Carissa99Xo YES

Carissa99Xo I can vouch for this and say this is ABSOLUTELY true.

in this case the word guy is gender neutral.

I used to see this. And then got blindsided. so though I helped all my girls get to a better and safe place, I'm in my own hell now and there's nobody to get me out. I'm alone, he has his whole family doing it to me too.

Naomi Appleby you are not alone! I know it might seem like that but you are not.

lmao

😂😂

Yeah thats just childish.

Yes!! Me too uggh it's so stupid why can't people just be candid about how they r really feelin each other.

I agreed with you until you said "delayed texting". My friend and I just had this convo and sometimes you can't text back right away. Lol!

lashawna moore cos pple don't want to appear needy? Sometimes directness scares people away.

lashawna moore like that song by Rihanna L.O.V.E

E Laulii crazy now that she does have a son🤯😍

Kelsie Mercado you are so right lol

Kelsie Mercado very true

Kelsie Mercado I mean maybe she doesn't go for looks? Not everything is about looks. The people of this generation are crazy

Kelsie Mercado

Kevin Kelly did I ever say it was about looks? because it's not only that, she dates men who are old enough go be her dad and it's disturbing to me

ThePopGoddess preach!!!

The guy just did it poorly. He obviously needs to work on his game. But for real, be able to take a joke otherwise you'll end with a limp dick yes man but definitely avoid abusive dudes. To an extent ALL flirting is attempted "manipulation" - both compliments and insults

@Frederica Bimble I feel like thinking that teasing someone isn't funny is more of an indication of insecurity than being able to withstand a joke because withstanding a joke means you have the confidence to laugh at your own flaws. You're the one advertising their own insecurity by saying you can't take a joke about yourself. You must be fun at parties

@Frederica Bimble woah you really must not go to parties at all if you have time to write that much.

People who get all arsehurt at how the original poster handled the bleeding idiot who insulted her dress choice at a fraternity party are probably “experts” at negging and sadly have to be educated about the glaring difference between insults and jokes. Perhaps you don’t think much of your clothes. But think of something you’re most insecure about. How would you feel if you’re just minding your own business and out of nowhere, somebody approached you and said, “You’re cute but [insults you about that attribute you coincidentally hate most about you]”? If you answer this prompt with something along the lines of, “Nah, I can take a “joke” [insult, in actuality] at my expense, unlike some!”, then you’re a liar.

Lol and Harlem

Lol nyc where u at

Ofcourse my boyfriend is from Brooklyn did the same thing lol

Chicago too!!!! (I know I’m late) 😂

Rejection makes the heart grow fonder😅

The urge to make him interested so u can feel like u won, #younggirlsproblem

we live in a stupid society where people LOVEE to play games just to satisfy their egos. its horrible lmao

sassqueen11 I don't get that either

It's not a turn on more of a ego thing. Why don't he like me? I want to get him to want me. He's the chase.

Melissa Jackson yup. Key word being CHILDISH.

I never did that I'm more of a to myself type

Childish games , girl these men still try to get a woman this way. some of these girls don't know that not all man are like this it's boys trying to be man that are doing this.they don't have to put up with this .get you a real man . Like Adrienne say don't diss me

Unfortunately it DOES work on a lot of girls. And when guys are used to being able to easily get a girl by manipulating her and playing her that becomes their go-to move.

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Tiffany Rayne lies, nice guys finish last

+queenie bowen lol

It doesn't remind me of it but I know what you're talking about

haha random. reference but according to the creator they do end up together. He just couldn't animate it.

queenie bowen I still hear MOVE IT FOOTBALL HEAD 😂😂

Aww shoot. My ex negged/"Helga Pataki-ed" me. He TRIED it! xD

Jeanette Please tell me you said no and gave him a swift kick in the ballsies. :)

i am not hedwig LMAAAAAOOOOO U GOT ME DYING OF LAUGHTER!!!!!!!!!!

i am not hedwig lmao nah I didn't kick them in the ballsies, I figured a simple no with a stank face was enough.

Jeanette good for you! I don't understand why guys think this works. It's so unfortunate :(

***** ahaha you're better than me, since those dummies thought it was a little game I didn't have it in me to go off because I just knew people would think I was crazy lol

That was some negging material

I have heard of don't get gassed a lot over the years so it isn't just London. And there's another one "Don't be souping ( their, her, his) head up"

Hey Breeny!! 😊😊😊

Looooooool hate that

well they've only just started saying "tried it" and in my opinion they got that all wrong. and there was another one Tamar says,and I'm like "oh, ok, stopped using that when I was 14ish but ok." but I can't think of it atm. I'll pop back when I remember

Breeny Lee the words been around for decades

It pretty much is

I had a friend who liked that from guys, and I had a talk with her about it and I felt like I wasted my precious breath on her. I had another friend like Adrienne stated the pretty girl who would not get all the attention. Our 9th grade we was with our group of friends and these boys were talking to me and another friend of ours, so being that she was ignored she would stick her butt up and twist while she walk, then jumps in the conversation.

CherryStarr24 She continued to do this throughout the whole four years. I'm so happy last year at graduation, was the last time I saw her. It's sad to see girls and even grown womam act like that.

Lashaun Gordon everytime i see ur picture, u remind me of this youtube guru "Ivy" ..she does hair.

LuxeLike Whatever thnks

LuxeLike Whatever Yes I thought I was the only one.

Dorcas Mukobo Not necessarily. Jeannie does like thugs. She called it like she saw it.

***** exactly

+RoyalMasterpiece Thanks. Finally someone with some sense!

Dorcas Mukobo thank you! did anyone see when she was like no nono don't touch me and loni was looking at her like bruh

Jeannie is annoying

***** mmmmmh nah! Trust me i know the difference👌

Grace Williams educative? Really?

#feelthebern 2016 I like your channel. Fellow Berner here.

Feel ya bro

Lol I feel you

Another way of flirting?

that is actually what negging is. It is not suppose to lower a woman self esteem it is suppose to spark chemistry and spawn attraction.

I call that play fighting. It's just verbal play fighting, rather than physical. And yeah I'm good for that almost all the time. But negging is on a different level. Negging has a level of psychology that's being purposely used. Now of course the guys probably don't know why it works and all of the science behind it, but guys who neg girls have gotten it down. It's just another tactic to get the girl like pickup lines or gifts. And according to one of my friends, he only does it if the girl seems too shy to just approach directly, but confident enough that his comment will hit that nerve that makes her want to talk to him more. I'm not against negging as a principle, I'm just not someone it would work on because I don't take backhanded compliments (which is how I normally feel the compliment compliment insult pattern works) well from a stranger. And I don't like negging when it goes so far that the guy is knowingly playing with the girl's insecurities, because that can screw her up.

Aryiana Moore play fighting is negging. People dont know your insecurities if they just meet you so they cant get that deep. It is just a way to spark attraction and have fun.

joejill51lala on the braxton show, she's the more sensitive sister too.

I agree..

joejill51lala OMG ! I completely agree. I've noticed that the people who are very aggressive and opinionated and actually very insecure and unsure and that's why they fight harder to be heard and to be right.. I hope she realizes that one day.

Jas K i agree. i can so see negging working on her or she be the one who initiates negging.contrary to what she says, because she is so needy for attention, i can totally see her participating in it while: smacking her lips, rolling her eyes and neck, touching/tousling her wigs, and makn duck lips

sommer wise she is immature. and when one is immature, they try to get any attention. she did it to her sisters and to vince in past seasons of the reality show

maybe Jeannie throws shade behind the stage

oumaima saidi naw Tamar's just petty as hell

Frankie x wtf?

Tamar's not rude that's just the way she is she says wht she wants that's why plp like her so your not a true tamartain like she has a huge heart and u can see it if u we're a tamartain and she wasn't trying to be rude to Jennie it was maybe an inside joke they were all friends so they can joke on each other

On her show she also says what she says my intentions are good but it just comes out wrong but she's has a huge heart and you never met her before so r u judging her

already8use And if a guy teases me back , I kind of think that's cute as long as it's done correctly . It's still part of the flirting stage in my opinion .

*life

Uchechi Udeagha lies, nice guys finish last

@@2tooful Not truly. I know a lot of truly nice people who ended up with equally great people. If ulterior motives, like manipulating somebody to sleep with you then discard this person afterwards, exist behind your “niceness”, then perhaps this is why you “finish last”. Most attractive people are so just used to those “liking” them only for their appearances, that they’ve become such experts at knowing if somebody’s just using “friendship” and “niceness” to bed them later on.

Yeah I missed her too but she be back tomorrow

Lol I haven't noticed either. She would've been so against this convo though.

***** lmfao

Same, if a boy neggs me im gonna assume he's a jerk and im done

Have you ever seen Kingsmen: the Secret Service with Colin Firth? It was in that movie too.

firebaby7 that was in "Preacher's Kid"

Samara Duncan i remember it now, it was from an episode of criminal minds....

Negging is emotional abuse.

I think she's got real issues...insecurities and you name the rest.

Dolores Sandoval : I completely agree ... Tamar is too aggressive and opinionated and seems to always put Jeannie down :(... Aggression is the biggest sign of insecurity and lack of confidence. I love the rest of the girls ... I feel that the they are all nice and genuine and speak their minds too but they respect each others opinion and play well together.

+Jas K I feel the others are in a good place they feel. like personally. even if loni is single and Adrienne is again after a long relationship. I find Tamar hard to watch.

I’m sorry you dealt with such bloody idiots and experienced their lame antics. Negging screams “I wish to stoop so low as to cause attractive people to question their worth, because deep inside, I’m just THAT INSECURE! But hopefully, nobody will notice!” Ironically, most people who neg boil with rage when others neg them as well, giving them a dose of their own medicine. Funny, that.

It''s not. but saying something is like your mom's isn't a compliment either. Most guys don't do their mom. it is a neg.

RyderC Daniels you'd be surprised

Sophia Martinez lol

False. Im not all that at all and it works like a charm. Just like Adrian said, she knows she is too good for the guy but he gives her no attention cause her to like him more

TypeAAA nah even before I knew what this was this would have never worked on me even when I was younger. I wouldn't see the point in being complimented and then insulted. Def woulda neva worked on me at any point in my life

Not really.

Hisoka Joka lmaooooo really

yeah LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

U have a point there

Except when it comes to man crush Monday and talks about how she's loves the personalities of them old men

madmann1000 i agree with you but i dont necessarily think shes shallow. she believes that because shes cute, guys should want her

Michie Oo I mean duuuh . It makes sense ? If you're confident and pretty well you expect guys to find you cute . Are you guys feeling insecure or not "pretty" ? She is just being real

already8use Her logic is very childish and high school. What grown person walks around talking about "Oh my god! You should like totally like me because I'm totally like hot and....you're totally.....like NOT!"