We pray for that too Danielle! God bless you! ♥️🙏🏻

Join the club. It's a rather large one. I've been thru the ringer! Here's the thing, Danielle ( my name is Danielle too) before you even go out or talking to a guy whose interested, PRAY about it. Trust your intuition. God speaks to us through that. I wouldn't even consider dating a non believer & these days many are saying their Christian. Alot. I had a few suitors posing as believers because they thought I was pretty. What also got me in hot water was premarital sex. Yikes! That will wreak havoc in the relationship. Try and focus on the Lord. Let Him heal past hurts. Dive into the word and stay connected to a good church fellowship. Very important! Help others too. Feed the sheep.

Hi Sophia! Sadie here. I have been in your shoes when it comes to looking for a guy who doesn’t cuss. I remember being in tears telling my dad that there were no good guys left and that they all cussed, partied, etc. It felt like all of the godly guys had been taken already. But God is faithful! I promise there are still good guys out there! ♥️

@@samandsadie thank you, I believe so too ❤️

I wish you good luck in college and may God bless you 🙂

Struggled with that too. Highly recommend Bible college ministry or church near campus to find some good like minded people/men.

I got the same impression from this video, it's sooooo important for both spouses to be self-driven to pursue holiness. But this video leans too hard towards "Well here are the things the Bible states men should strive towards, so obviously a woman should find a man who already has everything together in all of these areas."

Hi Samuel! Sadie here- Since Sam & I have implied in previous videos that no one is perfect when it comes to relationships, we thought it was implied in the video that no one will perfectly possess all of these attributes. Everyone stumbles and falls short, like you said! When I made the point in the video that a man could be on the trajectory towards those characteristics, it was meaning that 1. He’s not perfect but 2. He is striving to be a better follower of Christ throughout his life. If someone named a whole list of qualities that a Christian woman ought to be like, I wouldn’t possess all of those qualities because I am not perfect either.. But I can hope that through sanctification God has transformed me more in the years to come. Hope that makes sense! Great comment and God bless!

@@Chicky_Lumps Well I don't think it's that they leaned hard into it but the fact that they weren't aware of mentioning it. You can tell they mean well. I just think they need to mention the struggles of christian dating more from both sides.

​@@samandsadie Hi Sadie. Thanks so much for the clarification. I really appreciate it. I do think at times though it's hard to find those implications in your videos. Again, I really do like the videos, but maybe just mention that stuff every now and then to give us some clarity.

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Thank you so much!! And we love hearing from you! God bless you! ♥️🙏🏻

We are also here, come and find us!

We completely agree with your sentiment and we’re about to actually make a video about this because of your comment! Thanks for sharing your story! God bless! 🙏🏻♥️

@@samandsadie yay! I am excited to watch how God leads your conversation! Thanks Sam & Sadie! God bless :)

I mean... dont settle if ur not attracted, a man should be masculine right?

THIS

Thank you so much Colin!! God bless you and as always we appreciate your encouragement brother! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

We’re so glad to hear that!! Glory be to God!! ♥️♥️

Glory to God!! Thanks for commenting! 🙏🏻

@@samandsadie love you guys! You guys have been so awesome for me, you’ve really helped me ❤️💕

Thanks for watching Erin!! ♥️♥️

@@samandsadie you guys truly inspire me. People tell me at school all the time that I wont find someone who is a Christian. And who loves God, but that just makes me feel like that I will! I go to a public school, it’s hard to find friend but I’m Bold in my faith. And the Lord better then the world! ❤️ thank you for all you y’all videos! They have helped me a lot! ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️✝️✝️

@@Lovelife10934 God JESUS always have His remnant everywhere.✝ But this world is Not our home, that's why we are facing different trials every day...😒 Acts 14:22/1 Peter 4:12 See you in our HOME - John 14:2,3😇

Hey Leticia! I think we'd make a beautiful couple, what do you think? I'm a 25-year-old single Christian man and I'm looking for marriage. I live in Canada, but I don't mind a long-distance relationship in the beginning because I'm waiting for marriage to have sex. I'd love to know more about you, let's chat! If you're interested, I'll give you my email address, and I can get your phone number from there if it goes well, sound good? Of course, if you're already married, just ignore this comment. Thanks for reading, and God bless you! 🙏❤

Tbh honest, it does seem like these 2 individuals live i a christian bubble. Thats why i hate these videos because they are describing THEIR desire for a God-given spouse. I also believe that these 2 might just be judgmental self rightoeus "christians."

​@christopherram8948 that's the result of married couples, especially ones who got lucky and married in their early twenties thinking they have a right to lecture the rest of us who never get victory in anything or have never been desired or wanted by anyone so we spend our lives "burning with lust" and being gaslighted into thinking we're idolizing marriage because we want it and since we're alone we can't quote unquote "relieve ourselves because it's a sin. Even though we're born with this physical need. Some of us born with a high sex drive too so it's even more difficult. We're told it's a "season of waiting or singleness" or an any other such nonsense phrase. These couples try to claim they know what it's like but the longest they waited for was 9 times out of 10 a couple months. A few short months is nothing compared to literal years or decades. Thing is I can't take these types of videos seriously because they truly do not know what it's like or how it feels to be forced to live with an unfulfilled desire and never getting to experience the joy that comes with it. They'll and others will say "you got Jesus" or "Jesus can fulfill every need." While that's true to an extent, there's certain needs or desires that those claims don't fill. So we have no choice but to put up with it because there's nothing else we can do.

Grace is not a license to sin.

@@GennaBandal never said it was?

Hey they have some videos up on that.

Don’t say such things about yourself and discredit your whole being like that. It isn’t fair to you cause you are more than a relationship. God created you with a bigger purpose than that. A relationship is supposed to complement us not complete us. Our identity is only defined in God and completed in him alone. Don’t give up hope and faith in God. Everything will happen when it is meant to be. God will do the impossible for you. I pray that God gives you hope and more faith in him to seek him first and give you the desires of your heart. I pray you find a Godly wife and you strive to have the qualities of Godly man too. Reminder none of these attributes appear from thin air we have work on them as individual both as a female and male to be the best versions of what God has called us to be. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Even if things don’t happen according to the desires of our heart, it doesn’t mean we are losers or not wanted it just means God has a different directions for our lives and that is okay too. Be strong you got this. That is why we are daily sanctified to be like Jesus Christ and sometimes we will fall short but we don’t give up we just pick up our cross daily asking God to give us more of his strength. The enemy loves to use our weakest point and get us down when we allow for that gap to be created between us and God, especially when we forget to lean on God constantly in the difficult times we come across and lose faith…that is why it is important to not give the enemy the benefit of the doubt and not lose sight of our most important relationship which is with God first. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Sam and Sadie when they were talking about these attributes they had wanted to see in their Godly spouse weren’t just only desiring for their significant other to have these traits but they also as an individual had to have the same expectations and attributes they were actively seeking for and actively work on them themselves. It isn’t a one side thing. Your future wife is also maybe struggling just like you so don’t feel alone that you can’t automatically get to where you want to get. That is why I encourage you to pray for your future wife to possess the good qualities you want in a Godly women just as you also strive to have the qualities of a Godly man that she wants. That is how it should be. We are all on our own unique journey and God’s timing for our journey isn’t too early, too late, but just perfect in timing don’t forget that. I know most of us feel the same way so you aren’t alone in this season of singleness. I hope and pray you are encouraged by this message. Remember this verse always when you feel down- Jeremiah 29:11 ~ For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”💜🙏

Are you saying you never dated at all?

You're not the only one who's a loser. Welcome to the club, we have jackets.

@@nobodysperfect06I've had a few casual dates, and a couple of relationships that lasted a month or two.

How old are you?

Jeremiah 17: 9💔 Reputation🚩(1 Corinthians 15: 33🚩) 😞 Good (Character) Reputation (Galatians 5: 22 - 23) The belief or opinions that are generally held about someone or something. Is the (behaviour) reputation (sinful💩) corrupted🚩? Well Done

State your case.

1 John 3: 8

Thank you so much Klara! Glory to God! 🙏🏻🙏🏻