What To Look For In a Christian Husband | 5 Simple But CRUCIAL Qualities of a Godly Man
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Күн бұрынWhen I was single I would often get the question, "Why don't you date so-and-so, he goes to church?" The truth is, I didn't just want a guy who goes to church, I wanted a man who was actively pursuing Jesus in all aspects of his life. Not a perfect man - those don't exist. But a man who was imperfectly pursuing the Perfect One. Great, so how do you know if a guy is doing this or not? In this video, I'm breaking down five indicators that a man is actively pursuing the Lord. These are five simple but crucial qualities to look for in a godly man - because they will hugely impact your marriage. I hope this video on what to look for in a Christian husband is encouraging and helpful to you! 🤍
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“Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord." | Psalm 27:14
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
One more thing to look for in a Christian husband: someone who values YOU and shows it in the way he pursues and treats you. Share any others you can think of below! 🤍
@elizabethlyons1733 Жыл бұрын
Yes! He should love you the way Christ loves the church.
@drdoll259 Жыл бұрын
thank you. ❤❤❤
@abni1013 Жыл бұрын
1) a man who prays earnestly 2) a man who loves God’s Word 3) a man who’s committed to the local church/Christian community 4) a man who repents when he falls short 5) a man who isn’t perfect, but pursuing The Perfect One, wholeheartedly
@bryanlim9817 Жыл бұрын
Basically, the same requirement as Christian girls everywhere: a super duper spiritual man. Got it.
@Kayla-xw8no Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful and powerful topic. My Dad would tell my Mom often, the he loved her like Christ loved the Church. I am so grateful to have grown up in a home where my parents loved Jesus so deeply. I pray that all who are seeking will be blessed with favor!
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
Wow what a beautiful marriage your parents have - love that you grew up getting to witness that! 🤍
@TheLionsLamb Жыл бұрын
As a guy who watches your videos, this is really good advice. A man who has seen and understands the goodness of God will pursue God above all else. I also want to add that a man of God is also looking for woman who fears the Lord above all else. Great vid!
@beckybeaver1988 Жыл бұрын
I get married next Saturday ❤ I found myself a Godly man 😊
@user-di7cr3ql8c 5 ай бұрын
How is the marriage so far
@johndummy3370 3 ай бұрын
Odds are she will divorce him and if children are involved she will force him to pay child support and alimony. Marriage is a raw deal for men these days. Hope he has a prenup.
@MA-yc7pz Жыл бұрын
Pray for me I have been hopeless in this subject lately Qualities : Consistency, Honesty, ability to communicate their feelings and respect. Definitely Self Awareness
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
Praying for you now 🙏🏼
@DejaDrewit Жыл бұрын
Im a single mom and we’ve gone through a lot of emotional pain. If i ever meet a man he has to be a good father figure to my son and there needs to be a bond between them. That is non negotiable for me. Ive seen step dads who just dont care about the kids and i can never do that. My son is my life. Love your channel!
@kmydesire12 11 ай бұрын
Same. I have 3kids, maybe I won’t marry but if it Gods will he definitely would need to have a genuine love for God and kind and loving step dad
@nousername7878 6 ай бұрын
My sincere apologies to the both of you for not having a partner anymore but if you really love God and Jesus, you need to read what I have copied and pasted here, it is from the Bible about remarriage and I don't know how many Christians know of this as I have seen a certain amount wanting to remarry though I do not know their circumstances (why their marriage fell apart and reason for not being together anymore). “For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” Then Jesus states clearly the exception, “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The above applies to man and woman. If you have any questions to do with those verses, do leave them here in the comments here. May God and Jesus bless you both.
@em77775 Жыл бұрын
He has to love Jesus and know how to love. ❤
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@keriwright-tarr4458 Жыл бұрын
Please be praying for me. I'm engaged to a Christian man, who loves God, but I have a heaviness in my heart. I need clarity from God. Thank you! Love your videos!
@robertrouser Жыл бұрын
John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come....🙏
@petrabassey8842 Жыл бұрын
I pray that the Holy Spirit will guide you in all your pursuits, In the Mighty Name of Jesus!!
@jkpow93 Жыл бұрын
I was listening to a message last night and they talked about the difference between a deep peace and heaviness from fears. I'll try find it and share the link
@petrabassey8842 Жыл бұрын
@@jkpow93 did you find the link ? 😭
@daman7129 Жыл бұрын
It might be from past trauma?
@hannahcree Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful message Kaci! I would say Protection, physical and spiritual, a covering of myself head to toe as well as our household as the leader he is. Passion, being on the same page regarding our hopes and dreams together as a married couple, I love babies 👶🏻 Honoring sabbath rest and letting me fully embrace all that I am in my feminine essence as a homemaker. He prays for his wife daily just as she does for him. These are beautiful God Honoring qualities that I found in my husband.
@sazzy2121 Жыл бұрын
This is great. I definitely look for these qualities. I also feel that women should also be following these steps to become the women of Proverbs 31. I think this also needs to be addressed. Because men want women such as these.
@misskaykay1856 Жыл бұрын
Sooo timely. Thank you for this reminder
@RASHASA1237 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful teaching be blessed!!!🕊🤍
@chiomairegbu2365 Жыл бұрын
I love your contents so much,they’re full of truths and are timely, God bless you.
@michaelwiebe4282 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kaci! I strive to be that man!
@truesdelly Жыл бұрын
Those are perfect! Thank you Kaci! This is something that I give a lot of thought to, and these are definitely the most important. Sometimes in the frustration of still being single you can lose sight of how important these are, but it’s truly is worth the wait! One that I would add for my personal list is that he wouldn’t be caught up in chasing after the world, but seeks earnestly after Christ (which would ultimately be the fruit of the things you already mentioned) ❤
@junevanstaden7288 Жыл бұрын
Thanks. Very good advice
@Littlesunshinepigeon Жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS!! Thank you!
@jenessam.hernandez4331 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I will keep these 5 keys in mind once I am open to building a relationship with a Christian man that leads to marriage.
@robynlovisa5096 Жыл бұрын
So helpful ❤
@eeeeeeeeee10 Жыл бұрын
I love your channel, when you speak of redemption you sound Catholic, that’s a great thing. Going to confession feels amazing. Would you be interested in attending one Latin mass ? If so I can send you info. God Bless you 💜
@daniellekramer93 Жыл бұрын
Someone with communication is key for me. I’ve had some fails in this scenario. I got the notification this time. I also feel helpless because I haven’t found the one.
@Littlesunshinepigeon Жыл бұрын
Qualities: 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, it talks about what love truly is. You don't want a guy who is violent or easily angered. You want a guy who puts God first before you. You want a guy with passion for everything he cares about(God included).
@taryndodds1390 Жыл бұрын
Your channel popped up in my recommended! LOVE your wedding photos-where were they taken? Thank you for the video! I’m single and 27 and needed some advice ❤
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
Aw I'm so happy to hear it was helpful 😊 our wedding was at Paicines Ranch in Hollister, CA, so that's where our wedding photos are! But we also took adventure photos in our wedding attire at Joshua Tree National Park!
@ria8244 Жыл бұрын
Yes firmly
@tyronpouncey5985 Жыл бұрын
Hey love your video and channel over all I am a man, may you please do a video on 5 quality of a Christian wife/women 😊
@samaranewman8559 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kaci! Any advice for a man who embodies all of these qualities, but your lifestyles are very different? Ex: Homeschool vs. Public school, Farm life vs. Active city life etc.
@timeisup9400 Жыл бұрын
Accurate video
@abrahamyarjah5263 Жыл бұрын
Incredible. Please aid us with a video of a Christian man finding a Christian girlfriend.
@marylee2672 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@raulmartinez429 Жыл бұрын
You left out other points that are very important and demanded by Jesus Himself 1. Should be is GOD the center of his life 2. Does he honor his father and mother they way he treats his mother he will treat you. 3.Does he practice what he preachers meaning is he a good Samaritan You want a GODly man outside church not a christian inside church. 4. If he loves GOD you will know that's not something you can hide nor pretend 5. You want a man who has a relationship whit JESUS not a religious man who plays church
@Mary-gr3mr Жыл бұрын
I used to date someone who was WAY TOO CLOSE to his mom and dad . Never again . I would never wish that for anyone
@melinachristine8478 10 ай бұрын
She did cover all of that by saying he was pursuing the perfect one, loved the Word earnestly prayed, and repented. Those are all examples of someone who has God at the center ❤️ She also mentioned in the beginning of the video, its more than someone just attending church, how is his relationship with the Lord. I like what you said as well 😊
@helenangelo9886 Жыл бұрын
2:17 So enjoying all your videos keep it up even though I know you have a new baby now and the new life with a wonderful husband 💟 I so appreciate you😊✝️ I have heard you mention you drink Matcha 🍵 I’m looking for a good healthy drink could you possibly put a link here for me to see which one you enjoy!
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much 😊 and yes matcha is the best! Here's the one I drink: bit.ly/3LwH7k5
@helenangelo9886 Жыл бұрын
@@kacinicole thank you 😉
@Search4Cherise Жыл бұрын
AMEN! 🥳🙌🏿✨
@Diana-yf2tl Жыл бұрын
Can you please tell how are you doing your curls?😊
@chelseagelber1979 Жыл бұрын
Keep pursuing the Bridegroom and he’ll lead to your groom he picked for you!
@marylee2672 Жыл бұрын
Amen!❤🙏
@marylee2672 Жыл бұрын
Amen!🙏
@MrAllysonn Жыл бұрын
Kaci, I am going down the rabbit hole. I turned 37 about four months ago and I have not met anyone.
@lidyaendale Жыл бұрын
So much Usefull and also please tell us the Quality of Wife i want to be that godly girl
@drno1257 Жыл бұрын
be virgin , be submissive , be kind , cook and clean good and most importantly be appreiciative of your husband.
@Vedana759 Жыл бұрын
Wow beautiful 🥰
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
So glad you liked it 😊
@rexmabunga Ай бұрын
How about what to look for in a Christian wife? Thank you in advance. God bless!
@centpushups Жыл бұрын
Knowing how to cherish. Surprisingly hard to find ways to cherish a wife. It's weird. It's in the marriage vows but all the focus is one love and not to cherish. Could think of doing a video on that.
@JoeFay_Tech Жыл бұрын
serving is mandatory? but what if i don't have time or the energy because work can be draining and time consuming?
@What_3221 Жыл бұрын
Can you please give us bible scriptures you used
@LifeWithJuan Жыл бұрын
Can guys use the "Still Single" devotional too? Or is it meant exclusively for girls?
@chavotapia3168 11 ай бұрын
Follow Jesus and he will help you become the man your were always meant to be! 🙏
@NewCreationInChrist896 Жыл бұрын
Seek Christ's will daily and practice spiritual disciplines redeeming the time. Ephesians 5:15-16 "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil"
@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
This is so good 👏🏼
@gabriellaholland2807 3 ай бұрын
What do I do if a guy has all these things but obviously struggling a little as everyone does but I don’t have a lot of feelings for him and we don’t have a lot of similar interests. We’ve been dating a few months now and I feel like I’ve been staying with him for the Godly parts but then we don’t click so I don’t know what to do and I need some advice
@kylenicholas2957 Жыл бұрын
Question can He who is Perfect Jesus Christ fulfill and empower and guide a man or woman to be as the world says it perfect in such a way as the scriptures say. Make full proof of your ministry. I’m praying for you stirring your heart 🙏❤️🙏
@jongunnell1031 Жыл бұрын
Do you have any tips for a Christian men to find a Christian girlfriend
@lucygale336 Жыл бұрын
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@kacinicole Жыл бұрын
🤍
@beaware354 10 ай бұрын
Any other man here who wants to learn/know how a Christian husband should be?
@johndummy3370 3 ай бұрын
Considering women are the ones divorcing their husbands the majority of the time these days id think men should be asking that question to women, not the other way around.
@justpeachy4393 Жыл бұрын
No hot tempers. If a guy has an out of control temper, run the other way.
@John_811KJV 6 ай бұрын
*Biblical Marriage: 1 man + 1 woman = One Flesh til Death do you Part* Mark 10:2-12; 1 Corinthians 7:10-11, 1 Corinthians 7:39; Romans 7:2-3
@cd4playa1245 Жыл бұрын
I know I’m being cynical but how could you possibly know if a random guy at your church doesn’t fit all of these criteria that you’ve come up with unless you spent months to get to know him? I guess what I’m getting at is if a Christian lady doesn’t find a Christian man attractive because he doesn’t take care of himself physically, or if he exhibits beta qualities, then that’s fine. No one will judge you if you simply don’t find a man attractive. But I feel like you’re trying to find excuses to justify why you’d rather wait than settle for a more average looking man, but as a result you’re actually demonizing unattractive men as if you could possibly know how their private prayer life is. Just remember that that ugly guy at church could actually step in to save your life possibly without a second thought, sacrificing his own life for yours. As a guy who has been training for the security team at my church just know that while some people are volunteering at the church openly some men are training outside of eye sight. You can’t always judge people superficially. Let God be the judge, and just be honest if you simply find someone unattractive or attractive. You don’t have to justify being a woman in the same way I don’t have to justify being a man.
@benbraceletspurple9108 7 ай бұрын
How is going to church, not your own time. That's religious spirit attending not seeking anything. If you're going to church and you thinking of it like it is not your free time, you should re evaluate why you going to church
@benbraceletspurple9108 7 ай бұрын
Furthermore, 3 is unnecessary, there are many communities that are so corrupt, there is little reason to play around there. Some are so small they aren't available.
@commitmenttoexcellence Ай бұрын
She's looking for Jesus Christ.
@herefordDavid Жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian Prosident Baptist Hinduism Of Love The Holy One And Can And Want Single Christian Smoking women Of Love to be of my wife's for the Eternal giving and unsinning certain things of life in revelation David Myself is Doing Final Judgements God Bless Love God Hymn (Amen)❤😊😅
@pacificdawn2993 Жыл бұрын
Jesus is the way the truth and the life! He is the substance. Even still, MGTOW all the way men! Risk far outweighs the reward. Yes, even with Christian women as sad as it is.
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