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Amazing vid, man!!! Such a CRUCIAL topic! 👊

Thanks Tyler for your years of generous and precious service

As a natural co-dependant this hits home. "you have so many good intentions toward other people and the world that you cant project into a possible reality where other people don't have that toward you." This used to describe me perfectly. Until it bit me in the ass with a partner in business. Cost me tens of thousands of dollars. But I considered that the price toward a valuable lesson. Thanks for this video Tyler.

Important to strike a balance... I think most people (non-sociopaths lol) want to help others as a natural inclination, however, as with anything there has to be a limit. On one hand SELFISH, on the other OVERLY SOLICITOUS. With any duality spectrum, the greatest vitality lies in the synthesis of the opposites forming that spectrum. Either polarity saps the strength of the potential choices along the spectrum.

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Your vulnerability is beaufitul and inspiring. Thank you Tyler.

The imperfections of the rain really create a nice atmosphere for the video

I'm crying. What an incredible video. The rain theme is so on point for such a dark topic.

Tyler is that guy that reminds me how really fortunate to come across his KZfaq channel by an accident, some true gospel this dude speaking..

Super personal video. I want you to know the place I'm coming. Excited for Los Angeles FREE EVENT January 23rd! And Chicago FREE event February 5th! www.rsdfreetour.com - and TONS more videos coming your way this month. Created this one to set a strong foundation for what is to come with this year's content. We are also doing FREE CALLS to see how we can help you, if you fill out this form www.bestsociallife.com - take advantage while this is available, it's pretty awesome. Let me know your thoughts on the video and talk soon! -Tyler

"Let it mess you up, follow that problem to the trauma, and then fix it." Beautiful. I totally love what you're doing Owen!

Could be in a cushy restaurant networking with high status people but he's out in the rain making a video for us scrubs. Love it, salute!

Studying yourself is a good suggestion. Still it is necessary to move forward, outward, not only looking in. Build healthy relationships from a place of purpose.

As someone who got broken up with recently by my ex gf over being a people-pleaser and with weak boundaries… I needed this video. Thanks Owen!!

Rather than constantly recycling and rehashing and dwelling on, I take more of the Buddhist approach of freeing, releasing and just letting go of the emotional content and mental constructs you have built around it. So I don't necessarily agree with his approach and methods but his openness and vulnerability is refreshing. As long as it takes you to inner freedom, emotional maturity and ultimately enlightenment. People ain't shit btw.

Can really relate to this one. Listening to you immediatly puts me into a higher energy state, thanks Tyler!

You guys have no idea the impact you have had on my life. Thank you so much. Much love, I'll be coming to a live event as soon as I can

Dope video! Love the rawness. It's a beautiful thing to see the direction you've taken and the result of that. Thank you!

Bless you tyler. You're an amazing human being.

Tyler these videos about and personal boundaries and people pleasing are so critical and helpful. You being so raw and fourth coming given your success comes across as immensely relatable and inspiring to us who follow you. Thank you for digging deep man

I struggled with CPTSD myself for almost my whole 22 years. I have completely reprogrammed and recreated my mind and my life... Love your stuff Tyler I relate to you very much 🤙🏼 will meet you one day!

Wow thanks for being vulnerable, I resonate with the pain you endured in your past. Sharing this helped me thankyou

Thank you for your time.

Thank you Tyler for field testing so many theories and techniques for so many years .

Human magnet syndrome is a great book about codependency

Thank you Tyler for what you do

I'm amazed by the fact that when I ran onto your videos for the first time - it wasn't about this stuff at all. It was all about humor and girls. I related to you then and here I am, many years later, watching you explaining exactly what's happening to me my entire life, but on a whole different level. It's like when you hear some song for the first time and you like the music very much, but don't understand the lyrics and as soon as you read through them - you realize that they represent the exact internal state you are in. Great stuff Owen, thank you so much.

ALL THIS HAPPENED(has been happening) TO ME! Thanks for sharing this man. So grateful to recieve this wisdom at 20.

Thank you Owen for this. Beautiful and powerful.

Thank you so much for this kind of video you've made Tyler! It feels like tackling something that has been invicible for a long time, deep inside and taking over the system in my head. All of the explanation is so on point and I get to resonate much with the people pleasing attitude. All the best for you sir, would love to see another fire content.

I like how he continues the shoot through the rain without missing a beat. We deal with circumstances as we find them. We don’t wait until things are perfect.

Good bless you man, thank you for everything!

6:11 Tyler sees a smoking hot girl and thinks about cutting the video to approach her... “takes a breathe of presence”...continues doing the video. That’s a world class Eckhart example

Thank you so much Tyler

To be honest i have been watching Tyler`s videos for over a year but in this video i felt like he was talking to my inner self and the most important thing about this video is that it shows that Tyler also come from somewhere to be who he is today and that changed my perception of him the reason being is that when we see his videos on youtube we tend to think he is perfect and he did not put effort to become who he is today of which it`s not the case .Otherwise thank you Tyler for sharing such a personal story and we really appreciate your help , I also want to thank everyone in your team who help you to make your videos to be available and the important content you share with us ."Big ups #2020 visions" ,I believe a lot more is still to come.

Thank you Owen!

Thank you. Tears in my eyes

Ive never commented before but ive followed your content for 5 years and purchased some products. You truly an amazing man who will go down in history for the value you provide. Its changed my life several times for the better. Thank you Owen.

Thank you again Tyler for the great video, powerful closing.

It just baffles me how many incredible gifts this man has bestowed upon us over the years. Owen. I feel secure knowing that I will be able to resolve any life problem by watching a few of Tyler’s videos. A sincere thank you for all that you’ve given to your fans.

Awesome video Owen! Lets keep going through our traumas, keep taking action but also keep releasing. That is definitely the way to go, great inspiration 😜👊🏻💜

Thank! Great video!

Tyler! I love you man. Thank you so much for sharing your heart with us.

love you too. thank you!

Wat you said, is so real. I sufferd from this my whole life and wat you said is so true. I was always engaging the uneasiness and was trying to connect with people including all the negative sides that comes with it. But all of it is so worthy... 👍🏻 and you where one of the little helps that helpt me during this journey. Thanx..

Very important topic for many people and for me personally too. Thank you Tyler.

Thank you owen thank you so much

Thanks Tyler for doing this 🙏

I love you too Owen. You are a great man. Shine on brother.

thank you for sharing uncle Owen!

Love you too Tyler!

Thanks man. Over the years you've been a huge guide to me ♥️

Thank you Tyler

Thanks for taking one for the team and filming this out in the rain

This is a great vid, I'm so thankful I know about this whole self-development stuff and about your channel, I learn a lot from your vids and they would probably save me a lot of time, money and energy just watching them while I'm 17 years old. Thank you Owen, can't wait for the next video :D

Thank you!

Great video Tyler! Keep them coming 🙌🏼👊🏼One of the biggest lessons I’ve got from your videos was the poison drip lesson. It was such a 🤯 moment! Especially when your in a relationship for a long time.

Love you too .The commitment helped alot .Your work is gold

Thank you Owen 🙏🏽

Thank you for this video!!

Thank you so much for these videos

Love how personal this is

thank you owen

Glad to know I was not the only one who fought with this. 39 going to be 40 in August, and with all you have shared for free just on you tube has helped alot!!! Thank you!!

Tyler, that was amazing. Thanks for this video.

It's crazy how much Tyler's video influence ones life if a person tries to understand the deeper meaning of the context. Absolutely crazy how many people seem lost nowadays due to tons of garbage content and information that never grows into knowledge. So many layers and depth are coming from this guys mouth it's insane and you can literally watch the videos multiple times without getting bored and always getting new stuff out of it. Layers within layers within layers, it's like Tayler's own Inception. It's something that changes life and make you appreciate both yourself and others as well. Thanks for all the videos T, it's really huge and hopefully it reaches the right people who are willing to make themselves and this world a better place.

Really great video man. Appreciate it.

Tyler Love You. Thanks once again for the awesome content brother. Made my after work Friday evening EPIC.

amazing stuff. thanks so much as always my friend!!

Tyler Rock's.✌.Thanks Brother.🤝

Thanks for the content Tyler

Thanks Owen!

Owen, I love you. Thankyou tyler for everything. I felt unbelievably lucky to find your channel all those years ago. As much as you confuse me, and I wish i didnt know all of this, because i almost dont trust people anymmore etc. Its like unconscious competence now... i FORGET how much i kNOW SOCIALLY... and like yeah, im no pick up artist, I cant randomly go up to an attractive gitl on the street, so you could argue i know nothing lol, but ive had my moments, and im still learning. im 28. just moved back home with parents after being fired because i was miserable in my job, and had enough of my town. onwards upwards, more clarity. just recentering myself, and stufying myself again, and getting ready to be ready. time for the gym, im a beast. lol.

This one is GOLD.

Great help, thanks!

Have been willing to hear your personal take on codependency and boundaries for quite a while now, and gotta say, I feel very satisfied with the end result. As someone who has been going out for quite some time now and got into your friend Julien's Transformation Mastery program, I can say I relate to this profoundly and am in the journey of healing and going to where I want to be, just as anyone else reading this can.

Great video and topic. Thanks Tyler

Thanks so much for your consistent and outstanding content! I've been following your organisation for the last 7 years since I was 18, and it's been like having a group of personal mentors to help understand those tricky nuances of social life. Thanks for dedicating yourself to this and sharing your vision with us into the ever more complex maze of human experience

Thank you Owen

Love you Tyler 🙏🏽

thank you for the wisdom master! really appreciate it

Amazing video as always Owen, thank you for your life’s work man 🙏🏼 truly saves me on those bad days and gets my mental game straight

Thank you 🙏

Love the value. Come walk through my city in Salem MA in the fall, is a good time. Cheers

The more i watch and the more i listen and apply the better my life gets.

Thank you

I don’t know any other content creator that is able to talk on levels like Owen does. I resonate and understand what he says, while still learning a ton, so much that it feels like he knows me.

congrats on 40 man thanks for all u do

Awesome vid. Thank you so much

Thanks bro!!!

Thank you for this video dude. Massively appreciated

Damn Tyler preachin on this one! 🙌🏾

This one was sooo useful Tyler!

Great valuable information, thanks so much for your videos!

Respect to you bro.

Thanks owen

thanks owen

Dope ! Love the authentic personal style 💡

Owen Tyler Cook. You and your messages mean something to me, and the world is a better place with you in it. Thank you.