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I was looking for a comedy skit from you, Michael Jr. Today has been one of those days.. Iam depleted and I need to laugh. Cue the search for Michael Jr Comedy. I saw this and clicked. So glad I did. My husband and I are 11yrs about. I am a sahm. My husband works. We have a bunch of kids. After being told I would NEVER have kids. I feel like we are sinking. I am always doing something. I feel like I HAVE TO ALWAYS BE DOING SOMETHING. It is so draining. There are times my husband tells me, "relax" "sit down" "I'll do it". "You are enough" is a beautiful thing to say. Though we are NOT enough, Jesus Christ is. We have to learn how to rest in grace and peace. Which, personally, is so hard. I don't know how to rest, myself. I always try to make sure my husband is at rest and taken care of. It is my pleasure to serve God by serving my husband (and kids). I feel that as the wife, I am always trying to make sure everyone is fine, relaxed, safe, taken care of, fed, rested, etc. I don't know how to not. There are things I was able to take from this. I appreciate it.

My husband and I listen together we are we are 10 years apart and we go to the same challenges we enjoyed and learned a lot thank you for this podcast

This was an entire therapy session, and I’m here for it.❤

Ohhhh how this blessed me. Find your why! Its not hard as we make it. This woman sat here and got free on the spot. I love it and now Im going to do it. Thank you all, yessss!

I definitely know how the wife feels. It won’t be an overnight fix but it will come and once she set for rest. She will never regret

She looks like she is barely 40. You both are blessed!

Great conversation. Very rare to see the beginning of Transformation so quick and I love to see it.

Mr & Mrs JR! Where were you 50 years ago? We have been married 62 years. Some have really been bumpy as well as many smooth. Been married too long to retrain another. Really enjoyed today’s broadcast.

Honestly, her breaking down was BEAUTIFUL!

This is amazing. It shows how difficult it is for us to change what we're doing without having our beliefs tested first. When we allow ourselves to become vulnerable then the truth can get into the deepest places in our hearts. Then we can heal by changing our direction with our new truth in our hearts and knowledge to defend against the old truth, old ways of thinking, and old ways of being creeping back in to our lives. John 14:6.

just want to note that my first husband and I shared a bank account, and he cleared it out to take his girlfriend to a new age cult conference in Europe. I had 3 young sons and was pregnant with our daughter. NEVER leave yourself without funds of your own.

I know where they are coming from all my past relationships are 20 to 30 years older than me it’s sad I think it was cause I never really had a relationship with my mom not in a weird way!!! Anyhow bless them both !!!!

This episode is good for any couples who are opposites in any area. You two did a super job ministering to this couple and walking them through to see how their differences are their blessings. So many little takeaways as well, for all of us! Thank you both for using your gifts to bless us!

Wow!! Powerful Session! Session was deeper than the title. Ebony is an extremely Wise Woman. Thanks guys!!! God Bless you 🙏

I have been dating a guy 14 years younger than me. Thanks for this.

Wonderful advice Michael.. God is JEHOVA - JIREH

Your podcast, Michael, are so uplifting. I enjoy the humor, but most of all the sincerity and depth of caring in you and your wife’s way of sharing!

You guys are a beautiful Couple!!! God give you both guidance.

What a great episode y’all! Appreciate that vulnerability and honesty, it speaks volumes. Now to put these tools into action and try and gain some traction. Thanks from Grand Rapids Michigan

God Bless them...Breakthroughs are hard and amazing when you understand why you are who you are!🥰Now make adjustments

Hi, LOVE all of your work! and LOVE that you have a blast completing your calling! Just want to say: CAPTIONS would be so helpful for those of us who are deaf or hard of hearing! Thank you!

I love the anointing on you Michael Jr. and Ebony...I love your passion for humanity and your love for one another!!! You fill my heart with joy and laughter and I am so glad that God led me your videos...your teaching of internalization is key...Praise God....and as always to God be the Glory..."Funny how life works" is so appropriate to the mysteries of God. I appreciate and love you both in Christ . Thank you!!!

My husband would say the same , everything was his . I would say ours

Praise God for you Michael Jr. May God keep blessing your ministry. I am happy to meet your wife on the show. She is amazing. I thought you were only able to make people laugh. The way you do it is great. They are laughing and learning at the same time.

What a blessed couple! Praying for you guys. Very revealing episode.

This was so awesome! Thank you for doing this and especially to the couple for being vulnerable ❤🙏

I just watched this & as soon as I saw her cry I was like Omggg. It truly be hard when you do so much on your own ! Thank you for this video ❤️

Love love love this!!! Thank you for all you do! I've been learning so much!

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing

Ok sorry for all the comments but sweet baby Jesus. You guys rock!!!

That was so good! Praise Him!

Honestly, I cried. This was so effective ❤❤❤👌

“Speaking to the people, he went on, “Take care! Protect yourself against the least bit of greed. Life is not defined by what you have, even when you have a lot.” Like 12:15

This needs a part 2!!

This was so awesome love this show

Excellent session and advice‼️😊🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

I loved this!❤

My space!!! Yes

Learn how to rest. It is biblical Great content Thanks for sharing

So good 🔥

Thanks, awesome

This interview was really well done!

🎉great word, Ebony!!!

Enjoying your podcasts. I'm still spinning from the Aunt Annie's interview. BRAVO!

Love love LOVE this couple!!! Thank you for sharing and allowing us all to learn from you! 💞

I love this!

Amazing episode 🎉

I would advice you to Pray , cuz I was jn the same boat. Now I realize I should of done more praying instead of complaining.

There is a reason they are still together and for me it is because they don’t have a joint account 😂

You have helped my wife and I both ❤️

Love this ..think about what I am thinking about 💜🔥🔥then I change it to positive…I Love you all Later 🔥🔥💜💜

But also maybe when she saw her husband not working so hard and she is working so hard there is something called, not wanting to be taken advantage of. Maybe whether she wants to admit it or not, she felt like he was taking advantage of her wealth if I were in her shoes, I would probably be feeling the same way. But since I only got $16 lol I probably have nothing to worry about.

I think she wants to maintain a certain social status and class and working might earn her that, and she is uncomfortable with the fact that she might be funding most parts of the relationship and she wants the man to do that. Women feel uncomfortable paying the bills, the man loves paying the bills in the relationship, but women want "equality". She won't say "we" because she earned the money and won't share it! But if the man earns most of the money, they want him to share his account with them.

Matthew 6:25

Sharing bank accounts with spouse 🤔. Men have been historically been the one in charge of the finances and in charge of the accounts. Some men Lord it over their spouse. Now as for ME, I don't mind AT ALL handing over my paycheck to my wife IF she is RESPONSIBLE & GOOD with numbers (Math). Now if the wife is better than me when it comes to the finances, then by means I'll cheerfully watch and learn as I hand over the check. All i ask is to allow me to have a little $ to purchase me some snacks cuz I'm a snackaholic 😆. As long as the bills are paid along with other responsibilities such as savings etc, I'm cool with it.

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I think she worked so hard, because she saw her father who did not work, and he got into drugs, and he became homeless. So she thinks if I don’t work, I will become homeless. I will become a product of my father. I would say in someways I am the same way, but not with work I am not married, because I choose not to be married. Because I don’t want to be a product of either of my parents or now, even my sister, who is now passed away, but my father married three times. None of his marriages were good not any of it was just because of the women he chose to marry, but he also had his wrong. My mother never remarried after the divorce between her and my father. My sister was also married three times and none of her marriages was great. I know I don’t want to go through that. I do not believe in divorce, but I also know I would not tolerate the abuse that my sister went through or that my mother put her partners through. I also will not put up with faithfulness. So the best way to avoid any of that is to remain single. It worked for me for 58 years sometimes it’s lonely, but it’s better than being abused.

She could step back and let that young man be a man and take care of her and him. Right now, she’s being like his mother. She’s not going to be happy because she’s probably materialistic, and she probably doesn’t want to lower her standard of living and has become a workaholic

Well, if they are a Christian couple, the woman can not deny the husband his right because he got big. Is she as slim as she maybe was when they first got married 30 years ago? Is she as attractive as she was then? She can not play that card. If she denies the husband intimacy because he is bigger now, that is absolutely wrong! And as Christian couple, the Bible also says that the couple should NOT deny themselves intimacy EXCEPT it be for a time, with consent, for them to give themselves to prayer, after which they should immediately come together lest they be tempted by the devil for their incontinence(lack of self control). So she is doing the wrong thing. Instead, she can cook healthier meals for the family and encourage and JOIN him in his efforts to lose weight

He was lifting the same amount of weight as her 😮

Jose is in a bad situation 😳🙁

I think the wife from the voicemail is more unattracted to her husband's lack of discipline than his actual weight.🤷🏾‍♀️

Wrong, unequally yoked. God didn't put them together.