That's exactly me, when you are in a group but feel excluded because everyone forgets that your there

+Vnaing AJ it literally sucks so bad

+Kanakalala🌺 that's very true. I hang out with my friends because they wanna keep me. They act like I'm not there especially with my attention whorey friend who cries for atyention

that happened to me so many times in school last year.

That's my entire school day. I just follow my group.. Not saying anything, no one even noticed im there.. I always sit alone at lunch.. Quietly crying on the inside..

COOKIE MASTER same :((

Omg this is the most relatable thing I’ve ever read in my entire life

Same :/

we're in this together

thats me right now

too relatable

Then u take the next right and meet with an actual guy who will actually be yr friend

This 110% relatable

They do it in purpose

I just wonder.. how to be that 2 friends ? Don't they feel bad for left me behind ?

I have felt those same feelings, you're not alone

Yup :)

That's definitely me😂😭

Not alone 😳

This is literally describing me

Carol Trevino yeeeesss sometimes I hate myself because I'm to nice but people would treat me badly I hate it

Caseeeyyy don't worry you're not alone😞

all the time everyday

Carol Trevino all of my siblings did that to me since i wss little. in fact, my mom too.

And when someone interrupts you when you try to speak and no one cares what you say, because the other person is more important, I always feel like the side person. And not the most important so i prefer to be alone.

Yes, but not a lot. Introvert perks :3

Yeah but it's one of my friends friend does it on purpose but he dose it secretly and spitefully and my friend doesn't believe me as he has been friends with him for longer.i fell like I should just walk away but I have no other friends.

Yup! Especially at school.

Every day :(

In school... my friends live not in my city

this always happens then they're always like "oh its nothing" when im just like *i heard it all i know you're talking about something important*

ikr

happens all the time,, and i mean ALL the time.

@@dumbfridge7576 same :( they send me away when they want to talk alone...I feel like they don't trust me and they don't even ask me if I want to hang out with them so they do it without me every week :( I am so used to being left out that I didn't even notice until an other friend of mine told me that she noticed that I am left out...

THIS HAPPENED TO ME A FEW DAYS AGO AND I FELT SO SAD. like I even asked what It was and they didn't tell me. I'm not allowed social media until I'm 15 (I'm 14) so my group of friends has grown closer together while I just drift away. I just feel so excluded... I know this comment was made two years ago I'm sorry I just had to rant😅

That's a gd end, glad to hear that

Yay!!

EXACTLY I WANT TO MOVE SCHOOL BUT IM NOT ALLOWEDDD.

that's great that you left your old friends! :)

I feel your pain ;-; Happened a lot in high school

fullmetal_alyssa at least I know I'm not alone

Biby I love Pandas You're not the only one, believe me

Biby Flores I.L.P. Awhhhh. I can be ur friend :D

same...

i feel the same way.

Ikr! Just because I'm quite doesn't mean I don't have a feelings. It seems like every group of friends I get in to, I don't fit in in some way. There is this rude girl at my school, we will call her 😡 for now (lol.) One time we were all talking and we were kinda mad about something that I don't even remember, but I wanted to say something so my bff told everyone to let me say my opinion and I said how i felt me and my friend was getting left out and 😡 said something like, "What? It's not like we care what you say because you don't talk." There was tons of drama that day. I cried a lot and didn't talk. But that day I did talk! I yelled! I said my opinion "JUST BECAUSE I'M QUIET DOESN'T MEAN I DON'T HAVE A VOICE OPINION. IT JUST MEANS I DON'T USE IT AS MUCH. I DON'T JUST SAY MY OPINION, I THINK BEFORE I SPEEK." This might be a long story btw but I still want to tell it. Anyway, I did cry that day. So one time in a group project I wanted to tell them my ideas and my buff ACTUALLY said-

+Valerie Marie "Wait, let's let her tell us, if we don't she will cry." I was so angry at her but I just hid it and laughed... I wish I would've just yelled right in her face even tho she's my bff...

Loneliness sucks

Violet M yeah your Rigth😊

Me too.

Wow that is so relatable I can feel the pain there :(( Things got a bit better now but social anxiety is something I am still trying to deal with.

OK so u obviously are me but from a parallel universe

If you want a friend, please contact me. Because SAME! maybe this is the comment that might change my life ( Sorry, I watch a lot of Ghibli movies, but seriously)

Same I have selective mutism. I so hardly socialize with people that know me as someone who doesn't speak cause words dont come out of my mouth, that's awful...

Exactly. Because we know what it feels like. ;-;

Hungry people know the value of food Poor people know the value of money Lonely people know the feeling of being left out all the time

I can relate to this every day..

I can relate, stings don't it? I'm sorry man.

+Owen De Kalb They sound like really bad friends... I know that feel bruh

Those aren't friends, those are assholes.

+Owen De Kalb Don't try to keep up with them, you're worth some true friends! Go find them instead of hanging with the fake asses.

same...

Me too...

No worries, just become emotionally dead inside. It will help a lot......... ;c

Emma hollow for Me Its not like "i dont feel like they like me" Its I KNOW they dont like Me because they Said it in my Face. That is why i starded cutting again....😔

tbh like i feel like my friends are just pretending to like me because they feel pity for me or something

I always wonder why people similar to us never cross paths or are in the same place. We would all be making the most perfect friendship. I hope you're okay right now

i am in the exact same situation right now. it feels like they really don’t need me?? even my best friend who i thought cares about me (and isn’t in my class) doesn’t even text me anymore and tries to find a reason not to meet me. after summer holidays i‘ll be in 9th grade and i have no idea what to do. i wish holidays would last forever, because of school and friends, i feel really empty. i want someone to need me because sometimes, i forget why i‘m even with them.

Hey dear, I have been in 7th grade and I have felt left out, I have been in 9th grade and again have felt left out all that I want to say is that this is GOD who is doing this...you may feel terrible that time, but that is the thing about growing up. GOD knows what you need in the next 5 years to become what you aspire to be and so let him plan. I am so thankful to GOD that he didn't let me stick to that group because that helped me found myself, know what I love, what are my opinions and I became a mature person who has a plan in the future and is mature enough to know that if things don't workout as I want, its my god's will. HE WOULD TAKE GOOD AMAY FROM YOU TO ALWAYS GIVE YOU SOMETHING BETTER, REMEMBER THAT!

Here is a virtual hug 🤗

@@drttt4630 I appreciate that you're trying to make people feel better, but not everyone believes in God, so that isn't really a valid way of support. You can say that to someone who believes in God, but this is the internet, and there's millions of people who don't. Telling them to find happiness from something they think isn't real isn't exactly the best way to go.

Don’t worry, there are more than 7 billion people in the world. You will find the right people!

Them Feels -_- Happens to me every single day :(

... you need to try hard to be included by going as far as even finding new friends who actually want to include you.

D.L. Elliott It's hard though. It took me years to find people in school that I actually felt comfortable and included in.

I completely understand and people who are trying to help, thank you but you don't understand the feeling unless you have it yourself. It's much worse than it seems. It's like you're cursed. Your friends are doing everything without you and they always have an excuse for what they're doing. I am experiencing this right now, it's sort of like this: My friend, who I've known for 9 years found herself better friends and is always hanging out with them. We're still keeping in touch via facebook, whatsapp, twitter but never in real life even though we live in the same town and always when I ask her to hang out she has an excuse, but when she needs me, she's always there until the need is over. And also some other friends, it's like we're bff via fb and also in real life, but whenever we're together they are mumbling something to each other and when I ask what are you talking about, or what's funny they say nothing and continue. It's obviously something about me but I pretend that I don't care or that I didn't hear. And also we hang together for about 2-3 hours and then all of us go home, but later they get back together and go without me and sometimes they're even so cruel that they're throwing it into my face. It fuckin' hurts you know. When the only friends you have treat you like that. And I know that I should get better friends but I don't think so because I could get hurt again and again and again. I know , everything in life is risky, but this is just too much. We can all fake smiles, pretend that it doesn't bother us or something else but whenever we're alone or sad or feeling down, all of that is in our mind and it just keeps getting worse. I'm sorry if I bored you or if this is too long, I just needed to share my story. Thanks for everyone who's reading. I hope you're not experiencing the same thing, but if you are I know exactly how you feel and you should know that you're not the only one who's feeling like that. Let's just hope God has something worthy waiting for, later in life. :)

I guess you either need new friends or try and be more outgoing. Either one can help out in a situation like those ones.

MissPyro1029 Allison definitely

I think the fourth one is Alison?

I KNOW CAUSE YOU MA BITTTTCCCCHHH

It's actually Gaby, Ashley, Eugene and Ella! :3

I think it was Ella because of the curly hair

SAME!!!!!! IT SUCKS

Ifkr

This is happening to me right now, I hope this doesn’t happen or 5 years of my life will be wasted.

Yeah, happening to me right now. Now they do everything together, without me :'(

omfg ikr?

That 2nd one is so true with me...

+Yazmin Rodriguez Maybe you should think about making new friends :( *hugs* I totally understand how you feel! You deserve better!

what happens if everyone ignores I don't want to be an introvert

same here

+BlueBird 1990 You can't just become an introvert just like that. It's genetics, man.

SAMMMMMEE OMG

SassiZazzi i hate that too. it's disrespectful and mean.

SassiZazzi Yeah, it like you're invisible unless, people either want stuff from you, want you to help them, do something to them, or just basically treat you like crap by their actions or what they say or just give you grief. Other than that, you don't exist.

SassiZazzi I can relate to that alot... just get rid of them. avoid them. theyre not really your friends... maybe i should take my own advise?

they are not your friends leave them and have a new ones

i know this was 2 years ago but right now i feel the exact same. i feel like they’re just going to leave me at school and i’ll have no one...

@@charliedits4699 going though exactly the same thing now...

That feels bad I can understand It happened yesterday with me I was walking behind everyone and I stopped for taking a call and everyone moved forward. I finished the call and realized they had left me so I went home without even saying good bye and no one noticed.

explained everything now add divorced parents and back stabbing that sounds more like it

+twentyone melanies oh that's the cold harsh truth of life.😔

+In The Pink omg you don't know how much I related to your comment,like I'm in the exact same situation.I got this friend that I've known all my life long and now she is ignoring me. She's got all these friends, is popular and does loads of things with them all the time. And I just feel like her shadow.i wish I could turn back time to when she actually cared about me and was my friend.

Charice Omg that's so true.. absolutely the worst kind of isolation... and also my biggest fear

Same bro I just get calm and do whatever I love doing and didn't mind talking to those people

I know how it feels to feel unappreciated. Keep being the good friend that you are! Sometimes people don't even think to mention how much you've impacted them and sometimes they're just thoughtless. Either way, you're being wonderful for caring and there are people out there who care as much as you do.

You will for sure find new friends that will appreciate you!!! That same thing happened to one of my good friends!! When she was going into high school she had no friends and then she found me and now we hang out all the time!! So don't worry you'll find people!!

" I just feel like a lost soul standing around when they have conversations about parties I've never even heard about. " that just hit me so bad.

me too

This is me, my "best friend" invited my whole class except me to a pool party

How are you doing??

Same with me but I just stopped responding because in school she like never even talks to me

Marissa Matteo I'm out of school so I never even see her. I guess it should be even easier for me to stop talking to her..

Same, she only talks to me when she needs a seat on the bus, or needs help on her math homework

i have a cousin like that... :(

I know how you feel. My situation isn't the same but I've been in toxic relationships and it's not easy. I suppose I still sorta am in some. But the best you an do is to cut them out of your life, even if it feels really hard. Or at least talk to them and see if you can communicate to them that they aren't being friends or hanging out with you, they're just using you, and hopefully they'll realize and stop and if they don't cut them out. In middle school I was in some toxic friendships, and yet I refused to leave them because I was afraid of being alone because they were really the only friends I had at the time, at least in school. I had another friend but I didn't really know her at the time. I sorta regret not cutting those friends out of my life because it was painful and I suffered quite a bit. I promise myself if I'm ever in that position again, I'll leave. Because there are other people, who want to be your friend, and I'd rather be alone than stuck in a toxic relationship that hurts me.

Thank you, I think.

BuzzFeedViolet Woah never in a million years did I expect a reply from you guys when I posted this!

Alana Sloan omg lol maybe you hurt her feelings idk :0

Same I love her hair colour :D

I think her hair is awesone

I literally thought the comment was 29 years old for a second

Same

I feel you 😔

Yes i dont think my friends like me...

i'm the one where the teacher asks us to get into groups of four, and my clique splits up and it's probably my fault :((

Or when the teacher says to pair up and you have no one or your the odd one out in a group of 3 and the 2 are closer and leave you out.

Same here. Can we be friends?

Yeah,quiet person doesn't mean they don't need friends and not fit in.i feel you

Emily Hankinson same

Emily Hankinson I felt the same way and it hurts.

Emily Hankinson I ralete to u on such a high level..

Well someone commented on yr comment!! Hey listen its OK to be alone and sit by yrself, just learn to be strong and learn to realise that u are much more important than u think, and have a million times more importance than whatever those ppl think about u.

I liked becuAse I keep telling my self it doesn’t matter I could get friends in high school ones who are mature

No, 98 people liked your comment

Zayn all the Way likes on this comment will most definitely not validate you in any way

Same.. I really feel so sad.. And disappointed. thats why i wanted some friends.. Atleast.. But im too shy.. Nobody even is that close to me.. Since im socially ackward.

Same

!!! Thank you !!!

Agreed

Same here!!

Totally agree

yep

My biggest fear is that when I grow up I won't have any friends and that I only have school friends

Me too I've felt like that various times

Zella 22 My "friends" do that and then they act like they didn't go anywhere

Same and now I've stopped hanging out with them cause they're so mean and they act like they don't k ow who I am and that they haven't done anyrhing

It’s like you don’t know if u we’re forgotten or purposely excluded

@@annaayers1621 Yessssss.

They don't even care about your feelings when they do exclude you on purpose. Sucks a lot.

twenty øne editing tips honestly I feel the exact same way. I hope things get better for you, cause everyone deserves to be happy. |-/

jorja is bored ikr I just want to find my group were I could hang out after school and gossip but my new friends aren't like that and I'm scared of leaving them for another group

I understand how you feel completely

I understand, i feel the same way and can relate with dis

I know how it feels

Yes i 100% agree

I feel that way all the time even though I'm a lone wolf

Yo guys up top *high five*

Same I sometimes feel ignored.

same. i have this friend in my friendship group and she always talks over people with her random stories and even if one of us is having a conversation, she still talks over us and says 'shut up'.

Carly Diep dont *wait,* make it happen.

I relate

me too, it's like you're on Facebook and see they gathered together without you and posted it, so stupid but it does hurt

Alexandra Lobataya yea :c:::

Sandra Southhal same

Same

Sandra Southhal I'll be your friend :D

@qqq??? yeah i totally get what you're saying but by helping em i meant i did it truly bcuz they mean so muchhh to me nd no other reason but then when i just wanted to share some stuff thinking that they are my good frnds they'll understand me that time none of em even cared to listen... They don't owe me they are my frnds 🤷🏻‍♀️ ! Nd i don't think this sucha red flag behaviour when one goes to their frnds for help !

***** Thank you, that was very helpful. What works for me best I think is just reminding myself that people don't really know the true me, because since I hide so many things and trust ABSOLUTELY NO ONE, I'm aware that you will never really know EXACTLY how someone feels unless you are in their own shoes.

***** Ya, I always think about that because no one ever really knows for sure unless you open up to them. I have courage for many things, just not that. I don't like too much attention and I ABSOLUTELY hate sharing feelings unless they're positive. I'm actually surprised I even made that first comment.

+Chubby Bunny I think everybody feels like that too. Just gotta keep on moving forward. Become the person that you would want to hag out with! Have confidence! I hope you feel better!

+Dalia Velazquez Ok thank you, I figured this out on my own but at the time I made that comment it was just harder to deal with it. But I'm pretty much alright now and I know everything's possible so I'm making the best out of it.

Good! Me too

same *sigh*

Yeah, same.

I love you tube, tv and Netflix, books , as long as I'm healthy and fit, I don't need hypocrites or opportunists in my life.

same

yesssssss

@@azra8300 Are you the type of person to say no to such things? If yes, it's normal. If no then it's not okay

@@cherryblossom6989 no im not that type of person I help them out so much

where’d my comment go lmaoo

Same

yes.

Same

i started crying..

+Lea Anthes me too

i feel u :(

I knew a group of girls like that, they would say mean stuff and not realize that they were mean to me. I try to avoid them but they usually shrug it off as a joke haven't seen or talked to them since the last ( probably too extreme) time I tried right to cut ties right before summer break and I am wondering what will happen when I go back to school. They could react in almost any way but I would rather them be openly mean then having them make sort of mean comments under the cover of friendship.

I'm the same :(

TT

Same, "I didn't even realise you were here!"

My best friend of 8 years is a grade lower then me and she has all these new best friends and now she leaves me out (i still have other friends but still) and we carpool and we live next to each other but she stills finds a way to leave me out of everything she does

+Lily September that's the same for me throughout high school and even college(I wonder why I always had that kind of best friend)!I know they didn't mean it but it just contributes sooo much to my insecurities back then.. but the older I get,it doesn't seem to matter anymore,everyone has their own place,and it's okay.. so don't let these thing brings you down!! xx

Chat noir Thanks :D

+Lily September This is exactly the same thing I'm going through right now, I cried in my house and spend my school days as a loner...My friend abandoned me and she never talks to me, not even a simple "hi"... 😔

+Lily September And when I try to talk to her, it's like talking to a complete stranger, ya know? It hurts just thinking about it again...

Assertion comes with practice, as well as self confidence.

nerdyfangirl14 Same here... Im a quiet person but im really trying to be active in my so called "friend's" conversation. However they often forget that I'm with them and they're always leaving me alone.

I feel like this all the time! It's hard to overcome that anxiety.

BuzzFeedViolet yeah i know the feeling, but i had a break through the other day, the second i started to notice that my mind was twisting what people had said (changing "okay" into "can you please leave, i don't like you") i decided that i just needed to take a step back for a second and then just talk to them about it :)

I have social anxiety too, all of these things apply to me too. I know how you feel!

i know how you feel, I've started off at a new school 5 times (university counts too because you don't know anyone) and there was always someone who thought they know what was wrong with me and said they could help 'fix' it. this is not something so easily 'fixed' we just have to learn about it, and just work with what we have :)

***** There is always learning about it, talk to other people who have it, read things on the internet, even just thinking about when it gets worse for you, think of what situations are worst for you, and learn from that. That's how I've been able to avoid having too much trouble with it, i learn what sets me off, and i do my best to either a void them take it easy in those situations. :) i know its difficult and its shit when people try to tell you how to handle it, but i hope hearing from someone who knows what you're going through can help you out, even little bit.

I also suffer loneliness. So it Hurts being left out. I honestly have no one to turn too. :,-(

I wouldn't call your friend "Best Friend" they are people who think they are better than you. Get away from them. They are jellies people. One day you will be better than them and they will want to be friends with you but you are gonna say no. Just find better friends. 😀😉

Alyssa Cruz thanks I needed that

No problem

+Alyssa Cruz I agree. Ditch em and find better friends.

Ushma Asher How are you now?

Ushma Asher I feel the same pain.

Ushma Asher Same they rejected me in a group project yesterday and today they rejected me too :(

Same

Ushma Asher same :"(

I think this ALL the time

GoldMoney 1 yeah...

...........

Get new friends. :)

Black Wishes friends are for the weak...i dont need friends

you should find another friend so when they pair up you could just partner up with your other friend

Same exact thing!

Same:(

same 🙁

Omg related

omg are you a Jeffrey

TRUE JEFFERY RIGHT HERE

#JEFFREYFTW

YES THE JEFFREYS MUST TAKE OVERRR

Yes a Jeffrey

If they don't forgive you ever again, just move on. Find a new group of friends who like you, and forget about what you did. That is because all of it is in the past now, the future is bright.

OMG same

Kåłìmåńtåñ 15463 I know this isn't my business but what did you do to make them not like you?

Kåłìmåńtåñ 15463 same tough I'm living a life withouth any friends which makes me more depressed than I was

CARL GRIMES everything you said is the same for me... :(

I know how you're feeling. I am one of those guys who are not talented in sports while all the guys in my region are. And that's why they are all super friends while I just hang out with girls. And I would be happy if I had some cool friendships, but they just use me when they need help with something and when the need is over; I disappear. Stay strong bro :)

same as me :(

omg sammmeee :( my whole life i just sat at home and watched anime and sang to myself all day

i hope you're all okay! :-) those friends are fake, move on and be strong!

I just want to say that even though it hurts, you did the right thing. Those aren't friends.

At least you went with someone

That’s fucked up. Why do people do that. Hang in there though.

find some new friends, we are in this together hunny! they arent worth your tears

+Laura La This makes me feel so good

Lindsay Ripple :)

I'm an introvert but I have mental issues too. Along with my friend who gets bullied a lot and he doesn't really do homework often though.

I want to talk to more people but I just dont know what to say. people tell me im quiet but im not really.i can be super fun and stuff if I know you well enough.

;___; I feel you so hard....so bad? I feel ya, sister!

same

+Lucija Juric I think about it everyday. But I would be alone if I left my current friends :(

+lovecrafts Yes!!! I feel the exact same way. It makes me feel hurt, angry and resentful when I do a lot of things for the friendship and they just act so indifferent... They only talk to me when they need something. I have dropped friendships in the past because of that. Friendships need to be mutual. They're not really friends if you're the only one that cares.. I only have 3 real friends now but they're friends for life. Quality over quantity!

+lovecrafts THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH.

yep today i cried about it. Its not great at all

Me too,I couldn't care less

same

I don't talk to anyone except my family in a month

Same

my life

Same here :/

On the same boat with ya... *sigh*

this pretty much sums up my life, too.

I felt the same way, but then I met my best friend when I was a senior in high school. She was super outgoing, but she considered me my best friend. After talking about it, we were both opposites who needed the other. You'll find that friendship soon enough. It sucked that I had to wait so long, but it eventually came.

i have a bestie but god decided to send her out of city. i didnt go to church today.

ThePurfectHamster ikr I feel the same way! let`s be friends hahah :)

cherry flower I can relate lol, one had a birthday party and didn’t even bother to invite me. I just watch Netflix lol

+Kasiaydra J welcome to the club, sis ;_;

So do I *sigh*

same..

You are far from alone, friend. 😉

I know it's been two years but did it end up good? I'm pretty much living the same thing right now😔

I know it's been 3 years but I'm so sorry 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Tough

Kate Brant the same exact situation right now here too. There are having a sleepover after I invited them all for one but wanted one without me. I feel so non- existent

Anny Emilia depressing but true

Anny Emilia YOU ARE THE REFLECTION OF MYSELF..i am just same as you..i was also thinking about that

Best idea ever!

Hm lemme think....oh yeah that time my friend took 5 of my pocky sticks asked for alone time later in after care

Yessss

Damn yes

Just leave them be and be your own friend that's what I do now.

+jAdamariE I think we're the same person oml

Annabeth Olson yasss

+jAdamariE Same here, well except not quite as bad as smoking yet, in a couple of years though yes.

FlapJackHD Honestly like 90% of the guys at my school smoke and 60% go the girls smh 😒

jAdamariE Well uhm.... they're kind of idiots considering smoking causes 12 types of cancer and there are over 4000 different chemicals in cigaretes so that's one reason why I won't be smoking.