What's For Dinner | Love Languages & Other Questions

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What's For Dinner? This is our weekly video series where we share what we cook and eat for dinner during the week. For this week's menu we have the following:
00:00 Italian Sausage with Pasta
04:00 Grilled Cabbage Steaks & Turkey Burgers
07:50 Griller Jerk Turkey
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@SuziePG 2 жыл бұрын

I rarely comment but felt compelled today. I can't imagine why anyone would think the way the two of you interect with each is fake. It is actually one of the reasons I love to watch the " Whats for dinner " edition. Your love for one another shines through. Even though Todd is much more outwardly affectionate, you balance each other nicely. Thank you for allowing us into you life. ❤️

@egobrain6826 Жыл бұрын

I agree. To me, it is so obviously real.

@Gardengirlie04 2 жыл бұрын

How sad could a persons relationship be if they can’t believe how others genuinely show affection, I agree it’s a genuine loving relationship you two have

@nmdispatchlady 2 жыл бұрын

I have never seen anything out of bounds between you two. What I have seen is a happy, loving, respectful ADULT relationship. Nice to see.

@jessima8053 2 жыл бұрын

I agree 💯 %. It’s refreshing to see

@juliansgma 2 жыл бұрын

You’re always so polite Rachel. Turn a negative into a positive! Who in the world would comment about your relationship being too touchy-feely? Maybe people are envious and instead of posting something positive they post something passive aggressive! You two are absolutely perfect for one another!

@auntdello5286 2 жыл бұрын

Ditto

@tracyzabelle 2 жыл бұрын

There's absolutely nothing wrong with the way that you two interact with each other Everybody should wish for a love like that

@Rosenliebe 2 жыл бұрын

Being able to see how affectionate and caring you both are is one of the things I enjoy the most in your videos. It never feels fake, for me it's exactly the opposite. Thank you for sharing that with us. You are a blessing to this community in so many ways. 🙏🍀💛💛

@kayengland3240 2 жыл бұрын

The best thing we ever did for our marriage was a retreat on Five Love Languages. When we realized what each other’s love language was it made a huge difference. My husband’s is physical touch and mine is acts of service. Our children have grown up watching us be affectionate and they can see that we love each other. Keep on showing your love for each other.

@melissawilliams7819 2 жыл бұрын

I love the affection you have for each other. My husband’s primary love language is also physical touch (mine is acts of service). We’ve been married for 24 years, and are still always holding hands, kissing, or just wanting to be near each other. Our kids have long since leaned to put up with Mom and Dad’s PDAs. 😆 We’re in our forties, and often reflect that we hope other couples who have been together so long still love to be around each other as much as we do. I’m so glad the two of you obviously do!

@sylviabradley7355 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way Todd spontaneously touches you.

@terrym.2264 2 жыл бұрын

I so appreciate your vulnerability. It is refreshing to see a couple who loves each other. Touch is a basic human need. Those who say it’s fake might be missing touch in their relationship. My Husband and I Celebrated 49 years of marriage this year and I am so grateful for the love we share and we each love to touch. It communicates so much volume in who we are just like a wink or smile does. Love your questions also. God Bless you both. ♥️♥️

@lindagraff2484 2 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with being touchy, it's nice to see.

@patriciawilson6524 2 жыл бұрын

I think it's GREAT to see a couple that still LIKE and LOVE each other. Gosh keep on .

@jillbritton2676 2 жыл бұрын

My primary live language is also touch so I totally get it. We hold hands sitting in the couch or in the car. My husbands love language is acts of service so I always make his coffee for him in the morning and I make his plate for him at dinner. He takes my plate to the sink after we eat and he opens my door for me all the time. It’s a give and take

@laurielyon1892 2 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this video, and not just because of the food. You two just seem so perfectly fit for each other. Todd with his loving touches is wonderful! You can see when he looks at you that he loves you, he encourages you in all that you do, but you also encourage him with what he does. I love that you both work together, in the garden, with the cooking etc. I'm looking forward to seeing what happens on your property in your year of rest. I'm glad you mentioned about not getting too busy with the other projects so that you don't truly rest because I'm afraid you could miss out on some of the blessing that I believe you will receive next year.

@ms.royahrens8777 2 жыл бұрын

I think you two are wonderful. My husband works so hard in fulfilling what I’d like or want. He’s not so much outward showing his love-but I see how much he loves me in the things he does for me and how he provides for me. I work hard at home and have learned to can, learning how to grow things, and raise chickens for eggs, and rabbits for meat. My husband still works full time at age 69 driving semi’s; and is gone all week. We do lots of projects together on the weekends when he is home. We work and rest well together-we are just getting started in our new homesteading adventure; so it will be awhile before we can take much of a break, but I hope we at least get to go fishing soon!!! Thanks for sharing!

@azdesertrat9104 Жыл бұрын

My late hubby was a spooner and gave the best hugs ever! I miss those hugs everyday! You are blessed to have a spouse whose love language is touching. That's so authentic. You two are SO cute! That's what real love looks like! 😊

@auntdello5286 2 жыл бұрын

Sheesh! It makes me happy to see a happy couple! Rachel, thank you for addressing this in such a kind way. Also, thank you for the supper💡's. I am always wondering what other people are having for dinner.

@HeatherCooan 2 жыл бұрын

What the heck!? I hope all couples have as much effection and happiness with their spouse that you both have! It's very obvious that you have a very deep friendship and love for each other. 💛💛

@rebeccaorozco8222 2 жыл бұрын

Love watching you two! It's wonderful to see a couple In love and working towards the same goals ! So love on each other all you can! and don't listen to those who don't like it! Bc it's about you two and the story you are building together ❤️ ✨️

@loriy7532 2 жыл бұрын

Don't ever change..The way you look at each other says it all.... God Bless

@sisselsworld 2 жыл бұрын

In one of my earlier comments I thanked you for showing each other affection. I am a touch person too. We have been married for 20 years now, and we still hug and kiss each other, even in public. How can anyone think that you are fake when you do that? That’s ridiculous!

@stephgoldhenritze 2 жыл бұрын

My partner and I are the exact same way. People always ask us why we are so lovey dovey… because we like each other? We are best friends? He’s cute? Who cares! Mind your business! Lol

@j.shelton6977 2 жыл бұрын

Your relationships with each other and your children are amazing! Life goals!!

@Truelaine1 Жыл бұрын

I like that yall are affectionate. It looks like a loving, solid relationship to me.

@ArkansasSquaw 2 жыл бұрын

84 degrees sounds WONDERFUL!!! Sitting here in the 101° south! Lol.

@frenchhenvt2418 2 жыл бұрын

The way he looks at you melts me everytime. Goals.

@kd5499 Жыл бұрын

You can truly see how much he loves you.

@savannahsilli 2 жыл бұрын

I could answer Todd's love language before he even answered hahah I already knew from watching your videos so often!

@rachelmick4051 2 жыл бұрын

You are a shining example of what a happy relationship looks like. I will just pray for those who don't recognize love when they see it!

@sheridietz989 2 жыл бұрын

I think it's great that you show affection to each other. It's possible they are jealous that you have something they don't.

@yvonnefishburn683 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way you both show affection towards one another.

@imsharonl2 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you love each other! Nothing but pure sweetness💕💕

@Carol-tx2gi 2 жыл бұрын

People are so weird! Your relationship is so lovely 💕 Most women would love the touches Todd gives and the affection he has towards you and you in him. I’m so thankful that I follow a couple that loves God and each other, whom I can learn from. Please keep being authentic.. love you guys!

@anapaulacrawford5837 2 жыл бұрын

People just think whatever, none of they business , i totally think you guy's are great on what you do as a couple and your life preferences. Thank you for what you do ! God bless!

@craftlover9702 2 жыл бұрын

I've never seen you guys as fake!! I can clearly see the love that is between you both and I think it's awesome the way you both connect with each other!! I would love to be so blessed!!

@samblack4616 2 жыл бұрын

You two are wonderful! Keep being you and know that we are grateful for your authenticity 💗 Touch is absolutely a beautiful aspect of a healthy relationship 💗

@christinanoel2677 2 жыл бұрын

The way you two are is exactly how my husband and I are toward each other! It doesnt look at all fake, at least not to me. It is nice to see the same thing online in this ugly world that we have in our home. LOVE!

@harringtoncindy81 2 жыл бұрын

I love that you Two are just being yourself . Keep doing what you're doing. Loving your channel and learning lots.

@tinamincheski2195 2 жыл бұрын

Just as a garden needs to lay fallow at times...so does the gardener. !

@paulahensley9583 2 жыл бұрын

I enjoy all of your videos. Nothing wrong with showing Love , my husband and I have been married 35 yrs and still hold hands. What the word needs now is love sweet sweet love. I think some people are jealous of love.

@sassycat9871 Жыл бұрын

I love how he looks at her! Melts my heart

@cottagerose6012 2 жыл бұрын

I’m in my 60’s and my husband is a touching person also we’ll be in a store and he’ll just come up and hug me or grab my behind and we get stares not so nice. I think people are missing life and not enjoying each other enough. I think your a loving and understanding couple and it’s beautiful. 😊

@moakley60 Жыл бұрын

You definitely can see the love that you two share! Don’t pay any mind to those who make rude comments.

@joannawillett3885 2 жыл бұрын

I took 2 years away from gardening, even all the fruit bushes I just left for the birds etc. It was really lovely to come back this year with a new found incentive and enthusiasm for growing and preserving again. It will be good for you Rachel, enjoy the rest. Xx

@kelseycottrell1896 Жыл бұрын

Interestingly, I just started watching your videos. My husband walked in in the middle of one of your videos, and within two or three minutes, he said "wow, that's a really genuine couple who really care about each other". Coming from a happy 15 year marriage :) those naysayers don't know what they're talking about!

@jeredasnyder2479 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE your weekly meals videos. Yes-my momma’s heart is most full too when my children are home.

@katieburns1119 Жыл бұрын

Me and my husband are both a touchy feely couple too. Lol Physical touch, quality time and words of affirmation are big ones for us.

@madesimplyathome953 2 жыл бұрын

Rachel as soon as you asked him the question, I screamed it’s touch! I like you am not a touch person but my hubby is. I knew it wasn’t fake and find it to be enduring.

@pikecreekfarm 2 жыл бұрын

I always thought it was sweet when he touches your shoulder/back when you sit down to eat after working all day. It is a wonderful thing and never came across as fake. I’m in a second marriage and we are both make an effort to express our love and be together

@cbolton3590 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this video. I hope you incorporate more question asking and answering!!

@coolstamper 2 жыл бұрын

I’m brand new on your channel today and I LOVE that you are demonstrative with each other. OMGosh…more couples SHOULD touch each other. I can tell from one day seeing you…the way you look at each other and the touching…it’s obvious you love each other. It’s these very things that too many couples today don’t do. God bless you both and your happy marriage!!! 🇺🇸🥰🇺🇸

@leatonyaking1 2 жыл бұрын

I love how affectionate you guys are and I agree the best time I have is when all my children are home and enjoying themselves.

@catherinekelly4045 2 жыл бұрын

You too are just lovely! Don't change who you are.

@wendyullstrom1351 2 жыл бұрын

Plant beautiful flowers 🌸 in your green stalk

@pennynewell3459 2 жыл бұрын

Rachel, I wore glasses since the age of 7, 15 years ago I had Lasik surgery, at age 54, best thing I have ever done.

@heathermiddleton4958 2 жыл бұрын

You two are perfect together. My husband and I are the same. We've been married for 34 years.

@djot1745 2 жыл бұрын

Loved the music choice during the sausage noodle dish. I wish our highs were in the 80'S. Our low temps at night has been in the mid 80's. We have been 102 with even higher heat index. It has been brutal! Part of my enjoyment of your videos is the affection you show each other. We should ALL be shocked that there are rude comments about normal behavior. Sadly some people aren't shocked over rude comments because they are too busy making them. SHM! I do like that you pointed out the rude comment. :)

@melissamiller7712 2 жыл бұрын

I have not once thought that the touching was weird or anything other than affection! My goodness, it is sweet as all get out.

@melissamiller7712 2 жыл бұрын

Furthermore I’ll add that I admire greatly your blended family and often use you both as an example for what is possible!

@bflogal18 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I cannot walk past each other without touching. We kiss and hug throughout our day. It’s been that way for almost 30 yrs, so something must be working!

@joescott3393 2 жыл бұрын

I personally watch your channel because you two are so affectionate towards each other. I LOVE IT. My wife is from China and we were married in China. We are the same way. Even if I just saw her 30 minutes ago I would have to tell her or show her some affection. She says that is why she fell in love with me. Unfortunately when Canada was about to give us the OK for her to come to Canada, COVID happened. I was so angry but it will even be better when she does arrive here. Never change in what you do. Sometimes I even wonder how the 60% that stay married actually stay married. Most people do not understand that affection for your spouse is actually the glue that holds the couple together. God Bless Joe Scott Muddy Dog Ranch

@gailpetchenik3048 2 жыл бұрын

Touch💕…I luv it. My husband has been gone for 7 yrs now 💔 & I still long for his touch. We were very “touchy “. So I luv seeing u 2 luv on each other.

@PamelaFlater 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely enjoy seeing a healthy affectionate relationship. We should all be so lucky. I love watching y'all, you're so sweet. so glad I found your channel.

@Azkat1969 Жыл бұрын

I just found y'all not too long ago.. last summer i think.. you both are simply amazing and it's a pure joy to watch you both share all this. I feel blessed, I've learned so much from you!!

@wishiwuzahomestead6338 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a brand new subscriber here 👋and I think y'all are adorable. My husband is more affectionate than me as well. He's always hugging me, patting me or holding my hand. It's very sweet. ❤ Keep on being you and showing a great example of a happy marriage!

@elizabeth1234.. 2 жыл бұрын

As someone who's love language is physical touch and gifts and mine is very acts of service I LOVE seeing a healthy happy marriage. Especially now that we live somewhere hot it has its even more effort for me. But we've taken to casual caresses or butt pokes to show our affection

@cretialaisure6804 2 жыл бұрын

I have noticed and adore the affection between you. Those who have negative things to say are just jealous. Don't let it bother you, nor let them effect the way you relate to each other on camera.

@juliehowell8251 2 жыл бұрын

I love how you relate to each other in your videos! It makes me sad for those who can't see what a healthy relationship looks like... It's funny how people can be so different in how they see things but when watching you two interact I just see two people enjoying each other's company! God bless 🌼

@noradora3903 2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness. I can’t understand why people feel the need to comment on your relationship or their perception of your relationship. Some people need a life. I enjoy your content. Keep up the good work!

@lillykat86 2 жыл бұрын

Your video's make me smile the whole time, such a beautiful couple and I enjoy your content!

@robynhecht7074 Жыл бұрын

You two are awesome together ❤ I was just telling my hubby (of 40 years) how you two are together, and when Todd looks at you he absolutely adores you! Anyone with eyes can see the ❤️ and there’s nothing FAKE about it! Although sometimes it looks like Todd wants to drag you into the other room 😂 jkjk I just found your channel the other day and have been binge watching it 😄 Keep doing what you’re doing Rachel & Todd, we love you 🥰

@jamibrackeen7789 2 жыл бұрын

I love seeing your close and loving relationship. The world would be a better place with more couples like you setting the example! ❤️

@maxxs118 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I are the same way, even after his stroke 2 years ago. He isn't the same person he was but he is still in there somewhere. We are still affectionate, we still hug in passing, kiss in passing, we hold hands etc. He's my best friend and has been for 25 years. I feel sorry for those who think this is fake, and as someone who has this same type of relationship, I can clearly see its very real. ❤️❤️❤️

@CosmopolitanCornbread 2 жыл бұрын

I just had to come back and rewatch this one to see about that cabbage recipe. ;) also… my husband is drooling over that grill.

@imaprepper1866 2 жыл бұрын

Rachael, my husband touched me all the time. This is the way he showed his affection toward me. He passed away 3yrs. Ago and that is the one thing I really miss.There are days I cry for that touch. I know one day I will be rewarded when we are together again.

@interestedobserver9352 2 жыл бұрын

Really, I am amazed that anyone would have anything negative to say about physical affection displayed with decorum and respect! I am also very physical in that sense and I get where Todd is coming from - this is a second marriage for us both and my husband was not used to that in marriage, but here we are in our later years, after 24 years of marriage, feeling very comfortable being physically affectionate and always appropriately when others are around. It's nice to grow old with someone whose touch is comforting. I hope it always is that way for you both.

@angiehorn3280 2 жыл бұрын

Y'all are amazing. Some people are just looking for something to complain about.

@LittleMountainRanch 2 жыл бұрын

I would love to have you guys up here whenever you feel like taking a trip and I’ll show you the ranch in person! Also, you two are my favourite thing on KZfaq these days.❤️

@susanrud2162 2 жыл бұрын

I’m learning so much from watching your videos. You both share so much knowledge with cooking, gardening and homesteading. Your relationship with each other is so loving and it shines through and gives me hope! You two are a wonderful example of how good a marriage can and should be! Keep doing what you do!

@sylviahunt3419 2 жыл бұрын

I have never noticed anything that was inappropriate for public display of affection with you two. Anyone saying otherwise can stop watching your videos if they don’t like a married couple showing loving affection for one another. They sound like they’re either prudes or they’re jealous. Ignore them. You both stay the way you are. I personally love how you two show your love for one another.

@denisebrady6858 2 жыл бұрын

Wow !! Hey Todd me too I am a touchy person xx I loved this video because it shows that your BEAUTIFUL relationship / marriage is a PARTNERSHIP. One of my older sisters said to me "Don't be lazy & expect Gary (husband) to do washing & house chores & my answer was "Where is the signed paper that said I was the housekeeper". We share all the chores & like Todd- Gary is my Husband & Partner. Cheers Denise- Australia

@deborahrutherford5244 Жыл бұрын

Little Mountain Ranch is one of my favorite. Whippoorwillholler, and a hole lot of others.

@No.1R3dneck Жыл бұрын

You guys are just amazing! Just continue being you! If anyone doesn't like it., they don't have to watch! I think everyone should inspire to be like the two of you! So happy and healthy! You have to have a fun loving relationship to survive! Otherwise, who are you really? You can't be a good husband or wife by not challenging each other! My dad always told us that she will teach him how to be a good husband and he will teach her how to be a good wife! Words of wisdom! Never change who you are!

@cathysmiley6798 2 жыл бұрын

Shine on xxx!

@UrbanCountryStyleByJudy 2 жыл бұрын

I love these what’s for dinner episodes! The loving banter between the two of you is truly inspiring ❤️ Another cabbage idea: place lightly seasoned cabbage steaks under a chicken when you roast it. It almost melts in your mouth and is so delicious!

@theresagreen3253 2 жыл бұрын

I think you two are so loving and so affectionate and love seeing it💜💜

@kareneakers9540 2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s awesome that you touch each other after all you are married 😊 It show that you have a great love for each other and you care a lot about your spouse, and I think if you really and truly love each other it’s gonna show! I have a great marriage and I really thank God for that! Love your videos! Keep up the good work and God bless! 😊

@vickihogan4398 2 жыл бұрын

Your red glasses are my favorite!

@jenedge5579 2 жыл бұрын

Omg, did that beautiful cabbage come off your green-stalk? I know what you mean...my young adult children got together for a meal on their own. Made me so happy.

@Ycanti 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this format, please keep them coming

@pennynewell3459 2 жыл бұрын

Love y’all’s relationship, and the affection you show each other.

@lindateal1111 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE seeing you guys touch. it's so affectionate and warm. I'm a touch person and my husband is not as much. I therefore love to see it.

@daydreambeliever6603 2 жыл бұрын

We drove to Whispering Pines Bulk Food and Country Store today. Pretty rural area and a cool place.

@bonitafloyd3581 2 жыл бұрын

I simply LOVE that you two show natural affection towards each other. Not for a moment have I thought it was fake. Maybe my mind doesn't go there. Glad you are continuing to display affection eventho some have shared negative comments. 💞

@pennycricket2294 2 жыл бұрын

How odd that someone would question the affections of others. My husband and I are so much like the two of you. I know I have mentioned this before but so true! We are very physical in our relationship. We hold hands, hug and kiss even in public. Glad we are not the only ones

@centraltexashomestead-mike4956 2 жыл бұрын

Todd & Rachel your cooking segments are great! I'm going to grill up cabbage steaks like that, great idea. I don't think I'm patient enough to film like yawl do. We really enjoy what's for dinner. 48 deg????????? WOW yesterday it was 110 and the next 10 days 102 to 106. We did a garden update this weekend and our season was real bad and it's over until Sept. Very healthy relationship, we are the same. I tend to make Rochelle laugh all the time as well. A year off for the Sabbath is good for the soul as well as time for yawl and the soil to rest. Great video and God Bless. Mike