Ladies, If any mother- inlaw tells you to come and wash her clothes on your first day of meeting her, pls wash the clothes with joy. Then when you take him to see your own parents, your mum should tell him to wash all the dirty dishes. He should also do the dishes with joy. After all we are all humble and respectful . I wonder how the guy will feel after washing those dishes..........maybe he will love her more ...👏👏 I will never ask my son's fiancee to do chores on the first day even if she volunteers. She is my guest and should be treated with respect the same way, I expect my son to be treated when he meets his inlaws. Men and women should be treated with equal respect. Discrimination against women is too much!!!! especially african women. As a mother, if you heard, that your son was asked to do the dishes by his inlaws how will you feel???? Let us all think about it. Thank you zeelicious for this topic. I will share it with my daughters and my sons ♥️♥️♥️

Thank you so much ma, I actually need to work on been shy and timid, have been postponing this meeting with my in-laws for awhile now, I'm so scared🥺, they are so much in their family Every part of this video is so educative and true For anyone saying its pretense, hmm abeg there are so many things I don't do at home, I don't wash my clothes, I don't really cook sef, I don't sweep, not that I don't know how to do all this but then it's my house, there's vacuum, washing machines, but your parents will understand, your in-laws won't, they will say you're spoilt So pls just give them that first impression the first time, as long as you not lieing to your partner, he knows everything about you already, is the in-laws that's meeting you for the first time They need to meet the best, well trained version of you.

Some useful tips. I would reconsider telling a lie to respectfully decline a request though. We should be careful not to dishonor God in an attempt to honour in laws or anyone really.

Good morning Winnie, I'm so sorry you went through that. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and experience.

Keep keeping the good Winnie as you lead us through the journey of Elegance. I love you big time.

Advice that most parents never gave. wow,you are doing so well .i think this will actually help most of us

This meeting in-laws thing bugs me but yeah, I'm gonna meet them someday. Thanks zee

Thanks zee you’ve done a big favor for me ❤️❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️

Thanks Winnie. This is so enlightening!!

Winnie these tips were very helpful. Thank you so much ❤️ Nice tops you have here & nice smiles. Please teach about how to handle a Narcissist.

Thank you Winnie for this insightful video.

This video is really helpful Thank you Winnie

Thank you so much ma'am. This is enlightening.

This is so amazing, thank you so much my dear sister

I really really really love watching you. You are just amazing in all ur videos. I love you. Thanks for all the safety tips

Thank you so .much ...🙏🏼I needed this right now ....🇨🇲

Wow Zee 💖 thanks for the time u put in when giving advice

Thank you so much for an educative video. It's so helpful and going to help me also. You are doing well. God bless you.

Great tips Winnie...Much Love❤️

Thanks dear cause I have been thinking on how to behave with my MIL and my bae sisters though he said they have no prob but this video helped a lot. Plenty thanks

Winnie I follow your channel and agree with almost everything. But these two points? No. 1. Your university boyfriend had no business dating a 'flamboyant' person if being 'conservative' was that important to him and his family. I am sure there were 'conservative' girls he would have chosen, but he came to you. You could have toned it down a bit on the day of his brother's graduation, fine. But then going foward, in subsequent events, are you going to keep 'toning it down' basically suppressing who you are? People should date people they shares same values with please. 2. Why would your MIL ask you to do anything, something, e.g washing clothes the first day you visit??? Do YOU ask a guest to do stuff around your house? How is that totally not a red flag? What point would they be trying to prove? What 'test' are they 'testing'? You sure you wanna live like that? Would your father ask him to wash his car when he visits your home for the first time, or at any time? I know you mean well, and probably just saying one should apply wisdom overall, but some impressionable people take things literally. Any MIL that will ask you to partake in a chore on the first day does not respect you, and is likely a troublemaker. You giving excuses even makes it worse, really. If you are fine with that type of treatment, OK. But it is not a standard.

This was so fun to watch 😂😂

Thank you so much for this, it's really helpful 💗

Thank you so much, your videos are educating

Lovely and helpful tips, Thanks Zee 😘😘, u are the best.

Thanks Winnie ❤️ absolutely 💯

so when notifications for your videos arrive I am very happy! such a work with such dedication and humility makes me create expectations in me for the next videos to come. may God continue to bless you and your family 🙏 a big kiss from Brazil

Ur such a saint sometimes, ur so amazing. Much love from Uganda 💚

This was awesome to watch.

Great Tip👌 i saw this at the right time.

Thank-you for the video Winnie! Your hair is always on point! Can I ask - where you got this hair from please?

Thanks for sharing this ma'am

Thank you so much winnie 💓 💗

Thanks I saw this video on time.😘

thank you so much ,i am being helped gotta be the best

In the northern part of Nigeria where i come from, if you take a gift when visiting your in-laws for the first time, they always looks at you as if you are desperate to get married to their son.

Thank you Ma I enjoyed watching ur videos

Thanks Winnie you are so warm and this is helpful and your a girls bestie🥰😊😇🤭 God bless you. I am listening by faith that the fiancé will come soon.

Thanks so much cc this is so helpful ☺

God bless you ma! I really love ur tips lt word enough.

Thanks for sharing 😘😍

Winnie I really love your videos ❤️❤️❤️

I really enjoyed watching this video…I never knew you could be a typical dramatic Nigerian with all the facial expressions and all🤣😂…I had a good laugh at some of your remarks and gestures…plus you are really cute🤗

nice lesson keep it up

You are amazing, never forget that! 💜💜💜

Thanks a lot this is real fact

Thanks ma🤗, I am obviously applying these tips next month🥰😂

I really love your videos, you're amazing!

Please Winnie can you do a video on how to behave when you meet your in-laws for the second time or time,I just want to get somethings, your videos are very good, thank you for those tips.

This is gold girl

Thank you Winnie ❤️

I really like your content🎉🎉❤,, you're an inspiration to me

Thanks Winnie🥰💞

Thank you Ma'am

Great tips I've already shared the video with a friend 😀 I lhave earned a lot 😀 👍

Thanks a lot. I appreciate this tips🙏🏻

Thanks dear...this is crucial information for the prospects...

Thanks for the tips big sis

Thanks for sharing these tips. New subbie😊

Along I was looking for this advice thank you so much dear, I will not call by your name, just allow me to call you teacher, you are the best ❤

Motigbo ooo Winnie 😂🤣😂 so helpful. Thanks for sharing 💜

Wow I love this

You're doing well Winnie 💜💛💚

When meeting in laws first time do not me much talkative let them say woww this my son friend is very quiet leave a good impression so when turn your back she quiet and very intelligent very intelligent knowledge

Winne you're helping your Kenya sister 😃

Thank you Ma

Ma, I watched this and I fell in love with you 😍😍😍😍 Weldon ma

Thank you 💗

Nice one

Good nuggets

Thanks u so much ANTY love u so much

Thank you Winnie for these tips. They will definitely come handy when it’s time. I read through the comments and I see how a lot of women are reacting to if their MIL asks them to wash on their first visit. She only gave an example, that probably was the closest example she could reach. Mind you, your would-be MIL could ask you to perform a task (it could be anything) or even an errand, on your first visit. In fact, it could be as mundane as passing the remote control (or something multiple times)that is several miles away or even helping out with setting the table for lunch or dinner(depending on the occasion of visit) how then would you react? Think about it “/

Lemme comment b4 I finish watching 🥰🥰🥰🤩🤓👌

Hi Winnie Always Love ur weaves. Can you mention your plug

Thank You

Winnie you are really super doper amazing..I so much love you❣️❣️

Thanks ma'am

Winnie, u just made my day with this piece ❤️

Nice👌🏾

Thanks so much winnie darling 🥰😘

Thanks for sharing but that part MIL saying wash my clothes for the first time, it's a no for me oh.

Thank u so much

I love you I’m a kenyan meeting my in-law in ghana soon like soon 😊

You have such a beautiful smile..😃

So sweet....... thank you

I love your laugh 😂 you crack up so elegantly 👸😍

Ur tips sounds funny nd kinda unexpected😂. in the sense that I didn't expect u would go all dip to dig the real important things out,, like wen u talked about inlaws being disrespectful,rude or insultive. I have actually seen that happened b4 from a distance nd ur tip for how 2 behave in such occasion is quite inspiring,kisses 2 u 4 dat zee💋💋. And every Oda tin u said Is really applicable nd cool, I love it. But plz zee,can u make a video on how to respond,react or behave wen on the phone. Bcuz yea we already know from this video what to or not do wen visiting for the first time. But then, some in-laws can be so forward that they feel it ok for them to talk 2 their children inlaws on phone, so I want 2 know wat u have in ur opinion about dat. Thanks ma💟🥰😘

For me it’s the part where she explained the facial in trying to show how not to laugh out loud 😂😂😂

wow ! nice, thanks. i like your accent baby girl

I've always figured that when meeting someone's in-laws, to dress in a demure, "girly " yet presentable dress and/or skirt.

You have a nice smile 😁cute lady thanks for the tips

Lovely

Omalicha God bless you

Thanks zee....about to meet mine soon like so soon. Thanks for all these tips.

Love you videos 😘😘 Also if my to be MIL going to ask me to wash her clothes the first time I meet her? Sorry she ain't gonna be my MIL

That was bad Winnie 😂😂 thanks for this❤😊🙏🙏

Thanks Winnie

Hi zee 😊

Can you make a video about non-Nigerians marrying into gbo men specifically Anambra men and MIL issues? Any tips ? MIL is giving hard time but everyone else is fine

Say Thank You million times as possible😍 I want to Thank you for your wise words indeed. My pick , dressing code, carry your manners , carry a Gift always ❤❤❤❤👌👌