ayoo hahahah

Your in-laws are most definitely exceptions to the rule

@@ParisAlxandr Yeah, I'm very blessed. My Japanese family really does love me, and I them.

僕と僕のフィアンセは少し同じですけど時々で俺の日本語の経験が難しい思う。N4とN3の証明書が必要んです。ビザの為にだよ。😅もし、俺の日本語は違うたら、正解教えてください。📖😎

@@Ogre745 あなたたちはふつコミュニケーションでなんの語でか?

Was nice chatting with you

You can share to orders to watch too

What’s different and what’s similar?

@@joseph3036 My parents in law have been very welcoming and very accepting of me. From the beginning (even before we had a child together), my in laws was super excited to teach me the old time Japanese customs that was popular during their upbringings. Their way of teaching me was to invite me to part take in those activities. I guess that was also their way of opening up to me and allowing us to become closer despite the language barrier. Within my first year of living in Japan, my father in law and I traveled to Kyoto on new years day to visit the temple that his ancestors are buried at after we prepared and ate mochi. He also been somewhat like my advisor on my business ventures ever since I arrived. Because of this I never felt like I wasn’t accepted fully. Im not sure if Sharon doesn’t feel fully accepted by his in laws (or if thats just a belief he has about in laws in general) but thats definitely not a feeling I’ve experienced since moving here. Off topic but somewhat related, majority of the time I feel accepted as a foreigner in Japan. For the most part Japanese people have a strong sense of showing respect- its kinda embedded in their culture and def reflected in their language as well. While learning Japanese foreigners should learn keigo (masu and desu) form of saying things in order to show respect, appreciation and to talk respectfully to someone you are not that close too. People use keigo when they talk to me even though Im a foreigner. Having said that, no country is perfect so theres definitely flaws to living out here as a foreigner as well. It’s true that when men graduate in Japan they typically commit (long term) to a particular company and there is definitely this concept of a working man in Japan who provides financially. But my wife sees marriage as a partnership- two people being in it together- so we both contribute equally. We both help with the responsibilities of raising our son and we always divide the bills amongst us equally (except of rent which I voluntarily cover). We have a shared bank account but we also have our separate bank accounts that we manage independently on our own. She believes it’s too much emotional stress when one person shoulders the financial and/or parenting duties on their own. Just about everything is 50/50. So like Sharon's wife, my wife doesn’t ask me to give her my salary so she can allocate my earnings. My father in law is a small business owner who found success by taking risk. My mother in law worked with him to build that business so unlike Sharon's wife, my wife always encourage me to take risk with my business and not to limit myself to working for one company long term. my bad i wrote a book but i felt like adding details and some examples was necessary.

quickly go to thank those jews.............!

He is mature

In contrast, I'm savage. I would not marry such a person who'd want 100% of my earnings and then give me pocket money like a chump. Just no, stop it right there.

6'1 or 6'2

@@MHG796 & you don't feel bad for being taller than almost everyone in the country? You don't feel like a predator? I love Japanese women, but if I was that tall why would I need to? I don't like people like you changing their culture deliberately & not caring about it.

So being tall makes you a predator? You want him to cut himself in half to make you happy and respect their culture?@@To411u

😂🤣😂

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Yes, that is the way it works in Japan; and then she gives u an allowance, typically 200$ for the whole month

Working on it

Why does that matter if you love the person? You have a small mind

You're funny

Not true.

I somewhat feel the same.

brown? wash tou glasses he is not brown

Yep white savior complex i call it

You could be right. My brother is married to a Japanese woman. Her dad is pretty cool towards his son in law. We are African American.

who cares at least he has a lady he comes to every night, he doesn't sleep with his in-laws does he

watch the video again, he says thats common in japan and korea, they sign papers then ceremony later, it was not entirely his decision, it was mutual

It was a mutual decision, and its common in japan so idk what you mean. This is not the west

It takes time sometimes. My husband is Korean, we have been married for 3 years and we're going to have our ceremony this March finally. Keep in mind that, with covid, planning a ceremony has not been easy for many married couples. Especially if she wants to have it in Hawaii. I'm sure they need to save a lot of money first.

@@Raphanne I'm happy for you! Best of wishes!

@@puppyoverload5145 West or not, parents with daughters always want to see their daughter as a bride. Parents want to show off their daughter as "married" as well. Especially in asian cultures. They want to invite everyone to show them how great and amazing their daughter wedding is etc. Family is more involved in the marriage than their counterparts in the West. So that's why I said they might feel some type of way about their son in law not giving them that opportunity to feel proud and see their daughter as a bride. Just because they didn't make a scandal about it that doesn't mean that's not how they might feel about it.

You are wrong.　 Statistics show that the percentage of Japanese men marrying foreigners is higher than that of Japanese women marrying foreigners. According to 2019 statistics, 70% of international marriages in Japan were couples between a Japanese man and a foreign woman.

Is that what you tell yourself to feel better Go out or else u will die lonely dude

@@asdfghjjhgf The difference is most Japanese men in interracial relationships are with Asian women, so most people don’t even notice he is dating a foreigner. While Japanese women usually date foreigners who look ‘foreign’, thereby causing more attention.

Ah the Charisma Man myth, that's cute!

Lmao

What the reason?

No it doesn't, Japanese women wear Kimono's they don't wear Burqa's or Hijabs.

Exactly 100%

Yeah something off about him