I was going back and forth between liking girls and boys for a while and my grandmother said "You like both. It's fine. So does Angelina Jolie."

One time I came out to my friend as gay and she literally answered with “wait your not out yet” that was one of the Funniest moments of my life.

"You can't be bi! You have to commit to something!" said my Mom. She's lesbian.

Not only does Grant like men, he likes being hated

I came out *as bi* and got a mix of "I know that" and "I don't care." 'Twas GLORIOUS

Lol I was telling everyone I'm hella gay because I'm pan and nobody cared, the only change was my brother now stopped calling me gay as a playful joke and now calls me straight as the joke

The one thing to always do when someone comes out is to *match their energy* If they're making it a big deal, act like it's a big deal. If they're making is passive, act passive.

What amplifies this joke better than anything else is how they're are making such a big deal over vests

You know this is similar to my experience in college. Coming out in high school was a big deal and I got all the "you'll go to hell" speeches. I came out to my friends in college and got, "Ok, great. Want some Chinese?"

when i told my mum i was gay she called my dad and told him he owed her £10

I remember when my best friend came out to me, after I'd been planning to come out to her for MONTHS, so then I did too. I'm a lesbian and she's bisexual, and I don't think I've ever cried harder with relief from telling someone something

I came out to my mom last summer and broke down in front of her. She was like: “ oh, that’s fine. I thought you were gonna tell me something bad like you were doing drugs.” She was way more chill than I thought she would be

Came out as bi yesterday to my parents and my dad said "yeah women are pretty cool too right" Edit: my mom said "yeah we know"

"Really, because some shirts can be red!" Made me absolutely lose my shit. Why was that so funny?

AS a gay man, I cannot help but love this video. I do not recall how stressful it was for me to come out to people (then again, I AM currently fifty, so there are some things I no longer remember, and some things I no longer care to remember), but I doubt I AM the only one who found it hysterical that the other three were more interested by the topic of men's fashion. And I must admit, I never knew that some shirts had higher collars (smile).

that moment when your whole family thinks you're gay and is accepting but really you are straight and cant get a girlfriend

One of my friends told me she was bisexual, and I shrugged and kept doing what I was doing.

As a bisexual person who was told I was "just greedy" and "needed to choose", the ending hit HARD man

If you're bisexual but you aren't dating anyone, you aren't bisexual, you're bi-yourself

recently i heard some good advice for when someone comes out to you, match their energy, if they say like its not a big deal, do the same, if they are nervous, tell them its okay and you accept them, let me tell you its so weird when you've been in the closet for like 16 years and finally get te courage to come out and they just go "okay".

One time I told a friend that i was bi. She said “So you’re like mixed?” “Uh...Yeah.” “Oh cool!” Five minutes later: HOLY CRAP SHE THOUGHT I MEANT BIRACIAL.

I was wondering why he said "I'm attracted to men" instead of just saying "I'm gay" lol nice twist.

As a straight dude with mostly straight friends, I have no story of me coming out as anything or friends coming out to me. I just wanna say I'm glad to be reading the comments and seeing so many people had a positive experience with coming out

Yeah so I had friends guessing my crush and they were asking “Who is she?” Yeah that was really awkward. Update: So they found out... 8 months ago..... And were hella supportive im very lucky

The usual reactions people give me when I tell them I'm gay are "Why did you wait until now to tell me?" or "You're not really gay. Trust me, I know when someone's gay. You don't act gay." What is that even supposed to mean? lol

I don't care about the vid. Get back to the conversation about vests

I did show choir and a musical in high school with a friend who ended up coming out. From what I understand his family was shocked and appalled. But I remember saying "Dude, we're in SHOW CHOIR. I don't know why I'M not gay."

A little irrelevant, but everyone's talking about their stories, so: My girlfriend, before she could admit that she was gay, she came out as bisexual to her family and they all said something along the lines of, "no, you're not. You're just confused and straight" (her family is very religious) but a while later, at least a year or two, she was talking to her new stepmom and said "I'm bi" and proceeded to only compliment women and talk about her attraction to girls when her S-mom went, "Jesus christ, you're not bi, Alex! You're gay!" And it was what my girlfriend needed and she realized that yes, she was gay. She told me that story last night and we had a good cry over it Edit: well, update. My boyfriend technically came out as straight, he just didn't know it yet (by which I mean he came out as trans last year!) I'll leave the pronouns for now (otherwise the story doesn't exactly work) but I've replaced his deadname. Many well wishes 😁

My mum asked me when exactly I was planning on coming out so she could set me up with a girl

When i came out to my friends i said "i'm gay" and he just said "hi gay!"

When I came out as Bisexual and my parents were like "Okay cool" I started screaming because I was mad that they weren't mad because I had planned like an entire conv in my head and It was useless now xD

The first person i came out to was a guy i met online who previously told me he was homophobic and even he accepted me for who I was which made me feel this vid so much lol

one time, my guy friend told me he would tell me a secret and then, conspiratorially whispered he was also into men and I for the longest time was like, ok? so? and *then i realized it was supposed to be a big deal so i went on to thank him for trusting me with this **_obvious_** news*

who else was just staring at his teeth the whole time

If I ever told my parents that I’m bi, I would get kicked out of the family and get called an attention-seeking generation z teen

I yearn for the day when someone says “Im gay” and people are just like “okay?”

I KID YOU NOT: I CLICKED ON THIS VIDEO THINKING IT WAS BUZZFEED.

When I came out as bisexual to my best friend the first thing he said was ," I hope your not confessing love for me cuz i just payed for your food."

I came out to both of my parents as trans yesterday in the scariest way you can imagine... and they, even though i thought they were transphobic, were the kindest and most supportive parents in the world. I love them

When I came out to my friends they were like “no shit” or “I know”, so that kind of killed the moment until my mom said I could still choose to be straight so we have that

3:00 "WHAT THE FUCK" That is the best part of the video

I love how the shirt thing is a metaphor/ analogy for people's opinion on different sexualities :D

When I came out as bi everyone was like “Okay???” and I was upset because I wanted everyone to be surprised

it's even weirder when you come out as trans and people are just like "uh ok." dkidvrkr i've been lying to myself about being cis my whole life and even when i found out that i'm trans i still denied it and you're just... okay with it?

It's hard to win an argument against a smart person, but impossible to win one against a really dumb person.

That ending though!

I came out as bi as a "prank" on my friends and now I really am bi. Really fooled myself with that one. edit: not bi, just gay and confused

Reminds me when I came out as ftm to my brother. "Oh you finally realized it huh? I knew for years!"

The beginning is a metaphor. The long sleeved shirts are gay. The shorts are straight. Vests are everything in betweeen

I told my best friend and she shrugged and was just like "ok, cool" and I was just like "you're not mad?" and she was like "wtf no" it was so weird because she was just so... chill. I'm really thankful for that

Me: mom I’m gay Mom: tells dad Dad: so your mother tells me your happy?

im coming out as a guy that liked his own comments

My friend came out to their dad and his response was literally "cool dinners at 7"

That fake conversation he walked into at the very beginning about shirts made me laugh for some reason.

Y’all should’ve seen my brother face when he came out to me and my exact reaction was. “Hm... cool.” Dude looked so confused and disappointed. He even did the same thing Grant did, like going into more detail. This shit hit me so hard lmao.

"when I came out my mother threw a bible at me and it missed and hit my nanna in the face" Grant must be hella jealous of Ally

I love the conversations they have about the most random things before the subject of the video starts

I hear from a lot of gay people that this is pretty much how it goes most of the time.

"I took a moment to smell his hair." "Nice"

When I went to my dad to try and come out as trans, I was stuttering and shaking and like right as I started like legit panicking he just said "dude just spit it out you're gay". I laughed and then I actually explained I was trans and he laughed. It was a grand ol time.

Omg the bi thing at the end is so goddamn true

He... he was so pleased at the end. His look of satisfaction though...

My mom tricked me into going to the grocery store with her just to ask me in the car when I was coming out so she can win a bet lmao. Jokes on her im aromantic XD

This video is such a mood though. I hate when people respond to coming out with "we already knew" or "yeah whatever who cares" because it makes it feel like you've been hiding and stressing out for years over nothing

who else pretends that he's a tiny person at the end? no one? ok...

I came out to my mum today and this was literally her reaction

That ending though🤣 That’s what my mom and dad’s reaction was when I “came out” as Bi. Yes, I turned out to be Gay, but that’s besides the point. Some like both genders, others like one or the other.

When I came out to my best friend, they were the second person I came out to and they’re also queer, they just laughed and said they knew it already. It was a huge relief because I was so nervous even though I knew they wouldn’t care.

*_YOU CANT JUST PRETEND TO BE GAY_*

"I am attracted to men" "You finally figured that out, huh?" "Yeah you were pretty much the last one to know that about yourself."

I love the shirt conversation

I feel like this was how my coming out was except for the end. When I told my friends, we all kind of did that domino outing where we all just happened to be lgbtq and when I told my mom her response was “I think I already knew. Do you mind if I tell your stepdad or do you want to do that yourself?”

The end is true though, being bisexual and/or pansexual is awful sometimes because a lot of people don't think it's real and/or valid.

Omg that is so weird Vests.... right

God the anxiety of coming out as bi to my friends only to be met with an anti-climactic "Okay cool" fuckin burns I love this skit

I can recall a friend coming out to us (pre 2010). He was pretty worked up about it and (I think) he appreciated our response to the effect of "thanks for sharing that with us, we're still your friends" I think anyone "opening up" like that deserves that effort to be acknowledged, even if it's not a big deal to you, it was to them.

When I came out to my best friend he was like "Well, duh!" I didn't know it was that obvious.

"Now are V-Necks Shirts?" "There are few schools of thought." LMAO

as a bisexual...for me this is pure gold

My grandmother reacted more when i told her i didnt like her favorite restraunt than when I told her i was gay

Being bisexual is like being purple. You're not referred to as blue and red, but as one color. Some are more blue, and some are more red but they are still purple.

For people wondering he's bi irl and has a girl friend

When I came out, my friends were like “Ok” “I know” “I’ve been waiting for you to tell me”

Here are some facts I'm gonna write down about bisexuality so please read them if you don't know a lot about it: 1. Bisexuality means being attracted romantically and/or sexually to two genders or more. (And the attraction is not always equal. It differs from person to person according to their preferences.) 2. Bisexuality is way different than polysexuality; polysexuality means the person can get attracted to multiple other people at the same time (whether they are from the same sex or the opposite). 3. Bisexual people don't date 2 people of each gender at the same time, that counts as cheating for them too. (Unless they are polysexual and bisexual.) 4. Bisexual people are not confused. Please stop labeling bisexual men as "closeted gay men" and bisexual women as "straight attention seeking women". Bisexuals are just bisexual, not gay and not straight. If they were colors they wouldn't be either yellow or red, they would be orange! 5. Bisexual people are not looking for a thr*some. Just like with straight people, what they do in bed depends on the person individually and not their sexuality. 6. Pansexuality and Omnisexuality are sexualities that fall under the bisexuality spectrum and are both different and valid on their own. Thanks for reading...♡

Vests are a separate thing from shirts not because of sleeves but because of which layer they are traditionally worn as in clothing. I.E. over a shirt but under a jacket. There. Clearly the most important part of this video has been solved.

that "WHAT THE FUCK!!" at the end got me laughing way too much

Ya girl once stood up at the dinner table and loudly announced her bisexuality (this was actually the second time I came out). Yet two months later, I’m coming home from camp and talking about how I got this cute lesbian girls number, and my mom is just like “wait, what do you mean lesbian!?!?”

sooo i came out to my mom as pan by going into my kitchen wrapped in a pan flag so i came in and i said “i am pansexual and i have a girlfriend” and she deadass responded with “okay” i felt this video in my bones-

How it went for me: * Sat knees to my chest * Me- "mum, dad, I'm bi" My dad- "so?" Me- "errrrrrrr oh, I just thought you should know"

I'm was more interested in the conversation the others were having.

i remembered coming out to my art mentor as and was nervous scared to how he'd take it and it was pretty good he was like you should never be afraid or ashamed of who you are, told me of a cousin that came out and his parents wanted to put him out and all his siblings and cousins took his side saying "if u put him out all of us are leaving as well". then we went back to discussing art like nothing ever happened. such a happy moment

When I came out to my parents, I had spent a week at a college-sponsored conference. We were split up into groups and at the end of the week, I came out to them. It was an emotional thing for me as they were extremely supportive. I decided to come out to my parents that day as bisexual. When I came out as bi, they just looked at me and said “Ok.” Super underwhelming but extremely comforting to know that my parents don’t treat me differently for my sexuality

Me coming out to my family Me. Im bi Mum. You'll have the most fun at a party Me. I'm bi Dad. K cool Me. Im bi My little brother. Whats that? Me. Well you know how i say everyones a little bit gay?

This is 100% how my parents and reacted. My dad said: "Oh, okay. we need a new refrigerator." that's it. that was the whole reaction... 😂

When I came out as bisexual to my mother she said “every girl has those feelings, I had crushes on my friends, it’s a phase and you’ll grow out of it”. *Um, Cheryl…*

Videos like this make me really appreciate the wierd background conversations that they have

people may not be homophobic but they may be biphobic

That's basically my reaction to people coming out, like, who really cares anymore?

This is basically how mine went with my best friend, not so much with my mum and dad

I mean, to be fair, when someone comes out - even if it's *not* a big deal - you should still be supportive and not brush it off. Something like 'I'm glad you felt comfortable telling me this and I'm super proud of you for coming out!'