I'm not sure I understand why Tamar and Loni were so hard on the picnic idea. I thought that was very thoughtful and sweet of Freddie.

once again jeanie's experience was slammed ! i think her first date was super sweet and i would take a picnic over a circus date anytime!

I thought the what Freddie did was so romantic. Listening to Loni and Tamar made me realize there are really some ungrateful people in this world. Somebody goes through all that trouble for you, making all the things you love, and you say it's about the coin or I want to be able to call my friends.

Tamar, a PICNIC is not something you'd do but you praised Adrienne for being taken to a Circus? LOL. I just don't get it sometimes.

Shade Alert: Soooooo..... Jeannie's rose garden date was LESS romantic than Adrienne's circus date? I'm missing something here...... Both dates to me are creative, however, the shade that's constantly being thrown to Jeannie everytime she's tells a personal story, which is also low key shade to Freddie, is right damn ridiculous. That's why I love Tamera, because she doesn't hesitate to step up for Jeannie when necessary. Like damn, fall back sometimes!

tamar and loni was wrong on this one. jeanie's first date was so cute

I like Jeannie's first date! Why must a man spend so much on a first date to impress you? A picnic is fine with me. Maybe, our 1 year anniversary, you can take me on that 7 course meal dinner. The circus idea was also cute, but I agree that creativity is much better than spending all kinds of money on me. I don't want my man thinking that only money will bring me happiness, I deserve more than that. I deserve your time, thoughts, and love, not your entire bank account.

Jeanie idea and experience with hubby is sweet. Tamar I think it's high time your place and give Jeanie a chance to express herself. With that 7 course dinner and loni as desert. The dude didnot marry u. Know ur place hun.

OMG Tamar needa chill !! 💯 We all know you wasn't always rich......

A picnic is a great date, why are Tamar and Loni acting like this is the worse idea ever? I would love a picnic date!

These videos are so addictive. The women on here are sooooo hilarious.

I wonder what my first date will be with my future husband ^.^

This may sound lame but my favorite first date was when me and this guy went to the mall. Yes, the mall! I was picking out stuff that I thought would look cute on him, and he did the same for me, I tried stuff on for him and all. Food court, we chatted for what seemed like forever. We were sampling eachother food! Cacking and flirting non stop. Chile, we spent the whole day in that bad boy! For some reason I loved it. I was wild comfortable with him because of this. Ahh memories.

I would choose creativity over quantity everytime. That Freddy took Jeannie to a picnic was soo sweet. That sweeter than a fancy restaurant...And he even remebered she didnt eat gluten free was a plus

I wouldn't like the picnic date only because I do not like eating outside. Between my allergies and the annoying bugs I would not enjoy myself at all lol but the thought is very cute.

I think it's okay for different women to like different first dates. I love me some Tamar but she has a problem with "Agreeing to Disagree". It's Okay if the other women doesn't want a 5 Star restaurant for their first date. It's totally fine to have different preferences.

I like the picnic date. Definitely shows that he was listening if he gets things that I like. I don't care what I eat on a date. I'm with Jeannie when it comes to if a guy has a problem with what I'm eating. I'm eating whatever I want. I definitely agree with watching how drinks you have.

I love hearing Tamera's stories about her and Adam. So cute. Jeannie and Adrienne's stories were nice, too.

They shouldn't disagree with what someone else thought was a prefect date. Jennies husband actually put thought into his date that why they hatin

If Tamera thinks first impressions are everything for the first date and couples should go to the most expensive or impressive place, why is it okay to eat ribs in front of dude? I Don't like that they talk down on all of Jeannie's ideas. If Freddie knew her favorite drinks and food, that shows he listens to her and that they knew each other well enough for him to do that.

Quality over Quantity!!! Picnic? YES!! Way to go Freddie!!

While all the ladies just going awww for Jeanie, Tamar just had to ruin the vibe and had to be the one thinking differently. SMDH! When Adriene talked about her circus date, Tamar went back to being nice and an angel. Now part of me feels like if Jeanie had said she went to the circus she be straight saying that's wack bla bla bla and acted other way round if Adrienne or any other ladies said their date was in picnic. I most definitely 10000% think Jeanie's date was deep and valuable and it was more about the quality than the amount of money spent, and the ladies obv got touched by that, except the expensive Tamar and Loni, why they think how much money their date has is the key to success in the relationship in comparison to how much creativity a man puts. The logic.

My first date with my now boyfriend was simple and cute, we went to a little coffee shop downtown and sat outside and talked for hours sipping on some coffee and he definitely stepped up the game after that. You want to get to know the person on the first date

Why are they always worried about how much coin someone has?!?

I think Freddie already knew a lot about Jennie (they probably started off as friends) before their first picnic date which is what makes it ok. He knew her favourite dark chocolate, Rosé, etc. For most first dates, you're literally just getting to know the person and what they like and so camping out with food alone is just weird, in my opinion.. which is why I get where Tamar is coming from saying she doesn't like/ know them like that yet. You don't just go out on a picnic with someone you barely know (assuming it's only the first date) as it's more intimate, again, in my opinion.

Oh my gosh THE SHADEEEEEE! Tamar is so rude for continuously bashing Jeanie's picnic date like we get it you think its weird but Jeanie seemed genuinely happy about it. Tamar needs to shut up sometimes

I don't like how they did Jeanie. You don't have to spend thousands on a date. She liked it & Freddy liked it. That's all that matters, Loni & Tamar were rude for that.

I think first impressions are a subjective matter. What may impress Jeannie may not impress Tamar (and vice versa); however, that doesn't mean the picnic date was any less impressive or well-thought-out than going to a place "with a bathroom."

tamar acts like that spoiled rich girls that thinks she's entitled to the top of the line things.

Tamar's look is everything.

Dear Tamar it's not everyday let's disagree with Jeannie okay? A well thought out picnic date can be so lovely and romantic, anyway that's what majority of the folk did way back in day when chivalry and being a gentlemen was very much in existence amongst the men. :)

Tamar is confused. Jeannie and her husband were good friends before they started dating. Tamar is thinking about like a blind date or going out on a date with someone you've only known for like a few days or a week.

Well I think we all understand that Tamar is VEEEERY shallow, so I get where she is coming from. I'd rather sit in the restaurant too, BUT in the picnic scenario (and things similar), to have someone who cares that much is gonna most likely be a good fit for you in the long run. It all depends on how well you *KNOW* them before the first date.

That white bra under a white top is distracting

Tamar is as insecure as they come, we're all human, she defiantly is deeply insecure.

I think that anyone can pay a lot of money for a meal but not everyone can be so sweet and remember everything you like and do such a grand gesture

This is why Tamar isn't on there anymore. (Please don't attack me because I love Tamar but I'm simply stating my perspective as a general viewer) It's one thing to have an opinion and all but that's YOUR opinion. No need to borderline belittle Jeanie for appreciating the small things because YOU want a typical restaurant date with plates.

I think they were talking about two different scenarios. I can understand Tamar and Loni's point of view, when this is your first initial meeting with "your date", and you've never met this person before, I can understand why a Picnic may not be a good "First Date". On the other hand, if you're Jeannie and Adrianne's case, where you were FRIENDS with "your date" PRIOR to being romantically involved, a Picnic isn't a bad idea because you already know the person, they're not gonna kidnap you. So, I understand both sides, I think they just weren't understanding that initial difference. There's "court" dating, like Tamera has mentioned prior, where you're trying to "find somebody", and there's getting involved romantically, with somebody you've known for awhile. TWO different scenarios.

I love Jeanie! keep ur head up girl.

Tamar is jealous of Jeannie

Loni and Tamar! Wow!! I thought firstly loni love was supposed to be a mediator! What a disgrace for coming down on Jeannie like that. Firstly let me just say that picnic was the start of what is now a beautiful marriage. Loni - sleeping around on your first day regardless of the number of courses does not a classy date make. Tamar is just a bully. It's clear from the a lot of the comments that I'm not the only one thinking it. What did Jeannie do to you? Apart from look better, achieve more and have a marriage full of deep emotional love? Oh. Right. I get it. Jealousy

I like Jeannie and Adrienne first dates. It's different yet simple. Especially Jeannie's because it showed that her he listened to the things to like and put it all together in a picnic.

The picnic idea was really sweet!!!

I feel bad when a guy spends too much on me

Shoutout to Freddy! I think the picnic idea was cute. Idk why they shaded Jeannie but not Adrienne.

LOL I swear Jeannie could've said her first date was a surprise trip to paris and Tamar STILL would've had something negative to say ha!

I love the picnic idea it's sweet, thoughtful, creative, and most of all refreshing. I mean you can go out on a 1st date with plenty of guys to a fancy restaurant, and let him pay for the $200.00 meal but if it's the size of his wallet that impresses you you're in it for the wrong reasons.

This reminded me of ‘The Real’ then vs. ‘The Real’ Now. ♥️

Wasn't Tamar's first date with Vince a trip to DisneyWorld?

1:26 that girl's got such a pretty smile.

If a dude ever spent $4000 on me I would judge him negatively. Unless he's a millionaire he should not be spendin money recklessly like that hell no I'm not gonna date someone that gon spend like that lol i like Lenny and Adrienne's first date best

Jeanie's date sounded so cute I would rather that over any expensive restaurant as a first date it shows that he listens BUT if he were to take me to my favorite restaurant that's also fine too.

This segment is so annoying: Adrienne goes on a date to the circus, cute; romantic but Jeannie goes to a picnic and it's not okay. Reasons why Loni is still single and she's older than all of them and Jeannie has been married for 8 years. They just always gotta find a way to make Jeannie feel bad about herself. A picnic is so cute and movie like. It's not all about money and sex. Freddie paid attention to what Jeannie likes which is cute and very important. Shouldn't that get praised? Everything else is ok but Jeannie's one is always bad. Seriously it's so frustrating not only is Tamar and Loni throwing hateful shade at Jeannie but also to her man saying he didn't do good enough and him making food for his girl is bad and that's horrible. We all know Tamar and Loni are really jealous of her, so we understand but it's so rude they need to listen to her and stop finding every excuse to hate on her, because it's getting too high school around here and it's really hard to watch.

All these dates are so sweet, but I would be so excited for a picnic because that’s not common for a first date. That was so beautiful. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

If I was Loni I think I would of been offended like why 7 courses?? what you tryna say ??? 😒

OMG MY MAN TOOK ME TO THE CIRCUS ON MY FIRST DATEEE! It was the first best date I've ever been on and we've been going every year for a few years now! Thought I was the only one! I nearly dropped my plate of food when he said that...Love Adrienne!

I love the little chuckle noise loni randomly makes.

I don't know about you guys but I feel a really heavy burden when someone spends a lot of money on me. Idk, it just doesn't feel very courteous to me to allow myself to accept so much on a first date. The picnic thing for me would have been perfect! A romantic day and you save a few pennies:) So I shall respectfully disagree with Tamar and Loni on that one. And he even took the time to make vegan sandwiches!! Come on! I get really happy when someone even remembers my birthday let alone a card or gifts! I'm just someone who likes to give love and don't mind not receiving it:) makes the world a little bit more colourful I guess!

Adrienne's Makeup is always on fleek!

Right. I've got it, first date will be a picnic. Definitely worth a shot.

I like that everyone doesn’t always agree with each other

My first date with my current boyfriend for a year next week was at a restaurant and we just ordered drinks and we talked for hours..that was cool 😊😊👍🏻👍🏻

" And the 8th course was me" Yess Loni!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

I under what Tamar is saying .. I feel u girl..

1:10 Jeannie’s reaction when Tam says Adam took her to PF Changs. She does not approve lol

Oohh Tamar's hair and dress are on fleek. Love it!

All the ladies looking gorgeous today!

I love how high maintenance Tamar is because she is so honest about it and never back down from her opinion .

Sometimes your topics are weird and not even neccesary for ne to watch but u guys entertain me so much. I love you Guys.

hair and makeup at the real is the best. I just have to say. and Tamar you look too beautiful

They were hating on the picnic but thought the circus was a good date? Lmao. Picnics are the best. A man holding a basket, a blanket, and possibly flowers for you is everything. No dude who is after just your body would do such a thing for a girl.

I agree with Tamar 💯

First dates: rose garden & circus dates are fab 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Tamar this look is WONDERFUL YES BOO !!!

My mom went on a picnic for her first date, extremely cute idea!! It has been three years now, and his kids and I absolutely adore each other. I really think this is the year he proposes!!!!!

my rule is: don't order something that you yourself can't afford. Also going to an expensive restaurant on a first date is so boring, i'd rather go to the circus like adrienne did.

Okay Tamar has been looking GOOD !!!! Se changed her makeup artist or what !?? Yes girl !!

Girrrl! Love that he would spend that much. He was working hard on you. Some guys would look for the lay-a-way plan.

Jeanie was lookin like I can get some better authentic Asian food at home

all I hear is money money money

They key is if the lady likes it...it is a good first date. Jeannie is creative so the extra touches are her thing.

Oooh Tamar was looking on point head to toe. BEST look for her the hair complemented her face,neck, and shoulders very well.

I love Tamar's and Loni's different perspectives, 'i don't like you like that yet' its true i actually think its respectful to not act like youre very close to someone before you're actually close to them..

WOW...Tamar's look just slayed today!!!

Tamar's hair do is everything!

My God Tamar hair is on point!!!

I appreciate a man that takes effort and is thoughtful.. so Jeannie, I commend Freddie on how he went about y'alls 1st date.. Kudos to him! However, I know I would be a hot mess on a picnic.. The bugs.. I just can't...

I'm a big kid at heart so a fun date for me is a bowling alley, amusement park, skating rink (even tho I can't). Somewhere fun!!

so what was Tamar"s first date? she busy knocking everybody else'

Best talk show ever!

Am i the only 1 that thinks first impressions dont matter? I mean, its very rare that someone will be completely theirselves with u when u just meet, and i dont expect them to be. Their true self and personality, whatever it may be, will be revealed as time goes by.. I dont even remember the first impression of most of the people i know

Taemar HAIR oh my God I LOVE IT

If you really like the guy it won’t matter where he takes you as long as you two are together 💜

I love when first dates are at my favourite restaurant or if you bring me to a picnic and bring my favourite food. Tamar is so extra and materialistic omg everything doesn't have to be fancy

Everybodys makeup looks awesome

I agree first date, should be more general and then do more sentimental with the picnic

Adrienne (as usual) looks gorgeous, and Tamar looks really fresh and cute. I am digging that hairstyle :)

I luv the way Tamar and Adrienne look today

I love Adrienne's lip colour

Terrell quitting was the best thing he could have done for Tamar... Her looks have been on point lately!