A woman cannot permanently create this change. A man with a solid foundation in God and Jesus is a changed man, ready for a good woman. He will know her by her fruits. He will be recognized by his fruits.
@Godisgreat-7775 ай бұрын
Amen!! I’m a woman and I am complete in Jesus. Jesus is also my king. A true man of God will compliment me. ❤
@BlackGirlLovesAnime65 ай бұрын
Thank you, I feel like this understanding is lost nowadays. Women are not supposed to transform a man he is supposed to transform himself and then present that form to the right woman. The right woman enhances we do not build. Building a man will have her heartbroken and him moving onto the next
@dredey19715 ай бұрын
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6100%!!
@trethesenseigaming5 ай бұрын
You all are missing the point, the Bible says that a man that finds a good wife finds good things. It’s something about a great woman that inspires you to even become better because you have a queen that cares about you. Of course women can’t change you, but she could add more motivation in your life through the love of God.
@BlackGirlLovesAnime65 ай бұрын
@@trethesenseigaming no that’s exactly what we are saying here. The man already went through a transformation of his own because that’s what he wanted to do but with a good woman she can make him inspired to be even better. That’s what you’re saying here and that’s what we’re saying as well
@dejawhite94595 ай бұрын
A man has to also be OPEN to receive this type of women and open to the change that comes with having a high caliber women.
@ms.evegene5 ай бұрын
Yep. I used to get hollered at all the time when I was a stick figure 13 14 15 yr old now today they are like mice to an elephant. But someone told me that they don't have the fear of YAH but the fear of me😂. .... I said not my type then
@lcjones46825 ай бұрын
That part
@vanessalandry97635 ай бұрын
I sooo AGREE with this...HE must be open to receive this type Queen.
@tinamarie80615 ай бұрын
Yep emotionally unavailable
@katijane35 ай бұрын
I felt this comment!
@charnitag14205 ай бұрын
A man that finds a wife, finds a good thing, and shall receive favor!
@nikkioh75845 ай бұрын
She can only be his “ helpmate “ that man has to have that foundation built within himself and it starts with GOD & SELF LOVE ❤️🙏🏽
@vaishalipatel32045 ай бұрын
Its takes a Godly man to receive a woman like this. I was this women to my husband and we soon to be divorced 😢
@GodisGood9415 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear God bless
@gaellai.30065 ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear this, and wish you the best for you.
@dredey19715 ай бұрын
Show me in the bible where you get to divorce a man, Godly or otherwise.
@GodisGood9415 ай бұрын
@@dredey1971 why are you assuming stuff about her situation? From the looks of this comment it doesn’t seem like shes the one who wants a divorce in the first place. Why dont we ask about what happened or just pray for her and give her useful advice instead of starting the assumption/ judgement crap. That is how people end up hating our faith when we do stuff like that when they’re struggling through something like that.
@dredey19715 ай бұрын
@@GodisGood941 "from the looks of this comment" Is the beginning of an assumption. So you can make assumptions, but i cant? SHUT UP!!
@AIG11884 ай бұрын
MEN DO THE SAME for the right lady. You begin to she her smile, laugh, dance. She begins to dress better, smell better, her glow becomes eumaculant, she listens, she becomes more understanding and sensible. Likeable & Loveable is her new alias. Solely, because the Right Man Stepped INN... It is totally amazingly amazing🎉❤
@histreasure31894 ай бұрын
@@kuunami😂
@divathedivinegoddess80014 ай бұрын
@@kuunami Y'all pessimistic mofos are aggy af frfr it's so cringe 🙄
@JesusLovesKaciemah4 ай бұрын
Amen
@Bella.2424.4 ай бұрын
@@kuunami not true at all. Not sure what women you’ve been with.
@kaylabennett31494 ай бұрын
@@kuunami That’s only if they don’t want you but what you can do for them or if they are dealing with unclean spirits
@Blacklipstickwearing..5 ай бұрын
A man should already be the best version of himself. If a man wants a Queen he should already be a King. Real Kings don't expect Queens to fix them. Real Kings can think for themselves and change themselves. Real Kings know how to take accountability for themselves
@anarizmoore5 ай бұрын
Thank you! His message was cute but you are actually speaking FACTS!!!
@tonymistreacts41585 ай бұрын
Thank you. This video was pathetik to me. It gave me sad sorry sack vibes. An unmotivated uncompetitive undisciplined man is exactly that.
@dimitrie174 ай бұрын
The only comment I like. I am and I am gonna be the man he describes and more whether God decides to send me a woman like that or not. What else can I do, if not become the best man I can be? Should I wait for a woman to become the best version of myself?
@anarizmoore4 ай бұрын
@@dimitrie17 key words ...you want to be the best version of yourself for yourself first. I hope you find that special woman that matches your efforts 💗
@Lavenderspice9424 ай бұрын
Yes that is facts right there! 👌🏽
@teresathreatts42665 ай бұрын
I ended a relationship with a man who wasn't financially stable...was there for him in every step of the way, but yet, he was unfaithful. I prayed over him and continued to tell him that I saw greatness in him...but apparently, that wasn't enough. I am a woman of God...and the Holy Spirit led me to see his unfaithfulness with my own eyes. He had been lying for a while...but I walked away...deleted his pictures and phone number. I am not on social media, but I blocked him from ever calling me again. Nobody deserves this kind of treatment...but I know that he'll reap what he sowed. He can't come back to me...and I wish him well🙏🏾
@lyndapeoples81274 ай бұрын
@Teresa Threatts you were too good to him. You were almost like a mother to him but there's no excuse for his behavior. No matter how much you try to encourage your partner, if they don't believe in themselves, they won't change. The change must first begin on the inside and it begins with how they see themselves.
@LoveG14 ай бұрын
💯
@rennicks41135 ай бұрын
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. from 31 Proverbs 10 KJV (chapter 31 verse 10)
@launam225 ай бұрын
🍞💦#AMENJESUS🤍🕊 💲Far above rubies📿 (Proverbs 31:11-12) KJV 11) The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12) She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. #AMEN!!💞🙌🏽
@rennicks41135 ай бұрын
@@launam22Factual. Amen. 🙏✝️
@rennicks41134 ай бұрын
@@launam22 Amen. 🙏✝️
@bvanquish7774 ай бұрын
Fact.
@diving.deep.5 ай бұрын
A man deserving of a woman like so , definitely has to understand Gods game , making him open and vulnerable to his rib , to also understand her and her vulnerability , to then have a vision and work together to it .🎉 all with and through God .
@crystalinez8314 ай бұрын
You can pour and pour and pour but if he doesn’t respect and value you your pouring will be in vain. The lesson is learning who to pour into and who doesn’t deserve it. Everybody looks possible until they’re not.
@shepgip77795 ай бұрын
The Holy Spirit will speak to you on how to interact with the woman who will be your wife. I'm so happy I listened.
@c.l.93445 ай бұрын
He who finds a wife, finds a good thing.
@Lil_Wood_4 ай бұрын
🧢🧢
@NoName-zb1gm5 ай бұрын
I agree as a man and it goes both ways too. A woman will lose all her insecurities and past hurt and self esteem issues when she finds the right man. I think I met her and if we were together I feel like I would change completely. All the things that are important to me now would seem dumb and trivial. It would be me and her totally engaged with each other and helping each other and working as a team to make our life together even better.
@ThatGirlMoi5 ай бұрын
It’s important for both people to start the change in themselves and not expect someone to do it for them. She has her own battles to fight so if both of you already have a good foundation in GOD by yourselves, you’ll be better equipped to support one another
@NoName-zb1gm5 ай бұрын
@@ThatGirlMoi Yes I met her at Church so it felt like God brought her to me. So I stay patient hoping and praying that God brings us together.
@Andre-vh5wt5 ай бұрын
No it doesn’t men and women are different a woman with trauma will not change her ways for the right man because she’s had plenty of right man in her life , when they get that right man they sell sabotage and self-destruct and create issues in the relationship because she knows and Phil she’s an adequate for that man trauma breaks women and it builds men.. Women were designed for trauma and numerous partners
@Andre-vh5wt5 ай бұрын
I’ve had women lose all their insecurities only for it to come back and bite me in the ass because they realize that I was too good for them or they were in adequate so if that does happen it’s only temporary that they lose insecurities but it comes back to rear its ugly head later on
@ThatGirlMoi5 ай бұрын
@@Andre-vh5wt it’s unfortunate that you experienced all that hurt from those women. It was not fair that you experience that and I wish you the best of healing. I gently encourage you to know that there are still good women out there and those things are not necessarily true. There are plenty of women who are doing work to heal from their traumas in a healthy way and are not seeking multiple partners. You just won’t find them out because they may be homebodies, volunteering, in Church, working, etc. You usually wont meet them in public or general social spaces like lounges, bars, clubs, etc. But remember that “bad” people can be anywhere lol so use discernment and get close to God.
@pheebe57295 ай бұрын
I gave too much to a Supposedly godly man who destroyed me. Have nothing left to give now I need to be supported and heal.
@angelamarie2225 ай бұрын
Wolves come in sheep’s clothing unfortunately. Take your time and heal. Trust the lord for your life and he will turn your ashes to beauty. Praying for you that the lord will restore or everything that was lost during the duration of this relationship. God bless you ❤
@laetitiaaffoya8584 ай бұрын
By his stripes , you are headed.
@2cute2bdenied3 ай бұрын
This is so amazing….I pray for this world to stop pinning Men and Women against each other. They make this an issue subconsciously without us realizing. Respect and Love is exactly what it is and it should come from BOTH the Man and Woman. Praying for more mental peace and healing for our land.
@teej10555 ай бұрын
Some men use the women and get something else
@tinamarie80615 ай бұрын
…And he does the same for her❤
@dinakindred4 ай бұрын
God will bring the right one....this goes both ways
@joycewilson70455 ай бұрын
Men often always get an extension of their Mothers/Grandmothers love once they leave the nest.But a woman can ask but rarely get the extension of a caring Father/Grandfather's love after she leaves the nest.
@drea07955 ай бұрын
THIS. 🎯
@PFDREAM4 ай бұрын
Not all men had good mothers
@joycewilson70454 ай бұрын
True, but they usually get a nurturing woman to show them a motherly love.
@stevewoodson46353 ай бұрын
Women see the house Men see the block
@joycewilson70453 ай бұрын
@@stevewoodson4635 in this case Women see another man and the men see prison. what do you mean by the block?
@nunstaeats76053 ай бұрын
Never put too much energy and faith into people.. Wise up 💯👊🏿
@theinfinitelovers21855 ай бұрын
Nobody comes fully healed or ready. Everybody have space to grow and learn.Both man and woman comes with their flaws.What works for you?
@mbf61604 ай бұрын
Man speaking Factz I been with mine for 10yrs I wouldn’t trade her for the world but for those who follow scripture it tells us he he finds a wife finds a GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD!!! 💪🏾
@Reba3855 ай бұрын
They don't want loyalty. Facts
@dianamuli60503 ай бұрын
May I be somebody's Queen.Amen🙏
@MinisterGoode3 ай бұрын
GOD will lead you to your king. Continue to seek the Lord daily.
@nadiaconseillant86164 ай бұрын
True. The effort of the man needs to show at the beginning of the relationship and throughout. Women will still stay with a man who has lost his money only if performance was shown at the beginning. As far as loyalty that goes with treatment. Thank God I know some law too.
@EmPressTMW5 ай бұрын
I want to meet him one time. To talk to him. I love his perspective. ❤
@fitlife12055 ай бұрын
She’s the ammunition to your weapon
@Romi_ditzydonutsdesigns4 ай бұрын
Oh that's good! 👏
@juliusrhoe41125 ай бұрын
Facts, must find a Queen
@user-qu3ng3ln8w5 ай бұрын
Well said...GOD 1ST!
@rachels.74774 ай бұрын
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN 😇 GLORY TO GOD.... MY BRO'THA 💙 REAL TALK! TRUE FACTS 💯 ......AMEN
@morrisahj4 ай бұрын
This is honestly what makes me so closely bound to my partner 🤞 we could be anywhere but feel safest and at our best w/ each other ❤
@loveinthematrix3 ай бұрын
I like what Jidenna said though “even if she go away, I’m a classic man” because the truth is, only God can lift us eternally.
@stevewoodson46353 ай бұрын
Genesis 1:1
@DF-fp4cg5 ай бұрын
I wish more men had this mentality.. 🙏
@user-ys7mo8sz4v4 ай бұрын
I love listening to this man's videos.. He speaks about how it is to have found the right person and how everything falls into place when you find real love... There's all this toxic trolling online esp 1:03 1:03 ecially with BW. just and BM.
@user-sy1ji5tx9u3 ай бұрын
Indeed 💯 and Amen ♥️🙏
@keneshawilliamson15743 ай бұрын
Well, spoken!!!! True Facts!!! ❤️🙏🏽❤️
@londaramsey11945 ай бұрын
I truly love listen and hearing your perspective on different things..especially relationship and speaking on thing from a man point of view...continue to education your sisters because we need it. I love so much my brother!!😊
@saderangetekdebeat65504 ай бұрын
I still don't deserve mine I know but I'll keep working on myself even if my time is hard right now ! I wish every man would find this Woman for him
@sabrinajohnson19325 ай бұрын
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 tell the truth GOD PEACE
@okeenma4 ай бұрын
Proverbs 31 was presented as the yardstick to measure all Christian women. It was the standard for being a good, godly, woman, which meant being a devoted wife and mother, who is also a domestic goddess, as well as active and enterprising outside the home. NOT CHANGING HIM, ALLOWING HIM TO CHANGE HIS SELF💯 AND NEVER DRAIN YOUR SELF AS A LADY, KNOW THERE IS A BALANCE... Beautiful message 💃💃💃 and Speaking the TRUTH, LIKE BENIE SIEGEL💯💯💯 MOTIVATION LIKE T.I. FOR THE WRONG MEN THAT WAS IN A LADY PAST AND KELLY ROLAND SAY💯 FOR THAT ONE RIGHT MAN.... WE LADIES WOULD CALL HIM A UNICORN 😂😂💯
@Centimill5 ай бұрын
It defines takes two. The man just has to be mature enough. Period.
@billydakid714 ай бұрын
Women need to learn to bring men peace and he'll do the rest. Women need to take accountability for the man they choose❤
@marvinreed66784 ай бұрын
💯 %. Salute Bruh!🫡
@belindadukes21624 ай бұрын
Once n your shoes, God has a greater plan for u, this was just a learning experience.
@doveseyes84843 ай бұрын
Let’em know!!! We’re Not common‼️❤😇🕊️
@antoinetteroberts50985 ай бұрын
Very well said 👍🏾 💯 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
@JennaJanexxx5 ай бұрын
Beautiful truth ❤️
@flower-op4ix6rr7y5 ай бұрын
Blessings 💐💐💐💐💐
@paulinaguzmova445 ай бұрын
I wanted to save this great Tiktok video. Then I realized, I am on KZfaq. 🤦♀️😂
@sonnieb86035 ай бұрын
BETTER PAY ATTENTION!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯 ON GOD!!! 💯💯💯💯💪🥷☯️ You'll definitely know who God sent ur way just from their Energy and Presence Alone 🙏 Don't Fumble ur Blessing, holding onto things u were supposed to let go for ur Blessing 😒
@user-bb4xt5hq2d5 ай бұрын
Well said positive influence has great impact plus a solid belief in your partner can create staying power and growth 🎉
@RacilleAshley-sf7yv4 ай бұрын
SO BEAUTIFUL ONLY GOD'S ❤ BLESSINGS.
@88niteowl885 ай бұрын
He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. Amen.To everyone: Jesus loves you. He is the only way to heaven. ❤
@KarenDelores5 ай бұрын
Amen! ❤🙏 😊
@sacredtea4445 ай бұрын
YES! That part 💯❤️😌
@MZNENE_BLESSED4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼
@user-yv2qk5dq6m4 ай бұрын
A woman needs to lay off the snap/IG/Tinder etc. Preach brotha 🫡
@LoveG14 ай бұрын
What to do if your identity and photos were stolen from a hacker or someone in revenge and you're not aware of the profiles until later?
@feliciaowens40945 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing 😊
@user-db8kq8te5z5 ай бұрын
I am sooooo uncommon! ❤
@wayneevans26604 ай бұрын
Well said, sir.
@ashleyhaley74954 ай бұрын
Amen and so it is🧡🧡🧡
@ChrisLouis-tx9yu5 ай бұрын
I'll just be single
@angelamarie2225 ай бұрын
lol why? just asking for a friend
@lalalalalala93334 ай бұрын
Lmaooooo single is so much easier! After I'm done building myself, why would I want to help a grown man build himself? He should've already been built before he started dating.
@jamallbrown34085 ай бұрын
I believe this!!!
@justinwilhite6174 ай бұрын
I dont think the pressure should all be on the woman to change this man. And vice versa. But the support does go a long way!
@savagereign4 ай бұрын
A true Helpmeet.
@percsnstripprs4 ай бұрын
im doing everything he said single! LITERALLY
@trinity333love64 ай бұрын
Well said❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
@minniemontgomery4149Ай бұрын
Amen
@brittanythomas72174 ай бұрын
My boy don’t miss
@mannymarquez9138Ай бұрын
Beast 💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@lyndapeoples81274 ай бұрын
There are lots of high value women out there but we don't seem to be in demand by high value men. Where are the emotionally available available high value men of God???
@lalalalalala93334 ай бұрын
A man should already be built before he enters the dating game. If a man tells me he wants to build with me, trust and believe I'm running🏃♀️ When I do start dating again, I'll already be built. So that's a huge red flag🚩 I'm not riding with you when you've chosen to board a sinking ship. If you're making choices that are making your life harder, why would I want to stick around so you can eventually make MY life harder? Yall crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@HealingLight2315 ай бұрын
“A woman who will ride with you regardless”. Sounds like he is looking for a woman to be his mommy…
@nanonano.beepbeep5 ай бұрын
The problem is that you are a unicorn, my beautiful Brother. ❤
@eugenia-divinecasey27555 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@ram478634 ай бұрын
I don't think that is the woman that change the man But the man himself So just be the best version of yourself don't wait for some woman to change you As a woman myself, i believe it's best if both just be the best version of themselves first, then they can having relationship with other And only few man can appreciate this kind of woman anyway So even when they meet the one, they don't change at all
@denisem54374 ай бұрын
AMEN, speak speak
@tonya5924 ай бұрын
Love it
@citichic23114 ай бұрын
Yesss 💯
@myraalewis36655 ай бұрын
I didn't even catch what he said I needa stop paying attention with my eyes 😅😪
@tammymcwilliams29515 ай бұрын
Amen ❤ confirm
@gerrimiller34914 ай бұрын
Amen...
@juanitalewis9835 ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@mscotchery98615 ай бұрын
Well I've been all of this and at this point I'm only giving him a couple more months and I'm gone. No commitment no more of me.
@OrchidTingz4 ай бұрын
I'm truly sorry to hear that 💔 if you're feeling and experiencing that will it benefit you to give him more time? One of the most powerful things we can do is walk away from a situation that is hurting us & depleting our worth, esteem, and value! Yes it's hard but staying is harder men don't usually see themselves until you're no longer there and they're forced to see themselves and feel the empty space you once filled! You deserve healthy and safe love someone that makes you feel loved, desired, and secure and if that's not what you have in your current relationship it may be time to walk away & move forward ❤🙏🏾 Also if you haven't already establish some support with a counselor/coach if you're open to that and you feel that you may need some extra support to work through things Blessing, Love, and Peace to you
@michaelroberts6805 ай бұрын
Same thing, Adam thought……😂😂😂😂
@FisnneWilliams-yc8sb5 ай бұрын
FACTS!!!!!
@LaQen25X4 ай бұрын
Facts, 100%!
@erickadozie7354 ай бұрын
She's called a woman of God and a WIFE
@brandycouick80394 ай бұрын
True facts
@carnelia85 ай бұрын
Correct. 😊
@OnlikeDonkeyKong4224 ай бұрын
I guess I was never the right woman because they never changed 😢
@jolenerodarte84863 ай бұрын
❤❤❤🧡🙏🏼🦋🕊️
@Mysticmimi74 ай бұрын
He knows it’s his Queen but he still betrayed her and chose the ratchet woman who dragged him into the pits of hell because of lust, money, lifestyle and clout 👍🏼🕊️maybe one day they will learn but that day I am sure will be too late
@FaCeSays4 ай бұрын
No man on social media is going to give me relationship advice lol …they talks. Good game and be the main ones cheating.
@KayBaby7774 ай бұрын
🙏🥰
@JarellLavender895 ай бұрын
My thing is why do a man have to wait for a women in her 30s to be that supportive? My thing i dont want the women thats been around the block more then a few times and say she had her fun time now time to settle down… and i feel like alot of women are doing this.. being wild as hell in they 20s now in they 30s they want to be church girls
@PublicSpeaking2024 ай бұрын
Be positive ❤
@cassandrafleming-ox4xp4 ай бұрын
MAJORITY RULES, THERE WILL SOME TIME , BE A LADY THAT STAND BY HER MAN, AND THAT MAN, LET THE DEVIL IN HEAD, AND HE MESS UP A GOOD THING.