The best decision I ever made was to let go of my avoidant ex, and actually start enjoying dating again. If they truly want you, they will come back, but LIVE your life, don't hold a priority space in your heart. If they want to come back, they need to get in line with all the other people interested in you!!

I was with mine for 3 years… first year we were AMAZING suddenly he completely changed and became so DA it was a shock to my system. He broke up with me 6 months after that… i was devastated and thought it was over. Four weeks later he came back promising me he will change and he did but that again only lasted about a year… the last 6 months full blown DA again! Self sabotaging, flaw finding, no intimacy, so cold, nitpicking at absolutely everything! I left him this time! Been 2 months now. Only spoken once and he told me he is in therapy for many issues he has. I am seeing him at a wedding next week. All i can say is I’M DONE! He made me miserable! Yes I still miss him but my gosh I never want to be with someone like that again! They make you anxious no matter how secure you are! They have SO MANY issues its actually scary! I’m trying my best to be strong and move on! They are not worth a second of your time! I gave all the love I had to give and nothing was enough! I’m done! Bye 👋

We were getting on like a house on fire. Loving each others company and laughing all the time. I told her I love her, after a great day today, and she said it back. This turned out to be our last date and the last time we saw each other. A week after our date, her oldest friend passed away and a week after that, she ended it....By text! and just saying the romantic vibe had gone. I got no other answers. This was February, I've been in no contact with her since the end of March. I'm hoping she'll come back. 🙏🏻

Alexis your content is amazing. More people need to see this!!

Brilliant stuff , you are spot on once again 👏

Do avoidants even know HOW to repair??

What a silence. A lot of people thinking.

Do you have a video about writing a letter to an ex gf after getting left for being needy, jealous, insecure and when to right it during No Contact and what to write ?

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her