If a girl REALLY likes you, believe me, even if she has a busy schedule she WILL make time for you. Period

Never waste your time on people who don’t value your companionship

Fellas, there are married couples with full-time jobs and children, but they still have time to have affairs. Don’t ever let a single girl tell you she is busy. She’s just not interested and you should move onto a different girl.

Rule number one: Never get too attached to a girl, no matter how much interest she shows you. If she's busy all of the sudden (obviously ignoring you), you will feel nothing but pain. This will really help you to cut off contact and move on. Been there too, but I've learned from my mistakes.

Simple...she ain’t that interested...

Another bad sign to look for is "I'll let you know". Cut your losses, gentleman

people make time for others. no such thing as no time

She’s busy = low interest. I never ask again if a girl says this especially after 1-2 dates. When a girl has high interest if she’s legitimately busy she will always offer up an alternative date. Far easier to take another girl out than scheme on a low interest girl 🤷🏻‍♂️

If a girl doesn't counter offer you, move on...

Simple: delete her phone number. If she's always busy. She's just not interested in you. Maybe she was at first. But something changed. Like my dude said if she really liked you, she would be okay with getting 5-6 hours of sleep instead of 8. She simply isn't willing to make time for you, which means you can find better

Legit just had this girl at work tell me she’s helping her mom move and she’s gona be busy the entire month of February.. after asking her to hang out. LOL

she's not busy, she just doesn't want you, simple as that

Just move on the first time she says she's busy, even if it's a legit excuse. If she's interested, she'll contact you back to reschedule a date.

She doesn't like you -- accept it and move on. When you pursue her, you just waste your precious time and give her undeserved validation. All you are doing is giving her power over you. Show her that you have dignity and walk away.

Beware of those who come on strong, they always end up “busy” busy searching for the next form of validation.

Went with this format for 3 weeks. Felt very disrespected and undervalued. Cut her off finally! Respect yourself guys.

Totally agree. If she can’t make time. Good bye!

I always give women who show interest two chances, if she no shows or doesn’t try and re schedule it’s adios. I had a girl no show me on a date, then we made plans weeks later to chill and guess what, she changes the plans to go to a party instead of 1 on 1. I politely told her no And we are just friends now. Now I’m dating a super chill hot chick. Don’t get fixated on one girl, have standards, and don’t break your rules unless she’s giving the same effort you are.

What to do if she's always busy - Find someone else. You're welcome.

I have a rule of asking a girl out exactly two times before I call it a loss and leave it alone. If she reaches out first again, maybe we can talk, but NEVER dote over a woman who can't be bothered to give you the same amount of time you give her.

If someone truly cares about you and wants to be with you, they will find time to be with you regardless of the circumstances. And if they can't find that time, they'll make it. Don't let anyone tell you they're too busy, there's no such thing as being too busy. "I'm too busy" = "I'm not willing to make time for you nor am I interested in making time for you" Move on and find someone who will put in and reciprocate just as much effort as you.

She is busy as in 'not interested'. If a girl likes you, she will make some time. Move on

If she’s genuinely busy the day you ask her, if she’s interested she’ll suggest another time.

When she says she's always busy.. Hhmm... SIMPLE... OK BYE!!! It’s not rocket Science..

Ending of the video is really profound, having that mindset itself is great. Thanks lloyd

Guy: what are you up to this week? 99.7% of women nowadays will reply : I don’t know. Moral of the story is, is she is into you she’ll make the time for you. Be on your purpose, be about you . Be direct . Guy : let’s hang out how’s Monday 6:30 pm sounds ? She say no or she’ll be busy . Let her set it next time . If she doesn’t after a week . Ask again . If it’s a second NO . Move the fuck on . Because if a woman want you she’ll make time for you NOT making excuses .

Which begs the question, instead of screwing guys around and being dishonest why don't they just say "sorry im not interested"

Lads, let me save you time, energy, money and despair. Any games, any weird feelings, any difficulties, any entitlement, any disrespect, any illogical treatment, any stupidity - do not waste your time. Dating gurus (not necessarily this guy) are trying to sell you a course, coaching etc. Sometimes there is no magic formula. But the RIGHT woman, loves you for you, says yes to your dates, yes to a relationship, and so on. Pursue what is meaningful, do not give up, keep trying, keep asking women out, keep improving. You already are doing what 90% of single men AREN'T and that is keep going. You'll get the right one eventually.

Ok, Let me make it easy for all. #3 scenarios: 1) She is "really" busy, she has a full time job and a single mom etc etc.. You : should move on ...you are just wasting your time! 2) She always has excuse although you know she is not that busy all the time! You: must move on ....You are just wasting your time! 3) She is cooperative with your offer... You: go for a date and have fun! Thats it, thats all. Easy Peasy !!!

This Vid Was Tough! Great Upload

I gave up on the first week…. We chatted in person a bit got her number no sweat. Talk to her a little bit in text. Said she just got out of a relationship I get it. Tried to get her to meet up for a little bit one day just for fun and told me she’s off on certain days I understand. Ask her to meet on the day she’s off takes like an hour to respond and conveniently has an excuse for the day and the next day. Said she “promises to hit me up” and “it’s so hard since I’m (too) busy all the time (laughing smiley face emoji)” you know just more bs. I responded with a one word text “okay”, then deleted her number after that. To this day that “promise” still hasn’t really been carried out that was a month and a half ago. I don’t know I don’t need the aggravation of being jerked around. I don’t have the energy for it.

I'll tell you what to do, find something that will keep you busy and unavailable most of the time too.. cuz these woman ain't shit. Focus on you

That's a sign to move on. Unless she's a celeb or in sort of profession that demands a lot of time like a ER doctor or nurse, she doesn't give a shit about you and isn't that busy.

I've been dating for years now, (bumble tinder and all the other bs dating apps.) I would never pretend that I know everything about women, but one thing I know for sure about them is that females are 100% NOT busy...

Just delete her number and move on. If a woman is into you, she will make time for you

Hi Lloyd love the passion you put in your stuff

If it's important to you - you will find a way. If not , you will find an excuse.

If a girl is too busy she may be busy with the other boyfriend she did not tell you about. If a woman is interested in you she will make the time to be with you.

Basically the same as sales, find out when they're free and be assumptive, if they still say no, on to the next

We’ve become too focused on women, specially with social media ego boosting selfies. First, stop giving women free attention with social media. Delete that shit and don’t chase women. Second, live your life. Find your purpose and pursue that shit. Put yourself first. Third, if you focus on yourself and your well being, women will notice and will want to be a part of your life. You won’t have to chase women instead they’ll approach you... difficult, takes work and discipline but it’s worth it. Instead of wasting your time chasing women use that time to better yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and financially. Peace

Great content bro ✌🏻 People who dislike the video needs help

it's just logic, put your time into girls that do want to see you, don't put your time into girls that won't, there's an endless number of girls and your time is finite

This is an easy one, you dont need 6.35mins for this, "She is always busy = She is not interested, and you're not a priority, move on."

Thankyou bro for this cool content like everytime ♥️

I had a girl tell me she was "busy with family". Turns out after finding out she was seeing someone as she finally told me when I asked her out a third time. She said she was sorry though I fin d it weird she gave me her number and saying she would love to go out and call me anytime. I would have much rather had her tell me, she was seeing someone then leading me on.

Guys you hear put your self first

this is the coolest background you've ever had, Lloyd. :) i have this girl i'm trying to meet up with. she's got a couple kids and a couple jobs, so i know she's busy. but i'm not gonna wait too long on her. if she doesn't find time soon, i'm gonna move on. and in the mean time i'm working on finding more options

Your so right ! Thanks 😊 sir

Bingo I was looking exactly for these and I did the same with her no one is that busy it's all about priorities

Yes I've been waiting for the longest time for someone to talk about this topic. And eaclty, if she likes you she'll make time to hangout. Back when I was doing construction I was working like 14 hours a day and still had time to make plans. Shit, I know people who works more hours then I did while going to school and they even have time to make plans. She might have a busy schdule but there is no way she is constantly busy 24 hours a day 7 days week with no brake. She might be, but I hardly doubt it. Girls complain about guys playing mind games even though they do the same exact thing instead of just being honest, hyprocrite much. Not every one plays mind games but for the ones that do. The best thing this guy said is to just move on. No need to brake your back over someone who isn't putting as much effort as you are.

Not cool forcing a girl who doesnt like u to go out with u, just move on and find someone hotter!!

I can relate to this. Spent all lockdown chatting to a girl, met at her house..which was a bit odd...make out, lots in common and really likes my common but didn’t feel the ‘spark’ but still up for getting together. Tried suggesting several things but always busy, works crazy not got a lot of time. Suggested a meet last weekend..she was like ‘ha why what you thinking. Not sure how much time I’ll have’ I told her the options. She was like I’m not going to have time this weekend. So I suggested calling her the next week and she said I’m not going to be able to chat tonight sorry. So I’ve just said ‘ ok when’s a good time to call’ no idea what to do now?

simple and easy thank you now I know what to do.

Putting yourself first is the only rule you must not break... Women always come and go. Get a hobby, grab and learn a new skill... There is life outside women. Great content and god bless brothers...

Good morning thanks for take my advice good channel

Posted about a situation related to this in the Facebook group, may have been where Lloyd got the idea for this video from, nonetheless this is exactly what I needed to hear. Always put yourself first and never go out of your way to try to get a girl to come into your orbit. If they want to, they will and will make it obvious that they are trying to. Value yourselves first gentlemen and the women will come.

good tips for asking her out

I've dealt with women like this all the time where they give me I'm always busy as a matter of fact a lot of women use a million excuses in the why you can never see them it's either I'm busy or all the sudden they just got sick out of nowhere which is really funny it's just another excuse to say she's not into you she doesn't want to put the effort in it's like I have a job to I'm busy but I still make time to talk to you if they don't want to put the time in to talk to you and get to know you then obviously they're not interested as they say they are I mean honestly what's the excuse when you go on break what's the excuse when you get off work and you go home nothing nobody's busy 24 hours a day they can literally talk to you but if all they're going to do is use that excuse just move on a lot of these women come up with a million excuses every time you ask to see them it's always something new I don't feel good I'm busy helping out family moving it's always the same s*** that's why after too many excuses I just delete there number and move on

If she likes you and is genuinely busy, trust me. There are spaces that she can you fit in to her schedule. Example Objection: I have Work Handling It: "I am free during my lunch break. "We can meet" or "Meet me after work" It is up to you if you would want to adjust to her availability but it should be give and take. There will also be times that she will make time for you at your convenience as well.

Guys you are number 1 if she doesnt show enthusiasm to see you then why even bother. A woman will never respect you if you dont even respect yourself.

Thank you man

Yes, there can be way too many unknowns in certain situations, but one problem as well is that women and their princess asses themselves mostly don't want to initiate clearing out those unknowns either. Not everyone has the 20/20 vision when it comes to seeing imperfections, and they just expect men to be able to clear it all out without them even having to do anything.

Yess and guys do this too and this advice works for both sides

Bro she hit me with the I was taking a break from my phone for 2 days

Have you talked about how to lead a convo with a woman (man to woman) and if so can someone link the vid

I met a lady online we've been talking over a year when she got a study visa to USA she insisted I go back to my country we get married of which I did.now she went in America she's telling me that she's too busy and that she's passing alot I give her space.what should I do surely?

Hey loi..love your channel. Very good advice that has helped me many times. I need your advice on something. I met this girl over a year ago, we went out several times, things were great. A year later we started going out more often and we sort off started a relationship. 3 months later we had a little disagreement and took a small break. I reached out to her and tried to bring things back to normal, but she is not the same. Every time I try to meet up or visit her or go out she never has time. She always has plans with her daughter. She never has time for me and my texts get a very late response or none at times. I dont think she fully lost interest in me because she still includes me in one of her plans even if its a week or 2 out. I dont know, you might know better. What do you think is wrong here?

I had this recently there was a girl I was hugely into and she was into me she would call me gorgeous comment on my insta posts ect and even full out came out and said to me she really really liked me so i was like let’s meet up and she said yeah straight away first time she didn’t even tho she said she would same with the 2nd and the 3rd she said she was hungover from the night before but then she goes and says she has no free time but she has free time to meet friends such bs so I said to her am I wasting my time and she said I’m always busy so it’s over and nothing changed she changed her whole mind on me in about a week and we was talking for a while she would always make excuses from not calling me aswell

Hi Lloyd, there is girl I work with that always says “Hi” to me every day. I have only made small talk with this girl once so far, we have a lot mutual friends outside of work and we are also the same age. Can you make a video on how to approach a girl you work with if you don’t already have a video about it.

What about if she saids I will let you know what does that mean do I remind her or let her tell me on that day?

Move on and find another girl. Plenty of girls in this world...

If she cant make time for you ..shes not worth yours!!!!!!! ..... move on and be happy.... Happened to me recently .. long story short .. met a girl had 3 months of fun together . Then after 3 months her friends told her to not get involved with me (married but seperated ). Kept promising to meet up then comes the day and suddenly busy and seemed to always be busy . So i confronted her about it and she showed her true self .. Oh and is it odd in 3 months she met ALL of my friends and never met ANY of hers ? Even though i suggested to have a huge get together and always had a reason not to meet any of her friends..... which i have a feeling they were all guys.

Yeah I got one of these but I'm not too shure

Genius

4 years ago in the first dating she was looking very happy after few days she stopped answering my phone and texting..in 2021 she come back again and I respond to her as friend because I wasn't thinking to go back to her..few months later I decided to ask her if she accepte for marry her. She said ok but after that whenever trying to call her she didn't pick up phone calls but she replied by messages pretending that she is busy.. That happened many times And I couldn't talked to her seriously about our relationship only once by messages. What to do in this case . Anybody can give me advice about what to do?

Mmmm what i can do if she is really busy, i mean she is my girlfriend and all but she is really doing something, but i don't know what to do, i want to spend some time with her, in any way, so what i can do?

Found this out in heart crushing ways. Come to find out I'll just be a lonely dude..

But what if its the other way around? I t alk to a HS friend who happens to be my crush and told her recently that i like her and i wanted to know her more. She didnt deny me and told me she appreciates my bravery. She chats with me almost the entire day sometimes up to like 5am in the morning. She even has a work after that like 8am..So I'm not sure what to feel cuz she spends all these efforts and i dont know a person who would spend that much time and say im not intrested in you.

If she flakes on you, then you next her

'Assume you're already in a relationship with her." - Check. *despair*

Wine or beer? Girl: “neither”.

I think a lot of guys always tru to see the good in people. Those are the nice guys. Nice guys finish last. Be alpha fellas.

....it's not do we like sunshine and rooftops...it's do we like sunshine and rooftops with you...

Most of the time....she's not interested but if she's interested she'll hit you with a counter date

Let it go

i asked a woman to see me as much as possiable before she moves outta state, so she seen me tuesday, thursday, friday night at 230am,.....cause she told me, she was moving saturday morning,....then find out she will not be leaving til monday morning,.......so naturally i asked to see her sunday night at 230am or monday morning before i go to work ( before 10am ),.......texts me back saying she will be busy sunday night to babysit her niece. and monday morning, packing up the rest of her stuff and leaving the state. i texted back saying ok, how about tonight ( saturday night ) at 3am? ( sent text to her at 9:40pm )( so far i got no reply as of 1am ) we were seeing each other for 2.5 years. so with her moving to another state to live, does this mean the situationship is done, null, ended??? ( no im not moving with her to another state )

She’s too busy for you

I make time for who I want to spend time with...my busy can wait! 🤷

I'm going through this bruh honestly if this girl really liked you she will find time to talk to you if not then move on dude

Goat

What if you’re both under 21, and you can’t ask her to go to a bar, where are some other good options to bring her to?

I am always busy and my girlfriend doesn't understand that

She: i am busy at work everyday for next 2 months. I cannot go to date. Me: Thats awesome you are busy, and working hard. She: I am free this week. Every night after work. You? If i answer that i dont believe her, she is busy, or if she can make 1 day free, she would not respond like this, its just their stupid games.

What to do in this scenario: move on

Theres no such thing as being to busy to see someone you want to see. I had a woman try and pull this trick with me a couple of months back but we already made love so i wasnt bothered

I’m a simp

You don't need to get her schedule first .. just ask her out and if she actually is busy on that date then she will suggest an alternative date.. if she doesn't do that then just move on .. remember you don't need that woman to be happy in fact she would probably make you miserable

IT hurts to think She once likes then loses interest

Don't believe her words, look at her actions. Girls told "I really want to see you..." And guess what, whenever I asked them, they were busy. So look at her actions, not the words.

one time i tried to date this afro american model from work, she was ready to date me she said ok. She flaked twice saying she was busy, later i find out that she was working 50 hours a week to take care of her kids. She wasnt lying thank god.