What To NOT Buy For Your First Apartment || MINIMALISM

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HELLO! In this video I share with you the tips on what to NOT buy in your first apartment. There are a lot of household items that people think are necessities but you can actually live without. This video emphasises the importance of minimalism and reminds you that we can live with a lot less. This is something I love doing and I hope you all enjoy!
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@thesyainbrother3028 4 жыл бұрын

My home is so toxic I’m currently watching this at 15 ready to move out and these videos really help. Thanks

@CHloE748 4 жыл бұрын

The syain brother if your parents are really that bad, as in they are physically or mentally abusive and dangerous, then you could get emancipated. In the US the starting age is 15-16. Just think about it first because it’s a major decision that might split ties with your family for good. But also remember you are a teenager so everything feels more dramatic lol. Seriously though, if your parents are violent and especially physically abusive, call CPS or talk to cops.

@c1908 4 жыл бұрын

The syain brother literally same

@taliasbeauty8518 4 жыл бұрын

Girl me too omfg :)

@mva2997 4 жыл бұрын

Commenting to say that I used to be in your position, I understand and just want to say - it does get better. Don't let anybody tell you that building the life you want is wrong. Thrift stores, garage sales and Marshalls/Ross, free items on Craigslist are your friend. I'm 26 now, doing considerably well and I attribute that to the fact that I've been in survival mode since age 14. Proud of you.

@purplepunchi 4 жыл бұрын

Good luck girl! I'm 24 going thru the same exact thing so kudos to you for doing this at a young age.

@hedy_7084 3 жыл бұрын

As a housecleaner I would suggest the following cleaning necessities: -microfiber cloths -swifter duster -comet,Ajax, or some form of powder cleaner for showers, toilets, tubs, and sinks. -windex because nothing else works that great for windows -multipurpose cleaner diluted in spray bottle for everyday cleaning, and wiping down of surfaces in the home. Depending on the home, you will also need something to care for granite, stainless steel, or special formulations for wood flooring. Otherwise, you’re correct in suggesting to keep it simple!

@haileyporter4787 4 жыл бұрын

Place mats are not only used for a mess they were really invented for people with wood tables that they don’t wanna destroy there table because the heat from your plates or the condensation from your cups and it helps the table for getting nicks and scratches

@Maryam07 9 ай бұрын

I think it’s better to get a table cover idk they’re pretty common in other countries so I thought it would be a good idea

@hannahsnarr8407 4 жыл бұрын

This is so useful for college grads. It's so easy to look at really rich influencers buy apartments stuff when you're broke and want to do the same thing, but you make really great, attainable points.

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

❤️

@yerebiz9545 4 жыл бұрын

Sorry im not a hater, but place mats are so you dont ruin your table, like if you hace super hot food or a cold drink, it would ruin a wooden table.

@amum9958 4 жыл бұрын

Was totally going to say the exact same thing!!

@ruthgarcia8504 4 жыл бұрын

You can use a coaster but if you need it then you need it

@gumdrop1533 4 жыл бұрын

A coaster wouldn't be big enough for a dinner plate.

@SugarBabyProductions 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve literally never used a place mat and my wooden table had never been ruined 😅

@yerebiz9545 3 жыл бұрын

@@SugarBabyProductions i think you are just lucky🤣 i ruined 6 tables before i realised place mats exist

@goodtogo3 4 жыл бұрын

buy from thrift stores and use vinegar and baking soda with few drops of dish detergent for all cleaning...even toilet

@marianamarcelabarrios226 4 жыл бұрын

Neef One well you can do that to clean stuff but I’m not sure if it’ll be enough, I think the best way to make sure everything is sanitized is to use bleach (something like 4 drops per liter of water)

@thedarkphoenix1640 4 жыл бұрын

@Neef One yeah no. Vinegar and baking soda don't clean nearly as well as actual disinfectants. They have plenty of "natural" ones now a days though.

@angelsullivan8725 4 жыл бұрын

I use method disinfectant. I accidentally sprayed it into my face and inhaled it and had no problems. I have asthma so I can't even go into a room that's been cleaned with watered down bleach or Lysol for AT LEAST 3 hours. I love it

@angelsullivan8725 4 жыл бұрын

Oh and it's all natural 😊

@isabellarose6514 3 жыл бұрын

What about clothes?

@montseestrada27 4 жыл бұрын

Placemats are good for messy food! specially if you have a wooden table or a white one that might get stained.

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I guess it can change depending on your circumstances!

@nskperez 4 жыл бұрын

Also protect a glass table or something that could get scratched easy :)

@moonlightnoire 3 жыл бұрын

These were really good things to keep in mind. Although I will say living in a family home with no dishwasher, the dish racks are essential but that's what is so great about minimalism, you cater it to your needs. What's essential for one person may not be for another. Great video!

@marcelinefang 3 жыл бұрын

Just moved into a new apartment all by myself yesterday and this video was super encouraging. My apartment is suuuuper empty and I was feeling kind of uncomfortable and looking at big furniture sets on wayfair, but they I started watching apartment essentials videos and yours popped up. Thank you!

@abigailpena3602 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like....not all of these things are sustainable. Throwing out perfectly good items for the sake of having less doesn’t seem as sustainable as adopting full use of them and ensuring their existence as necessary

@dianisea-hh4uf 2 жыл бұрын

I think the video is more of a don't buy these in the first place, though if you have stuff like this that's clutter and not useful you can always just donate it to a thrift store or give it to a friend

@Ttangko_ 2 жыл бұрын

You can sell stuff, you know....like used? Ebay for used goods didn't die in my country at least

@ciannacoleman5125 10 ай бұрын

If you don’t use an item it is a waste to keep it & it turns into clutter. Better to move it along to a new home, most people don’t just “toss” their decluttered items.

@ryanguillory9850 4 жыл бұрын

i like my dish rack 😩 yes i will accumulate them in the sink first and wash all of them later and let them air dry and put them up before the end of the night its really useful

@haileyharris1381 4 жыл бұрын

*adds rice cooker to list of appliances *

@TheHealthInsuranceSpecialist 4 жыл бұрын

When you've already bought a dish rack 💀

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

😂

@Letsgettoit362 4 жыл бұрын

Hopefully you have the receipt lol

@sciecopeland8981 3 жыл бұрын

They have dish racks that can sit down in your sink so they don’t actually take up space 10/10 recommended because I REFUSE to hand dry dishes

@SugarBabyProductions 3 жыл бұрын

Did you keep your dish rack? I couldn’t live without my dish rack. Between work and home chores, I really don’t want to spend the time hand drying dishes.

@isabellarose6514 3 жыл бұрын

Can't you hand wash and then use the dishwasher as a drying rack?

@MrColombianking102 3 жыл бұрын

At my house we tend to use the dishwasher as a drying rack lol - not a lot of plates so we just handwash it all

@Pfchang7 4 жыл бұрын

You right about the dish rack my first apartment my dishes barely made it to the cabinets this time around I lay a towel on the counter then put them away

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏻

@kasazhitembo4548 Жыл бұрын

I hardly comment on KZfaq videos but I had to because this video was all the peace I need before moving Josie. I’m coming from ten years of living in fully furnished apartments and now moving to one that I have to furnish everything from scratch! All the other advise I was seeing was on the many things I needed to buy! This was DIFFERENT, not busy, a real heart to heart talk! I enjoyed it! I put my kind to rest and now I can rest easy! God bless you

@rex6175 2 жыл бұрын

if you want appliances and there is only one or two of you, get a 7 in 1 toaster/air fryer combo. It has functions for oven, broiler, toaster, air fryer and more. Air fryers alone are huge and take up space in counters or cabinets. These can usually hold 2 servings of food anyways so you won’t make too much

@multidimensionaltraveler806 3 жыл бұрын

Place mats help to not damage the table with cups, dishes and utensils. Even to use them to ppace the main food dishes on in the centermof the table when it is a hot dish. A nice wood table can be damaged if abused repeatedly

@nana-wf7qs 2 жыл бұрын

a lot of people have table cloths for their tables so they don’t get ruined by alcohol, hot pans and dishes, etc. place mats prevent food from gettin on the table cloths so you don’t have to do laundry every time you eat ! :)

@aimlessweekenders 4 жыл бұрын

I laughed at number 5 because I have SO many baking tools I don’t need 🤣 as well as kitchen appliances I don’t even use

@jasonmims5057 3 жыл бұрын

Another thing about appliances is you have to clean them. My parents once bought a big elaborate roasting machine. They immediately sold it to someone when they discovered how difficult it was to clean.

@BubbleBunnyy 2 жыл бұрын

Plants don’t really clean the air like that really that much. They’re nice to have tho I love plants they bring me an immense amount of joy

@judylloyd7901 4 жыл бұрын

What about cleaning the oven? Ordinary spray cleaner won't do the job. Also, place mats are for protecting the table from hot plates, etc., not for easy cleaning.

@subutan 3 жыл бұрын

I like your advice about the serving dishes. In my family, we always serve food straight from the pot/pan because who wants to clean more dishes??? Haha not me

@NateHarlos 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I’m just chatting with a friend watching this. Very chill. Thank you :)

@kyanesbit5946 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I am moving next year and number 8 I bought everything you just said but I have a recommendation for everyone if you still wanna purchase those items get smaller versions it will save space 😁I bought a small blender and small waffle maker because it’s me and my boyfriend only so highly recommended that for a smaller household with less space

@MayeloSand 5 жыл бұрын

Literally just watched the apartment essentials and then seen you uploaded this!!

@AshleyEmbers 5 жыл бұрын

Devon S hahah that’s awesome timing!!!

@leaameris7457 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this!! Thank you for the advice.

@LoniuLupus 3 жыл бұрын

Serving bowls are good for popcorn!!

@JacksonsMainAcc 4 жыл бұрын

I'm binge watching videos like these haha. Thanks for the video! At first, some of them I didn't agree with, but to be honest, they make sense! (Like the dish-rack- i do leave them there because they look fine LOL) Also, a lot of people get placemats so the dishes/whatever don't scratch the table, we have a glass table, so it's absolutely necessary to have them! :0

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah everyone lives a different life and some things might not work for them. I’m just trying to open people up to really thinking about whether they need an item or not. Thanks for sharing your point of view. I love when people can share their experiences and disagree respectfully 😄

@JacksonsMainAcc 4 жыл бұрын

@@AshleyEmbers Yep! To be honest, I might not get a dishrack now, it'll just make me lazy, pfft.(like i said, i leave them there) And no problem! Your point have view probably have made others question if they really do need and item or not!

@RavenLaing 2 жыл бұрын

We just found an apartment to move into as a couple, we’re literally just taking what we already own and moving it over, not buying anything new apart from a washing machine, already have a couch, oven etc. already have decorations that we can use and we have plants so I’m happy hahahahaha We aren’t buying anything new ❤️

@Wendieee Жыл бұрын

Thank youuu for the videooo ❤

@SugarBabyProductions 3 жыл бұрын

I loved a lot of these recommendations, although I couldn’t live without my dish rack 😅 I’m barely surviving working and keeping up with most household chores so the idea of also hand drying my dishes just sounds exhausting but I do agree I don’t like them sitting in the rack when I have guest over.

@AshleyEmbers 3 жыл бұрын

What ever works for each person. I just wanted people to question the social norm 😊

@nikkhalia 4 жыл бұрын

What do you guys use to clean your tub? Nothing can replace AJAX or COMET?

@elizabethlundin3112 4 жыл бұрын

I keep a scrub brush in my tub and scrub it down after every shower. Once a week i'll spray it down with vinegar and use baking soda to get rid of tough soap scum. But if you keep up with a scrubber and disinfect it every once in a while there's no need to use ajax or something like that.

@CarlosFernandez-df7mi 3 жыл бұрын

I love your energy sooo much! And it’s even cooler that you’re similar looking to a dear friend of mine 💛

@estherolawuyi4204 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for making this video... I'll NOT be getting a dish rack since my apartment comes with a dishwasher

@gourmetgeek6918 4 жыл бұрын

I just found you, and I normally don't comment on videos, but I really vibe with you more than any other youtuber! I love your mindset and this is great advice.

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

Wow this is so nice! I’m so glad we connect 😊

@gourmetgeek6918 4 жыл бұрын

@@AshleyEmbers me too! I'm binging your videos as we speak, and I love your content. You're the coolest!

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

So sweet! ❤️

@Kierradaniellee 4 жыл бұрын

Aw I love your personality! Thanks for these tips !!! I love the one about the dish rack , it really is ugly lol

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

Watch out for Monday’s video... might be similar to this one 🤫

@singingwithbella Жыл бұрын

Placemats serve a double purpose, they can be decorative, you dump the crumbs in the trash and toss the mats in the washer. So they protect your table, look cute and help you clean faster 😊

@ghostriley1855 2 жыл бұрын

Great insight 💯

@crystalchiquito7578 4 жыл бұрын

Yay, so helpful!!!

@valeriacook372 3 жыл бұрын

I Agree so much with you

@xxbookie09 2 жыл бұрын

This was a good video. Moving out in 3 weeks 😄

@rainsunbow8668 3 жыл бұрын

A Dish rack is like a must in my house, can't survive without it

@tiffanykerr6810 2 жыл бұрын

Same here. There’s 8 people and 2 dogs in my house lol

@morganbodhi9492 3 жыл бұрын

my family must be the only people who use the dish rack lmao it’s usually empty and i put all the dish rack dishes away when i unload the dishwasher

@matthewzalen154 2 жыл бұрын

Good stuff

@faviolavasquez5263 3 жыл бұрын

1:56 where is that couch from? 😍

@mangophoenix-tj8tf Жыл бұрын

Multifunctional decor items are the ones I regret the least. I regret most of the decorative items I've bought.

@anouksondagh902 3 жыл бұрын

I use serving dishes to mix salads etc

@cactustravis7567 3 жыл бұрын

Any tips for someone thats not an attractive person relying on someone gifting me things at my wedding?

@hannahm.3606 2 жыл бұрын

Nooo no dish rack? They have cute dish racks. It's so much more efficient for water drainage in wet dishes

@Sims_Sity 4 жыл бұрын

Even this comment section is minimalist, 27 comments man.

@annalisevolken7830 4 жыл бұрын

wut?

@rcch1436 2 жыл бұрын

Place mats can be useful if you us ea tablecloth or have a wooden table. There is a reason they exist.

@EW27 2 жыл бұрын

pan toast is the best

@victormiranda9136 4 жыл бұрын

but placemats help prevent scratches on the table

@bevrolee8887 3 жыл бұрын

I guess I’m a lot more concerned about formaldehyde because I’m allergic to it, but I’m still surprised to see people recommending Pine Sol. Crazy that there are so many products out there with known carcinogens.

@AshleyEmbers 3 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah I don’t use pine sol anymore

@GUROBOY.. 3 жыл бұрын

Not me looking at this stuff 5 years before I can even get a CAR😩👍

@sgussy 3 жыл бұрын

I love my placemats.

@hazelnutqurdrel7399 3 жыл бұрын

What do you think about using Coca-Cola to clean toilet bowls? I heard some of my friends' mums use those instead of regular toilet bowl cleaner and they say it's a super cheap alternative!

@Ttangko_ 2 жыл бұрын

Investing in a nestle like big name? SOUNDS GREAT!!1!

@vinnydreusmire5035 Жыл бұрын

coke is AMAZING for clogs it eats everything

@abbeyp5621 4 жыл бұрын

you are such an underatted youtuber!!!

@AshleyEmbers 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@ejbvides4625 4 жыл бұрын

If you moving for the first time I personally suggest getting a toaster oven or microwave but that's me

@clownfern Жыл бұрын

It's so weird yall don't have dishracks in the kitchen cabinets

@journietheriot574 3 жыл бұрын

Serving dish, or large cereal bowl? 😏🤔

@AshleyEmbers 3 жыл бұрын

😄

@lynayagipson3361 3 жыл бұрын

nah i just buy everything from ikea...

@mommygarcia9137 4 жыл бұрын

Same thing with a dishwasher ! Some people don't even empty or put away the dishes from the dishwasher !

@elenakennedy5725 2 жыл бұрын

Placemats are to protect tablecloths, not tables

@kaylamichelle36 3 жыл бұрын

Table. Cloth. Throw it in the wash with the laundry. Done.

@LivxLaughxLove Жыл бұрын

Yeeeeeeah being minimalist would never work for me. 🙅🏾‍♂️ 🙅🏾‍♀️

@magpie913 2 жыл бұрын

Uhm... the "minimalism" part in the title is kind'of misleading. Or maybe there are more tipes of minimalism but I doubt it because then there would be no reason for one to call him/herself a minimalist if it can be whatever. I know restraint is a less sexy word but it's really what aspiring minimalism is, it's not minimalism. I guess I was curious to test myself with your list but had some doubts when I realised that I could count 4 useless items behind you in the tumbnail XD

@dahliawolf5315 3 жыл бұрын

You made me hate minimalism more than I already did. Lol

@bcg3166 Жыл бұрын

That's why we are mimilist and others are not. I don't even own a tv. I was brainwashed by it enough when I was a kid.

@Lumipyry8 4 жыл бұрын

Dishracks seem so stupid and unnecessary for me since in Finland those are built in cupords above your sink in literally every single apartment

@paulagonzalez5286 3 жыл бұрын

Dish racks are to dry your dishes. Why would you put a dish away while it’s wet? 🤦‍♀️ I work 80-100 hours a week. I’m not hand drying my dishes.

@Rettomus 2 жыл бұрын

@@paulagonzalez5286 In Finland, the dish rack is built inside a cupboard with an open bottom so the water drips down onto the sink below. Just google "dish drying cabinet". I had none in the previous apartment and that was super annoying. Either you leave wet dishes out on the table or dry by hand.