1.Do a research on the guy 2.Make no assumptions 3.Dress to impress but be mindful of what you are wearing 4.Have enough money to cover your transportation 5.Ensure you keep to the schedule time - don't be late 6.Keep your conversations short and precise 7.Do not try to over impressing in your cooking skills 8.Don't be too forward 9.Keep your expectations very low 10.Keep sex off the table

My prayers for all the readers is "May your parents live happily for many many more years"

Yessss!👏🏾♥️ Preserve yourself. It’s not old fashioned. It’s Biblical and very needed today and tomorrow as it was in the past.

Wow... thank you so much for this...I'm 23 and still a virgin..I intend to keep it till marriage.. although I've seen alot of rich guys that just wanted to sleep with me..but thank God for this wisdom..

"Not every meet up has to end up in marriage or relationship"👏🏽 the wisdom of God is at work in you sis Is your boldness for calling a spade a spade.

Don’t go to a guy’s house for the first time in the evening (from 7pm upwards). Evenings have a romantic undertone to it and it might make it more difficult to ward off his advances. Evenings are great for hanging out. You can suggest visiting on a Saturday or Sunday during the day.

"Don't give up your cookie before marriage ".. Zee I love you more for this.... Preach sis!!!!

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you for boldly declaring the last tip...NO SEX WHATSOEVER TILL MARRIAGE! People get so scared to openly say that for fear of being unpopular. Respect your body and keep yourself. He will respect you for it! Well done Winnie!

Finally! A Nigerian vlog on elegance and feminity. I absolutely lọve this! Can't wait for the next episode

Even if the guy won't take advantage of you, staying over on the first night is making yourself overly available. Value your time too.

Sis!!!!! You're too much...I visited a guy yesterday and I did exactly what you saying 🔥✊✊

Great advise!! I’m a married 42 year old white guy from Canada and this lady has literally created the best dating advise I’ve ever heard in one place. Very classy. And yes respect yourselves and men respect you. Keep the cookie until you are comfortable with your man but don’t use it as a weapon either 😉 Good luck ladies!!

All friendship mustn't end in a relationship 😌 Thank you

Love your channel ❤ my advice is, don't visit someone while hungry And don't get to someone's place for a visit and ask what they have in the fridge.. Make it a habit to always eating something before stepping out👏👏

Nice video. Didn't agree with every single detail, it covered most of the basics. I think an important tip you left out though is to tell your closest friends and family where you are going. Share the uber ride, text them the address, send them the live location, casually slip it into conversation that people know where you are. The visit is not a secret. If anything happens to you he will answer for it.

Everyone here will live long and your joy will continue to flow like a river.

Some other things I would like you to talk about in an etiquette video would be: how long you should wait before visiting his house? How long you should stay? When should he visit your place? Etc. How to properly excuse yourself if he is thirsty or vulgar?

A guy with good intentions should really not be inviting you to his house until it is an established friendship/relationship with an assured future. There are alot of other places to meet i.e restaurants. If you are just meeting and you have no expectations of him, he should most certainly not be expecting you to cook either. That is a husband privilege, as is s....x ...

‘keep yourself until marriage‘. That‘s the point that gives me goosebumb. It is strength not lack of opportunity. Thanks my lady for hitting the nail clearly. Many ladies need to hear this. Am not going to give a blind eye to fact that the body can be weak sometimes, but we ought to keep trying. If it happens, fine. Do not give up on yourself. Pick up and keep moving.

Please do a video on when you're meeting his family for the first time, I need that🙈 thank you ma.

This is soooo insightful. don’t move faster than your shadow. Don’t show desperation. show class in everything that you do! Thank you!

It’s the way Winnie says “respectfully decline” for me ❤️❤️

And again another etiquette is, this is not even in his house now, when a guy invites you for shopping and you are to take stuffs, don't over do it, don't over buy, you do not know his budget, don't carry goods you sef can't pay for, one thing I don't do, my friends say I'm always trying to help people manage their money, I feel is just right ma, please tell me if its wrong You don't know his budget, pick little things and lock up unless he insists on you picking more, and you can say "its okay, I'm good, thank you" Again when meeting for the first time especially in his house, say thank you to every little thing, he offers you a sit say thank you, he offers you a glass of wine, when collecting it say thank you, he's a friend, you are a guest, say thank you don't make it look like he's a maid, like is his job. He invited you fine, but appreciate little things like a glass of wine or a cup of water.

The best time to go to a guys house is early during the day the first few times. It's for safety reasons. You can go to his house on the weekend for brunch or lunch and end your visit with a walk in a near by park rather than his bed.

Give your life to Christ guys 😎 Spread positivity in the name of the Lord. Together, we can make a difference in this fallen world we live in today! Don't forget that Jesus is coming back to take His people. God bless you and be sure to share the gospel of Jesus Christ, the one true King.

You are right in not having sexual contact before marriage. Great advice you are giving us.

I'm watching this video again like 5 times it needs to sink😪in my head Bless you for this video

Almost at 500k, I'm so excited I could cry. On our way to a million.

Ma'am you are amazing, my mom had shared most of these tips with me and I also learnt more here. You're what this generation needs... no feminism here just plain priceless truths... I love you ma, I wish I could work under you as an intern or apprentice, just learn... when are you opening your restaurant ma, it would be world class.

It's the last tip for me. I feel it's underrated. Thank you Winnie

I love this video to bits. Thanks, Winifred. The sincerity and honest truth in every point of yours make this video A MUST-WATCH. I wish I could do more than like and subscribe. Welldone!

Thank you for this Winnie. I love the “elegant lady” you used

Thanks a million times Zelicious for the tips.

Thank you so much Winnie. I fell short of many of those but I know better now

Thank you so much for this video, you just reminded me of what I already knew but had forgotten. This video just saved me, thank you so much.

"Please keep ur cookie in the cookie jar until after marriage", I like that 👍

Thanks Zeelicious have learnt a lot,haven't regretted subscribing to your channel for once . I appreciate the fact that someone else with an audience as you Do who is not a priest or pastor is boldly advising against fornication

Thanks for this video. I thought I knew a lot and almost gave it a second thought. I learned so much. Grateful! ❤️

I gained a lot of from this etiquette series ma, I made alot of assumptions which led to heart breaks and disappointments. Thank you so much ma, I am grateful for this and I do not take this for granted 🙌

Thank you so much for the knowledge,dignity and care sis❤️🥰Keep them coming

Yesss sis,thank you for this I’ve been singing this song since ooo, especially the assumption part

Thank you very much. I love your channel especially your sense of humour. The quality of your contents is topnotch. Keep up the good work.

Thank God I finally met someone with same point of view Thanks alot I love this

Thank you Aunty Zee . God bless you . We need more of this .

May God give you greater grace to keep inspiring us through food, the etiquette series and just being you. You're so stylish, modest, inspiring and everything in-between.

This is wonderful. Thank you so much 🙏😌

I really love this and i agree with everything you said. This is really for me and i wait for more of it. Be blessed

Thanks for these words of wisdom.

This is so educative ..... Thanks for the advice❤❤ You're a rare gem📌

Wow. Thank you so much for this. I laughed all through and learnt alot as well. I really enjoyed it. 🥰

God bless you dearie . My eyes are now opened

Absolutely love love and love your tips 💞

this is absolutely inspiring... seeing a beautiful, prospering and successful woman talk about reserving herself is really awe-mazing. they say it's for the old school. But here you are. super incredible. I'm inspired. Thumbs up!

This is why I love you 😍 Winnie! Thanks alot for the advise. Also, you and Ify are looking more alike everyday in my eyes love you ladies' relationship. It's healthy. God bless you

This is great & lovely. You have said a lotta tips out there for the ladies, nice one Zeelicious.👍👍

You have won a new follower with this great advice💞. The last piece of advice was amazing. God bless you, sis.

Spot on sis👌. Now, I love you more. Assumptions only lead to nothing but disappointments. God bless you for this.

This was a good watch,i unknowingly do a lot of what you mentioned.Thanks for sharing🙂

Loved this! So many great tips and you’re HILARIOUS! Thanks, sis!♥️

Thank you, you balanced the teaching well, am happy that some of the media ladies still stands for the truth.

Yes oo single ladies we are here to learn 🥰😝 I must say I gained a lot from this 🥰

Yes ooo single ladies we are here to learn 🥰🥰

Thanks for sharing these etiquettes. I have seen one point where I fell short before.

Loved this. Kept it real and clear. The truth is bittersweet but can spare heartbreak and save lives. God bless you.

Waaawu!! This is amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.. there's something different about you first time I watched your video. This is beautiful, well detailed

Thanks a lot, I've learn my lessons...my only mistakes was that I cooked n cleaned his house for the three days I spent...till then he started behaving different, so I had to back off...everyone has a different ways on viewing things...I've learnt , I'll watch this video almost every week just to learn n keep it in mind.❤

Thank you for these tips! They're enlightening. 💓

I’m thoroughly enjoying your channel!

I’ve learned something.Thank you sweetheart ❤️🥰

This is so helpful and exactly what I needed! Thank you so much! 💛

Am so impressed, I needed this. Thanks Winnie

You always speak with confidence and much experience ❤ I admire that a lot 🥰 Thanks for this reminder ❤️❤️❤️

You have no idea how my respect for you skyrocketed to another level.I totally agree with every tip Winnie especially keeping sex off the table🙌🏽. Thank you and God bless!

You spoke my mind exactly. Well done Winnie. Great Advice. I shared it with my girls. Blessings and thank you for sharing

Beautiful tips you've dished out. I now love and respect you more❤

Thank you very much for your tips🙏

Great etiquettes. I did enjoy everyone of them. My mum also taught me never to show up at a place for the first time empty handed. So sometimes I go with a bottle of non-alcoholic wine especially when going to a family house

Thank you Winnie. I learnt my lesson about dressing and looks the hard way, I've already made amends and this video is just a reminder. Once again, thank you for this relatable content.

Thank you very much for all the advices you have been given to us and we are much grateful 🙏🙏

Thank you very much, I love this

You just gained a new subscriber. I love everything you said. It’s as if you are talking to me. Thanks Sister Winne ☺️

Nice one Winnie, even we the guys eavesdropping learnt a whole bunch of lessons.

Great advice. Thank you so much

Finally something about elagance and etiquette.......... waiting for the next episode

I'm indeed grateful for this etiquette

Wished this post came earlier this year, wouldn’t have made the mistake on assumption..😔😔. Thank you Winnie, a lot learnt from this post..

You are the best, i love all your points especially the last.

Thank you madam. More grace to continue helping the ignorant. You are blessed. I am impressed with all your videos.

Very well done👍...this sets the right atmosphere for anything to fall into place.

Well spoken Love this piece Very educating

Thanks so much sis,,l have learned alot from you .Waiting for more to come.

Thanks for sharing this Miss,Zee ❤️

thanks for keeping us together both in the kitchen and in our various lives. you're a gem💕💕💕💕

Ended up watching the video twice... thanks for making it engaging, funny and easily relatable.

Great show, first time viewing..totally agree!

All so blunt and correct ✅

Alot to learn here. Thanks Winnie ❤️

This was beautiful to watch.

This video has really helped me, thank you so much

Wow I learnt a lot from this.. thank God I watched this before I go visiting 🙏. I really love your video.