's accountable just like you 🙂
@Gina-Montana4 жыл бұрын
Ryan Patrick now why would a woman INITIATE a one word text with something like idk, maybe, or whatever? These are words used in response texts. So no, you cleared nothing up here.
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
@@Gina-Montana You're right! I got the categories confused. I was thinking about the "pointless banter" text which just happened to have "hey" in there and would technically be a one-word initiating text. Don't send 'hey' lol. Guys shouldn't be sending these texts I described either and I know guys send these too. If you're turned off by what they sent, send them one word so they get the hint it probably wasn't a great text they just sent 😄
@michellehutson64344 жыл бұрын
Well... I've clearly bombed out in the texting department. I'm happy to announce that I've given up on dating. Ohhh... It's way to much work. 😉 Yep
@debbiefinn31494 жыл бұрын
Michelle i was the same.but i think ive met a guy?? But im super scared tk push anything...from the sounds of it less is more wen it comes to guys these days..im gonna let him chase me..im fed ul being hurt...n I SWEAR IF THIS ONE GOES BELLY UP IM DONE..THE SINGLE LIFE FOR ME!! LOL
@paularubina98434 жыл бұрын
Your funny faces and humour here allowed me to recognize my own texting no-no’s without feeling badly about myself 👍😊
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@hallclmall12514 жыл бұрын
😂🤣 @ the awkward text messages and the facial expressions! Love your videos
@Kat-lq8sp4 жыл бұрын
These were hilarious!!!.... I'm guilty of some. My worst pet peeve is the one-word text. REALLY!!! That is why I stop texting this fool. It makes me feel like I bothering him and this woman has no time for that. I don't need a dissertation, but give me something other than "cool," "damn."
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Karen! Yes, guys have a lot of those one worders lol 🙈
@Joy544 жыл бұрын
Oh no, I'm high maintenance, creepy, with no life. Better become single again and enjoy myself instead of trying to be a happy-go-lucky-who-cares-for-my-real-feelings 😂
@sumthin2lukatsumthin2lukat404 жыл бұрын
Dude, I’m in my 40’s! I haven’t sent “stupid” text in a minute. I have mastered the art of creating emotions and intrigue. Thanks for the hilarious and insightful tips!
@trudyvalkyr30052 жыл бұрын
Only "hey" is standard where I live. Literally every type of text starts like this. Even in a professional or a commercial context.
@NkosiCebile4 жыл бұрын
Where have you been all my life hahaha... You just saved me... I'm guilty of all these texts and worse haha... Next time I will be better prepared. I'm binge-watching your youtube videos :-) Thank you for helping us out
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
You bet, Cebile! Thanks for watching, I really appreciate your feedback! 😃
@mackenzilowery6844 жыл бұрын
My husband is to scared to tell his feelings so he will text me a song from KZfaq, conveying how he feels lol
@linamike1724 жыл бұрын
Men DO NOT deserve our attention and time. Whenever my bf doesn't want to text or chat, he keeps me blocked. Now I have also learnt to be stiff, reserved and ignorant... To please them we have to just not be ourselves anymore
@dragonflyrising11114 жыл бұрын
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@irinahechavarria43064 жыл бұрын
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@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
WHOO HOO! Welcome aboard, Irina! 😀
@MalloryJay954 жыл бұрын
I am fine with a breakup text. I would rather breakup via text honestly.
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@XOAliciaMarie3 жыл бұрын
My biggest pet peeve is when a man texts me asking me if I have plans that night or what I have planned for the weekend… And then never just asked me to hang out! And with some of these guys I would ask them why they didn’t ask me to hang out they didn’t tell me that they were going to but that I sounded busy. So then I’ve let a few of them know that had they just asked me directly I would’ve been more than happy to work them into my schedule to meet up with them for coffee or get some lunch because even though I keep myself busy I can make time for the right people.
@johnstaff33364 жыл бұрын
I cannot claim to be ALL guys, but to me, a text should be a preamble to a conversation. Not a full conversation. If you are running late. If you want to meet up. If you have something very quickly to say. If you want to find out if he is available to talk. Unless you are under 25, most men, I think, would rather talk, either in person or with a phone call.
@JazMegan2 жыл бұрын
The amount of these things I did to the guys I really liked 🤦🏼♀️ so embarrassing to think about but I was 20 so I can't be too harsh on myself. Agreed with all these that will push him/anyone away or make them vanish
@Chaptersaudio4 жыл бұрын
😊🤭☺️ I'm guilty of all of these! No wonder I'm still single!
@aroura96334 жыл бұрын
Belinda Joy lol ikr
@flaviaandrew54474 жыл бұрын
i feel you 😁😁😁
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@queenshamie76493 жыл бұрын
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@lovejaycakes3 жыл бұрын
Haha, the soulmates text.. I actually talked about this with him and we had a great conversation/discussion about it! So I was pleasantly surprised 😅
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@jellybean94184 жыл бұрын
Omg! I did all the things you said I shouldn't be doing 😱😱😱. Thank you for this video! ❤️❤️❤️
@Manon_Ferrari4 жыл бұрын
It was in my recommendation, I clicked... I couldn't stop laughing at your face with the "silly messages" 👍😅 awesome video Sir!
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@victoriacaropreso15064 жыл бұрын
Love your animated expressions 😆
@datingcoachryanpatrick4 жыл бұрын
Haha thanks Victoria! 😀
@blancairisrobles43734 жыл бұрын
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes, hilarious!
@Ljounieh2 жыл бұрын
So we should overthink everything and worry about perpetually meeting a man's expectations. Just send whatever the hell you want! His response should tell you if he's right for you or not. We are people, not programmable robots ffs
@kaydykes99164 жыл бұрын
I find myself just trying to start a conversation where we can get to know each other etc. when I ask how your day was, it’s cause I genuinely care and want to know. I don’t need every little detail. 🤷🏻♀️ And...people forget messages and therefore forget to respond all the time. Just cause they saw the text doesn’t mean they’ll respond.
@jokpop93024 жыл бұрын
I nearly sent my crush "Hey, are you there~" HAHA and I didn't do anything on this list!!
@carolinafuentesalegria18764 жыл бұрын
I'm learning a lot thank you Ryan. I moved to the States 3 years ago and all your videos are very useful for a foreign. In my Country date it's so different than here.
@SeventyStars3 жыл бұрын
Patrik I love your expression during the whole video it makes the topic do much more interesting man!