What’s conversation people are not ready to have?

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@alexakearney 3 ай бұрын

The last girl is definitely my life experience. I always thought it was such an ignorant question of “why am I talking white”

@Walksonthesky 3 ай бұрын

Then being called an Oreo for something you can’t help. I lived in the projects as a kid I just don’t sound like I lived there but I have no idea why

@sadaf186 3 ай бұрын

@@Walksonthesky broooo i was always getting called oreo 😅😅

@intothemindshaft 3 ай бұрын

That last girl sounded really sad bout it too - like who cares how you sound so long as you're not saying foolish bs

@NoodlelyBoi 3 ай бұрын

@@intothemindshaft I know, I've noticed I've either been surrounded by so many articulate white people or "ghetto"/nonchalant black people and I always stand out in either case and guess what. While some white people mah not notice or even address you being the only black person, being surrounded by people from the hood, projects, ect. will always point it out.

@BAlex2209 3 ай бұрын

Y Y'all r making a big deal about being called an Oreo, it's one of the popular cookies ever created,so take it as they mean, ur a delicious snack. @@Walksonthesky

@C_In_Outlaw3817 3 ай бұрын

That last girl is real for that. I grew up speaking what many would call “proper” and black people would tell me “oh you act white.” And the white peiple in my school always told me that “I’m the whitest black guy they know.” Because of this I felt judged by both communities Growing up. I’m happy who I am today though.

@milili27 3 ай бұрын

Yes! I feel the same way. It’s annoying and frustrating when people think you’re talking “white”. But in my mind I’m like, “What the heck is talking white?”😒 Just because I grew up in an area that speaks a particular dialect doesn’t make me any less African American. Why can’t I just be me without being racially stereotyped on both ends?

@C_In_Outlaw3817 3 ай бұрын

@@milili27 Well I hope you read my comment feeling comforted that not all of us see things black and white that way (both figuratively and literally lol)

@milili27 3 ай бұрын

@@C_In_Outlaw3817 lol Oh definitely, I’m aware there are people that don’t think like that. It’s never changed who I was, but it’s annoying as an adult when you come across people who expect you to act in a stereotypical manner, or have a specific accent because of the color of your skin.

@eden1909 3 ай бұрын

Well this white b right here thinks you talk just fine. Don't worry about nobody's bs. That's THEIR problem, it ain't yours. And don't you forget that. 💛

@Walksonthesky 3 ай бұрын

I was judged for this my whole life by people who looked just like me but then it’s something needed when they want me to use my voice over the phone to do certain shit cause unless you see me you can’t tell I’m black just by hearing my voice

@WowJustWow37 3 ай бұрын

The fact that young people are still being teased for speaking proper astounds me!

@jryanr2010 3 ай бұрын

Indeed! I hope that girl doesn't feel bad and is proud of herself. The dialect, or language, is commonly referred to as ebonics but it really just makes people sound uneducated.

@TheBest-zi2fp 3 ай бұрын

@@jryanr2010 Saying someone sounds uneducated because of their accent/dialect is textbook racism.

@jryanr2010 3 ай бұрын

@@TheBest-zi2fpWhat's racist is criticizing someone for sounding too "white" because they speak properly.

@TheBest-zi2fp 3 ай бұрын

@@jryanr2010 “speak properly” girl bye. Go ask the English speakers in the UK (the people who invented the language) if you speak it “properly”. You racist just own it! Stop with the deflecting and whataboutism. You’re not the victim for being called white. Get over yourself and stop ridiculing others for their vernacular and cultural identity.

@Heal627 3 ай бұрын

There's no textbook racism here. She never called them uneducated. She said she gets made fun of for speaking properly... What I got from what she was saying is, "I don't judge them for sounding hood so they shouldn't judge me for sounding 'white.'" From her perspective; she's doesn't sound white. She just sounds like she speaks English. She wishes people would stop viewing her like she's trying to be white when she's not. She is a dark-skinned bw. So she's very aware of her blackness and is insulted at being accused of wanting to be or sound white. That's what she was saying.

@BrainFish82 3 ай бұрын

When will BM stop placing the blame on BW the reason for them dating outside their race. Be with who you want but please leave BW out of it, focus on your preferences

@rubywarner34 3 ай бұрын

Thank you!👏🏾 Leave us alone. Date whomever the hell you want.

@bigbiafra5288 3 ай бұрын

Goofy standards are for goofy people and some of y'all definitely fit that description.

@BrainFish82 3 ай бұрын

@@bigbiafra5288 goofy response. most BM are absent fathers, and the most incarcerated because they don’t hold themselves accountable for their decisions and point the finger, just like he did in this video.

@banquetbaby 3 ай бұрын

Yeah I agree it's crazy how people say they like someone based on dislike of others. Say it's okay and leave it at that

@JosephineSimmons776 3 ай бұрын

Y’all are the reason tho like the standards and behaviors just look at BW in the media that’s just embarrassing 😅

@laustin2832 3 ай бұрын

Saying black women’s standards is too high is madness lol. Most of the time they want to know someone is intentional, not stringing them along, not playing games, and will be the person they present themselves as.

@Babyyoshi_ 3 ай бұрын

80% of them don't have standards whatsoever 😂

@TheOMGRamen 3 ай бұрын

@@Babyyoshi_You met 80% out of all black women? Sit down.

@Ecofriendlyant 3 ай бұрын

@@TheOMGRamen You're saying this under a comment generalizing men..

@BubbleGumBxtch 3 ай бұрын

@@Babyyoshi_unfortunately that’s true more and more women are coming out talking about how they haven’t been courted by men in their whole dating lives it’s sad. Black men don’t want to take black women out and because a lot of girls are now demanding it, now the standards are too high 🙄 we can’t win

@Babyyoshi_ 3 ай бұрын

@@Ecofriendlyant comprehension is lost on some

@marinablackwell8055 3 ай бұрын

I love how the first black boy gets explained to why these black men are not being chosen by the last black man from New Orleans. These women are ready to have a life and you’re playing. They’re standards are not too high honey. Your self-worth is too low.

@joannelee8735 3 ай бұрын

I noticed that! I appreciate that, I wonder if the person who curated these clips did that intentionally

@pohefan3461 3 ай бұрын

Both can be true. Black women do have too high of standards and some black men aren't worth it. But let's not pretend.

@NoRevengeNeeded 3 ай бұрын

Exactly!!

@NoRevengeNeeded 3 ай бұрын

He just admitted other races have low self worth

@kurayamaking6425 3 ай бұрын

Nah, I think the biggest thing missed is he said average, and he considers himself to be the average, which is good he's in school and getting himself a future. A lot of black women would probably bypass him for someone established or a little be more established with status. Most black college women will be with someone of the other race and still clown us when we do the same.

@bdbnation413 3 ай бұрын

Being ghetto isn’t cute is probably my favorite one in this video. I always thought that growing up

@GameOnShanny 3 ай бұрын

Sagging needs to go. I've always hated that. It's gross.

@bdbnation413 3 ай бұрын

@@GameOnShanny I swear! My dad did it when I grew up so I did it for a while then my grandfather talked to me about how stupid it was and stopped that fast.

@Ivan_is_still_alive_trust_me 3 ай бұрын

@@GameOnShannySeriously. It's not even cool anymore, it's outdated 😂

@Messy320 3 ай бұрын

@@GameOnShannykid you not a dude in my class would sag his pants WITH A BELT ON!! I couldn’t wrap my head around it 😭

@Kayla-qv5un 3 ай бұрын

@@bdbnation413im glad you had your granddad. People love saying “oh there mustve been no dad in the home” well sometimes the dad gives the wrong guidance.

@genesislogan7793 3 ай бұрын

1st guy made it extremely apparent what type of black girls he goes for and why they keep rejecting him. someone else who's a student and is working on themselves financially will understand that regardless of race. but i'm glad to see more ppl dating outside of their race bc no one should feel like they can't

@Gr0ot 3 ай бұрын

Yeah. I was going to say the same thing. It isn’t like he is wrong, at the same time he definitely is in a situation where he’s simply broke, has bare minimum aspirations, and most likely the females he’s going for have at least one thing that’s going for them.

@simpicusmaximus 3 ай бұрын

I don't understand why yall are faulting him as if what he said is wrong.

@bigbiafra5288 3 ай бұрын

Y'all still waiting huh?

@genesislogan7793 3 ай бұрын

@@simpicusmaximus im not faulting him at all. simply stating that if the black women he's encountering are requiring more than he can currently provide , it could be possible that he's reaching outside of his grasp. there are plenty of black women who aren't seeking as much , maybe he just hasn't met them yet or he isn't checking for them 🤷🏽‍♀️ but it's just a bit silly to say that a whole race of women are asking for too much considering we're all individuals with individual wants and needs

@genesislogan7793 3 ай бұрын

@@Gr0ot exactly i don't think he's wrong , just a bit close minded. if he opened up his perspective, he would see that not all black women are the same and maybe his mind would change. that's not to say that there's anything wrong with him wanting to date outside of his race. his reasoning for it is just a bit ignorant to me

@purplesky99876 3 ай бұрын

Watch the standards be, "communication, commitment, goals, be nice" basic stuff like that and they still can't do it. If I were a woman of another race, I'd be offended that a man is dating me because he thinks I don't have high standards. Luckily, I found a black man who respects me vice versa, we are not perfect but we always try our best for one another.

@sipi2009 3 ай бұрын

Right? It's straight up pathetic they're blaming their own inadequacies on other people.

@geneclover7748 3 ай бұрын

Y’all know that’s not what he talking about

@psio4213 3 ай бұрын

@@geneclover7748 so what is he talking about? Yes some black women are high maintenance but so are some women of every race. It’s make no sense to stop dating black women when the issue you’re having is about personality, not physical attraction. And don’t tell me it’s all or most black women, because you don’t know all or most black women. No one does.

@rissk9884 3 ай бұрын

Yeah, as a Latina, that dude is stup¡d for thinking that other races ask for little. I don't know about white people, but god, Latinas and Asian women demand a lot from their partners and we consider it the standard. If you cry to pay for a date you are definitely not ready for the average Latina lol

@sarahcooper29 3 ай бұрын

EXACTLY!!!!!!

@Lost-mb1gj 3 ай бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with dating outside of your race but that first guy is doing it out of hate for certain black women. You should date outside of your race because you like that person and not out of spite.

@Sasu123456789x1 3 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

@cellular7881 3 ай бұрын

Who said it was spite? Wasn’t the first guy so idk where u got that from

@TuberoseKisser 3 ай бұрын

@@cellular7881 no but context clues did

@AfiOyeTheNurse 3 ай бұрын

Facts

@partingalano 3 ай бұрын

L😂L never heard women saying this to "divestors" 😂😂😂😂

@chrisLopez05 3 ай бұрын

The girl on racism is speaking facts. That conversation is never gonna be had. You can be racist.

@childfreechick2980 Ай бұрын

You cannot be racist without the systemic power to oppress. You can be prejudiced, which is also bad, but not racist.

@VickyOlanike 7 күн бұрын

Girl, stop trying to change the definition of something. That’s not the definition of racism. Anyone of any race can be racist. Facts.

@RealTakerslady 3 ай бұрын

As a white woman, I don’t think I ever hear other races besides black say their women expect too much. Very sad plight of black men letting down black women.

@Spid4rsw3bz 3 ай бұрын

Everyone hates black women. Only a small percentage of people don't care but majority do.

@madeinhisimage9277 3 ай бұрын

👏🏽

@vexywexypoo 3 ай бұрын

I think it's just a common thing for immature men to say. They typically use it to fetishize women of other races or ethnicities.

@haywoodjablowmi1427 3 ай бұрын

True. And imagine signaling to all the other races of women you date them because you think they have low standards… does he think it’s attractive ? Idk maybe it’s just me but it sounds weird lol

@shamachelon 3 ай бұрын

We are all damaged. And saying outside our race would further destroy us. But hey, Hosea 4:6

@bri-127 3 ай бұрын

the first dude mad a black girl didn’t like him and now he’s gonna make it everyone’s problem

@christianagallow7383 3 ай бұрын

The first guy has a problem within himself and tried to make it the black woman’s fault like they always do. If you prefer other races then just say that don’t try and put black women down. Every race of women can have high standards. Be so for real. Like we’ve been saying do whatever you want just leave us out of it. We’re not your escape goat as to why you don’t like your own ethnic group.

@yucol5661 3 ай бұрын

“We are in school, we are students, we can’t compete with that”. Man is literally inserting himself for “black men”. Makes it clear “black women” are mainly just women who won’t date him.

@aizenonfleek5590 3 ай бұрын

He probably tried to date the ones that always have hair and nails and be wanting to go to expensive places and always shopping

@quinnykayy4356 3 ай бұрын

@@aizenonfleek5590Yup just like any other race of women that like those things but for some reason it’s too much it Black women want it😅

@julybaby8523 3 ай бұрын

@aizenonfleek5590 he probably ignores the down to earth girls

@markcurry3083 3 ай бұрын

So if non black women accept him but black women dont… he’s the problem, not the group of women rejecting him when other groups of women are cool with him? Please make it make sense you bozos

@tadiwachirima858 3 ай бұрын

We need to have a conversation about how black men try to push mediocrity on high achieving black women. Like instead of keeping it pushing and finding someone who is both your preference and within your wage range, you try to get someone who’s in a higher tax bracket to settle for you because you like the aesthetic of that person. It’s a difficult truth to accept but nevertheless you still have to accept it.

@kamilledeas6890 3 ай бұрын

THIS ‼️

@luthandooupa5108 3 ай бұрын

but we can all agree some explanations are over inflated in our society

@tadiwachirima858 3 ай бұрын

@@luthandooupa5108 Would you elaborate on what you mean?

@nglaw5706 3 ай бұрын

There is NOTHING wrong with Black men (or women) dating outside of their race. The issue is when you bash (punch down) on your race as the reason for dating others or others only. As for commitment. If you as a man (or woman) know you aren't ready or do not want a relationship /commitment. . say that. Say it loud with your whole chest and ten toes down. Don't say no relationship but display (or accept) relationship behavior. I can recall being teased for "talking white" as a kid.

@dreajp 3 ай бұрын

LOVE ALL THIS but yes people need to communicate better. I'm so tired of people not communicating.

@username_882 3 ай бұрын

"I like to date outside my race because I assume women of other races will allow me to disrespect and mistreat them"

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

"Disrespect and mistreat them" He didn't say that but you felt really comfortable accusing him of it. Proving his point.

@angrykio 3 ай бұрын

He didn't say that but he most definitely hinted at it. And watch the girl that said no, her standards were probably commitment, honesty, love and don't cheat. He said yeah that's too hard for me. And from experience I've dated a bm before and it was very very bad I'll say. I had to get out of that situation fast! But he told me he dates out of our race because other women are easier to control and do what he wants of them. But with bw it's harder to get us to blindly submit.

@username_882 3 ай бұрын

@@Shockguey dude said on camera that black women's standards are too high, generalizing an entire demographic based on his opinion. There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial relationships and dating. But writing off an entire race of women because they're sick of being treated like they're disposable is just ignorant. Black women, and women in general, do not need a man to spoil them or support them financially. We as a gender are very proud that we can be self-reliant. So if those are the standards he meant, he's been talking to girls, not women.

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

@@username_882 Generalizing an entire demographic based on his subjective experience. Which people do all the time, especially black people. Which is why both you and him are talking about "dating outside of our race" as a POSITIVE heuristic. You, just like him, are making a Pro-Interracial Coupling argument based on your dislike of black men. "because they're sick of being treated like they're disposable" And the response is to just step over them right? Nobody said a word when people pointed out all the misogyny in Hip-Hop in the 90's but NOW it's a problem? It wasn't just black men fostering it, it was black women as well. Dating gangbangers, having their kids, et cetera. A culture doesn't just exist in an ether.

@KaylaL830 3 ай бұрын

Yea he’s very ignorant and this only problem I have with BM. I wish other races of women would catch on cuz most BM think like this. They think other races are easier to date due to lower standards and that’s sad af. Like Black women have unreasonable standards gtfo sir!

@chunli1143 3 ай бұрын

if anything our standards aren’t high enough we still #1 for single family homes and being single mothers so that can’t be right keep raising the standards yall. protect your peace and your PH

@Chelelinda 3 ай бұрын

Constant battle of the sexes in the black community. The self hate is real y’all. Enough of this you guys are beautiful people.

@sipi2009 3 ай бұрын

Right? Even as a white person the divide between them is quite clear and saddening.

@xxarianahiltonxx5116 3 ай бұрын

Right. It's not right.

@victorias5272 3 ай бұрын

Is it truly a battle? If you watch these videos it’s mostly the men talking negatively about relationships with BW, not Vice Versa. That sounds less like a battle and more like bullying.

@Chelelinda 3 ай бұрын

@@victorias5272 when it comes to these videos, I would agree to that, however, if you look on social media. I tend to notice whether it’s black media outlets, or just pages with black celebrities in regards to who they date I noticed that tends to be a battle between the two genders in the black community.

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

@@victorias5272 Dude there's black women talking ish on BM in this very comment section.

@hellkittyninja7237 3 ай бұрын

I don't see anyone else commenting on the woman saying, "Black people are just as racist as white people." I agree with her and the last woman who said, "Just because you talk more educated and proper doesn't mean you're white washed." These two things go together. I also don't believe acting ghetto is cute, but that's my personal preference. It's an interesting short, thank you for sharing.

@DirigiblePlum 3 ай бұрын

No one is talking about it probably because of the target audience of this channel. The interviewer even censored the word "white." Says alot.

@DaeFranklin 3 ай бұрын

Cuz it’s not true we don’t own the system and we can’t use the system to be racist to the point we control where yt people eat, sleep, work, and live… we didn’t enslave yt plp … we didn’t create Jim Crow laws… black people can definitely be prejudice but not racist💯

@sariyah8672 3 ай бұрын

Yes, it’s okay for black men to date other races, it’s not okay when black men bash black women and say that’s why they date other races, the standards black women have raised for black men are high because the standard for black women have always been high, not too loud, but not quiet, not ghetto but a little hood, I understand where black men come from but understand where we come from too

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

"Not ghetto but a little hood" Lmao

@markcurry3083 3 ай бұрын

Any kind of standard men have is “bashing” women according to these morons

@blaackberry 3 ай бұрын

First dude tweakin 🤣🤣🤣 Cant open their mouths without bringing us up jfc

@briy-gg8oc 3 ай бұрын

He said black men can’t reach standards other men can🤨it’s giving black women can’t grow long hair

@Tatythrasy 3 ай бұрын

I didn’t even think about like that but ur so right. I saw another person say "it’s crazy how some people’s preferences are based off what they don’t like." Which isn’t bad but when taken to extremes like blaming a whole race and gender for why you are lacking as a partner and a person is just sad and ignorant.

@JustMeandGod_ 3 ай бұрын

A lot of them can’t because they just don’t know how to take care of it

@koalabear1984 3 ай бұрын

@@JustMeandGod_the relationship or the hair?

@JustMeandGod_ 3 ай бұрын

@@koalabear1984 the hair

@Chloeeezyyy 3 ай бұрын

@@JustMeandGod_can’t is still inaccurate then 💀

@packnetadaija 3 ай бұрын

That last lady I felt that in my soul!!! Everyone always asked me “why do I talk white?”

@paulpatrong5113 3 ай бұрын

To add to that black business one, just because you're a black business does not mean "I" another black person "have" to support you especially if you make an inferior product.

@heathencake9110 3 ай бұрын

Right. I’ll support black businesses that plan to put back into their communities

@ecstacybrown4255 3 ай бұрын

Im most def with " Making it easier to support black businesses" 💯

@PNW313 3 ай бұрын

How the black business owners supposed to provide for their families because somebody want a hook up?

@ecstacybrown4255 3 ай бұрын

@PNW313 it's not a hook up if we talking reasonable prices but, they can keep selling Bs for $100 thinking imma go broke for sumn when I gotta provide for mine as well 😏🤫😃

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

@@PNW313 Most people already have their clothing rotation. Not only are t-shirts and hoodies a congested market, but everyone already has several. It's just more room taken up in the closet.

@Almond.stars666 3 ай бұрын

@@ecstacybrown4255Small businesses aren’t gonna be cheap like big businesses who can afford to pay 100+ people and not do everything themselves anymore so the labor cost is lower.

@kamilledeas6890 3 ай бұрын

I think when it comes to black businesses we need to get our community more education on business owning cause like I want to support our people but sometimes the wait is too long, the products aren't good quality, and they're over priced. I don't want to blame the owners but we really need some help in this category 😭😭

@dluxunicorn 3 ай бұрын

Saying BW standards are too high, but will live up to those standards for other races of women shows so much self hate in the BM who thinks this way

@luthandooupa5108 3 ай бұрын

true but it's also about appreciation which idont think we have for each other in our black communities

@oberle_natalie 3 ай бұрын

I'm white and my bf is from Puerto Rico.. one thing that just feels so weird is when people will say "aw you guys are such a cute interracial relationship" and its like.. why cant u just say we are a cute relationship?? Why they gotta add in the fact that we are different races.. its fr so weird

@SamTankko 3 ай бұрын

Omg that last girl said the exact comment I was going to make. For some reason, certain Black people hate when other Black people talk proper and are educated then supposedly they’re whitewashed or when that black person doesn’t want to be around the problematic those kind black people they’re whitewashed.

@dolphin8766 3 ай бұрын

Who said y'all sound proper? I'm tired of this argument y'all sound like the stereotypical suburban kid.

@DaeFranklin 3 ай бұрын

Yes I hate that

@darkmoon6226 3 ай бұрын

First dude is way off…bw don’t expect a lot from bm…bm just want somebody to take care of them like a baby…and it’s not even about dating outside the race it’s about disrespecting bw when you do so.

@Blueivy2345 3 ай бұрын

No race wants a man that's a baby.

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

"Like a baby" No, like someone you love. You act like feeding someone is something only slaves do. What is wrong with you?

@TB-jj7ri 3 ай бұрын

@@Shockgueyadults can feed themselves...

@Shockguey 3 ай бұрын

@@TB-jj7ri And they can feed others... Do you have friends?

@TB-jj7ri 3 ай бұрын

@Shockguey "Do you have any friends?" -Says the person who's waiting for someone to feed him like a child. Lol. Grow up.

@TheOMGRamen 3 ай бұрын

If I was the guy holding the mic I'd ask the first guy to elaborate. What does he think is the "high standards" that black women expect? Because depending on his answer it may not be high standards at all or it may be. It will depend on what it even is.

@EntertainerJacks 3 ай бұрын

How are you ready to sleep with someone and exchange souls , but you're not ready for a relationship? May you carry with you what you want. 😅🎉😊

@deathman5678 3 ай бұрын

Because sex is fun and relations aren’t

@des_elise 3 ай бұрын

@@deathman5678then go find one of these nasty women walking the streets for money and don't waste our time

@CupcakeBeauty24 3 ай бұрын

@@deathman5678 sex is fun huh? Tell that to all the men complaining about paying child support or receiving treatment for STD's or HIV.😢 (sex is a very serious thing and should be experienced safely)

@of_all_days 3 ай бұрын

That’s like asking how you’re ready to live on your own when you can only afford an apartment instead of a nice huge house

@simplyk6965 3 ай бұрын

@@of_all_daysno it is not.

@chantal6718 3 ай бұрын

He basically said… I would rather date outside my race so I can stay average 😂😂😂

@markcurry3083 3 ай бұрын

Imagine thinking that the least desirable race of women have higher standards 😂😂

@markcurry3083 3 ай бұрын

Yeah, men of all races are just dying to date high standards black women who statistically 80% of are obese. Totally what men love right? Women are are big as college linebackers😂

@luthandooupa5108 3 ай бұрын

aint nothing wrong with being avarege or normal

@snazzydrew Ай бұрын

honestly mood.

@keirahleesha486 3 ай бұрын

The first guy just proved the point….. you can date outside your race…. It’s when BM sit & use BW as their reason or excuse not to date with tin their own race anymore. Instead of saying “I don’t date black women because black women do XYZ” why couldn’t he have just said “ I date all races & it shouldn’t be a issue because love is love”🫠

@deathman5678 3 ай бұрын

He never said that. He was very specific on what he was talking about

@keirahleesha486 3 ай бұрын

@@deathman5678 gtfo….. he literally says “I hate how black women….” Putting them into a collective. He decided that because a girl is black she will be like how he just stated in video. Like I said before he could have said “ black people should be able to date outside their race”, if was no need to him to add in how black women are “etc etc etc” when he doesn’t know every single black women personally.

@rewghob 3 ай бұрын

That sounds too much like sanity! I believe this kid is just parroting male podcast talking points. Someone probably expected him to pay for the date when he asked them out and that set him off. Truthfully, a lot of these black men want a girl who is in the top 10% of beauty in whatever environment they're in, but said girl has a huge pool to pick from. Other races of men settle for people who are more their physical, mental and financial equals.

@transgaminggoddesss2463 3 ай бұрын

That first dude I can tell he will give a white asian or Latina girl the world and those be the ones with the highest expectations nowadays black women want a man with a job who doesn’t cheat and can be there emotionally I don’t see how those standards are high when black men require that and even more

@deathman5678 3 ай бұрын

Lies

@transgaminggoddesss2463 3 ай бұрын

@@deathman5678 so then what do they want

@deathman5678 3 ай бұрын

@@transgaminggoddesss2463 phd god-fearing ex drug dealers, who make over six figures, 6 feet tall are emotionally available but not too emotionally available. Can leave them but don’t tell them what to do.

@vibez2806 3 ай бұрын

@@transgaminggoddesss2463bw want way more than that especially when being single mothers

@amanda4realsosoa 2 ай бұрын

Well said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@thtgurlbb 3 ай бұрын

‘Black women have standards and we’re too lazy to do the bare minimum’

@Buffy111000 3 ай бұрын

Lol so don't bitch when they don't date your ass? They not up to your standards anyway so why you care?

@xysarenottheprize 3 ай бұрын

I can’t cheat, disrespect you, and abandon my children? Your standards are too high.

@vibez2806 3 ай бұрын

@@xysarenottheprizeyet women of other races don't have this problem when dating black men... so clearly it ain't about that or else other races would want yall(hint, they don't)

@kusuoken5687 3 ай бұрын

the first dude- y’all can date other races but you’re RARELY ever dating them because you like them as a person, it’s always specifically because you don’t like black women… and y’all literally say that yourselves 💀

@claff4573 3 ай бұрын

all the men talk about is relationships. Does nothing else come in the world come to your small mind.

@Raptorsified 3 ай бұрын

We just want people to come to our funeral.

@Celloman01 3 ай бұрын

It's very valid because there is a trend of men not sticking around long term, and fearing commitment

@crestfire8008 3 ай бұрын

Men 🍼

@sipi2009 3 ай бұрын

Right? Like I've watched like 3 shorts from this channel and like 40% of the back men are talking shat about black women or relationships. And you can literally hear the resentment and negativity in their voice, and it's super ofg putting. MIND YOUR GADDAMN BUSINESS.

@isaa8521 3 ай бұрын

Right? They’re so fing boring and lame.

@PumpkinPieDoll 3 ай бұрын

The last girl my bestie in another life she's adorable too

@Brunette_2005 3 ай бұрын

They will tell you to lower your standards the moment you don’t want a street thug with no future anymore

@rebeccadadork5851 3 ай бұрын

Why couldnt thay young man state that fact without putting black women down! How sad

@kid-ava 3 ай бұрын

I agree with the 3rd girl so much. literaly anyone can be racist and I'm tired of ppl acting like thats not the case 😂

@taylorstreehouse_ 3 ай бұрын

it’s ok for black men to date outside their race as long as it’s ok for black women to date outside theirs…it’s not that deep 😂

@des_elise 3 ай бұрын

Nobody said it was, they're talking about the second part

@rocklesson86 3 ай бұрын

First guy needs reality a check. Our standards are not too high. We just know what we want and are not going to settle.

@vibez2806 3 ай бұрын

"Know what we want" * largest rate of single mothers

@rocklesson86 3 ай бұрын

@@vibez2806 WTF no. Again we know what we want and are not going to settle.

@vibez2806 3 ай бұрын

@@rocklesson86 yeah being baby mothers, lmfaooo

@rocklesson86 3 ай бұрын

@@vibez2806 just no.

@luthandooupa5108 3 ай бұрын

@@vibez2806that right the was a violation😂😂

@SaraH-jn5db 3 ай бұрын

Its ridiculously insulting that using proper grammar is considered anti-black

@teesaayegnala7689 3 ай бұрын

The sagging is so true and so is the racism part,people are trying so hard to instill a victim complex and pretend like blk ppl can’t and aren’t racist like other races,its a human being phenomenon (not saying its ok).

@sking0707 3 ай бұрын

Black people can be prejudiced for sure but we still can’t act upon those prejudices against others as a whole because we lack the power to do so in the USA. So yes black people cant be racist systemically and I believe that’s what most people are meaning.

@kilertyuw 3 ай бұрын

@JakB00h "ya'll don't wanna to hear me you just wanna dance"🙄

@yosephbuitrago897 3 ай бұрын

@@sking0707 prejudice, antagonism, or discrimination towards someone based solely on their race or ethnicity is racism. That’s literally what racism is. I’d you say black people can be prejudiced, and they can be prejudiced to someone solely for their race, then yes, you agree that black people can be racist. Racism and institutional racism are different, everyone can be racist and feel the affects of racism, not everyone can benefit from institutional racism or feel the effects of institutional racism

@zellypenn3784 3 ай бұрын

@@sking0707but racism and systemic are two words that exist without each other. Not All racism is systemic. Racism is under the discrimination umbrella, and under all discrimination exists levels. The levels are: internalized, interpersonal and systemic. To say black people are incapable of being racist - it’s just incorrect. They can treat themselves AND others differently because of their skin color and culture groups. Discrimination literally just means differential treatment based on a set of circumstances. The circumstance with racism is skin color and culture. So yes, everyone can be racist. Not all groups can oppress, but discrimination and oppression are not even close to the same thing

@uwuCaleism 3 ай бұрын

⁠@@sking0707Not the most educated on this as I don’t really care all that much, but I do believe that’s a bit outdated. Y’all have been and are still gaining the power to act upon it.

@spects2263 3 ай бұрын

Aaaaww that last girl must've gone through that. She sounds so soft and cute 😭😭❤️

@PhotoJeticPoet 3 ай бұрын

Man, I couldn't even watch the video through the first dude. Sir what standards are too high? Communication, Commitment, and Monogamy? Ya'll hate when black women want a good person.

@ReachSkyla 3 ай бұрын

Not first dude saying all other women have lower standards and thats why he chooses them 😂 the self own.

@laylasprinkle6632 3 ай бұрын

The last girl is stunningggg❤❤❤❤

@ThatOneSmileyGirl2006 3 ай бұрын

There is nothing wrong with black men liking other races, it’s when those same black men talk down on black women like those same women aren’t who raised them.

@Song_about_a_girl 3 ай бұрын

I cant tell you how many times i was told i talk like a “white” girl. So much so that when i was in middle school I genuinely loathed by black side while also loathing my white side (that being taught by family). It took me until halfway through high school to realize my races (both black and white) are not personality traits, they are a part of who i am and regardless of how i act nothing will change that so be myself at all times.

@Spid4rsw3bz 3 ай бұрын

The first guy just pissed me off😊

@curlylulu9721 3 ай бұрын

1st dude smh. To be at a learning institution and lack that much critical thinking and awareness is astounding 😩

@queenkidd751 3 ай бұрын

The first one is why I don’t date bm idc

@gordshorde 3 ай бұрын

the problem with the small buisness one is often times that's the price they have to charge in order to keep their business open and get food on the table. most small businesses charge the bare minimum. the reason big businesses charge less is because they have access to more automated processes, which cuts labor costs. (theres a lot more to it then just that. but this is the basic idea)

@popejaimie 3 ай бұрын

Fr also isnt $25 a shirt and $60 for a sweatshirt pretty standard? Its been a while since i bought clothes but that's about the kinds of prices i remember and i cant imagine its gone down since then

@gordshorde 3 ай бұрын

@@popejaimie yeah that's pretty standard from what i've seen. hoodies are pricey 🤷

@90ejb 3 ай бұрын

You're absolutely right. People don't realize black businesses have to compensate for the costs of staying open because not Even most can get a business loan, pay the taxes and have reliable staff at the same time. People don't care about the cost except in the black community.

@Chloeeezyyy 3 ай бұрын

@@popejaimiethat is the standard. Black people are disingenuous some times

@peacejoylove8542 3 ай бұрын

Yep, my standards are high because I love myself and take relationships seriously. Go find someone who doesn't love themselves and has time to waste so y'all can play games together, 🤷 and leave the women who's standards are "too high" alone. It's really that easy

@maniibabyy3378 3 ай бұрын

Aww I agree with the last girl!! Same here girl same here

@harleighquinnmekyra 3 ай бұрын

This issue isn't dating outside of your race, the issue is blaming black women for the reason you do. If you don't meet someone's standards that you're interested in, just find someone else. It's their standard you don't meet the requirements no matter how simple or over the top they are.

@Ojdahprnc 3 ай бұрын

The homophobia going on within the community from both men and women.

@thedeed8740 3 ай бұрын

The hatred between our men and women Got men calling black women high maintenance and demanding which is a stupid generalization And we got black women who go out of their way to blame everything on black men being “irresponsible ” and “untrustworthy” Not to mention the bashing on appearance and culture from both sides.

@kamilledeas6890 3 ай бұрын

This 100% the homophobia AND transphobia. Like it's 2024 you'd think our community would be more accepting by now but I feel like religion plays a huge part in that

@Ojdahprnc 2 ай бұрын

@@kamilledeas6890 Agreed and it's no hate against religion, just the way religious people interact. Some genuinely are open minded, but alot are set in their ways which makes it difficult to accept.

@ThinkingWoman30 3 ай бұрын

I felt that last one on a personal level. Use to get bullied in high school for that. And the same way it’s okay for black men to date other races let it be the same for us women. I don’t want to keep hearing awful comments because I’m not dating a black man.

@fuzziebunnie83 3 ай бұрын

I had a black friend in middle school, who loved professional wrestling. His favorite was the undertaker, and I remember the other black kids were so mean to him because he didn’t act a certain way.

@madeinhisimage9277 3 ай бұрын

What expectations do BW have that other races don’t? I am very interested in knowing.

@sungyhere1867 3 ай бұрын

I have some issues with the "make it easier to support black businesses" yes $25-$60 is a lot of money but if the hoodie is actual, GOOD, LONG-LASTING quality then that price range is like the average price across the market also most small businesses are way more ethical then fast fashion labor and Amazon. Fast fashion and cheap prices have ruined people's perception of a product's worth

@NicoliePollieOllie 3 ай бұрын

The guy that said black women standards are too high should probably get off social media and go actually talk to a black woman in real life. And know that one woman's expectation is for someone who can meet them, try someone else

@BigBiteDoughnut 3 ай бұрын

Are they saying women in other countries have low standards.... wow girls see how American men talk about yall?

@luthandooupa5108 3 ай бұрын

no they just have realistic standards not low

@Cryinginthecloudssss 3 ай бұрын

I agree with the speech pattern and being more “proper” when talking. I grew up in the “ghetto” part of my city around a lot of black kids so I started to pick up their dialect and then once I got taken out of my school and but into a “better” school all the white kids made fun of me. they would call me the black Asian of the school and it was an awful time :/ I’m also not even Asian I’m Native American 😭

@AfiOyeTheNurse 3 ай бұрын

A black woman that he didn't even need got this man mad at us all 😂😂😂 relax young king.

@soulfullmystic 3 ай бұрын

I'm loving these shorts and I'm glad people are willing to be honest.

@JenMariApa 3 ай бұрын

I had a friend that her family always put her down, she talked proper and actually studied with me. My mom fed her and even tho we were poor as well, any if my clothes that stop fitting me my mom would give it to her cause she was so skinny. My momma saw how her family treated her and told her they say those things because they are jealous of you. After she got to high school we couldn’t hang out much cause her brother and sister put they hands on me and my mom forbade it. My friend understood and the last I heard she cut off her family she went to school and then got married

@Fashion4We 3 ай бұрын

Or you can just date outside your race without bring up black women. I’m a black woman and I don’t need to blame a black man for why I also choose to date outside of my race

@BunnyGxre 3 ай бұрын

Last girl is so correct bc I speak the same way, but I wouldn’t describe it as proper. African American people speak with their own vernacular just like any other race of people 😭 it’s not IMproper to speak with a different vernacular or accent, it’s just not standard American English. I get what she means though!

@hope3290 3 ай бұрын

Yeah, it's standard English. No such thing as proper when it comes to language, just standard. People need to remove these moralizing descriptions like "proper" from how they talk about standard English. Because it implies any other form of English is "improper" and doesn't deserve to exist.

@somebih7008 3 ай бұрын

Black men talk so much shit about us. Like bruh y’all battling for the top 5 females just like us with men. Get over yourself and work for what you want. Stop bring up what you CANT DO. And just do it brotha💯

@hihello222 3 ай бұрын

I really relate to the last one. In school they used to call me BLACKWHITE (parody of BLACKPINK, a popular music group) because I always “acted white”

@B.BombCherries 3 ай бұрын

That last one hits for me, I was always the one to announce stuff in school got teased for ‘talking white’ then moved to a different place and nobody but the black kids cared about the way I talked

@stefanywashington3994 3 ай бұрын

The last one is so real ! 🩷🩷🩷

@cronagru6595 3 ай бұрын

I'm a black woman who is not sexually attracted to black or any dark skinned race. First guy can correct himself. Black women won't have to just have standards for just black men.

@bigbiafra5288 3 ай бұрын

Imma pray for you.

@M-atk 3 ай бұрын

@@bigbiafra5288Why do you need to pray for her? Just like the man, she doesn't want a dark significant other. I thought everybody was allowed to have a racial preference🤷🏾‍♀️

@banquetbaby 3 ай бұрын

Kinda weird to not have attraction to anyone dark skinned. But to each their own

@yosephbuitrago897 3 ай бұрын

@@banquetbabypreferences, like how many black people have no attraction to white people

@solostrings4056 3 ай бұрын

@@banquetbabyidk. I think it sums up to preference. Like how someone might not like blondes or brunettes. It’s not necessarily believing that blondes/brunettes are lesser people or are unworthy of love, it’s just an aesthetic taste. But again idk, I’ve never been more or less attracted to a specific race. However, I think it would be similar to the case of many young white girls in America being attracted to Korean men, and I’m still on the fence about whether that’s ethical in it’s own right.

@HelloKittyFreak96 3 ай бұрын

That last girl had the cutest, sweetest voice ever ❤

@adoreivette7373 3 ай бұрын

So he's saying other races of women just settle for whatever, but they only get what black women used to get and got tired of it. The sad part is they making them single baby mommas too. Then the last guy from New Orleans proves the point.

@des_elise 3 ай бұрын

That first dude saying black women standards are too high is insane 😂 they should be, and yours should be too

@WabiSabbii 3 ай бұрын

Saying black women want too much from black men is… odd? I’ve never set standards depending on the race of a man like wtf and I married and black man lmao

@bigbiafra5288 3 ай бұрын

If their standards were so high who are they having all these kids with? You need to pay attention to the women thst are actually getting married and pouring into their families instead if the ones tricking.

@90ejb 3 ай бұрын

I've been saying this for years! Thank you

@itsmeayanna 3 ай бұрын

The 1st guy was strange. Date for love and compatibility. However, if you’re a broke college student . Maybe sleeping around and dating may not be in your best financial interests. Regardless of your race.

@aeoligarlic4024 3 ай бұрын

From what i observe the problem is not about black men's preferance in other races. But it's the choosing other races WHILE putting down black women at the same time. You can't watch redpill videos that are 'exposing' bratty women who won't settle for a cheesecake factory date and make blanket satetements on how women in general have unrealisric standards. Most women, black women included, have basic standards when it comes to relationship

@etYouAreLate 3 ай бұрын

The last girl has such a lovely tone to her voice.

@MorningStar-ed2fe 3 ай бұрын

Can we talk about normalizing crocs and flips flops... Like can we bring back shoes in public spaces, crocs and flips should be pool or house shoes

@drbaraka95 3 ай бұрын

You didn’t have to tell us you were from New Orleans we could tell.

@blah914 3 ай бұрын

this first guy is way off. black women expect too little. they dont take repsonsibility forntheir children and it is a disgrace.

@luchiane 3 ай бұрын

We are the only race that gets told our women standards are too high! But bringing virtually everything to the table as a man IS standard in every community but the black one!

@JosephineSimmons776 3 ай бұрын

I’m sorry what that’s a stereotype

@blah914 3 ай бұрын

@@JosephineSimmons776 its a statistic

@JosephineSimmons776 3 ай бұрын

@@blah914 ok what is it called

@deathman5678 3 ай бұрын

@@luchianebecause all the other race can work with their partners to build. Black woman can only take

@AzariahMarinaStarcaster 3 ай бұрын

I relate to that last girl on a spiritual level. I've never had anybody outright say that to me, but I just get the vibe that they felt that way.

@Plixxychan 3 ай бұрын

The first guy made me want to turn the video off lol

@sillymanmcgee 3 ай бұрын

i regret to inform the black-owned-businesses girl that they aren’t expensive because they are black owned, they’re expensive because they are a small business which is ethically compensating themselves. and $25 for a shirt that you’d hypothetically wear for years instead of a plastic $5 shien shirt? not as bad a deal as she’s making it sound.

@hope3290 3 ай бұрын

Right, those prices sounded perfectly reasonable for an ethical small business. People want cheap items but don't understand it's that cheap because big companies use slave labor.

@KExKE 3 ай бұрын

Idk when it comes to the black businesses thing, people are so quick to say that about black businesses, even if they’re offering something good quality, but will turn around and buy something for the same price from a white owned business. Black owned businesses should not have to lower their standards because y’all automatically have low expectations of black people.

@denisecastle4738 3 ай бұрын

From proper to "They be like"😂

@Tealaful 3 ай бұрын

People need to stop using racist in the wrong context. Most of the time they really mean prejudiced. Being prejudiced is somewhat normal because of biases and experiences but being racist is not ok at all. ❤

@heathencake9110 3 ай бұрын

How do you define racism

@Tealaful 3 ай бұрын

@@heathencake9110 hatred of someone because of the color or creed.

@heathencake9110 3 ай бұрын

@@Tealaful what made you think she use prejudice in the wrong context

@keeblertime1486 3 ай бұрын

That one chick talking about making it easier to support black businesses has a lot to learn about what it is to run a business. Especially retail. She needs to open her own store and see how long she stays open making no profit.

@duz_machines_8429 3 ай бұрын

Bro, she's 100% right. That's way too much for a shirt or sweatshirt.

@keeblertime1486 3 ай бұрын

@@duz_machines_8429 Open up your own shop and see how much things actually cost then.

@Chloeeezyyy 3 ай бұрын

@@duz_machines_8429that’s how much they cost, though. Go to your favorite artists website or concert. Same prices.

@Kayvix 3 ай бұрын

I hate the generalizing all black women like you’ve been through every single one like who do you think you are

@MadManH 3 ай бұрын

That last girl was spot on.

@tannakota1846 3 ай бұрын

I agree with the girl who said black people are just as racist as white people. I remember when a friend told me with her whole chest that black people couldn’t be racist to white people. I was so shocked. Every race is capable of racism.