That's what I'm seeing too. They think they can do anything and get away with it.

Exactly. From experience, hiring a court reporter helps keep opposing attorneys and even the judges in check.

@@Perry_Neum I wish I could afford it and I wish everything was on film and audio so I could prove the ex parte and the corruption. They are ignoring the obvious lies.

That is true. They don't understand consequences enough. They are the types of people who will lie about a person they were/are abusing, too. When people are so ready and willing to smash someone in court, that should be a potential red flag to them.

Spoken like a true family lawyer. The key phase "the word is out".

THE ENTIRE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS A JOKE.

FACTS

It's a very sad and terrifying truth.

I'm in the cycle now 🤔😬😐

@Justin A. Gamache, B.S., M.Ed. It's full of corruption everywhere and it's fueled by those with money who want to keep it that way; predators, malignant narcissists and sadistic psychopaths. The decent people are outnumbered in the positions of power.

The judges don't even seem to care if they do.

😥 😔 sad

That's exactly it, there's no incentive to not lie, especially for people with no empathy.

@@coreyanderson1457 And they don't care if they have no empathy, or, as in my case, I believe, in hindsight, they wanted me to continue carefully as I was, not countering anything so they could leave things as they were as far as kids' safety, but I lost so much financially and when I tried to regain some financial ground for myself and my kids I got hammered. It feels almost like they are tossing a coin and going heads or tails, they have no insight, except perhaps a whispered ex parte communication or certain sentences flag a judge to make a certain call, when her mind was wandering a minute earlier.

I agree 💯💯 there’s no justice in court

@@bjornofficial4688 yes it does my son I paid all my support to my son but his father abused him for yrs now he is dead at 21 .sad my heart is still broken most days I want to join him in death so sad the injustices in this world .

@@bjornofficial4688 They never show they are abusive side in the beginning typical pattern .

@@bjornofficial4688 Then again this country has a dark history of human rights abuses , civil rights abuses itself. I quit believing in Justice for all a very long time ago.

​@@bjornofficial4688 That is what people don't understand: It starts off more wonderful than anything you can imagine. They mirror their prey and they choose the kindest and most forgiving people, the vulnerable, often choosing someone with health issues they can seem to be willing to overlook, or they act very much like they share exactly the same values and intentions, and then they character assassinate but it looks like you are doing that when you try to tell others the truth, and it can take a very long time before they show their real colours, often waiting until their partner is very pregnant or has a couple of children with them and then they begin threatening the child, but in subtle ways, not easily explained to others so you seem paranoid and wrong about them, they act so wonderful with their children for everyone else to see and you want that for your child because that is good for your child so you keep re-evaluating your own opinions of what is really going on, thinking you must be wrong, or they target the other parent's vulnerabilities, putting them down, even if you were the Queen of Sheba they will find a way to bring you down, and they do it slowly and subtly to begin or suddenly when you are at your most vulnerable, perhaps look your worst or are in no position to fight them and they wait until you have put all your trust in the relationship being solid to pull the rug out, but they threaten the children and your reputation and your relationships, lying about you long before you understand why other people are also treating you poorly, so you are demoralized. In short; they are predators, wolves, and they pretend to be gentle sheep. There is also a trauma bond developed which is intense as everything was so wonderful to begin, we try very hard to get that back and it has a lasting impact on our perceptions, while they have long moved on to destroying us, especially if we ever try to leave or might expose them. It is also very hard for 'normal' people to understand that they destroy us for sport and due to hatred, self hatred they project onto us, in order to avoid self-annihilation. They are content as they are but they know they are not the same, so they hide. They are basically psychopathic but they torture us for a slow kill, destroying our mental and physical health and our spirits, slowly, so they can enjoy it more, gas lighting us, destroying our friendships and our family connections. They are opportunistic. And some of them are very capable of killing, but they are also capable of destroying their children as they grow up and they lose control of them and lose control of the way their children perceive them and may also speak about them. They are predators amongst us who are hiding in plain sight.

I agree. I get what he's trying to get across, though. But, like you stated in the comment, lying to take a child from someone IS serious. It devastates people and destroys lives in some cases. Narcisists and sociopaths are known for false allegations, too. They do it to gain an advantage, and they go unpunished for it.

Going through this now. I’m in utter shock with the false allegations. Any other tidbits of info?

@@jbs3144 Sure. On my KZfaq channel I have many videos with lots of information about how to deal with this whole false allegation and child custody scenario. For example, I found that during the custody process during the monthly 10 minute meetings, the judge doesn't care about evidence or facts but still rules in favor of the mother. And only when you have your full trial, and you can testify fully, can you force the judge to pay attention to reality. The system is designed to demoralize you until you quit. You have to stand your ground and fight to the end.

I represented myself (not by choice) I didn't even get a chance at an opening statement. The judge just yelled at me. The children's lawyer made me agree to a trial period cause that was the wish of my child. When my ex failed to meet the agreement of school and maintaining cost of braces he stopped allowing access for almost a year. I just didn't know where to begin. I lost my son. Deciding tomorrow and I'm not at all optimistic to be honest such shady nonsense

@@jbs3144 how is it coming along? Any luck unraveling the false allegations?

It happens to women too though. It should be taken seriously no matter what.

The prosecutor lied in my case and I have absolute proof!! Think anything will be done about it? I highly doubt that.

The stress that false allegations cause can be catastrophic. It needs to be punished every time it's exposed.

Nearly everyone in office would have to be prosecuted.

Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences. I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted.

@@roceliacaraballo7770 Family law seems to have very little to do with family, law or justice.

Being lied about in court, where one's own child or children is involved, is serious. And can be terrifying, yes!

This is exactly what is happening to me now. After I told him I am leaving him. He applied for the protection order. My kids are sad upset scared. He doesn’t care. He doesn’t want me to take the kid later and him having to pay the child support. Now he got the house. Not having to pay for the child support. He even negotiated with me on giving me a full custody if I give him this imaginary investment that he thinks I have. This is truly a nightmare. The court doesn’t care about the children. The victims are the kids and the falsely accused.

I am so sorry. No parent should lose contact with a child like that unless the child needs it and was seriously abused by the parent. They harm the children and are ignorant and callous about it.

Problem is that some lawyers are sociopaths/Narcissists, so the don't care about the truth, and they're only interested in 'winning' an argument and case. They might also defer to the managers who instruct them at the private law firm/ company. It's all about money - Dishonest prosecution teams want money and some have no interest in losing integrity, because they have no integrity to lose. The trials are rigged against the defence team. That's the way the prosecution likes it. Might be historical bias in that defendants were often poor whilst the prosecution are rich ( in money not integrity). BVH from England

You have my deepest sympathy! I’m going up against my abuser along with his lying relatives in a corrupted courtroom his relative has connections with!! Smh

I hear you my friend much of the same happened to me. She filed on me this is the second time now.. my son is now 1 year 6 months and even though she just filed the new order. I feel helpless and even though I know I should look at pictures I still do of boy and I break down everytime. She left bruises and is the type of person who believes she can do anything she wants to a man and he will be at fault. Entitled as it gets. Narssasistic manipulative all of it. She thought I was going to turn her into the cops or courts so she got there first lied her ass off and now I have an order of protection on me. I have to do supervised visits now. I didn't do anything wrong but was punished. I can't imagine how you feel. Hopefully when he gets older he will contact you but at the same time all that time missed when he was young and at the cutest stage.. that's what scares me to death. My son not knowing me or calling me da da anymore. I'm so sorry my friend I can't imagine what your going through. God bless you and if what you say is true karma's hell and God will punish the people who did this to you. The worst part to be honest. Who ever did this to you doesn't care about the child at all. If they did they would use him as a pawn against his father. I pray you find peace and he comes into your life. God speed

I also have been thru this. My own mother and government have gotten together and formed allegations and lies about me which ultimately got my three year old taken from me forever. I don't know how these people can look at themselves in the mirror.

Just a thought - has your attorney considered deposing her? This would allow forcing a video appearance. Alternatively, has your attorney considered hiring a private investigator?

@@brianmayer28 Funny you mention that, just this last month he has started this action, including subpoenaing her entire medical record from her medical provider. We've been so disappointed in the past, it's made us wonder if this is going to do anything at all.

Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences. I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted. I’m in Massachusetts. And they’re so “woke” here that now it’s all moms are isht and Dads never lie/alienation behaviors. They’re trying to “make up” for the decades of going straight to Moms. How about you do what you’re designed to do and just take 5m to hear it out, look at the proof and then decide. I’ve known amazing fathers lose time w their kids too. It’s disgusting.

EXACTLY !!!!

There is no justice in the UK either. Prosecution is often instructed by and becomes e v i l

I could absolutely prove perjury of the most utterly blatant, deliberate repeat nature by my sick ex, but I was never allowed to speak nor represent myself in civil (family) court (unlawful) and the UK police won't touch it. Indeed, her signed sworn statement to the police was not only inconsistent with her sworn statements to court, they were blatantly contradictory - the police won't use that, and even refuse to give me a copy in writing to use in civil court (they had read out some of it)!

I think my mom has done something like this to me behind my back.

There are a lot of predators in family court positions fed by monied men, and the good ones are trapped by that fact too. Then our evil exes find them. Hopefully your ex steps in his own lies. Call them on absolutely everything in writing. Use any history too of anything you might have stated anywhere or filmed but remember they are always going to be better at this stuff than you so be patient and pretend you are interested in something else and they will want you to be encumbered by the children secretly. I recommend you sock what ever you can away and then live by the adage people and pets before objects and things or opportunities. Let him have the fun and the money (within reason) if you need to protect the kids. Pretend you are unhappy, but remember real predators aren't fools, but if you don't call them on things you can carve out a better life for yourself quietly. Just keep it on the downlow and always be ready to rumble. Don't calm yourself down, psyche yourself up. There are a number of people offering advice on how to deal with a narcissist in family court. If he doesn't abuse the kids let them know you are always thinking of them and let him think you've got something else going on and he might want you to take them. If he tries to upset you by his handling of them that's when things get tough. Document. Often they take kids for a year and then say you can have them back if you don't ask for anything more. One Moms Battle or Anthony Bompiani

From my experience, hiring a court reporter puts the opposing attorney on alert.

I know you didn't mean this, but I'd love it if they 'executed' them too.

This is EXACTLY how I am in my case and what has happened to me.

@@Perry_Neum Yes, because the judge removes so much from the court record there is NO access to justice for the corruption. I wish I had the means to do so.

Perjury is prosecuted at the sole discretion of the District Attorney’s office (or state equivalent, or by Attorney General’s office if the perjury occurred in federal courts.). There is nothing to file in court. If you believe perjury has been committed, generally, the place to start is by asking your local law enforcement agency to take a report.

What if some one brought pucture from they car accidents and use them in a criminal case 4 years later and added them to the case and the judge accepted them when the injury was different from the discovery to the one's they submitted at trial and you got proof of the accidents

Correct.

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What if you can't immediately catch her? What if the proof comes out years later?

@@GBIZZLE Lack of proof and evidence can be a problem in all court cases, including criminal, family court, and civil lawsuits. And maybe, or maybe not, you can have some kind of re-trial when new evidence pops up. But I don't know if that happens too often in family court. And I don't know if a re-trial can fix the damage done from false allegations after a decision is made against you...depending on the circumstance. I think the common answer people give to that is "tough luck, if you lose". But I hate that answer. So I always recommend that you present all possible testimony, in detail, to show how the allegations are false. And to show what the true situation was. On top of your testimony, maybe you can bring some evidence like texts or voicemails or witnesses. Or maybe you can show some circumstantial evidence, like how she did not call the police, or she never went to a doctor to address her injuries, like a real victim might do. All of these things might help round out your story of innocence...And give a judge reason to believe you are innocent. But it also may not work, depends on the judge and the facts at hand. I think the key is that you cannot take these false allegations sitting down. You have to do your best to prove your innocence. Present what you do have. It's a flawed system, especially if the judge is going to be prone to assume the mother must be a victim. I think the people who overcome false allegations tend to be the ones who give 200% effort to prove their innocence, because nobody else in the legal system will give you the benefit of the doubt. And it requires some creative thinking. Sorry if this happened to you.... I got caught up in it, too.

@@FatherX2022 FINALLY SOMEONE WHO KNOWS MY PAIN!!! YO YOU GAVE ME A FULL DOSE OF MOTIVATION!!! AND I APPRECIATE YOOOOOU!!

BTW, my situation goes beyond perjury.. when I found the malicious texts, I knew the DNA test was fake from the beginning because she admitted another guy was the father. Smh never knew the court would do such a thing.

When the judge tells you to shut up and be quiet you really don't have a choice this is how they treat you with no lawyer.

You can appeal? Can i get your help?

I am so sorry. I hope things are going better for you now.

Look up Your states HHS office under fair hearings & appeals..of course you can appeal! We have rights!!!!! Take care, I'll help with what I can! Learn your laws! Hire a attorney! Fight for your rights!!! God Bless🥰@@talycorral1867

Faith Monroe thank you, Faith. I’m so glad that you find them to be informative!

Lawyers lie - their prosecution case is not presented under oath - at least that's the situation in the UK.

Please do your self a favor and file contempt for the threatening abuse towards you

@Mercedes I’m so sorry you are going through this. I am here learning about the legal process. And the little I’ve learned so far, in 2 weeks, is that it has NOT to do with truth and justice. It has to do with DRAMA, WINNING CASE, STRATEGY. If, IF, we are fortunate, blessed, and by the hand of almighty God, end up in the hands of a lawyer who can get ahead of us, because they can see that we know absolutely nothing! Again, by God’s Grace, we may get some results. I am here to learn. I chose to learn by looking up on KZfaq legal issues. I’ve been down this route researching, with the medical field. KZfaq is truly a wealth of information. Keep the faith. Stay the course. Blessings.

Family law is such an inexcusable farce,

I am so sorry and angry this happened to you as happened to me. My children were a little luckier temporarily, but it is all going down the tube again. The family law system is corrupt and has nothing to do with caring about children and honesty.

Maybe. It depends on more than what can be discussed in this limited format.

What happened in your case?

@@talycorral1867 ended up settling ...she accomplished nothing and cost us both thousands in court costs

So you won? And they charge you guys for court?

@@talycorral1867 didnt really win...not much changed at all...the lawyers did...about 8k

My tanant put a TRO because she wanted to get me out within days from my studio. She made false statements serious threats supposed i did to her. We have court soon. But she has no proof at all i have proof that most of everything shes stating is false

Patrick Mcqueen hi Patrick. I’m taking a leave of absence at the time I am writing this, but thank you for asking.

I can’t recall if I addressed it in this video, but I would like to see perjury prosecutable as a misdemeanor by a party to the family law case, similar to how contempt of court may be prosecuted by parties to the action, but with “loser pays” court costs.

How about strike off the dishonest lawyers? That would work... Fines wouldn't deter them as they have as much money as the d lets them have

@@julietcrowson3503 lawyers don’t testify.

kia828... you replied but then deleted your comment. Could you please repost? It looks like you had something to help me.

The answer would depend on the details, but a motion for reconsideration would rarely be the right course of action. The more likely path would be a motion to set aside based upon the other party’s fraud.