Lee Steal exactly!! i am a never ending text girl and very proud of that, thats who I am:) however i manage to make guys text just as much after awhile so whos winning🤣🤷‍♀️

That is not true. Try to text him that you are not sure about him or that you were following him yesterday without him noticing you. Poor boy 🙈

Lee Steal true :)

yes. But still, we shouldn't do it too many times. He or she will tolerant for several times occasionally, but absolutely can't bear if we do it time after time. At least we should leave an impression that we are able to control emotions.

He will care but he wont let his girl kmow its annoying lol. He will put up with it because she is worth it.

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Yes the right one they come to you

No I am myself and no well ever love me so rethink what you said

@@courtneyherring6592 its obvious why no one will ever love you. You need to do the rethinking here.

Agree

You said it correctly. “Your man”. This these videos are mainly meant for women out in the dating pool.

Exactly!!!

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@@franciscopartida2737 yup I agree w you brother

It’s unlikely that the guy wants to hear the details about you getting your nails done.

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Can confirm. Texting is a useless waste of time. Call, flirt, meet. That's it.

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Hahaha unless it’s boobs

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Its only exhausting if the guy really means sth to you ,otherwise u can write whatever the hell u feel like writing 😂

Sun & Sea same here🤦🏾‍♀️ got no time for games my life is way more important sorry

Sun & Sea oh I’m exhaustd

I absolutely agree. I'm just over the crap games.

It's exhausting. It's a game. Either you win or lose. 90% of the time, you lose 😭

So its a human thing, this video should be like, texts that people dont like

Exactly I actually seen guys text this tbh lol

@@angenequenash5180 exactly what i was thinking..and sometimes they keep calling while you're ignoring them.. and won't stop until you answer..🙄

I agree.

Jajaja those tips apply to anyone that values their time and life. If there is no purpose nor valuable information to me, just don’t bother I won’t answer.

You are so right..all these rules are unnecessary to me...men do not make All this effort..all one sided with men.

Exactly. I feel like I'm in high school all over again.

Most adults (both men and women) are overgrown children. It's no wonder why so many people have dysfunctional relationships.

@@23magneta And, 60 % of marriages fail. It's messed up. Not fair and to be frank, it sucks.

For real.

Exactly

Yup

lol.. same ..

Lily Clapham agreed!

Ha ha ha

I don't like calls or cell texts, I prefer e-mail.

nofy bn I almost cannot tell if that is a joke lol

I fill the same way

They dont like calls 🙄

...ok boomer

Period

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Yeah, but apparently it’s acceptable for a guy to shoot a one word response back (ie cool....; aiiight....) 🥴🙄

@@Gina-Montana when i was on a dating site I didnt reply to anyone who txt me with sentence up to 3 words lol. I like to read 😂😉

I think what I was getting at is one-word initiating texts like "Hey." Totally fine to respond however, just don't lead with them 😉

@@datingcoachryanpatrick now the guy I'm dating likes to communicate a lot! Considering that we live a bit far and both have children/work commitments i always feel his support and he is there if i need him, without crossing the line of clingy

Same

I'm with you on being yourself, and hopefully the guy that's interested in you also keeps it real.

If yourself is desperate and clingy it’s going to be hard to find someone who’s going to find that attractive...but good luck!

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Bora K Ha!! Basically that’s what it seems like. The shit is draining if you ask me. Tryna figure out his moods and emotions for you🤨. One day he’s hot and the next he barely has anything to say. But they talk abt us?! Yeah right🙄

After seeing several Videos from this KZfaqr I get the same feeling. A good like to dislike ratio, some work in the videos but the content... Sometimes I was yelling in my head: "What?! I don't know any guy, that would/wouldn't like that except for the one from work who is boasting about how many women he is with and then asks his female colleague how to tell one of them off without looking bad." So yeah, I get the feeling that those are tips for women who want to find a guy just for fun. But I'm a little calmed down after reading the comments. Many make fun of these points or say they want to stay true to themselves, that's reassuring that most don't buy that it's about men in general, which it is not.

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they're cat! the more unexpected you are the more they're interested in you lol

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Exactly!

Another way to look at it is: do you want a man or a marshmallow? A dude or a dud? A man who has "other important things to do" probably really does, and that is what makes him interesting and vibrant and fun to be with. A man on a collar and leash? Get up close and there's probably nothing much there except binge-watching sports, firing up the gas grill and sucking on a beer while watching the grass grow and thinking he should get out there and mow the lawn.

Oh yes. I got sh...it to shoot like. Its so fricking exhausting.

I have an answer for you that is just for you and many will not understand but I think you will.It's not for them, only you. You are at the top of the scale in attractiveness. Quite a few men without some maturity, will see this as a chance to disrespect a woman like you -a kinda like getcha' for what other women have done to 'me' ...and it's ego soothing to them. Displaced revenge. If you want to see this played out in an extreme manner, post a picture on a dating site and watch some swarm to insult you without knowing a thing about you. (as in, first contact is "wanna xxxx? ") In real life they could never get close enough to you to say those words even in a public setting. Sorry. Been there. Unprovoked. I tell myself the truth about it ,whether others might think it's presumptuous or not. NO HATERS PLEASE. WE GET ENOUGH OF THAT. move along.

@@jennevaa That's true. I'm not as physically attractive as I used to be, & I'm not acting like I was all that ever, but, I've had some experiences like that in the not so distant past. It's annoying, & unnerving. Mental cases needing therapy. Don't drag that baggage around on others.

@@jennevaa Also sometimes guys aren't that into you like what you might have originally thought (happened to me once, oops) or they already have a girlfriend and the girlfriend is starting to get suspicious (this literally just happened to my friend). My Grandmothers would say that Rejection is God's Protection.

When he makes it clear that he wants a boodie call and your like its not happening..yup..got ghosted 😏✌

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@@navimarlow OMG. This is happening to me as we speak. Do I ignore him? He is with his buddy.

Rebecca Jones ignore him!!

yes!! i do this but i don't really mind how that is going to affect them, i just hate talking over the phone/text bc it is unproductive and i would think the same of a guy who's always on his phone too

Your whole LIFE is about walking on egg shells with a male in it.

screw this~just send him whatever comes into your mind as long as it's appropriate, most importantly you got nothing to lose anyway : )

Be yourself

That's exactly it. Instead of them appreciating you thinking of them and the fact you stopped and made time to show interest, or being flattered, or anything positive and well-adjusted, these days people pick everything you text apart very childishly instead of seeing the big picture.

It s hell 😔

Melinda Lara exactly immature , no for me and next please😁

Avoid those guys

Mee too💋

I want him to do stand-up.

Cringe

Lailah A dont worry, we’ve all sent them!! 😂

Jessica Rose 😅

...so was he okay?

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Thanks. We all make mistakes

Perfect!!

Me too

I can’t say but I agree with you. It’s better to have face to face full time. Text is a good for basic stuff like what time to meet up and let’s go!

I agree with you. It is so hard to decipher emotions from a text. I prefer a phone call or face to face conversations. Luckily the guy I’m seeing now calls me on the phone, and vice versa. So far great relationship, hoping it lasts😊

Excellent point. People use text as a way it was never intended to be used. To me, it’s lazy.

Yes, so true! I told my bf that in the beginning I like talking because you can totally misunderstand text messages and that causes confusion.

Bud was charming and likable, so I'll take that as a good thing 😉

@@datingcoachryanpatrick ...I loved that show and yes he was charming, likable and also cute and funny! 😘

omg kinda lol

Nope.

Yess..Bud was cute lol

Exactly..men have too much ego..we have to baby them all the time..I am not your cheerleader dude 24-7. Where is my support and attention...

Haha, now I know why it takes me 5 minutes to send a 30 second text 😂

YOU GO GIRL

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Anyone notice how he was okay with the guy sending you a "cool" and "alright" text but... bashed the female for 1 word text???

Exactly

Ikrrrr this is harder then I thought I feel like I already fucked up with my crush in so many ways. Lol I think I need to start over with someone else 😣

Lol I know!!

These must be rules for if you're texting guys under age 42 or something.

Yup! We're guilty of it too!

Hahaha....:)

Jennifer Primo Me too!! @Jennifer Primo, it just sounds clingy and desperate.A total turn off.So needy! I don’t do needy.

Iam guilty too!

the why you ignoring me part

Haha thank you for being honest about that!

I swear lol

Guilty .... but I now cringe about it 🙈

I did all of them! Lol

Oh Lord knows I have

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Haha I know the feeling! Just remember when it comes to texting with guys, less is more 😉

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Less and fun tho 😂

You scare off the wimps. Be yourself and good things will follow!

I do worst but the refused to leave me alone.

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I appreciate that, Marcus! 🙂

So funny haha

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Waste of your time

Oda Punkt - did it work?

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Just tell me he replied. I can imagine it being interesting and captivating.

Am just laughing

He cracks me up. I think there was one on body language he did and I was rolling

Haha an absent-minded moment. True story! We all have them tho 😉

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Me either. If one of my ladies texted me about nails, unless we had an appointment coming up, I’d lose interest 🤣

That made me so uncomfortable 🤣

And on a rare occasion, some lady tells me all this as if I even know wtf she's talking about. I've never been in a nail salon. Never went to anyone in an actual place that does mani/pedis. I do my own. Much money saved.

Same I look back and cringe 😬

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Poor guys. They just can't handle any level of reality. But, at least that's an honest statement. I thought only 15 yr old girls were shallow & self absorbed. Oh silly me. Acting like Idk men....

sarah.j collver i can relate to that.I have also sent break up texts a couple of times. I am now learning how to love myself and put myself first.

Yeah, I did the soulmate one too. Idk why people get so weird about it. Like I'd be so stoked if someone texted me some of this stuff. I'd love to get attention.

@@justpeachy4380 I think it depends on how attracted you are to the person what the chemistry is like and if you mutually feel there is something divine uniting the two of you. You probably shouldn't tell them on the first date I would wait atleast 9 months.

@@AtepaHathorMakalani Right. I waited about 5 months. But I guess the feeling wasn't reciprocated. I felt absolutely ridiculous afterwards. I did feel a divine something. I think he was just emotionally unavailable. I'd never felt like that before about someone I didn't know well.

@@justpeachy4380 I'm sorry

I agree, Karen. I remember those days of having to remember like 20 phone numbers. It would be interesting to see what would happen haha 😂

Good idea. I will pretend that i dont have a phone. I am planning to leave my phone at home often

@Jasmine Sweeney I never did that

If a man won't talk face to face, or call...I don't even bother with them

In the 70's when I was dating and in high school, I got a lot of letters. The man I dated wrote me at night at night and gave it to me in the morning. He wrote me during the day and gave it to me on the bus home. He wrote me during the day sometimes and threw it at me as we passed during class changes. I still have a box full of these notes. We ended up married. No longer, but was not for normal reasons. I still read his notes, there were so sweet. When I cleaned out my mother's house I found a box of her love letters from my father during WW2. It let me see a totally unknown side of my very stern mother. It is a shame that generations coming now will never see these love notes. I miss the written notes.....text will never be the same.

No I use to do that...🤣

A guy that I've been talking to for a few months sends me texts sometimes saying: Tell me something good" I think it's cute and I respond with something positive. However; I've already made too many mistakes with this one. I think it's time to say goodbye. I'll do it over the phone, though... No text.

Yeah. Who sends THAT kind of text? A 15 yr old? I'm not aware of anyone sending texts like this that are actual adults.

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Yes, guys are guilty of these too. Let's be clear though; the texting I'm referring to is everything *before* you guys are both in a committed relationship and are in love; this is during that initial courtship when you're dating. They are simply texts that turn people off in the beginning. Once you both say "I love you," then feel free to fire off whatever you want 😉

People do those things after the first dates though! Acting like you're "2 people in love" at that point is too much for almost anyone...

The guy im dating and i are both guilty of these. Were not in love but were both grown ass ppl who have fun with each other. I get that this is a general thing but if i really like a guy he could txt me that he has diarrhea at 2 am and im all 😍😍

@@kiamolee2347 lmaoooooooOooo

Thanks KR! Glad you enjoyed this one 🙂

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Hey Chloe! It's not about having a "high octane" awesome busy life. Hopefully you have a life you feel is awesome by being a mother and a student. The point is to never make him the center of the universe; it sounds like that spot's already reserved for your child, which is great. Never clear your schedule to be totally available for a man in the beginning; we hate that. Does *not* make you boring or lame at all! Your life is already naturally set up for success in this "busy" sense with men, I'd say 😉

Perfectly okay to be busy doing whatever it is you want to do. I am busy. My choice and I am under no obligation to say what I am busy doing, could be reading, could be sorting pennies, doesn't matter. No explanation, no judgment. And if someone calls and asks what I am doing, I say talking to you.

@@datingcoachryanpatrick what if u are from different countries? :D doesn't it change little bit the situation with clearing schedule? :D

@@henula I'm sure there must be cultural differences Henrietta. I think all of this really applies with western cultures. Beyond that, there might be notable differences indeed. 👍

@@datingcoachryanpatrick Thanks for answering. I think we didn't understand to each other. I meant if I'm going to start dating man living in different country than me... if this isn't changing rule about clearing my program. Like if he says i want to see you. than what? its different than you living in the same city, if you know what i mean...i would like to know how is your opinion in this case about "being available"... Thanks for your response.

Sure thing Lia! 🙂

He's sending the one-word text to you because, in response, he was turned off by what you sent versus you (or him) *initiating* with a one-word text. Hope I cleared that up, May. No double standard. He's accountable just like you 🙂

Ryan Patrick now why would a woman INITIATE a one word text with something like idk, maybe, or whatever? These are words used in response texts. So no, you cleared nothing up here.

@@Gina-Montana You're right! I got the categories confused. I was thinking about the "pointless banter" text which just happened to have "hey" in there and would technically be a one-word initiating text. Don't send 'hey' lol. Guys shouldn't be sending these texts I described either and I know guys send these too. If you're turned off by what they sent, send them one word so they get the hint it probably wasn't a great text they just sent 😄

Michelle i was the same.but i think ive met a guy?? But im super scared tk push anything...from the sounds of it less is more wen it comes to guys these days..im gonna let him chase me..im fed ul being hurt...n I SWEAR IF THIS ONE GOES BELLY UP IM DONE..THE SINGLE LIFE FOR ME!! LOL

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