Question🙋‍♀️ : Do women still engage in the traditional roles of cooking, cleaning, taking care of children and their husbands today? Or is it time to take tradition back into our hands? How fluid are the roles in your home - Must you also check the bath water temperature for your husband? We'd love to hear from you. Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Video credits: Vidoegraphy: Garage Group Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House & Arija Fashions Make up: Tina Brows & Sununu Effect Hair: Zuri Uganda Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

Did Any one notice the Ugandan flag colors on this show atte in order

Someone give me some likes I beg Since 8am I have been checking the notifications. Good morning pump lovers

Beverly and Babra are very eye catching. I died when Bev mentioned that she prepares nice chapatis even when their shape comes out like a smashed avocado 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I haven't gotten the names yet...but the lady in red...her wisdom and composure is on another level. You are all doing great ladies.

Greetings to Rosette, pumla, Angie and Rachel. I miss u on the show. 😂😂😂 i enjoyed the show 😂😂

I'm in love with BEVERLY..... her English is glamorous

Bev is low key effortlessly funny. Those people who make you laugh but they don’t laugh.

Hello bump love. I love the show and I've been watching from the first episodes. The first episodes had few to no reactions at all until it gained ground. But i loved it. And the few subscribers we were. That said, if we keep comparing the ladies, we will show that we never learned from the former group but were rather entertained. If we can think of the comparison and not write it and learn more than we compare, it would be great. Otherwise some of us nursed the heart break and then created room for the new group and it's doing great so far. We appreciate all the positive impact it's had on our lives.

I love the black, yellow, and red dress code. Bravo ladies .....you keep us inspired

I was amongst those who were abit afraid of change but bump love 2.0 is Giivinnggg wisdom 👏🏽 I love how relevant this topic was. Absolutely relatable and worth absolute reflection! Loved it! 💋

Barbara definitely closed the roles polnt very well. We are innately created to be fulfilled in our purpose in this world. That's why we are who God created us to be. Male and female, he created Us. Other than Us, he created beasts birds of the air and plants..wululu, thanks ladies❤

This lady in yellow hooo the luzungu is making me appreciate the literature classes I had in form 1 and 2

A special Welcome to our new hosts Batbra and Beverly ❤❤❤. Can't wait to enjoy the new blend in

I am loving the Elegance you are bringing us in 2.0. So uplifting.

In your first episode of Bump Love 2.0, you discussed whether children are a setback, ultimately conveying that children are not a setback and that women can achieve just as much, if not more, by having a husband and a family. However, this episode implies that a mother working in Addis, despite having systems in place to ensure her husband's needs are met, may still leave her husband feeling neglected simply because it isn't his wife attending to him. This suggests that she must somehow forgo her job to ensure her husband and family are cared for. In the original Bump Love, the panelists had strong and diverse opinions, representing different women's perspectives. In Bump Love 2.0, however, it seems that only a conservative Christian woman adhering to traditional roles is represented. This is evident in how none of the current panelists seem able to discuss womanhood outside the roles of wife and mother. As a dedicated viewer from the beginning, I've noticed that in 2.0, Manuela exclusively introduces and leads the conversations. In contrast, previously, each lady took turns hosting and sharing their unique perspectives. The first three episodes of 2.0 have felt like they represent only one type of woman, speaking with one voice and tone, rather than offering diverse viewpoints. I love Bump Love and hope that as you continue to host, you challenge opinions beyond your own. The show's strength has always been allowing all women to see themselves represented. Over the years, I've always felt represented by at least one of the panelists in various episodes, but since 2.0, I no longer feel represented, which is disheartening for a show I love. Bev was the only one who challenged the idea that “women don't do traditionally men's jobs better than men, but men do traditionally women's jobs better than women”. She also asked, "What is womanhood for women who are not mothers or wives?" We are women first, before we are wives or mothers. If a panel of admired and respected ladies like yourselves cannot answer what womanhood is outside these roles, it sends the wrong message. I hope to see all three of you challenge yourselves more as the show progresses.

Woow m loving this new season , thank u ladies🥰

Thank you Bev for highlighting how the single people should embrace this .

Each time I watch episode 2.0 I am greatly impacted. I love Beverly. I am learning alot about speaking and response from her articulation and thoughtfulness when she is responding to any question. She first affirms a person, repeats the positives out of what they have said, then explains her views. I love...I love the change and the new hosts. I am open to this change and am loving it

Bev and Barbara... Great ladies

This is a much-needed revelation. Thanks. And Beverly is right. Very well said. She still has her degrees, even though she still does a lot of the work of cleaning up after the children, especially when they were babies. We just need to work together with our partners.

Well well done Ladies🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 you keep inspiring!

Thank you ladies for the show. We appreciate. Would have loved for you to make the discussion more personal. To share your actual experiences and struggles regarding the topic beyond the philosophical aspect.

Loving the beautiful array of the hosts 2.0... Fact that many are seeking fluidity of roles already depicts the acknowledgement of the existence of tradition, it will take our unwavering firmness to uphold and pass it on as a legacy to upcoming generations too.

Traditions are about values. It's about what you as a family decide works for you. It's influenced by character. Each person's circumstances are different. What I see as roles are: as a woman I am the only one capable of being pregnant and giving birth. Other than that everything else is interchangeable.

I love this ❤ Thank you ladies 🎉

I love the bottles falling.😂😂😂

Bump love 2.0 is on point already. However , if only Pumla and Beverly were in this 2.0 it would be another show all together paka kuwulira bubi

God bless u ladies...Real raw conversations. Bev you're energy on another level! Love all of you

What a great way to start a weekend. Thanks so much Manuela these beautiful intelligent ladies Bev and Barbra 💓😍

Thank you ladies for such a beautiful show, i just want to add on my opinion on how singles can embrace the womanhood in a traditional way. so for me there was a time i had some medical condition where by doctors had told me that i wont be able to have children but thanks be to our miracle working God he healed me though am not married yet but am sure that i will be a mother of my own children, so at a time when the doctors gave me that report...i told myself that i would just finish school, get a job, take care of my parents, help my siblings and their children and get some disadvantaged children that i can support through school within my capacity and just live my life. So you see that bit of motherhood still stems out of a woman regardless whether they are married or not. once again thank you ladies, bump love 1.0 was great but this bump love 2.0 is definitely gonna be great too.👌

We love the ladies already they are so sweet

I miss the old faces but am definitely in love with the new faces too❤…👌…Thanks Manuela

Thanks for the lovely episode ladies. It’s interesting thinking about traditional roles in the context of Africa and I agree that it’s responsible for the still remaining sanity we see in the family unit in Africa. Having lived in California for a while now, I realize in other parts of the world, the roles are non-existent and anyone can do anything when in comes to family roles. Is it a bad thing? Not completely. I think I like to keep to the scripture that says wives submit and husbands love. That’s principle and is necessary for the marriage/family institution to work. However what that looks like for an African man vs a white might differ and therefore left to the discretion of the family

😅😅 it the way Barbra is looking at Beverly as she says she is an expert of making chips

Bigger and better bump love 💕

Happy to be here. Can't wait to hear from the ladies. Barbz inspires me ❤😊

Friday is even far😅well done ladies. The creativity 🇧🇪 🎉.

In this day & time,it's great to see that we are slowly but surely getting back to such convos of men vs women dynamics. That whole notion of everything a man does, a woman can do is a fallacy which unfortunately most of us women realise when it's already too late & as Barbara said, we are bitter & jaded. (Yes, there are unavoidable situations of single parenthood, but it's not a choice many pple want.) The dynamic of switching personas/alter egos frm the kicking ass business woman to the mother/wife when one gets home & vice versa(stay at home dads)...it's very doable but it takes alot of mental & emotional maturity from both partners with lots of God's grace in the middle. Traditional & modern can be merged & actually work when well balanced. Thanks Ladies!

I loving playing wife,and I still love it when my husband makes me some katogo,he makes it really well,I am loving this conversation,and I think I come from all the schools of thought that all these ladies come from,I let him have his glory as a member of society and a man at that,and when we are at home,I love the husband he is,I believe we can be Abit of both,we only need to learn that waltz between both worlds so that we can get the best of both worlds. Adis elabye😅

Pumla where are you? I miss your unapologetic self. You made me. Zambia

I'm glad Bump Love is back. You guys are doing great.😊 Is it too late to have more girls on the show? the chances of being represented are higher, especially in answering some questions we can't ask you🙏

Now I can close my week as long as new episode is out. Love from Rwanda

I strongly believe in traditionalism in our homes as a woman. However we can't deny that the world is fast changing . Let's mind what we teach our children it's important. U ladies are looking gorgeous ❤

Thank you Ladies for experiences shared❤❤

I miss Pumla😭😭😭!!! Can you bring her as a guest

the conversation was going on well till the chips part🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Oh wonderful Ladies, thanks for the show. Sorry for commenting late, Manuella what you are afraid of didn't start today but we came through - straight submitting to our husbands and raising godly children. I want to agree with Beverly and Barbra that we have control. Even our children children will come through as long as the Lord tarries. I love you all ❤

Barbra talked about her report card and remembered the sharp pencil she talked about. 😢Imagine such a result and the pencil , tip toe indeed

Ladies thanks for the show🎉❤

We love you girls

Wow beautiful ladies.....l really miss Pumla

Beverly 's English is on another level and Barbra 's composure is also wow

The sharp ka pencil came to play when Manuela spoke of the reports

As a wife, I can create systems that work for our home, I don't have to chop the onions myself if I can use my mouth and money to cook. I have cooked by instruction. But I can serve the food without going through the hustle of preparation. However there's no system that can replace intimacy with my husband. Men and women shd be able to major on the majors. What is that thing if ignored or substituted will leave me with no marriage/family to come to, traditional or not?

Amazing and looking beautiful ladies

Was yarning for such a conversation

Manuela my sweet sister.the Devil right from the beginning..he is not scared ... But we got to be in control of our territory, our spaces,..and our homes. I.loved this conversation. Thank you .

This seems to me like its one of the hardest topics you've handled on the show. Thanks for sharing, ladies.

First one here 🎉🎉🎉 Happy bump love day. ❤

Am so proud to be a bump lover

This conversation really scratched the surface on some issues. I've seen women try to venture into the male fields and looked down upon by ourselves(me inclusive). I've seen female barbers, female taxi conductors, a female bodaboda rider laughed at. I've witnessed a lady reject a female nail beautician for the male counterpart. We are not equal to men but we need to cheer on women venturing into non conventional roles

I think the whole mixing roles ultimately will be defined or should be defined by individuals in the marriage or relationship. Societal standards and constructs is what causes strain because the benchmarks is set by outsiders as opposed to the two people.

I think ladies in general can embrace traditional womanhood by embracing their femininity. We may be equal but we are different. And we have our strengths that we can tap in shine in the market place or where God has placed us without necessarily fighting to be men.

Mrs. Mulondo's line" i can be mrs. Mulondo out there chasing the bag and wen i step home,i automatically switch to a wife( a mother) then the stay home mr.mulondo who has been babysitting the baby switches to the man of the house ( the leader)". This gave me alot of sense otherwise thanks alot bump love though i miss pumla and Angie on the show but this crew are doing their best as well❤❤

Thank you ladies. Welcome bump love crew 2.0. I am saying this from a heart of love; Honestly, the difference between these two seasons so far is; someone has to be very intentional to watch 2.0 episodes till the end whereas last season, we would be somehow coerced or is it emotionally driven minus knowing to watch full episode. Either way; the vision bearer knows best what her purpose for the show is.

I stand we be men and women amidst working.you look good bump love 02

Great conversation, ladies❤

Love what am seeing Uganda flag matter's ❤ thanks Ladies

I love u all. U r just so smart both physical and in the brains. I bless the Lord for u. Yes, u have shaken some tables. There is a way bump love spiks to my current situations. U r moved by the holy spirit ba dia❤❤❤❤❤.

Thank you ladies. I love you all. As for me, I agree with Manuela. I maintain carrying out my traditional roles as a woman and I expect my husband to carry out his traditional roles as stipulated by God. I believe such homes thrive better.

Beverly has the most beautiful hair and she speaks with a different side to things. She is refreshing to listen to. I like 2.0

Interesting conversation about transiting from our traditional values to modernity which risks breaking the moral fabric of our African family however, Its incumbent to us now to blend our essential traditional values with the so called modern ones Thank you for the good deliberation

New brilliant ladies aside, Manuella when should I send my boda guy for that dress. You don't have to wash it, leave that to me. Gal you're doing a great job with bump love. Blessings ❤

It's Manuel's beauty for me ❤🎉

I don't have a problem with switching roles sometimes but both man and woman should never forget who they are and what they are meant to do in their homes

Wow mrs .sengiyunva Bev I love you all ..

I have come to a conclusion that we are merely born male or female. The gender roles apply according to where or who you are born to....a woman that chairs meetings in Addis can definitely head a home easily!

Some traditional has stood a test of time women nurturing and men provision

The new ladies a doing great. I love their Aura on the show. Just calm , collected and doing ❤❤❤❤❤ job

We have given men a lot more credit than they deserve today. Please!!! Shyaaa!!!! How?!!! I cannot accept that.

Shalom I have to watch this before the second episode, I do miss the old crew naye I must gives the new crew a chance bambi. Ladies your looking beautiful and am watching from Stuttgart Germany.❤ Hope to get bump love Ambassadorship for Germany😊, blessing and shalom to you all.

Goodmorning bump lovers. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Good chapati shaped as smashed ovacados 🎉🎉🎉👏👏👏👏👏my mother's food is the best meanwhile it's boiled

Txs love

Lets appreciate that what we like is different.. i feel nump love 2.0 has more less the same opinions and characters... needed an outlier..

First here🖐️

Great conversation. I believe if we stick with God's design we are safe! Outside that recipe for destructor.

Had Pumla been here and Ange solid points and conversion... Season 2 is not measuring up..Manuella is holding onto the legacy though also the lady in red..but the creeks are vivid..No hate.

My mom used cook while boasting about her meals more so rice , so one day she cooked rice which wasn't tasty and she was like " guys i know this is the best rice served for all the ". We all agreed that itnwas tasty and when she left the dining room we all started ranting on how bad the rice was n we just appreciated her for just 😂...she overheard the convo and since then she boasts less about her cooking. Anyways bump love 2.0 is the bomb ......love you all ❤

Hehehe Beverly is in the hot seat😅

This show went back in time to women being in the stone age. Disappointed but Beverly (lady in yellow) tried her best to keep it 100. Her daughters will grow up to be women who will not settle for a man who wants them to be a home maker but be the next president.

30:09 the more i have this conversation about who earns more in a marriage the more i get more accepting of a man who earns less than his wife. Its difficult but doable. You have to remind yourself that roles are not hierarchy. Nonetheless i still believe God's original plan was for men to lead EVEN or especially in providing. And whenever it strays from that there's bound to be turmoil. I have seen women who are willing to be providers but in the long run because its not in our nature to be the primary providers we get frustrated and thats when you hear women kulangiraring their men. Because they Re not built for that. If that happens i would I love to think of that as being a season while my man tries to get to a place where he can earn and be the primary provider. Im still single and may be naive but im grateful to be hearing this deliberation before i go there especially with the changing times.

Smart ladies. was the black, yellow red intentional?

I feel like going to work and coming home to so much house work because we are being would risks us getting burn out. How do we encourage partners to be supportive and step in. For some work you remain with some energy but other ladies are doing work that leaves them so auhusted

It's Bev's food for me😂😂😂

29:37 in a situation where roles change and the woman earns more, and calls the shots, it takes an incredible amount of self discipline and humility to even feign the idea of the inherent roles Manuela. I thinks its even close to impossible.

Not dangerous substitutes but necessary evils 😂😂😂😂

Hooooo, Manuella your KB of 30 strokes reminds me of mine in p7 where our maths teacher beat us for not taking our books for marking; we were over 20 and said let anyone come first, everyone refused then i was like maybe if i go first i will be forgiven, mama kumbe the man was already angry that no one was going down, hoooooo the man beat me 15 hot strokes and others were canned only 5, i cried😭😭😭😭😭

I love Pumla but now I have a new representative on the show Beverly