What to do when he doesn’t want you anymore…

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@jimpalmer204 2 ай бұрын

If he doesn’t want you anymore, you walk away, no drama, silently. And work on yourself and move on. 🙂 this was my lesson.

@urScorpioLady 2 ай бұрын

Yessss!! 💯

@Sharon-jg9ls Ай бұрын

100%. I’ve learned this the hard way many times. Men don’t understand words, they understand silence.

@jimpalmer204 Ай бұрын

@@Sharon-jg9ls this is profound right here! 💯 agreed.

@ashleychanelle1997 Күн бұрын

It’s not always that simple. Sometimes he doesn’t want you anymore but he still says he does, and he doesn’t leave you. And you take your commitment of till death serious and so you’re stuck in an unloving marriage not knowing what to do .

@Sharon-jg9ls Күн бұрын

@@ashleychanelle1997 I’ve been there. You then have to decide who is most important and that’s you. Life is too short to be unhappy in a loveless marriage.

@crystalox392 2 ай бұрын

“You can not live with other people controlling how you feel” I needed to hear that 💛

@catcat9582 2 ай бұрын

I literally feel like it's someone else's loss if they don't want me now. Friends, men , jobs. I know that I have a stellar character & that its going to be impossible to easily find someone with my heart. Literally feel sorry for them

@obengjemima6477 2 ай бұрын

You literally changed my perspective with this.Thank you so much.I’m glad you wrote this❤

@g.s.632 2 ай бұрын

wallah my sister, sorry for their loss.🤍

@user-jz6mu 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this❤❤

@downtown_kt Ай бұрын

Yesssss go girl 💪💪💪

@lou15176 25 күн бұрын

This is theee best mindset shift that one can have. It takes away any longing or neediness by recognising yourself as “quality” and quality doesn’t “need” anything or anyone. They are the ones that are needed/missed x

@designshop7264 2 ай бұрын

There are no benefits in friends with benefits. It often gets messy, one person gets attached

@Sarah-kv3qs 2 ай бұрын

If it’s exes then you are both screwed. It can be beneficial but the communication needs to be extraordinary

@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын

We don't do FWB & situationships at Camp Jesus.

@judytamoongoddess 2 ай бұрын

What worked for me in the past is improving yourself and your life so you become a woman that is out of his league.

@Lemthepoetofficial 2 ай бұрын

OMG listen up story time: I was married to a guy who actively chose other things over me and it felt like he didn't want me anymore repeatedly. We got divorced and years later same thing! "Let's get back together and I will pay more attention to you." We did and he again started acting like he doesn't want me anymore. Later I realized why ! Some men are with women for reasons other than love, sex. It could be simple because he doesn't want to be single. If you feel he doesn't want you anymore, this is the perfect opportunity for you to run off. Because he may keep sucking you back into a relationship where you feel unwanted repeatedly because he is with you for reasons other than love.

@keylo2473 2 ай бұрын

So true 😢 and we need to accept this, it is what it is.

@srishtishetty8578 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this, darling

@busrakilic9075 2 ай бұрын

Yes I totally agree.. my husband started to get distant and was saying things like he married too young and very questionable stuff. But having sex with me. So i decided to separate and divorce. Life is too short. Why being married to someone who doesn’t even love you?

@Lemthepoetofficial 2 ай бұрын

@@busrakilic9075 Cok uzuldum cidden aynisi ben yasiyorum. Amerikali Turk fark etmiyor sevgi yoksa sevgi yok. Ondan sonra tanistigim adam da tam tersi cok seviyordu beni sex cok iyidi ama kotu aliskanliklari vardi. Beni de alistirmaya calisiyordu. O da saglikli degil :/

@bumblebee_mrs 2 ай бұрын

"Don't hate the player, change the game" (by: Wenzes, YT).

@takinajowens101 Ай бұрын

Enjoy your freedom & know that everything isn't mutual. Never allow anyone to waste your time nor simply choose you. You deserve to love and be love in a healthy relationship not something one sided. Congratulate him on his revelation and support his departure by protecting your peace. All is and will be well for all.

@H01143 Ай бұрын

I spent two months not walking away and it hurt. I was still attached and he wasn't. Lesson learned the hard way.

@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын

Same here. It was a serious relationship & I thought we'd marry. I fought to get him back but the reality was he suffered severe anxiety & OCD. Eventually I learned not to take it personally. He's a great guy struggling with mental illness (demons).

@snowwpea 2 ай бұрын

If he doesn’t want you anymore, you stalk him like crazy, “casually” show up wherever he is, fake a nervous breakdown and go to the hospital until he finally decides he doesn’t want to live with the guilt of making you suffer and you manipulate him into being with you unwillingly. Seriously though, I have seen women do this before and it worked. Crazy right? Desperation is insane. If he doesn’t want you, you graciously walk away and live your life. Move on and forget about him. Keep your dignity, no matter what.

@Danken4 Ай бұрын

Applying in both side when a woman shows any resistance walk away and never take her back same to women

@miava1031 7 күн бұрын

Latin women do this. Watch telenovelas 😂

@Miss_hells_bells 2 ай бұрын

"What's the benefit? His pee pee?"💀💀💀😂

@dragonflymagictarot1180 Ай бұрын

😅😂😂😂 valen verga

@gitanjalisharma2968 12 күн бұрын

😂

@miava1031 7 күн бұрын

And it’s often a whee whee that doenst know what to do

@LosAngelesLaura 2 ай бұрын

“What in the chupacabra is this!?” 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@izabelazielak8963 2 ай бұрын

Shhh….maybe she recognizes the fact that ………🐣

@malindateal14 2 ай бұрын

She’s adorable. She comes up with a coolest little sayings

@LalaKruger79 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@happy2bhere706 2 ай бұрын

5 hours ago wow! This channel is free therapy for me.

@user-kl8cm8nt8x 2 ай бұрын

Timing is everythinggggg

@TechSav18 2 ай бұрын

I can't believe I'm here this early. Divine timing is everything. God bless you and your family. 💜💜💜

@couldbehafsa 2 ай бұрын

I had extremely anxious attachment... Then he avoided me so long that I turned into a b*tch😅😅😅... Now I'm playing his games and he's obsessed with me...and most importantly..I'm calm❤but i learned that healing one own self is the only secret of Lasting relationships...

@paulinawalpen2570 2 ай бұрын

Can u maybe mention how u behave now?

@andreavic 2 ай бұрын

I’m curious!

@blancarodriguez1340 2 ай бұрын

Oh how I wish to be you 😩❤ Love this for you girly!

@Seraphina93 2 ай бұрын

@@paulinawalpen2570not her but: know all that pain and anger u felt when he pulled away? Know where it belongs? With him. Tell him, let it all out on him, be snarky, be angry, cry/ rage (u know what I mean be less Ariana Grande and more Olivia Rodrigo w him). Just kick him verbally in a non-abusive way. Examples: „I missed u“ „uh huh. Why’d you leave?“ „I’m sorry I said x“ „why’d u say it then?“ „Reason x is why I left“ „I’m only 50% of this relationship I am not working on it alone“ etc etc. Treat him like a dog in training, but angry. Let it all go.

@monakool1708 Ай бұрын

@@paulinawalpen2570if you really want to play someone,be indifferent towards them(don’t be rude).That’s half of the game.Be always ready to walk away if something bothers you.No emotional attachment(that’s possible only if you are circular dating).Focus on your life and goals. Be selfish as hell. Men love selfish women. I know it’s toxic but it’s better to accept that we live in toxic era

@jerrodbulgin2261 2 ай бұрын

When I saw your thumbnail I thought, "Now that's a woman there! Attractive, genuine, smart!" I'm just teasing with you though... Keep doing what you're doing! The youth need your wise teachings!

@aestheticedits7109 2 ай бұрын

You look like scarlett johansson ❤😊

@LaNoire27 2 ай бұрын

Yeah, she does.

@sara.e.1111 2 ай бұрын

Yes! Celeb twin

@sukyp1950 Ай бұрын

Definitely! Yes, she does 👌

@nickiefellow4787 2 ай бұрын

The timing wow 🥹🥹🥹

@ACMkirby 2 ай бұрын

30s video suggestion. Would love to hear your advice on how to prepare for your 30s

@olumcul4970 2 ай бұрын

watch sex and the city

@noanoa8991 2 ай бұрын

@@olumcul4970worst thing she could do. I used to watch when I was 20, rewatched a few weeks ago as a 30 year old and realized these women were full of red flags and I didn’t even notice when I was 20. Made me cringe!

@j_constance 2 ай бұрын

Second this! 30+ here... single and dreaming about a relationship. Feeling so stressed and behind, dating apps are horrendous. Any advice is so appreciated needed 🤍

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

@@j_constance I believe it's best to meet people offline. I know women older than you who met their partners simply by putting themselves out there, meaning living their best life and doing all the things they love doing. You're most magnetic when you're happy.

@ttejegi 2 ай бұрын

Can’t wait for your book Margarita, you’ve helped my journey so much with becoming less anxiously attached 💕💕

@meetandinspire 2 ай бұрын

"Life is essentially a game, and if you don't want to play games, how can you win at life?"

@danilaroche1156 Ай бұрын

Jesus saves. To the devil..life is a game but to Jesus life holds great significance & purpose. Know that.

@kerrymillar1267 2 ай бұрын

The first 6 minutes are absolute gold, thanks for sharing. I definitely externalise, I guess all anxiously attached people do.

@velicah9848 2 ай бұрын

Every video you make helps me so much!!!! thank you Margarita! i love how you talk and all the value you give in every video.

@MM-kq9ip 2 ай бұрын

Hello Margarita! Could you please do a videos with advices for women in their early 30s specifically? (Relationships, self-care, anti-aging, reaching goals...) Thank you!

@susanfletcher258 2 ай бұрын

I'm so proud of you, I remember when you made videos with your mom, who i love!

@Julie-eq8zu 2 ай бұрын

Amazing video as always! The ferrari metaphor was life changing for me and completely changed my vision and mindset about my current situation! Thank you🥰

@Meburns311 2 ай бұрын

Mama marggg thank you so much I love watching your videos your voice is so calming

@Xaali95 2 ай бұрын

Love your energy and personality, margarita. Thanks to youtube algorithm that brought me here🤎

@SheSoForeign 2 ай бұрын

Thank you - I needed to hear this

@palosantoxxi 2 ай бұрын

you and your advice are GOLDEN! thank you:)

@libramacky9335 2 ай бұрын

thanks for reminding me again as always ❤

@kelly.nicole 2 ай бұрын

SHES ON FIRE!! 🔥🔥

@Illuminatelove36 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this profound healing

@socol76 2 ай бұрын

I’m not an auditory learner so I preordered your book on Kindle instead of audible. Can’t wait to read it

@BritneyMontes17 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the digestible facts of attachment ✨I wish you were my family member I just love your advice and energy 🤍

@NawrasMatee7 2 ай бұрын

im so proud of you ❤

@starlightskiestarot 2 ай бұрын

Healing my attachment style and my cptsd ...thank you

@kaylareeder4449 Ай бұрын

I am so excited for you and your dreams coming true!!

@chilloften 2 ай бұрын

Porn is infidelity. Treatment as such.

@YanaWanderlust. 2 ай бұрын

No it's not

@chilloften 2 ай бұрын

@@YanaWanderlust. it is betrayal. An addiction. Intimacy disorder. If her partner is watching daily I would suggest Kristen Snowden here on KZfaq to her to get an understanding.

@somintsothresh919 2 ай бұрын

@@YanaWanderlust.how not

@dani5639 2 ай бұрын

You are gorgeous . I always enjoy your videos

@MilenaStojilkovic 2 ай бұрын

Haha, love your view on the friends with benefits thing 😂

@monikaleszko5343 2 ай бұрын

Lmao. What’s the benefit!? Yup What’s a benefit his pee pee. No thanks

@grahamlangley4856 2 ай бұрын

You manifested too hard and it broke the shower screen 😂🎉❤

@herserenehighnessm 2 ай бұрын

!!!

@monicalewis-schmidt8821 2 ай бұрын

I have get your book. Real talk

@gablillyjay 2 ай бұрын

mother has spoken ❤

@monikaleszko5343 2 ай бұрын

Margarita… the man I was casually seeing for three months and hasn’t replied to my text in over 48 hours. My secure attachment style is super repelled from this and I think the old anxious me would have reached out to him but I don’t believe that doing so is what I want to do because it feels like I’m chasing and he’s running, can I get your thoughts? 🙏

@monikaleszko5343 2 ай бұрын

I think he’s avoidant or Just non commital and I think texting him is desperate energy lol

@Jessievera 2 ай бұрын

Wow impressed you haven't reached out. Or reacted in your anxious attachment. I would try to self sooth and then see your options and how you would feel after acting on them whether it's not doing anything or reaching out.

@user-qg4he8mj1r 2 ай бұрын

Hey it could be that he just forgot to answer. But i would Not Text him. Simple reason: if he likes you, then he will text you After some time on it self. And if dont, you can See that he is Not that interested in you. So you dont Need him. There Are better for you!!❤️and live your life!! Dont Wait on him

@AutismTheaterProject 2 ай бұрын

I say if it bothers you and seems to be part of a pattern, point it out at your next opportunity. But first ask if something happened/somethings going on that didn't allow him to respond. Bc if you ignore it, and you're not okay with his behavior, you may give him the wrong impression. He might convince himself you're OK with it. And then your own resentment could build up...

@YanaWanderlust. 2 ай бұрын

You may send him just ONE casual text message like "Hi, did not hear from you for the last 4-5 days. Hope you are fine". And just leave it there. See what he will reply. If nothing...well it's the answer. If he goes back with some rubbish like "I am fine tnx" - well it's also the answer. So just move one.

@lollya5692 2 ай бұрын

Hi Margarita, Will your new book be available on Audible? ❤

@anamaria-db7pq 2 ай бұрын

thank ya, big sis

@Shereelouise86 23 күн бұрын

I was “discarded” recently by someone who I believe is a narcissist or at the very least toxic as hell. The “relationship” was causal and all on his terms, of course I thought that I could “win” him at some point -ha! The last thing he said to me was how pretty his new chiropractor is and I should be jealous… Your advice has been invaluable for me. I knew nothing about anxious attachment before I watched your videos. I feel like I understand myself so much better and why I put up with such terrible treatment for 2 years. Thank you so much!! 🙏🏻

@charitylove3453 Ай бұрын

I'm mind blown 🤯

@ashleychanelle1997 Күн бұрын

I just don’t know why it’s wrong to want reassurance or comfort or closure after an argument.

@oceanahealer 2 ай бұрын

Darling your content has a lot of values and lots of Wisdom, pls don’t use Better Help as an sponsor … that’s a shady company and not a good company for therapy , thank you

@pamyang11 2 ай бұрын

Can we order your book to the US? I didn’t see that option. :(

@gablillyjay 2 ай бұрын

as a virgo mercury grade is woooooping my a**

@svlagonda7417 2 ай бұрын

Better Help are garbage.

@royronson8872 2 ай бұрын

Pulling solvation from mystery might be key to ego Mystery requires privacy

@user-xz6yf8ki8l 2 ай бұрын

“What in the chupacabra is this?”😂

@sashay404 2 ай бұрын

Adore your videos! Thank you! I feel so lost

@kelly.nicole 2 ай бұрын

I did too but I don’t anymore listening to her she’s amazing.

@sashay404 2 ай бұрын

@@kelly.nicole Am I just self sabotaging? He's not even someone I would want to recommend to a friend. I'm an independent woman but find myself helping him and it's not a two way street.

@OGgiirl 2 ай бұрын

What does the title have to do with the video?

@andreatorluemke4982 2 ай бұрын

Love that baby table behind you OMG! Haha❤

@andreatorluemke4982 2 ай бұрын

Awe baby. Well pray for your protection and your angel baby always healing and love. They tumble a lot at his age. Take him to chiro after those falls to get him adjusted. Rescue remedy under his little feet. Breastfeeding will chill you both out if you’re still doing that. Nutritious food angel. Blessings and hugs mama. Always prayers. Ooahh

@wggio 2 ай бұрын

Accept it and move on?

@leeche87 2 ай бұрын

How do you have such perfect skin ? Is it filter !

@Itsamantha111 Ай бұрын

A genetic filter 😂

@girlymel2323 2 ай бұрын

The plastics in our food and water is affecting hormone levels causing a lot of issues for young men

@shaniamistry 2 ай бұрын

I wanna know what to do when he wants you back and you don’t feel anything for him anymore 😂

@annette5455 2 ай бұрын

Is there pre-order for the audiobopk on audible? ❤

@Ms21stCentury 2 ай бұрын

Yeah, there is. The New Rules

@annette5455 2 ай бұрын

@@Ms21stCentury is there a link to it? In her description box I only see her Amazon hardcopy book preorder 😓

@alinas6192 2 ай бұрын

What if he doesn't offer relationships after 3 months of dating? We didn't hug, didn't kiss as I don't accept it within realationships status and while he is still on the dating app.Should I initiate a conversation or what should be my further actions?

@av3ngers17 2 ай бұрын

wait. you're dating and he's still using dating apps? something doesn't add up. but if that's the case or not, either way you're not his first choice/ his dream girl and you're just there as a filler while he waits for the woman he really wants

@Itsamantha111 Ай бұрын

Don’t waste your time! Do what you enjoy and be too busy to notice what he is doing.

@ashleychanelle1997 Күн бұрын

Girl if you’re only dating run and be free! Do not date an anxious attachment it hurts too much.

@RubyWahid 2 ай бұрын

The pee pee😂

@amandasplit 2 ай бұрын

I want to be you !

@CF. 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@nataliaprodan9335 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

@mareyana1111 2 ай бұрын

😍😍😍

@user-ds8fq8cp2f 2 ай бұрын

He took money,closed the account and I have been in er sick

@mezzymoon3343 Ай бұрын

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

@alaskayoung584 2 ай бұрын

💚💚💚💚💚

@milarepa1234567 Ай бұрын

If a guy is into porn, though, it's only going to get worse. Don't walk, run.

@izabelazielak8963 2 ай бұрын

We love You,Pocahontas 🐣💭🦈

@safiahere3386 2 ай бұрын

I wish you wouldn't talk about your problems as it gives negative energy

@michellescherer7858 2 ай бұрын

omg get to the point like

@reacting_to_stuff_ 2 ай бұрын

I wish you didn’t bring up new age ideology into this, like energies etc

@jessgirr1728 2 ай бұрын

Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It's real. It's everything. Literally.

@lorifayson7588 17 күн бұрын

Omg I love your book so much I have shared it with my friends and my daughter…Thank you ❤️‍🩹I’m on the other side of the bullshit and I wake up happy because I’m happy..and happily single

@taraleightaracumming6726 2 ай бұрын

what’s your audio book about?

@Dr.Wolfstar 2 ай бұрын

@jakdee4732 8 күн бұрын

Keep sharing, i like your accent British English you speak very fast., i hope someday you try another angle of your cam to see your full beautiful body😁, am your followers Marga beautiful iloveyou❤ can you please make a topic on your next vlog on Benifits on watching PORN and Masturbation😂😂😂