When Man Refuses to Buy Sanitary Pads for Girlfriend

When Man Refuses to Buy Sanitary Pads for Girlfriend | Social Experiment

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TreeMan

Жыл бұрын

What will people do when they see a man refuse to help buy sanitary pads?

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@im_just_vidu Жыл бұрын

I like how so many women just came & offered what they have. Some even went to the shops by themselves while the men tried to talk some sense to him. Period isn't gross. It's a normal thing

@patrick-quora 11 ай бұрын

I remember when I was 12 years old and a girl who'd just got her period wanted to dance with me in some school party, and I just said, no what if you to bleed all over me, or basically something similar. Really, at that time I didn't mean anything bad, I was just trying to be funny in some way and didn't realize that getting your period was a big thing for girls. Like, to me at that time was like as if a girl having a nose bleed approached me and asked me for a dance. I regret it now that I'm older and wish I had been more sensitive. But those guy genes.... I blame them, lol.

@KxNOxUTA 11 ай бұрын

I had a (very wanted) hysterectomy (with successgul endometriosis removal, thankfully!). I don't get periods anymore 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Know what I purposefully still keep in my bag? Yes, you may have guessed it: A tampon!! Because I'm surrounded by female peers and sometimes they get caught off guard or ran out of period products. And hey, originally tampons were actually used by the military in war to address bleeding from gunshots etc.. So, they can even be used for emergencies (like, even to make a .... what's the English ... bbandage with filling for pressure LOL??). Either way, useful think to have. Smol and barely weighs anything! Should be carried around and regularly swapped out by people of all (and no) genders!

@abdulrohmanmuhamad6747 8 ай бұрын

I buy it for my mum and sister even my friend i guess (not gf). My friends laugh at me but im proud i can help people. Its just like u being a clown but everyone happy. Doesnt matter what they think about me.

@im_just_vidu Жыл бұрын

4:06 "Okay stop. That's enough. The lower your voice is, the more decent you'll be"... She's so sweet & passive aggressive at the same time. I like her ❤

@alwayssweetrose3189 10 ай бұрын

I agree

@diariodamel6854 6 ай бұрын

I agree

@user-tq9vs6fc9u Жыл бұрын

Tbh this channel made me put extra pads in my purse in case someone needs them. If my boyfriend let me be uncomfortable like this, I’d take it as a red flag and may leave.

@TreeMan Жыл бұрын

Yeah. Do not be ashamed of it ❤️

@Xiao_Fei73 Жыл бұрын

Yes, you should leave him if your boyfriend is like that. He's not such a good boyfriend material.

@reddeadandangryatcapitalism 11 ай бұрын

It's a big red flag

@lilies185 10 ай бұрын

I can buy it by myself without asking my boyfriend to go and ask for it

@sxxxxxlxxx 10 ай бұрын

"may leave" I'd DEFINITELY leave. I'm not dating teenagers, I'm dating adults, and I'm not gonna let a grown ass man baby disrespect me because of a NATURAL bodily functions I can't control. What a horrible relationship!

@hopiee-nw7kl Жыл бұрын

At the end the blue t-shirt girl is so lucky because her boyfriend was so amazing. He was very understandable 💜

@adelinesfashionvlog 9 ай бұрын

Omg yes I wish I have a boyfriend like this

@hopiee-nw7kl 9 ай бұрын

Yes I want to 🥰

@Aya_kgyy Ай бұрын

Yes , haha so cuteee 💜

@SmallGhostFloating 11 ай бұрын

My ex boyfriend was also grossed out about periods and didn't like me talking about it. My current boyfriend took care of me when I accidentally bled in his bed and told me "It's okay. We will clean you up and everything will be fine." Having your period is not shameful unless you make it a shameful experience.

@youresonarak 11 ай бұрын

I'm glad you found someone who loves you & takes care of you without being grossed out by such normal things.

@SmallGhostFloating 10 ай бұрын

@@youresonarak I wish that behavior was normal

@WaterKatara 6 ай бұрын

Yea that is my experience too. My ex didn't want anything to do with it but my current boyfriend will rock me back and forth in his arms to help the pain. I think it also comforts me when I don't feel good. He is a little afraid to buy pads for me but he isn't mean about it.

@Mikaela_16 4 ай бұрын

That's so sweet

@SmallGhostFloating 4 ай бұрын

@Mikaela_16 I don't want to ruin this... buuuttt he left me for another woman last month😂😂 it was nice while it lasted lmao

@Gaeforhae 11 ай бұрын

Just realized it’s so common for us to offer and receive pads from strangers, we understand each other and it’s so beautiful

@hendrawijaya3814 Жыл бұрын

2:25 i like how he sincerely accompany Chen Yang to buy pads without prompt 😄

@C-SD Жыл бұрын

"She is ill and if I don't buy it for her then that's something shameful".❤ My husband has always been willing to do this if I needed him to.

@dreamsstory116 5 ай бұрын

3:09 I loved the man hold it with all confidence and without putting it in a black bag

@elainelindsey1306 Жыл бұрын

I feel so blessed to have had a father who brought me pads, he would even make me a hot water bottle and ginger, turmeric treacle sugar and milk drink to help with my dysmenorrhea(period pain). Even my husband buy me pads, period pain meds and warming patches and chocolates for that time of the month. Men shouldn't feel ashamed to support there loved ones, it's sad how some men still treat this has a taboo subject

@fatememehnipour3465 Жыл бұрын

40% of woman don't feel heartatack but more than 80% of women feel too much pain during the period, now imagine beside the pain she needs to endure an stupid boyfriend too 💔😬🤦🏻‍♀️

@suvidhijain8219 Жыл бұрын

That's why I always carry an extra pad in my bag so that anybody in need can use it.. let's not treat menstruation as a taboo anymore but a very natural human process...p.s that guy at 5:00 is really really very good..

@yahoo.lol-e Жыл бұрын

Having ppl like that on this planet really makes me feel good

@anjalidhama81 11 ай бұрын

the patience they all had while talking to the actor is just mind-blowing, as i know the pain and the suffering, i would srsly burst out on someone like this, srsly if a man acting like this will offend me to my limits.

@magdolnavida2717 Жыл бұрын

How handsome and a real man is the very first guy in the intro...hats off before those man who stood next to the girl and dared to speak up for her! ❤ all of them were so cute...the auntie who gave calm and kind advices to Chenyang since she is married for 30 years - God bless them!....and the man,who wasn't local and accompanied Chenyang to the shop to buy pads together, was sweet,too...and of course the last guy with his girlfriend..I think the girl was very proud of having a boyfriend like that 😊 Thank you,Chenyang, you did a great job, too 😊❤

@xcvqe Жыл бұрын

The last couple is so sweet I really love their relationship 💕

@mandarmore.9635 Жыл бұрын

I like how people reacted and help them❤

@robertwisniewski2029 10 ай бұрын

I am a really shy and introverted man, it is difficult for me to buy condoms, but this fear of sanitary pads in someone who is over 12 years old I do not understand. Afraid someone will think it's for him? what happens when he has to buy toilet paper, he calls his mother?

@503mahazabenkhan6 Жыл бұрын

By this video, we learn to be respected and to give respect our girls!!!❤

@johnli1407 10 ай бұрын

教导大男人主义,不要自己是什么,对女朋友要好,

@SopitaDeLoto Жыл бұрын

Me parece muy lindo que tanto hombres como mujeres la ayuden ♡♡♡ La menstruación no debería ser un tabú

@stellarauclair Жыл бұрын

Conozco al de cabello rosado de tu foto, así que te gusta el BL 🤝

@strawbeare 9 ай бұрын

@@stellarauclairwho is he?

@n_n3535 9 ай бұрын

"Which is more important your face? Or your girlfriend's health ?!"

@eu_jjj03 Жыл бұрын

Благодаря этим видео я стала чувствовать какую-то любовь к Китаю.. 🥺Причем не просто любовь, а сильную привязанность, и Ин Ша Аллах, в будущем я смогу оказаться там😭❤️

@albishka0101 Жыл бұрын

Я тоже очень хочу туда, Ин ША Аллах мы там будем, мечты сбываются 🧡❤

@k_aj_ii4124 10 ай бұрын

انشاء الله

@Squish_that_cat 8 ай бұрын

You are always welcome to Xinjiang concentration camps

@tahaa200 Жыл бұрын

I REALLY liked the "when a shy girl ask for guys number" vid😂❤ I hope we get another one soon cuz it was sOo funny

@lucva 6 ай бұрын

i grew up in a man-dominated household, making my mother the only woman. even then, we were taught that periods weren't disgusting and if my brother or i were to ever have girlfriends, we should love and support them through their struggle. i have a lot of female friends, so i carry some pads with me in case they ever need it. despite this being a social experiment, it's shocking how there are actually people like this who avoid periods like the plague. glad to see even men going to the store to personally buy pads for the actress

@pratham245 11 ай бұрын

Period shame what is that? And what shame is in it? It’s natural. I buy pads for my lovely wife every time,

@PHH81 Жыл бұрын

wow they said really important points,

@GOZOMP 10 ай бұрын

This situation is similar to, You got a heavily injured leg? Walk yourself to the hospital. Pads aren't shameful. Periods aren't shameful.

@tinkerbell5427 10 ай бұрын

I am literally crying 😭 after see this video there Are many Countries where people were shamed to bring pads for their girl I don't know why they think this is gross it's natural thing for girls in these days girls are in pain so much mood swings etc so take care of your girl give him pads and chocolate to make their pain fell better

@imhuffelpuff 8 ай бұрын

This is so kind that people do that, I come from a family who thinks mensturation is something we should hide. Seeing this, I am proud of those kind people who helped.

@kpopstan7520 10 ай бұрын

Yes , helpful and good ppl do exist ❤

@getonthe-floor 11 ай бұрын

good interaction very beautiful like people help other. this actor is very good you be angry him sometimes but other you love this guy.

@AngelAllenson 10 ай бұрын

I had a hysterectomy 2 years ago and therefore no longer need pads but best believe I always keep some in my car and at my house. It’s not taboo and it’s not something a person should go through in silence. I remember the pain and needing a hand sometimes. There will be people like the actor is portraying but there are many like those who helped. We got you!

@elsakhione4324 Жыл бұрын

V. Good message

@someone-sr7bl Жыл бұрын

Respect💗

@hamsteru Жыл бұрын

Comment about how much I love girls and women, you are beautiful, thank you for everything ❤️ When I needed help myself, women helped me 🥰

@jamisonfawkes8537 10 ай бұрын

i always carry extra pads in my purse for any emergency situation, be it with myself or someone else if i saw another woman in need of help and i didn’t have anything, i would literally go to the nearest store and get the works pads/tampons, pain medication, snacks, water periods aren’t fun and it seems a lot of men seem to forget that

@janinerusinovich3040 6 ай бұрын

I do the same

@JosefinaQB 6 ай бұрын

“Just lift a finger” makes me wanna cry,

@Cataleanaa11 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the people who are still human and understandable with their neighbors, God bless you 🙏🏻💖💖 XieXie

@user-jl8wg2eh3f Жыл бұрын

Haha! Some men are so easy to be made uncomfortable. It's not like the shopkeeper is going to make fun of him. Just another transaction. I think he's better of with a boyfriend.😁

@ainohanako 2 ай бұрын

What will people think if they see a man buying period products? They’ll think he has a woman in his life that he loves and cares about, be it a girlfriend, sister, mother, daughter or friend.

@Kashisulu 11 ай бұрын

It's been 7 years since I've started to mensurate. My parents have been married for 20 years. And I'm their only daughter. My mother isn't in her menopause yet. And not there has been one time that we went out to buy pads ourselves. He always keeps them ready before time. So like ✨🌞 He is a Normal Good Man for that

@e-cigarette2050 9 ай бұрын

I love women 🖤 they’re amazing

@NHY6CK 5 ай бұрын

Girls will always help girls My mother taught me to always keep one pad with me wherever I go even though I always get my period when I'm home but you never know. I remember I gave one last year to a girl who used to be in the same class as me, she was really worried cause she didn't have any and she wasn't going to be in her home until really late at night

@h_s_111 5 ай бұрын

Women are always with women, right?

@gwenyn6177 2 ай бұрын

Meanwhile this mensch 1:36 just carrying it around in his sling bag for his own gal ❤

@nonoysuderio 8 ай бұрын

if your in a relationship you must understand the woman specially in a problem like this....

@honey97752 Жыл бұрын

Chenyang you are very naughty boyfriend 😁❤️

@-emilianoRojas8794- Жыл бұрын

Hello, very good video. Just a note: the subtitles in Spanish are incorrect, they are in Indonesian, I think.❤❤❤

@k_aj_ii4124 10 ай бұрын

لقد احببت كثيرا وقفت الرجال مع النساء ذلك كان رائعا شكرا لإضافة اللغة العربية نحن ممتنين لكم 🌼💛

@jas_minetx2001 6 ай бұрын

5:02 damn emotion hurt :)

@Y0utub3isf4sc1st Жыл бұрын

Los subtítulos en español no existen, están duplicados con los indonesios...son los mismos.

@a.snai6 Жыл бұрын

😢

@middlemistsred3400 11 ай бұрын

Buscaba este comentario, pensé que solo era yo. Jaja.

@ruealgie 9 ай бұрын

Women are amazing.

@snoopyzen127 7 ай бұрын

I am so glad my bf always buys me pads when I need them and even knows what brand and my size too depending on how heavy it is. I am now realizing not every woman has that ❤

@tamara_diamonds422 26 күн бұрын

There’s days when my cramps are so bad. I can barely walk. I would often have a stock up pads. But sometimes I do forget to stock up. My 18 year old son buys them with no problem. He knows my favourite brand and if they don’t have it. He knows my second favourite. I live in Canada. So he knows them by colours. He knows to get any brand that’s purple. If not. Then orange. My som doesn’t care. He always says he doesn’t like seeing me in pain of any kind so he buys them.

@akarikan8890 Ай бұрын

Los subtítulos en español no están bien, los vi en ingles, hermosa lección de vida.

@agusindra8186 Жыл бұрын

Mantap Mase

@indhu7980 11 ай бұрын

Well guess I need to find who the tree man is 😂

@Cristallia 11 ай бұрын

I hope in the future if my brother's lover has period cramps he would volunteer himself to buy it for them. My baby brother is only 11yrs old so it's not going to be anytime soon but I hope he will never act like that. Well I already make him go buy my pads for me anyways so im sure he'll be fine

@claudiak4871 11 ай бұрын

Can you make social experiment about the boy who sell something for extra allowance?

@Icecreambunny143 9 ай бұрын

Now i made sure how kind chinese people are, i watched kinda same social experiment that 11years olg girl gets her first period, she was wearing white pants and she doesnt know bout even wut perod is, so the experiment was "will people help her" and a lot people like 70% of them didnt help her and that 70percent was like some dudes who laughed and took pics and adult women who looked at her like she is smth gross pr disgusting. So my respect towards Chinese people absolutely increased

@samjall 11 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@user-dy8jr9zj1f 5 ай бұрын

男朋友幫女朋友買個衛生棉沒什麼不好的吧！

@ayakihel7687 11 ай бұрын

تأثرت ❤😢

@Zero-wb8jl Жыл бұрын

شكرا لكم لاضافة الترجمة العربية احب مقاطع الفيديو خاصتكم انا لا افوت قناتكم 👍🏻♥♥

@jesuism6386 Жыл бұрын

You should do a vid of a woman ashamed bc she's not married after 27

@johanphanyongming6899 5 ай бұрын

Which one more important your face (pride) or your girlfriend health? You'll stunned by that question, 😅

@YipJason 11 ай бұрын

I think this would be acceptable if the reason is that they don't have enough money to buy those sanitary products. Financial instability is crazy..

@sapientia_virtus_est 11 ай бұрын

ゴミが全然落ちてなくて綺麗な街ですね

@kaisia6869 Жыл бұрын

Hiii

@hanamohamed7081 11 ай бұрын

النساء للنساء❤

@ananttripathi5888 Жыл бұрын

🇮🇳❤️🇨🇳

@lilies185 10 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣☕

@thanhduongvan3896 Жыл бұрын

việt nam xin chào

@judaisan5414 11 ай бұрын

Todos los novios qué tuve, me compraban toallas. Pero él único que se preocupo por la marca, fue el que ahora es mi esposo.

@subysudhakaran 7 ай бұрын

Chinese people are not so bad it seems, maybe just an introverted population.

@Tiauhui Ай бұрын

Where did you found Chinese people so bad ? Still believe Western media ?

@oxanapopova5179 11 ай бұрын

Китайцы потрясающие ❤

@lilies185 10 ай бұрын

I don't know why I think there are lot of pick me boys in China

@originalhistorychannel6941 Жыл бұрын

Well, he doesn't actually have to. Girls are strong and independent, let them buy themselves.

@Koyachannie Жыл бұрын

She was in pain at that time It's just about understanding her pain

@originalhistorychannel6941 Жыл бұрын

@@Koyachannie strong and INDEPENDENT...Do not forget the main slogans of feminists and "progressive" of this world.

@Koyachannie Жыл бұрын

Bro it won't cost you to just help her when it's even hard to stand up... Do you even know how painful cramps are... She can still be called strong and independent...she IS strong...every woman is strong...we bear period pain, pregnancy and labor pain and so many more things...

@Koyachannie Жыл бұрын

Oh well I just saw your other comments and got to know it's a waste to argue with you... Your mentality...got it Anyways huh

@reddeadandangryatcapitalism 11 ай бұрын

@@originalhistorychannel6941 so.... If we want equality we have to never show weakness? Sorry dude, we aren't falling into the toxic masculinity trap of thinking that to be strong we have to be inhuman. A healthy relationship includes moments of mutual weakness and support, for BOTH parties. I have nursed boyfriends through the night while they were sick, even carrying them to bed. My partners have cared for me while I was sick as well. It saddens me to think there are men denying themselves this kind of intimacy and mutual vulnerability because they can't let go of no longer current oppressive ideals... But it's not my job to educate every mysogenist I come across. And you are indeed an argument for being completely self sufficient if the alternative is YOUR company 😂