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“Ryan, make the crappy guy lines video.”

Make the video... 🙋🏾‍♀️I’ll start the list: guys who say “smile”😤😠🤬

Wow, men are so “simple”

Sometimes “I’m fine means I need a bit more time to figure out how express what I need from you so you won’t get so defensive lol.

The guys say" I've never felt this way before " total bs

If she's saying she's bored its code for "I'm losing interest in you"

Honestly, I think treating the guy you’re getting to know like he’s dating 5 other women is the best approach! you’re not as invested + prone to fantasizing, and you’re not going to miss out on other opportunities that could come your way while you’re in that early stage. It’s a natural and authentic way of remaining sorta aloof AND occupied elsewhere, which really only makes you more appealing in the long run Love the content Ryan ❤️ I don’t need the video on things guys say to women since I’ve heard it all and I’m not even done university yet 😂 I’ll probably play the vid just to raise your view count anyhow ahah

What guys should never say to women would be interesting to watch. 🙃😂

OMG "it's up to you" should be on the list 😅

I hate when a guy says,” I love you but I’m not IN love with you?” Then proceeds to tell you he loves you, repeatedly. WTF? Stop, saying it.

Dating is basically using common sense. I have stopped for now, because the head games are too much for me too handle.

Men pull the "I'm fine" bs too

The “guy” should assume that I am dating at LEAST 7 other MEN

Make the video. I’m 72, and I’ve done all of it, I think.

I use the line "I am fine" only, because I do not want him to bother with my emotions right than. No other lines, never.

ryan make the crappy guy lines they say to women

These are not gender specific. I’ve had men at some point say everyone of these to me.

"You should just know" is what my husband said to me 21 years ago before he suddenly left me.

If guys responded to these questions like you are they would be alone forever. Most guys aren’t this cocky.

I know it wasn’t going to be said but the whole video I was still waiting for “is it in yet” 😂😭

In other words, when guys are confronted about serious stuff in a relationship before they even get to it on their own, they tend to get spooked. Explains a lot of their responses when they're dating strong straightforward women who have no time to waste on breadcrumbs and playing mind games.

Make the video - include ‘is it that time of the month?’ A) yes it is an her hormones are about to unleash on you B) No it’s not and you’ve just belittled her and how she’s feeling Either way you’ve just wrecked it for yourself guys

This guy's facial expressions are so hilarious 🤣

People (not just guys ) that quickly reply “When?” Or “What time?” Just so that they can say they aren’t available at that time.

I've never asked a guy any of these questions, because I am secure within myself...but deciding where to eat is another story!!!

This should be titled, "How to lose a guy in the first week of dating." Lol.

My killer line was..."Do you still like me?" I scared a gorgeous Chicagoan man away by saying this!

*"How many women have you been with"* and *"Are you seeing other women"* DEFINITELY do not belong on this list. The other inane comments women say, I agree with. How a person looks at sex and how casual they view it, speaks volumes about who they are when it comes to commitment. A 30 year old man that has had over 100 sex partners, is not someone that would be high up on the list for a stable life partner. Additionally, if you want to know whether you are in a committed relationship, the best way is to ask if you are exclusive. Any man that can't handle such a direct and valid question is a man/child or player.

I feel like these are the same things we don’t want to hear. Make whatever video you want! I love these!!! 💙💖

Guys actually think like this? I’m impressed by the negativity if that’s the case. Wow. 👀

I’m a Virgo who does some damn good laundry and dishes .. and those are my destress chores. I WILL take over on dishes if they are not up to my standards or I need to chill lol

...Somehow I get the impression that this is personal for you! Lol. The one that kind of bugs me is "I'm free whenever." It's not that I don't have anything else going on, but aside from work (which, I get off around 2), my schedule's just really flexible. I do have responsibilities and a lot of things I enjoy, but there are no specific time commitments there. It's just a matter of fact that he's got more constraints, so it makes more sense to plan around his schedule. ...I will say, though, that it helps that the guy in question knows this.

RYAN, I love you! You're so real and make the best faces! 😂

How about a video on how to have the exclusivity conversation? It's a scary and daunting stage. Would love some input from a man :)

That last one though!!!!🤣🤣 I'm dying of laughter because it is so true!!!! "I'm fine"😆😂😂 I love watching your videos, they're so honest and it makes them that much more funnier!!

These are all the same things that completely turn me off too - and I'm a female. They are typical comments made by people who are: emotionally insecure; controlling; narcissists; emotionally and/or psychologically-impoverished, OR just plain exceedingly shallow people.

Ryan!!! I dropped the LDR narcissist zero, and I think I may have found a local hero!;) Please do that video of what guys say to girls...lol.

Ryan, please make the video! 🙃 May I suggest the "Hey, what are you doing tonight?" last minute text and one that isn't a text but actually the lack thereof but I really think is worthy of being on the list: being ghosted!

can you do a video talking about how to know if you’re someone’s “rebound” option

He was the one who asked me if I was seeing other guys. I replied that I knew that we are not in a relationship but that after our second date I realized I really like him. So, I made the decision to cancel my other date at that time. He was like: “Another guy?” And then he said, “No, I haven't seen anybody after our first date, I had plenty of opportunities but they were just not like you.” But still, I don't know if we are or not exclusives. 🤔🤔🙃

“Ryan, make the crappy guy lines video.” And a bonus would be WTF guys are thinking when they say this stuff. Please and thank you!

OMG! This might me the best dating videos on YT. I have been an offender of some of these statements before and I'm so grateful that I have found this information. Thank you!

This video just cracked me up! Just came across your channel and couldn't resist watching. You are hysterical! And a real cutie at that! Great points! Please make the guys one curious to hear what they say!

Not me feeling guilty of saying "whatever you want" 😩😅

I have had issues with guys who don’t believe I’m fine. When really I was just fine and not mad about a single thing. They were just way too insecure, constantly asking me if I’m ok and what’s wrong just because I was quiet. Or asking me what’s on my mind? When seriously I was fine and didn’t have anything on my mind. They were the one causing the problem with their insecurity.

A boy looks at your body, When a man can see your soul, He knows you have much more to offer, And with you, he can grow. A boy asks to spend the night, But a man wants to share your life, A boy hunts for a "piece," As a man yearns for a wife. A boy will leave you insecure, When you wonder where he is, With a man you`re always reassured, Because a man takes care of his. Boys can give you moments, While a man brings memories! Which do you want and see? It doesn't matter what you say if he loves you.

Hahaha someone told me that before "I'm bored" and that was my reaction, like what am I supposed to do?

PLEASE make the video Ryan! Also, could you do one revolving around long distance relationships, and how to know if he's still into her, or ways to know if he's stringing her on? I'm currently in this situation and would like some feedback

Congratulations on your channels success. The info you share is so great but honest your personality and delivery is everything. It's absolutely priceless.

So I came across your channel a few days ago and have to say out of all the relationship gurus out there I love all your real life practical advice the best! Been binge watching lol Love it. Thank you

"whatever you want" well, as a woman I say this just to see what he chooses. Then I chose him or not :)

me: wondering why my relationships fail also me: damn i say like all of these things... Thank you Ryan.

Very informative, straight to point. Thank you very much.

I went out with a guy, who would not stop talking about his ex-wife, and like a idiot, continued to date him.

You are so helpful, but even more funny as heck. I love watching you

HAHAHA i never ever tell a guy I'm bored! If I'm bored, I just text my friends! The thing is guys have asked me for my body count in the past and I thought that was weird and didn't understand why it mattered!

RYAN! As a nurse, all I could see in this video is the bulging veins in your neck. It concerns me. Please check into JVD (jugular vein distention).

"I'm Fine". That one is something I have to sit men down for early when they are getting to know me. "I'm Fine" for me actually means I'm currently 'stable'. It means my depression and PTSD are not currently in control and nothing has gone wrong to the point they would be active. However, it also doesn't mean I'm doing 'great'. I'm in a calm, stable zone. It's a place we want me to be. I explain to men early that this is how I use the term. I tell them that my 'I'm fine' for most people is 'I'm Good'. However, that doesn't mean I'm mad at them either. It means I'm hiding my pain/sorrow. You'll know I'm pissed at you if you ask "You okay?" and I don't look at you and just give a cold 'Yep'. If my explaining that isn't good enough for them, well, okay. They can either live in fear every time I say I'm fine or they can leave. I'm chill. Lol. Again, you fear the cold 'yep' over anything else. Mind you, I hate confrontation, anger, yelling, etc. So, when I'm upset, you can tell. My demeanor changes to one of silence and avoidance ( bad, I know. I'm working on it.).

Every woman on earth needs to see your videos.

You should definitely make the video about guy lines and what they really mean by it!

#13: Are you losing your hair?

I was skeptical when I came to the video but I was pleasantly surprised and amused once it was done. Thank you. I'd like to see that video you proposed.:-)

Apparently the best thing for a lady to do is, start physically sprinting away from him the moment she sees him. He'll chase the heck out of you, just out of curiosity. 😉😌

This is so much easier to stick to when you don't have any exes.

Though these are true, you are hilarious in getting these point across. Thx for letting us know how you guys feel.😁😆😆😆😁

That one vein popping on the side of your neck hahaha. I love the passion. MAKE THE VIDEO

The last one is my favorite....you're right!!!

Love the facial expressions you make when replying as the guy...Make the video 😂

I love your videos! I normally completely get the other ones. I, myself, function quite a bit like my guy friends as far as relationships. Yet, I am also quite straight to the point. I hold a certain amount of maturity in my conversations. **What is frustrating, is that I feel that the way "most guys" may handle these questions is in a Very Immature and assumptive way. In Many ways, we want the same base things in a relationship. To assume and react to a question of, "Are you seeing other people?" As an ultimatum or threatening type question is simply Immature. A Mature woman asking this question is simply gaging where she stands, if she should invest more or less energy into this at the time as well as, if she should risk the higher possibility of stds or finding out later he's got a kid on the way. By honestly answering, with a simple yes or no. Asking the question of, "Where do you see this going?" Also, is about the same thing. Guys complicate some rather simple questions. Guys ALSO want to know where they stand in a relationship of ANY KIND. Yet, the difference is... They don't typically have to ask. If Woman didn't let you guys know, you ask. If a man, asks this type of question. Woman will answer it without the Immature thought process of, "I don't need to explain myself, blah blah blah." Especially, because We Know you guys will say some things that are not completely honest on where you're at just to keep us as an option until you figure it out. 🤷‍♀️ Just be straight. Get a grip on what you are or not feeling and Say so. I understand that I don't function as most do but I also think we need to raise the Expectation for a more Mature thought process for Men. ** Maturity being emotional control, responsibility, accountability etc. Not Age. Boys/Men & Girls/Women

This was spot on Ryan, onto the crappy guy lines video!

Meeeen...you are too good!!! So funny!!!😂

actually theres a way to do "is this going anywhere". KEy: both of yall all lovey dovey in the moment--then ask --in a playful way🤣 and then literally express your doubts. Basically being direct but subtle. depends on the guy tho.

I love how snarky you are in this video 😂

Yes do the video! 😍 Great again!

Yes do crappy guy lines video. ps. Hate when he talks dirty and we haven’t yet!

A female has every right to ask any question about past sexual partners and wether or not they are exclusive or not!!! Also a female has every right to ask where the relationship is going!!

Make the Video!! Loving your advice and vibes! I NEED more! :)

Yes, please make the video! The only time that I've deliberately said, "I'm fine...", was when I wanted to signal that I'm done, because I know that it's such a loaded response. I'm very articulate, and am usually willing to share exactly how I am, IF the guy asks me in a serious way (like, he truly wants to know), "How are you doing?" If a guy has signaled to me that he's not that into me, then I respond, "Oh, I'm fine." = "Next, please!" 😎

I think saying "you should know" is fine if you already had a talk with him prior to saying that about what bothers you. For example if you notice he keeps his phone faced down all the time and let him know how that makes you feel but then he keeps doing it anyway. At that point he should know

Omg.... binge watching! I started dating again, I need your help.

Laughed so hard you’re the best Yes Yes Yes make that video!!!!

I like this video 👍 It’s funny how having bad communication can have a relationship fail super fast!

Make the video!! p.s. I personally don't like when a guys says he is bored... Me: hey what's up what's going on. Him: I'm just bored that's why I called you! Me:😠😠😠

How you should never talk to a woman: in that patronizing, irritated tone of voice of yours.

Loved this video - content and editing! Sigh of relief on not doing these ahah.

Let’s go Ryan good job very helpful thank you so much if I ever decide to be with somebody again I definitely think it’s going to go better!

MAKE A VIDEO FOR THE CRAPPY LINES GUYS SAY.

I find it weird that while bingewatching these videos, I keep thinking of the same guy I've decided to forget (because of our extensive mixed-signals "relationship"). Like, am I still thinking we might have a chance together?

Lol!! I enjoyed this. Love your sense of humor.

OMG i would have used a few of them!!!! thank god for you and your videos!!!

Btw I think there are plenty of women out there who hate it when men say: why do you look so angry? Smile more or you look tired. You want to keep women at arms length, then by all means, say that to us, but the end result is, is that we will never date you

You forgot “we need to talk”

Yep, make the guy lines video and what he means when he says them. Love it, love you all of it. Very awesome

“ I don’t want the responsibility”. Should definitely be on the on for what guys say. Like I didn’t ask you to take the responsibility in the first place.

oh are you growing your beard, Ryan? caught me a bit offguard haha

Ryan. Make the video. This one is so true.

Lol Ryan you gave me a good laugh with the examples inserts hahaha. They were helpful, thank you.

New subscriber! Your videos are a great mix of funny and informative. You defintely hammer the points home

Ryan...make the crappy guy lines video ❣😁