Your mom and grandmother was very wise thank you for sharing this and we truly do i truly agree with this ❤

​@lucybendolph Truthfully, these women were always admired, loved and adored by men. They behaved and carried themselves like ladies. I never witnessed a man disrespect them. Both have passed away, yet whenever I run into anyone that knew then, all they have is beautiful things to say. They knew their worth and loved themselves.

I really wish I had access to more men and women elders in my life

@@tearrajay9197 🙏🏼🙏🏼💛

Had to like this comment

Ameen

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Yessssssss..Stay over there Respectfully ‼️👌🏿💯💯💯💯

Right right right .....

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉

Exactly 💯💝

PURE FACTS BEYOND WORDS!!!!!!!!

PURE FACTS BEYOND WORDS!!!!!!!!

The rope is LONG!😂❤😂

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I love this 😂

FACTS ❤❤❤ YOU GO DO YOU WHILE I DO ME 😊

This is what happened to me! The space is what was needed for ME as the woman to truly see the man I was begging for his time and attention etc was a man in that space I realized I didn't even see as a true fit or what I was attracted to morally etc. I blocked all paths of communication because I realized I was done and wasn't coming back for good.

I thank God for receiving christ cause he gave me a purpose and pulled me out of this love drama. I have peace and I know my man will come cause I choose christ first. This was my case and I know how it can be very challenging to walk away but free

You missed his point. Let a man think with out a woman always believing it is another woman. Men do need space to figure things out. It does not always have to do with another woman. That other man you speak of will need space as well. Women need space as well. Women need to do self assessments. We are NOT perfect. There are things we do or say that men find disturbing in their minds. Whether you admit it or not, you give yourself space. His space time might not be when you give yourself space. Women must learn to STOP manipulating that man. If a woman is constantly in a man's space (in his face), she is only confusing him and things between them become blurry to him. He is not thinking clearly or for himself. A man needs to hear his own voice. He has to step back to think how and what he is feeling about her and how he feels when he is with her. Many women nowadays think men do not have their own problems or concerns. Women are NOT men only solution to solving problems. When that woman is not around, he has the space to focus on his life with her and how life would be with her before commiting to a lifetime relationship in matrimony. This is why there are so many divorces nowadays. Whether women admit to it or not, they think they can manipulate men by always wanting to be with them every single minute of a day. A good man needs space and time to think if he can care for that woman, take care of her, and be there as she needs him to be. Men struggle with doubt just like women. Let's face it, some of you women are too high maintenance and need. I even view some women as a basket case. High maintenance doesn't mean you should look beautiful but you too caught up in material things and you expect the man to buy these things and pay the bills all by himself. That will break his bank.

Sometimes guys do just need space tho to realize how much they like you around. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

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Thats the hard truth. Most mehn don’t love women they are with. They just love the access & secx. 🤦🏽‍♀️

My Queen, you have my sympathy. The love of my life showed signs very early of not being anyone to take seriously. I was so blinded by what I was seeing. It's made me stone cold suicidal 😢. I just want my mental freedom again. 😢❤ I just don't like being WEAK it makes me into something I can't relate to. So sorry for your pain.

Most mehn just want consistent secx and access to you sadly. They dgaf for the most part 🤦🏽‍♀️😐

Woman my man after 27 years of solid commitment to him decided it was ok to run back to mommy and daddy because I had to “man up” when I became a proper orphan. I hear you. It hurts like nobodies business but I’m sure you got this. If you have a support structure then you got this ok?

Amen

@@trinitygillings5380and remember to still be your own person after marriage

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He learned how to cheat without getting caught. You still came back, so nothing changed but the way he does things.

@@Abena_Goddess87 the issue with me and my husband wasn’t due to cheating….where did you get that assumption from my comment?

You stand your ground, that's what is up?!

Packed your items...lol...whew...you were DONE 😂😂

Well said! If he doesn't know, walk away bc he can't see you as his treasure, and he won't if yall get married ❤

I like that concept.

He didn't say that man will not return. Three weeks just what you needed for space. Space does not always men the man is gone. Men need to resolve issues and make preparations to receive the love of their life. It doesn't men that man was the negative force in the relationship either.

I'm so happy for you! 🎉 whatever situation you went through, the fact that you mentioned you're happier now is a good sign ❤️

Wow. I'm In The Same Boat!!! Going on 4 weeks Much Peaceful and LORD knows that I Truly needed this Breakup 🎉

Don't let yesterday's worries occupy your peace today, it's what I tell myself that 2.3.4. times a day 🙏 You're stronger than you think.. keep going.

He could love you and be faithful and still put up a wall due to childhood trauma.

Same and Facts

Exaaaaaaactly!

Exactly u ain't neva lied. Whoever falls in that category, that's exactly right.

PERIOD!! THAT PART!

True

​@@juliemcdaniel499❤

Avoidant I just learned wat this is and I was dealing with that I was the anxious attachment so it just didn’t work

That’s right, girl. Sending you virtual hugs. And when your promise comes, you’ll be so glad you chose to bow out.

Good for you...

Awesome. And this would be the result that women would want. However if we get the opposite, that’s also good because now we know if he can live without us so freely and happily and loves his space without us - then he’s probably not the one for us and we should definitely move on. I’m glad you let boo-thang didn’t enjoy space without you. Peace & Blessings

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How long did it took him to realize?

@@goddessglow6996 I’m wondering the same thing. It’s only been 2 weeks and it feels like a month! I let my boyfriend go and he was so angry he shut down, and decided to keep my laptop. That’s stealing and I’m incredibly angry! I was stupid enough to lend it to him and now he wants to hold it hostage. I can buy another one, but it made me see another side of him I never saw before.

How long did it take him to come back ? It’s been 2 weeks for me & hurts so bad. But I had to let him go. He doesn’t want to marry me, and it’s been too many years.

Hi.. I truly understand what you are going through cuz I'm in a similar situation. I completely stopped texting him back since Feb 16 and he's been silent since then. I do miss him so much! But since I'm praying for God's will I'm literally controlling myself texting/calling him. This is so hard but I rather have God's way than fulfill a fleshy desire ( missing him part) God's teaching me to be literally truly patient and I'm enduring it.

@@senli_popiwall7236 I was able to reconnect. I hope you will be able to soon 💟☮️🤗

Keep us updated please 🙏

i need to stop pouring into him so quickly....am learning now from a recent breakup. its hard tho😮

1000%‼️‼️‼️‼️

Lord Have Mercy, Sister, Me 2🎉

And ain’t 💯

Amen

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Amen!!!

yesssss

Agreed!

He has several. Just look up the power of walking away & his name.

Absolutely ❤

Facts !!!

Not true. Some people love deeply but are terrified of intimacy due to childhood emotional wounds.

​@@DeshaunDamon Let them heal and you take care of you emotionally and remain happy. Protect your mental health.

Amen

AMEN AMEN, SISTER. ME EITHER 🎉

I am sorry for what you're going through. Sadly, what you experienced is very common as there're many more toxic/unhealthy people than there're healthy ones. And it doesn't matter the race, religion, age, profession, or financial background of the person. Sometimes, they're relatives, friends, religious leaders, etc. Regardless of who it is, always remember that you are WORTHY of love, respect, you are enough, & you have a Heavenly Father, Jesus, who will never leave you or betray you!❤🙏 It is important that you pray when you have dreams & visions & intuition that are not for your good (or the good of others). They can be demonic attacks from Satan to harm you or a loved. Praying in your dream is a way for God to protect you as well. Even as we're sleeping (for Christians), God puts a hedge of protection over us! Regardless, ALWAYS TRUST your gut/intuition. It is the voice of God leading you to safety. Psalm 91 is one of the best & most powerful scriptures to read & memorize. It talks about, "God covering us with His feathers & protecting us from harm. So even if 10,000 fall on our right side, they will not come near us." Read the Bible as it is God's word & He will lead you to scriptures that will give you wisdom about dealing with everything in life. If you are not a Christian, I pray that you'll get to know Jesus. He ALONE can bring you SALVATION, forgiveness of your sins, & protection from ALL harm. Jesus loves you & died on the cross, so that you & I would have eternal life with him. Ephesians 6:10-18 also talks about us not wrestling with flesh and blood, but principalities, rulers, & powers of this dark world (demonic things/people), so put on the full armor of God. Stay close to Jesus, everyone, He ALONE is your REFUGE! He will also give us the wisdom/discernment whether through praying, reading the Bible, educational books/videos like this, & other healthy resources. They will will help us to protect ourselves, maintain healthy relationships, faith, hope, peace, & goodness! In Christ, from the U.S.A.❤🙏

What did he have to do in order to get you back? Genuine question

@@lalaichyblessed3560 Remain consistent in showing me love & affection.....just as I did . It's called reciprocity.

God heals all things❤❤❤❤

Praying God gives you beauty for your ashes🙏🏽🙏🏽💕💕💕

Yep.

I am sorry for what you went through. Sadly, what you experienced is very common as there're many more toxic/unhealthy people than there're healthy ones. And it doesn't matter the race, religion, age, profession, or financial background of the person. Sometimes, they're relatives, friends, religious leaders, etc. Regardless of who it is, always remember that you are WORTHY of love, respect, you are enough, & you have a Heavenly Father, Jesus, who will never leave you or betray you!❤🙏 It is important that you pray when you have dreams & visions & intuition that are not for your good (or the good of others). They can be demonic attacks from Satan to harm you or a loved. Praying in your dream is a way for God to protect you as well. Even as we're sleeping (for Christians), God puts a hedge of protection over us! Regardless, ALWAYS TRUST your gut/intuition. It is the voice of God leading you to safety. Psalm 91 is one of the best & most powerful scriptures to read & memorize. It talks about, "God covering us with His feathers & protecting us from harm. So even if 10,000 fall on our right side, they will not come near us." Read the Bible as it is God's word & He will lead you to scriptures that will give you wisdom about dealing with everything in life. If you are not a Christian, I pray that you'll get to know Jesus. He ALONE can bring you SALVATION, forgiveness of your sins, & protection from ALL harm. Jesus loves you & died on the cross, so that you & I would have eternal life with him. Ephesians 6:10-18 also talks about us not wrestling with flesh and blood, but principalities, rulers, & powers of this dark world (demonic things/people), so put on the full armor of God. Stay close to Jesus, everyone, He ALONE is your REFUGE! He will also give us the wisdom/discernment whether through praying, reading the Bible, educational books/videos like this, & other healthy resources. They will will help us to protect ourselves, maintain healthy relationships, faith, hope, peace, & goodness! In Christ, from the U.S.A.❤🙏

Get back up queen. You are stronger than you think. Learn from this mistake and become the best version of you. There is a king on the other side waiting for the "new" you, the best you.

Yes❤

Don't let him keep you waiting as a place holder or an option.. Stay in your royal consciousness! Move on without him.. If he needs time away from you, then he dont really want to be with you!

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Only God deserves "Your All", EVER. We must learn to always put God FIRST. "I do", you say "I do put God first!" I say, "Then how can you give someone else your "ALL?" We cannot serve two powers equally, someone is always going to receive more or less than the other.

@@angelawalkerrealtor4229 I know better now, Learnt that the hard way. The divorce experience has brought me back to God, I believe he's giving me another chance to be all that he desires of me. Taking it one day at a time

Yes you do ! God will meet every need!

Amen. God 1st. Jesus 1st. Top priority in your life. When you make God first in your life, everything else will fall into place. When you make God your 1st love and follow his will for your life, and although there are hardships, heartbreak, and loss of all kinds, God will show you the reason why things happened the way they did.

@@Prometheuspredatorso so good!!! 🙏🏽

Jesus first

Greetings! A bit of knowledge & enlightenment for u...There are 90 scriptures that dispute the false teaching that Jesus is GOD. Before I get to some of the exact Scriptural evidence, let's review some basic information that most people should know... Jesus mostly referred to himself as the "Son" of GOD & told us that we are all the sons & daughters of GOD the Father. Whn the disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray, If Jesus was GOD, he would've told them to pray to him but he did NOT. He explicitly told them to pray to GOD the Father "Our Father who art in heaven..." Isaiah 45:21-22 tells us EXACTLY what GOD wanted us to know about who HE is & that HE is GOD, the One & Only! The scriptures say "who hath told it from that time? have not I the Lord? and there is no GOD beside ME; a just GOD & a Saviour; there is none beside ME. Look unto ME, & be ye saved, all the ends of the earth: for I am GOD, & there is none else." Jesus actually emphatically denies being GOD all throughout the scriptures (Luke 18:19, Matthew 19:17, John 14:28, John 10:29, Luke 11:2, John 4:23, John 5:30, John 17:21-23, Numbers 23:19, Hosea 11:9, Acts 2:22, John 17:3, *Matthew 20:28*, John 5:19 & 30, Acts 10:38.The very 1st commandment tells us to love GOD the Father w/all of our hearts & never put anyone or anything above HIM. I could go on but I ask u to do a quick Google search of all the times Jesus told us plainly that he is NOT GOD! & u can read many Scriptures & be revealed that Jesus is NOT GOD & see all the times that Jesus stated himself that he is not GOD but the "Son" of GOD. Keep in mind, Jesus always referenced GOD as the source of his knowledge & powers to perform all his miracles. He never gave himself credit & ALWAYS let it be known that GOD THE FATHER was the source of all he did. We must break free of the lies & false teaching that Jesus is GOD. Especially since it is pure foolishness bc it goes directly against what Christ himself told us! Ignorance is not bliss & not an excuse when all we ever needed to do was read/study the scriptures for ourselves instead of depending on others to feed us lies. The entire notion that Jesus is GOD is blasphemy in itself & goes directly against the Holy Scriptures & Jesus Christ himself. I pray that u all would be revealed the undisputable truth & obtain the revelations that will lead u into GOD's true awareness🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN,,Sister 🎉

AMEN

Yuppa😂😂😂😂😂

No worries. Haha. See ya hmmm soon,maybe... ?❤

I don’t see it as tough at all. If it’s not working for you, let it go. Grieve the loss. If he turns up again and real change has occurred you can entertain him again at that time. What I find is that we give men TOO much time. Way too much

@@CoachKhara when I say it’s tough is because his statement is to let him go and it SEEMS like the expectation is for the woman to wait for him to make up his mind. We shouldn’t have to give them time, if he knows he knows. In life sometimes timing can be a gift or a curse, you may have that ONE opportunity or you may miss that opportunity. That’s what I’m saying.

Space equates to letting go for me. If you need time to figure it out, there are doubts on whether or not you want this relationship or not. You have the ball you fumble it or score.

@@msmoniquejones6259 agreed, the timing could be for you or against you. Sometimes things only come around once.

​@@kimberly0717 Exactly u made some great points, if he know he knows, then what's with all this time ish. All this time trying 2 figure ish out, he's also waisting life and time away smh.

Well, maybe he will, maybe he won’t. Maybe he’ll never come back and be the man that you hoped he’d be, and love you like you loved him, like you so desperately wanted him to love you. And honestly, that sucks. It really sucks. But you’ll be okay. God will bring every one who waits on Him, their own person. Your own will come. And he’ll be more than worth the wait.

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

Right.👊🏾 Let him go for a long walk on a short pier!